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| 1 | If "men want only sex" why do you then shame them for paying for it and not getting in relationships?😧😧wow…what did I just read😂 the problem isn’t men only being interested in sex, the problem is when men say they want a relationship and all these other things when they only want sex. Who shamed men into relationships with them? And to the few woman that do, do men not shame woman into relationships too? I think the problem to men only wanting sex in a relationship is that they want to do what turns them on vs what turns their partner on. Woman take longer to get aroused, and a lot of men aren’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | A lot of average/below average women have terrible personalitiesWhile I see a lot of ppl disagreeing, I understand what you’re saying. A lot of, below average woman are spiteful, jealous and hateful in my experience and they create more drama. While everyone has their own shit and problems I get what you mean. Also, this is MY EXPERIENCE. I’m not speaking for everyone. Most above average looking woman I know can be more supportive and friendly and aren’t as jealous or insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?I agree that it does matter to a certain extent. From what I’ve seen men think that it ALL that matters. When it’s not all that matter. There are other things that come into play like the man’s values and goals. I agree that some woman’s standards are too high. And just as man men have unrealistic standards. As in wanting a woman who will take care of them and not really have an opinion or say in anything. In my experience I’ve met more men like that then woman. Beside that, Any human can be clo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?I agree it is a egocentric. I see men use history and the Bible to justify it. And yeah I feel like as long as you’re clear and okay with it then who cares? It’d be messed up tho if none of the guys knew 😂 I don’t understand why people can have a problem with someone being clear in what they want, like you said it’s the lying and one sidedness that makes things hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 11:01 AM |
| 36 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?If you want a non exclusive relationship like that then brad should just be honest from the jump. Does brad want his partner to be monogamous to him? I think that’s where the problems usually lie. Men want to have multiple partners but want their partners to be monogamous to them. I learned in dating to make what I want clear from the start. A monogamous relationship. If I made that clear from the start and Brad continued our relationship making it seem like he wanted the same thing then yeah he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.😂got it. Thanks for the solid advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.I carry my phone around 70% of the time. So most of the time not all the time. When I’m out I carry it 100% of the time. I hear your point. Were more vulnerable at home though. Examples are when we’re sleeping for 8 hours, showering, napping, or hobbies. There’s a lot of opportunities where even if I had a gun next to me I wouldn’t be able to use it. I also view home as my safe place, like most people. I’m not fearful of the men in my home, it’s just more likely to happen from them than it is fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:38 AM |
| 22 | Women and men have different strengths. Guns makes it more even.As a woman I’m more likely to be killed by a family member/partner than a stranger. Although the world is scary and I’m not anti guns at all, a gun is likely not to be helpful in a place where you’re most likely not going to have it on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment?I barley ever watch porn. It changed the way I view and look at people in a perverted way and I belive porn can be extremely harmful to people. But I also acknowledge the benefits it has for others. I usually masturbate at least once a day, as I’m HL. I just close my eyes and think about how I feel touching myself and my body feels or my significant other. I don’t need to see anything at all. And even up until Im orgasming I focus on my body and then when I orgasm I’ll think about my SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.I love being romantic and surprising the guy I’m with with gifts and flowers and dates. I buy my man flowers more than he does for me and it’s what works for us. I surprise him in lingerie and with sex whenever he wants. We cook for each other and do things for each other. I’m a woman and am indeed very very romantic. More romantic than any man I’ve ever met. So? Maybe the majority of woman aren’t? I’m not sure bc I’ve only ever dated men. I’m speaking for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:19 AM |
| 3 | So what exactly is a HVM?A HVM is ultimately different from person to person. What do you want in life and what are you goals? What type of man will help you become the best woman you want to be? It’s really not complicated. What are your main values and what are your hard no’s in a relationship. For me it was a big deal to have a man that prioritized family, had an education and decent job, doesn’t watch too much porn or have a social media. Once you find someone that has the things you want and you guys mesh that’s wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/22 11:02 PM |
| 4 | Guys, why are you so easily influenced by sex?I’m a woman too and also just as bad🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?I agree that healthy and ripped aren’t the same thing, and that most fitness influencers bodies aren’t realistic to most people. Thinking about it from another perspective though, is that this is their career and business and their bodies ARE apart of their marketing. If someone had fitness as their career and was overweight, most people would be hesitant to take advice from them. They can be knowledgeable about working out but fitness is a lot more than just working out. It includes diet and me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 8 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?I’m glad this was said. It shouldn’t be a “fad” it should be apart of our daily routines. Like eating or drinking. There’s so many studies to back up why going to the gym and staying fit is important. I’m confused how someone could even call it a fad? Up keeping the one body you have the rest of your life is 100% not a fad. When I don’t work out I get depressed, gain weight, and stop caring about the foods I put in my body. NOT working out, or having enough time to workout is the problem we shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | is it common for women to get rejected ? And do you ask men out ?I don’t ask men out. A lot of men try to talk to me but 99.99 % of them only want me for my looks and for sex. I’ll never go up to a man and ask him out bc I’m sure he’ll assume that’s what I want. But it’s not. I don’t get rejected but only being looked at for ur looks and what’s on the outside isn’t the best feeling either. I enjoy depth but a lot of men in my dating experience don’t want depth unless it’s in sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.That’s smart I should’ve 100% done that for the socials. I’m in a relationship now so I don’t have to deal with talking to men as much, but i definitely still get my phone blown up by the men I’ve directly told I’m not interested in. Where the insult me and my relationship 😂😂 it’s funny and sad but giving a different phone number would’ve helped that situation a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.100%!!! I agree. It’s definitely interesting. That’s why I like to change my # every couple years. But even then there’s social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 12:14 AM |
| 3 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.Yes to the 50% being clingy thirsty simps!!! You could tell a guy no a 1000x but if he doesn’t want to hear it he won’t. I have tried to ghost guys like this less and it just results in men making fake numbers to text me after I block all their other numbers. Or people putting all their emotions on me and trying to develop unhealthy one way relationships. For some ppl you can scream I’m not interested in their face and it won’t matter. Which is why sometimes ghosting is necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 10:35 PM |
| 6 | A high "N count" woman is probably going to appreciate a man who is a good lover, more than a low N count woman will.....I have a moderately high n count and I can definitely attest to this. Most of my experiences were not too satisfying. And it definitely made me realize that having one man who genuinely cares about you and wants to please you is 10000x better than random hookups who are just using you. I hear about woman who don’t appreciate good men who please them because they want to experience other men and see how big of a mistake they are making. 9/10 if your with a man who pleases you and makes you finish… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more?I definitely don’t value status over look…but I also don’t value looks over status…idk there’s a lot more important things about someone than their looks and status. Like their values, how they treat me, and how they handle life. I have a hard work ethic and have always been a money chaser (through work not men) so when a man doesn’t have the same work ethic or drive as me yeah that’s unattractive…bc I want someone as motivated as I am. But regardless of that most of the guys I have dated do hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?Which I’m sure happens. And again it may not be right, but if it happens then it just is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?Happened on different occasions with multiple men, and idk what you mean by chads but I’m sure they weren’t whatever it is you’re referring to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/21 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?I’ve done this before, and although I’m not proud of it, I’ve been told by many woman in my life to always do that until your married. And I really never wanted to do that or believe it’s true. But now that I’m getting older, and seeing how much men lie and string woman a long I see why. I never want to have to do that in my next relationship, but to answer the question yes. Sometimes woman do. And sometimes men do too tho. Again this is based off MY personal EXPERIENCE. I’ve had men lie to me a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 12:26 PM |
| 5 | What are topics/views/opinions, sans the Red Pill or FDS?Girl on girl sex is still gay sex.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 04:18 PM |
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