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| 48 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on. | WolvyLion | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 01:34 PM |
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| 1 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.I have a theory as to what happened (since it happened to me). Is she muslim, mormon, or from some other strict cult-like religion? If not her, than her family? Or is she some type of south asian or middle easterner? No... normal American white girl | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.She was one of those "I'm not looking for a hookup" types. Pretty blunt about it. However TRP has taught me that its just a shit test and she will hook up for the right guy. That's how I played it from the get go. And I did fuck her on the first date. What comfort tests was she giving you and what was your response? She seemed to be pretty interested about my online dating, specifically Tinder and Bumble, from the get go. But I treated that like a shit test too and would A&A by exaggerating my r… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.I think what makes it the most difficult is how abrupt it all happened. No indications or signs she was going to dump me. Literally went from 100 to 0 instantly. It caught me off guard completely and it's difficult to make sense of. And next time a good LTR pops up, keep abundance mentality, I can't help but wonder if it was my emphasis on maintaining abundance mentality that ultimately did me in here. Not saying I did the wrong thing but there is probably a better way to do it without making he… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.This looks like the light switch effect in action. Something went bad and she made it seem like everything is bad. No doubt. Classic female move. One thing goes wrong and it immediately kills attraction and its like she never actually loved you. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.Will do. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.When you put it that way, makes total sense. I'm 30 and still have a lot more growing to do. She is 24. 3 pre-wall years left at best. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:48 PM |
| 11 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.Thanks man. I would have been the first one to harp on people for not being able to internalize this shit, especially after 4 years. But it goes to show just how much internal discipline you need to adhere to it. It's so easy to fall off the wagon and think this girl or this situation is different. Let this be a warning to others. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.You sure she was a quality girl and not a oneitis? She desired and invested so much in you that she dumped you. Definitely evolved into a oneitis. How long the LTR lasted? She had any best female friends she hanged around with? How about male friends? Yes to female friends she hung out with. 4 months. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.Yes she probably fucked another guy and broke off because she felt guilty. I doubt it was anything you did, she'd have raised flags before this by becoming emotionally distant or secretive with her phone/actions. Not discounting the fact there was another guy, there probably was. But I saw no warning signs or red flags at all. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.Did you not go through an anger phase? Did you not see and pass through the shit that leads to TRP in the first place? Not really. I found TRP about a year after my last bad oneitis breakup. But after finding TRP it was more of everything making sense, I was able to see I failed because of my blue pill and beta behavior. So I started lifting, got bigger, drastically improved my SMV, style, and all of that. Turned myself into a high SMV male. I never felt anger, I felt relief. I used my new SMV t… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 02:33 PM |
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