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Field ReportWolvyWolfman/r/seduction03/11/13 06:27 PM
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You don't even necessarily have to go that far. Sometimes a simple "don't assume unattraction" suffices entirely.
/r/seduction08/01/15 04:33 PM
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Thanks, man. You too
/r/seduction24/10/14 06:12 PM
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Thanks a lot. I really appreciate your insight, there's definitely some truth in that. I have some thinking to do.
/r/seduction24/10/14 03:17 PM
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That's so true, fuck...
/r/seduction24/10/14 07:48 AM
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..You're actually right. Just one thing: I can't be her friend; that just doesn't work for me. Once there's this "what if" voice in my head, I can't turn it off anymore. But you have a very good point. What's the point seeking for a relationship if I don't respect the ones of others. Thanks, man.
/r/seduction24/10/14 07:46 AM
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It's actually very much like you said. She is very kinaesthethically flirty (standing close, lots of touching and heavy eye contact) and in her words as well (she complimented me on my looks a couple of times). I don't perceive her as generally very flirty, but my friends tell me she is, but she is most certainly more so around me. She also spends a lot of time with me and pretty much never speaks of her boyfriend. These should all be pretty good signs, but there's also still a high chance that …
/r/seduction24/10/14 07:43 AM
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I feel like your last paragraph hits my situation spot on.. I actually made my intensions VERY clear the first time we went out together; I went for a kiss and all, but she backed out pretty much last second.. I realize now that after this I definitely shouldn't have tried to be friends with her, 'cause it's just not healthy to tone your intentions down - hell, I'd even call myself weak right now, thinking about it this way.. All those replies really let me see things a little more clearly, I re…
/r/seduction23/10/14 03:52 PM
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Fair point, that's why I'm gonna sort it out as soon as I see her. So, I do agree with you that I have to get a move on again. But I have to disagree, just because I like one girl in particular, doesn't mean that I hold her, or women as a whole, as higher value than myself. I understand how this passive form of 'one-itis' can be very disadvantageous to myself, however it's the passivety that's toxic, not the monogamy - at least to me.
/r/seduction23/10/14 03:40 PM
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Eh, I'm not too bothered by 'one-itis', as long as it doesn't make me passive. I've been passive for two weeks now, and I realize that now, so I'll do my best to put a stop to it.
/r/seduction23/10/14 03:30 PM
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That's really interesting, thank you for the comment. I can imagine someone "using" you in that sense, without any ill-wishes. Yes, I was thinking along those lines too.. It's time for me to go all or nothing on this one
/r/seduction23/10/14 02:56 PM
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fair enough, not too many, I admit. Working on it, and a good first step is sorting this shit out, I suppose..
/r/seduction23/10/14 02:42 PM
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Ugh, I've found myself in a spot that could actually be called the friendzone. The thing is, I really like the girl (not just in a sexual way), and things led me to believe that she likes me a lot as well, even though we've only known each other for like 2-3 weeks. I'm usually not too scared to make a move, but the thing is that she has a boyfriend.. And i kind of respect that.. Now here's the thing, I don't want to lose her, but I also can't stand not having clarity. I strongly suspect that she…
/r/seduction23/10/14 02:24 PM
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This is ingenious.
/r/seduction30/11/13 09:43 AM
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That's one really great way to approach this matter. Thanks for that
/r/seduction17/11/13 09:47 AM
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This is a very helpful response, thanks for the addition of an exmaple as well. Mostly you read about 'just ask her open ended question', and you - at least I - can't think of really good ways to do that. I believe what it comes down to, is to make her be passionate about a topic, because it transcribes on to you. Simply put, if she feels amazing about talking to you, she'll feel amazing about you If you talk to a person who is not really all too happy about her job (and there's a lot of those p…
/r/seduction16/11/13 06:27 PM
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I'm not sure about that. I, personally, like being 'un-upped' in a sense that if there's a person who knows more of the things I speak of / if what I speak of is wrong, I'm more than glad to learn it. Now, I do agree that it comes down to the situation, one should never ever correct a person they've just met, but if you're familiar with each other, I think it's a really helpful form of input.
/r/seduction06/11/13 12:14 PM
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Thanks for reading and your kind words. I guess I'm still a novice, I'm just happy I actually made some steps in the right direction. :)
/r/seduction04/11/13 07:55 AM
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While a tad passive aggressive, thanks for the write-up, I really agree with all your points.
/r/seduction20/10/13 10:21 AM
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Tastes differ. Women you find attractive, others find secondary or tertiary. So it's unusual to have 'all these guys' fighting over a 'smaller pool of women', unless you picture the scenario of a danceclub and one hot, slutty chick dancing with 6 guys to see who she takes home. I feel like the point the poem is making is that if you're not alpha, and you don't desire to be, don't be alpha. This doesn't mean you shouldn't approach women anymore, of course you should take any chance you get. What …
/r/seduction20/10/13 10:06 AM
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Furthermore, seddit often suggests to act one particular way, so if you follow that, of course you're likely to come across one particular kind of female. Don't expect to walk into a club, acting all alpha and somewhat douchey and then getting a girl a guy like OP (or me) would be satisfied having a relationship with. That's why I think it's important to stress that the one game that is often explained in seduction is more of a guideline than a rule.
/r/seduction20/10/13 09:58 AM
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It's like if you try to change anything about yourself. The first step is always accepting that there's a problem. Maybe the choice of words is a tad too strong, but it's important that you keep in mind how terrible it is, if you just blatantly opt out of chances, instead of taking them.
/r/seduction20/10/13 07:15 AM
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and decided to stop being a little bitch about everything. this is such a valuable thing to learn. Consciously, I'm aware of this, but - sadly - I haven't realized this idea yet. Way to go, OP.
/r/seduction19/10/13 04:51 PM
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Some of what I'm reading in this post is so utterly saddening. I can't agree with your attitude towards life and seduction at all, OP.
/r/seduction16/10/13 04:56 PM
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