Women_Should_Suck Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Why can’t I overcome approaching?	Fundamentals	Women_Should_Suck	/r/seduction	20/01/21 04:22 PM
1	How to do a “check in” message	Conversation	Women_Should_Suck	/r/seduction	29/03/20 09:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Girl told me her apt number in the building after talking for a few minutes? Would you knock on her door? Go.	/r/seduction	24/01/21 04:20 PM
1	Why can’t I overcome approaching? Thanks for the reply and giving me something to chew on.	/r/seduction	20/01/21 05:02 PM
4	when meeting a woman physically, should you be seated facing each other or side to side You stole mine! Yes, agreed. Start out sitting face to face. When you’re confident in a connection, come up with a reason to sit on her side.	/r/seduction	28/12/20 02:08 PM
10	Story about a girl from the gym You’re going to get a bad reputation at the gym if you haven’t already. You can absolutely ask a girl out at the gym (I’ve argued for it many times), but it’s one of the most inopportune places to do so. Again, I’m not saying don’t do it. I’m saying it should be done sparingly, and only if you’ve mastered the emotional and social toll that can come with it. (Which, not to sound like an asshole, but it sounds like you haven’t mastered them.)	/r/seduction	11/12/20 03:27 PM
1	Do you think he was actually a Virgin? I think you’re blowing this out of proportion. Does it matter?	/r/seduction	07/12/20 11:48 PM
109	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? A good make out session is based on the same principal that makes you “a good kisser.” It all comes down to matching your partner. You respond to what they’re doing in kind. They slide their tongue under your upper lip? Tongue is game. They kiss small and quick? Well don’t go for a long sensual kiss, dummy. You can also throw out your own signals, but if they’re not reciprocated (and you want to have a good experience / leave a good impression) don’t stick with it.	/r/seduction	05/12/20 03:25 AM
1	Get dating advice from women is like getting parenting advice from children. In part, those are things she likes. She loves when a man is nice, gentle, romantic, sensitive, compliments her, and brings her chocolates. Those are the forefront memories she has of the men she has been attracted to. (Whatever hypothetical girl this is.) What she doesn’t remember liking, all the subtle, subconscious, and unorthodox shit, is not recalled, even though they played a huge part in her attraction. All the times she didn’t get what she wanted, all the times she thought something was …	/r/seduction	04/12/20 07:30 PM
4	Get dating advice from women is like getting parenting advice from children. I think the parent-child analogy is more about the task-goal orientation than the power dynamic. The analogy could be made in any task-goal situation, doctor and patient, salesman and customer, etc. I fully believe the majority of dating advice you get from women, as a man, is fruitless. What women (generally) want and what they (generally) say they want are two very different things. EDIT: I also think it depends on how you approach the solicitation of advice... “Why don’t girls like me?” 🥺 Wil…	/r/seduction	04/12/20 07:02 PM
4	Has anyone here overcome social anxiety, lack of confidence, inexperience, etc? I was 21 when I lost my virginity. Not even a good experience. For 4 years I couldn’t talk or hold eye contact with women. I had extreme anxiety, attention issues, and depression because of it. Only time I met women was through Tinder, which landed me one hot girl, a handful of people I didn’t really want to be with, and a whole shit ton of bitterness. I’m 26 now and am leagues ahead of where I was this time last year. I wouldn’t say I’m good at seduction, but I know what it takes and am making …	/r/seduction	04/12/20 05:11 PM
1	Help with online dating I’ve actually just started doing this in a miniature way even when I’m not leaving. I’ll say something like “we’re going to get together soon” or something along those lines to prime the idea of getting together. Then I’ll be busy for a day or two, and a few days later I’ll actually go to set it in stone.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 11:06 PM
2	Help with online dating Messaging constantly will rarely work. The best way I’ve found success on dating apps is an unorthodox one. I end up meeting people most often when one of us is gone for an extended amount of time. 2-4 weeks being the best. I chat then up really well for a day or two and then ask them to hang out when they/I get back. Why does this work? It does two things. It gets them to agree to meet you without having to commit to meeting you. It plants the idea of getting together without the painstaking ta…	/r/seduction	03/12/20 10:56 PM
2	Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperate I think the greatest avenue to loving yourself is through success. Now, let’s be honest, you want to be sexually active. Lying to yourself isn’t going to make you like yourself more. Can you jump straight into being sexually active, especially with the people you want to be sexually active with? Unlikely. And your lack of success will make you bitter, the opposite of the direction you want to move. So how do you find success? Multi-faceted approaches to success. There are a million things to be …	/r/seduction	03/12/20 03:23 PM
29	Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperate The only thing that makes a man alpha is his disinterest in earning someone’s approval, which stems from his approval of himself. (Note this doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about others or their response to his actions and statements.) Alpha = confident and content You cannot be alpha (such a dumb term) and desperate, because you cannot be happy with yourself and desperate. They’re mutually exclusive.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 04:14 AM
4	How do you become someone’s best friend (opposite sex of course) Outside of the usual (common ground, mutual interests, etc.), vulnerability. Everyone has issues. When someone can share those vulnerabilities with you they will like you. Unfortunately, this has to be reciprocal. As a man, this makes things difficult. You have to admit your issues to them, but sparingly and without it seeming like a big issue. Personally I quite like the “vague” approach where you admit something without them being able to nail it down. “I used to have big issues with the way I…	/r/seduction	03/12/20 04:07 AM
64	Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperate In my personal experience, no. If you’re desperate you’re desperate. If you try to hide it, you look desperate and disingenuous. The only way I’ve fought my desperation, and subsequent neediness, is through finding love for myself.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 03:32 AM
3	How important is it to be able to defend yourself and your partner under the threat of violence? My assessment watching many successful guys is that you need to be able to curb aggression. That can be done very successfully in one of two ways, through your own violence or through calming direction. The most successful man I’ve ever met has never been in a fight, but he’s been threatened and defended himself and his friends countless times.	/r/seduction	02/12/20 08:59 PM
2	How to not be clingy? It’s simple. You have to like yourself more than the idea of her. It’s simple, and very difficult.	/r/seduction	21/11/20 08:49 PM
1	Do Girls at the Gym Care About Your Physique? “Women.” They’re “females” as far as biology class is concerned, but leave that term for the bio exam. If a woman is into yoga, she’s probably more likely to be interested in someone who is more static focused. If a woman is into running, she’s more likely to be interested in a runner. If she lifts heavy, she’s more likely to be interested in a big boy. If she lifts regularly to stay strong and fit but doesn’t do anything over the top, she’ll more likely be interested in a fit for fit’s sake fel…	/r/seduction	13/11/20 01:49 AM
1	Do Girls at the Gym Care About Your Physique? Depends on the girl. The odds of it being a dealbreaker are notably higher if she is very fit, as she judges it an important aspect of herself she may likely view it as an important aspect who whoever she could potentially be interested in. It’s almost all in the eyes.	/r/seduction	13/11/20 12:35 AM
1	Do Girls at the Gym Care About Your Physique? That’s only a problem if you can’t keep things from being weird.	/r/seduction	13/11/20 12:32 AM
2	DAE struggle with accepting and internalizing the fact that it is their "duty" to approach women and lead everything while they are sitting passively there without feeling resentment? I’m of the mindset that the vast majority of people want to interact with me. Guys as friends, and girls as friends or more. I’ve taken to starting the interaction with both groups on the grounds that I think that while they probably want to interact with me they don’t know how to start interacting with me. But I do know how to start interacting with them. It might seem one sided, and it usually is, but moreso because I’m better socially than they are than because they don’t care at all. And wha…	/r/seduction	09/11/20 02:26 PM
1	Where to take a date under 21 Thanks for the input and I’m not trying to be negative, just expanding some: Coffee isn’t a good late afternoon thing. Dinner is good, but that’s fairly “big” and requires a decent chunk of commitment on her side. It’s a lot less easy than showing up for a beer. The museum is a great idea if they’re open that late. I don’t honestly know if are or not. I’ll look into that.	/r/seduction	07/11/20 02:23 AM
2	How can I be myself when I don't even know what myself is like? I feel like you’ve already answered your question in your question. It seems like you are both of those things. One of them isn’t the real you while the other is fake. Or, if one is, then there’s also your answer.	/r/seduction	05/11/20 03:31 AM
1	What do you do in texting conversation when you’re the one asking questions only and the other is just answering? One thing to remember is how to move the conversation forward without reinventing the conversation. For example when she said “I’ve been working on it for a month off and on” there are a million things you could have said as a continuation of that train of thought. Instead, you started from scratch with “what else do you do.” Hell, you even could have asked that question without it seeming like a restart. For example: “Oh off and on. When you’re not working on it, what else do you like to do?” T…	/r/seduction	03/11/20 06:03 PM
3	“Be yourself” really is the best advice Yes and no. People don’t “prefer to hold onto their misery,” moreso that the human brain is wired through repetition, not through desire. (EDIT: “Wishing every day for something doesn’t count as dedication.”) Memories, emotional responses, and everything else is based on literal, physical connections of neurons. Simply telling yourself to “be yourself” when the makeup of your brain is imprinted with “don’t be yourself” is a fruitless task. Not to say I disagree with accepting your quirks, tics, …	/r/seduction	03/11/20 03:25 PM
4	What are some common mind games women play and how do you tackle them? I always leave a “blah blah ball is in your court” and move on. Sometimes they come back, sometimes they don’t. Either way I did my due diligence and they’re the ones who need to pull some weight.	/r/seduction	28/10/20 05:34 PM
1	Is there any merit to waiting 3 days after the first date to message them? Completely situationally dependent. It depends 100% on how the date went and where you’re both at mentally. You need to be interested but not needy. Simple concept, hard when you don’t have a good read on the situation. How interested was she? Does she already have the impression you’re needy? Is she ready to have sex with you? There’s a lot more than “does she want to go on another date” and “is 3 days too long/short”	/r/seduction	21/09/20 08:44 PM
1	Do opposites really attract? No. Studies show that people are mostly interested in others who share their interests, style, personality, and values.	/r/seduction	21/09/20 04:49 PM
2	Devastating end to a great night. They were drunk and object permanence wasn’t a thing. They found another guy to tag team. They got tired of waiting. ... doesn’t matter.	/r/seduction	02/08/20 12:36 AM
1	what's the Male version of wearing provocative clothing Hope this gets answered thoroughly because I’m also interested	/r/seduction	25/06/20 12:08 AM
3	How are you all getting girls out from online game with Corona? (US) Go on a walk. EDIT: If you’re okay with endangering the elderly.	/r/seduction	06/04/20 11:06 PM
3	What is the biggest revelation about women that helped your game tremendously? “Obtain explicit, spoken consent.” Gross	/r/seduction	25/12/19 02:17 AM
1	What are your thoughts on dating women less attractive than you Do whatever you want. Personally I’m very picky about who I date, so I have less experiences. Otherwise, though, I don’t find those experiences particularly inviting. It’s a trade off. Do whichever interests you.	/r/seduction	18/12/19 10:56 PM
2	Girl texted me saying “your charisma is almost intimidating” AKA be attractive bro	/r/seduction	21/11/19 10:32 PM
1	If a girl is really busy for the next few days when you ask her out and she doesn't offer anything beyond since it maybe too far from now, how do you respond? Do you ask her out again? No harm in asking once more at a later date.	/r/seduction	19/11/19 02:38 AM
1	Asked a girl from work out. It didn’t went the way I wanted to. Let it ride. Go back to your typical work relationship. She’ll either weasel her way back into a date, or you can mention the failed attempt in passing after awhile, which could prompt a conversation about trying again. Don’t get your hopes up though.	/r/seduction	26/08/19 08:48 PM
1	Approaching girls while sober = therapy? It can. If you feel better when being social, then being social will make you feel better.	/r/seduction	04/08/19 06:06 PM
3	Does having more options makes you more attractive? Absolutely The single surest way to kill chemistry is with neediness.	/r/seduction	26/07/19 11:30 PM
22	Does having more options makes you more attractive? Generally speaking, yes absolutely. You’re more likely to seem attractive if you have options, and you’re more likely to have options if you’re attractive. They play into each other. This is especially true for men.	/r/seduction	26/07/19 04:30 PM