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Oh girl you need a new roommate. I don't see a true solution here even if you set boundaries she will most likely refuse to mind her own business. That would bother the living hell out of me and id save up and just move in with my boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/25 03:26 AM
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Anyone watch pearl from justpearlythings? Sounds like if yall don't like fnf then you also wouldn't like her bc she is in agreement with most of their points and opnions. I PERSONALLY don't mind fnf. They are educating women in some standpoints but I do agree they are all stuck in Redpill rage and probably won't ever graduate lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 11:04 AM
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I agree with you. And imagine that we get called "pick me" over simply acknowledging our privileges.
/r/RedPillWives02/08/22 09:40 AM
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I've been with my husband for 10 years and I let him lead while maintaining my own influence. I'm in the military and hold my own weight in the relationship while allowing him to guide me. I am very subservient to him and we operate as a very traditional relationship. I do the house chores such as cooking and cleaning and looking after our son. But he does the fixing and trash. Mainly men like chores. I am happy with this balance. We are also trying for a 2nd baby as well. I feel like the new da…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 03:03 AM
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Cook, clean, and sexually please him. Boom! That's it!! All you have to do. Girl- I WISH MY HUSBAND WOUKD MAKE ME A HOUSE WIFE. I need a break! I've been serving in the military for 8 years lol and my life is exhausting but rewarding. I bring value to our relationship... but sometimes mama just wants a fuckin breakkkk! Good luck and embrace it!
/r/RedPillWives30/05/22 04:19 AM
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My husband cheated on me for the 1st time back in 2020. We have been together for 10+ years. I forgave him and are still together. I'm now pregnant with our 2nd child and intend in moving forward. Men are only human and everyone deserves forgiveness. I do not regret my decision my husband loves me and would never leave me. Ladies- it's OKAY to forgive and attempt to move forward if your relationship is strong enough. I am still happy as ever.
/r/RedPillWives30/05/22 04:16 AM
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Sorry, I know this is a late reply but about 2-3 months. I actually quit the depo 3 months ago as well considering we want another baby and I've noticed my libido is higher and sex in general feels better. Synthetic hormones definitely effect us in that aspect. Once I have my 2nd child I want my tubes tied so I dont have to pump my body full of Synthetic hormones. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWives28/05/22 02:59 AM
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I am married and MOST DEFINITELY cater to my husband's likes. If he says he wants me to be thicker, then the next day I'm eating a whole box if popeye's chicken to myself. :) lol no ones opinion matters more than my husband's opinion.
/r/RedPillWives12/07/20 09:53 PM
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Depending on your preference girl. My husband is African American and I am brasilian. He has voiced his opinion numerous times regarding hips :) he loves curves and to be honest, thanks to kim Kardashian, hips and curves have become the standard of beauty. I think all men these days like some meat on the bones. Not to mention that after you push out your first born, your hips will spread a tad and it will make you more attractive. Hope this helps :)
/r/RedPillWives12/07/20 09:50 PM
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I feel like wbst you are currently doing to cope are good strategies! After all you did marry him.a d vow to forever be his partner. With 4 children I can only imagine how annoyed you can get over a simple spat. Youre already exhausted by the end of the day and the last thing you need is your husband being unsupportive and difficult. Try to express your frustration to him. Dont get angry and lash out as this doesnt solve anything and makes the situation worse.
/r/RedPillWives12/07/20 09:47 PM
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Cosmetic surgery baby. Kris jenner is living proof
/r/RedPillWives06/10/19 12:37 AM
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Not entirely. Just express emotions every now and then. Sometimes act as if you could care less and the times you do open up, she will appreciate it much more. Everything is in moderation. It works for me and my husband.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 04:26 AM
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Gotta have the triple 6's, women want 6ft or taller, 6 figure income, and 6in or bigger dick. Apparently this is the new standard.. women lost their fucking minds. They end up hitting the wall and settling bc they think they deserve a god. I'm a married woman with friends who are in their 30s and still dont even have a boyfriend. It's only a matter of time for women like that. The wall is undefeated. Dont worry too much.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 04:20 AM
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You wife is a lucky woman to have such a supportive husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 10:35 PM
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Yep I'm currently off of it and I've gained my libido back since then! It's crazy how it just made me feel so disconnected sexually.
/r/RedPillWives17/02/19 01:06 AM
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Yes, I'm sorry there is way more to the problem than i posted, I was very emotional at the time when I posted this. But you are correct. We are having sex/ just not enough/ more oral than PIV and hes dealing with depression on top of feeling rejected by me. We just made an appointment to go to counseling this week. I hope that this will guide us into the right direction and start to rebuild. We both have faults. I feel like he does not cut me slack when I say I'm tired from working all day and a…
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 04:19 AM
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I had the nexplanon removed about a week ago. Waiting for normal hormones to return. I can see why some women dont like birth control like that. I did not like the fact that I wasnt at all interested in sex :( I am currently seeing a gyno so hopefully she can recommend some testosterone.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 04:13 AM
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Convo means conversation
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 03:21 AM
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I did not know I could get prescribed testosterone. I will look into this, this will help alot. I am worried that my husband really is just done. I hope it's just a bad case of depression tho. I regret my decision to get on the birth control, I regret not taking him seriously. If my husband leaves me I'll never forgive my self for pushing him away like this.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 03:21 AM
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We are living together. I just spoke with him for about 19 minutes. He has underlying issues with depression, and I failed to realize I was his only link to coping with it. I literally wants to be left alone. I feel so bad. He says hes trying to get in the mindset that he has no one. His father passed the year before last and his depression has gotten worse. I feel terrible. It became difficult to maining all the responsibilities of my job in the military and making sure my husband was taken car…
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 03:17 AM
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And thank you for your reply
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 02:12 AM
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Very insightful. Thank you. You are right about being enthusiastic about sex. And also working out problems. I am going to try my best to change his mind about us. Hes very stubborn but also in my opinion spoiled. He claims he sees us as just "room mates" but I'm not entirely sure I buy his " oh I'm done" act. We have history and that's very hard to just walk away from. There has never been any infidelity as well.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 02:09 AM
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Yes, I agree with everything your saying. I am not surprised that he feels this way. I am not a feminist by any means. I feel a sense of regret and pain. I love my husband I do everything thing for him. I pay the bills, his student loans, and still sucked him off even when I didnt feel like having sex. I am in the military I'm not just a stay at home lazy ass wife
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 02:04 AM
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I'm not surprised that it's bad. It's been an issue for a while. We weren't in a dead bedroom. Just everytime he asked I was either tired from work or not in the mood. I'm in the military and support him. So you dont think he should be understanding?
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 01:38 AM
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Now I'm worried I ruined our marriage and thers no moving forward.. even if I do change and my hormones return to a regular sex drive.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 01:02 AM
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Hes asking and I was saying no. I would initiate very rarely.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 01:01 AM
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Omg and this is what's driving me crazy.. like he doesn't want to take in consideration that hormones are a real thing and it's not him.. hes very attractive. It wasnt anything to do with him other than that I just didn't even think about it.. I am trying to be very fair so you guys can see this problem from both sides. we would also argue about it about once a month and I would promise him that I would try harder but it was difficult to fight the hormones.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 12:49 AM
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Thank you thank you thank you 😢😢
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 12:36 AM
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My husband said I should have tried harder. And forced myself to give in.. but men dont understand how birthcontol can manipulate our hormones and sex drive. It's like hes given up and doesn't want to forgive me.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 12:35 AM
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Yes. You are right. I hate myself for this.. I was still attracted to him and we would sleep naked together but hes complaining about the lack of sex in general. I gave him oral often just bc I like doing it and to show him I loved him..idk what to do. I'm just hopeless right now
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 12:31 AM
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My husband did like it when I did do that. I said he could tell I wasnt into it even when we did have sex, and we were fucking like once a week
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 12:22 AM
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So its done... I cant fix it?
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 12:17 AM
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Yes.. my sex drive has tanked :(
/r/RedPillWives02/02/19 03:26 AM
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Omg I'm so sorry! Perhaps pull out method/ fertility tracking is best to keep natural hormones at bay
/r/RedPillWives02/02/19 02:06 AM
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Thank you so much for your insight!
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 07:24 PM
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Good point. Thank you
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 07:12 PM
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First off I want to say I'm sorry you're dealing with these problems in your marriage. Reading your story has made me appreciative of my husband in sense that he goes to the gym and stays physically fit. As do I for him. Fitness is not only for yourself, but for your S/O as well in my opinion. You need to talk to him.and Express that you're feeling like hes letting himself go bc hes comfortable that hes bagged a wife. Women are also guilty of this. Try to motivate him to go to the gym with you. …
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 07:11 PM
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As far as social media accounts go, I dont hide any interactions from him. He is free to glance at my phone whenever he pleases. Hes very honest with me. And I'm honest with him.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 07:06 PM
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Are you saying hrs feeling like hes missing out on life by committing to just one person?
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 07:03 PM
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I dont know about that. I always reassure him that I wouldn't be vindictive and take him to court ect. We do not have a prenup. But I am confident that he knows I wouldn't drain him financially if we did get divorced. I despise women to purposely do this to their men.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:58 PM
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One thing he has mentioned to me a few times is "variety." Variety of women and sex. Which I have to confess, i have considered allowing him to have a "hall pass" later on down the road. I understand men can have sex with a woman and not be in love with her. Its just sex. I love him. I do not want my husband to end up miserable
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:56 PM
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Wow. That's deep. I am 100% dedicated to my hubby in everyway shape and form. I am also doing my part and watching MGTOW videos on my own accord so I can understand why men feel this way. I am not against MGTOW. I cannot blame men for feeling this way after hearing the reasoning and divorce rape stories. I will continue to be supportive and understanding of my husband while giving him space to speculate on things.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:50 PM
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I wish I could understand his thought process more, he said something interesting to me thos morning while watching a MGTOW video. He said " I think marriage is something that you and I dont completely understand."
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:45 PM
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I good question. He will.. speculate? I guess is the word. He knows I'm not vindictive so he doesn't have to worry about me divorce raping him. He I feel like hes just reassing our marriage? He will make comments while we watch the videos but do not act upon his thoughts.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:41 PM
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Right. I completely understand. So what your saying is even if we aren't thinking about getting divorced bc we actually have a pretty good marriage overall- but to discuss that I would be fair if divorce did happen to occur? This is doable. I understand the majority of men's lives are destroyed and I would never want the father of my children to have to live with empting his pockets bc of divorce.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:39 PM
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With all due respect, I'm not sure I understand your question, can you please rephrase?
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:34 PM
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Thank you for you time. Its interesting you said to give him space bc just a few moments ago he said he wanted to go to the gym alone and I am fine with that. I hope this is just a "phase."
/r/RedPillWives19/01/19 06:21 PM
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Yes, I agree. I am so have not had kids yet but I will do everything in my power to look good for me and my husband. You cant be lazy and let yourself go. I will also be spending a pretty penny on some plastic surgery if I dont like what I see after having children. You have to maintain yourself. I dont think his wife is really trying to maintain herself.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 01:43 PM
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Lol. In other words. For women a man is either attractive or not. There I'd no gray area.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 10:31 PM
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Yeah I get what your trying to say, but.. I'm super faithful. Not even thoughts like that. I blame it on my mother being hypergamous and cheating on my dad, then leaving him. I just cant see myself doing these things after having my own mother set the worst example. I look at attractive guys the same way my husband looks at attractive women.. but never thoughts about cheating or trying to get better.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 10:29 PM
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Not to mention men and women cheat for different reasons. If my husband cheated on me it would be solely on just bc he fucked up and the girl threw a massive amount of temptation at him ect. Just because he cheated doesn't mean hes in love with another woman or even has feelings for her. Men cheat sometimes just for meaningless sex. Weird. But that's men.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 08:51 PM
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Not to mention men and women cheat for different reasons. If my husband cheated on me it would be solely on just bc he fucked up and the girl threw a massive amount of temptation at him ect. Just because he cheated doesn't mean hes in love with another woman or even has feelings for her. Men cheat sometimes just for meaningless sex. Weird. But that's men.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 08:51 PM
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Girl thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 08:47 PM
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Yepppp
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 05:23 PM
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But my husband does not do these things so your question is irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 04:18 PM
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I just said I'd forgive him if he cheated on me. Not abuse. But people do what they want and my husband will always be my husband.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 04:17 PM
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We been thru shit together lol he doesn't cheat on me but if he did I'd forgive him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 03:57 PM
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I also want to add that me and my husband just happen to be on each others level ok. I didnt sit and wait, and judge and pass on every single man bc he wasnt good enough, if that were the case, honey I wouldn't be married:)
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 02:34 PM
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You are wrong. :) but ok if you want to keep thinking you can have God then go ahead. But I'm warning you. You'll be single for a hot min. And no, I'm not new to RPW. And you dont even know the EXTENT of my friend, so please I'll speak about her if I want to.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 02:27 PM
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YESS!! My husband leads our relationship, but it's not because I let him. He just dominates me. I like it this way. I have my opinions and freedom for decisions but ultimately my husband has the final say so when it comes to finances, business, ect. My husband is very much alpha tho so I couldn't over power him if I tried. But damn its sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 09:19 PM
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I just messaged you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 09:07 PM
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Update: I asked my husband what he thinks and he thinks that your dude may in fact be cheating:/ I'd confront him about why hes got this on going friendship with another female.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 08:53 PM
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This is an absolute no-no. Why would he feel the need to leave the room while having a conversation with another female? When my husband chats with his female friends (whom I know personally) the conversation is either put on speaker phone or it's in front of me. I do not request that he puts the phone on speaker, he just does it so I am aware of the conversation. That's a bit off putting that he chats with her so frequently and also visits the city for "work" purposes. I'm going to ask my husba…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 08:36 PM
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Lol truth be toldddddd
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 08:04 PM
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I also want to add that social media like instagram has inflated the egos of us women. For example if a chick whose maybe a 5/10 posts a picture and gets a shit ton of likes and thirsty comments thinks she deserves a guy whose 9/10 because of this. This gives her self validation from the attention online.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 07:38 PM
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Yes, i agree at given circumstances it is better to think about having an upgrade. But like you said, if its over petty bullshit and they stop being "perfect" then it's time to get a new guy I dont think that's smart. If it ain't broke then dont fix it. Some women I feel, set themselves up for failure by leaving a good thing for the greener grass. I would reconsider this if you aren't absolutely miserable and the problems can still be fixed. I feel like women need to be confident in their decisi…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 07:33 PM
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I have to commend you of being aware of your hypergamous thoughts. I feel like in some cases this is normal depending on how mentally and physically you are attracted to your guy. I couldn't imagine being with anyone other than my husband. We are pretty much both 9/10 and share the same interests and Hopes and dreams. Also the sex is mind blowing and havnt lost any interest going on 5 years now.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 06:57 PM
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Oh ok thanks lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 06:41 PM
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Question for you, does RMV mean remarriage value?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 06:29 PM
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Oh ok thank you
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 04:08 PM
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😍😍😍😍
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 03:00 PM
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Girl you'll be fine, seems to me that you just lack self confidence. DON'T over analyze things. If a guy wants to commit to you then hes actually into you. Let love happen.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 02:59 PM
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Not sure if you are referring to me, but I'm spreading awareness of hypergamy af full swing. You dont have to agree with me but it's my opinion? I'm not attacking OP.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 02:56 PM
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Girl, think about how you would feel if your husband acted the way you did. If you think about this everytime you're about to say it do something itll help you think it through. However, us as women are all selfish in some form or another. It's a curse. We do these things without even realizing it. Being with my husband has humbled me so much. He doesn't let me get away with being selfish. My man calls me on my bullshit and my flaws, so I am aware of what I do. It was reallyyyy bae when we first…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:41 AM
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Rightttt
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:25 AM
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The children of tomorrow have social media and tinder. They are doomed. Especially the younger girls.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:24 AM
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I agree she's still very young. Women who decide to branch swing over 25 are pushing it. I wouldn't leave my husband for ANYTHINGGGG. Every woman I know who is 30+ and has divorced her husband trying to search for better haven't had much luck finding a man. Especially single mothers. I mostly get annoyed with women who cheat on their husbands, then divorce them, thinking that they will be with the man whom they've been having an affair with.. which sadly doesn't work.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:21 AM
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I completely agree. Frankly when women do this it tends to annoy me. Hypergamy is the reason why all my friends are single at 29 and have no children. My friend Danielle is just a pain to talk to when it comes to men. She demands a man drink her bath water and be over 6 foot tall with s job that makes over 6 figures. This a beautiful girl and I'm 100% sure shes had "nice" guys come her way and ask her out. But they are NEVER good enough for her. I always tell her that she needs to get over herse…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 05:14 AM
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Better for him to lose interest.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 11:11 PM
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So do you no try and initiate ANY sign that you want to sleep with women on the first date? I mean do guys just present themselves to women early on just to test our self respect? Or do men do this because they want to have sex with a woman only to weed her out of the "keepers?"
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 11:10 PM
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Well said 👏
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 11:02 PM
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I doubt by this time in a serious relationship that he would leave you for being honest, I've had 13 partners before my husband, he considers that alot. Just be.. more conciecious of your decisions. If a man wants you he will be with you even after exposing your sexual past. Mine wasn't happy to hear my number.. but he sees it like I've been the sluttiest with him and only him considering all the other guys were such short lived relationships that our sex was... very vanilla if that makes sense.…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 08:54 PM
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I agree with you.. however men seem to care about our numbers. Just a debate me and my husband have all the time. Either way if you get ti a point where you and a guy are getting serious you WILL get the guy questioning your numbers.. and possibly if you slept with them early on. Its just how it is. Maybe all guys are not like this.. however they do care about our sexual past, I've argued with my husband and his friends over this but that's the way they feel
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 08:19 PM
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The thing about this is.. (and even what my husband has mentioned) men will feel as if you are trying to switch up a behavior that was acceptable for all the previous men. Guys will feel like you already gave it up so easily to people who didnt want anything to do with you from the get go.. then all of a sudden you change your thinking and decide to hold out on sex and make your new "current" guy wait for intamacy. I believe it's more so; women's choice in men, not how early you give up sex. I h…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 07:24 PM
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