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that sounds awful and the loss of sexual attraction is more than justified , very poor hygiene on its own is a mood killer , his bonus points are just icing on the cake , glad you guys are no longer together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:18 AM
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the good news is you were married to a cheating bitch and now you are no longer associated with such a moron , take time to process everything and never ever fall into the trap of AWALT , learn from the mistake(s) and rise again !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:09 AM
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Cheaters are awful , lying to 'facilitate' cheating is even lower , gross as you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:54 AM
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I love her but I'm not in love with her Oh this one is different , the guy(s) who said that to you basically mean they aren't attracted to their wife anymore , the typical standard DB vibe is the guy loves her and still finds her sexy but her sex drive is dead (or sometimes with reversed genders) , so this guy is basically a cheating clown , good on the wife for finding out. and on you for shutting that shit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:06 AM
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in a way that's even worse i think lol , at least with a stranger you never have to see them again , with someone you see often things get a bit weird knowing they expect you to do something about their dead bedroom... just to make sure because this is wild lol , do they explicitly say that they expect you to do something about their problem or is that just the vibe you get from them...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:52 AM
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What the fuck LOL , who expects a stranger to do something about their dead bedroom , i gotta agree here that's way out of line.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:48 AM
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My point is if you don't use the lingo you don't turn people off, you come under the radar. oh i agree for sure , i was just wondering if there were specific RP talking points you got people to admit were correct when talking differently/under the radar about them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:41 AM
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Good point , i think many people settle for less/non compatible partners because they simply don't have a choice and they still wanna get married for personal cultural and who knows what other reasons... for example if a society considers an unmarried woman above 28 to be undesirable , and she's 28 , it's very likely she will marry someone who isn't very compatible with her just to avoid the undesirable label... it's a shame but it's true..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:35 AM
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oh men on here i see , i think it's useful to keep in mind that reddit as a whole is valuable but is not even close to being an accurate representation of the real world , for example in very conservative and religious countries , wanting a woman with a low bodycount or even zero n-count is not only common it's even highly expected as for the rest of your comment , the men hit on you and tell you about their deadbedroom ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:29 AM
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Thanks for posting this , this is a perspective i've never heard before and from a human survival of species POV , it makes a lot of sense...if correct it's a shame we didn't evolve in time to viscerally understand that's not needed anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:23 AM
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your first point made me chuckle lol and i fully agree with it... on your second point , i think it's very reasonable to want a partner with a low number of partners and it has nothing to do with being afraid of being cheated on , many men consider a high body count to simply be a turn off. i think your point applies much more to those who are hellbent on being with a woman who had ZERO partners...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:12 AM
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i agree with you , but it's important to not turn the whole thing into a ''woman only bad'' thing , many men also simply don't find their wife attractive enough years after marriage , it's a shame but it's human..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:03 AM
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lmao i mean , i'm sure in many cases that's true ! and for the chastise part , they're criticizing the sleeping around type of sexual exploration , i'm very sure no one would chastise a woman exploring her sexuality with her partner/husband..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:01 AM
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that's quite interesting , what RP key talking points did you get women to agree with when you dropped the lingo... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:55 AM
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I will be honest with you , first i'm not a RPer and consider many (but not all) RP key points to be toxic and blatantly false , however i have to concede that there is some truth to 'dread game' , many years ago before i even knew what RP is , my girlfriend at the same was starting to act distant sexually and in terms of intimacy generally , then one day a friend (female) of hers came to visit her but i was with her in her house , i have never met her friend before so this was the first time , …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:47 AM
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now that's some new info to me , i don't disbelieve you at all , just curious if you have a link for the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:41 AM
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You did very well in informing her that you do not consider her bed woes with her new partner to be your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:34 AM
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lmao that's hilarious , but i think they mean traditionalism in a ''gender roles/traits'' type way , they surely don't want that last sentence you wrote hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:32 AM
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it's interesting because a few comments shared that when they split , the woman suddenly regained her high libido lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:21 AM
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because you ran away from the relevant request to elaborate so i left you alone ? you're on a dating/sex debate subreddit , on a post about sex life , sharing your story about how your sex life was not what you imagined and it turned you off , when asked to elaborate you suddenly weren't interested , i did however glance through your comment history , you seem to sincerely think ''Men are crazy'' (your own words) and you hang out on inceltears and justneckbeardthings , explains a lot lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:20 AM
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thanks for sharing ! to be honest it's a bit bizzare that she's complaining to you about that , like ''hey we split up because our sex life didn't work anymore but omg my current partner it works so well he can't even keep up'' , seems like a humblebrag or a rub on her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:14 AM
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those are great points and in my opinion not talked about enough..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:06 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story but it's off topic , my question was about couples who had a very active and fun sex life then transitioned to dead bedroom from that , your case is very different , you never had any sexual compatibility or fun sex life with this person and it was a disaster for you from the get and the whole thing was a deal breaker for you , it also seems like your sexual incompatibility is what ended the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:03 AM
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that's pretty interesting ! can you detail what you imagined it to be and what it ended up being ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:35 PM
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Reasonable take , i would just add that the guy didn't forget that the thing that initially attracted her was this and that , it's that most guys have no clue that that's what attracted her , and they assume that like you said making their life revolve around her is what she actually wants , only to find out probably long later that that's not what she wants , humans are so ''i want what i can't have''
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:27 PM
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any self respecting man should leave in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:09 PM
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lmao and yes agreed with your 2nd paragraph , good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:07 PM
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this is a common scenario i agree...so still keeping yourself attractive is the way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:06 PM
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can't disagree that self care stagnation can be a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:05 PM
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could this be why TRP's dread game is often reported (in trp) to yield great results ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:04 PM
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i think those people thought they could change the sex frequency after marriage...or the infatuation blinded judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:10 PM
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Reasonable take , thanks !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:08 PM
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i think that in the majority of cases , especially judging by the deadbedrooms sub , the men are the ones with the higher libido and they all have tried initiating more often , doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:06 PM
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yeah i've seen some people refer to it as a generally outdated concept..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:05 PM
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they are , i'm sure that sub has made quite a lot of people think twice about marriage..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:03 PM
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that's a pretty fresh perspective i've never seen before...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:01 PM
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i think a marriage with no intimacy , no sex , no closeness is extremely heavy on the cons side and very very light on the pros side , i think most likely being seen as a ''married person'' is their actual goal , especially if it's from other cultures around the world that put a lot of importance on marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:01 PM
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actually i think they initiate most of the time and would like if the women initiated more...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:58 PM
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what's the purpose of a marriage like this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:57 PM
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this glaring libido mismatch most likely wasn't a thing before they got married... and if it was it wasn't a dealbreaker if they still got married , and would it be fair to say women being the HLP are the minority on that sub ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:56 PM
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what would you say in the case of none of those things changing and everything that was there pre marriage is still there post marriage years later but the sex became infrequent...familiarity breeds contempt ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:52 PM
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what do you mean by they let the women control the sex ? and what are you suggesting they do to counter that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:51 PM
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Fair take. do you think the low libido is due to familiarity/the spark not there anymore ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:49 PM
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deadbedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:47 PM
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i agree with that generally , but how does it go from frequent sex to non existent ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:47 PM
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was the man weak to begin with ? because it seems the sex is great and then its non existent in so many posts on the DB sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:46 PM
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that's an interesting perspective , but surely it only accounts for the minority of cases ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:45 PM
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what causes this resentment ? and can you give us an example of men/women being a lazy 'shitass' in the marriage ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:44 PM
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for sure but how does that trick her ''subconscious urge for a strong masculine man to protect her'' per trp ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:49 AM
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so is mark zuckerberg ? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:44 AM
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https://twitter.com/BTSRequest/status/920567950020669440 it seems they are needed after all...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:37 AM
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reasonable take , what's your view on why ? i've seen another comment that explained it beautifully , was curious if you have the same view.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:00 AM
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you're welcome and yeah of course , no one can claim to represent all but your experience (and so many others) clearly mean that attraction tastes vary widely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:59 AM
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oh i'm surprised you don't know them being on this subreddit , trp means the red pill and tbp means the blue pill , this sub's name purplepill is a reference to both of them mixed , AWALT is a belief among many red pill thinkers and it means All Women Are Like That.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:50 AM
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are there studies/stats on this or is it just your personal observation ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:47 AM
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Fair take ! Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:46 AM
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feminine traits and emotional vulnerability are 2 huge sins per trp , yet they attract you...which goes to show that AWALT is a flat out wrong take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:46 AM
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I agree ! i didn't mean completely discounted , but per trp you would expect them to weigh a lot more than they do in reality , in addition on average , naturally a man will be stronger and taller than a woman of the same age.. so it's a reasonable preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:44 AM
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the circles im talking about mean not malleable by anyone/thing , hardwired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:40 AM
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yes i was referring more to the first type you mentioned , some people are strict in their belief that women wouldn't be attracted to them , yet they are...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:34 AM
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what are you insinuating by this comment ? it's the fame ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:15 AM
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yeah exactly , some people believe this very diverse taste thing is a myth...which is what i was aiming to challenge with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:15 AM
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that's clearly news to some people with strict beliefs around this sub..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:14 AM
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they'll just find a reason to justify why it's a turn off for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:57 AM
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yes but male teenagers can have masculine traits and others feminine traits , some people believe only the masculine traits are wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:55 AM
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yes but young looking men can very well be manly and masculine... , both traits believed my some circles to be non negotiable for attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:52 AM
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according to some beliefs floating around , you should only be attracted to the manly man aesthetic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:51 AM
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you're making good points here...thanks for commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:50 AM
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i don't disagree with that , but my main point was sexual attraction which is non-negotiable and subconsciously biased towards masculine traits (per trp) , becomes negotiable in the case of kpop stars lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:42 AM
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yes but young guys can be manly and masculine , and supposedly that's the only way attraction works per some trp circles if not all...i was aiming to challenge that with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:39 AM
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Great point , mixing masculine and feminine traits...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:37 AM
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you make an interesting point on the ''it's easier that way'' , never thought of it that way.. as for fanfic , i think they're more attracted to imagination/stories and try to stimulate that with it , it wouldn't surprise me if some people found it weird..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:36 AM
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that's correct ! trp does get some things right , especially in self care , but some of their assertions like all women will branch swing , af/bb , toxic dread game , and that no woman is an exception among others are what make it toxic and as you said flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:32 AM
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agreed , however the whole thing is that these things you're describing are something they can consciously understand and feel safe , but what trp says is that this particular point is subconscious and non negotiable , if she doesn't feel safe with him because he's physically strong she won't be attracted...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:25 AM
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Correct but not all celebrities...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:24 AM
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interesting point...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:21 AM
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Fact ! pretty interesting how these well known examples don't get thought of in trp circles..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:21 AM
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agreed but they won't be able to provide physical protection , which is an important subconscious attraction point in trp theory , yet it doesn't matter much here...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:18 AM
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Agreed , however a common talking point among trp circles is that biological components of attraction are non negotiable , this seem very weird because they are obviously negotiable and malleable..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:17 AM
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I see your take ! but it makes it seem like cultural components easily override biological components which is an impossibility in many evolutionary theory based trp talking points...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:14 AM
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oh i'm aware , i posted this question because it struck me as a contradiction to the ''effeminate men are a turn off'' which i've seen preached quite often in manosphere circles years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:11 AM
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come on now lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:10 AM
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Reasonable take , i was more interested in the fact that it seems to be a contradiction to ''all effeminate boys are a turn off to women'' , which is basically TRP's AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:10 AM
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That is precisely what i had in mind while posting this...thanks for commenting !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:09 AM
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what interested me was she did that because how the victim was treated eventhough per trp all weak males get nothing but contempt from women , which is very different than what happened here , but i see most people here say her story is not real so..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:12 AM
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No body is perfect and it could be the thought of this story being true made them overlook it's red flags as I would put money on anyone who frequents that sub was probably bullied in school anyways. weren't most people bullied in school ? and i think a great deal of people just love a good karma biting the butt story..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:38 PM
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Most women do prefer bullying, but it has to be productive bullying, i.e. it has to elevate you in social status for women to be attracted to it. are you sure you don't mean most women prefer men that stand up for themselves ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:30 PM
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I don't know about other places in the world but I have yet to meet anyone from Europe who doesn't communicate in their native language with others from their country this is online or irl ? because a lot of friends of mine from europe and asia use english as main language online and obviously their native language irl.. Then they are missing some glaring red flags about this one. i guess...which like i said is very unlike that community.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:28 PM
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many people in other non-english countries use english as their main language for all online activities including chatting , so it's not that far fetched of a thing really... i didn't catch the alias for friends but real name for bf thing , if correct yeah that's definitely weird but even weirder is that that subreddit is very fast to detected bs stories and call them out on the top comment , in 380 comments there , i haven't read a single one doubting the story...weird..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:20 PM
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i see many people here doubt that story , but the interesting thing is prorevenge is very fast to doubt exaggerated stories and i've often seen the top comment there calling whatever story is in question made up , but with about 380 comments there , i haven't seen anyone doubt it..which is interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:17 PM
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That's the thing , there are 370+ comments there at the time of writing this comment , i have not seen a single person who called it fantasy/bs and that sub is very quick to doubt exaggerated stories... secondly are you saying people don't break up after discovering a deal-breaking trait in their partner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:15 PM
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i think i misremembered , you would be correct actually , i think most are awalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:13 PM
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LMAO , you like living life on the edge eh ? Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:55 PM
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No no , that one verb you used that starts with C (don't wanna risk a temp ban) is what's against the rules lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:53 PM
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Meh take , i think it's worth a PPD discussion and the post will stay , you're free to leave but thanks for sharing your take regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:53 PM
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lmao i see , just a heads up , apparently your reply is against PPD rules :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:50 PM
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Hahah the good old days ! what about the scenario where she herself was bullied as a young girl and she knows the feeling and her story was what ensued ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:47 PM
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No sarcasm ? TRPers are divided on this , as far as i know 50/50 , half believe AWALT and the other half NAWALT. unless something changed , last time i skimmed through the TRP sub was 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:46 PM
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if you were to tell all those commenters that they are idiots , regardless of the downvotes , and they ask you to justify your larp view , what would you tell them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:40 PM
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There are some women who think like this and others who don't. The woman in the post you linked happens to be one of those who doesn't. this is NAWALT , which is a sane belief , probably the sanest belief in trp along with taking care of health. This is a gross exaggeration, what she did isn't even comparable. i fully agree it's a tiny percentage , but she did give him a taste of his own medicine , which hurt him , which is excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:39 PM
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Yes i did have the idea that the girl saw herself in that victim like she had a similar experience being bullied and it triggered something in her...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:36 PM
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but the victim didn't get the girl in the end ? she said she does not know anything about him other than his first name and that she hopes his terrible school experience is behind him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:35 PM
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just curious , you're saying all the commenters on her post (hundrers) are all gullible and you're the only one who figured it out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:25 PM
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are you saying she did not actually do that or that she's exaggerating the details or that her whole story is fake ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:24 PM
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i'm not sure why you're arguing with claims i never made , i have never said women love emotional men and when they cry to them , yes i am very aware that some women are instantly turned off when they see their man cry and some even go further and breakup with them , these women are called toxic and horrendous partners including by other women , my main issue with TRP is the weakness/awalt duo , you have ample experiences on my thread for women who didn't get turned off/grossed out , some even s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:20 PM
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i'd appreciate a detailed answer on why it's a false premise if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:04 PM
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Agreed ! it's such a shame to spiral into a negativity vortex like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:57 PM
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thank you ! shame there are so many mods on PPD but not a single one has shown any activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:56 PM
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First i'm glad you don't entertain toxic 'rage' trp beliefs , and secondly about AWALT yes of course , but we can apply this logic to every single thing in life , for the 'option' for example technically every single car driver has the option to run a red light , and for the tendency i've posted a post here on PPD about TRP concepts that didn't match people's lived experiences , there were so many answers , in particular i asked about vulnerability/showing weakness , and 99% of women had the ten…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:54 PM
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let's take it step by step , 1st TRP says AWALT , this is a fact , since this girl found her (now ex) BF attractive , that means he demonstrated ''alpha'' qualities , 2nd it's not a random post it was the top post there yesterday and i'm applying it to all of TRP because it absolutely does it fit a TRP world view , 3rd i was specifically mentioning trpers (commenters on trp) because a significant percentage of them hold toxic beliefs like bully's victim gets laughed at during sex with bully and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:17 PM
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yes but i thought AWALT ? now it's not necessarily awalt gotcha. did you check her posting history ? i did and she sounds like a normal woman and as far as you can get from a bot or a ''fantasy'' circlejerk guy in disguise. i noticed this trend with trpers and i thought i was the only one until i saw many people here on PPD confirm it , as soon as something doesn't fit TRP ideas (and many there are) it's automatically fake/cherrypicked/fantasy written/anecdotes don't count and when it's somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:08 PM
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yes i'm aware of the points you raised , but in my skimming through trp posts years ago , there was a good chunk of trpers who were adamant that this kind of situation will result in this woman laughing at the bullying victim of her bf while sleeping with him , some of them are into rageporn i don't know , the rest of your answer heavily implies NAWALT , which is a sane belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:04 PM
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TRP theory states women reward ''alpha'' and strong behavior and punish emotional weak ''betas'' like the victim she avenged , when i was skimming through trp posts years ago , i sometimes saw many trpers mention rageporn stories about how stacy slept with chad while laughing at his bullying victim , among many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:46 PM
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lol no , here you go https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15qa3ni/daily_community_chat_megathread/jw6cawo/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/ProRevenge/comments/15q9qbg/i_broke_up_with_my_boyfriend_on_his_birthday_for/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:41 PM
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it's about a viral post on r/prorevenge where a woman humiliated then broke up with her bully good looking boyfriend and basically avenged his victim using the same tactics her now former boyfriend used on him , it goes wildly against trp theories so i thought it would make an excellent discussion thread. then automod shat on my plan lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:38 PM
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it gets autoflagged as ''shitpost'' by automod then denied , so nobody can see it other than mods , unless you mean what was my post about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:35 PM
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why are PPD's posting rules so complicated ? i tried like 10 variations of my posts but they all get flagged as ''shitpost'' ?! anyone have any idea what to do next ? i messaged the mods , it's been close to 24 hours , no reply...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:32 PM
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I see , well she can bugger off then , no room in your life or any life for such a shallow human let alone share your life with them , good riddance bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:13 PM
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Ok this is clearer , thanks for wording it differently. from what i gather , you're saying that every woman here who said it didn't change anything/made them closer is masculine and their man is feminine ? "oh it brought us closer" ( sure, as friends) every woman here was talking about their man as lovers , with some saying the man crying convinced them to marry him...? i don't necessarily disagree with your last sentence , i just dislike ''most cases'' , because we have no official stats on tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:59 PM
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I'm sorry but your first sentence is the only thing i understood in your answer lol , could you maybe word the example differently ? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:57 PM
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per TRP women will break every single rule they have for themselves if Chad snaps his finger at them including dropping being an introvert , so they will just say no one was Chad enough in the whole school lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:19 PM
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ah i see ! when you say af/bb , hypergamy , i assume that means the girls had the option to jump ship and/or cheat with an ''alpha'' (god i hate this term lol) but turned it all down ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:43 PM
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i see , however you said ''Once they're emotionally invested in you, yeah sure.'' , so i assume that negative change was with a woman that wasn't yet emotionally invested in you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:33 PM
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1) what goalposts are you talking about ? lmao i feel like you insist on feeling inferior to women , i said women will do slightly better than a man with the same circumstances in the dating world ONLY and even then it's because SHE has more to lose in case things go south , the guy can always just ghost her , somehow you took that as women feel they are superior in everything to men lol , there are so many other aspects of life where women are NOT superior to men and you know it. 2) i'm really …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:24 PM
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i see ! does this only apply to traumatized women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:08 AM
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thanks for sharing ! im glad to hear that , can you name a few TRP ideas that do not match your and your friends' lived experiences ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:32 AM
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1) yes of course an overweight woman will still do better than an overweight man , but it's because she has more to lose , the guy could just fuck her and peace out the next day then block her , she on the other hand has safety to worry about , pregnancy etc etc.. so i think this justifies the ''slight advantage'' an ugly woman will have over an ugly man 2) i'm really unsure how you got this view but an unattractive catwoman with no hygiene and an angry demeanor and face will absolutely NOT get …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:29 AM
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First , Fat is ''a scale'' , slightly fat women will do fine but they will still count as ''fat'' in the statistics , second the average woman is not fat unless you're talking about US only stats. 3rd i do agree that women on average have an easier time in the dating world depending on how attractive they are , an ugly woman will not get approached or asked out , so an ugly guy doesn't really have it much worse here. 4th i disagree with this , my main point from this post was to know if the ''sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:51 PM
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they will say you just settled for him because you couldn't bag someone with a better salary haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:44 PM
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Absolutely , Toxicity breeds just that. or they'll attract a toxic woman and use that as proof that their narrative is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:32 PM
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but you could say the same thing about for example fat girls , sure some men will date them , both genders get the short end of the stick sometimes , what i dislike is this notion that only men are victims in the dating world , and also you said fringe minority but looking at the sea of comments in this post , it seems like it's the exact opposite of minority...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:29 PM
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Yep i do notice that , but they'll just pin that on ''oh he's rich'' or oh he's good in bed or oh he's this and that , sometimes i feel like they go out of their way to make relationships seem toxic forcefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:21 PM
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Thanks for sharing ! yeah that's definitely counter to TRP teachings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:20 PM
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Nice ! per TRP you should have been permanently dry down there as soon as you saw the male(s) cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:20 PM
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Hahah well that's definitely counter to the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:19 PM
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That's an interesting take , but you said afraid of any male tears , then here you specified avoid ''strong'' males when they are emotional. thoughts ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:17 PM
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That's kind of revealing , but thanks for your contribution no less ! Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:15 PM
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Wow , yeah those are some very big TRP sins that somehow didn't make you permanently dry down there at his very sight lol , congrats to the 2 of you and thanks for sharing !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:24 PM
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I see ! it's important to note that i do not mean extreme weakness that burns the ozone type of guy , i more mean only in extreme stress/situations , i actually am not really surprised that this friend wife is reacting like that , however if he was a rare crier and she reacted like that , any self respecting guy would immediately walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:43 PM
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when you were doing it regularly , nothing changed sexually/attraction wise between the 2 of you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:36 PM
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Definitely a lot of TRP impossibilities here...thanks for sharing !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:35 PM
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that's fair but it's interesting that you're literally the only person with this experience in this sea of comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:34 PM
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thumbs up ! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:34 PM
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The thing is in some cases a woman who has been traumatized tends to have difficulty discerning between theses behaviors and becomes afraid of any male tears. this is interesting ! what kind of trauma ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:18 PM
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LMAO this made me chuckle , haha enjoy hope it lasts a lifetime !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:15 PM
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thats very sweet , good luck to them ! yeah i'm not sure why , i like anecdotal evidence as it's light years ahead and better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:14 PM
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same to you !!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:12 PM
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Definitely impossible per TRP. thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:59 PM
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that sounds very reasonable , glad things are well and everyone involved found their match here..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:55 PM
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Goodness fuck ! yeah fuck that , thanks for sharing and hope you're doing well...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:53 PM
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thanks for sharing ! trp will say you only settled for him because there is no other choice and you're just pretending to be sexually attracted to him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:52 PM
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Oh nooo that sounds like a misunderstanding that shouldnt have escalated , but thank you for sharing !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:50 PM
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Thanks for sharing , yeah those are a lot of 'rules' broken , im sure trp will say you're going through all that because he's hot and that's the only reason haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:49 PM
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Lmao this post is hilarious and informative ! thanks for sharing , i like your last paragraph's analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:47 PM
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Nice , Thanks for sharing your experience ! per trp you should be permanently dry down there the second you saw him cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:44 PM
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i cry in front of my girlfriend all the time and we've been doing great for a long time. Wow , This is impossible according to TRP. i assume sex frequency is on point too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:43 PM
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yeah those are multiple trp 'sins' committed , trp will certainly say you're gonna cheat with your male best friend haha , glad your relationship is doing great !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:41 PM
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Oh, I almost forgot. We have always had sex right after I have broken down in front of her and cried, because of my feelings of being worthless. That sex is as good as make up sex. (this one flies in the face of TRP). i agree , this is incomprehensible by TRP standards , thanks for sharing your experience , glad you guys are both happy with each other !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:17 PM
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when you cried in front of them , did you notice any change to the sexual 'vibe' between the 2 of you in the next day(s) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:14 PM
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Hahaha , 20 years no hypergamy spree ! well done , i assume sex life is great as well ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:12 PM
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trp will say she settled for him and given the choice for a better option she'll drop him faster than he can blink.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:11 PM
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Right on ! thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:10 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience ! i agree , but if you're curious about trp's answer on who he can open up to it's his close male friends only.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:08 PM
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you can make your own judgement going by the replies here...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:08 AM
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Thanks for sharing ! is sexual attraction and frequency satisfying to both of you ? and lol i have to mention i have a feeling some people will never believe that you rejected Chad (gym rat body guy) for an emotional man..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:05 AM
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No one can blame you for that !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:41 AM
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Thanks for sharing ! he didn't care about sex throughout all the duration of the marriage or just in his vulnerable moments ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:32 AM
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yeah i agree with your illusion/performance opinion , you said you didn't need to be protected and that's fair of course however since you're new to the pill stuff , trp means that in a more subconscious/lizard brain urge/wired to not be attracted to ''weak'' men because in the ancient times (where our slowly evolving brains live) , that would have meant low chance of survival if an attacker attacks or disaster hits.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:29 AM
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i really don't think it matters , as long as you're happy with her and her with you and things remain that way , any pill 'rule' is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:26 AM
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oh you mean that ! yeah i see , well you will be able tell the resemblance anyway haha , good luck and thanks for sharing !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:16 AM
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IIRC per trp theory that's an unmarriable broken woman who under no circumstances will be loyal to you , your story definitely does not match that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:13 AM
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Possibly , but you did say that trp says its impossible for autistics to attract a girl and you did just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:11 AM
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per TRP theory , evolutionarily speaking , crying = weakness = not strong enough to protect the woman = woman loses attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:10 AM
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First i'm happy you're happy with her and congrats on the baby ! however i do wonder why you would demand a DNA test ? do you have an open marriage ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:06 AM
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In his defense he DID say he is fulfilled sexually , why would it matter if her ex also had sex from her or how tall he was if he is also sexually satisfied with her and is very happy to be with her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:02 AM
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Wow , thanks for sharing your experience !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:59 AM
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Very nice and here's to many more decades ! your comment hit every point i was looking for , Thank you !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:51 AM
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Beautifully written ! Thank you for sharing that and your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:43 AM
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That's fair ! i assume you would rather not reveal your gender ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:42 AM
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oh wow ! small world haha ! welcome back !!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:39 AM
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yeah the tokens analogy is a reasonable way to see things and yep i can see why you said that about the best LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:35 AM
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I see ! would you say he's very feminine and thats what makes ''opposites attract'' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:34 AM
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Excellent ! thanks for sharing !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:33 AM
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Dang all of them ? lol are you a girl ? and can you name some of the rules that were broken ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:32 AM
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well thats an interesting story haha ! thanks for sharing !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:28 AM
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i agree , when you say no longer what she had imagined him to be , do you mean a one time weakness display for a valid reason or repeated displays of weakness/''non leadership'' as for your relationship , what you described definitely goes counter to TRP attraction 'rules' , and very attracted to him i assume including sexually ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:22 AM
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i have but i believe it wasn't a trp sidebar thing , i've seen it repeated around in the comments from trpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:03 AM
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its an analogy that gained a lot of traction when i first saw it sometime ago here , basically what you say about guaranteeing the guy is excelling in other areas , so he still has ''tokens/points'' of sexual attraction because he's counteracting/compensating for the ''rule he broke'' by excelling in another rule , therefore keeping his ''attraction points''
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:01 AM
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Hmmm...You think their bulky appearance undoes their crying ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:58 AM
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in her defense i do remember that blog post very well from years ago when i skimmed through TRP concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:56 AM
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your comment reminds me of the attractiveness/masculinity tokens analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:54 AM
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that's what i find interesting because per TRP from an evolutionary POV , crying = weakness = not strong enough to protect the woman = she loses attraction yet in cases like that this seems to completely bypass her evolutionary urge to filter out ''weak'' partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:53 AM
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its funny because anger is a more ''manly'' emotion and you find it less ideal than him crying which is a ''weak'' state...Thanks for sharing your experience !
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:50 AM
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Wow 2 hours crying , thats a bit much i guess...it seems like you have a crying kink , did you have sex again mutiple times with the guy that lost his virginity to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:47 AM
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it does count ! that is definitely a TRP sin IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:44 AM
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that is impressive if they made it work indeed , and you said they're both happy so that's all that counts..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:43 AM
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and absolutely nil change to your sexual attraction to him ? if so i would be very curious to see how a TRPer would explain this...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:42 AM
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i have skimmed through TRP concepts and ideas years ago but ive never seen this ''impossible for autistic guys'' unless it's something new , but i do see how your own relationship is an argument against that TRP point...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:39 AM
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are they still into this lifestyle or was this something they experienced a few times years ago and moved on ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:36 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experience ! i'm sorry to hear that and yes i agree , if a woman loses attraction because of her man crying for a very valid reason , i would not want to be anywhere near a walking red flag in human form like that. it is interesting because some TRPers are adamant that there are no exceptions to this weakness rule...it'd be interesting if one of them is reading this post and has something to say..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:33 AM
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They would bring another man on vacation with them to pleasure her. this is a massive sin in TRP , unless it's their kink , wouldn't that mean she does not find him sexually attractive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:28 AM
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it actually does count because per TRP crying = weakness = woman feels non-confident in her man's ability to protect her = attraction dead , in your case it did not affect attraction/sex , which is the kind of answer i'm looking for in this post..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:24 AM
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Not to challenge your view or anything , but if you are aware that exceptions exist , wouldn't that logically and clearly mean that you think NAWALT but you just think it's not worth your time and effort to chase the unicorns ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:16 AM
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first i'm glad things are going well ! secondly it's interesting because TRP claims women will say they wanna see their man because it's the ''correct woke'' answer , but her biology/body/subconscious/lizard brain whatever will betray her as an involuntary reaction that she cannot control , which is why i was interested in hearing experiences of women who have indeed witnessed the witness/crying and there was no such involuntary reaction...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:14 AM
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Thanks for your comment ! has he ever shown weakness or cried in front of you ? if so did anything change in how you see him and/or your attraction to him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:07 AM
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Definitely fits what i'm looking for haha , when you say open up , do you mean just venting and hugs or full on crying to her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:56 AM
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That's interesting because TRP is divided on NAWALT/AWALT , you however seem to think that NAWALT , which is what i also believe from what i observed over the years irl and online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:55 AM
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