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| 2 | Do most people get married just to get married?That’s understandable that you want to give someone the benefit of the doubt and hope they grow with you. Ideally, that’s what a good relationship would be like. Exactly, We tend to forgive when we're in a relationship and give room I feel like maybe I’m the problem because I won’t get with the program Lol no you're not the problem. I assure you. I'm confident that I'm not the problem. Most of my friends who keep asking why I'm not married, are divorcing 🤷♀️ But I need to learn to be secure eno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Do most people get married just to get married?Do most people get married just to get married? I think so...because once you start dating someone, eventually there is no reason why you can't get married. That's exactly why I'm hesistant to just date anyone..I fear love by force habit, and finding myself married to someone i should not have married. I was to preface by saying if I get married I never want to get divorced. You can't say that. That's what we all want but marriages aren't exactly easy, being that close to anyone for a long time … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in life👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 04:07 AM |
| 3 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyAgreeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 03:55 AM |
| 1 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesdon't approach a woman like a potential romantic/relationship prospect, get to know them as regular human being first Get to know us like a regular person so that we don't run away ...but if we like you already, please be romantic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Is dating a "free market"?I think in some countries public preferences dictate a free market..I could be wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Is dating a "free market"?In western societies, yes. I would say the opposite. Nothing in the west is a free market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Is dating a "free market"?You've got my noggin joggin for a hard definition of free market Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Is dating a "free market"?Really hate the concept of “free market” which really doesn’t exist. It's actually a very interesting concept..it's a place where suppliers are competing for your service which should technically improve quality of services. I went to sams club on Valentine s day to get myself strawberry dipped chocolates, they offer them one day a year... guess what the quality was horrible... In a different market that product would be offered by a bunch of places and they would all compete to give the best pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Is dating a "free market"?No it's not, I think the concept of free market entails freedom to choose products that are all at your disposal...you get to choose one product over another... Ok, now that I think about it, you can say it's a free-market for women...😆 not so much for men..jk jk jk 😄 No, really...in dating, time and opportunity play a role...in deciding who you date. I think the concept of swiping is trying to mimic the concept of time and opportunity...but you can't mimic real life... If it was that easy I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Soft harems and polygamy will be destigmatized in the coming generations if current trends continuePolygamy was common in primitives communities, it's not evolution. It's a step backwards... Do you think civilization is a step forward? Do you mind rephrasing the question? Are you asking whether this century is our best time? Not necessarily ... this century makes the best time tech wise . Otherwise, this is a worst time than let's say 50-60 years ago worldwide. For instance, in recent years we're noticing religious influence resurfacing...and that's not necessarily a good thing...because it u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Soft harems and polygamy will be destigmatized in the coming generations if current trends continueWonderful-team 1:0 Classic_Drawing A pleasure meeting you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Soft harems and polygamy will be destigmatized in the coming generations if current trends continueFor example dress with less clothing. People are dressing much more revealing now That's an odd thing to notice ... Now that you say, I am noticing more men letting their beards go really long... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Soft harems and polygamy will be destigmatized in the coming generations if current trends continuewill make polygamy more socially acceptable. Polygamy was common in primitives communities, it's not evolution. It's a step backwards... other than a complete and total win for women. Who said that women like polygamy? Women don't resort to casual because it's not satisfying...because sex is much more complicated for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:05 AM |
| 5 | Doesn't being "on guard" with all men just drive away good men and leave only predators?Absolutely. These guys manufacture the wildest narratives. I appreciate that your response is able to cut through the bullshit. The women they make up and establish as the standard are so absurd. I stopped here to say , interesting username! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't being "on guard" with all men just drive away good men and leave only predators?she comes off as defensive and on-edge Do you run into that often? I mean I'm going to do the same if the man is defensive 🤷♀️ But unfortunately, creeps don't give a damn about that, so logically, they will be the only men to continue to engage with you, right? That's true. I'm a living proof. I have a socially outgoing personality in normal life. I can strike a conversation with any random person which leads to random men asking me out baldly and explicitly..i reject. With time , i realized th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nicebut PDD women there kept insisting to the OP that a if a woman has her headphones in it means she doesn't want to be bothered at all, that if she reads a book, she wants to be left alone, that if she avoids eye contact, she isn't interested, but a sure-fire sign is if you catch her looking at you and she flashes a smile; Not true, who created those rules. True, Headphones can be used to avoid someone. So let's say i have headphones on, how do you know I'm avoiding you and not someone else?🤔 you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you like it or would it turn you off to a person romantically if he or she tried to take up the same interests as you just to impress you?Turn off...big time. Don't lie to me Don't deceive me. Would it make a difference to you whether that person was someone whom you were already romantically interested in yourself (a partner or spouse) versus someone whom you weren’t romantically attracted to but who was trying to make you more attracted to him or her? Either way, i lose interest Alternatively, have you yourself ever tried to take up an interest just to impress someone whom you were romantically interested in? Or at the very leas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 04:05 AM |
| – | Do you think people that can’t be alone are weak?Interesting. See, I can't be with someone if I'm not attracted to them, if i have no respect to them, if i don't feel safe with them..etc Like literally i can't be with for a second.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:47 AM |
| – | Do you think people that can’t be alone are weak?Male that can't be alone here. Why?? I like your honesty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:21 AM |
| – | Do you think people that can’t be alone are weak?Do you think people that can’t be alone are weak? I do... I wonder how they’re capable of just jumping into new relationships so easily, some kind of jealousy? I don't think those people are happy..i think they're looking for happiness through relationships but they think any relationship ccan bring them happiness because other people who are in relationships are happy and that's not true...what i mean is they’re stuck on tge superficialies... i mean as a teen i thought people marry for love, fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Men should be able to "emotionally cheat"I think perhaps we should consider how we view cheating. Cheating isn't a point of view. Relationships require consent and respect. Cheating breaches both. If you accept certain behaviors from a partner there must be reasons why you do so. There are two types of people: 1. People who have to ability to walk away from a relationship instead of cheating. 2. People who are fine cheating without leaving a relationship, the reasons of why they do so vary. Cheating takes a decision and let's assume yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else think flirting is so embarrassing?Lol i do...at least i think intentional flirting is. I would be really embarrassed if something flirtatious came out of my mouth . But I'm ok telling someone i that like them. I like directness, anything indirect, falls under games for me and i dislike games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:27 AM |
| 0 | Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice?Intimacy does not need practice. You just need to be with the right person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Do you think people find you boring?That’s not the question. The question is specifically if you feel other find you boring/uninteresting. Nope. Most people find me very interesting, just don't ask me about music...lol On par with “what do you bring to the table” but not so much hooking up. I'm too humble to flash my talents 😌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:14 AM |
| 23 | Men should be able to "emotionally cheat"Ummm...both men and women are able cheat emotionally or physically. Cheating is cheating. What threatenes either sex isn't uniform | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 06:08 AM |
| 2 | There is no presumption of cheating and no paternity test. (That's why, presumption of cheating does not justify being against the test).Many men know their wives cheated, they still raised the kids and never mentioned..for a reason or another. Relationships are politics just like work and everything else. Every person has a reason of why they act like do. You don't have to be ethical to act right, you just have to be smart. Meaning not everyone who does what's right is ethical, may be they're just smart and that can be sometimes positive, sometimes negative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:34 AM |
| 4 | There is no presumption of cheating and no paternity test. (That's why, presumption of cheating does not justify being against the test).Paternity tests are warranted in some cases, if someone knocks on your door saying you're the father of their child , i would tell you to get a paternity test. If my partner for any reason asks for a paternity test, i will get it done,and serve him with divorce papers. Trust is lost. Period. I can't test your semen to see where you've been, can I? Keep in mind, many men throughout history have raised kids that aren't their own, knowingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Polygyny is unlikely to be a reasonable solution for women in the futureIt's interesting how much effort men put into statistics and hypothesis instead of just finding themselves a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.Flawed thinking. Sex is a big deal if you make it one, and it's not if you don't. You may enjoy sex with someone but don't want to marry them. You always know if you can be with someone long term regardless of sex, unless you're easily distracted. Then you're screwed anyways. Because you could fall for abusers, horrible people, criminals, psychopaths...sex is then the least of your concerns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:05 AM |
| 2 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveWhy, you don't see ugly men and women in relationships ? Look around you. Those are the people who settle first. My ugly friends married first, they knew they don't have many options .they took the first opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:48 PM |
| 4 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveThat's not how we think. A variety of men can get as much sex as they want, it all boils down to personality. Where i come from, most average men marry women who are prettier. And the handsome men are stuck with women who are average looking for handsome men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:18 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.Agreed, let me fuck you before you fart in front of me because once you fart it may be over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:14 AM |
| 4 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menThat's mostly for 2 reasons. Good men will be picked as soon as possible, leaving worse men in the dating pool. This may also not noticeable because some of the good men get picked while they still didn't show their earning potential and goal-oriented mentality(family,work etc.) . That's also the reason why women may choose to date some men below their league but only if they see potential in them. So good men get picked through their 20s and at the start of the 30s the pool of good men is much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How did we get to this point where playing games is seen as normal?Why has playing games become so normalized? Agreed, maturity is dropping with age . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43George Clooney had had first child in his 50s. He was desirable and worthwhile most of his life, particularly in his late 30s and early 40s Exactly so why didn't he marry then? His wife isn't exactly pretty. Also, his kids are still hidden, it makes me wonder if they have good health, especially after seeing a picturevof them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43It doesn’t matter how much women shame men for going for younger women, or how much society pressures men to not start a family Most Women’s fertility declines after 35 and usually ends between 43 and 50. I don't think men are thinking about younger women because of their fertility 😄 men just like being with younger women. No judgment, I like younger men too. The question is why older men wait, Until they're old to have kids. Why don't they have kids when they're young with women who are their a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 03:00 AM |
| 1 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?No is my to go answer. Yes is the exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends?Sometimes it's hard to discern whet men are trying to do because most of the time they're going off something the woman did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Men control relationships, but only men that have been chosen by women in the first placeMen think they control the relationship. The truth is it's women who get the man in the net when they want to, Women seduce, ask out, insinuate marriage...then they leave when it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:41 AM |
| 0 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Traditionally , Most rich, well known men marry women who are a nobody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:37 AM |
| 4 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?If a man publicly says it’s a woman’s job to cook, clean, and care for the children, there’s a very good chance that most women (and probably a huge portion of men) would consider that misogyny. If we turn the tables around, and a woman says it’s a man’s job to pay for a first date, to take her out You're comparing cooking and cleaning for life to paying for a first date and opening the car door for a bunch of times when you start dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept?Rejection is not hard. The minute i get rejected, my interest in the man just drops. Even if he changed his mind an hour later, It's done for me. I won't take him back because I've lost the feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:55 AM |
| 4 | What % of women actually go through a “hoe phase”Are there any actual studies on this or real numbers on this. How would studies benefit you if the person you like doesn't fit within study results. I’ll be honest, I’m pretty afraid I won’t be able to find someone at this point without a past like that You can always find people. But it does nt mean the relationship is going to work if you find that person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:52 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.She doesn't actually love you for your self and uniqueness, but what she gets from being with you, what you provide for her and once How do you know? May be this is the type of women you're with. At best she can like and respect you, but she won't love you. Hmmm...what's your story. Tell me your story, I ll tell you why. If a woman demands financial things from you, then yes, she doesn't love you, and you should know it as soon as it happens. I do know women who are of that type but the thing is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up. Why do you think that is?? Is it the men's personality? What they have to offer emotionally? The way they treat women? Their behavior? I ll tell you why I am not in a relationship: 1-some men like my physical beauty, but don't care about my personality . 2- some men want to be with me because they're looking for someone with a career who is going to put an equal amount of money in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:05 AM |
| 1 | How is the "alpha widow" concept any different than significant heartbreak?I am confident beyond a shadow of a doubt that if I left her, she'd be completely broken Don't be so sure. Some women think that this is what dominant men like so they act like it. A guy i knew broke up with the woman he was dating when he moved to a different state. With him she acted heart broken, I've only saw her partying, never heart broken. She thought he liked to know she was heartbroken, in fact she wasnt. Some women give men what they think they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We should stop shaming childfree women and women who don’t want kids, we’re alienating a group of women that will benefit men that don’t want kidsWe should stop shaming childfree women and women who don’t want kids, we’re alienating a group of women that will benefit men that don’t want kids May be that's the problem in dating these days. Men are always looking for how they benefit?? That's not how women think. If I'm to think the same then i would want all men within my age range single and child free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Women still need men, maybe more than ever, but not in the same wayDo men want women to need them or to want to be with them??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | I believe that women have it easier than men in many waysTLDR ..but I will comment on the title. I don't think women have it easier. What do they have easier exactly? Let's specify.. Women receive more praise and love from society, which fill out part of their love needs. True Women have more access to sex? May be , but how is that of use?but attraction for women does not depend solely on physical attraction. So, so how does that access benefit me, If i can't find a man I'm attracted to? I know I'm wanted and I know I'm a catch but that's how my datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:33 AM |
| 2 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayI question whether I ll stay in a marriage. Yes, marriage is just a piece of paper but if you're unhappy in that marriage, that paper can have the weight of an elephant. I want to be with someone i love dearly where the only binder is my want to stay with him, and how good we treat each other, not the paper. When i express that men get scared because they think I don't want to commit. The truth is I'm better at committing than most people as long as I feel loved in that relationship and Im being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:19 AM |
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