WonderfulBarracuda93 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Reluctant about monogamy Age gap is fine if the OP is fine with such and historically it was also very normal as men were only considered men in certain cultures at the age of 40. Men can be quite settled and more relaxed and focused at 40 also, they can be better spouses also, I do stress ‘can be’ as it is not always as such. I think the focus here should not be on the age gap but rather his past relationship and the open aspect which broke it down. His present mindset and projected future regarding if his desire to be…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/24 02:05 AM
3	Reluctant about monogamy Yes I agree with you hence why I was careful in my writing to note such, and good pickup to make that point known, so well done. The red pill community like feminism is broad and subject to ongoing defining. There’s another aspect which I allowed for but didn’t get into here which is due a mention for the OP’s consideration also. That being, some male red pill teachings claim 1 woman is not enough to satisfy a man sexually, and therefore he must be polyamorist in his relationship. As we know, ‘p…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/24 01:11 AM
4	Reluctant about monogamy My male opinion here, take it for what it’s worth. Such a man who wants a non monogamous one sided (his side) marriage is not a red pilled man. Yes he may be aware of some red pill knowledge regarding men and women and relationships, but he is a swinger, which means he may never be exclusively yours and you will be looking over your shoulder if some of the other things I write come up. Red pilled men are traditional men typically, monogamous, old school structure, order and values. Although ther…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/24 09:56 PM
2	Is it normal to speak this way? Read my comments again as I answer all your questions with my thoughts. Lose the weight for you as it’s unhealthy to be obese. Work on you and see what happens. For a relationship, men want a woman they can consider for wifing up, and that’s a whole lot more than just looks. Men would take a 5-6 out of 10 in a woman if they give him peace and respect and intimacy and don’t change.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/24 04:21 AM
5	Is it normal to speak this way? His comment reveals his morality regarding marriage vows which is correct, that is what marriage constitutes, a covenant for life. Motivation for his comment if any would be hard to know. Move on if he has someone else as this is respectful, and given he hasn’t shown any interest in you nor is giving you information on his life. Be careful you’re not becoming a little obsessed with this man and infatuated with him. Guide your thoughts away from thinking about him and this stuff, keep your relati…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/24 08:27 PM
1	Field report: successfully avoided pick up artist thanks to RPW Many men will give women attention for one of two things: 1. Sex 2. Long term relationship possible marriage If a woman gives marital benefits to a man loosely he won’t necessarily look to her for No2 but if she shows some morality and he is seeking a relationship he might call you.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/10/24 11:46 PM
4	I'm done wearing the pants, but I need some clarification on some RPW teachings... Just my thoughts based on the limited info you have written. Q1: When a man has a woman that steps up to him with masculine energy it triggers his defence mechanism. You become something that threatens him and he must now go into a survival mode. He won’t apologise even if he’s wrong, he will fight and contend against you until you stand down and humble yourself. Real men won’t allow a woman to get away with speaking down to them or throwing their emotions and thoughts all over them. On top of t…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/24 05:41 AM
1	My (27F) boyfriend (30M) of 3.5 years and I have different timelines for marriage and children, and I’m unsure if I should continue waiting for him to be ready or if he’s just going to keep “moving the goalpost.” My thoughts, If you give a man the marital benefits without the marriage, he won’t be in a hurry. Also, if it doesn’t work you now have additional time wasted and a negative body count number that can and will thin your possibilities for another man. Whilst you are unmarried, best to give him an ultimatum gently for what you are looking for.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/24 09:23 AM
2	rejection and dating I am a man so for what my comments are worth here as you asked for ladies to comment. There’s a lot to this. 1. If he goes overseas to passport bro countries he’s likely not to have the same response. Women can be friendlier as a general and happy to converse and more simple and intrigued. It can be because the men are foreigners and it can also be because the men of their country aren’t always a good catch, for example many Filipino men are drunks and cheat, so Filipino women have more respect …	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 09:12 PM
4	Partner says I’m like a man I don’t see anything you have written as being a problem. It can be a typical that men ‘think’ whilst women ‘feel’ and this can cause problems as ‘feelings’ are not truth. You being the opposite of such and emotionally intelligent reasoning and rationalising over ‘feeling’ something is an asset and allows a man to have a more peaceful and cooperative life. I would humbly open communication lines with him respectfully asking him to explain the negatives of your behaviour he sees so that you can u…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 08:50 PM
1	How do I (24F) stop behaving like a demon? The Birth control pill can literally kill your testosterone. It has been likened to female chemical castration it’s that bad and marriages have dissolved due to its effects causing bad responses. Low T is a major cause of anxiety, cognitive disruption and disfunction, depression, brain fog, the feeling of being mentally vexed with noise or thoughts and words from people you couldn’t process quickly. I would get a full hormone panel and thyroid blood labs check in your mid luteal phase where E, P…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/24 11:09 AM
1	WEEKLY OYS - October 03, 2024 Wow that’s really beautiful, as a husband and father I’m really humbled, thank you OP.	/r/RedPillWives	04/10/24 02:58 AM