WonderfulMistake7976 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Opinion: AskFeminists has no interest in "male feminist" perspectives on dropping college attendance. And censors opinions accordingly. More.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/08/26 04:44 PM
11	A lot of people say that misogyny kills, but how common are incidents where someone kills a woman and it is explicitly done because of hatred of women? I always wonder if people who have to argue in bad faith ever get tired of it. Or if it ever makes them reexamine their position. I think I would find it exhausting.	/r/MensRights	31/07/26 06:02 PM
5	A lot of people say that misogyny kills, but how common are incidents where someone kills a woman and it is explicitly done because of hatred of women? That’s interesting because you responded to this comment I made and said you would consider it internalized misandry. Your comment isn’t showing up in the thread but I can see it in my notifications. Can you elaborate on why you responded that it would be internalized misandry in response to my more general question but seem to change your opinion in a more specific situation?	/r/MensRights	31/07/26 04:35 PM
19	A lot of people say that misogyny kills, but how common are incidents where someone kills a woman and it is explicitly done because of hatred of women? I frequently see this rebuttal in these arguments but I don’t really get it. Are men not also capable of misandry? When women do something bad to other women it’s called internalized misogyny. But somehow when men do something bad to other men it isn’t internalized misandry. What’s the distinction?	/r/MensRights	31/07/26 02:02 PM
8	"Men are the ones donig all the harm" While simultaneously arguing that violence against men can’t be misandry because it’s mostly men doing it. Somehow a woman calling another woman a slut is internalized misogyny but men only sending men to war isn’t internalized misandry.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/07/26 02:31 PM
10	No, Men's issues are NOT because of the imaginary patriarchy Feminism is simply chivalry with a modern coat of paint. The truth is that men sacrifice themselves to keep women safe and comfortable. In the past they had to rely on an individual man for that and repay him with sex, children, and housekeeping. Now they’re able to extract those benefits from men at large and don’t have to give anything in return. They’re given preferential treatment every step of the way from education to hiring opportunities and they can pull out their phone and get endless v…	/r/MensRights	23/07/26 02:22 PM
1	Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here. Debate enough feminists and it becomes clear they don’t really examine their own positions critically. They don’t have to. Disagreeing with them is social suicide and they’ve taken over every space these conversations occur so they can just agree with each other back and forth to absurdity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 01:22 AM
7	Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here. The only thing they’re consistent with is that women are victims and it’s men’s fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 02:56 PM
14	Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here. So men created society as a whole but not the justice system? And your whole argument is “it’s different”? I saw what you said and it’s nonsensical, self serving bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 07:03 PM
18	Women Sometimes Do Bad and Anti-Social Things towards Men and Boys. This is a Radical Idea to Women Here. Funny how it’s “men created the system” when it’s something bad but men didn’t create anything when it’s good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 03:38 PM
1	The pressure on men to always appear strong can make it harder for them to ask for help Personally I was told the exact opposite. That’s it ok to be weak, have emotions, ask for help, etc. The reactions of those around me, women especially, showed that was a lie. All the expectations around male strength and resilience are alive and well. And not going anywhere.	/r/MensRights	15/07/26 04:30 PM
4	Stop Using the More Recent Definition of Patriarchy - You're Playing into Feminist Hands I think the men here would disagree that the existence of restrictive male gender roles means we live in a patriarchy. Does the existence of restrictive female gender roles mean we live in a matriarchy? In fact, I think this shifting of the rhetorical focus is exactly what this thread is talking about. Wherein the “patriarchy” means whatever is most convenient to paint men as the problem and women as victims.	/r/MensRights	09/07/26 10:57 PM
1	Stop Using the More Recent Definition of Patriarchy - You're Playing into Feminist Hands Yes. Many perks come with being at the top. I was talking about the ones associated with male-female relationships like access to sex and relationships. Also, it’s generally not men who are railing against the patriarchy and talking about wanting to end it.	/r/MensRights	09/07/26 09:14 PM
9	Stop Using the More Recent Definition of Patriarchy - You're Playing into Feminist Hands Oh absolutely. Most of us, myself included, either don’t have what it takes or aren’t ruthless enough to rise to the top. But the ones who do will by and large be men. And it’s true that those men at the top can frequently get away with things nobody else can. What’s ignored is that this is because women let them. As long as there are societal hierarchies and women reward the men at the top the “patriarchy” will remain. Maybe someday pointing this out won’t be one of the biggest taboos someone l…	/r/MensRights	09/07/26 07:45 PM
44	Stop Using the More Recent Definition of Patriarchy - You're Playing into Feminist Hands The ugly truth that women don’t want us discussing is that they don’t really want to be leaders. Being a leader requires too much responsibility, too much effort. They want men to hold the position of power and to influence them from a position of safety, without any accountability. The problem is that their basic needs and wants have largely been met. But they keep grasping for more and it’s becoming more difficult to get every single contradictory whim met without stepping out of their comfort…	/r/MensRights	09/07/26 06:27 PM
3	Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructed My life experiences told me that. But nice snarky deflection 👍🏻.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:39 PM
4	Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructed That probably true if we’re only talking about looks. The standards I find unreasonable are when they expect men to perfectly walk the tightrope of traditional masculine behavior and modern emotional availability. But only for her feelings, on her schedule, and on her terms. While considering it the height of misogyny if a guy expects a woman to fulfill any feminine gender roles beyond looking pretty, and even that might be too much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/07/26 11:23 PM
3	The Contradiction between Claimed Feminist Beliefs and Women's Revealed Preference Oh my god yes. Or that selecting so strongly for things like boldness and dominance or a complete inability to be affected by outside influences is naturally going to lead to them being in relationships with men more likely to be selfish or uncaring. If they don’t react with confusion it’ll be outright hostility.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/26 06:11 PM
6	Examining misandry in the responses to this post in r/DecidingToBeBetter: “Wife told me why we haven’t had sex for two years. Now I’m planning to change things – for my own sake. It’s all part of a larger attitude wherein women’s wants and desires are treated as reasonable and necessary and men’s are treated as frivolous and selfish. Basically men are expected to serve women as they see fit while expecting anything from women is too much pressure.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/26 04:46 PM
2	The Contradiction between Claimed Feminist Beliefs and Women's Revealed Preference One thing that makes me doubt the veracity of these claims is that what some women describe as sexual assault is incredibly similar to what other women expected me to do to them. Seriously, I have dated or hooked up with multiple women who expected me to just boldly and dominantly have my way with them without looking for a green light while they didn’t really show much obvious enthusiasm or even voiced a desire to take it slow. They got frustrated with me for being cautious and hesitant while t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/26 04:39 PM
15	The Media, Misandry, and Male Suicide It’s also just not really a thing you can accurately count. What exactly constitutes a suicide attempt? How would they be reported to the authorities? If a guy picks up his gun and thinks about shooting himself ten times before he finally does it that doesn’t get counted. If a guy drives down a back road at 110 and closes his eyes that doesn’t get counted.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/26 03:55 PM
1	Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men? Oh I never said a guy can’t both be bold and an amazing partner. I just doubt you deserve such an amazing person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:31 PM
2	Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men? So not giving you exactly what you want equals piece of shit? If you don’t do exactly what a guy wants does that make you a piece of shit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 08:16 PM
7	Do women realize that the way they choose partners often rewards the same type of men? That’s fine. Just don’t be surprised when selecting for the boldest and most dominant guys doesn’t get you someone who helps around the house or with the kids exactly how you like. Or if the guy who takes what he wants and never lets anything affect him isn’t as emotionally available as you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 02:46 PM
27	Why do people love to deflect and be a bigot? It’s an ideology built on never ending motte and baileys made possible by the general public’s tendency to protect and prioritize women’s concerns. They can make the wildest accusations and assumptions and fall back to “are you defending rape and violence against women?!” whenever they’re pressed.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/06/26 03:56 PM
3	I have zero respect for any misandrist What	/r/MensRights	14/06/26 02:53 PM
17	I have zero respect for any misandrist Hell, a woman doesn’t even need to have personally experienced abuse. The very existence of male violence against women is enough for any woman to express misandrist views.	/r/MensRights	12/06/26 07:54 PM
16	MGM (male genital mutilation): "a VeRy DiFfErEnT iSsUe." Years ago I came across this blog that does an excellent job of laying out the hypocrisy so prevalent with this issue. It has tons of well sourced information about the different types of genital mutilation for both genders and really goes in depth about people’s attitudes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/06/26 06:59 AM
1	How do you respond to the “Most world leaders are men!” Argument? Exactly. Any man who has been married knows that the only thing women hate more than not being in control of everything is being responsible for everything. They want men to take the visible role of being the leader but they want to set the standards and conditions for success. That way they can get most of what they want without having to be on the hook if it all goes tits up.	/r/MensRights	05/06/26 02:13 PM
33	Why men don't go to therapy It probably sounds dismissive but I do believe therapy is more helpful for women because their problems are in their heads. So many beautiful women with healthy and active romantic lives and careers are crippled with anxiety and insecurity. Talking it out probably does help. For a guy with none of those things, ruminating about it with a therapist sitting there going “mmhmm, and have you tried not letting it bother you?” isn’t as helpful.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/05/26 07:05 PM
19	It annoys me how angry stupid sexist shit makes me Well in my experience it isn’t just feminists. It’s the mainstream, accepted opinion that women live their lives in mortal fear of men and we must atone for that, regardless of our own personal proclivities to violence.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 11:38 PM
10	It annoys me how angry stupid sexist shit makes me Not all women eh?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 10:50 PM
53	It annoys me how angry stupid sexist shit makes me I’m getting extremely tired with how women use violence against them as a cudgel to extract more concessions from men at large. Every single gender discussion boils down to violence against women. Every time. You can’t bring up anything without them firing back with “yeah well we get raped! So your concerns are inconsequential.” And of course you can’t point this out. Because now you’re excusing it. Doesn’t matter if it’s entirely irrelevant to the topic. Back them into a corner and they pull ou…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 03:29 PM
4	Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men. Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 05:47 AM
6	Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men. So the videos exist and you agree with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 05:29 AM
41	People view coercive control in relationships as less harmful when the victim is a man People view everything as less harmful when the victim is a man.	/r/MensRights	10/04/26 12:06 AM
13	To the men who visit prostitutes why visit them if you can try hooking up? You aren’t paying them for the sex. You’re paying them to leave.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 07:41 PM
62	All of feminism boils down to women being upset they aren't handed on a platter what men have to earn Women only look up and wonder why they aren’t up there. They never look down. They don’t understand that there will always be a group of men above them because they’re only willing to sleep with men they view as above them. They’ll never be able to join the men at the very top because women put them there.	/r/MensRights	02/04/26 01:47 PM
0	Men's contribution to society isn't a dating argument. Because anyone working those dangerous jobs must be a knuckle dragging retard right? How progressive of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/26 12:59 AM
30	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s Because you’re using a small percentage of men who are violent to paint an entire gender as the problem. Women are more likely to kill children than men are. Is it fair to say children are not safe around women in general?	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 02:37 PM
27	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s And this means…?	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 02:15 PM
27	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s Then what is your point? Because if you’re not trying to downplay anything I fail to see the relevance of your statement.	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 01:55 PM
43	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s Does sharing genitalia with your attacker make the wounds hurt less or something?	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 01:49 PM
25	Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities They hate those men too. For not committing to them. They just take it out on the rest of us.	/r/MensRights	26/03/26 01:51 PM
9	The political left's treatment of awkward, autistic, and neurodivergent young men is nothing short of evil I don’t think many people would have caught on that you were calling people demons as a reference to an anime dude.	/r/MensRights	14/03/26 09:13 PM
4	The political left's treatment of awkward, autistic, and neurodivergent young men is nothing short of evil Yeah I agree with the sentiment of this post but these guys are a pretty bad example if you’re looking for sympathy.	/r/MensRights	14/03/26 09:09 PM
43	The Pressure to Be "Interesting" They mean you’re supposed to be traditionally masculine in the exact ways they want you to be. They just can’t say that out loud.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/03/26 05:53 PM
48	Pre-Nup vs "Stash money away" The difference is that one situation makes a woman feel bad, which is unacceptable, and one doesn’t, so it’s ok.	/r/MensRights	01/03/26 11:21 PM
26	41 young men die in South Africa from circumcision procedures during initiation ceremonies This was posted on /r/worldnews and got deleted. Wrong sub the mods say…	/r/MensRights	31/12/25 12:23 AM
5	What makes you think society is gynocentric? Or what makes you think is it not? The indisputable fact that men account for the vast majority of suicides, workplace deaths, and deaths of despair. To such a degree that men on average die five years younger than women. Despite this, there is no department of men’s health in the United States. There is of course multiple departments dedicated to women’s health.	/r/MensRights	28/12/25 02:50 PM
1	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? Just wanted to take this opportunity to plug /r/leftwingmaleadvocates for anyone uninterested in a side of fascism to go along with their gender equality advocacy.	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 05:03 PM
1	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? This is our reality and the best response they can ever muster is “nuh uh.” Clown world.	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 04:51 PM
4	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? /r/leftwingmaleadvocates	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 04:29 PM
1	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? https://truthsocial.com/@realDonaldTrump	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 04:26 PM
7	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? Are you saying it was leftists kicking Jimmy Kimmel off the air?	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 01:19 PM
3	Why are left leaning opinions accepted and celebrated even when they are promoting violence? Why do dumbasses hold random people on reddit to a higher standard than the president?	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 01:18 PM
2	I can't with this app anymore He literally said gun deaths are an acceptable price to pay for gun rights after a school shooting. Are you really surprised he got this reaction?	/r/MensRights	10/09/25 11:10 PM
7	My (mostly BS) take with some (more or less questionable) science on why women demonize men's sexual desire I think there’s some truth here. As an aside, it’s really been something to see how the attitudes around eating pussy have changed in my lifetime. I’m 40 now, but when I was younger it was seen as kind of freaky. Definitely not something a really masculine guy would do unless he was a sexpot. Now it’s seemingly expected for everyone. But you better not expect a blowjob, you dirty dog. Which is wild because from my perspective, the only way eating pussy and sucking dick even approach being analog…	/r/MensRights	26/08/25 07:59 PM
3	If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs. I did. Married her even. Turns out she has deep seated insecurities about housekeeping because her mom is a stereotypical 50’s housewife that never let anyone else clean. So even though she hates chores and never keeps up with them, she constantly feels bad about it and takes it out on me. Using me as an emotional punching bag to assuage her guilt over not doing the dishes when it’s her turn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 02:21 PM
5	The World Is becoming aware of Men's Rights Because those jobs are difficult and hard on your body. That’s why women don’t want them. If a man doesn’t have a family to support and he can get by with an easier job, why wouldn’t he?	/r/MensRights	28/07/25 01:59 PM
3	The paradox of the male loneliness epidemic. If we take an honest look at it, suicide attempts is probably an uncountable statistic. What even constitutes an attempt? A guy picks up a loaded gun, sets it on the table and thinks about ending it. Is that an attempt? Or does he have to put it to his head? Another guy gets his car up to 110 on a back road and closes his eyes for a couple seconds. Is that an attempt? Personally I think the constant mention of women “attempting more” is one of the most disgusting bad faith arguments made by femi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/07/25 01:21 AM
3	What are some notable examples of male disposability? Also many 18 year old men don’t feel like they have time for a four year degree to start making enough money to be seen as a viable man. So they take jobs in dirty, dangerous fields and twenty years later find themselves worn out and tired of being ground to dust by their jobs. But now they have a family, mortgage, other bills and they can’t afford the pay cut to change careers. So they self medicate and push down the pain, physical and mental, and just keep providing the only way they know how …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/07/25 04:57 PM
7	What are some notable examples of male disposability? I was a trucker for ten years. I finally left the industry, taking a $13/hr pay cut, because I was tired of being treated like I was a piece of equipment. Management acts like you should be able to max out your hours of service with only ten hours off between shifts when it’s busy and then sit at home indefinitely when it’s slow.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/25 02:40 PM
3	Despite what women tell you they are the biggest enforcers of stereotypical masculinity The stark contrast on display when women talk about societal pressures is really something. When a woman faces social pressures it’s “you don’t understand! Women are forced to be X, Y, and Z by SOCIETY!!!” A man talks about facing social pressures and the response is “just don’t lol.” Yeah, everything is always way easier when someone else is doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/25 07:31 PM