Wonderful_Animal_813 Archive

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1	found an interesting PDF on dating psychology. Curious to see what you guys think About halfway through, but I agree with a lot of the concepts so far. I'd already come to the realization before opening this PDF, but micro-tension was probably the biggest area I lacked. A relationship and a few girls I was interested in fell flat because I never built the tension. Was too much of a doormat and catered to their whims without ever setting boundaries that valued my time and energy. I myself get burnt out and the gestures are never reciprocated. Live and learn, and we focus on bu…	/r/seduction	29/07/26 04:19 PM
1	Overthinking after a bad date Actions speak louder than words. The closure you get is not putting so much investment before some one shows you what they are like.	/r/seduction	27/07/26 03:16 AM
2	What do I do if I’m over invested? Cut back on the texting, ask her out. Also, what happened the last time you hung out? How did you physically escalate things? If she gave you head date 2, and you guys hung out like friends date 3, I feel like there's some info missing here.	/r/seduction	22/07/26 07:27 PM
1	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t We aren't saying NOT to do that. Just don't do that right out of the gates like OP. We focus on the Initial stages of a relationship and moving away from desperate behavior so that it doesn't become a problem later in a relationship. Some of us here do want that as well, like OP. But it's doing a disservice by having men focus on that, because that's the fastest way to get friend-zoned, and glossed over.	/r/seduction	22/07/26 12:49 AM
2	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t I think the biggest hurdle is "unlearning" everything we have been taught. A lot of recent coursework had me learn about how impactful media has on its audience. You're right, mothers kinda sell this "gentlemen" approach, and its reinforced in the movies we watch.	/r/seduction	19/07/26 11:48 AM
12	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t There's definitely a lot that's going on, and thats a part of it for sure. I think in this day and age, options are more available to those previous didnt have a lot of options(dating apps). So I think there is more exploration of said options. Date a few, then pursue the best candidate and drop the rest. And that's why we talk in this subreddit, to trade experience and knowledge so we become that candidate they pursue. The abundance mentality has helped me personally, as it allows me to move on…	/r/seduction	19/07/26 05:39 AM
10	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t It's cool, man, we all either been through it or are still learning. Best advice: if these women are truly worth it, then they reveal themselves in time. Our job is to be the best we can be, have fun, and escalate. And remember, actions speak louder than words.	/r/seduction	19/07/26 12:11 AM
15	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t You can be less needy, but still be needy. That's what your post is telling me. If you are being rejected before a second date because there is no romance, you're doing a mix of things wrong, and it's compounding. I have a feeling you're doing this in a "gentlemanly approach," and that's what's hurting you the most. You put her on a pedestal when you put her in her own "category." You said in your post you broke your own rule of texting. You only hurt yourself when you text. Texting is strictly …	/r/seduction	18/07/26 11:53 PM
153	Women only want me when I treat them like sh*t "It’s like whenever I find a woman I’m actually into, I put them into their own category..." "I want a girlfriend, but one I actually like, and that requires opening up and emotionally attaching to her" I feel like you are attaching way too quickly, and it's becoming needy. Neediness is probably the number attraction killer. You don't need to treat them like garbage, but you do have to stop investing so much into them at the start. Be fun, be yourself. This is why abundance mentality exists in b…	/r/seduction	18/07/26 11:08 PM
1	When is it too late to dm a girl? You said she's from the same social circles, that's your chance then when you run into her. Let me ask you some questions so you can understand why you dont dm her...let alone 6 weeks later. How many other guys do you think are in her DMs currently? If you were her, why would you randomly decide on any one of those passive guys who got her IG, snap, w/e were cool to go out with? Wouldn't you rather go out with someone who has the balls to ask you out in person? Right now you're overthinking abou…	/r/seduction	16/07/26 09:14 PM
1	When is it too late to dm a girl? Get her number and text her the next day.	/r/seduction	16/07/26 08:45 PM