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| 3 | WEEKLY OYS - October 17, 2024OYS Number: 14 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Encouragement only Demographics: married, both 20s, two kids Relationship Lowlights: I've been sick the whole last two and a half weeks. Cold -> food poisoning + cold -> another cold -> period cramps + cold. This past week has been very hard. I've had lots of cranky days and moments where I've lost my temper. We've had a couple chats about politics that didn't go very well. Relationship Highlights: There were times this past week my husband was impresse… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/24 12:34 AM |
| 2 | WEEKLY OYS - September 26, 2024Thank you very much for your kind words! I do enjoy watching Japanese husbento videos and will think of this when I watch them. I agree with you that good relationships take a lot of work, but we can build up the marriage skill set over time with dedicated effort. I would describe myself as an idealist in that I think ideals are obtainable - but it takes a lot of pragmatic effort and strategy to get there. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - October 03, 2024OYS Number: 13 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Encouragement only Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, two kids (4M, 2M) Gratitude list: I'm grateful that the boys generally play well together, that my project post-finish is going smoothly, that my husband feels hopeful he could pass his last big work certification, that my in-laws returned from their trip safely, that the weather is cooling down, I got a hot shower all to myself Things I Did for My Present: I tried out my new underwear, played… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/10/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - September 19, 2024Welcome to OYS! I think it's great that you want to be here and hold yourself accountable. Regarding your lowlights for the week - since this is a common issue, perhaps you should start keeping a place where you write these deadlines down? There are sites like Monday that have shared calendars and are designed for teams working on business together. You could both set it as your default webpage when you open your browser or something. Things you do for yourself are super important! It can be so … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/09/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | WEEKLY OYS - September 26, 2024OYS Number: 12 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, two young boys Gratitude list: I got to order some new underwear, my project is done apart from minor upkeep, IKEA has a really good dine in deal on Wednesdays, the kids have been mostly good, my family has been especially supportive Things I Did for My Present: Went for a walk in my favorite local place, got a chocolate bar, I've been watching a new show Things I Did for My Future: Moved my PC desk set up from … | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/24 07:25 PM |
| 2 | WEEKLY OYS - September 19, 2024Thank you, I didn't intend to stop posting but I found myself unable to keep track of the days for awhile there. I should probably set an alert or something on my phone because I do feel better after writing my OYS. I like your first point very much. My husband sometimes talks about "lagging indicators" - things that take awhile to show up after good habits are in place, such as muscle definition taking a few weeks or months of regular workouts to appear. I appreciate your ending question/sugges… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/09/24 08:12 PM |
| 3 | WEEKLY OYS - September 19, 2024OYS Number: 11 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Encouragement only Demographics: married, mid-twenties, two young kids Gratitude list: I'm grateful my project is almost over, that the kids enjoy their preschool, that my older one is eating his meals well, that my younger one is so gosh darn cute, I'm grateful for my period disk and post-children mild cramping. I'm grateful my husband is doing well with his work stuff Things I Did for My Present: I bought myself a chocolate bar at the grocery store, p… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/24 02:11 AM |
| 2 | WEEKLY OYS - June 20, 2024OYS Number: 10 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, two kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: Husband agreed to buy me another video game on a great sale. I'm incredibly excited about both The boys have been good for me and have been playing well together I have a great computer that does whatever I ask of it. I'm very proud of it, I built it myself over four years ago now Took the boys to buy regular sized Legos for the first time and they've been having a blast I've ge… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - June 13, 2024OYS Number: 9 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, two kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: we had beautiful weather two days this week and got to do some outdoor activities we went out to eat a couple times and it was very nice I bought the boys the true sized Legos today for the first time and they loved them. It's a moment I'll remember for a while In-laws watched the boys My husband bought me a video game I wanted when he heard it was on a great sale (95% off!!) Thi… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - June 06, 2024OYS Number: 8 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, two kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: I got to have lunch with my family My baby is very very cute App timers are useful Husband is watching a TV show with me Things I Did for My Present: Puzzle Read some of a book Things I Did for My Future: I worked on my project Ordered a meal service box for the week Scheduled and attended an annual physical Things I Did for My Partner: I got some things he wanted/needed from the… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/06/24 04:18 AM |
| 2 | WEEKLY OYS - May 30th 2024OYS Number: 7 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, two kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: My husband took me out to dinner We have nice neighborhoods to walk in The kids are very cute My husband has been watching TV with me My projects are going decently well Things I Did for My Present: Made a cocoa Made a milkshake Finished the show I had enjoyed Things I Did for My Future: I worked out I hit a milestone for one of my projects I cleaned out the vacuum Weeded a bit T… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/24 05:33 AM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - May 23rd 2024OYS Number: 6 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, two kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: My husband has a good, stable job that pays well My mom is helping a lot with childcare and genuinely enjoys spending time with my kids We live in a nice area My husband watched a movie with me The Chick-fil-A app gave out free nuggets I'm feeling better from my cold Things I Did for My Present: D&D Puzzles Continued watching my show Watched a movie I liked Finished the book I wa… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - May 16th 2024Yes he's very good at acknowledging what I do! I'd say it's one of his strengths. The Baldur's Gate 3 video game is a great place to start if you want to play but aren't ready to make commitments! D&D is so much fun. It can be dependent on who your DM is, so if you don't like it, it could be worth trying one more group to see if it was just the people you didn't vibe with. I'd say 90% of the players and DMs I've had over the years have been good. I'm the DM this time around, it's fun. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/24 01:50 PM |
| 2 | WEEKLY OYS - May 16th 2024OYS Number: 5 OYS Comment Preference: 1 Demographics: both mid-twenties, married, two kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: I have an aptitude for cooking and enjoy it very much My husband picked something up just for me to eat on the drive home, it was yummy My mom and mil helped a lot watching my kids There's strong mutual attraction in my marriage I live in a nice place with many restaurants and public spaces Things I Did for My Present: D&D Read a book I was interested in Watched a fair bit of a new… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - May 9th 2024OYS Number: 4 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, 2 kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: My passion and ability to entertain myself with my thoughts My husband works very, very hard and is almost done with his addictional work certifications My kids are super cute We have a new plan to tackle the sudden bed wetting phase my 3 year old hit, I feel much calmer I never have to worry about grocery money and can buy and cook yummy things I got to see my sil and she had good… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/05/24 09:53 PM |
| 2 | WEEKLY OYS - May 2nd 2024OYS Number: 3 OYS Comment Preference: Can there be a zero option? Demographics: married, both mid-twenties, two kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: The remarkable creativity and enthusiasm of a friend of mine on a project we're doing My husband took one of the exams he needs for his career qualifications yesterday. A couple hundred hours have gone into that outside work hours so far in 2024. We're getting close to the end My in-laws hosted me and the kids on Sunday, prepared a nice meal, and were love… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - April 25th 2024Congrats on your engagement!! That's amazing news, how do you feel?? Going out to eat to celebrate your period is so cute. I started using a menstrual disk a few months ago and I really like it. I've only had a handful of periods in the past few years because of childbirth and breastfeeding so it's been tricky to get back in the habit of it and figure out what products I like. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | WEEKLY OYS - April 25th 2024Oh yes, I've read all about that in Gottman's Guide to Women book! My husband and I want to solve conflict in different ways, and we also process our fights differently. I find it easier to let the little stuff go and not be resentful. I have a harder time talking things through when angry. I think I also tend to have a mindset like he should come after me and apologize first and fix it - which is fantasy half the time. If I want it fixed, I have to do my part. Kids definitely gave us a run for … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/24 07:29 PM |
| 3 | WEEKLY OYS - April 25th 2024OYS Number: 2 OYS Comment Preference: (1) Demographics: married - both mid-twenties, two kids (3M, 2M) Gratitude list: My in-laws watched the kids so we could have a date night and prepare for the birthday party in peace My kids are able to have outdoor time on their own while I stay by the window I'm grateful for my love and ability for cooking Everyone had a nice time at the party and complimented the food I got to speak with my brother/sil/niece at the party whom I love and haven't seen since… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/24 03:14 AM |
| 2 | WEEKLY OYS - April 18th 2024Thank you Pumpkin Muffin. :) I've heard the advice before to not discipline out of anger. I'm not perfect, but I'm way prouder of myself when I successfully refrain. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/24 10:28 PM |
| 3 | WEEKLY OYS - April 18th 2024That is a solid parenting tip! Generally he helps clean up messes that he makes. He helped clean up his mess with muffins earlier that day and vacuumed up crumbs. Momma was still in control of herself for that one, thankfully. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/04/24 03:06 PM |
| 7 | WEEKLY OYS - April 18th 2024OYS Number: 1 OYS Comment Preference: 3 Demographics: 25F, married to 25M (4 years), 2 kids (3M, 1M) Gratitude list: I'm grateful for our new schedule that allows me an hour a day to myself if I take it; for help and love from my in-laws; for the good looks of my husband and kids which makes my mood a little softer; for the temperate weather that makes outdoor play possible; for the good health of my family after a friend is going through some serious diagnoses. Things I Did for My Present: Had … | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/24 03:24 PM |
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