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| 0 | “If he wanted to…he would”The saying goes both ways. Men aren’t automatically barred from using this to determine how far they go in pursuing a woman. I knew this was a bad faith argument when you assumed a woman wasn’t going to put in effort. The reason we say this is so save our energy, and I advise men to do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | “If he wanted to…he would”You say this like there aren’t a growing amount of porn obsessed/addicted men that complain about their inability to get pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:24 PM |
| 2 | “If he wanted to…he would”Y’all call anything you don’t agree with “ a cope”. If I were hungry, I would eat something. It’s not that complicated. It just goes to show how much someone prioritizes you. It’s almost like men hate when women can use their own discernment to choose who they should/should not be with. This actually HELPS men that put in the effort because they get rewarded for putting in the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Dating in small town medium city or big city?A lot of y’all wouldn’t make it in a big city. You would be average 6 in a suburb the way a lot of y’all act like you hate to do the bare minimum for your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:48 PM |
| 8 | There are no "intimidated" men.Even though this is a cmv, it’s for sure wrong. Some women use it as a cope, but a lot of men downplay the power women have that ISNT correlated to brute strength or size. This is just men looking at one thing and not realizing their simple nature prevents them from seeing the importance of other factors they don’t find important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Do men come with a carfax? If you meet someone and aReNt dating them, why would I know about their history unless I knew them personally. Even if their track record shows, people can deviate from them. Instead of having a standard rule, how about you guys just find women who will fuck you early | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 03:34 AM |
| -2 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.I hope you aren’t in the party of men that complain about why women won’t stay with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.Making someone wait does not immediately equate to a dead bedroom. How does a woman know the guy isn’t player is the real question to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 11:10 PM |
| 8 | The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendshipsIt can be friendship. I don’t simp for my girlies when I pay for their food or Uber’s. It’s just an unspoken “I got you, you got me next time” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 01:55 AM |
| 8 | What the "average man is" versus what women think the average man is...Men shame women for sharing their desires, but then get mad when they don’t share them honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Women can complain about the dating market all they want and receive support, but men are shamed.This is full of bad faith arguments and projection. And false equivalences soley due to a lack of understanding why people behave the way they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Women can complain about the dating market all they want and receive support, but men are shamed.More like 15%. A loud minority isn’t a majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?This proves that it’s a class aspect to this conversation. Your expectations are that of someone middle class and being content with that. Being 21 and from an upper middle class family, 85k is something starting off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 8 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?It’s actually wise to take what your parents have to say about a partner into consideration. They see what you may not/they might have wisdom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Women have taught men to pump and dump them and not commit etc…You have been disproven in every single comment here. Women want casual sex, and the main argument is “men can do it, why can’t we?” . That’s because men can and will have sex, and there needs to be women for that sex to happen. Please, take your L. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Women have taught men to pump and dump them and not commit etc…The only reason the sex in the city lifestyle exists is because men want sex. They create the desire for casual sex. People that make these arguments seem too dumb to look past the surface and ask “why” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 7 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”I don’t respond. That’s such a weird and unaware thing to ask. Someone who asks that seems like they are insufferable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What are you?Shut up. Rating yourself less than others because your skin color is literally self hate. I don’t make the rules. You show little confidence bro. Real ones know beautiful people are across all races, and race being a filter is does not take away from general attractiveness. You thinking being black is worth -2 makes you less attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:22 PM |
| -2 | What are you?Self hate isn’t sexy. -2 stays beside you think your race is a crutch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?Some of it is common sense while some of it is just men being the male equivalent of the women they hate. I think people that follow things like this religiously are touched or need some self confidence to lead themselves. You don’t need the pill to tell you that looking good and being confident is good for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 4 | In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy?Do you know what nuance is? Taking pictures of the Great Wall of China or a plate at a fancy restarting in Italy to document an experience isnt using automatically using social media heavily. I should not have to explain that the insecure ig girl that takes 34 selfies a week and curates a feed is different from the casual user who just posts their experiences or status to update their friends/family. It’s like you don’t know anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 04:07 PM |
| -1 | In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy?It means you killed the metaphorical boner that was symbolic of my interest in this conversation by being a buzzkill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 03:10 PM |
| -1 | In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy?You are such a boner killer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy?Someone you would want to be around would know that validation on social media is temporary/fleeting. Constantly seeking something you know will possible consume you and having the discipline to limit it seems like someone you want to be around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 03:00 PM |
| 5 | In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy?Yeah, nobody you would want to be around for a while is using social media heavily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:55 PM |
| 6 | In younger people, has number of instagram followers become relevant to hypergamy?Nobody past high schoolers cares about ig followers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Between these 2 types of men, which type do women find more attractive?1 in public 2 with me/fam | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Most guys aren't really trying that hard21 year old with no social media. There’s a young population of women that aren’t on ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 19 | Women are justified in being reluctant to give men compliments.A lot of men take just initiating conversation as flirting/an invitation to flirt. It’s not really worth it to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Question for women: which pilled men do you prefer?She gets it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What has your experience been regarding women sabotaging other women's relationships?One girl did this to me multiple times in high school. The only types of girls that do that are the ones with low self esteem/resentment to you for being better/enviable. I ignore them and limit my friendships so there is no conflict. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | The cost of a beautiful womanYou can be beautiful without that many expenses. If women upkeep for themselves, why put it on men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:46 PM |
| -1 | Lets be honest: men aren't primarily attracted to 'natural' women that don't take care of their appearance that much. Makeup and other enhancements workNp bestie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Lets be honest: men aren't primarily attracted to 'natural' women that don't take care of their appearance that much. Makeup and other enhancements workThis was nicely written. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 10:12 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are almost ubiquitously attracted to “bad boys”It’s also known that women dont fuck everything they are attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:10 PM |
| 32 | More women should give chances to the men who prefer going Dutch - they aren’t trying to mask their intentions under the guise of tradition/chivalryMen will still try to go half and fuck you after. It’s never absolute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 08:07 PM |
| 8 | It's safe to assume that every man you date only wants sex from you —until proven otherwise.This is common sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 10:54 AM |
| 13 | Can we just laugh about howIf studies came out that men fare better with women and kids, then they would do it more and actually look forward to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:48 PM |
| 14 | Guys on OLD who write “Message me first” 🤡I'm just saying this in general! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 77 | Guys on OLD who write “Message me first” 🤡I would just not message them. These are the guys that swipe right on everyone and see who picks them first so they don’t take it personally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | FDS Podcast Episode 2 is HERE!!! FAQs about Feminism, Double Standards, Being Friends with an ExI love this as well as the women speaking! so many great points made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 04:17 PM |
| 29 | Unpacking the Male Gaze: Birds of Prey vs. Suicide Squad (I feel like this is why the odds are always stacked against women, because so much popculture is all about MuH PeNiS)I think the “I do it for me” saying is used as an excuse for women to seek validation without feeling guilty about wanting it and outwardly saying it. I always saw past it because I never see people who were actually secure in what they did constantly claim to “do it for themselves” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:49 AM |
| 12 | Respect the Humanity of Black Girls. Period.Why are we praising and uplifting women who objectify themselves for the gaze of men? I love FDS, but this isn’t a “respectability politics” thing. Don’t excuse the behavior to seem “down” because it’s not doing what you think it’s doing. Y’all should know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Men cause 100% of unwanted pregnancies. Unwanted pregnancies happen when men orgasm irresponsibly.I think we should just withhold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 127 | Sex posi women are not our friends. You cannot change my mindSex positive women want validation for being soooo open a little too badly for my taste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:11 PM |
| 38 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).Did the husband post anything of himself on the Onlyfans account? It’s his wives. I don’t know why people are blaming the husband if he didn’t partake in the activity. It’s her responsibility. As for an onlyfans, why would you need to post pictures of yourself online if you wanted to spice the bedroom up. I don’t get these articles and the way they frame these things with minimal context and then assume something is very weird to me. You would think people realized that starting an onlyfans woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:28 PM |
| 8 | Let’s talk about Instagram‘s affect on hook-up culture.Because if you don’t partake or show off, there’s something wrong with you are you might be a “pick me”. It’s not cool to “not be like other girls” that are secretly looking for male validation under the guise of “female empowerment”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:13 AM |
| 68 | Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture"They feel threatened by other women saying “no” because they are doing what society tells them to do and automatically assume that the person saying “no” is doing it to appease society. In short: It’s them projecting their insecurities onto the people that say no. If they truly were secure, the choices of other women and the actions wouldn’t make them feel any type of way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:03 AM |
| 197 | Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture"Women have a lot to lose in terms of who we choose to reproduce with. This isn’t knocking women who use birth control, but men assume that they can just come and go because birth control is common and they expect women to just be able to make the baby go byebye. If you can choose to have sex then you have the right to choose to not have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 39 | Men seek validation from other men, like x1000000 times more than PickMeishasIf he loved the homies so much, why dosent he just marry/fuck them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:15 PM |
| 15 | Why are the hideous guys the most audacious?It’s a numbers game to them. Someone is bound to fall for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:53 PM |
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