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| 1 | Divorce survivor guiltDo what you feel comfortable doing. I’ve thrived after my divorce and she hasn’t. I won’t give her a penny but I’m paying tuition and expenses for both of my daughters. I’m happy to do this and fortunately for me my girls have realized just how bad my ex is with money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/25 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Divorce after 22 years.I was exactly in your shoes, it does get better but it takes a while to learn to focus on yourself because most of your energy was spent raising your kid. We agreed to sell our house and with that money I went back to school. Do all the things you will read here like hiring a lawyer asap, exercising and I highly recommend therapy. Your whole world was turned upside down and now you have to figure out a career path also. It’s no small task, accept it will hurt, it still does for me at times. I wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 04:21 AM |
| 3 | A letter of forgiveness and moving onContinue to write down your thoughts as it does help to bring clarity but never send to your ex. She doesn’t want to hear it or deal with it and she may even use it against you later on. Focus on yourself, forgive yourself and get busy being the best you can be. Avoid contact with your ex as much as you can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Ex posting to social mediaI went thru this exact thing from my ex and even my daughter. I found saying “ there are two sides to every story” was a short response that raised enough doubt that I felt I had put it to rest. It seemed to work in most situations and as you will read over and over she is rewriting her story to justify her actions. Sucks but eventually you just won’t care as much | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/21 10:06 PM |
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