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I just let it in it does not smell.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 09:32 PM
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I do not find Mari Kondo to be a person I am inclined to like. She is very arrogant and sure of herself. I also dislike her attitude of throwing away and not trying to reuse, sell, give away or gift away. She is a liberal/feminsit leaning person and does not tell you to honor other peoples belongings, especially not our husbands. A disrespectful/non-vigilant woman might not see anything bad in pressuring her Husband into sorting out his belongings or even do it herself! Just as bad is inviting s…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 10:59 AM
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Beer does work. No matter the quality. DH rarely drinks a whole bottle and the rest is mine to use.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 08:26 AM
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Thanks for your input, I took your suggestions and found some cookbooks in the library after the Appointment with LO´s Doc. Just the routine Appointments. LO is right on track weight/growth wise. The doc said hat cheese is alright as long as it is baked, so we will do a lot more oven recipes. I am happy to have found some yummy sounding recipes with root- vegetables. Edit: "And wait until toddlers portion has been taken out before you add pepper. " - will be the reason for papa´s plate being off…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 07:56 PM
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Skadi forum.
/r/RedPillWives02/01/19 05:45 PM
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Does anyone know anything about shine treatments for your hair Beer. tin can beer is fine, but it is also good when the person drinking beer in your household leaves polite drops;)
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 05:42 PM
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vinegar and baking powder - depending on the severity of the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 05:40 PM
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Do you have some recipes for food that can be enjoyed by both a very young toddler and adults alike? LO is starting to rob our plates ;) ​ ​
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 05:39 PM
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>. Nowadays he'd eat burgers for every meal if he could Up your cooking. Try new recipes, be playful and adventurous. There are endless possibilities. Make him Lunchboxes he can proudly take along. >. He's drinking a lot of beer, every day. see above. A delicious drink beats beer. Hot apple juice, a lemonade with real ingredients, coffee - again there is so much you can offer besides beer. >. he's now wearing ratty old clothes with stains. Why are there stained clothes? Or ratty ones? Ask him to…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 10:27 AM
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>. he'll happily tell me off in front of our friends if I'm rude or anything That is something I would a) not do and b) not accept. Man calling out the married partner they vowed to love and cherish in front of friends is just weak and wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 09:39 AM
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Mari Kondo might help in this instance.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 09:38 AM
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I used to have the meal almost ready for serving. I generally wear clothes that look well - most of my clothes are favorite pieces of (D)H, so no quick changing on regular days. I aim for a well kept, cozy but not cluttered living space throughout the flat. So there is maximally a candle I add before he gets home. I always kept tea ready as well. When he got home I would greet him at the door, he would have collected the mail (our postwoman is coming around 15:00 for some reason). He took a nap …
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 09:34 AM
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If you feel comfortable you could work with different braids, buns or updos. I have seen many women mess up their eyes while in the gym, they all wore mascara. Be very careful.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 10:49 AM
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I will eat with my BIL´s Family.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/18 01:38 PM
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That info makes a huge difference. People on the spectrum have a hell of a lot harder time to read people's expressions. Add makeup to it and it gets nearly impossible. I think he loves the look of a gentle makeup that does not make things harder for him. On you. The one he can read quite well. If you wore heavy makeup it would make reading you hard.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 09:32 AM
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gratitude is a lost virtue indeed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 07:23 PM
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I owe up to the fact that the little, slow improvement in my DH does not yet register as true and lasting change, I need to see, hear and witness a whole lot more over a much longer period of time. Remorse is key.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 07:04 PM
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I think it is a matter of gratitude. Men that do not recognize that their women work their ass of to treat them like kings come across as lazy and entitled.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 07:01 PM
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I keep shopping lists for the weekly recipes on my phone. I go to the stores every two days but plan ahead for the whole week as to save money.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 06:54 PM
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A woman should be very careful and thorough in vetting. Maybe now she has some more ideas on what a relationship ought to look like. For her that is.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 10:56 AM
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I think the difference between you and OP is that your relationship is one of respectful, mutual communication.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 10:54 AM
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When was the last time you and our BF did something that you both like together? Visited a place neither of you have been before, did something neither has done ? Relationships take work from BOTH sides. I am just unable to understand those that say they have crushes, behave hypergamy etc. To me this is a question of willpower and preseverance. I know these qualities are rare nowadays. I see hypergamy as an excuse for low power of will. Of a weak, easy to tempt mind.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 10:50 AM
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I have done it often.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 10:39 AM
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What do you mean with Life Advice? I remember my mother used to give father advice, she has this ability to ask questions that make you think and connect the dots.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 06:15 PM
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She is not prejudiced against certain nationalities but sees clearly the damage certain flavors of faith can have.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 06:12 PM
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DH comes from a social democratic Family. So left wing , blue collar workers. Always proud of being industrious and eager to work (physically) hard if necessary. I can not recall just how many times I gave DH baked goods to share among his workmates. Each and every time someone would ask if he bought it in store. He was all "No, my wife does the cooking and baking."
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 06:11 PM
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http://www.jesperjuul.com/bibliography/books/category/uk-usa-anz
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 08:32 AM
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Some are. What other languages do you speak?
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 10:51 PM
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Grandma always said: "No one would call the ocean or the earth beneath our feet weak. Why should we women regard our strengths as weaknesses?"
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 08:17 PM
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LO is the most wonderful baby. He has a erratic sleeping schedule but took to us living at my Sister well. I received some very good advice from my midwife and CPS on how to get our family help. Apparently my DH might have developed the equivalent to PPD for men, something I have heard about during the early stages of the pregnancy but I never connected the dots. He asked to be evaluated further tomorrow after talking with the midwife and seeking advice from his father. The Author Jasper Juul wr…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 08:13 PM
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I mean what did he do when the electricity went off? He called the unemployment Agency and started hurling insults at his caseworker. He did not address me. . Okay, how did you approach him? What did you say, what did be say? I gave him the letters from the agency and advised that I was concerned about ramifications. I also said that feeding our family healthy and wholesome food was becoming hard.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 07:27 PM
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Unfortunately his best books were never published in English. Was Familien trägt. Werte in Erziehung und Partnerschaft. Kösel, München 2006. (Beltz, Weinheim 2008, ISBN 978-3-407-22905-2). Mann & Vater sein. Kreuz, Freiburg im Breisgau 2011, ISBN 978-3-451-61044-8. Family Life The most important values for living together and raising children
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 07:24 PM
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I loved the author Jesper Juul. He is very down to earth and gives great advice for balancing being parents and married couple.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 02:54 PM
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Technically you're right. However, when a person is overwhelmed with too much weight to carry, they'll just shut down and become incapable of doing even a little bit of what needs to be done. The Unemployment Agency offered Counseling something they almost never do. I am sure he would have benefitted from it after all that went on. My Father who also suffered from unemployment some years back tried to talk to him, offered advice and a place to vent. I was bending backwards to keep our home runni…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 10:27 AM
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you have to change yourself first and see if it doesn't change him CPS has been on high alert lately and I fear they might take action - right now they are trying to help but the current situation in our home is truly not sustainable for much longer. I have been lucky to bounce back from PPD and I have been actively working on myself once I could see clearly again.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 10:22 AM
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Please, do read my whole history and get a more wholesome picture of what is going on.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 10:16 AM
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She thinks she's better than him. It's started before he was laid off (the mama's boy comments predate that as best I can tell) but it's definitely increased since he stopped working. I never thought I am better then him in any way! Working does not mean bringing in income alone, it demonstrates the willingness to put in work, the willingness to get by without the help of the state and fellow taxpayers. I was raised to be critical of able bodied people that make no effort to get out of the Socia…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 10:12 AM
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I understand your concern and believe me, I am looking deep into my own "shadow side" and do a lot of Rootwork in order to become the best I can be. ​ >. Her history is additionally full of praise for her family and distaste for his. MIL is a very bold, outspoken person that has difficulty with voicing her opinion and advice tactfully. She is also prone to ging well meaning advice even when her opinion is clearly not wanted. I am very bad with an overload of well meant advice and get defensive e…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 10:01 AM
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Forgiveness is a gift I will willingly give once I see true, lasting change.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/18 09:36 AM
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There is never, ever, an excuse for an able bodied person of sound mine not to work contribute. FIL´s opinion exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 09:37 PM
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If he truly changes back to the man he was yes.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 09:35 PM
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I know he has seen me cry over the situation more then once when the kids were sleeping. I talked to him, respectfully and loving, bringing the problem to him and then backing off. You went behind his back... But I want to know what your SO did when that happened. I did what was necessary. dH said nothing, When my Father talked to him he hurled insults at my Father instead of thanking him for saving us.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 08:35 PM
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I have had a long talk with my Father, Sister and her Husband. All agreed that I can stay in their home for up to a month. . a course toward financial independence I will try to get my name on all paperwork ASAP. I will also look into childcare and a true Job (SIL might be willing and my Sister also)
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 08:27 PM
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It has been going on for nearly half a year. I also asked for advice 3 months ago and followed it as best as I could. . Why is your father and his parents coming to him about this instead of you? Since we were unable to pay the power was turned off. (DH handles that and I was unaware he did not pay on time) I asked my Father to lend me the money when the midwife had to inform CPS as per protocol. His father feels like he did not succeed in raising him to be a good, hardworking citizen that does …
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 07:42 PM
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Being cautious is good, going overboard is too much stress;) I tried to eat clean, healthy and local. I did Yoga for Pregnant Women and I was glad to strengthen my Core and the pelvis. No! is a complete Sentence. Good advice can be accepted with a gentle: We will carefully consider it!"
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 07:02 PM
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A good midwife is a very valuable Gift I was glad to receive. Without her I would have had a much much harder time.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 06:06 PM
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I have some advice stemming from my own experiences and some from my awesome midwife - Look for a midwife early on - Buy a good baby pillow (Second the notion that you should do it soon!) - Ginger Tea helps with nausea. Be upfront with your midwife/Gyn they might also know a few tricks - Let the nursery become your DH´s project. My Husband bought a lot of the "baby furniture" second hand or repurposed second hand pieces to fit our needs. It was his way to connect to the baby in advance. - Do not…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 05:18 PM
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>. I may not have always shown my Captain that I thought he was a treasure but now, each day I recommit to showing him that he is my Captain and that I love and care for his well being. ​ Most likely you already were doing this without noticing. ​
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/18 04:19 PM
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I was raised to value knowledge. To obtain it for myself and the benefit of others. IF a man is too insecure to accept I may be more knowledgable then him it is not my fault. Why do we women have to tone down? Why do we make ourselves weaker then we are? These are questions I ask myself more and more.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/18 10:16 AM
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My Mother advised against marrying someone who is smarter then I - she unfortunately knows too much knowledge can make men arrogant peacocks.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 02:28 PM
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- become the best you can be at a job you like (not necessarily love) and keep yourself current even while being a mother at home! (My Mothers advice to me) - teach all your children how to operate a household! Take extra time to teach your girls all your secret tipps too. (I heard that one from my Aunt who has 3 boys) - read, read, read -
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 02:26 PM
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I am from Germany. Here it needs to be done well in advance.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 02:17 PM
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I do not mind the downvotes. Maybe my tone was too sarcastic.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 02:16 PM
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I tried that the last 2 months. But I will keep trying after setting iron clad boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 07:32 PM
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Some very good books: - A Warm and Gentle Welcome: Nurturing Children from Birth to Age Three - Adventures in Parenting: A Support Guide for Parents by Rachel C. Ross - Effie Briest (a classic of German literature mandatory for some major exams and a good look into a troubled woman mind) - ​
/r/RedPillWives29/10/18 07:31 PM
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I think truly expecting a "hero" (What is your definition of one one anyway;) ) shows a complete lack of maturity and feeble mind.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 07:15 PM
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. get regular bloodwork done I will raise this with my doc next week. I am probably very low on iron too. . He needs to take paternity leave as it helps the family bond with aline time and sets up responsiblitys. He should have arranged that months before the due date. Now it is trice as difficult. I was so proud for not nagging him about it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 07:07 PM
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SIL is grabby but you are right DH gave LO up to her. I dislike MIL and SIL. MIL for being a busybody with no respect and SIL is just a child in a woman body in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 07:03 PM
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I think you being the rock is not what she needs. She needs you to become the mighty, ever changing but predictable Sea. Boundaries are important. For all of you. What are her boundaries now? Are there triggers that stand out? For the pre adolescent I would like to gently suggest that if it not happened yet her menstruation might start soon and you should prepare yourself for that. I had the talk with my Niece whose mother just can not be bothered to deal with the nitty gritty of bodily function…
/r/RedPillWives29/10/18 07:00 PM
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MIL might not have been out to sabotage me - but her disregard for other people’s well-being and comfort while being a guest in their house is just not acceptable. I was very clear with DH that her behavior is not excusable.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 02:23 PM
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If one wants to be kind one asks before grabbing the baby out of its mother’s arms!!! SIL is an overbearing nuisance and has zero respect for personal space. (Linksgrünversifftes Hippy - Girl)
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 02:20 PM
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In her hippy circle of Friends anything is possible. But she has always been a boundary stomping nuisance. I stood up to DH and enforced a no strong perfume rule. But I know MIL will wear it regardless - and find herself confined to the kitchen. (The room that can be cleansed of smells most easily, do not fret the kitchen is spacious with a seating area we often use)
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 02:18 PM
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LO is now 3 months old. I thought I had written about it..... But only now I am able to truly accept that I had PPD and acted like I did.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 04:22 PM
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Many good points! MIL is unfortunately one of those women that do not accept their turning into the wise old crone aspect gracefully. That is putting it politely. It is common sense in my circles to leave strong smelly perfume off if visiting a new mother. Expecially if one wants to hold the baby. Smelling that stuff on LO was triggering my sense of mother bear but also (midwives observations from years of experience) affected my bonding. I will apologize for the anger - if she respects the boun…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 04:19 PM
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Some people are just selfish. Selfish people cheat.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 08:48 AM
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Post Partum can be hard on the men too. They do not get nine months of carrying their offspring around in their body - much less the needed hormonal adjustments. Add to that the sometimes openly anti-male atmosphere and the disrespect shown during the birth. Did you curse him during birth? Screamed at him? Did you call him Names? did you throw him out/let him be thrown out? Did he get ALL info on procedures or did you decide alone and over his head? Make no mistake, this kind of shit can take su…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 09:58 AM
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My Mother is the most well dressed person I know. She is also quite frugal, she does not spend outrageous amounts of money but invests in some good quality classics. (sometimes in well, lets say risqué colors, but always colors she can pull off) She also knows how to sew and where to get help with it if necessary. She loves second hand shops. I never forget when I first started teaching she gifted me a linen dress. It is cobalt blue and I found it the most boring, 80-year old style thing. Well, …
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 09:52 AM
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The coming weekend will basically consist of preparing for Samhain/Halloween. My MIL and her Sister will be staying with us for up to 2 weeks to relish in the rich culture scene here. (One concert and three theater shows are booked already.) DH and I have been looking at some old, unused nooks in the house and we discovered how nice and spacious the attic is, so perhaps there will be some action on it soon...
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 09:42 AM
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I love my Tribal Dancing. Especially as a post partum workout. (I never knew that it takes the body about 9 months to recuperate fully after birth and one should be aware of it when deciding on what sports to start up with again) ​ >. Making fresh sparkling lemonade at home I should try that sometime. Do you have a recipe? ​
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 03:54 PM
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I am a teacher. I have a doula certificate (and the knowledge to back it up), I keep myself current on both topics. I would caution against becoming a teacher. It can be so so so rewarding, fun and great but not in todays multiculti culture that allows little pashas to terrorize whole schools.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 03:49 PM
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enlist family members or friends to help you freeze meals/ask for frozen food do you have access to a room for yourself? Can you use the nursery as your woman space? hire a cleaning lady, ask your friends family to do it ​
/r/RedPillWives16/10/18 09:22 PM
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I am now officially a fully trained Doula!!! Working in the Hospital 5 hours a day was tough with a baby but DH and I made it work and we are all stronger for it. Unfortunately I need to get myself my own car so I do not have to depend on public transport. Or steal DH´s car;)
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/18 09:18 PM
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I talked with coworkers and substituted cheap cookies for good quality tea. On ocassion I bring in self baked cookies to enjoy for all. My DH has a salt-tooth, but he has set a firm budget (3 euro per week) that works well for both of us. I have a hedgehog in my purse anyways, keeps me from buying junkfood.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 07:26 AM
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I will never relinquish control over our finances again. Should have listened to my mother and my aunts back then when they told me to do so. There was their wealth of experience and I ignored it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 08:46 PM
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Basically they get to improve skills necessary for the job. Or additional qualifications employers look for.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 08:55 AM
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He new for some months that he would be jobless. He wrote a few applications (around 4) but when he got only rejections he did not put in any effort anymore. We will fall not HartzIV in 4 months if he does not find a job. Currently we get unemployment money wich they did not pay in full cause he does not apply enough. Retirement Age is 68 currently but 70 to 72 is being pushed for currently. we are both 27 Years old. So Retirement is way way off at this point.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/18 08:54 AM
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I second what the others said. I want to add that you might want to take up self care, a new hobby, an interesting art, get current on science/art/music/politics whatever you want etc. Improve yourself and broaden your horizon.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/18 05:27 PM
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Did you recive an apology for being yelled at?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 08:57 AM
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Did you apologize ?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 08:56 AM
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I did not want DH with me in the final stage - something he enthusiastically agreed upon beforehand.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 08:54 AM
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Name calling is not necessary in order to give birth! There is no excuse for it and the damage it does is profound!
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 08:53 AM
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I am in Doula Training. I witnessed a birth where a young man was being ostracized for being there , desperately wanting to help and yet not wanting to get as hands on as madam wanted. She called him things that made me blush, blaming him for the pain and her problems. (Very out of shape, not able to properly squat) since her midwife was capable I focused on the father to be. In the end I said: I think now a sincere apology to your man is in order! Madam stared at me dumbfounded.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/18 08:52 AM
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I will monitor his wine intake. We are quite flexible but if he is to find work then it is most likely in our general area (read about 2 hours commute) as there are the steelworks and other potential employers. at least report in for Unemployment and not lose 50% of his pay. I applied by proxy - read I filled out the forms, had him sign and sent them off. But he will need to attend the meetings if asked so - we shall see. He's totally lost and needs mentorship and a swift kick in the ass. Hopefu…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 05:55 PM
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. How long has he been in a total funk for? I can only guess as I was truly in the fog while post partum. But I have the suspicion that the situation with his brothers is at least partly influencing it. The trigger was the refusal from a company though. Have you held him tight and told him that he's your hero, and that you have total faith in him? I did that when his batch of applications were returned negative. Afterwards I encouraged him to write more, better ones and offered to second - read …
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 04:26 PM
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I can return to the school I taught at before giving birth in two years. I did Doula Training and I plan on supplementing with that. Doulas are currently high in demand and I can offer courses on nutrition as well.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 04:19 PM
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And he's studying for exams that have something to do with certifications he wants to get for his job and he doesn't want to leave or be distracted from that. . How does his desk look? Is he able to find what he looks for? Maybe you could make some containers, binders etc. Or brush up existing ones. . Company. Get comfy in the same room and do something productive or relaxing. When I did class preparation or doula training DH spent time with me in the kitchen/livingroom reading or doing somethin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 04:29 PM
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I will force my doula training (one week long workshop to go until I get the license!) as that would offer me free agency and very adaptable hours. It would not be enough on its own for long but at least we would be able to hold off depleting our small cushion.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 04:16 PM
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. I mean by genuinely being loving and accepting even if he never gets a job again. I would be unable to respect him. I was raised to never accept laziness in either myself or those I associate with. I mean we are 27. I am a teacher and he was a worker in a steel plant. He worked mostly as an industrial electrician. Those are normally very sought after. It just takes effort.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 04:06 PM
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Gently, are you sure that your body is accepting it? A good fit pill wise would not make you moody and anxious. Wait three months and consult your doc.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 08:03 AM
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I have been there so so many times. when I did my teacher training I was so burned out by it that I was not able to do much after coming home. I did the preparing on the couch or in the bed whenever I could while he read a book or just soaked up being together, I streamlined the household and made sure to keep everything simple and orderly.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 08:01 AM
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Did he give a reason and a timeline?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 07:54 AM
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I have a big big pot of carrot soup on the stove. About 5 times more then I wanted to make but I got bored by breastfeeding today.......;) I will ask my SIL to put it into freezer (ours is full already)
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 07:53 AM
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His father has been voicing just how disappointed he is in his eldest Son being unemployed while doing nothing to change it. He offered to go over his documents and improving them by getting rid of errors in writing and wording, looking for how to show off his strengths. His brothers are a different matter altogether, there has been animosity for years over my DH being the eldest who took a lot of time away from their parents, the youngest still living off their parents and the middle one being …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 07:48 AM
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I have 5 applications ready to go. More are in the works. But I am realistic - me being a mother will massively influence my chances.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 07:36 AM
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. make this an opportunity for him to reinvent himself/ as a launch board for an exciting career or an opportunity to start his own small business. The Arbeitsamt tried to do that. He refused. I encouraged him to take advantage of it but he remained passive.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 07:35 AM
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A well tired out child will sleep on a plane. Or at least behave well if properly entertained.
/r/askMRP12/08/18 08:54 AM
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alright.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 12:40 PM
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Sounds like the 9 month old is Satan himself;)
/r/askMRP05/08/18 07:14 PM
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Child should have powered itself out BEFORE boarding. fly during the night or during regular bedtime. music and coloring pages/some quiet toy read to the child no sugar the day off and a pillow/blanket with Lavendel scent Some suggestions for a relaxed flight without drugging the Child.
/r/askMRP05/08/18 07:10 PM
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I am depriving him of a strong, supportive father figure and positive male influence. Do you have brothers or uncles or good friends? I think the proverb: It takes a village to raise a child is true. Especially for boys.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 10:39 AM
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I had my LO. It was and a good birth fast and furious Post Part Part I.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/18 02:36 PM
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only in a ringbinder! I am a classic model of the "can not begin a blank page"
/r/RedPillWives28/07/18 02:34 PM
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I think today children are not taught to be grateful anymore. Maybe you could start doing a gratitude log and boast about its benefits? Gratitude is not a one way street!!!
/r/RedPillWives28/07/18 02:32 PM
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YES! But most of that is how how he was raised. I am currently working up the courage to tell my DH that I will not take on the job as his personal secretary - he should bother his boss about hiring one again.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/18 02:26 PM
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I did it - Until DH was annoyedly it. (is not able to tell me exactly what he does not like/makes him uneasy)
/r/RedPillWives28/07/18 02:22 PM
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Being of a different faith I would like to wish you all the best.
/r/RedPillWives20/07/18 10:40 PM
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Try tribal dancing. I always wanted to after seeing my midwife do it. Henna my hair. (DH is usually very willing to apply it. Guess everyones inner child loves playing with goo/mud;)) visit an art / history industrial (do not care - rally ) exhibition. LO is pretty low maintenance once in the sling.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 10:37 PM
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. and am genuinely proud/interested in the work he does. I think that is the most important thing.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 10:28 PM
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I think that it comes down to willpower. Use your strong will. . Obviously I am strong because of my past but how does that not automatically emasculate men who come from good homes? Why do you assume you would emasculate man? Nothing you wrote indicates you would. I see AWALT as a ready made excuse for being weak willed. I strive to go against it wherever I can.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 10:19 PM
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I understand you. DH and I worship a number of male and female Deities. We are Heathen/Asatru, I lean more towards Gaelic/German/Norse he is full on Norse/Slavic. Women are held in high esteem for their Work at home and in the garden. At the Troth, Sumbel and Thing our voice is equal to that of our men - but normally married couples speak as one.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 06:12 PM
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I look at the muslim states and see failed states. Some races are just inferior - no matter what. It shows in their whole history, their ideology and their actions.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 07:07 AM
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I will continue my Doula training when my LO turns 3 month old. I can take him along for the seminaries - I did most of my practical work already. Doulaing brings me over the summer if I am let down for it. (Common practice in Germany, let the teachers go on welfare for the summer and rehire in the Autumn...... )
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 07:01 AM
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May I suggest becoming a Doula after your child is born? It can get you some money and you can easily do midwife training later on too. I do not like people who do not cultivate their intelligence and potential. In my experience most of them land themselves in huge financial trouble if there are problems.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 09:58 PM
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Ask him to also help you plan the room. (For most men nodding if they like it)
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 06:23 PM
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3 Days ago I gave birth to my LO. PP is going great. DH, LO and I spent the evening of the day we got home in the garden unter a big tree for shade. We did have some issues breastfeeding but the midwife sorted it out quickly and our healthy, hungry little boy has calmed down quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 10:47 AM
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Seconded. My Sister was not happy about me trying her apple cider 3 days I gave birth. But I think that since LO is hearthside now a small cup is alright.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 10:30 AM
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Do you really have less time for the marriage? Or does your Hisband have a problem with your job as such? Many men feel threatened by Counseling especially Marriage Counseling. Could you switch back to work years later? Can you both comfortably live on one income? Do you have a nest egg/saved money/money that is yours alone that would last you until you find a new job if needed? To me his demands are a big red flag.
/r/RedPillWives15/07/18 04:22 PM
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anything that is not just mint.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 09:16 AM
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Scum damasks itself sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 09:12 AM
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Well, I am aware f it and I have my get the hell out of a cheaters house - nest egg. I hope I will never have to use it but I am prepared nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:19 PM
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Well, a cheater runs into it headfirst. There is no value he can provide after it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:17 PM
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The foreskin issue is not about feminism but antisemitism. Lately also cause it hurts muslims feeeeeelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:15 PM
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Tiramisu! To your work? Surely your SO´s workmates could also help;)
/r/RedPillWives14/07/18 10:53 AM
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For the soft birth waves running through my Body. They are not strong yet but they are constant now. My Midwife! For a bright sunny morning
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 06:12 AM
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Well, those are the women that the newspapers talk about being raped by rapefugees later on.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/18 02:40 PM
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Please educate yourself from less state controlled sources. Take a stroll around Duisburg Marxloh, Duisburg Bruckhausen, Dortmund Nordstadt etc. Spent a day in a local Open Air Swimming Areal in Bochum Wattenscheid or Bottrop. https://jungefreiheit.de/kultur/gesellschaft/2018/in-duisburgs-grundschulen-werden-deutsche-zur-minderheit/ http://www.pi-news.net/2018/03/duisburg-fachkraft-folklore-mit-macheten-und-eisenstangen/ http://www.pi-news.net/2017/06/warum-luegt-die-funke-mediengruppe-so-dreist…
/r/RedPillWives11/07/18 12:36 PM
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Try it in Duisburg Marxloh, Bruckhausen. Not Fun. But please, do continue sleeping.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/18 03:46 PM
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What have you done for yourself lately? Self Care is important. (Nourish your body healthily, unwind after stress, take long walks, fresh air and water are important too) The thing is I really am being effected by his moodiness. I simply don't need it right now. "Honey, I need to take a good long walk. Be back later" and exit. . He knows about my impending operation an the serious medical issue with my dad but he has told me it's not as important as us. Family is important. Both your own and you…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 08:47 AM
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This is real. Sadly. But the Germans are asleep still. Not all of them though, there is a group of awesome men and women that resist.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/18 08:38 AM
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I do have a stash of money my DH has no access to at all, but I know that he has one as well. (Red Pill anyone?) I remember my mothers word: Keep your CV shiny, earn as much as you can and never lay all your cards on the table. Otherwise do not bother coming to us when your DH cheats.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/18 12:58 PM
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Might be, still, I do not think it is a high quality book. It gets the job done - Acceptable.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 08:29 AM
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. I've been making sure to try to keep things as normal as possible around the house. That is good. I also think that you need not search a job - if you do not want to. He clearly sees it as not necessary.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/18 02:40 PM
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OP, a lot of your issues are easily rectifiable by hard work and dedication. But your whining and self pity is not helpful. . but I have no money to buy these things for myself, and she refuses to but these things for me, even though most of them are necessities. What is a necessity to you? Make self care products yourself. There are tons of DIY´s out there for shampoo, skincare, makeup etc. Growing up, my parents never put me in any activities or taught me to have any interests besides reading …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/18 09:47 AM
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. Some of the tips are strange, but I think the overall message of removing clutter to make cleaning easier to be very helpful. That is true, but Mrs. Kondo or her ghostwriter is no good author.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/18 09:13 AM
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Thanks for the information, I will certainly check it out.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/18 09:13 AM
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My Aunt gifted me books from Mari Kondo - wich I do not like. I find the author to be arrogant and cold. Some of her tips are good, how to fold clothes etc. but others are not so good.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 06:42 PM
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We are not Americans but the weather is the best -so we went to a concert and fired up the grill afterwards.
/r/RedPillWives05/07/18 06:39 PM
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I teach Hauswirtschaft. (Home Economics) and History. I am licensed to teach all grades and administer all exams. But currently I work at a Hauptschule (most basic school) in a not so nice district. More for the challenge then any other thing, any idealism left after two lessons. I was able to lead my current class though their final exams and then do the Mother Time. Their former teacher was unable to deal with that bunch of ragamuffins. When (if) I go back I will probably stay with the upper g…
/r/RedPillWives04/07/18 01:59 PM
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Why not suggest a media free time?
/r/RedPillWives04/07/18 01:47 PM
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. You can try talking about it, if you are certain you can do it without putting any blame on him. Good luck with that... I do not like to prowl around an issue. There needs to be open communication. In a healthy and constructive manner. Your suggestions reek of manipulation to me. I resolved the issue by having food on the stove/the cooler and water in a carafe on the table when he comes home while I give him time to truly arrive. On many days I even come home 15-25 minutes later then him - mos…
/r/RedPillWives04/07/18 01:43 PM
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IN the 50/60s we had guest workers from turkey wich really tried and succeeded with integrating themselves. Their children, and grandchildren in some cases, went to school, learned the language and got jobs. (Most of them followed their fathers and lost their jobs when the heavy industry went down. Pretty much the core of the region) But the 3rd(partly, 4th and 5th generation turned to religion to find meaning and identity. After EU we had the Roma and the Libanese Clans settling here. Then 2015…
/r/RedPillWives03/07/18 03:43 PM
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The Ruhrgebiet - wich is where I live, is quite different. Here we have massive amounts of migrants/Ex-Gastarbeiter whose 3rd and 4th generation never fit in. Some towns are still quite nice, others I would not set foot in without massive preparation.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/18 01:44 PM
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My DH and I decided to go the route of his faith and have a betrothal including a hand fasting for a year and a day. Now we are waiting for the Standesamt to have an open slot so we can get married officially. We anticipate early or late August depending on when I give birth. There will be no prenup as I will stay at home with he children at least until they are three, with the current situation in Germany most likely until they are in school. If he had any inherited things he would want to prot…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/18 09:53 AM
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Here in Germany walking along the street in a normal summer dress is ill advised. Public pools are no go areas for women and men alike. Even my niece got advised that her attire is immodest for school. A normal dress slightly above the knee and no cleavage!!!!! But I know where it comes from. Merkels new Gold Pieces!
/r/RedPillWives03/07/18 09:46 AM
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I am always amazed at how some women struggle so much with the "hypergamy". I see hypergamy as an excuse. It gets thrown around here too much. You have a will. Use it. Exercise it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 01:34 PM
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Then you need to insure that things like the sock issue is avoided by having socks in only one color. She could also suggest a capsule wardrobe for him and lay out his clothes as an act of service. (If he agrees)
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/18 04:13 PM
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I grew up with a brother who is also on this area of the spectrum. I think that he displayed the same behavioral originality as the Husband of OP in regards to socially appropriate conversation. But he was also able to acquire knowledge of more appropriate topics as not to push others back with highly academical stuff. He did not like it - but he did it. I agree with you though, no two people are the same and any kind of change needs to come from him. But it seems like his parents never cared ab…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/18 09:33 AM
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We spent two weeks on Usedom and Rügen. I love the Baltic Sea.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/18 12:44 PM
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Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/18 12:36 PM
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I think that I DO have a good understanding of Aspergers. I might however lack understanding of men.......;)
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/18 12:34 PM
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Here in Germany we have diseases coming up wich were all but extinct. Many Docs do not even recognize them anymore! I will vaccinate as advised and keep away from those I know to be against it. (as well as high risk people )
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 11:43 AM
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Children Flea Markets for the Win! Some need a bit of a freshen up but children grow insanely fast.
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 11:38 AM
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Being a vegetarian can be quite cheap - at least here in Germany where I live. We do not have coupons but our cost of living is supposedly lower. (Food only I reckon, sure as hell not renting / buying and the upkeep of a flat/House. ) Buy things that are in season. And place an add in the newspaper that you are willing to take of in peoples excess harvest. (I just got 15 kg of Tomatoes from my DH´s Aunt that she can not use.)
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 11:35 AM
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How about a Salad?
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 11:30 AM
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. But I don't want to make that seem like he is a bad person. It does not sound like it at all. You seem to love and respect him very much. Like, his fashion sense is terrible. Ask him if you two can comb through his wardrobe Mari Condo Style. I found her way of arranging clothes makes it easy to find combinations that work aesthetically. For the Socks, buy plain black ones and let him mix and match to his hearts content;) . 'Yeah, I know most people don't really engage back in those conversatio…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/18 11:26 AM
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I took MIL to the Midwife appointment this week. The midwife was able to talk MIL down from her latest tree (you want to sit outside with the child when it is barely two weeks old? It will get sick and die! - as long as LO is cozy fresh air and daylight are healthy and good. For both LO and Mama! Besides, during summertime, Midwife told us, many parents keep their LO´s in clothes that are way too warm. Something that sounds logical) and patiently explained my birth plan to her. There is a good c…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/18 10:49 AM
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That is ok, I think it will be easier for me to worry about myself and the task at hand without having to worry about DH as well.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/18 09:56 AM
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I am a traditionally social democratic woman who is deeply patriotic, loves, respects and cherishes her Husband and her unborn child. I know that you lot are a lot more level headed and to the point then say relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 09:18 PM
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Hopefully. I will not have her attending the birth and I will not be the Hostess during Postpartum. Those are my two points.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 05:37 PM
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Thanks for that advice. Gives me something to ponder.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 05:28 PM
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I think this will interest you......https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/8s91ez/not_sure_i_can_look_at_my_husband_the_same_way/
/r/askMRP20/06/18 03:49 PM
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I can not understand women who deny that there is a hostile world waiting to take over and installing the rule of the cursed book. (IF you get my drift) Everyday here in Germany people are murdered or harmed and yet people deny it. lulled to sleep by the politicians and the "general public". She should hold her clap and hope no Bückbeter rapes or knives her!!!!!
/r/askMRP20/06/18 03:09 PM
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She is an energy vampire and I have no need of one of those. Either she behaves or I keep my distance.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 02:28 PM
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I have told my DH that 1. if she tries to attend the birth she will find herself set into the fresh air ASAP! 2.I will stay at my Sister´s House after the Birth if HE does not draw the boundary. His total lack of spine angers me. He is able to push for what is important for him - but I get pushed aside. Talk about a selfish person. I have been a good wife to him and he should be loyal to me - above his mother. But since he is apparently too weak I will go into Mama Bear mode myself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 02:27 PM
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What I hate about it is my DH´s behavior he regards his mother as a goddess without fail. He truly is a closeted mothers boy. I do not know how I missed it in the vetting stage. My Fault entirely. He got very big ears when he heard that food comment and got truly nasty when I snacked berries. I gave him the book my midwife recommended with its large section on food and nutrition and went my merry way.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 02:00 PM
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best tip for those of different persuasions: offer lots of vegetables including corn and tomatoes! Potatoes with rosemary are delicious and easy to do. be prepared to have the women at the table and the men around the grill chose a day without Football plays - at least no important ones or set up the TV so the men can indulge.....
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 11:46 AM
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. I think my "Birth Plan" is incompatible with her level of comfort. She can be quite narrow minded about my DH´s and my belief system so a "primal" birth for lack of better explanation, with a rope from the ceiling, me trying to walk as long as possible and optional birthing pool might be too far out of her comfort zone. you need to try to find a way to tap into his protective instincts. I already tried that. But he took it as personal offense on behalf of his mother. Maybe a talk with FIL is i…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 11:38 AM
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it sounds like there's a big gap in understanding since he's calling you "hysterical. That is what concerns me most. I do not know how he arrived at that conclusion. I do not want to Bragg but I had excellent control on hormones and moods so far. My Cravings are very much low impact and sex is frequent. I have been very thoroughly in choosing the hospital and the midwife - but I thought he was on board with that. His SIL went into 6 weeks of "reclusion" for lack of a better term after she gave b…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 11:28 AM
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Frauke Petry from the Afd. Until she caved. Now the Wife of Guido Reil. Both women are smart, feminine and right wing.
/r/RedPillWives20/06/18 08:02 AM
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Thats what I love about a good brunch. Afterwards a nice art/other exhibition and you are all set.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 07:58 AM
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How to optimally use the football worldcup to your benefit. use your countries flag to keep out the sun. Almost every flag can be used as a shade on the windows. do the folding and ironing in front of the tv. fans make great kitchen aids. My Husband is sitting in front of the tv and peels potatoes for dinner. He has already asked to do the carrots as well.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/18 03:33 PM
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Wow, I am stunned. I thought TRP was all for owning shit. HE aus the one driving dangerous. (Where I am there is a hefty fine on driving over stop signs cause it is a danger) she is the backseat driver. Not the one doing DGNNCDGJ
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 03:22 PM
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He suffers from dissociation if he truly believes to be sensible of the danger. Maybe he should talk to people who lost loved ones to the streets. The other idea, to gift him a safe driving seminary sound good.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 03:18 PM
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Even if her perspective is clouded - he does not seem to make the connection at all and disregards her concern completely.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 03:17 PM
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He does not take your position into consideration at all. My FIL worked as a driving instructor and he has a zero tolerance policy for the shit people like your husband do. Hopefully his driving will never result in injury or death.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 03:16 PM
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I think you need to address it. Now. But you need to be smart about it. Ask him what he thinks, feels while he drives. It does not sound like road rage but maybe he hs such a /full head/ that he is in overload and misses important signs. Whatever it is, once he says it out loud he might make the connection himself. If that does not work address that you have OBSERVED concerning to you behavior. Do not say I feel or other vague things. Just state your observations and let it sink in. No blaming, …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 11:47 AM
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I think it would probably more worthwhile to ponder if cutting it into a long pixie would work better. Especially for letting it grow out.....
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/18 08:33 PM
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I think we should, apart from being the best wife possible, strive to show that to his family, his employer and his friends as well. If they would call him stupid for cheating and blowing such an amazing marriage up it makes for a strong incentive to keep it in the pants.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/18 08:10 PM
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Courthouse wedding - but in a location of our choosing (several being offered by the town) In the evening we celebrated in a barn with good food, drinks, and some entertainment. (Many of his workMates tried their hand at speeches, to various success. My Mother also spoke)
/r/RedPillWives13/05/18 11:02 AM
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Why not sign up for a fancy cooking class or a "men barbecue /grill class" ?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 10:49 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 05:49 PM
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I love our vegetable garden. And the fruit trees. We recently added a pasture right behind our property to the land we use - mostly harvesting elderberry and herbs. I wear trekking pants (Blue) my brother gifted me - they did not fit him and I love how many pockets they have. Tops are mostly beige, white or soft pastel colors.
/r/RedPillWives11/05/18 05:44 PM
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. Problem is we’re tight on cash and I have trouble finding cheap plans. This seems to be the main problem. Look for old recipe books - most of them have very filling meals with inexpensive ingredients. For the vegetables - look at the season calendar and stock up. Your fridge is your best friend
/r/RedPillWives10/05/18 08:57 AM
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I wonder if men are unable to perceive a woman love as such. They look for different expressions of love - do not see them and assume Women are unable to love.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 08:54 AM
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I found a truly well written article concerning the topics Housewife /Working Mother and male role models . It is in German so you might need house google translate. https://www.erziehungskunst.de/artikel/leserbriefe/unterstuetzung-statt-vorschriften/ https://www.erziehungskunst.de/artikel/fruehe-kindheit/kinder-brauchen-vorbilder/ https://www.erziehungskunst.de/artikel/leserbriefe/plaedoyer-fuer-eine-aussterbende-spezies/
/r/RedPillWives07/05/18 11:21 AM
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I can understand both of you. Working , even as a mother can be a wise choice. If you could get a job now - how far are you along? Do you have a maternity time? (Mutterschutz?) if yes it will make taking up a new job right now most unlikely. Can you keep and improve your CV? Take some schoolings, do certifications or learn how to type with 10 fingers while staying at home during the first time. I Here is what I am going to do once the baby is born. I am currently a teacher in a not so nice schoo…
/r/RedPillWives07/05/18 10:48 AM
1

I used my Sisters Dry Shampoo to no effect. I generally try to keep myself as toxins free as possible - but sometimes drastic measures have to be taken.
/r/RedPillWives07/05/18 08:41 AM
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I will try that, as soon as FH is out of the house;)
/r/RedPillWives07/05/18 08:40 AM
1

That is great! I know that my FH and I will probably aim for a larger family as well.
/r/RedPillWives07/05/18 08:39 AM
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Any Ideas how to get the smell of woodier/coalfire out of my hair? I showered and washed it about 5 times already and it is still smelling strongly.
/r/RedPillWives06/05/18 10:37 AM
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Trust me, I was terrified when I found out that the baby I will give birth to soon is a boy........ But seeing other mothers with their boys gives me confidence.
/r/RedPillWives06/05/18 10:36 AM
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Breakfast and midday meal is cold/leftovers. Mostly bread and topping. (In Germany the evening meal is called Abendbrot wich translates to evening bread. ) In the evening we eat a warm meal. I always like to keep it between one to two hours maximum, unless it an be left alone. Then everything goes.
/r/RedPillWives05/05/18 02:49 PM
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You can take her along just as well as the boys, if it is warmer many playgrounds have the water on. Or you could go swimming, visit a faire, go to a climbing park..... the possibilities are endless.
/r/RedPillWives05/05/18 02:46 PM
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I think it is a good thing to try for more kids. But the truth is, depending on ones ethnicity people will make judgements.
/r/RedPillWives05/05/18 02:43 PM
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We see it every day, those muslim boys are raised like kings while the girls are looked down upon and get harshly disciplined. I speak from experience as I teach in a school with a 20/80 quota, a hard thing to do. That makes for completely out of bounds, disrespectful boys who do not listen to female teachers at all and scoff at german male teachers as well. The girls are easy to handle if there was not the issue of frowning at those who dress less frumpy as them.
/r/RedPillWives05/05/18 02:26 PM
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where I live more then 3 kids are eyed wearily - cause those families are mostly from the Near East and their disciplining is reserved for their female children. We will try for a second 24 Months after I give birth.
/r/RedPillWives05/05/18 12:12 PM
1

I used to work as a nurse for the elderly, a horribly underpaid job with the certainty of burnout/multiple bodily issues guaranteed, no one really wants to do (guess why?) I was raised to value money and I know I can get by even on that meagre income alone. Early on I learned the value of buying good quality - even secondhand or for a higher price rather then buy cheap stuff and replace it. Or if all else fails I make do with or without and improvise. We are now financially sound and able to kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 10:35 AM
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Men who are able to appreciate other peoples work, especially that of their wives - are more likely to receive gratitude and respect in return. It is, unfortunately a common problem that women feel marginalized and unimportant as housewives. So taking housework as a real work and respecting it for what is might go a long way.
/r/RedPillWives16/04/18 09:22 AM
1

I think we are way too concerned about our kids, a good kindergarten and a part time job are certainly a good combo. Children from 3 years on need to interact with other children and yes - it is good for them to get to know difficult people as well.
/r/RedPillWives12/04/18 04:46 PM
1

A true SAHM nowadays is only possible if the wage is way in the "rich" strata. (Estimated 7500Euro monthly). Otherwise it is next to impossible. I am of the strong opinion and my SO shares it, that a child above the age 3 is able and actually benefits from going to the kindergarten/Kita. This gives me the opportunity to work at least part time.
/r/RedPillWives12/04/18 03:01 PM
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. My husband’s parents took it a bit too far and forced him to eat food he hated that gave him ulcers. There’s some balance, but most Americans have swung too far to the other side. Finding Balance in anything seems to be a lost cause nowadays.
/r/RedPillWives11/04/18 08:21 PM
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That reads like a drug induced vision. One thing that always frustrates me is the fact that my SO is a picky eater. He has no medical issues just does not want to eat cabbage in any form, complains if there is onion anywhere near his food, potatoes are "too plain unless it is a sweet potato" etc. I was raised way differently, I had to eat what was standing on the Table or lay in the fridge.
/r/RedPillWives11/04/18 02:28 PM
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I get up an hour earlier on Saturday then in times past (5:00) and spent the hour meditating, reading or wandering around outside. When I come home my SO usually has the breakfast prepared and we eat together. (His way of thanking me for my support during the week and adhering to his erratic work schedule during the last months. Alternating shifts are the worst, especially as I try to be awake, pretty and with a hot meal waiting when he comes home no matter if night or day.).
/r/RedPillWives08/04/18 10:18 AM
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OK
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 06:06 PM
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Unfortunately not thought far enough! It is not about true politics, or groups. It is about saving the country you live in, your identity, your freedom.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 01:58 PM
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Those docs, engineers and healthier then any others people, yes.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 12:58 PM
5

As a woman? NO! Do NOT go out alone after nightfall!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 06:49 PM
1

As a Latina you have nothing to fear from those patriots.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 06:47 PM
3

Fact is they are almost all men, young men full of testosterone and the poison that is the Muslim faith. Women are considered to be lower than animals. Therefore I always keep pepperspray in my pocket and pray. Cause they are not stoppable.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 09:56 PM
2

Banned by SJWs and Teddybear throwers! Everyday young women get brutally raped and knifed by Merkills guests.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 01:25 PM
9

Woman fromGermany here. Although I am from a city in the western part of Germany I do know a bit about Berlin. Many comments here are influenced by the news from the late seventies to the early nineties. Nowadays there is a resurfacing of conservative ideas. In large part thanks to the rapefugee Flood. But you will need to dig around a bit to get info on that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 01:23 PM
2

That is not Captain Material. A Man who is enslaved by addiction should get to the WHY of his weakness and start DOING! something about it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 04:09 PM
1

Sitting around while others work and still telling them they are lazy made me mad.
/r/RedPillWives29/03/18 08:02 AM
2

It is all a matter of moderation
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 06:47 PM
3

In Germany it is quite a bit more complicated. I hyphenated my name, this way at least part of it shows up in the academic search engines.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 06:45 PM
2

My DH is the complaining one.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/18 06:13 PM
5

120.000 Hours of hard work down the drain? IS that not too high a price to keep a husband happy and respected? No one will associate the research she did with her. It would be a monetary loss as well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 06:06 PM
6

She is a highly acclaimed researcher and since we have a very restrictive system her academic degree is under her maiden name. Changing her name would mean there is no longer a Frau HOJKSFKGNKFSM.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 10:04 AM
0

I refuse to eat flesh that is considered Halal/Kosher. I am not cut out to be a complete vegetarian - but seeing how it has to be slaughtered for those makes my stomach turn. It is not quick.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 05:35 PM
4

My Sister will keep her name - here in Germany she would have to sacrifice her professional portfolio for taking her husbands.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 05:32 PM
1

DR. Oetkars Basic Cookbook
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 10:30 AM
1

Not women are doing their best to prevent an abolition of this truly barbaric practice! It is all Gutmenschentum!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 10:08 AM
1

I always try to have a hot thermos with tea ready when my H goes out on Mondays. Standing in the cold and fighting for our freedom is way easier with something warm to drink.
/r/RedPillWives18/03/18 06:57 PM
1

I think it is a matter of priorities. Does everything need to be always spotless? Do you need every single piece of clothes everyday? Most likely no. I was taught to look after everything I use and put it back. I regard it as common curtesy to the person who has to keep the house. My H thinks like this too and takes care of his "footprint". Maybe this is something you can do as well.
/r/RedPillWives18/03/18 06:54 PM
6

If the whole department gets outsourced tell him that. You did not make the decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:48 PM
1

The circumcension thing has to do with know - towing to the muslim scum and too much groveling before jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 03:41 PM
14

Hopefully your Husband is a level headed and mature person who is able to distinguish between his Wife and the Operations Manager who is just as floored by the news.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 12:49 PM
11

So that she looses her job as well for unprofessional behavior and spilling company secrets? Does that really help in their situation?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 12:44 PM
2

Most men do not. But being appreciative is hard for them anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/18 07:25 PM
2

Some of those Gutmenschen around here think that even bared calves are too much of a temptation for those poor, unloved rapefugees.... Thats why I am a bit jumpy when someone mentions covering up. But of course you are right, appropriate clothing is a must.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 01:04 PM
3

I stood with a host of patriotic women. It was liberating to not feel like I have to hide myself with them.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/18 08:03 PM
2

. we are living in a "rape culture" That will be true for Germany - when those muslim/rapefugee hordes will take over. Covering up - I can not hear this any longer! I do NOT say run around with your bust tumbling out and barely a backside cover - but if we dress with muslim modesty standards in mind it will mean the end of all we fought for in Europe. The Ideals of the Renaissance and the Age of Science.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/18 07:57 PM
1

Well, that is the other extreme. Why do people not know how to keep a happy medium? In everything?
/r/RedPillWives09/03/18 11:29 AM
1

Then slow it is. Do not beat yourself up over it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 11:26 AM
5

. possibly being a bad wife because I have limits where sex is concerned. Everyone has limits. It is a sign of self awareness that you are able to categorize them. . I'm okay with testing limits or pushing boundaries but I need it to be done slowly. How is that controlling? I call it a good compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 03:40 PM
1

http://www.pi-news.org/2016/07/01/as-free-as-the-muslims-allow/ http://www.pi-news.org/2013/07/05/extremist-muslims-hijacking-or-reclaiming-true-islam/ These texts are only some examples.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 03:36 PM
1

I have come to the realization that I am a right wing, patriotic feminist. I see too much ass kissing the Muslim faith here in the red pill spheres. If we, as the civilized west, want to survive we must stop the hordes. ASAP. For that we need everyone. Young, old, male female. I honor and respect men — and I expect the rights state bestowed on us,
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 02:41 PM
2

Hopefully you will also teach her that those nasty muslim boys that harass her and her friends (both male and female) are not real men but pampered pashas.
/r/RedPillWives08/03/18 11:54 AM
1

I work with children, I have seen the impact addicts have. She did the necessary thing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 10:58 AM
0

An addict actively doing under the influence of the substance has NO! Place being around children. she did right telling him to leave for the night.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 02:47 PM
2

Be selfish, the healthy kind, and ensure your wellbeing. Care for yourself, eat healthy, do your hobbies, work out and deal with your baggage. You can only model the desired behavior, either he does as well or he does not. Also, please, shield your children from the addict. Addiction can cause horrible damage in children as the parent is not truly there. And kids need both father and mother.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 02:44 PM
1

I use about a teaspoon full. I do it about twice a months. Results are not visible instantly but my doc definitively saw a difference when he used the marking color.....
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/18 11:11 AM
2

Cna not comment on the braces themselves. But for oral hygiene I love oil pulling. I am prone to tartar even when brushing extremely well, my teeth are just sitting so tight that not even dental silk, much less those nifty dental brushes work. But the oil pulling lessens the problem big way.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 07:02 PM
2

My Sisters both planned their M.S./M.A. Thesis right around their pregnancy. I found that paralegal was not the way for me - despite parental influence, and proceeded to become a teacher.
/r/RedPillWives04/03/18 03:01 PM
1

Ok.
/r/RedPillParenting01/03/18 10:46 AM
1

http://www.moonmysteries.com/moon-cycle-chart.html The PDF can be found there.
/r/RedPillWives28/02/18 01:16 PM
1

I track my cycle on a chart wich also shows the moon phases and allows for noting down mood and general health. If anyone is interested I can link them.
/r/RedPillWives28/02/18 11:12 AM
2

I am about 8 weeks along. Found out in week 6 when my period did not arrive even a week later. Doc confirmed. I never really allowed myself to hope for a child, at least not without massive trial and error and medical manipulation as I have a messed up cycle from the HBC I used. But apparently my body was ready after 9 months off the pill and only two trial cycles. I'm curious about how involved your husband was in the whole trying to conceive thing (beyond the obvious contribution 😂). I caught …
/r/RedPillWives28/02/18 11:09 AM
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It is good that you value your baby more then your desire to loose weight right now. Your baby needs the milk wich your body provides to be as nutritious as possible. I would focus on what you eat right now rather then how much you eat. Nuts, Resins and eggs were what my midwife told me to prepare as snacks for post partum. Wich for me is about 7 months away.....
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 10:37 AM
0

I think a lot depends on your willpower. It is one thing that differentiates humans from animals that we can act against our instincts and follow reason. Every point <ou just listed can be refuted with your will. I will doXNot do Y.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 09:54 AM
2

I used to sit model for my aunt who works in the field. She loved how I was able to sit for an hour without flinching, stretching or complaining so she could test out updo´s.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 02:59 PM
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I made it clear from the beginning that I expect commitment and exclusivity before engaging in sexual activities.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 01:20 PM
6

to be women he's been with. That is NO! in my book.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 01:17 PM
3

As soon as they cross the boundary between friendship and affair. I like the book "Not just Friends" and I have laid out clearly what is considered cheating by me. . I would pay the price by coming across as controlling and insecure, and ultimately less loving and attractive. Sometimes one must pay for the good things. Your marriage, Life, Health physical and psychological and Sanity among them.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 01:16 PM
2

Sometimes he softly pushes me to more reasonable and comfortable shoes when I was leaning towards heels. With me he always wants me to put up my hair during summer. He even tried, once mind you, to braid my hair. I spent about two hours and a flask of cheap conditioner to get it detangled.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 01:07 PM
2

How much influence does your boyfriend/husband have when it comes to your wardrobe? None. He likes my style, even when it changed and evolved as I grow in age and personality. Do you ask him for suggestions, does he give them yourself or is he even choosing an outfit for you on some days? He sometimes asks for a certain item but his taste is more "colorfu"l shall we say. What if he does not like certain pieces of clothing you wear, do you stop wearing them? No, I do not stop wearing items I love…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 01:05 PM
1

Well, there is something called self control. A very good thing.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 04:39 PM
2

Of course you should be the best wife at home - but it helps to have others see it as well and insure that he gets told what he has.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 02:22 PM
1

feel sad that he (as are all men) is hardwired to be the most attracted to women in their early twenties and I fear that he will begin to wonder what is out there. My worst nightmare is that we have kids and then he leaves me for someone 10 years younger and leaves me a single parent. Show off how good of a wife you are to as many people as possible. Insure that he would be seen as stupid and reckless if he cheats. . I live in a country where alimony doesn't exist so he could do so without any r…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 10:36 AM
1

What Women are you talking about? Most likely only those that throw teddy bear at the §$%§$% that invades righteous countries. But they ARE NOT! a majority. Many women fear the gym cause they are overrun by rapefugees.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 01:33 PM
2

Some people are just not able to get along. Sometimes no one is at fault, personal values and personal beliefs just do not match.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 11:47 AM
1

I did rosemary salt on Christmas, was a big hit with my uncles. Just cut Rosemary twigs, crush them and put them into salt filled jars. shake it. It might take 2 - 3 weeks until they are at maximum aroma but usually you can prepare them the day off and recommend to open them later.
/r/RedPillWives16/02/18 06:19 PM
1

Can you brush up your Portfolio, make it really really good and keep it "fresh"?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 06:34 PM
2

:)
/r/RedPillWives13/02/18 07:12 PM
1

Well, it is about thinking about you. I would feel like I do not matter.
/r/RedPillWives13/02/18 01:01 PM
1

Did he invite you to a nice cup of tea or coffee so that you have something as well?
/r/RedPillWives12/02/18 01:59 PM
1

Please, hone your intuition and start to read books on self-care.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 01:56 PM
1

How should I carry myself as I continue dating and losing the weight? With confidence! Now is the time to experiment with style and color. Now is the time to take on hobbies and find friends. Get yourself educated and care for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 12:34 PM
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First you need to get to know your most wild, primal and uncivilized part of yourself. You need to learn to listen to it, learn to see "Female Craziness" as an advice to your consciousness. Example: I get horribly moody and have bad cramps on the period after a stressful month. At first I just tried to fight it and then ignored it afterwards. A few times and then I nearly broke down from the Stress. Another Now I listen to those things. Same with that little voice, or the pictures, moods, feelin…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/18 07:50 PM
1

fairly grim commuter town Not good for raising a family in! Especially girls.... nor does he have a degree that could open things up for him abroad Would it be feasible to get the qualification? How long would it take? Has your Husband looked into it? . he would need to look into finding a job - but he never initiates research to this effect. If that is not possible, he might want to look into looking for similar jobs in affine fields. That would make me nervous as well. Can you get a part time …
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/18 05:32 PM
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I think to be truly able to allow oneself to open up one needs resilience to bounce back from hurt and negativity and Intuition. Cause being vulnerable is like a blood trace in the water. Those that mean harm know. I have seen it too many times. I am Abe to let my walls down but I also let my intuition tell me if something is off. Intuition is a wonderful thing, one of the female strengths. It takes nurturing and self control but it is a great aid and guide. Maybe if more women took the time and…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/18 05:13 PM
1

Are there any other physical factors, like birth control? I have seen many good female friends morph into horrible people while on HBC. I have a messed up cycle now after 1 year of HBC trying myself through most options of it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 11:40 AM
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Do not live together with someone without having lived independently for at least a year. Do not move in with someone. Search a new flat together and make it a home for both of you! Set a fixed date for marriage before searching a flat.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 11:24 AM
2

I think that I too do not belong into a fixed box. I can pull good stuff from anywhere. I identify as a patriotic social democrat with heavy concerns regarding current migration and violence sprouting up in my country. I am grateful for those who fought fro women's voting rights, but hate the double standard in regards to the islam that is being forced on us. I love my Husband and deeply respect him. As a person. But I will raise the child I carry to be self respecting, loving and smart individu…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 11:13 AM
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