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WonderingFairy/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 01:46 PM
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You want someone who is not superficial but at the same time you think you’re settling for a specific type of woman (below average looking or whatever it is). That’s not very consistent. No one likes to feel like a piece of meat being ranked by their partner. If you want someone who isn’t superficial you must abandon this mentality yourself.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 01:04 AM
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The fact you think you’re worse than someone just because of height is really depressing. You’re more than a vessel and don’t have to be a stick to be great.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 01:01 AM
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I don’t really care about height. My partner is not exactly short (5’6) but I have found males of all heights attractive. Granted I’m short myself (5 or 5’1”) so even short males end up being taller or not seeming that short in comparison. I feel like too tall is also a thing and can harm the physical side of a relationship if there is a big gap height between partners because of how awkward it can become. I have felt insecure about my own height as a female before and I know it’s still probably…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 12:57 AM
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Yeah, that really is all you care and talk about
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 04:37 PM
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Because that’s all you talk about and that’s not love.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:41 PM
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With people who see others like a piece of meat like you do, I’m glad others have more power. What a disgusting thought process. It’s all about fucking for people like you. Your thought process and mind is what makes you bottom of the barrel, not your looks.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 03:06 PM
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This is called having a balanced mindset. Just treat people well and be kind as a human knowing some possibilities and correlations experience on your mind and then make the final decision evaluating a concrete person. I think you’re good.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:15 PM
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Omg love, he made you get plastic surgery? Wtf. What made you stay? He is the biggest red flag ever. He sounds absolutely deranged and honestly good riddance. It’s great when the trash takes itself out.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 02:25 PM
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That guy recently died and though I don’t wish the death of anyone it is good that guy does not produce content anymore. It has led to so much harm to women. I am really sorry you are a victim of this TERRIBLE thought process. You are not an object, you are a woman to love and be loved. Try to keep away from this idiots.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 08:04 PM
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I am so sorry this happened to you. This sounds like some Kevin Samuels bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 07:30 PM
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Personally I prefer the opposite because I want someone close to my level of experience and I’m a romantic.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 08:33 AM
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I am sure that’s why you commented on that exact theory and adopted that idea and engaged with it 5 minutes ago in the red pill subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 01:36 PM
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Except you did. You literally called other people betas just because they value the partner they have in one of your comments.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 01:32 PM
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I ask you the exact same question. You only seem to to be here to shit at other people. You comment history consists of bragging, separating the world into alphas and betas, dropping biased conclusions based on cherry picking red pill stats.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 01:28 PM
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You did exactly the same thing and you are the caricature of a red piller. Just look at your comment history.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 01:08 PM
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He didn’t say that
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 01:05 PM
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Well redpillwomen subreddit also exists. But I understand your confusion. Red pill women are like a turkey celebrating thanksgiving. But it exists, believe it or not.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 05:44 PM
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Let’s be clear that your problem with these women are not just values, but your own ego issues just like the vast majority of these other guys who think the same. The only reason why this is one of the red pill things you can’t seem to shave is because you still view intimacy as a power game to lose or win as you’ve internalised this movement’s ideas. You start from a premise which is debatable of women not being rejected and just accepted and the premise that women aren’t sexual beings unlike m…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 12:20 AM
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There is the usual idea that whoever asks, pay. But obviously this means that people who have the guts to make the first move end up paying and spending money on someone they might never see again, so it can be unfair. I think it’s ok if you don’t want that. Also, I think everyone should keep in mind this is just a date and paying for it. I don’t get why someone else would reject someone for something as small as not paying for them in the first date. I don’t get why so many people form these hu…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 06:44 PM
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Opening up is not a turn off for me. It’s a good sign. It helps to bond with someone if you’re mature. It humanises someone and it makes connection deeper. If you can’t open up with someone, they aren’t really wife/husband material because they aren’t really family or your safe space.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 08:14 AM
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I think this has to do with the type of women you attract. I was interested in my guy from the beginning and he didn’t have the habit of being hot and cold. I loved all the attention. There were zero games involved or manipulation. You need to be genuine and have pure intentions. Look for a playful female friend and you will find your wife. And be creative about the places you meet people. Think where your type of women spends time or does. This is one of the paradoxes of red pill. It focuses on…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 07:37 AM
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If trashy people make you want to be trashy just because you’re not getting your way it also says that you’re not being honest when you say the getting to know phase is what attracts you more. Just my 2 cents on it.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 05:54 AM
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If this is what’s keeping you in the red pill just think about how many guys do this exact thing. How many guys sleep with women and are full aware they have someone else on the side? Infidelity and disloyalty happens in both sides. There are very promiscuous people on both sides. I am really sorry that happened to you. I hope she didn’t leave you feeling less than. Focus on being a good person. I would suggest you not to get tied to stereotypes. Just because someone is a virgin or a church girl…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 08:06 AM
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I wrote the same in a blue pill Reddit and I got way more comments
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 06:27 AM
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What bothers me most is the concept of financial gains making morality invisible. Check my post on Kevin Samuels on it.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 07:34 AM
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Don’t boast about money or be too generous until she proves she likes you. Done.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 09:55 PM
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It works for casual and short term relationship. The problem is they analyse female nature, shame it and then try to attract them. What’s mind boggling to me is that they try to attract the same shallow women they criticise and get their point proven because they only attract shallow women. They never learn to find the type of women they dream of. And so, they keep finding the type of woman that confirms their ideas and whom they despise because those are the ones they learn to attract.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 03:50 PM
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How old is he out of curiosity?
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 01:36 PM
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I’m 19 and guys have told me I’ve hit the wall online. You’re good. 😂
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 06:01 AM
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You guys should check out some posts from RedPillWomen. Some of them are enablers for this crap. So many posts are women getting used by “alpha males” and disrespected by these guys in marriage and at the same time bullying “betas” (I hate this language that’s why the “”). Basically it’s women who eat up Red Pill and end up becoming shallows of a human beings and enablers for abusers and men with an ego problem. I was banned for literally pointing guy a woman should leave the relationship of her…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 02:32 PM
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I know you don’t want kids but you’d make a great mom or mentor. You’re super inspiring.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/21 09:46 PM
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Thanks!
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 11:52 AM
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I wouldn’t mind being a caregiver to someone I love. The problem is the extent of it. To think that you can be someone’s nurse while you may also have kids to raise on your own, the guy cannot play with them anymore and I sacrifice my career progression (an possibly my finances to take care of my children once I’m on my own) and have the prospect of spending 20 or 30 years alone as a widow. And those are very real and almost certain things even if you have a somewhat good relationship. The suffe…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 08:41 AM
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Don’t do bald guys like that. That’s mostly genetic
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 08:36 AM
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I am a young woman and wouldn’t want a guy over 10 years older and neither do I want to spend 2 decades as widow in an empty bed. I wouldn’t mind being a nurse for someone I love, but doing so when we also probably still have children to raise or I’m just starting to grow on my careers by default is nuts. If someone truly loved me they shouldn’t okay with this extreme sacrifices either and date someone closer to their age. Your 20s and early 30s are the best time to find a partner. You start tog…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 01:18 AM
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Being self sufficient is enough. Not all women have crazy high standards of living or need a lavish lifestyle.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 09:45 PM
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Personally I’d never be interested even if a guy like that had any interest. I have never found men the age of my father to be attractive to me even though they might be attractive for their age. But I cannot speak for everyone.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 09:44 PM
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I 100% agree. I am not one to go to bars very often but once I was approached by this 24 year old guy (not an old guy but I was barely legal at this point) who was a colleague of a short course trying hard to pursue me. He would throw these very similar red pill lines and I thought this guy was completely messed up. He once asked me if I was jealous of my little sister (she was like 4 years old and a child at the time!) because she is going to be more good looking than me in a few years. These s…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 09:23 AM
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I think you’re way too immature and reluctant to commitment for her. At this stage you messing around with someone who clearly wants a serious relationship, possibly marriage and kids, would be selfish and wasting her time. I think this relationship has no long term future because your mindset is merely infatuation and pick conflicts super easily. This situation in particular might not be something worth breaking up over but the overall arching theme of your fear of commitment and clear differen…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 05:11 PM
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😅😅😂😂🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 05:49 AM
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You’re an idiot. We both look like both of ours parents. Just because people around you are messed up and cheaters does not mean that other people’s parents are. I actually look a lot like my dad.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 05:44 PM
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We have the same father. We look identical. You just lost all your finances with that bet.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 05:23 PM
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I have seen some polls made in YouTube Community tab of red pill channels asking what they would do if they were women. Men themselves answered they would be on Onlyfans making money. The hipocrisy…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/21 06:47 AM
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I don’t support Onlyfans or sex work at all but I also do not create a demand for it. If they don’t like it, then don’t feed the industry. I find it disturbing that some people spit on the plate they eat from.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 10:32 PM
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💯
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 03:49 PM
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My mother gave birth to me at 28 and to my sister at 42. Between us, my sister was born healthier and stronger while I was born with a heart condition and struggled with health in the first year of my life. My sister looks very alike to me and is healthier. I assure you she doesn’t look like a rotten egg at all. My mother is close to 50 and is still fertile.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 07:42 AM
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Kevin Samuels is even worse in my opinion. His entire career is based on image and making yourself seem better than you actually are. He literally shamed a woman for leaving her cheating husband. Only people with very little compassion don’t understand what cheating does to relationships and that money does not buy you character.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 08:23 AM
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Don’t feel pressured to lose your virginity. Stop connecting your self worth with women. Your worth as a men has nothing to do with how many women you can attract. You are more than a body made up of meat and bones. Focus on things that make you happy. If a girl rejects you for your height be thankful because you don’t want someone shallow. My guy is 5’7 and I’m happy. Throw those insecurities away and improve what bothers you if it’s possible and have fun.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 01:48 PM
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Stop connecting your self worth to women and sexual experience. You cannot control your height. If she is shallow to the point where she will exclude you for it all I have to say is: good riddance. You don’t need people who don’t want you. I understand attraction can be influenced by shallow parameters like these but turning down a whole man for a few inches seems like a very shallow thing to do. Maybe some women rejected you because of your height. Who cares? You cannot grow taller. Stop pursui…
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 04:35 AM
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I’m not a feminist but this kind of stuff is exactly that movement came to be. Behind every radical movement there is a lot of suffering behind it. In the case of these guys it seems like an inferiority complex that can only be covered by putting another person down. Truly sad. These guys should never have women to reproduce.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/21 10:18 PM
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I’m not a guy. But I have met the love of my life when he was not caring about women or other people anymore. Live your life, take a chance if you like someone but expect nothing and do you. Maybe you will also meet the love of your life, maybe you will just be living your best life on your own but whatever you are doing it will be on your own terms. That book is interesting, I’ve read it too. Read the book “can’t hurt me” by David Goggins for the next step in focusing on achieving your goals. T…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 05:06 PM
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Who said he was a high value man? And from all we know they have a business together so his value is connected to the woman he just betrayed. Looks like he stops being a high value the moment she choose to get back at him.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 09:33 PM
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If cheating is never right as you say why would knowing the cause or full story (which might not be any beyond his ego and selfish desires - as his behaviour and choice of words to his wife indicate) would justify it? Your comments are so contradictory.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 09:29 PM
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The guy literally cheated on her. How doesn’t that deserve any blame? Where did OP screw up? Please explain
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 08:53 PM
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I agree with the part of independence in your last paragraph but that is not what’s advocated in the red pill community. OP seemed that she practiced the red pill way of living and got used. You do not need the red pill to learn to take care of a man. I never took it and I have healthy relationships with men and women. The bad about red pill is that the explanation has to do with evolutionary biology which focus primarily on survival (and that involves shallow criteria for partner selection and …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 08:49 PM
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Welcome to the problematic side of red pill. You have been brain washed into submission, blindness, shallowness and an egoless approach from your part to serve an egotistical, selfish and self centered partner. Now you are trapped, hurt, older and with children who force you to continue being selfless. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you realised that maybe you should stop relying on men to be abused and dishonoured and maybe be without one for a while and get some self respect to leave s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 07:56 PM
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