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| 74 | The main criterias women use when it comes to selecting a partner for casual sex vs. relationship | Question For Women | WonderingOrion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 15 | Dating strategies : making the first move | Question For Women | WonderingOrion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game. | CMV | WonderingOrion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | A man's greatest achievement | CMV | WonderingOrion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | The best way to end a date | Question For Women | WonderingOrion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 12:30 AM |
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| – | CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re notWhen confronted with that fact, most women will answer "but I know plenty of average guys who are dating" or "my friends are dating average guys" but you never here any of them say "I'm dating an average or below average guy myself". See where this is going ? That's how you know this bitches are lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | The Modern Gentleman’s Dilemma: Why Confidence in Women Starts with Understanding ThemWell said, I think what you said is a great way to start having healthy relationships with women and people in general. On the subject of confidence itself, I think there are a few elements I can add that I've experienced myself : Be honest. I believe the first step to becoming more confident is to first realize we spend our time lying to ourselves and to other people. The moment you start realizing that, you understand that honesty is the best way to solve your issues, because instead of worryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:15 AM |
| 3 | What causes dead bead bedrooms in your opinion ? and are they preventable ?Because in order for love to grow and to maintain a healthy sexual relationship, it needs to be entertained and people are too lazy to do it. See it as lighting a fire, if you don't regularly feed it with wood and keep an eye on it, it will eventually die sooner or later. People think that the intial flame in the beginning of the relationship will last for ever but don't understand that you need to invest time and energy in it to feed the relationship. And instead of becoming a nice big warm fir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:45 PM |
| 15 | How do red pillers explain the average guy being in a relationship?Because these men (Fresh and Fit, redpillers,...) are not talking about serious long-term relationships. When you listen closely, you understand it's all about getting as many women as possible interested in them to hookup. Proof is none of these men are happily married with a beautiful wife and 3 children despite being well into their thirties. They ony want to stay single and always have options to fuck whenever they want with whoever they can, and it often happens to be the same 22 year old p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Are average men really desperate for sex?How would you feel if you had 500 million cells in your genitals that were moving and agitating themselves all the time and your body was producing new cells everyday and the only goal of this whole energy was to propulsate itself forward and go out ? Can you really imagine that ? That's how the male sex drive feels like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Do women often assume if a guy isn’t salivating over them that he must not be very interested?Man, the date went well, you spent the night talking to her and you didn't even try to kiss her or give her a hug at the end ? No wonder she believed you weren't interested. No need to be all over her and try to jump in bed right away, just act when you feel like it's appropriate and if she responds positively you'll know she's interested. I'll give you 2 tips : 1. During the date, just look at her into the eyes and smile while talking, you'll see her reaction and it'll tell you a lot about how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 10:44 PM |
| -1 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.Agreed to some degree, we get influenced by the people around us but the fact that we grow as individuals is totally dependent on us. Some people barely evolve their whole life, some take massive leaps. Whether someone has the potential to grow into a great person is intrinsic to himself or herself and is a sign of a great person. People with potential to become great tend surround themselves with people who'll help them grow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.I'm talking talking about finding the best mate possible and in order to do so you need to take her young because otherwise she'll be taken really quickly. I've know plenty of age gap relationships that worked because there's a genuine connection between the 2. Agreed that some men are creeps and want to hook up (and not date and commit) with young women but that doesn't imply that all men in a relationship with a younger woman are predatory. Agreed that most women (specially the greatest ones) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 02:05 AM |
| -4 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.Agreed, I never said all young women are great I said if they're great they're taken off the market early. If she makes bad decision on something as important as the person you're going to have kids with she's probably not that great to begin with. Agreed. Disagree, I'm talking about intrinsic quality of a person, you don't become a great person just because your spouse is one. Once again I never said young women are the greatest, I said the greatest ones get taken out of the market early. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.I'm not fool enough to send photos of myself to strangers on the internet. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.I didn't mean hooking up with 20 year olds, I explicitly talked in my post about committed relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:07 AM |
| 4 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.Agreed, people on this sub like to claim that 20 year old women are attracted to 30+ year old men whereas from what I've witnessed I believe young women are mostly attracted to men around their age age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:05 AM |
| -5 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.Women mature faster than men but overall yeah all the great men are all taken by I'd say 25. I wouldn't say all the rest are fuckless losers, some definitely are but there's a middle ground I think most people fall into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.Man dating is so fucked up haha. So what would you say are the signs a woman is really interested when you ask her out and not just being immature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 09:28 PM |
| 2 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.And on the flip side, it's very immature to say yes to someone who asks you out while not being very interested. Edit: I mean the person being asked out not really being interested in the person who's asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.I didn't say women shouldn't do the first move, I said a woman who has an easy time making the first move might not be that attracted because otherwise she'd have felt that instant attraction and would have a hard time asking the guy out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.They might not be that interested then, because if they had the instant attraction they'd have a hard time making the first move too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.Whether the woman is traditional or not, the feeling remains the same. That's why nice guys go for women they don't really like because it's easier to talk to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 2 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.I didn't say that, in fact I explained in the beginning how this experience feels like for women. I said that in order to act on it, a whole lot of strengh and courage needs to be gathered. And men are expected to do the first move in this situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | The argument isn't about "Nice Guys", the argument is about whether or not decent men are getting laid.It's easier to go for women you're mildly interesting in. Imagine seeing a man and just going "sploosh" in your panties to the point you're unable to say a word. That's what men feel like when we see a woman we're really attracted to yet we have to make the first move. We're not talking about getting to know each other for a couple weeks then getting to decide whether to date or not, we're talking about an instant attraction (and instant boner) so deep everytime you see him/her it's almost paral… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character?On one hand you say you want your man to be widely attracted to you, on the other you want him to lie about it. Pick your poison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | If women hate unwanted male attention in the public - why do you wear sexy clothing ?Honestly, you know what does seem to attract harassment? Looking nervous in some way. Creeps think that makes you an easy target. Exactly, I've always felt this has something to do with insecurity. All the women saying "it's because they want to feel sexy or confident" reinforce this assessment. There's an insecurity /confidence /self-image issue at the core of this and they're trying to compensate with clothing to feel better about themselves. However the issue lies within, not on the outside, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 3 | If your man watches porn because he has limited to no access to sex with you, there is a 0% chance that you can pity yourself for the situation you got into.So how would you like a man to react in these situations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 02:53 PM |
| 6 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.That means 69% of men and 81% of women were sexually active in the past year. I wouldn't call 69% "a small subset of men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 12:25 PM |
| 9 | For men who feel lied to by society about women, can you give examples of things in popular culture you feel mislead you?Women care less about looks that's why they paint their faces with tons of makeup. STFU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 04:12 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyBTW, watching you speak I can guarantee there's no way in hell you know how to lure a man into bed, let alone a HVM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazy"EVERYONE IS SHALLOW" That's where you're wrong, you only meet shallow people because you're shallow yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyAgreed, this all sounds like a big pile of lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 10:43 AM |
| 2 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyGood luck finding a LTR high value partner once you decide you're over and want to settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:17 AM |
| 4 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyHonestly, sounds like you're single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/21 03:06 AM |
| 4 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazySo you're chosing men based on how much they want you instead of chosing them for how much you want them ? That's pretty shallow. Seems like you're only seeking validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.There are as many men desperate for sex as there are women desperate for male attention. Here, I fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 04:55 PM |
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