WonkyBoot Archive

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7	Redpill men and Pick-me women. Part of it, I think is because deep down, most men want a someone who stands up for themselves and have their own sense of self...or at least provide some sort of challenge, because people who challenge us help us grow. Pick-me's are basically serving themselves up on a platter and saying "here we are, ready to serve you however you want" I'm sure there is more to it, but this definitely seems like something that tends to happen.	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 01:32 AM
1	Self worth Most women want someone who is a good listener and someone who is caring person who has passion for life. I think the most important thing is to figure out what gives you passion or joy in life, and learn how to bring that into your life on a regular basis. Do things that make life fun and interesting. Then learn how to build your self-esteem and health, it will be easier when you have fun things to look forward to.	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/24 07:58 PM
2	Is escortmaxxing a good way to deal with emotional pain, have fun, and be adventurous in life whenever I’m feeling lonely, will it ruin my chances of finding a long term relationship, and will bragging about it on social media make the women who know me jealous? I've seen interviews of some escorts talking about how men use them as therapists, so some escorts do end up taking counseling courses and go to therapy themselves... It's not fair that they have to do this (if ut is something they are interested in, then thats different). Its definitely not in their job description, and they shouldn't be used in this way. Go to therapy to heal yourself...and if you enjoy escort services, be sure to pick ones that are self employed and take care of themselves. D…	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/24 08:37 PM
8	How does mental health impact red pill radicalization? People are more susceptible to harmful beliefs when they are struggling with their mental health and loneliness. I feel like RP content also provides a scapegoat because it's (emotionally) easier to blame modern women for every problem rather than face any internal shortcomings. Also being angry at women, is easier than admitting to being sad and unhappy in life. I'm sure there are many other factors too, but a lot of it is sadness and disappointment in life being morphed into anger against wome…	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/23 09:34 PM
3	I’m scared of cheating in this generation I would say the best defense against cheating is to be willing to discuss any issues that come up in a relationship, instead of letting them slide, even if they are uncomfortable. Be honest to yourself about your own shortcomings and find a partner who is willing to do the same...if they are not, then they are not the right partner. None of this is a guarantee that someone won't cheat, but finding someone who is willing to be open about their struggles is less likely to run away and hide from th…	/r/ExRedPill	22/09/23 06:09 PM
2	Advice how to be a friend to a women? Nope, women are very friendly in general, but if a woman senses that a guy is trying to be "more than friends" but is not being upfront about it, that can be very uncomfortable. If you are interested in more than friendship, that needs to be stated upfront. If you just want to be friends, then be a friend, which it sounds like OP already is.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 07:09 PM
1	Advice how to be a friend to a women? I'm not a dude, but yeah starting with the basics (like taking a genuine interest in people's interests) is how you build deeper, genuine friendships and connections... Most people are deeply lacking in the basics, I guess since it's considered derogatory now.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 06:09 AM
4	Advice how to be a friend to a women? This changes things. Since you are attracted to her, you need to be very honest with yourself about whether you want to stay friends or if you wanting to date her. If you want to date her, you need to be upfront about that. Do not, and I repeat DO NOT befriend her with the intention of getting her to date you later. That never works out and it is dishonest to be friends with someone while hoping they will date you. This is how people put themselves in the "friendzone"	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 05:54 AM
1	Advice how to be a friend to a women? I interpreted OP's post as looking for advice on how to develop a closer friendship because he doesn't know how to build friendships. I didn't see the comment about him finding her attractive until now. In that case, YES, he does need to be intentional and upfront about his feelings and why he wants to get closer to her. OP - do not become her "friend" with the intention of wanting to date her. If you want to be friends, be friends. If you want to date her, be upfront about that. This is to save…	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 05:48 AM
2	Advice how to be a friend to a women? Getting to know people is an important part of being social, whether that's for friendship or something more in the future. Why would OP need to have a good reason to want to get to know her more? It is important to learn about and take interest in other people, that's how you build social skills and develop friendships. Friendships and any sort of relationship need to develop slowly and naturally... asking about what people like to do, their favorite music, hobbies, THEIR general interests ofte…	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 03:12 AM
3	Advice how to be a friend to a women? Do it in a conversational way. Don't do: Person 1: Question 1 Person 2: Response Person 1: Question 2 Person 2: Response Person 1: Question 3 Person 2: Response...etc That's weird. OP already knows this gal, so no need for awkward introductions. It's just a matter of bringing up something like "so (NAME) what do you like to do when you're not working?" Or "what are your favorite movies (or bands) of all time?" If you like the same stuff "oh cool, I love XYZ too, have you seen ____? It/they remin…	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/23 01:50 AM
6	Advice how to be a friend to a women? Ask her what she likes to do when she's not working. Movies she recommends. Favorite bands. Any favorite shows or content creators? Her dream job, etc. Just be curious but in a gentle way edit: typo	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/23 08:52 PM