| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to be | CMV | Wooden-World-3151 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 08:52 PM |
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| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not doxxing myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 01:18 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t want to get doxxed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleChad always wins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s funny seeing men and women here fight over how true the bluepill/redpill/blackpill etc is. Where I’m from the women are very based (as the incels would say). They’re very honest with what they want etc. They vehemently hate short men, want taller, handsome men, talk about how toxic and abusive men are better in bed etc. These things are widely accepted and women (even the ones that are the exceptions) don’t deny it. I’ve noticed on PPD women who are the exception (or at least think they are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleNow you’re with your safe beta bux loser husband lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleThat’s because they were unattractive as well. If you’re attractive you could cheat and get away with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleYet a lot of unfaithful are slaying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Men want a woman who is as into him as possible, women want a man who ticks as many checkboxes as possibleLol. The women here are so delusional. You just dismissed statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 11:37 PM |
| 2 | At this point in time women already have complete psychological control over men.If you have to pay for food she probably wasn’t interested in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 11:31 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Time for some PPD gaslighting lol. Right on time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:10 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.Lol you’re fucking things up for guys who now have to compete with relatively rich and sort after American immigrants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen here are always accusing men of going for shitty women but it seems like sometimes that’s mostly what’s available. Almost all the decent women are taken or super hard to find because they stay indoors. You can’t just approach them in the street because they need time to get to know you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:52 AM |
| -1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beSo you admit that it’s something wrong with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:54 PM |
| -1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beIf this is happening with multiple women there’s probably something wrong with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beWe don’t have any moral obligation. You sound like a sissy liberal man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beThey do want to be chased (by attractive men). Also she knows your intentions but your social awareness is also being tested. State your intentions but don’t be rude and offensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:18 AM |
| 0 | Most controversial gender views here are literally just common sense, around the worldI wanted to make a post like this. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:50 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beLol. Will the cops get there in time? Kiss walk away if she threatens you. Just make you do your part by being polite and respectful. Her overreaction has nothing to do with you. It says more about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:50 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beThe men in this sub are so fucking neurotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beIt’s not that deep dude. You ask her out. She’s either interested or not. I don’t care what she thinks. I’m respectful when I approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beLol. So I’m harassing by approaching, greeting politely and even sometimes FIRST asking if I can have a minute of her time, telling her that I would like her name and to take her out sometime if she’s willing and available? Lol What about the ones who politely decline or the one who say yes and then I end up sleeping with or bedding? Lol fuck off. Women are checking out because a lot of men aren’t attractive enough for them or because some are extremely rude and can’t take a no. Fuck off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beYour over thinking it. Don’t be ashamed to be a man. Women already know, think or suspect that you want to fuck them. Who cares who thinks you’re creepy. You’re on this earth to make yourself happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beSome people are just more gifted in certain departments than you. I’ve got Chad friends who get women with a quarter the effort I put in. I might get better marks than them or understand difficult concepts more than them with half the brain power. I’ve also got very accomplished, smart and handsome Chad friends who seemingly have everything. Life isn’t fair. Accept that and move on. I make do with what I have. No time to be bitter, angry or jealous. It’s ok to go through that phase but don’t han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beYou probably also have a creepy approach style. Plus don’t approach or flirt blatantly at work! That’s for warm approach and you wait for signals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beI don’t think being ugly illicit this level of overreaction except for the most crazy women. There’s something wrong with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beYou probably really really suck at it then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beDon’t cold approach at work you moron! Threatening with police means nothing because even if she follows through with that threat you’ll be gone by the time they arrive. Plus the police can’t do anything to you for approaching her unless you couldn’t take a no and kept harassing her. If she threatens you with police I’d calmly walk away. Personally I’d throw in a sly insult for good measure (don’t do this unless you’re me). Also who punched you in the jaw? Learn how to fight or regardless that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair enough but whilst you have them in the palm of your hand it’s awesome. Sometimes they keep you around after getting a bf because the bf doesn’t match up to you (he was the 2nd choice lol). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beI think you should do both. Occasionally approach a woman you consider out of your league. I would just advocate for approving women you actually find attractive regardless of league. That way you’re actually incentivised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beNothing wrong with that. That’s her right. I don’t see what your issue is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:30 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah. Those suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:41 PM |
| -2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beDestroy it in that accept that you will get rejected a lot. Don’t take it to heart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAny man here notice that even friendships with women are better when they find you attractive. In this scenario she wouldn’t be dating you because she’s already taken or you aren’t attracted to her. She treats you so much better. I think a woman who finds you attractive makes for a better friend than a man. You can even fuck her lol. Only problem is when she eventually gets fed up with your inactivity or finds a bf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:59 PM |
| -4 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beYou get over it. You need to destroy your ego | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:55 PM |
| -4 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beAt least you tried. This post isn’t aimed at you but the guys too afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beNo. I’m not going to apologize for being a man who wants to fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beThank you! The rejections piling up can hurt but it teaches you not to take everything personally, to seek external validation less, humility, dealing with embarrassed, going after what you want and facing your fears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beAre you sure that’s 5-10%? because that’s quite a large number. Even if there were only 1million in the entire US then there would be 100k tik toks like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beJust because you’re a lesbian doesn’t mean there aren’t women who don’t want to be approached and seduced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beLol ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach isn’t as bad as men here make it out to beFuck that. I only care about what I want. I’m not going to apologise for being a man. I approach in a polite manner and if she doesn’t like it then she can decline in a polite manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with?You’re just unattractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 07:26 AM |
| – | Dating is much easier than most men make it for themselves, and they are misguided in their pursuits if they value a long-term relationshipYou lost me at “is faithful” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Guys should filter out women who don't show any interest, romantically or sexuallyLol. You’re a pink pilled lesbian radical feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome clarity on my last comment. A woman can take long to get to know you and who you really are. Weeks or months maybe. She may discover that you’re actually a cool and kind person who’d make a good friend perhaps. Attraction has nothing to do with that. She makes up her mind on how attractive she finds you almost instantly. Your personality can still disqualify or push you over the edge but you’re usually one or the other (physically attractive or not). To be honest it’s more of a spectrum. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’re really bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’d like to ask the guys here whether chasing after a woman who wasn’t immediately interested paid any dividends. She can take months to get to know you and realize that you’re an awesome person but if the attraction is not there then it’s just not there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: No amount of dinner dates, money, favors, doing nice things etc will make her fall for you. She either is or ain’t interested from the get go. Most women (with the obvious exception of the PPD ladies here who are about to jump in with anecdotes about their own relationships) decide whether they like you or not within the first 30 minutes (and I might be generous at that). Anything else will result in you being strung along and maybe settled for if she’s looking for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.No. It’s a more mature take than feeling sorry for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 08:55 PM |
| 3 | What would dating look like if there was no fear of sexual violence?Nothing would change but women would be more emboldened to waste men’s time with less fear of repercussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.That’s awesome. Imagine being stuck with the same pussy for the rest of your life. I think you’re just mad that you don’t have options. Partake in the culture and let loose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Social media and dating/hookup culture in the west is encouraging the erosion of the solemnity of long term relationships and life long marriage.That’s awesome. Imagine being stuck with the same pussy for the rest of your life. I think you’re just mad that you don’t have options. Partake in the culture and let loose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 10:37 AM |
| 0 | I don't understand why those fake "bad boy" dating profiles workHow will you use this information going forward? Are you prepared to settle down? How will you deal with your wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Women are more attracted to men when THEY do the chasingAt least you’re self aware | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?Give it another 6 months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Only 4 things matterStop chasing on online dating and let those who go go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Only 4 things matterI haven’t read the responses but they’re (yes men) going to fight you on this and explain why they have to chase after women who don’t complement their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:12 AM |
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