WoodleyWarrior85 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
416	Network with Other Top Guys	WoodleyWarrior85	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/21 05:17 AM
95	Simplicity	WoodleyWarrior85	/r/MGTOW	14/04/18 11:56 PM
30	Why MGTOW Is Superior to "Spinning Plates"	WoodleyWarrior85	/r/MGTOW	24/01/19 06:35 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	The power of media Have noticed all these things on Netflix as well. If you have to watch Netflix shows & movies, just admit (to yourself) you're looking at propaganda and use the time to inform yourself about the latest themes and techniques being used to influence the masses. You will come away better informed about where we stand as a society, and have some observations to share, as you did in this post. Basically, instead of looking at Netflix as passive entertainment, view it with a critical lens, like a scie…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/21 01:35 AM
2	Sticking point: Women more successful than you? I've been on dates with women during which it becomes apparent they are, at least at the moment, out earning me. This can take the wind out of your sails, so here's what I suggest. First, don't give into the idea that she will always be more successful than you. Do you know her full financial history? Maybe she's in debt, or perhaps her parents bought the house. She may not be as far ahead as you think. Even if she is, you should have the mentality that you are going to crush it eventually. You'…	/r/seduction	09/07/21 03:22 AM
3	Live Life Not To Impress Others, Rather Live Only For Yourself. Some people are misinterpreting this post. Having strong relationships is congruent with being self-interested - there's no conflict. Every successful man needs a family, business network, friends, and so on. What OP is getting at - though he didn't explain it clearly enough - is grown men shouldn't optimize themselves for popularity and social approval. You're not trying to appeal to the masses, keep your circle tight. Socializing for its own sake is a lowest common denominator activity. The me…	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/21 01:37 AM
1	Matched with a stunner If you're both normal 20-somethings, then of course she's above you in the sexual marketplace. She probably has dozens of other guys messaging her on Tinder. Your mistake is you're taking this all very seriously. Instead, find humor in the situation. After all, no one stays young and pretty forever (she knows this). Plus, most of the guys messaging her are weirdos like yourself. You don't need to equal her in the SMP in the short term. What you need to do is have a fun time and indicate you're a…	/r/seduction	21/03/21 06:15 PM
5	Network with Other Top Guys These examples are spot on, exactly what I was getting at in the original post.	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/21 05:20 PM
5	You are not a woman. (Mindset, Environment & Frame) Except there exist guys who did not waste their youth and you're just coping Being lower on the SMV totem pole isn't "wasting your youth." Guys enjoy other stuff at this age .. hanging with friends, studying, playing sports, drinking, learning about life .. My point is guys are objectively not set up to "peak" professionally, sexually, or otherwise during their teens and 20s.	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/20 03:58 AM
70	You are not a woman. (Mindset, Environment & Frame) Yup, you are basically talking about Rollo's SMV chart. According to that graphic, women hit peak SMV at 23 while men peak at 38. Guys wrongly expect their teens/college years to be "the time of their life." This fixation on youth culture is promoted by the media, as you point out, because it's true for 1/2 the population (women) and because it justifies young people taking out increasingly large student loans. In reality, most guys are dependent on their parents during these so-called "best yea…	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/20 06:59 PM
1	Pareto's Other Theory If you wonder why Leftism resembles a religion, this is why: it is a replacement religion with human intent at its center instead of a divine being. Exactly. You could also call the 'divine being' Nature, Truth, God .. basically any term that suggests there are principles in life. This is actually the question at the heart of TRP .. Who makes the rules in this game called life? If humans do, then sure let's build a utopia where we're all safe and equal and never have to work. Like it's the Sims …	/r/TheRedPill	25/08/20 03:20 AM
1	From Introvert to Extravert: A guide on going from zero to hero socially I will add that it's necessary to add value within social circles. Unless you're in a situation like college where socializing is basically unavoidable, you're going to need a plausible reason for other adults to seek out your company. Listening and making eye contact is a good start, but we all meet people we acknowledge are good dudes and then forget they exist 30 mins later. Bring something to the table. If you like MMA, help other guys improve their skills and organize fun trips to local MMA…	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/20 04:36 AM
1	Men are Independent The car is just gonna keep running. The man is just gonna be happy. Well said. Before you even worry about career, women, hobbies, and whatever else you've got to learn how to be happy yourself. Hold frame and move through the day in a state of presence. Good things will come from there.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/19 07:06 AM
14	Facebook dating launches in the US There's going to be a lot of doom and gloom on this thread, guys saying Facebook is ending dating as we know it. This type of social media hate is becoming cliche. These apps aren't going any where, fellas. It's now up to us to adapt. To learn Tinder, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn and use them to our advantage. Let's not sit here (on a social media platform) and parrot philosophical musings on social media's role in the decline of Western civilization. We've heard those points made 5,000 times. …	/r/TheRedPill	05/09/19 10:57 PM
5	The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From Women It’s simply not necessary. She wants you to manage it all. Do it well and you will get laid every time. Wait, managing tasks on behalf of women is considered 'alpha' now? Look, I get what you're saying. You want to provide direction in a relationship, and come across as a guy who knows what he wants. That's obviously good. But too often on these forums I see advice like: "You must always choose the restaurant/movie/activity when you go out with women. This shows leadership." In reality, this isn…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/19 10:46 PM
1	How To Get Your Shit Together: A Guide For 15-to-25-Year-Old Pieces of Shit Part of the reason you feel so anxious and helpless is because you have it in your head that you're worthless. Yeah, too many guys believe anxiety is random (like a genetic trait they inherited), or out of their control (like it all dates back to a childhood trauma they suffered as a 3 year old). This view is really disempowering. The more pragmatic reality is many young guys are stuck at the bottom of the dominance/competence hierarchy. They are not contributing to society, cannot meet their ow…	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/19 04:58 PM
7	Why you can't internalize game and what to do about it Do parents want their children to be alpha males? Not really. They tend to prioritize safety over every thing else. Does the TV want kids to be alpha males? No. It wants them to be consumers who spend lots of time watching ads. Does school want kids to be alpha males? Nah. It wants them to be compliant and eventually fit into the system. Do kids' peers want them to be alpha males? Nope. That would mean one less spot on the varsity team and one less pretty girl on the market. Unless you're very l…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/19 11:51 PM
39	Chateau Heartiste Has Been Shuttered in What Appears to be WordPress' Opening Salvo as They Join the Greater Tech Censorship War. Expecting tech companies (who are overwhelmingly liberal) to adhere to idealistic free speech principles is naive. At the end of the day, we're talking about private individuals who 1) are trying to make a buck and 2) are known to be politically polarized. These companies feel Red Pill/alt-right commentators (i.e. Alex Jones, Milo, Stefan Molyneux, Chateau Heartiste) are harming their reputations - thus threatening their ad revenue - so it's only a matter of time until each one is banned. Social…	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/19 01:25 AM
2	Imagine going out for the sole purpose of picking up girls. This is the leadership mentality. Well done, OP. Some guys do live like this, but it's not easy.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/19 09:46 PM
4	The mental health crisis and "boys will be boys." Agreed that the mental health crisis will get worse. I've seen it up close, and we are in trouble. The issue is most schools, media, parents, governments, etc. teach the wrong values. They pass along the Blue Pill, which leads to depression, anxiety, and mental health problems. A healthy person knows truth from falsehood. You can't deny the existence of gender and hierarchy and expect to be a fully functional person. Your worldview becomes warped. You need to know what's going on around you, how…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/19 01:46 AM
10	The mental health crisis and "boys will be boys." Alot of the mental health issues arise from the fucking world becoming soft cocks and having way too many choices, "oh woe is me, why was I born, what am I doing with my life yada yada". This is true. I have seen the mental health crisis up close. Its touched me in a number of ways. Many of the cases result from spending too much time isolated from the "real world." Too many guys are living with their parents or on sheltered college campuses. Guys are financially dependent and drowning in blue p…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/19 01:31 AM
8	Being the Wolf & Being the Sheep in Wolf's Clothing "What's program are you in? Oh, Liberal Arts? Nice, I'm in Honours Health Science. Yeah, it's a hassle but it's bearable." Yup...this was my college experience at a top 20 US university. Most conversations revolved around internships, exclusive clubs, and high-pressure majors. People name dropped to try and figure out if you were a "winner" or "loser." Unsurprisingly, the school has a big mental health and depression problem. What's funny is sizing up people based on external measures of success…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/19 03:17 AM
3	CMV: Insecurity is not inherently a character flaw Rather than writing off people's negative feelings as character flaws, we should acknowledge that credible threats exist to things people care a lot about People sometimes think insecurities only exist in the head. They assume insecurities can be swept away by meditating, "thinking positively," or cutting out trans fats etc. The truth, though, is most insecurities are actually calling your attention to real threats. There is a basis for your insecurities in the material world. Like, if you feel …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/19 11:48 PM
1	Which Sweater Should I Wear? Yup, these types of little tests are a staple of LTR life. Sure, women are capable of making dinner plans and choosing which clothes to wear. However, it's more fun for them if they feel like you are leading and taking them on an adventure. The twist is they want you to make the decision, while also passing a shit test. For instance, my LTR often asks where I want to go to dinner. I propose a specific venue at a certain time. She'll then say "Eww I hate that type of food." Or, she'll sort of agr…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/19 07:27 PM
5	If something about you doesn’t get you laid, get you liked, or get you paid, stop doing it Life is transactional. Women won't give you sex and affection if you can't provide them leadership in return. Employers aren't going to give you money and opportunities if you don't increase their bottom line. You don't get to be the starting quarterback just because you showed up at practice. Winners accept the world works this way, and learn over time to make good deals. Losers delude themselves and decide that transactional relationships either don't exist or are "shallow" and not worth pursu…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/19 02:01 AM
2	All this shit just feels pointless Women in moderation, just like every thing else. Fucking thots is not supposed to be the point of life. That said, it can be an enjoyable way to release some steam once a week. Don't look for the meaning of life in women. Or in any one thing. The meaning of life is found in the whole. It's about your overall lifestyle. It's fine to be laser focused on your mission, career, side hustle, hobbies, etc. You can do this 5 or 6 days a week. I don't see why it has to preclude you from hooking up, thoug…	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/19 02:22 AM
3	Never understood the concept of a monogamous relationship. You're right on the money. The only point of a monogamous relationship is to conceive children. Commitment is needed for child rearing, since pregnant women require financial, emotional, and physical support. Besides, kids really need a functional mom and dad to grow up properly. If you don't want kids in the immediate future, there's no need for a committed LTR. Newton, Voltaire, Pascal, Beethoven, Da Vinci, Tesla, Thoreau, Descartes, Vivaldi, Schopenhauer, Nietzsche, Van Gogh, Sartre, Leibniz,…	/r/TheRedPill	01/03/19 02:51 AM
17	How to delay a plate breaking Have dealt with many of these issues myself. Plates inevitably issue ultimatums for exclusivity. Here's what I've found is helpful. Don't over verbalize. You aren't obligated to explicitly answer questions like: "What are we?" and "Do you have commitment issues?" It's usually best to deflect these questions in a playful manner. Another option is to imply she's overthinking things, and then calm her down with light touching. Also, bring up the feasibility/practicality of marriage. Like, what does…	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/19 01:19 AM
24	Blue pill to Red pill real quick 'Pacs 12 Rules: Rule 1. Keep your enemies close: keep those who are anti- progress, anti-man, anti-truth, and anti-you, as close as you can at all times. The enemy comes in all shapes, colors, and sizes. There’s a difference between a slave nigga and a man. The man is the ruler of himself. He is the controller of his situation’s at all times, even when times are at their worst. A nigga is controlled by his lower desires. A nigga is a nobody. Rule 2. M.O.B. Money Over Bitches: Translated as busin…	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/19 02:25 AM
48	Blue pill to Red pill real quick The "Blue Pill" interview is from 1988. Tupac is 17 in the clip, and had just moved from Baltimore to California. He's living in Marin City, which was/is a nasty little ghetto nicknamed "The Jungle." Tupac refers to "Tam," which is Tamalpais High School in nearby Mill Valley, where he starred in various dramatic productions before dropping out. This interview is part of a series that tracked the children of former Black Panthers. Fyi, Tupac was raised by a single mother named Afeni Shakur. She w…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/19 06:02 PM
12	Time and Money, on Giving and Women It's all about making good trades. I am fine picking up a girl in my car and treating her to dinner, provided she's in my frame. If the girl is pleasant/low-maintenance, not demanding commitment, and compatible with me sexually, then I'm happy. I experience a sense of abundance and want to give to her, within reason. Just don't take bad deals like a Beta Bucks does when he gives resources to women who don't treat him well. Especially with plates, it's tempting to over analyze the situation and t…	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/19 12:46 AM
1	Be Excellent, Then Be Gone The type of hobby dates you describe are fine once in awhile, imo. However, they can't do done repeatedly. You're not going to go skateboarding or surfing or traveling with a plate every time you see her. If you attempt to, you're spending an awful lot of energy on these plates. You may say that you'd be doing these activities any ways, but it's more work when you have a second person along. At some point the plate relationship settles down into more of a "come over, hang out, have sex" type of …	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 07:51 PM
11	Be Excellent, Then Be Gone Basically, don't over-invest in any one woman. Guys make this mistake all the time. Oftentimes, guys will begin with a strong frame, and this is what attracts the woman in the first place. As things progress, however, guys become emotionally attached to their "plate" (who is really now a girlfriend). Without even realizing it, they become clingy and lose the frame of the relationship. The girl wonders where the exciting, sexy, and dominant dude she met on the first date went, and eventually move…	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/19 03:05 AM
2	Giving up on the dream lets you enjoy reality This is a phenomenal post, and a topic that is on a lot of guy's minds. When we have an idea for how we expect our life to go, even an idea we don’t necessarily think about and acknowledge very strongly, and it’s just how we always sort of unconsciously imagined things would be, and then that idea doesn’t work out, we feel a sense of loss. As you allude to later in the post, these dreams are particularly insidious because they seem normal. Like, no one is blaming you for expecting happy wife/hap…	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/19 01:59 AM
8	Wake the Fuck Up and Take Massive Action! I quit cold turkey and then I convince myself that I'm going to smoke just a little and in moderation this time and before you know it, I'm back to smoking all day every day. You need to find more practical rules. "Smoking moderately" is too vague to work over the long term. Instead, smoke weed before bed. And drink with meals or at social events. These drinking and smoking habits are sustainable. They don't disrupt your daily routine. You enjoy alcohol and weed while simultaneously accomplishin…	/r/TheRedPill	16/10/18 11:17 PM
7	Girl Advice and Role Models Pretty much nobody will ever give you clear actionable advice that you can use to improve your love life Yeah. People are - by definition - emotionally invested in their love lives and dating strategies. Because of this, it's difficult for most people to take a step back and objectively analyze how the sexual marketplace functions. I know guys who are totally serious and results focused in business, but when it comes to relationships all standards and reason fly out the window. They make poor de…	/r/TheRedPill	11/10/18 10:40 PM
3	The end of TRP Just imagine a world where all men are unplugged...All the problems that men and women suffer from will disappear and the world would become a better, happier place for all of us and our future generations. It's this type of utopianism and herd morality that created the West's problems in the first place. We don't have to solve the world's problems or wake up the masses. What we need is for individual guys to just stop playing the game. Stop consuming TV shows, movies, news, and other media with…	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/18 02:46 AM
3	If radical feminists had their way it would be illegal for men to form friendships with other men. A lot of guys are already brainwashed against cultivating male friendships. Especially after the school years end, male friendships can get cast as "immature" or a "waste of time." Some guys seem to think they have to spend the weekends with women, otherwise they are a failure or something. None of this is true. Having an LTR and then wife is ultimately about making and raising children. If you're at a point in your life where you want a family, that's fine. If you're not, though, you don't have…	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/18 01:16 PM
1	Is growing up a scam? You don't have to do any thing besides supporting yourself. So, you need to "grow up" in the sense of working and paying rent on time. After that, though, every thing is a personal decision. You don't have to get married, you don't have to live in the suburbs with 2.5 kids, you don't have to pursue the career your parents envisioned, etc.	/r/MGTOW	12/08/18 03:07 AM
2	Came to one of the biggest realizations of my life. My friends aren’t really my friends. Damn Well said. To form social networks as an adult alpha male, look for activities that involve working together with other men to achieve challenging goals. Prove you are competent and add value, and you'll find that bonding comes naturally. Where guys mess up is they try to make friends based on having "a good personality." The reality is saying funny stuff when you're stoned and being "chill" aren't enough to forge lasting bonds once you leave the artificial confines of school. You need to bring …	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/18 03:22 AM
2	LTR's dirty little secret Most young guys don't have the financial standing to make getting married and starting a family realistic. That's why I suggest spending your 20's and 30's improving yourself and enjoying life. Then, when it comes time to settle down, you can do so from a place of power. You enter the LTR market from a place of maximum value and experience, and form the relationship with a clear set of goals.	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/18 03:14 AM
7	LTR's dirty little secret Young guys should take a serious look at the value proposition of any LTR before entering. Because boys: time is on your side. You can get married at 25, 35, 45, 55 - it doesn't matter! That's the good news about being a guy. In fact, our value only increases as the years go by. Is an LTR in your 20s really the best use of your time and resources? Unless your goal is to get married, what are you actually gaining from this set up? Sure there's sex. But there's probably a lot more netflix and chil…	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/18 11:17 PM
6	The Other Side is Better, but Lonelier Modern men spend too much time in low-yield social situations. They fear being alone and thus cling onto friendships and relationships that provide few real benefits. Guys will cling onto a high school friend group full of losers or a "girlfriend" who only sticks around in return for free stuff because these relationships are comfortable and familiar. If you want to improve, you do need to set out on your own. It will be lonely at times, because your relationships stop having the "clingy" factor…	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/18 10:55 PM
4	The Friendship Myth I'm not sure most men even know how to be friends these days. Especially after graduating, guys get busy with careers and girlfriends and daily routines, and start to neglect the importance of building their tribe. By "tribe," I mean a network of high-value men that enjoy worthwhile activities together. Pick-up basketball, golf, building businesses, taking cool trips, etc. This kind of social capital - like other forms of capital - abides by the Pareto principle. Alpha guys can put together a fo…	/r/TheRedPill	31/07/18 01:54 AM
2	Let Go Sometimes we forget we have the power to create our own lifestyle. Now, I'm not saying you can imagine money and suddenly get rich - this isn't magic. What I mean is we choose our thoughts, emotions, and actions every day. If you choose to stick on a negative vibe, then obviously you're going to find yourself in shitty situations. People won't want to be around you, since you're always a downer. You'll thus become lonely and start eating or drinking to feel better. This will help in the moment, …	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/18 07:55 PM
2	Lack of empathy for MGTOW in "normal" society Al Pacino never married. Leonardo DiCaprio hasn't, either. Jack Nicholson was married for a bit in the 60's, but said never again. No one claims these guys are losers. On the contrary, they are cultural icons. Most MGTOW men will be shamed, because they are seen as shirking their duty to provide and sacrifice on behalf of women. MGTOW men at the top of the pecking order, however, are viewed differently. They are seen as independent, sexy, successful, and strong-willed. It all has to do with main…	/r/MGTOW	24/04/18 01:39 AM
1	Selection Bias - Expression and Perspectives on Traditionalism and Jungian Psychology and Its Relevance to MGTOW the problems are only secondarily about income and primarily about rank viz a viz women and the State I agree. Wealth is the most concentrated its been in 70 years, and reproductive success is controlled by a few. So what do you tell Joe 6-pack? "Uhhh, sorry buddy, you're screwed." You can't do that. You have to "blue pill" him with promises of equality and social progress. the thwarting of their natural instinct to reproduce, protect, provide, etc. I agree this is happening, though I am curious…	/r/MGTOW	17/04/18 10:33 PM
1	Selection Bias - Expression and Perspectives on Traditionalism and Jungian Psychology and Its Relevance to MGTOW One thing that might be going on in modernity I think there is a disconnect between the promises modernity makes and the lived reality most guys experience. For instance, despite its endless talk about "equality," income inequality in the United States is actually at its highest level in 70 years. If you're an average guy, you sense this trend. You may not be able to put your finger on it, but something about the West's "equality" narrative seems off. Then you have to consider that women ignore …	/r/MGTOW	16/04/18 11:09 PM
1	Selection Bias - Expression and Perspectives on Traditionalism and Jungian Psychology and Its Relevance to MGTOW the Jungian archetypes and the Hero's Journey probably aren't going to provide them with direction When you write it out, it starts to seem narcissistic doesn't it? All these low-status young men thinking they'll become heroes some day who prove every one wrong. They act like cleaning their rooms and exercising are evidence they are being initiated into some esoteric hero's journey. We need less delusional thinking, not more of it. Telling a young guy that he can lift and meditate and theorize h…	/r/MGTOW	15/04/18 12:34 AM