WoodpeckerLogical187 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Men are harmed by the divorce pandemic really harshly, and it's not just due to custody battles, but because many divorces are unnecessary and because men lose their social network. Tell me how is it you’ve managed to do any emotional labor without emotional intelligence? It sounds like you’ve reached the bare minimum to keep your relationship in tact without having to question your masculinity further. Nobody can make you feel shame, shame is internal. You feel ashamed for being ill-equipped in your relationships, and think simple emotional labor should be talked about, like it requires praise for being practiced. How do women have time to practice emotional labor during t…	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 01:21 PM
1	Men are harmed by the divorce pandemic really harshly, and it's not just due to custody battles, but because many divorces are unnecessary and because men lose their social network. So, men are reliant on women for emotional catering. Meaning if men adopted feminine qualities like emotional intelligence, empathy, cooperation. They would probably be able to keep their marriages, at the very least make and keep real friends. This is a male problem.	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 10:45 PM
1	Devil's Advocate: Women succeeding in university more explained by higher conscientiousness? Conscientise effort to include women in society? Do you really think men in the 70s would’ve been ok with education reform that disproportionately effected young boys? Sounds like you’re desperately trying to make this argument work in your world view.	/r/MensRights	25/12/22 04:15 PM
1	Two feminists criticizing small penis jokes on a feminist sub I am a sub on r/feminist. We frequently scroll through your sub because we like hearing the opposing arguments so we are prepared to address men’s rights activists concerns when we have the opportunity. Like you said, feminist firmly believe that if men’s rights activists truly deep dived into the feminist philosophy, all of their concerns would be addressed. It may not feel comfortable or easily digestible information since it is inherently “a problem with men” but not a “men problem”.	/r/MensRights	22/12/22 04:19 PM
3	My Best Guy Friend is Sucked In. Interesting! Although in my mind it makes sense. I wouldn’t ask a conservative religious therapist help me unlearn conservative extremist rhetoric. He needs a behavioral specialist If he’s dealing with a personality disorder or underdevelopment socially and emotionally.	/r/ExRedPill	13/12/22 05:27 PM
18	My Best Guy Friend is Sucked In. Unfortunately you can’t. He isn’t in the mindset for true self improvement and you can’t force him to realize there’s something wrong. He needs experiences that will spell it out for him. And as long as he keeps using online strangers trauma to write his life story he’s gonna keep having negative experiences. He needs a therapist. I doubt he would be willing as psychology is a female dominated field. But if he has internalized these thoughts about women and won’t respect your opinion, then all y…	/r/ExRedPill	13/12/22 12:45 AM
1	Successful guys vs Unsuccessful guys Also, have you watched gay porn? There’s and equal amount of casual violence as straight porn, because that is the sexual narrative most popular with our generations trauma.	/r/ExRedPill	19/11/22 06:44 PM
1	Successful guys vs Unsuccessful guys “Pretty ignorant” it’s porn dude. I have a problem with the porn industry, what kind of people it attracts, what kind of narrative it’s spreading. But bottom line is porn is a form of instant trigger oxytocin. It premotes self gratification and lowers the consumers value of sex and standard for sexual partners. subconsciously replacing viewers habits as they’re brain rapidly dissects the video and gives feedback. Sure there are a good amount of videos that are wholesome couples in bad lighting d…	/r/ExRedPill	19/11/22 06:27 PM
2	After watching House of the dragons, honestly see redpillers point of view, regarding the fangirls for Daemon Targaryen Well here’s a good learning opportunity. There are women who believe in redpill, no matter how many toxic men they go through. It’s just what they learned and what they’re use to. Men who treat women as less then probably aren’t going treat their daughters any better, so why would said daughter want or be accustomed to different treatment? Generational traumas are hard to recognize by yourself, sometimes it takes first hand trauma infliction by the opposite sex to get help and unlearn the things…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/22 06:01 PM
1	Successful guys vs Unsuccessful guys There are definitely issues lmao. The entire premise of porn is catering to a man’s desire to have a women willing to do whatever they want. And women acting like this on screen for money, doesn’t do sexual violence any favors. What men learn in porn can never be translated to real life relationships because, it was written by a man. Obviously the pros outweigh the cons for many female actors, and women have their own sexual interests in mind, but abuse and unhealthy power dynamics are normalize…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/22 05:54 PM
3	Am I a looser? Horrible advice! You shouldn’t be giving any to anyone trying to detox redpill if you haven’t done it yourself. Get out of here with that “no money, no muscles, no bitches What op needs to do is learn to accept that sex is a commodity, not an expectation for life. And the only way it’s gonna bring tangible fulfillment to your life is as a tool to build spiritual and physical intimacy in an already established relationship (not necessarily on a long timeline) Women are people and they need to tre…	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/22 05:34 PM
-18	Unpopular opinion: incels are justified in feeling frustrated We’ve heard this one before. I’m sorry, but you’ve been duked. If you as a person NEED the attention from the opposite sex to survive then you are in the wrong. The only problem here is an incel assuming that there is something wrong with not being sexually active. When in reality there is a large amount of men and women not having sex. For a multitude of reasons. And society as a whole would benefit from understanding what makes sex worth while and how to do it in a healthy way. Because atm the…	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 11:57 AM
1	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). Hon, trauma doesn’t do that. Trauma doesn’t set your brain straight, it warps your thought process so that the things in life that are hurting you are easier to handle. And you can’t do anything about the people who have extreme views based on the other gender centered around trauma (the #killallmen feminists are usually survivors or sxual abuse and traumas). Nobody gets a free pass if you choose to keep those people out of your life. Because it’s not your place or responsibility to change their…	/r/ExRedPill	12/10/22 12:03 AM
12	Who came up with the idea that women like douchebags? So there’s a couple reasons. But the reason so many women end up with men who are douche bags or will treat them like shit has to do with generational trauma. Men who don’t treat women well and have daughters don’t treat their daughters any better. Behaviors stemming from these types of traumas are anxious attachment styles, easily manipulated and searching for validation in older men. Add that and some conservative values and you have a red pilled women.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/22 05:56 AM
1	Is redpill right about pair bonding? Cold, nasty and unfeminine? I have found them to be the opposite. Women who are a confident in their sexual energy always make it so much easier for me to form emotional attachment during sex, because I’m less worried that they arnt actually interested. Maybe you’re just meeting emotional immature women?	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/22 02:28 PM
3	Young man damaged from the RedPill I’m sorry to hear your relationship didn’t work out. I would love to share some of my thoughts on this. Something that redpill has right is mens mental health and the lack of recourses for younger generations. They blame feminism but it’s the opposite. Red pill will try to convince you that emotions are secondary, human weakness is solely feminine. But I’m sorry to say that your emotions NEED to be catered to by others around you, we are social animals and the true pain comes when we can’t integ…	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/22 06:06 PM
1	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe Sure some girls are like this. The point of feminism to to dismantle these ideas that women deserve or like attention given to them because they are women, or that men need to give or achieve anything because they are men. It’s toxic because they will even call themselves a “girl boss” for embracing their femininity by selling themselves and their life online but in reality most of them are still just seeking the attention they need to be happy. This leads young men to believing women really are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/22 04:49 PM