WordsinaWhisper Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Son Charged with SA get a LAWYER!!!!!!!!!	/r/MensRights	12/04/23 10:56 AM
11	The truth about women's face-only selfies. true story that happened to me once and it was the most AWKWARD situation of my life	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/01/23 03:26 PM
5	Upset with lack of initiative of my boyfriend my take is: organizing is not his talent or interest. in all couples, there will be things one lacks that the other makes up for. in my marriage, i would say when anything medical happens i rely on her, when anything involving home repair happens she relies on me. there’s no one size fits all, and if you are the big organizer like your post declares, then be the organizer! he can contribute in other ways possibly? it seems to me this wasn’t a talent he ever developed. if he were too take over no…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/22 02:11 AM
2	I’m finding it hard to let go of my parents yes and no. I think it might be wise to take a step back and be objective. if you find the right person, you need to be in the right mindset to be ready for it. if you have "emotional momentum" that takes you into a direction thats toxic, you should address that first with therapy, etc. but its wise you learn from those who have successful relationships. grow as a person, and do that by watching others examples.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/11/22 03:20 PM
5	I’m finding it hard to let go of my parents it wasn’t love. it was a fantasy. you have no idea what living with someone will be like because virtually it’s so easy to hide your flaws. when real life hits you, you’ll realize how foolish all this is. you think you are prepared, but you are not even close.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/22 07:28 PM
3	Is YOUR partner a sex pest? Many women are complaining about 'gropey' husbands – and how to stop him hassling you for good. OP: Men branded "sex pests" even in a relationship! same definition. you did not need to emphasize this, because everyone who speaks english already knows “affairs” are cheating.	/r/MensRights	15/09/22 11:17 AM
5	Came across a sub on people discussing if they liked the MCU iteration of She -Hulk. Read this one post saying why he did not like it only to be down voted by everybody and a typical response by “that guy”. These are the men we are raising. the premise is that women control their emotions better. i have NEVER met a women who controlled their emotions as well as a guy.	/r/MensRights	02/09/22 05:48 PM
0	3 months into dating and no sign of something serious have you talked to him about it? cause it sounds like your strategy is to rely on anonymous internet strangers for an answer only he can provide. I get it, this is r/RedPillWomen and there is a certain culture here and an expectation you have here of gender roles, so I get expecting him to initiate. BUT, that doesn't mean you are 100% passive. that doesn't mean you do not have agency. consider for example the following analogy. when people say they are "traditional" and want a man to pursue them…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/22 02:16 PM
4	Where am I supposed to meet people? in my case, i had a buddy who introduced me. i walked up, he was sitting beside her and chatting and introduced me to her. when the service ended, i couldn’t find her so i dashed after her and found her leaving. got her number. turns out, at the weekly bible study there i had been sitting across the room from her for about a year. we just hadn’t spoken yet. anyways, i ignore all that noise about “don’t call or text too soon.” i called her 30 minutes later to ask if she wanted to go for an evenin…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/22 07:26 PM
7	Where am I supposed to meet people? if you are active in church, then that’s where i met my wife. i was 23, she was your age 21. i went to any college age event i could. bible studies and camping retreats. and if there isn’t a big enough pool of people at your church, then church hop, visit a new place each week until you find a singles group or something like that. the benefits are that you already know something about the person you start dating, and have at least a common belief system, and maybe if it’s your home church, a few…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/22 03:57 PM
-6	Boyfriend wants to buy an expensive engagement ring, but I would prefer for him to save the money and buy something cheaper. Do I talk to him or let him lead here? me and my wife got each other apple watches. functional AND fashionable.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/22 02:16 PM
3	Struggling with Emotions tell him about this internal struggle. everything you just told us, tell him. having some context about WHY you did that, and how conflicted you are about your emotion regulation helps a LOT. i have had to do this with my wife. the context helps give an understanding and also helps her spot triggers and say to me, “wait, are you REALLY mad? or is this just you mishandling emotions again?” it helps.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/22 02:11 PM
0	Abused men need more recognition maybe a game chat where trash talk is the order of the day is not where you should open up about that. insults are what they do. not a supportive place for anything…	/r/AntiFeminists	29/08/22 01:40 PM
1	Thought experiment - If the world was matriarchal what would the rights of men be? that’s basically the plot of Y: The Last Man, right?	/r/AntiFeminists	19/08/22 02:03 PM
48	husband doesnt want another baby , I do it goes both ways, as serious as this is to you, that’s how serious his no is to him. if you resenting him is that much of an issue, remember you could be sparking him resenting you if you force the issue. nobody wins. instead perhaps see if a therapist is possible. i know a 3rd child is important to you. but shouldn’t your husband and his thoughts, feelings and concerns be important too? he is a whole person who has his own perspective too. marriage is a partnership, and you both need to come t…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/22 09:10 AM
10	Scared of starting this new stage of life ok. well i have been married 15 years as of this October, if the woman who became my wife had told me, “that kind of love won’t come until we have been living together for a while…” red flag. no. sorry, no. you are hoping on a prayer that he will be what you want later, but you should not proceed unless he is what you want NOW. you do not need to break up with him. but you need to have BIG TALKS with him. because if my wife had told me what you just to me, i would have called it off. i did not l…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/22 01:07 AM
22	Scared of starting this new stage of life ok. hard truth time. are you ready? if someone asks you “do you want to marry him?” and your answer is not an extremely loud YES, then that means your answer was a loud NO. by default. sorry. you are not ready.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/22 12:52 AM
34	My boyfriend loves my legs more than me... you did not go wrong. your boyfriend it sounds like he is in love with you, but he may just not be very emotionally intelligent. men are visual creatures ¯_(ツ)_/¯ he doesn’t think in the terms that you think in. i have been married 15 years this october, and i am in love with my wife, but in the moments when i am discussing what i love about her in the way YOU are thinking, it’s like my brain has to shift gears. 🤷🏼‍♂️ try and keep your cool. have a calm conversation with him if you are really bo…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/22 09:47 PM
11	My best friends of 10+ years had a cold reaction to my engagement dude. it’s been 4 hours since you made your post, this persons comment has 46 likes while as of this writing your overall post has only 21. we ALL think you’re being petty. sorry, i’m not intending to come off as mean. congratulations, i wish you many years of happiness. but what your friends think DOES NOT MATTER. they did the right thing by congratulating and hugging you, and they will be there for you. they obviously love you. you can not control if they are a little sad about their own boyfr…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/22 11:30 PM
3	Is it feminist of me to do strength workouts? Is that a problem if it is? i’m in college, taking some health classes. women who do moderate strength training exercises have lower incidents of heart problems and live longer. in their older age if they engage in regular strength training, they can appear to be 15-20 years younger depending on other health factors. there’s massive health benefits.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/22 07:23 PM
2	There’s a reason why no branch of the US military has officers start as Captain…because being a Captain is earned. you can polish a turd, but it’s just shiny feces. and smells. edit: it was one of my favorite Myth Busters episodes. you CAN polish a turd, but it will still smell and just be really glossy. you ALSO can put perfume on sewage, but that only gets you flowery smelling sh*t.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/22 10:52 PM
3	Would you date someone that habitually does things you can't stand? ah i see. i was worried i needed to talk you out of something. maybe next time mention you’re just taking a poll in your post cause i was kinda worried for a sec 😅	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/22 12:36 PM
2	Would you date someone that habitually does things you can't stand? are you on the verge of committing to someone with bad habits?	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/22 12:32 PM
2	Would you date someone that habitually does things you can't stand? i want to try and restrain my answer, but this is like asking "there is a guy/girl who i hate things they do. should i commit to being with them so i can hate everything they do for a really really long time?" just think rationally, would this make sense to you?	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/22 12:26 PM
4	Finding men that are virgins being a virgin is not what makes love or sex meaningful. the popular theory is that all of us were once virgins, but that doesn’t mean the person that was our first was meaningful.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/22 11:58 AM
13	Finding men that are virgins i once read that if pornography gives men unrealistic expectations in sex, then overly consuming sappy romance novels gives women unrealistic expectations in romance.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/22 11:46 AM
3	I (26F) think the guy I’m interested in (30M) is porn sick i am bookmarking this comment. holy crap. i want this as a cross-stitch to hang over my toilet. i have literally started a note in my phone of “best reddit comments” and made this my first.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/06/22 01:28 PM
7	How to become a kinder person? this reminds me of the verse, 1st John 4:18 “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” when you’re still scared of being vulnerable, it’s going to be super hard to know what love actually IS, cause you’re too occupied with protecting yourself. too a lesser degree i know this feeling. seeing people, being angry about how foolish i perceive them, building a resentment about someone i have neve…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/06/22 12:27 PM
8	The girl I was seeing stayed at my best friends house drop them like they are radioactive. overreacting?! they straight up disrespected you. block them both, phone numbers AND social media. she is TRYING to make you jealous and pressure you to responding. the best way to piss her off is to cut them off as if they mean NOTHING to you, especially since you clearly mean nothing to them.	/r/seduction	14/05/22 02:46 PM
4	Children before marriage who cares if it’s a big service? contrary to popular belief, the wedding is not for the guests, it’s for you and your partner. the ONLY people that need to be there are your God, you, your spouse, the person officiating and a witness and that’s the end. get it done and THEN when the world calms down in a year throw an after party for family and friends, you can even re-act yours vows for them if they want that.	/r/RPChristians	24/01/21 04:29 PM