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1	Confessions / Venting from a 50+ PUA If course you are going to come up short if you always compare yourself to the tallest guy. Duh. The idea isn't to look at only the top, or at only the bottom. Just check out where you at relative to everyone, and go up. Everyone has strength and weakness, but people excel when they capitalize on their strengths. Stop trying to be perfect, concentrate on being better. It doesn't matter if you can win the marathon, it's not a zero sum game, it only matters that you run fast enough to get ahead en…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 10:09 PM
1	Confessions / Venting from a 50+ PUA I think that because I wasn't as good with women, I could concentrate more on my career when I started, which means that now I'm in a better position financially and career wise than most guys who were good with women. Now that I have the money, I get good at getting with the honeys. All the guys I know that were good with women are stalled career wise, and stuck with a girl they picked up 5-10 years ago. They just end up stagnating. I'm pretty happy where I'm at, and really didn't which it was …	/r/seduction	14/06/13 09:46 PM
0	Confessions / Venting from a 50+ PUA Yeah, that's why I think saying "look good" is really stupid. There are LOTS of components, and you'll have to have them all in order. The issue with being short isn't that it can't work, it's that you won't get initial success that other might have that keep them going, and getting good. The way I see it is that, someone who's good looking might get a couple of girls proposing to him when he's 15/16. Because of those initial one, he gets into the game earlier, and makes him better earlier, whic…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 08:59 PM
1	Whatever is advantageous to believe is 100% true It's all because of thing out of her control, because she totally wanted to but couldn't. Unfortunately, you get too busy with other women anyways and shouldn't hang with people who have bad luck, those have bad luck. So, basically, something is wrong with her, always. :-D (The serious answer is, of course, don't worry. Never get so involved that it matters to you.)	/r/seduction	14/06/13 07:36 PM
2	Working on guide to meeting girls at the gym, here's what I've learned so far. Please fee free to criticize. It's a small world, and it's not a world that advertise itself either. Maybe use your observational skills to try and spot a guy who's kinda trying to run some game but who seems more shy than awkward. After all, it's a gym, there's bound to be a couple of guys trying to flirt. Sometimes the best wings are those you "make" yourself. Beside, teaching is a great way to learn more. Having to verbalize and describe concepts often make you think about them, and realize stuff you wouldn't have thought…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 06:26 PM
2	Working on guide to meeting girls at the gym, here's what I've learned so far. Please fee free to criticize. Oh shit, I hadn't read that! Hahaha, just confirms that it's pretty much the same story all around, people don't like people who make them feel icky. They don't complain about people they find great, just the icky ones. As for the feedback, you're at the point where it's personal customization, or, you have to have people with you to actually see you do it, and point out things which might not be obvious. It think you've got the basics and obvious down. Maybe get a wing for the gym. (And don't g…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 06:08 PM
2	Working on guide to meeting girls at the gym, here's what I've learned so far. Please fee free to criticize. Gonna go ahead and say don't try and hit on girls at [any place], as 99% of the time they are there for themselves to [do thing at the specific place]. You can say that about any place and anything. If that were true, then hook-ups in college wouldn't happen because, according to this, people go there to learn. Look, there's no way around it, you'll have to approach people at some point. Sure, you'll always get someone who'll bitch they don't want to be approached everywhere, but you aren't goin…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 05:19 PM
2	Confessions / Venting from a 50+ PUA From the rest of the post, you are going for post 30's married women. No wonder it's easy. But that's not the demographic most people are going for. I'm also thinking that "the girl which can only be platonic" is also married. This change everything a whole lot.	/r/seduction	14/06/13 05:08 PM
-1	Why am I attracting the wrong girls? And, also, if you are talking to a hot girl and a not hot looking girl, the hot girl, being used to being treated differently, will think you see them both as equal. That's not acceptable to her, she's worth more than that other girl, and she'll try and prove it to you. Also why you talk to her friend first.	/r/seduction	14/06/13 04:57 PM
5	Whatever is advantageous to believe is 100% true Not only assume attraction, assume ALL THE POSITIVE THINGS. Not only is she attracted, the one you aren't talking to right now are also attracted, and there's another fuck just around the corner. I.E. You'll have better success being delusional about yourself and thinking you are in the top 10% than actually trying to confirm any of those things. Why would you want to confirm it anyways? Are you like, looking for validation? Of course not, you're giving it out. You're like, this super god and st…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 04:53 PM
1	Has anyone really changed from being a "nice guy" to being a "jock"?? If yes, what are some noticeable things that you did that made it happen? It's hard for me to realize because so many people stick in my mind for doing stupid things that I'm pretty sure it works the same for other people. The difference is in understanding that, even if I think people are dumb-asses, it won't prevent them from being laid, and the same applies to them. Even if they think I'm a dumb-ass, they don't have a say in anything that happens to me. Unless they know each other, and they start with the rumors, and I turn into being the man whore of the group aga…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 04:48 PM
7	Whatever is advantageous to believe is 100% true It means, make the most favorable assumptions, and work with that. It's like a Pascal's wager for seduction. You assume she's into you You don't assume she's into you She's into you Get laid Maybe get laid if you don't blow it She isn't into you Maybe get laid if you're lucky and play it right Don't get laid You'll just have better odds by assuming she's into you than not. Now, do the same with everything. Assume there's a lot of girls who want to jump on your dick. Assume you're hot. Assume [x,…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 04:41 PM
5	The reality is different I go with "Daddy's home!" or "What time is it? Is it fuck-o-clock yet?"	/r/seduction	14/06/13 04:13 PM
8	The reality is different Look kid, it's like any other craft or hobby. There are some people who learn by doing, there are some people who learn mostly by reading, and never develop skills in other ways than mimicking. Learning to learn by yourself is a skill in itself, and by saying that the only way to learn is by doing, you are just ostracizing a huge group of people. People who can learn by themselves, they are already learning by themselves. They don't browse places where there a lot of theory, so you won't see the…	/r/seduction	14/06/13 04:11 PM
1	~2 years in. 12 more things I wish I knew. Every time I want to reduce the risks of STIs. And if I want to gauge the risk of a specific sexual partner, I ask them information instead of waiting for them to volunteer it.	/r/seduction	10/06/13 03:25 PM
3	~2 years in. 12 more things I wish I knew. Isn't it a given? I mean, who would take the risk to assume that the guy is just fucking her? Guy: "Oh, btw, I'm fucking other ladies." Girl: "Oh yeah? Oh, well, in THAT case, we'll use protection." What kind of irresponsible behavior would that be! I mean, I don't like to assume that girls are irresponsible idiots.	/r/seduction	10/06/13 03:12 PM
44	Seddit, lets compile a list of simple exercises that improve your game (and more) It's the people from /r/seduction who've been told to get bigger who went to /r/fitness that are coming back.	/r/seduction	06/06/13 10:22 PM
2	The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent it You can't have a 10 if she's only physically perfect. At around 8.5-9, it stops being only about how she looks and also who she is and how she acts.	/r/seduction	04/06/13 03:50 PM
2	The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent it To me 10 = perfection, no women is physically perfect, I could always find at least one thing to change in any woman if I looked hard enough. Oh boy, I'll pray for you if you're going on that road.	/r/seduction	04/06/13 02:57 PM
0	The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent it because their radar for lying/faking is very strong. A.k.a. everyone is always bullshitting, so I'll be a full time skeptic.	/r/seduction	04/06/13 02:55 PM
1	The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent it It's because everyone wants to fuck the hot ones. And it's true, people want to have sex with good looking people. The problem is that, while being sexually desired is great and all, it doesn't mean anything relationship wise. Yes, some people will stay with you because you are hot, but you really don't want to be in a relationship just because you are hot, there has to be some substance to the relationship. People who are hot want to be loved too, and someone being sexually attracted doesn't me…	/r/seduction	04/06/13 02:53 PM
0	The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent it What's immature about finding most people boring, plain and just copies of each other without any depth or character? Most people aren't interesting, most people certainly aren't interesting enough to make us want to know them. What I'm really tired of is playing entertainer for some 2 dimensional twat. "Wine and dine me!" No, I don't want to. Make me want to wine and dine you. If you are good at making yourself look good, the only thing you'll get from me is sex and cheap dates. If you want the…	/r/seduction	04/06/13 02:48 PM
5	Text-game solved, and other seduction game-changers. It was a marketing document, meant to show you their products. It got upvotes because someone organized for upvotes.	/r/seduction	31/05/13 02:12 PM
6	This guide to banter helped me a lot I don't know what the term of it, but I know I hate this shit. If any of your shit references anything other of your shit, it's instantaneously discarded and thrown out as shit. I wouldn't even be surprised that it was never really intended to be sold for 95$, it was always intended as being free, but the "it's 95$" is tacked on in a way to make it seem as valuable. Now that I'm thinking about it, they are doing what they are talking about in their product. They are trying to establish that they…	/r/seduction	30/05/13 02:52 PM
15	This guide to banter helped me a lot If you want the best solution for recording your banter, you should take a look at the Alpha Male Planner membership service. That's why I'm really not eager to buy anything ever with regards to learning to flirt. They sell you something that cost 97$, and use it to push another service. And the people trying to sell you those things are basically studying how to be a good salesman. Because of that, I can never bring myself to trust them, and besides, the only thing it ever does is make you go o…	/r/seduction	30/05/13 02:17 PM
17	Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW! What if you thought instead that the 10 is, to the guys who get them, only a 5? You see them as 10, but because you attribute to them qualities which others don't count as qualities. Of course you like her because she looks good, but so what? There's plenty of good looking women, and a lot of them are probably better in all other aspects. How much does she likes kids? How warm is she? How friendly is she with other women? Can she get along with your friends? When you want to go out, does she wan…	/r/seduction	28/05/13 03:34 PM
6	Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW! I'm on a horse. (Could probably do the same type of advert with this.)	/r/seduction	28/05/13 03:22 PM
16	Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are Yes, not only the touching, of course. I've just seen so many guys not touching anyone and then wondering how to jump from "no touch" to "do the sex". That's why I've have a bias toward "more touching".	/r/seduction	21/05/13 04:21 PM
145	Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You Are Basically, stop doing accidental touching, and do overt touching. Look, part of seduction is taking risks, it's putting yourself and risking "getting hurt". The best thing is not to find way of making the other think you are putting yourself out there, while not really putting yourself out there. The best thing to do is to put yourself out there, and learn to not "get hurt" if she says no. You just have to learn to not have an "ego" and not feel like it's the end of the world when you put yourse…	/r/seduction	21/05/13 03:14 PM
1	GF is drunk, I'm out of town, and there is another guy I know trying to hit on her. I think I handled the situation/her shit test poorly I wasn't sure if everyone was on the same page. We are playing the "let's make it even more hypothetical game now? Didn't YOU know that in some states, it's illegal for a women to refuse a drink?	/r/seduction	21/05/13 02:55 PM
5	A clear-cut summary of one anon's transformation, what women are like, and tips for outer and inner game. Condoms are good, but not that great if number of partner is high. Doesn't protect the whole pubic region, and you can't see if someone has something. It's not always "in breakout". So, you can get plenty of stuff while wearing condoms. I'm assuming most people either don't know, practice willful ignorance, or just have a "it happens but fuck the risks, I wanna get laid".	/r/seduction	15/05/13 09:43 PM
5	A clear-cut summary of one anon's transformation, what women are like, and tips for outer and inner game. One question, how do you avoid, and deal with STIs? How do you make sure you're not getting anything from a ONS. Surely a specialist who has fucked 200 women is about as proficient as a gynecologist by now.	/r/seduction	15/05/13 07:53 PM
2	I feel terrible about talking to other girls if a girl that I'm seeing is there. What do you mean you were flirting with other girls? You make it sound as if it's a conscious decision and you were trying to "do something" to those girls. It's just the way you talk, right? And it's not as if it means anything, you aren't sleeping with them. Why is she acting so jealous? Are here friends so bad you don't want to hang with them? Essentially, flirt all the time. That way, you get to flirt, which seems like what you want to do, and it'll filter out bad people. If the girls don't …	/r/seduction	13/05/13 03:11 PM
4	Mission accomplished I honestly think that the problem is being overblown by the magnifying glass of the internet. But, foremost, is honestly and sincerely believe that what they are doing "doesn't work" and isn't in accordance with reality. And, because of that, and because I believe strongly in opposing concepts, I believe that it is unsustainable. I do not believe that a bunch of emasculated guys are going to rule the world, or, somehow become the truly, viscerally desired norm. I believe there currently exist a …	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/13 05:30 PM
1	Mission accomplished And being "nice" is more in style than anything else. Still doesn't mean it works. Still doesn't mean anything. Are you feeling threatened by fashion? Does a suit goes out of fashion because people wear loose A-Shirt with a washed out california printed on it? No, it doesn't change anything with solid foundations. Fads come and go, but I'm here to learn to see through that bullshit, not be pissed at it. I'm secure enough in my person to not feel threatened by the Bieber phenomenon. People can tr…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/13 04:53 PM
3	Mission accomplished Just because they think it'll work doesn't make it true. That also doesn't mean you need to shame people when they are wrong. You can debate with someone who bring this up in a discussion, but shaming is a tactic that's used to force people into different behaviors. Laughing at them and their tactic is not a problem, explaining to them why you are laughing at them makes sense. But shaming them, and forcing them into a certain way, that's where I start having a problem with it. From one side, it'…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/13 04:08 PM
12	Mission accomplished If gay people are being gay, I will fight for their right to being gay. In the same way. If beta want to act beta, I will fight for their right to being beta. It's not something that's for me, and it doesn't remove anything from me, quite the reverse in fact. I don't see them as competition like I don't see gays as competition. What I want is to learn how stuff work, and apply that in my day to day live. If some people are happy being submissive to anyone else, or don't want to seek the truth, I…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/13 03:24 PM
1	Mission accomplished I need feminism because I'm tired of women being shamed into not enjoying my dick.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/13 02:53 PM
21	Mission accomplished There's a difference between being manly, and being homophobic. You can accept that other enjoy this, without enjoying it yourself, and without it having any effect on yourself. Just accept that others aren't like you, and move on. It's not as if it takes anything away from you that other guys get fucked in the ass. Unless you think that "being fucked in the ass" is going to be in fashion and that it'll somehow force you into it. Are your values so weak that you'll have to back down and be force…	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/13 02:50 PM
1	Mission accomplished Or is it? I'd totally do something like that. Get them to work against themselves. >:-D	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/13 02:43 PM
5	My values are making this hard to follow. Honesty is not a problem, virtue is not a problem. But excess of them, and applied such as what today's media is projecting IS a problem. Not lying is a good thing. Not being able to differentiate between bullshitting and lying is one. Being faithful is not a problem. Not being able to distinguish between committed exclusive relationship and dating is one. The emphasis has been so much on the qualities, that it completely missed when they apply, and how you apply them. You can have a great life,…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 09:35 PM
3	Getting cynical and disliking other people Don't expect as much from them. Don't expect them to understand, and act with the understanding you have. They aren't mature, and don't understand thing. If you see the world working in a certain way, then you'll understand why they are faking it, and doing all that posturing. They act with accordance of the rules, without understanding them. They fake it because faking it seems to get results, without really understanding what they are faking. It's also possible that some of them understand it,…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 09:27 PM
3	You discover the man behind the curtain, you: Ask him, how exactly does it work, why is it working like that, and why does it has to work like that. Then I'll probably understand why there's a man behind the curtain, and I'll be in a position to know if he's just a total dick, which needs his ass beat, or, if it makes sense, and it has to work like that. Give him a chance to explain himself, and depending on the answer, either acceptance of the state of things, or, a severe beating. (If the reasons is self gain, while understandable, he cle…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 09:17 PM
1	Married men of the world, update I'm only saying that because you bring out cheating, which is usually a loaded word, which isn't meaningful in this context. But, yeah, it's a given that if you aren't exclusive, she isn't exclusive to you, unless you strike an asymmetrical arrangement. Asymmetrical arrangements don't always last as long as other relationships, so you could then argue that you are going to lose her, and she won't be "your woman" either. But then, that raises the point that, when she wasn't with you, she fucked o…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 09:07 PM
1	/r/programming on how "Geeks" are viewed by women and why there are so few women in tech I know what you mean, and it's so sad, because it turn fun conversations (where you get to have a feel for someone's dynamic) into boring technical exchange of information. At the same time, it's no surprise since most kids these days (and in the last generation) get most of their communication in school, where it's a teacher barfing information, and then it's on to the internet, were you can't get the tone and can't do those types of conversation. And we have similar experiences. Answering stra…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 08:56 PM
1	Married men of the world, update Well, I don't want to compete for my primary either, but the others, I don't mind, since, you know, not the primary.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 08:52 PM
2	Married men of the world, update Yeah, good point, missed that. It's the most probable reason why she wouldn't. Other idea being that she can do whatever, as long as it's "only sex" and he doesn't get mixed in anything else. At that point though, she'd probably pursue something more anonymous.	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 08:51 PM
1	Married men of the world, update Not if you know how to set your boundaries. This is what I want, this is what I find acceptable, and this is what I don't want. This is fine, and if it comes to this, I'm bailing out. And what the hell. It's always been a guy with multiple women anyways, never the inverse. Ever see a harem of one girl with multiple men? I mean, it can happen when you are dating, but the guys are also seeing other women. If you are not ok with anything, speak out, kick her out and find another one. Jesus, you mak…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 07:47 PM
3	/r/programming on how "Geeks" are viewed by women and why there are so few women in tech If you are just shooting shit with people, that should come naturally. Your friend says he do drugs, you say you're the guy that's probably going to be responsible for skynet. The automation code might just be used for an assembly line right now, but it COULD turn into much more. And no, that's not lying. (Those who think this is lying are probably socially inept and don't know how to connect with people.)	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 07:41 PM
2	Married men of the world, update So, if I have more than one girlfriend, and I'm up front about it to them, I'm cheating? I'm breaking which agreement? If we talked about exclusivity, and I told her I don't want to be exclusive, but I want the rest, and she agrees to it, how is that not a relationship, and how is that cheating?	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 07:32 PM
2	/r/programming on how "Geeks" are viewed by women and why there are so few women in tech Just re-frame it in term of what you do with the computer instead of focusing on the tool you use. Talk about the project, the requirements, the goal. You don't go around saying you work with Visio or paper. "I work in paper writing."	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 05:25 PM
1	Possible contradictions within the red pill? Red Pill also states that women's mating instincts are programmed and can be manipulated. Not that they can be manipulated, but it's easier to sell something if you show what the buyer wants. I am fun, and if they are looking for fun, there's no reason to show how serious I can also be. This doesn't make it amoral. It's not manipulation, because that would mean faking something, or lying and deceiving. What's amoral is thinking that guys putting their best foot forward somehow removes agency fro…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 05:16 PM
2	Married men of the world, update Have you asked if they're in an open relationship? Maybe it's the case, and maybe the husband is just curious about who's the dude she's been talking about. It might not entirely be what you think it is from your perspective. Maybe she's trying to turn you into their toy. Hahaha Decide what YOU want, and then tell her what you want. Get your answers. ;-)	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 04:37 PM
1	If an alpha male is alone in a room, is he still alpha? A leader is simply someone who shape and influence his environment to suit his needs. He'll keep shaping and influencing his environment even if there is no social component to it. An "alpha" will build himself some nice shit if he's stranded on an island, because that's what he wants. A "beta" will build the bare minimum to survive. So, basically, to me, the difference are between people who live, and people who survive. And those things are simply about how much you are driven to fill your nee…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 04:23 PM
6	Dear Prudence advice: Wife is resentful that husband makes more $ than her & maintains completely separate finances [although he pays all the bills and gives her pocket $]. Prudence advises "Tell him that you thought you married the handsome prince, but you feel like Cinderella before the ball." I've always done the same, especially if this is going to be a partnership, that means we are going to be equals, which means we are going to split the expenses half. If you can't pay your half, then we aren't living within OUR means. Of course, I have extra cash because I make more, and I sometime choose to spend it on her, but it's not as if I'm using it as a reward for good behavior. That doesn't mean that good behavior won't make me more willing to spend more on my girlfriend. The dynamic so…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 03:06 PM
2	If an alpha male is alone in a room, is he still alpha? I think that social dominance is more "passive" than people think. I think it all comes down to engaging people on your terms. If you are some place, and you are enjoying yourself, and enjoying the people there, you'll be "dominant". Well, it'll look that way, because people aren't going to be "fazing" you or pissing you off. And if it's in a bar, other people who aren't part of your group come to you and try to "dominate you", you'll just laugh it off, which comes as being even more dominant. I…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 02:54 PM
16	Dear Prudence advice: Wife is resentful that husband makes more $ than her & maintains completely separate finances [although he pays all the bills and gives her pocket $]. Prudence advises "Tell him that you thought you married the handsome prince, but you feel like Cinderella before the ball." Do keep in mind that since you are chronically broke, if you two do split, you're going to have to learn to live within your own means. To me, I read it as "If you aren't happy, you should totally tell him, but if he doesn't think you're a princess, you'll probably have to live with even less cash." It almost sounds like she's telling her "Go ahead, try and ask him you want to be a little princess, you spoiled brat." This helps the guy out more than the girl, because now he'll know he's with som…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 02:18 PM
1	Red Pill Theory and spectator sports Well, yeah, you can respect someone who's better than you AND want to beat them. If you are secure in your person, you realize that "greatness" isn't a zero sum game, and if someone is good at something, it doesn't take anything from you. There's always someone who's going to be better than you at any given thing. You can't beat everyone at everything. The trick is to beat enough people at enough things. ;-) Try and see it this way. You don't have to be #1, you have to be in the top 10% of the p…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 01:33 PM
1	If an alpha male is alone in a room, is he still alpha? Of course you would. You're allowed to say that it comes across douchey, you don't have to "kinda maybe, in my opinion...". This isn't askwomen, you can say what you mean. (Take this as tongue in cheek, jokey. I know tone doesn't come across in text, but in this sub it makes the difference between people taking you as "frustrated douche canoe" and "I'm just shooting shit".) Edit: To answer your question, if alpha just means social dominance, then if you remove the social aspect, it's kind of moo…	/r/TheRedPill	30/04/13 01:28 PM
7	Beta pays, but at least the baby is proof they got laid once I was going to say the same thing. It's only relative to the value of the guy. A guy using self-deprecating humor, as humor, because he know his own value, is being funny. A guy with self-esteem issues using self-deprecating humor as a defense mechanism of "bashing himself before other do it" is being pitiful. Think of those two guys. You could see a girl going to the later and doing an "awww, poor puppy" but you know it wouldn't fly for the former, because he'd have this smirk on his face while…	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/13 09:22 PM
3	If an alpha male is alone in a room, is he still alpha? If you define alpha as a set of behaviors, like people who get shit done instead of sit down and mope, then whether there are other or not, these behaviors don't disappear. If you define it as a set of social behaviors, and remove the social element, then the question is also self answered. If you think "alpha's" are driven by external societal pressure, then you are confounding being alpha and insecurity.	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/13 09:16 PM
5	Nothing like shaming both sexes for what they find attractive - Its the media's fault, not biology In the same vein. You don't need to be the best, you need to be good enough. Perfect is the enemy of good. The media tries to make perfection into the bare minimum, that way you NEED to have thing [x] and BE [y] otherwise you are nothing. Some chase and get depressed, others just get depressed because it looks like a mountain. Turn the media off, turn the blogs off, turn external sources that tell you what you should be, and observe instead. Observe and judge by yourself. You'll see that good en…	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/13 08:27 PM
3	Have you ever been called a sociopath because of your lifestyle or your perception of things? I get called a lot of things by a lot of people I don't care much about. At the end of the day, when I look at myself in the mirror, and I see that I'm happy with myself, my life, and I love myself, I don't care much for what a twat might have said, for the only 5 minutes I've crossed path with him in my life. Who the fuck cares? Do you like yourself? Are you breaking any law that would fuck you up? Is your life in danger because you're fucking with gangs? No? Then, why care so much? Right now, …	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/13 06:26 PM
3	Red Pill Theory and spectator sports Trumpet playing can be modelized and automated. Sports are a bunch of people acting in non-rational ways. One can be understood, mimicked, controlled and reproduced. The other, not so much. The goal of sports is defined solely on it's actors, otherwise, "put that ball in that net" could be automated in a way which wouldn't be much of a game. (Kill everything, shoot in a straight line.) But it turns out that the guys shouting and groaning in the sports bar are more successful on average with wome…	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/13 06:20 PM
6	Red Pill Theory and spectator sports What does it mean about me then if I don't like spectator sports because I don't like being a spectator? I'd rather play anything that watch other play, then fantasize I'm those I'm watching. If I'm going to fantasize, it's about me beating them.	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/13 06:12 PM
2	What a 19 year old boy thinks about himself and manhood: I'm self-loathing because of how crappy a lot of guys are. I do feel like women are better people on the average So what's a young boy to do? Ignore the damn misogynist label, and do the fuck he wants anyways. Then, if people have a problem with guys being real misogynist, they won't have a word that works for it, because everyone will be desensitized to it, and it'll be their own damn fault! Ah!	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/13 05:07 PM
15	Society pressures men to initiate sexual relationships, yet punishes them when they express their sexual needs. Society doesn't demonize men about their sexual needs. Society demonize non-desirable men about their sexual needs, while at the same time, trying to pressure the desirable men to express more sexual needs. It's the same thing as "where are all the menz?" and that kind of crap. They don't want any guy, they want the romanticized version of a guy that doesn't exist. Guy put girls on pedestals by falling with an idea of how wonderful the girl is, because they don't know them, they project their id…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/13 04:29 PM
1	Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Feministan Court rules Canada \| News It's only sad if you aren't the real father, or, you see yourself as someone who could end up as not the real father. Or you think it could happens to some of your friends. Or, you are now questioning if your dad is your real dad. It's also only sad if you think that some people are going to die because they aren't going to be aware of their real biological lineage, and which genetic diseases they should get checked for. I mean, if you know your father had prostate problems, you're going to get …	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/13 04:13 PM
1	Why I Will Never Emasculate A Man Again There's a quote in there that should stand out on it's own, whatever the context: Joy comes from freedom and pure choice. Going along, just doing things because “hey that’s just how we do thing around here even though we don’t know why.” will never, ever have the capacity to bring pure joy. It will always fall short. A.k.a. A man chooses, a slave obeys.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/13 08:19 PM
4	Dad must pay child support for 3 kids that aren't his: Feministan Court rules Canada \| News Meh, as long as they open a door where they could go after the biological father and get to sue them for the support money, I guess then he can still care about them if he wants to. Otherwise, what's the incentive to stop me from impregnating other guy's wives? And what incentives are there for women to stop this behavior? If there is no way to socially stop that behavior, then, it means it's socially acceptable. I'll make sure to father 2-3 kids to other's dude wife before getting my own and ra…	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/13 08:17 PM
1	How do I encourage my boyfriend to take the attitude of your philosophy? You might have to leave him and let him have to take control of himself and not be catered to for a while... :-\ By then, he might not want you back. I don't know, it's a pretty bad situation... :-(	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/13 07:41 PM
8	An example of a double-standard in acceptable behavior (and creep-shaming) I have the complete inverse approach. Overuse it to the point where it doesn't mean anything anymore. Everything is creepy and creep. It's like running a meme into the ground by over using it. If everything is creepy, then nothing really is. Anyways, I'm going to go and creep me a sandwich before I creep back to work. Edit: In the same vein, we could totally take anything any girl ever says, and say it's creepy in that sub. If they find a way to critique it, and it flies, then you can use that t…	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/13 03:43 PM
1	Women Demand The Right To Rape, Pillage and Destroy Oh, well, I guess then the only solution is to buy a house, make an apartment in it have the girl "live there" so you aren't living in the same house, technically, or have your foot somewhere else too. I've read in the paper here today about a guy having to pay for kids which aren't biologically his, he found out after 3 years. I can see the month long honeymoon tradition coming back in full swing in the next decade.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/13 11:38 PM
1	Women Demand The Right To Rape, Pillage and Destroy Are there any cases where the pre-nups were unenforced and declared void?	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/13 11:07 PM
1	Women Demand The Right To Rape, Pillage and Destroy How about pre-nup? Marriage is a contract, pre-nuptial is just you putting your conditions on the contract. I don't know why more people don't do this. Don't get married unless it's on your terms.	/r/TheRedPill	06/02/13 10:50 PM
1	I am Roosh. AMA! If they want to avoid players who would pump and dump?	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/13 10:10 PM
3	I am Roosh. AMA! Do you feel that every women should have the same knowledge than your sister, to avoid players who would pump and dump? If so, what's the best piece of advice you would give to them?	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/13 05:59 PM
2	I am Roosh. AMA! If you film yourself and it goes on youtube, you don't get to call it a 1000's-some.	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/13 05:58 PM
3	I am Roosh. AMA! I haven't watched any of those guys, but you make them sound so insecure. Like they're over compensating for something. O_o I figure that if they are that much into game, they'd fake it better than by showing a douche-wall-armor.	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/13 05:56 PM
5	[science] Guitar increases male facebook attractiveness: "A Facebook experiment revealed that women replied more positively to friendship requests from a man shown in a photo holding a guitar." Have the tested for the confounding factor of photo of someone doing something, and photo of someone not doing shit? Being in a photo with a guitar give off instinctive idea that there's a group present, thus, social pre-selection. I am not convinced that "music" or "a guitar" is the actual differentiating factor, and I'd go more with the OkCupid blog analysis that people doing shit in their photo > people having their picture taken.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/13 10:13 PM
5	Recently found this place. What is the opinion on completely removing yourself from the "dating scene"? which I'm opposed to for both moral reasons and because I like the stuff about me I would be changing Who's moral? Is it your code? Is it something you've personally built by using the observation you've seen around yourself, and knowing how everything works. Or is it some pseudo-Hollywood-MadeForWomen about as good as getting a bible shoved down your throat moral rules you've been imposed? Why are you doing the "moral" thing you are doing? What are you gaining following your code? I kinda quest…	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/13 06:06 PM
2	Is seddit even redpill? I disagree, PUA is about making people think that "some shit" works, and then get them to go out and take risk. You give them that blind faith that this shit will work, or that shit will work, and they start going out, and they try shit out. It only doesn't work if you keyboard jockey around and go out once every two months. When people do stuff, they find out what works and what doesn't. When you let that "cat" out of the bag, and people start breaking the "this shit's legit 100%" blind faith i…	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/13 05:33 PM
6	Is seddit even redpill? Every time something becomes successful, the masses join and they bring with themselves the morals and values of the society from which they come from. If you think this here is unique and isolated from those things, think again. When the success stories will reach other people, it'll bring other people in here. And with them come the averaging of everything towards the "societal's mean". Like women, don't get attached to just one thing.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/13 04:37 PM
4	Is seddit even redpill? Before getting in relationships with women, you have to first start getting to know women. At first girls have cooties, then you start having these feelings, then you go out with a couple of them and then you start thinking that it might be interesting to find one you want to stay with. It's a normal "progression" in someone's life. How are you going to get to the last phase if you can't even start the third phase? Everyone has something to sell, they just aren't selling the same thing. Redpill …	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/13 04:33 PM
1	Red pill debate: Don't fall for reverse pedastalization Oh great, you're going to ruin comic-cons... :-D	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/13 03:31 PM
2	Red pill debate: Don't fall for reverse pedastalization Everyone knows about your Thai "girls".	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/13 03:19 PM
1	Red pill debate: Don't fall for reverse pedastalization OMG IS THERE SUCH A PLACE? But, seriously, while I wouldn't word it like that, there a places where people like me more than others. There are some places you'd think the town has a grudge against you and other it's as if your dick is made of pure gold and everyone wants to rub if for a wish.	/r/TheRedPill	02/02/13 12:12 AM
2	Red pill debate: Don't fall for reverse pedastalization Conclusion, move to where there's the most women per inch squared. A.k.a. "This is why pickup seminar are held in New York and not Alaska"	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/13 10:42 PM
-1	From The Annals of The Caveman Game: Rihanna back with Chris Brown Do you mean that South Korea shouldn't have repercussions if they attack North Korea? (Or apply to any politics you want there are plenty around.)	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/13 08:59 PM
0	High School Girl Bucks Up And gets Knocked down - Analysis in comments Is there a name for the "duck and side punch" he does? I really don't want to advocate violence, but that looked right down cool. :-D	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/13 04:48 PM
1	The Soft Shutdown and how it relates to Gaming Culture The problem is that the other guys are getting intimidated out of the class, and he can't control the other guys. He ends up with a bitchy woman only class which is no fun for him. I totally get why he'd quit, because his intended audience runs away, because they're still blue-pill, but the way he goes about it could really be improved. There are things you can and things you can't do, when things like his classes depends on other people, and those other people are blue pillers, even if you expl…	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/13 04:27 PM
6	/r/AskMen seem to prefer equality (gender neutrality) in a relationship in opposition to Red Pill teachings. Are they AFCs or am I wrong? I think as most people in askmen as either women trolling, or guys on hormonal therapy on their way to becoming women.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/13 09:42 PM
1	The Nuke created feminism. Never said I always hold to moderation, and far from it. I often go from one extreme to the other to test both sides of the spectrum, and find out where on that spectrum I want to be, sometimes it's in the middle, sometimes it's closer to one extreme, and sometimes I find out that it's beyond one of the extreme and I'll need to push more to get there. There's about nothing that's certain except that I live and breathe, there are just a bunch of things which seem to help get some specific outcome…	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/13 09:23 PM
1	The Nuke created feminism. Personally I don't try to be just one thing or follow one specific thing, I mash things up and use everything as input knowledge. I admit I still do hold to some blue-pill ways from time to time, but I use them as knowledge, not as the only way to think. Even in the matrix they often go back into the matrix itself in order to attain their goals. If you live within absolutes (never do X, always do Y) then, I think, you are limiting yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/13 09:00 PM
2	Top Comment in Blue Pill World: "Talk to Her Like an Adult" For me it's about how she probably built her self-confidence in the past, by being in porn and basing it on her sexual desirability. While this is fine right now for a fuck friend, I find it totally unacceptable for an LTR. The problem is that as her looks will fade, the foundation of her self-worth will crumble, if she's only built it from being in porn, then she'll become an insecure person who'll seek validation by the only way she know, trying to be sexually desirable. This will lead to infi…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 09:37 PM
1	Top Comment in Blue Pill World: "Talk to Her Like an Adult" I don't shame them or anything like that, she can be who she is around me, I know the kinky shit and she'd probably make a fine fuck buddy, but I wouldn't see her as a long term prospect because she's not attractive to me in that way. In the original thread I felt he was going for LTR, and I thought about it from my perspective. I don't believe in shaping people either, but I don't believe people who put down other are supposed to be regarded as long term prospect.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 08:33 PM
1	Top Comment in Blue Pill World: "Talk to Her Like an Adult" Yeah, don't say that. I know what he means, he's just more optimistic than me about the girl. The reality is we don't know them, and my experience and his are different. I wouldn't see much hope in a girl like her, and would rather go after better prospects, and he'd rather try and shape her.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 06:33 PM
0	Top Comment in Blue Pill World: "Talk to Her Like an Adult" He could stay in a relationship with her, and control her, and not feel happy, or, he could dump her and find one who'd make him more happy and wouldn't try to take him down all the time. For what I understand, he's not happy with her.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 05:14 PM
2	I read "The Manipulated Man" and I have a question It's not about not liking women, it's about finding out what the bullshit is, and making connections with the good one. Connections that you'll get to decide on your terms. If you want a drastic image, see it as male empowerment after women empowerment has tilted to scale too far in one direction. It's basically just a reactionary evolution to what has happened in the last generation. It's just the first time in history that it's "organized" with strangers and in full consciousness. It's not bec…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 04:41 PM
0	Top Comment in Blue Pill World: "Talk to Her Like an Adult" I've only got good insight because I've seen it from the inside ... :-( I used to live in the jungle, so I know all about the jungle, I've since cleared out of it. I can help navigate it because I've done it before. Not that there's anything to be proud of, being caught up in all that bullshit, but how could I know. I've learned compassion for myself, and I think that's the reason it helps me help us all.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 04:35 PM
0	The Soft Shutdown and how it relates to Gaming Culture Black classes, cells, garage gyms. He makes it sound like doing man only thing has to work about the same way as the Taliban do. Let's all hide in caves and be oppressed. Look, there women are trying to fuck shit up because they are bitter at being ignored because they don't have any worth anymore, pretty sure he could have found a better way to manage them. Just make the class "sign up" and then exclude people you don't want by saying it's full. God.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 04:32 PM
5	The disturbing trend in western men... Drive stick. Hahaha. There are some tribes out there that you'd only be a man if you had killed a lion or some shit. Driving stick, that's the aspiration of the modern western man, master a simple mechanical device. Seriously, either say thing that are useful, or real achievement. Com'on.	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 04:11 PM
2	What it means to be exclusive? You make it sound like exclusivity can't be revoked. If she isn't fulfilling your needs, you just go ahead and say "You aren't fulfilling my needs, so we aren't exclusive anymore." No need to rationalize it post-facto or just sneak around telling yourself it's okay because [reason] without being upfront about it. Don't have the blue-pill mindset that it's an eternal promise like marriage or some romantic bullshit like that, and treat it like a business deal. What do YOU gain by being exclusive? …	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 04:09 PM
2	Top Comment in Blue Pill World: "Talk to Her Like an Adult" This behavior isn't exclusive to women, it's a human phenomenon. When some people think they are beneath someone else, they try to bring them down preemptively so once they find out they can say "we are equals". His relationship with her isn't built on honesty, whatever you think blue or red pill, which mean it's going to fail. In all circumstance and mode of thinking, there's nothing else to be done than bail the fuck out. When you notice that your plane has a wing missing, it doesn't matter if…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/13 04:02 PM
3	Questions/Critiques of manosphere conceptions of the male sexual market value it seems like the charts are just saying "Build your wealth, power and status resources to impress carousel riders you once couldn't" No, you build you wealth and go for the young one who haven't yet been tainted about riding the carousel, and then you make it known to them that you agree with them that it's a retarded idea, and you thus give her a way out of the societal pressure that if she doesn't fuck lots of guys, she's a loser. It's not about trapping her or manipulating her, it's about le…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 09:11 PM
5	What is pop media doing? Movie review- "The Switch" She had an off-camera change of heart that didn't make sense. Part II of the Switch is were you see that she comes in, saying she loves him, but then switch it to wanting alimony. Perfectly coherent sequel, and still fits with the title. The switch II : Daddy's paying. From IMDB: While she is looking to get Roland (the sperm donor) more involved in their lives, Wally can't help but notice the many striking similarities that he and Sebastian share. Com'on, he's 7, why the hell you think she's com…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 09:08 PM
0	Alpha asks /r/dating_advice for the blue pill Life your life for the sake of your life and yourself. Let women come and go, but don't put more effort into it than what you get in return. You shouldn't never invest yourself 100% in only one thing, and women are one of those things. When you are living your life for it's own sake, at some point women might come and join you, and you might part ways. Don't try and force it. You are already starting to focus on the road instead of the destination, now you just need to realize that everyone are …	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 08:58 PM
1	The Nuke created feminism. I recommend you read some of the Buddhist stuff, not that I find everything good, but there are some good insights in there. Lot's of "detach yourself and evaluate the fuck's happening".	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 07:52 PM
2	Alpha asks /r/dating_advice for the blue pill Sure, you can tell yourself that Santa Claus also exist. Deep down you'll know, but I guess as long as everyone fakes it, even if everyone know, you can have some kind of happiness. Or, you can find someone who also fully understand that Santa Claus doesn't exist, and that you can both work in the real world, towards real goal. You've got friends, right? Think about it as a friend you'd want to see every day, but with whom you can be real, and also fuck. These are the women you want. They fully …	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 07:49 PM
2	The Nuke created feminism. Remember always that you are just a visitor here, a traveler passing through. your stay is but short and the moment of your departure unknown. None can live without toil and a craft that provides your needs is a blessing indeed. But if you toil without rest, fatigue and weariness will overtake you, and you will denied the joy that comes from labor's end. Speak quietly and kindly and be not forward with either opinions or advice. If you talk much, this will make you deaf to what others say, and y…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 07:25 PM
0	The Nuke created feminism. The results are obvious. Women will control the nukes, but not knowing the consequences of war, from not being in them, will kill us all? :-D	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 07:21 PM
1	Decent post about pre-selection (xpost Seddit) Seriously Jags aren't what they used to be, doubly so in cold climate. That's the same kind of romanticisation of the brand that blue-pilling does with relationships.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 05:18 PM
1	Dating: A Western Reality I feel there's way too much anger in that text. I mean, not that it really changes anything on how everything has to be applied to get the results we want, but, these women go thinking like that because they've been feed the Hollywood lie like we did with the whole beta crap. I still don't want someone who's ridden the cock carousel, because I don't like the attitude they develop with them, but, there's no sense at being angry at them like that. I think it's possible to show compassion to them, …	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 04:43 PM
2	Decent post about pre-selection (xpost Seddit) True Pre selection > sheer physical looks but Pre selection + sheer physical looks > Pre selection > sheer physical looks	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 04:33 PM
4	Alpha asks /r/dating_advice for the blue pill Of course he doesn't want to, because if you go the blue pill way, then love is something that happens and not something you have to work at. It's just magical, and nobody is responsible for it, it just happens, is eternal, and doesn't need to be maintained. It's way more comforting, and way less effort if you do believe the Hollywood myth. Who wants to have to maintain a relationship, it's almost the same work as raising children! TL;DR: He's been playing and now knows the effort that are requi…	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 04:30 PM
1	Becoming Red Pill Means Being The Bad Guy Not getting involved in whether he's lying or not, but it's the party making extraordinary claims that has to provide extraordinary proof, not the other way around. If he's [super xyz] he should be able to easily prove he's [super xyz]. The main problem is finding a way of proving he isn't paying for escorts (and having them pose for his blog and etc) like some other retard did.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/13 03:54 PM
1	9 Reasons Why You Should Say No To Fitness Gyms That's covered by "fits in your budget". Sometimes the closest gym is a bit pricier, you shouldn't go somewhere solely based on trying to be the cheapest guy alive. Make decisions instead of trying to follow black and white rules. The article would have been better if it talked about "a good gym should look like this" instead of sounding like a rant in the tone of "this gym sucks and I hate them and here's why".	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/13 08:39 PM
8	Is going through severe anger part of the process? You shouldn't feel dumb, how the fuck are you supposed to know. You were also told that when you get taught something, you should listen to it. It's a system, not some isolated parts. The only remedy is the following. Take all the theory you hear, and TEST THE FUCK OUT OF IT. Think one way is going to work, or it's kool aid? Just go out and test it out. The only way you can evaluate something is by it's merits. Otherwise, people might have motivations to teach you something else. Unless you've s…	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/13 06:56 PM
8	9 Reasons Why You Should Say No To Fitness Gyms Don't say no to "fitness gyms". Instead say yes to any gym that has the equipment you need, isn't overcrowded, that you can use as you need and fits within your budget. Names be damned, it doesn't matter even if it's called "fitness". If you can't ignore people when you are training, and say no to them when they come up to chat, then I don't know how you're going to handle a club or any other social place...	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/13 06:43 PM
9	Is going through severe anger part of the process? Well, if you've found out you've been told that a system worked in one way your whole life, just to find out that it's part of the system to lie to you, in order to control you, why wouldn't you be pissed. Imagine tomorrow that you find out that putting your money into interests and what you keep hearing as investment is a fraud, and the real way to go about it is to join a club which it's member have access to the money printing presses, wouldn't you be pissed? Of course you'd be. The problem i…	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/13 06:35 PM
3	A breakdown of SRSWomen I just wanted to be ignorant, I wouldn't to be reading /r/TheRedPill or stuff like that.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/13 10:57 PM
3	A breakdown of SRSWomen I just care enough to know who to avoid, and what behaviors are because of these things. You can know about drugs, without caring about drugs, or taking drugs. It's called being informed.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/13 10:44 PM
2	A breakdown of SRSWomen There's are difference between ignoring and not caring about something.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/13 10:08 PM
16	A breakdown of SRSWomen SRSWomen and Feminism are both huge shit tests. By caring about them, you've failed. (It doesn't mean you shouldn't understand what's happening, you just shouldn't care what they are trying to do with it. Understand the system, just don't play by their rules.)	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/13 09:35 PM
1	This is what is wrong with today's women When I'm waiting for my coffee to be ready, I fuck around. It doesn't literally means that I'm getting sex while my coffee is brewing. That fuck around.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/13 04:12 PM
1	What does /r/TheRedPill think of Ayn Rand and objectivism? In reality people go towards jobs that are more suited to their characters. There is a janitor who just sweeps the floor and doesn't do much because he's content enough to be able to pay his bill and not have to think all day long. It's not about if everyone can be John Galt, it's about if everyone wants to be John Galt. It's the same with feminism and blue pill/red pill. People make up model of how stuff work, and choose to believe one over the other. So, on the topic of objectivism, you can ei…	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/13 09:11 PM
1	What does /r/TheRedPill think of Ayn Rand and objectivism? At the end of the day, someone has to show up to clean the bathrooms. Check the show Eureka. Everyone is John Galt. Even the guys who clean the bathrooms is doing that in a way that's going to blow everyone's brains out. It's not about what you do, it's about how you go about doing it. You can excel in anything, and if you can see that, you are entirely missing the point. The garbageman who just follows the routine and doesn't innovate or push the limits does have his job as the problem, he has …	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/13 06:07 PM
7	Let's talk about looks Of two options, looking normal or looking good, looking good is going to help you out more than looking normal. Of course women are going to prefer someone who looks good, but that's only useful for the first 30 seconds, then you have to open your mouth. If you just look good, you don't get far. If you just have game and look like crap, you won't get far. Guys who look good, even if they don't have game, get subjected more than other guys to that post 30 second where they have to open their mout…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/13 08:34 PM
3	Are there any valid red pill reasons, other than sex and children, to put up with the hassle of a monogamous relationship? Don't try to maintain friendship with them, just do you own thing, and if friendship happens, they do, if they don't you don't have to put energy into it. How much energy do you put in "maintaining" friendships with your buds? Not much? Why, because you're always doing shit with them you want to do. You have to do the same with women. Let them connect with you and let them find way to connect and keep the conversation going. Make them work instead of being the one who works. Either you end up no…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/13 05:02 PM
1	If I may ask a few questions, as a woman... I have no desire to be an over-controlling or nagging girlfriend Nobody WANT to be it, people still end up being it. It's not a conscious choice, it's a compensation mechanism for a lack self-confidence and self-esteem. When you are in control of yourself, you don't need to control others or assert dominance. You just are in control and are dominant. It's like leadership and greatness. You don't go after those things. When you become a fully self actualized human being in control of himself, you…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/13 04:48 PM
4	Are there any valid red pill reasons, other than sex and children, to put up with the hassle of a monogamous relationship? I used to think that too, then I understood I knew twats and was putting too much emphasis on the girl itself. With your bud, if he says something shitty, you give him shit or you just go away. Once you start treating women the same way as anyone else, those who are tiring just disappear by themselves. It's simple really, if you hang with people who have tiring behaviors, and you keep hanging with them, you reward those behaviors. More of it will be coming. If you don't give a fuck, either they …	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/13 04:37 PM
8	This is what is wrong with today's women but we still occasionally wonder out loud how long it'll take her to wake up and leave. Why would she "wake up"? Oh, she hasn't had a taste of hypergamy and it's a requirement? Hypergamy is so prevalent that it now HAS to be pushed onto someone. She HAS to fuck around, didn't you know, otherwise she will never be happy.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/13 03:38 PM
2	Are there any valid red pill reasons, other than sex and children, to put up with the hassle of a monogamous relationship? Well, what do you get out of friends? You should be able to get that plus other things. The most obvious one being sex. Secondary one are that you can pool resources and help each other out achieving goals in a way you couldn't do with just friends. If it can become kind of a symbiotic relationship, where the sum of both of you is greater than each other apart, you'd be on the right track. Does this happen often? No. Do people like to think it does? Yes. Is your relationship bad and you are just…	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/13 03:33 PM
3	"No, lets wait with sex for a while..." I think you are way over thinking this. If you are with someone and they don't enjoy sex as much, and this doesn't align with what you want, just don't see them as much. See people who enjoy sex more, and for god's sake don't stop fucking other people. You don't have to say anything! You don't need to go around telling people "well, sex is important, you should put out more", you just find people who put out more and drop those who don't and aren't jumping in your pants. And do the date activiti…	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/13 05:24 PM
3	I am a Male Masochist on the Red Pill The masochist says hurt me. The sadist says: "No!"	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/13 05:33 PM