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it harms absolutely no one It can harm you if you decide to look for an LTR/marriage. You'll be primarily seen as hook-up/fwb material. Sex with random strangers isn't hygenic, many STIs are transmitted skin-to-skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:36 PM
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I am not aware of that study, but yes, I'm careful not to take any not objectively measurable data as absolute fact. One annoying thing around this sub is that such studies often get quoted to suggest the average man has (or can have) more sexual access than the average woman, which is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:19 PM
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Most aren't virgins doesn't mean most are having a ton of sex with different partners, and it's very plausible that there are way more male not-by-choice virgins than female, just on account of opportunity. Since such studies tend to be about self-reported data, I take them with a grain of salt because both genders will lie (to themselves) to not be perceived as losers/sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:46 AM
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women are human too and make mistakes Nobody denied this. It doesn't mean the world owes them forgiveness or absolution from their mistakes. The same rules apply for men btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:45 PM
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Where did you get those stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:22 PM
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Maybe the woman in question isn't feeling she needs to be in a relationship so even if her standard for one is high, she's not harmed by it because she likes her life. This is true for particular women, but will be the exception in the long term. For most people out there, the desire for independence will wane as they age and they will crave family/companionship. The limiting factor is you can't always axpect to be able to start a family at any age and your pool of potential partners will worsen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:26 AM
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Who said you had to date a single mom or divorced woman? You misunderstood me there. I was trying to make the point that the divorce rate is very high, with mostly women initiating most divorces, are they justified? Of course many are, but at that rate you have to admit most women are going into marriages with some Disney fantasies of happily ever after, and as soon as there's hardship, they bounce. This makes marriage too risky for men, as they can lose their children but still have to pay. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:14 PM
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Why are you making it just about men? Most women aren't prioritizing marriage either, and most of the ones who do, do it for mostly self-serving reasons, e.g. to protect themselves financially in case of separation through child support or alimony, or pull in a provider step dad for their out of wedlock children. You said yourself: Maybe they want to marry in their 40s. I hope they’re okay with dating single moms and divorced women. So why get married as a man? Marriage makes sense as protection…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:04 PM
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What you're describing is just people doing what is expedient in the moment, it means there are no principles behind one's choices and actions, the person may decide to change at any given moment, just because they "want" it. Sure, you can argue that there is "nothing wrong with that", but I think it's risky to invest in a relationship with someone whose choice of monogamy or casual is governed by their volatile desires or what works for THEM in that moment, and not some sort of principle, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:44 PM
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Studies show marriage benefits men and actually negatively impacts women How's that? If true women need to know this information ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:57 PM
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Don't marry a man if you can help it. Well, I think you can always help it...but what's the difference to marrying a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:49 PM
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Hoe many crises have you had sofar? I mean crises where you thought about divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:46 PM
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Men don’t acknowledge the work average women have to put in to be attractive for long term relationships either. What work do you mean, which a man doesn't have to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:34 PM
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For example if a man and a woman have a small argument the woman is acting cold, and a man tries to warm her heart, I don't normally see an issue with that picture. The other way around I see it as she lowering herself and would think of the man as cruel. I've heard similar lines of thought before from women. I personally disagree strongly, if it's lowering yourself when being a woman then the same applies when being a man. I sort of lose respect towards men who are overly adoring towards a cold…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:52 AM
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They want you to confirm that you'll sacrifice your self-respect to be with an attractive guy, so they can call you names
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:37 PM
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cop out to not hold men accountable Lol men aren't a collective, every man is accountable for his own actions, and you can't hold any perceived group accountable the actions of some of its perceived members, therefore your rant sounds childish. their fellow men do nothing and cover for the bad men? Lol again, there's no such thing as "fellow men", I don't know what you mean by cover? Do you live in a country with a somewhat functioning legal system? In that case, "bad men" should suffer the lega…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:31 AM
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I'd still get a prenup Genuinely curious: Why? Are you rich? Why couldn't you trust her if she fulfills your high standards? I mean, I can understand being cautious with marriage, but the idea of prenups sort of turns me off, not you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:53 PM
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I don't think so. As unrealistic as it is, people would generally adjust to it and there would be other expectations in "courtship"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:02 PM
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Yes I agree, I wasn't disagreeing just added my two cents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:08 PM
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with women having less interest in men than men have for women For sex sure, but not general interest I would say, this is clear because it's a common complaint that men don't want to commit etc. if men don’t chase would the majority of men ever get laid or be in a relationship at all? If somehow the majority of men stopped being horny and didn't chase, women would have to get more proactive, women are very social creatures and desire relationships just as much, they can afford to be passive bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:13 PM
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You serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:42 PM
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Not through cold approaches though, more like university or common acquaintances. With few exceptions, cold approaches are too much effort and risk for very little reward
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:48 PM
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Must suck getting into poly as a guy only to watch your wife getting dick left and right with virtually zero effort while you sit there getting ghosted by your one weekly match lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:06 PM
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Surely there's plenty, but nowhere near infinite, which is a justified hyperbole for the supply of undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:52 PM
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I don't get this, is this some sort of meme? If so I'm out of the loop
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:41 PM
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