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| 1 | This is bull shitFrom the beginning to the end, it is nothing more than a business transaction. Unless there are kids involved, then its still a business transaction, to a point. All they (the courts) cared about was the money. How much you make, how much you spend, where you spend it, how much debt you have, what your retirement/401k/investments looks like, how much, if any real property you have, and how it all gets divided. Thats it. At least thats how I saw it while going thru my divorce. Just treat it like … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | How to break it to the kids?This^ Kids aren't stupid. Just because they aren't saying anything, doesn't mean they aren't seeing it. When I told my girls (age 12 twins), for all the reaction I got, I could have just as well told them the sky is blue. Since then, and since the divorce has been finalized, I dont ask about Mom, and I dont badmouth her or the marriage in front of them. I will however answer their questions as best as I can, age appropriate, of course. I cant speak to how my ex is with the kids, but I make it my… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 03:38 PM |
| 7 | I may be the biggest idiot but I decided to stay in my step kids livesThere is a huge difference between being a step-dad and being a Dad who stepped up. Good for you for looking out for those boys. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 01:29 PM |
| 1 | About Lawyers?From the time I filed for divorce (April 17, 2026) until it was finalized (July 2, 2026) I never saw or met with my lawyer. Only spoke over the phone. I saw/ met him for the first time on the final day of the hearing. We (my ex) split everything down the middle. 50/50 parenting, I pay child support, no alimony. She kept the house and most everything in it, I got an apartment. I didn't think this was normal, but somehow it all worked out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 01:13 AM |
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