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I definitely was straight before i was even conceived. Since birth my goal was to secure the D, and now that i have it i must protect it at all costs. My preeeeciousss
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:14 AM
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True, who cares about job opportunities anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:00 AM
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Why use lot word when few word do trick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:04 PM
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In a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:52 PM
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Nothing like a sexy mute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:31 PM
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Noooope no can do im 5'2
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:28 PM
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Ah ok so there isnt an age or financial reason, but also not out of love just indifferent. Is this correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:21 PM
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Isnt this just a standard sugar daddy marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:50 PM
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Its not about fat lol. Its that Dutch and German men are sick to death of short haired women. They also usually come with a very masculine energy and are combative which is found undesirable. Its a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:48 PM
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u/Guitarsback and i can hook you up with plenty in our neck of the woods. Be careful what you wish for! Lelijke Kortpittige Kapsel 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:36 PM
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BB = blue berry marriage 😖?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:31 PM
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No sir, but i objectify the shit out of my man🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:12 PM
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Oh gosh, everyday it's more new lingo! Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:44 PM
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I dont get it 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:35 PM
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Thank you sweety x
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:28 PM
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I will keep him in my prayers, wishing you and your family strength during this hard time 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:24 PM
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Better bald than clinging onto the last bit of hair or a combover in my book!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:27 PM
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I did, i make up words.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:11 PM
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I mean, this sub is a lot about sex... Other than that i dont think most of us are out here discussing our sex lives publicly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:09 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:05 PM
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Why is that friendo?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:02 PM
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Thats how you stop the cuck. I assumed you are joking yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:00 PM
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Yep, stop cuckation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:59 PM
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Of course it is dear
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:32 PM
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Yeaaa i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:49 PM
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You are only 19 so still a lot to learn regarding women and sexuality. majority of women and men are regular nice people. N count is baseless here. Perhaps you are referring to those who have more sex tend to be happier and therefore more pleasant - that would be accurate as it is scientifically proven given hormones released during sex. This would then also apply to those with low n counts but married or LTR having regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:07 PM
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TIL how many people ive slept with determines if im nice 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:44 PM
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Oh lord. Im noticing already. I posted something a tad raunchy about being sexy for my husband, and somehow that's also a bad thing now! 😶 I've entered the upside down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:43 PM
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I dont want to be objectified by anyone but my husband.. I objectify and grope him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:40 PM
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Im sure your future husband (or wife, i think u said u were bi?) will see you for true sexy slut you are🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:59 PM
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You can never win 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:51 PM
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Chad? Im married, not sure what chads have to do with this...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:48 PM
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Key word is my HUSBAND 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:45 PM
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Update : He has potential for sure 👍☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:33 PM
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Being sexually objectified by your partner is like one of the BEST feelings ever. Sometimes i tease my husband on purpose by wearing something very sexy/revealing and walk around the house like "i have no idea what im doing"... Knowing full well he will follow and grope me in a matter of seconds😜
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:32 PM
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Ah okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:20 PM
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Whats your preferred age range? I hear golf and my mind always goes to old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:17 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:46 PM
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I feel bad for some of the really huge ones who cant scratch their back🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:44 PM
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Why thank you! Happy to lurk and creep around here 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:40 PM
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It will happen for you. Notice how you said when you stopped trying you noticed more attention? Its funny like that sometimes things happen when you least expect it. Be open, take care of yourself physically to be more attractive, and get back out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:23 PM
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You say you have given up, but by the way you are writing... I have a feeling you are not quite done yet 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:16 PM
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Nono son it was fine tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:02 PM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:00 PM
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Im pretty sure this is a fetish of some people, either that or they suffer unknowingly from stockholm syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:44 PM
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Oh ok. Well, then easier for the incels here in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:42 PM
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I mean they can pay for prostitutes too i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:39 PM
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Do MGTOW then move onto the gay life? Since they have given up on women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:20 PM
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As someone who has only recently stumbled on to all these rather strange terms. People have been telling me different definitions of the same word.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:08 PM
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No worries, i understand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:07 PM
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Oooo Can i see? Also how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:05 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:38 PM
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Ahh makes sense thanx
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:19 PM
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What does nexted mean? Im. In my late 20s and out of touch with certain lingo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:11 PM
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Me too😶
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:23 PM
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The "hes gonna learn" part is bubble bursting. Like saying "wait til she rips your heart out mate". Hes happy, good for him. Lets leave it positive, he may have found his person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:21 PM
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Encourage him, not the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:15 PM
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Thats truly vile and disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:15 PM
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Not at all intimidated by an accomplished successful man. But If by "more life experience" you mean he is much older then I would steer clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:11 PM
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Nice! Back to back hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:50 PM
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I think the obsession is creepy af. My exes and hubby have never cared to ask and me neither. That being said, how was your art class? Any potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:47 PM
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Ikr, they are either yuong or have no experience regarding relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:33 PM
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Despite the fact that we are women In LTR answering qs about women, everything we say is apparently fake news. Just TRP and gimpgirl alts out here spitting truth bombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:21 PM
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Enough N count posts! Gosh like ten billion a day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:10 PM
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This is tooo deep for this hour darling 😖😢
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:09 PM
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I dont understand why so many of you are so stuck on how many people somebody slept with. Ive NEVER asked or been asked by any guy ive ever dated or my husband. Its soooo weird and creepy to me, this KEEPS getting asked and constantly brought up. Normal men and women simply dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:05 PM
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Hey To each his own. I personally dont get bothered like that about what food combos other people like to eat. In fact i like hearing about it, and sometimes trying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:01 PM
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I mean when I was dating I would never an unattractive guy because then I would rather be single. but definitely I have dated outside of what I usually like in a man as I dont really have a type. Factors such as Height have varied, hair, race, culture, facial features, physical build etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:56 PM
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Sounds delish. I will try this for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:45 PM
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Yess please!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:38 PM
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Oh my mistake i missed that (including the spoken for ones). Yep wrong on many levels, although taken men do this too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:37 PM
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She wasnt taken, doesnt say so
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:34 PM
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Yep exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:21 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:20 PM
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Noooooo u rage texted your boss??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:14 PM
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Hmm that actually doesnt sound so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:01 PM
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😖
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:28 PM
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What kind of meat and fruit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:27 PM
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The doctors have given up asking🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:12 PM
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My favourite sandwich includes one slice with peanut butter, the other slice with chocolate spread, a sharp cheddar cheese in between both and then throw it on a pan/toastie grill. I swear its heavenly when they melt together and has a nice crunch. Sometimes i like banana in my pasta too. Anyone else have a random food combo?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:09 PM
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Ive literally never asked or been asked... Thats just weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:04 PM
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The word game makes me cringe... Wasnt that a thing jn the early-mid 2000s. For a grown adult to say "i got game" makes me shudder lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:01 PM
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Why would i if i have my husband? If i met him and he had ED theres no chance id be with him. Yrs later now if he struggles w depression or something or has a side effect from medication im not leaving him.. For better or worse. I love this man too much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 11:29 AM
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Yup agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:27 AM
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Damn. Rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:08 AM
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Ooohh i heard of that. Sight that is. Might give it a shot! Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:06 AM
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What's MAFS? i could use a new show
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:02 AM
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Cccc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:57 PM
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You will save us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:43 PM
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Ok. Im sad now but i guess... Iss min gud fam. Is this the plan when we all and ir was asrhma cample.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:43 PM
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Either u are just too cute or adorable... Or u are genuinely too young for us to sleep with. If that is the be case give it a few yrs... I know at that age its all jus kids understanding how to dress for good each gender.. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:19 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:15 PM
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Woaaah my homs.. D to the ROC did u jus call me becky mate?? Cus we bou ta start so many barz fammm Bubble bath style, xxx
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:08 PM
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Ohh hahaha pardon me and thnx for trusting me lol. Still, u are veeery cute! Im not just saying that. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:03 PM
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You did tho, and we had very nice chat..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:54 PM
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Good thank God!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:40 PM
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Ten whole years! Shit that's a long time. I hope it didnt effect you all that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:39 PM
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Feel free to dm me! Ill be more than happy to help, give honest opinion and tips. I have done so for a few here 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:31 PM
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Really, how short are we talking sis
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:31 PM
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Im playing red dead as we speak!! Some asshole just lied to me about helping him and he robbed me. Now im mad!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:29 PM
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Absolutely couldnt agree more. Then it all goes out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:28 PM
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Seee! Ur ex may have hated it but ur gf loves it. What one finds attractive is not synonymous to what the other finds attractive. Im a sucker for facial hair! Sexy af to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:17 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:09 PM
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Also, for e.g my best friend is currently dating some guy off tinder and sweaaaars he is hot af. When she showed me the pic i really was like mehh.. Mostly Bcus he was sooo clean shaved lol. And i love a man whos a a bit wolverine hairy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:06 PM
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I also think we are forgetting that some of us really dont obsess over n count🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:01 PM
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You dont know if you are compatible until you go on a date, very true! Only via dating process do you get to know one another
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:00 PM
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I agree with you. We as women all have different types! We dont all flock to the same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:56 PM
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Even better, i wish u both all the happiness in the world x
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:23 PM
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Oh wowww thank you so much for taking the time to answer. 20 years together is amazing, a long time to still be going strong. so good to know you both enjoy it and clearly it works for you guys. Wish u both all the best and sleep well!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:05 PM
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Omg its you!!! The myth is real!!! . No essay needed. How did u get into swinging? Where did u neet your partner? Where do u go for this? What happens there? How does hour partner feel about this? Can you go alone? Or only together to sleep with others? Any regrets? Do u see this long term for you? Whats the weirdest experience you have had? Big fan! Would watch ur TV Show
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:53 PM
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Noooo Damnit! I wanted to hear first hand from him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:48 PM
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Is that him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:41 PM
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Dear resident PPD Swinger, My dear fellow redditor CatsofTheBanals has informed me about you and spoke of you highly with regards to your swinging ways not too long ago. Please reveal yourself. i recently watched a Swingers documentary and im absolutely positively fascinated and want to hear more. Please educate us on your swinging life and how this all goes down, I hope you see this!!! Sincerely, Worldwide ButtCheeks x
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:28 PM
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Omg you remembered! Bless you❤️ I cant find him tho, i wanna hear all about his swinging ways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:49 PM
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I did change edit it to some , which is what i meant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:45 PM
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Thanks friend, you are right as usual. End of the day wallowing in self pity and anger will only prove to be a detriment to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:44 PM
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Toby? Toby flenderson? Is that you w the username? Thought u were in costa rica so holly could come back...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:31 PM
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Sorry i should have said "some short guys" ill edit. offended Just cus of my gym statement
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:28 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:25 PM
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Be happy with your height. Just like how some women are jealous of better looking women, some short guys are so damn angry that a lot of us women like tall guys. I posted on daily yday that i dont care that my husband isnt shredded and hates the gym as long as he is athletic (which he is, he goes rock climbing and sports). Instantly i was shut down bcus my husband is 6'0 so clearly he must be a chad so my opinion doesnt matter 🤷‍♀️🙄 You have never come off as bitter to me, im assuming its becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:19 PM
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I didnt have sex with him JUST cuz he was hot. I knew i wanted him like a strong desire, and i could tell he felt the same. Why would we marry if it was based on looks? If u think its just looks then you dont understand how marriage works
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:12 PM
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Dress handsome and wear some perfume
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:49 PM
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Yaaaay! Get your flirt on. I love to paint and used to attend art classes, if there was a guy he would definifely peek my interest (if i was single, and he was good looking) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:44 PM
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So you want your physical appearance alone to be the determining factor if you get laid. So to hell with having a great personality that we see potential in right? Being an asshole is fine provided you look good. Dating is a period of time to get to know somebody. You completely ignored the reasons I mentioned as to why it may not happen. A good impression with consistency goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:31 AM
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Exactly! You get it. And it depends on the individual, no man should be angry cus the guy before got laid (why would they even ask this?) getting to know eachother takes time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:50 AM
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I disagree with being consistent with all the guys, why do you care if other guys get laid and you dont? If it happens chances are they have something you lack. there are reasons we dont sleep with all the guys we date right away. Read my post below for an example. if he seems boring af or he seems arrogant or isnt interesting to me i would wait a bit longer to get to know him. and if his personality still really seems unimpressive to me and i dont see this going anywhere then im out. Then the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:47 AM
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Exactly! Ive been to gay bars before with my gay friends, its a lot of fun because nobody hits on us
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:14 AM
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First sentence cracked me up🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:07 AM
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That doesnt make sense. Its unknown if he will be our LTR, so no way of being able to predict this. Because in Most cases we simply dont have casual hook ups (altho can happen) , its usually 1 guy we find attractive and have sex with and get to know him via dating. This usually ends up in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:05 AM
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That makes sense, particularly if a lot had bad experiences and therefore choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:52 AM
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Thnks for explaining... I too heard TRP is anti marriage but i guess that may be those who take it to extreme levels?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:48 AM
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Honestly it depends on if she was looking for casual sex. Casual sex doesnt have to be attractive, can be average. Its the guy we marry/get into a relationship we find attractive and often wont mind having sex right away when dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:42 AM
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Yes true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:35 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:44 AM
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What do you mean like when we were dating initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:36 AM
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Hahaha i just let mine out too cus she wont stop scratching the window
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:35 AM
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I also don't know jack about pills and tbh i like when some men here dont know either, they're just cool and doing them. but i disagree with all these generalised statements. SOME WOMEN is what should be written. As for settling for unatttactive men, again some women, most of us find our spouses very attractive. I have a body count less than you can count on one hand, husband included and i definitely didnt settle for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:32 AM
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Movie marathon, and now im too active to sleep lol. That and my cat is sprinting around the house loudly, crazy hour😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:25 AM
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It really is a trip, but marriage does give us a lot more insight as well as room for patience and understanding. More incels could learn from those in LTR in general by being open to listen and ask questions to help navigate how to go about women, rather than be combative and wallow in self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:22 AM
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Aw very sweet. Thanks neighbourino 🙋‍♀️ Btw its 3.15am for us, night owl?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:16 AM
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Hahaha😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:11 AM
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Ah i totally see your point. Perhaps my phrasing could have been better, thank you for the example and clarification🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:09 AM
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Thank you. You seem very self aware ive noticed at your comments. Not many people in thia sub are level headed and want their make belief views to be true soooo bad and get butthurt when thats not the case. e.g a guy from yesterday claiming "Women dont mind sharing their man". Literally every woman here (we are married/relationship) responded that its untrue, despite that he prefers to believe it is and live in ignorance 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:07 AM
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Louder for those in the back, preach 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:57 AM
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That ship has sailed. Its so hard to have a condusive discussion without being insulted. Also the tendency to generalise ALL WOMEN or ALL MEN is ridiculous. Focus on the individual at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:52 AM
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I guesa. But yeah, i was referring to myself and the lifestyle i prefer. I like zumbaa and dance too, so that and rock climbing keep me fit without being bored (i just really dont wanna be in thr gym)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:47 AM
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I do it once a week and weighted zumba twice and i go for a run every other day. I also eat very well. So this works for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:45 AM
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Yes thank u for understanding my view
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:31 AM
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Me too! I love dance, so much fun
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:24 AM
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Exactly, makes no freaking sense! I actually thought the men would be happy to hear that i personally dont require a body builder shredded from the gym. 🤷‍♀️ Dont need a jason momoa either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:22 AM
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True, and if men wanna do that great. Just not a requirement for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:37 AM
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Rock climbing/bouldering
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:33 AM
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Apparently i did trigger a lot of men here. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:30 AM
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I didnt say he was shredded i literally repeated i dont neeeeeed him to be shredded as long as he is athletic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:18 AM
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This!!! Why dont some of the men below not understand? Im basically saying there are fitnesa alternatives that work for my husband that dont include the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:04 AM
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Well damn! Good to know lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:51 PM
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Bless you for saying this❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:45 PM
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That's amazing and impressive. Im sure it definitely helps with the ladies too as its often a requirment for them. For me personally i really dont mind or care, not sure why my comment triggered some people 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:44 PM
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Ohhh lol i guess that's why some people here are mad at me😅. But i did say that FOR ME i dont care about gym or men being shredded, it doesnt take away from their efforts in fact probably good because for lots of women its a requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:41 PM
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I agree hence why i said perhals unpopular. I reay dont need my hubs to be shredded, hes sporty so that's sufficient for me. I also dont go to the gym but im sporty and eat well. OLD can be tricky in that sense i knpw, bit ot depends on ur lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:39 PM
1

Exactly, its not required for me. Just physical activities are enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:29 PM
1

How come
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:28 PM
2

Omg i said TO ME. if the gym is your thing thats great, for me i just dont care if u dont and would rather do something else like sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:27 PM
1

Yep and to me a great body is sufficient, he is sporty and l find him sexy. He doesnt need to be shredded to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:24 PM
1

Absolutely there are alternatives! Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:22 PM
1

Yeees u understand! I find ot boring, so i prefer athletic hobbies that we enjoy and can maintain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:20 PM
0

Read my reaponses, the gym specifically. My hubs doesn't need to be shredded and hates the gym. So do i. We prefer a jog and bouldering
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:14 PM
3

Or u can just have athletic hobbies. Me. And my husband just find the gym boring and tedious, so we do other things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:13 PM
1

He does! He goes bouldering. Im specifically tqlking about the gym as a lot of men are always talking about that and how much they lift etc. He doesnt need to be shredded to me, athletic hobby to stay in shape is good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:12 PM
2

I dont care what other girls do to look good or if they get compimented. Im in good shape via healthy eating and jogs and as long as my man finds me attractive thats all i care about. He also hates the gym for same reason but loves bouldering with his buddies so also looks good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:11 PM
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My husband loves to go bouldering, thats a hobby that requires strength. So he doesnt need the gym, hes in shape. Im specifically talking about the gym and being shredded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:08 PM
1

Im sure u have ur reasons but its true for me. , my husband literally never goes to the gym lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:05 PM
2

Men, perhaps an unpopular opinion but i really dgaf if you hit the gym. As long as you are in shape and not fat your good to go in my book 👍 Edit: im specifically referring about the gym and idc if he is shredded. My husband and i hate the gym bcus we find it boring and tedious. So we have athletic hobbies where we have fun to stay in shape e.g we go bouldering or for long walks, jogs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:54 PM
0

My sis struggles with break outs and heavy periods because of it. Ive been on the pill for a few years now and luckily no issues at all, in fact i like knowing EXACTLY when my period is coming. Helps me prep for monthly hibernation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:51 PM
3

True, i also prefer low body count . Especially better of it was with an ex, not hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:38 PM
0

It really is. Its not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:59 PM
1

Absolutely, honestly a lot of men who think they are average are actually quite handsome, But they may lack the confidence to approach. Conversely some are very handsome but hard to like because of an awful personality and arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:09 PM
1

Veeery cringe.like idc how much u can lift, id rather see a funny quote from a show I like or something interesting about you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:51 PM
1

Oh i understand what you mean, my apologies. Yes agreed if they are not given the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:23 PM
1

You said you believe most women would choose polygany if it came down to the 2 though. The truth is we would rather be alone than settle for 2 negative extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:20 PM
1

Im not even gonna bother here, my fellow ladies here know what we want. And we keep our men satisfied😊🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:01 PM
2

Yup i think all u probably need is more experience understanding and communication with women via dating. If you have a great personalitt you really have nothing else to worry about since appearance js in your favour😜
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:28 PM
1

Thats the spirit, u are way too young to quit. And with your looks i guarantee it will be minimal effort when you get to your mid 20s. Fish away!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:15 PM
1

Doesnt matter to me, i still like that he would approach me😊
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:59 PM
1

I know right, it boggles my mind how some incels think they know what we want. Polygamy my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:49 PM
2

Aw damn, keep fishing but keep it close to your area. Most women also filter by area cus distancr can be a real hassle especially with busy schedules
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:49 PM
1

Do they really all have bible verses in bio?! I used to use dating apps and most guys would just have braggy how much they can lift bios😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:47 PM
2

Yes she states it perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:21 PM
0

Change location settings to people close to you, tavelling is a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:51 AM
2

This made my morning 😂 gonna fwd this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:50 AM
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"Women dont mind sharing that much " 😂😂😂 You clearly do noooot know how jealous and competitive we can be when it comes to other women. You have been watching to much TLC, Men AND women are possessive and carry jealous traits. Over my dead body would I allow another woman into my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:46 AM
1

We generally dont like timid men as thats a feminine feature. Taking initiative and the lead is a masculine trait and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:38 AM
1

Wow and here i was thinking it was a man and wondering why he carries these backwards vieww! Thank you for informing me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:34 AM
1

Oh really? I had no idea, Is this a known thing? In that case i wont bother engaging
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:26 AM
1

Ive been trying to explain my point in that I like masculine men that take the lead and approach me, it shows confidence. If i liked a guy I would be flirtatious and they would end up asking me out. But in this thread some men are saying I should've been approaching... Fair enough maybe for some women but nothing wrong with the way its always worked out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:08 AM
1

How am i as an individuap maintaining a hurtful system? Me again as an individual doing better how??!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:59 AM
3

You explained your last paragraph brilliantly, because this also applies to me as a married woman. We like men who know what they want, they are clear cut about leading the relationship and deciding the next step is and we make them feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:48 AM
1

I get that but that really has nothing to do with me as an individual, what are you suggesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:37 AM
1

Im from England 😅. I am a fan of old school hip hop but i dont listen to music so much anymore. My ebonics are more comedic than accurate cus it makes me laugh hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:25 AM
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You are making assumptions, i literally said a bunch of times that if a woman likes a guy theres nothing wrong with her asking him out. I dont see men as cowards if they dont. When i have liked guys in the past i would usually be very flirty and then they would ask me out. People meet in all sorts of ways, nothing wrong with me flirting and then the guy asking me out. Again, I havent dated much prior to marriage but that always worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:23 AM
1

I dont think he understands where im coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:20 AM
1

Well depends which country but generally there are always the "bad neighbourhoods". I actually sound very posh so its kinda funny when i act all "hard fresh outta compton sann"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:12 AM
1

Perhaps its because i dont have much dating experience, and im just basing it off of the fact that in those few instances i didnt even notice the guys until they approached me. I definitely do encourage women to not sit around and expect men to do the approaching though. I just havent done it before. That being said i have given strong hints when i liked a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:10 AM
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They really aren't based of harmful ideas or "the role of a man", its just always happened that way for me for men to approach, coincidently. And it was almost always successful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:55 AM
1

How is it misogynistic if a man wants to ask out a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:34 AM
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For sure, i have nothing against women approaching and they should too. I only meant for me personally I have always been the one approached and I preferred that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:17 AM
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Im sure we all do, but usually men are the ones doing the approaching and ive always preferred that for myself personally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:13 AM
2

Yeah that's true absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:04 AM
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Some of us like to be pursued though and have men approach us, makes us feel desired and see him as confident. That being said he would need to be attractive to her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:02 AM
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I think ive always attracted the right kind of men in person, usually the kind of men I like. Unless it was on dating apps. Then i REALLY had to filter through them and would ignore most
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:47 AM
4

I mean we shouldn't assume all women or men are "wonderful" in general if we dont even know them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:43 AM
1

D to the R E K up in dis bitchhhhh. Why do you bring out the inner "projects girl" in me when ive never lived in the US or in any projects my entire life 😂 too much tv i think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:37 AM
6

In a nutshell yup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:24 AM
1

Chicken tikka masala🤤🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:19 AM
2

Makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:18 AM
1

I really think this is the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:12 AM
1

We dont have that in EU muchacho. Hide ya kidz like a bulbasaur in ya mamas ayyas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:07 AM
1

I meant your response was funny, it was a funny retort. Gosh take a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:05 AM
1

But it is tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:58 PM
1

Omg hahahahaha dead😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:49 PM
2

I called the cops. On there way, i was just distracting yo ayyass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:44 PM
1

Weird, i think maybe he played along bcus he wanted to keep the regular sex going? Just speculating idk🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:40 PM
1

Straight up yo,G, fam. Ya mama. And her mama. J TO THE R O C. Imma lock yo ass up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:28 PM
1

Same, i need a rewatch but its midnight where i live and im getting sleepy. Then again i am off tomorrow hmmmm....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:20 PM
2

Hahaha i like you. You is cool. We the best music.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:18 PM
1

Damn i dislike both! Is there a 3rd option
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:56 PM
1

It was a prank and my naive ass fell for it😂. He was sweet enough to give me an award though hahah and thank you it gives me a chuckle. Your username sort of gives me Toby Flenderson vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:51 PM
1

😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:20 PM
1

Aaah okay I understand. But yeah it does happen, didnt end very well for me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:10 PM
4

Omg im such a retard!!!! How embarassing. Here i thought i was special. Im new to reddit😂😂😂😂 gonna go cry in the loo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:05 PM
2

Bluuuuuudz in the buildin brpppp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:02 PM
2

Oh. So it wasnt genuine? My bad i guess. Its hard to tell on reddit sometimes. Ah well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:01 PM
1

Aww thank u! Wait are u being sarcastic? I cant tell🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:55 PM
1

They do it literally in their 30s and it stays like that till death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:54 PM
1

Im confused son, i thought u meant women csnt have casual sex and be done with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:52 PM
2

I mean yes and no spread em, ive had sex simply for sex. But i have also had sex right away because i wanted to be with someone romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:40 PM
1

I dont know. Ermm, the second one? 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:25 PM
2

Potato poe ta toe, fam is fam. Our younger brother😜
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:22 PM
2

It does happen in big cities but frowned upon, people (and hobos mostly)get away with stealing regular personal bikes too and selling it at night . outside pubs and clubs at night this is how it goes: Hobo: €50 voor fiets Me: Nee Hobo: ok 40, of minimaal 30 Me: ik heb een fiets, nee dankje Hobo: okok als je nu koopt 10 euro!!!! And then they bolt cus the police are patroling😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:14 PM
0

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:04 PM
1

Here in NL its not just cycling... Its a way of life. I had to accept it and get in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:02 PM
1

Chin up hornyjailer, whats wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:58 PM
-1

I do agree for the most part as I myself have done this, sex on the first date that is. But ive also had casual sex and really only wanted sex, suffice to say that didn't end up going anywhere...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:54 PM
1

Ah okay, well always other waya to compensate right friendo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:40 PM
2

Damn right! Take these gang signs friend! 🖕🤘🤛🤙👊🤘👊👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:39 PM
1

Are u american? Im sure thats prob average there right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:20 PM
1

Hahaha makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:13 PM
3

Yaaay a brit!! my fam is here🍻💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:11 PM
3

Yesss neighbour! In dutch we call it "Kort pittig kapsel" (short spicy hair) and the men HATE it hahahaha my husband always points at them and says u see that? dont u DARE!!! I had a feeling it was the same in Germany😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:07 PM
2

The Netherlands, tallest people in the world. Being from England it was like damnnn, because im 5'2 so below average height here for a woman 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:02 PM
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Definitely can be a pro or con depending on where you move. A 5'9 guy would do fine in scandinavia, i live in the tallest country in the world the Netherlands.but im from England and 5'2 so here im below average height for a woman 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:01 PM
2

The average woman is 1.70 (tall), in shape, usually same ish clothes, doesn't really wear make up, wears trainers, has a dog, extravert/introvert can be any, usually not too feminine in the way she dresses. long hair if shes on the young end but for some reason very short pixie cut after a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:58 PM
3

You're a riot😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:49 PM
1

Hahahaha we arent all Americans either! Or kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:43 PM
4

A lot of posts about what the "average man" looks like so i thought i would chime in with my opinion. I think that the definition of average men varies a lot depending on where you live. I dont think an average looking American for example, would be considered average here in Europe (where it also varies in itself) and vice versa. This goes for all countries/continents. Therefore what I consider average may/may not be for others, and when you move countries like i have then average there ks d. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:38 PM
1

That's horrible, thanks for your service!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:14 PM
3

I think its possible for us to be attracted to you but if nothing comes of it there may be another/other guys who are interested that are messaging, hence our mind may be preoccupied with someone else. We do have to filter through msgs sometimes, but theres always someone who grabs our attention the most
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:13 PM
1

Oh what happened!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:09 PM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:08 PM
2

If i did i apologise, i barely know how reddit works km still new to it. I even misposted yesterday somewhere apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:05 PM
1

I did? My apologies if so im barely paying attention half watching TV. I honestly still dont know how reddit fully works im still fairly new to it. Can it be undone?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:03 PM
2

It wasnt helpful? Im confused did i offend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:57 PM
3

I didnt downvote.. I answered your question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:55 PM
1

Trigger fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:44 PM
2

I did have sex on date 2, and as we continued dating we both sort of starting learning what the other likes. Communicating sexual needs is so important, men are not mind readers🤷‍♀️ but some can be selfish in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:43 PM
1

Yep absolutely, and the generalisation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:32 PM
1

You know damn well most women dont friendo, we arent out here paying for surgeries (like we cojld even afford it😂) . I like to look good so i dress well and always have my nails done, heels on dates or important events. As for hair removal? Thats basic grooming. Also nothing wrong with any of these things! Even if some women are doing it for a guy also fine, we all should make an effort
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:30 PM
2

😂😂 They get giddy at the opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:25 PM
1

10000% YEESS😋 best ive ever had. After sex on date 1 I couldnt wait to get laid again (conveniently the next morning).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:11 PM
1

Kind of but not a lot. For e.g since i started therapy ive been suggesting it to a good friend of mine who could really benefit from it. Other than that its mostly better shades of lipstick, good facials or a nice pair of shoes to go with my dress to make me look better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:05 PM
1

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:56 PM
1

Idk where this comes from, yes most of us are either married or in relationships but you are thinking of gimpgirl. My husband is 1.85 and does make more than me but thats coincedence cus he has been in the workforce longer 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:56 PM
3

Im a 6'7 man with a beard and a whopping shlong. They call me the tripod
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:51 PM
1

I really dont know, but i like to think there are a lot of us who you probably dont see cuz we dont go out much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:42 PM
1

I did ask yrs later hahah. He said he genuinely enjoyed my company and overall silliness, like a best friend that he gets to bang 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:29 PM
1

I really did. Made me feel all kinds of things😖
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:25 PM
0

I just responded to a comment clarifying for me, i miunderstood the term😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:22 PM
4

Thank you for clarifying. Btw its not a "ridiculous assumption" that i assumed the red pill definition as i see this term thrown around here a lot. Im fairly new to reddit and this sub so i dont understand some terminologies, and thats ok and now i know. As for dumping the person your with to get with a "better guy" i personally wouldn't but im sure some women wojld just like some men would get with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:21 PM
1

Yea and we did 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:11 PM
2

Im from England but I live and work in the Netherlands, so i speak dutch too😄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:08 PM
1

Woah that caught me off guard... We were talking husband material. Which is what i ended up with... And yes if thats what he wanted i would🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:07 PM
2

Oh my mistake, i shouldve phrased differently thanks. Btw you're German? Greetings neighbour! 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:04 PM
2

Seeee? Im not so scary am i! Hahaha IRL im 5'2, probably the least intimidating person in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:59 PM
-1

So i understand, am i defining hypergamy correctly? I assumed it meant we tend to want the men who attract us the most? This is what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:57 PM
3

Oh i see. Thanks for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:56 PM
1

What do you mean mixed msgs? So i understand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:55 PM
2

Ah noted. could you clarify why the victims feel women enable this behaviour, because its pretty unanimous bullying is an ugly act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:40 PM
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Haha thanks maybe they pretend to be lonely to get free food
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:34 PM
4

I do preach against using violence usually, but if there is one thing i hate its a bully. I fully support violence towards bullies. I disagree with when OP says "women are the enablers and cheerleaders". If anything, i respect the crap out of a man who has had enough and puts the bully in his place. Shows me he doesnt take shit like that and others will think twice next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:32 PM
-1

Ah okay, some do find it wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:25 PM
4

I dont have all the answers but i do like to help my friends both men and women, in terms of tips n stuff. But instead of getting paid they eat all my food 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:23 PM
-10

I dont think this is wrong though, we go towards what attracts us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:21 PM
-2

I find this to be the case too... Different men have different experiences of course🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:20 PM
4

And thats fine🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:19 PM
-1

I agree that some women gloss over the average guy sometimes. But you dont know why... They could be in relationships, just broken up, going through something etc. I would suggest to average guys take a shot and approach her. I know i love a confident man😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:14 PM
1

I dont use much, just spray a bit on my hair and neck, cus i know hubby will smell it and will wanna come to bed... 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:02 PM
1

Snaps im English too but husband is Dutch 🙋‍♀️ Shephards pie❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:00 PM
1

Aww dont be so hard on yourself. Work out and get your endorphins going, will help your mood. You have had girls into you before you say, so no reason it wont haooen again. You said it was someone from class, may i ask how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:57 PM
1

I wear it at home too, when i come out of the shower
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:52 PM
1

Its a big pro as long as it isnt overwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:47 PM
2

Sure absolutely.. But Girls on insta? 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:34 PM
1

Ah oki
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:25 PM
1

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:23 PM
2

Awwww thats so heartwarming, wish u and ur fiance a lifetime of happiness❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:22 PM
3

You guuuuuys😔😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:21 PM
3

Omg hahahaha i just saw how that sounds. But you know what i mean 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:12 PM
2

No idea🤷‍♀️ for me he has my code and i have his. Not cuz we dont trust eachother but if his is closer or something then ill use it and vice versa. Also he'd never find anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:04 PM
2

Fascinating, thanks for explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:02 PM
1

Thank you! I always make stupid silly names for accounts hahaha, my old gaming account was something like CosbysMoistyBallsack 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:54 PM
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I sure hope not hahah! I don't know how getting blocked works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:38 PM
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I see! You mean its common for a lot of men at thr gym to be on the roids? If so how do theh maintain physique if they stop? Bcus roids are a nono for me just like a lot of men dont like bolted on fake boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:32 PM
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of course! You can have issues with them for sure, i dont expect everyone to agree with my comments. I just expect respectful dialogue 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:29 PM
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While I dont judge people with face tattoos, i wouldnt date them. A nice sleeve though is hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:27 PM
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Exactly! Thats great to hear, some people think apps are useless. But for expats such as myself it has helped
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:11 PM
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Ah yes thank u. Im fairly new to reddit so i didnt realise. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:10 PM
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Oooh hahah sorry. I live under a rock
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:45 PM
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I hope so, but i shouldnt be told to be civil when i am. Certainly dont wana get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:45 PM
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Oki, ill see who comments as i may just not have seen it. That being said my comment about not having to be shredded or look like youre on roids stands
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:43 PM
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Cum dumpster, rag things to that effect. Doesnt bother me as i dont respond but i didnt understand the "Be civil"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:41 PM
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While i do agree it's harder for men, I havent seen anybody deny this? That being said you dont need to be shredded to get laid 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:40 PM
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I have been insulted and called awful sexist names (granted its usually the same accounts) but the moment i said "Can you not be so disrespectful? This is toxic" in response. I get told "be civil" by the mods
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:38 PM
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I have suggested it before, dating apps. People live far away, its a great way to meet new people, 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:34 PM
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Actually my history is fine. the majority of men here actually respect my opinion as I'm helpful, empathetic and kind even when i disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:26 PM
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Im grateful im not lol, some of my girl friends also have it hard out there like some men. I dont even remember HOW to date anymore, i would probably be all awkward like: "soo... Orchids. thoughts?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:22 PM
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I really wouldnt recommend it. I was stalked home not very long ago after leaving the office. And i dont even have social media/pics! 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:16 PM
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Btw which would you say you wojld prefer according to the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:06 PM
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Not just me, thats why i said some women. Nothing is general with all men same as all women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:59 PM
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SOMEONE GET THIS MAN A BEER 🍻💁‍♀️🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:53 PM
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How sweet of you to say! Aw. Like most women on this sub altho we are in relationships we like to lurk and chime in/give opinions or advice. I ignore the toxic women hating men on here who use derogatory terms, but gladly respons to respectful thoughts/opinions or questions that create useful dialogue 👍😅 O and thnx for the username, its silly but cracks me up😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:37 PM
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Thank you dear, im married and very happily😊. You know what you want which is great!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:29 PM
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Indeed its really not a compliment to be the hook up guy. Idk why he thinks this... Scrolling down a lot of men also know that it isnt better. This guys in for a surprise when he realises being the hook up guy is sad no compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:26 PM
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Mmm not all. Ive slept with guys in the past just for sex. With my current i was in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:24 PM
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Hahaha ive heard this a lot, im married so im just sort of a lurker who chimes in with opinions here n there. Its been interesting ro read to say the least! 😂 What kind of pie?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:20 PM
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Hiya, im new here found this in the weekend. How was your hiatus? Are you snacking on any interesting? I have haribos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:15 PM
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Yep husband material comes with more things that we need in a man such as protection, feeling safe and a good father. Its someone we honour and have the highest desire and respect for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:13 PM
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Agreed. In my late teens it didnt matter to me, but after 20 i realised wouldnt settle for someone im not attracted to physically (with a great personality too since i wanted long term). Would rather have been alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:07 PM
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Why lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:03 PM
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U need alone time 1000% even in relationships. I like to paint quietly in peace so i go to my now "office area" to do so. I want my husband to jus leave me aloneeee when i paint! Haha but i also leave him alone when he is working in the shed. Its healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:59 AM
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I feel like covid has also made both men and women realise that they would rather have LTR where we have healthy regular sex and genuinely care for eachother. Men arnt the only ones who felt lonely during these hard times. Just the other day my friend was telling me how she wished she had a boyfriend she could cosy up with. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:55 AM
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Ding ding ding. Youre right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:52 AM
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I couldnt disagree more... Sometimes (me in my single days) we do have a pity hook up with a meh guy while really thinking about how we want to sleep with the guy we really desire to have long term. Sure i felt like crap after, but in the moment it felt good... I just simply couldnt stop thinking about the guy i wash crushing on. I also didnt do certain sexual things for the meh hookup guy, but would gladly for the one i desired. When it came to my now husband though? After our first date (dinne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:46 AM
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It actually is kinda toxic and a bit cringe. But very entertaining
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 09:30 AM
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I couldnt agree more, its SOME men and women, most of us go about our daily lives unbothered. I just found purple pill sub 2 days ago (are u familiar with it?) and was surprised at what i found. Its mostly male and a few women. Some men are there to self improve others are extremely bitter and angry for being virgins. Have a look at the sub, would love your opinion. Tag me if you find something interesting, always nice to see some perspective from someone else😊
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:59 AM
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Absolutely! Pfff they can say whatever. he is far from an incel. We have a great sex life
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/22 08:03 AM
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Why thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:16 AM
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O shit. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:46 PM
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NOOOOOO way. I wouldn't even date a guy if there was no sex let alone marry. I need regular sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:37 PM
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A lot of my friends are shy so wouldnt do anything. I personally would hint at it in a flirtatious manner😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:31 PM
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Im so confused my apologies. What is the Auto Mod? ELI5
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:25 PM
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Thats very true! I know it would frustrate me right on the first date (if we click) if he didnt show me a lil sumthin 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:22 PM
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Ofc i would never dehumanise anyone. But certain jobs can cause incompatibilities, thats all. Also same with other jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:12 PM
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I reckon you will make a very sexy 25 year old. Id put money on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:09 PM
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I get it, and im not judging but they are strippers... I dont know why you expected their type of life not to effect yours. Its a different realm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:04 PM
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Ah okay to each his own 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:01 PM
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I know why they call you cute and im sorry but they are right. You are absolutely positively ADORABLE😍. I know guys dont like to be told that but its your baby face, cute smile and young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:00 PM
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Im sorry? Reddit confuses me, is my idea being considered? Do i do something? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:57 PM
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Ok im going to give it to you straight darling and you probably wont want to hear this... You want me to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:55 PM
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Is it for the rim job? I honestly have never been with a man that's wanted that. Is it a new gen Z thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:48 PM
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Great to hear, sounds like it gave u a confidence boost! Can i ask how old are you/tall? I only ask because you mentioned they call you cute and adorable and want to see... ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:47 PM
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, 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:44 PM
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Actually i agree, 3 dates already. A kiss is more than appropriate if you are vibing!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah thats how i define it too. True some women settle, others end up alone. I personally didnt settle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:39 PM
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Oooooh your seeing strippers 😅 I like to give advice and encourage normally but i dont think i can. But all the beat! Btw i agree with phone call, its easier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:38 PM
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I wouldnt say I "settle" . That sort of implies i didnt want him but pfff i guess he will have to do. If he pursued me and i genuinely wanted him thats getting what we both wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:35 PM
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That sounds like a great plan. Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:28 PM
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Oooo a fan of rimjobs eh? 😂 Whatever floats your boat senpai. Have fun, fat ass and all!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:21 PM
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Thats a really good sign. Have you kissed? Or been to her place? There are some steps before sex if it happens soon (at least from my experiences)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:20 PM
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Fascinating! Perhaps the first young lady has also been busy with work. As for the second thats great that great that you hang out. As for immediate sex.. Hmmm Are you looking for a relationship or fwb? Both being fine ofc, but depends on what she wants. Btw what do you mean by getting fired for dating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:18 PM
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Woah woah seriously? Abort mission friend. Have you even met?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:06 PM
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Yup same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:04 PM
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Oh that's nice, do you see potential there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:02 PM
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Good evening lovely peeeps its almost 9pm here and im cosy in bed half watching brooklyn 99 and feeling nosey! Anyone had an interesting encounter with the opposite sex lately? Do share (good or bad) and spare no details 😜💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:54 PM
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Ah okay cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:49 PM
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🤷‍♀️ maybe ask them. Or not tbh since its a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:48 PM
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I understand, are u open to dating again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:22 PM
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Aw sorry to hear you called it off. But clearly it was for the best. Have you moved on from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:41 PM
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How long were you together? Did you live together?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:32 PM
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No prob, someone was bored or had a boring convo i believe and so those where my suggestions. Asking about hobbies, what theybdo for fun, work, where they live etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:28 PM
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Are u responding to the right person? I didnt say men bore me... Why would I
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:20 PM
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So veeeery much? 👌💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:19 PM
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Im just as confused... We usually make nice dinner, have fancy cocktails and watch a movie. I would find it weird if he asked me to be his valentine suddenly... Id be confused... Dude u know we are together right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:17 PM
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Wow thats so bizarre.. I wonder why anyone woukd enjoy selfish one sided sex. Maybe they didnt know what they liked sexually🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:14 PM
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You were engaged? Please share your story if that's okay with u
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:12 PM
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My bad, im having an off day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:11 PM
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4 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:59 PM
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Np. May i ask which takes of mine you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:40 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:39 PM
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So? I dont think any less of men who meet someone via app. He got laid that night 😋 lol tmi sory
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:39 PM
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I wasnt referring to you at all! Youve been super friendly and asked me lotsnof qs without being disrespectful. Youre far from toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:36 PM
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He msged me on a dating app and asked me out. Drove to my apartment 2 days later
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:35 PM
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Damnit i wish i could shield you somehow! So you dont take bad advice from certain toxic men on this sub. Your genuine excitement when speaking of her suddenly makes me protective😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:28 PM
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Thats not true and u know it. The proof is in the pudding i.e those of us in loving relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:25 PM
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I said what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:18 PM
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I like lurking. Plus i comment a lot too so at least i add something 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:10 PM
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Omg u are hilarious i like u 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:08 PM
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Yes exactly. Thats what these men don't see. Most of us here are married or in relationships. We like to lurk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:06 PM
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Damnit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:04 PM
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Do gay guys use RP stuff too? Seriois question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:57 PM
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lol by all means lurk, im lurking too. But lets not set the lad up for failure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:55 PM
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Do pets count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:53 PM
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Congrats!! Im proud of you 💁‍♀️😄😄 if u need any advice or tips feel free to msg me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:51 PM
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No offence but you said you are gay... And this is bad advice for a straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:50 PM
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Yessss this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:42 PM
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Me too. I mean not with your wife, but my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:31 PM
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Beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:26 PM
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I love marriage. Its so easy for me because my husband is my best friend. We share hobbies like gaming, taste in movies/series, love the same food etc. He understands me like no other person. Hes nerdy and literally the funniest person i know and makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the world. The cuddles, the amazing sex, the way he knows my body is intoxicating. Going to bed with him and waking up with him is the best. Been with him since 22 and i still wanna rip his clothes off and jump th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:16 PM
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No really please tell me. I like hearing male perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:04 PM
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Aw still new born God bless x
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:23 PM
1

Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:19 PM
2

Awww thats fantastic, how old is your first?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:17 PM
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Omg thats so exciting! I just got off BC. Do you want to msg? Id love to hear more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:08 PM
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Wow is this really a lot for you? Looks personality and sex?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:50 PM
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That's okay, ive never had one. Are you trying to concieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:49 PM
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Haha i found it funny
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:32 PM
1

That and they tell me some guys simply wont commit to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:15 PM
1

You mean IUD?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:10 PM
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Perhaps we have different definitions of settling for someone. E.g if i was obese and unattractive id probably "settle" for the first guy to pay attention to me. Meaning im not happy about it but beggars cant be choosers. In this case i feel super lucky to have met such a wonderful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:00 PM
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Looks, personality and sexual compatibility of course. He ticked all 3. And really planned nice romantic dates
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:49 AM
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I find him very attractive, of course i need to find a man attractive. But his personality is intoxicating, it just oooooozes sexy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:45 AM
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Nope, he pursued me and while dating i realised he is everything I want in a man. He soon asked to be exclusive. While later we moved in together and when he proposed i said yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:34 AM
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Aw you are so sweet to her, its adorable! Lovely to see
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:31 AM
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I didnt settle, i knew what i wanted in a man, always have and i nabbed him haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:25 AM
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Yep i married the funny guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:23 AM
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Congratulations to you and your hubby how exciting!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:22 AM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:21 AM
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I swear Its posts like this that grind my gears. WHY the hell are you shitting on other men?? Do you realise how absolutely unattractive you seem? Good grief. I honestly consider myself very respectful so im trying not to insult you. But I would sooner have sex with every guy in this thread than even share a pizza with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:16 AM
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Interesting way of phrasing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:10 AM
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Im not a dog person unfortunately, but cool chickens! And agreed, i do find a lot of it sad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:57 AM
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Hey dont shit on my fave movies, it won me over 😂. Granted you dont have to have the fave taste in movies, perhaps series, games, a sport, food. Could be anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:56 AM
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Well in that case by all means, simmer in hatred i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:54 AM
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A lot of these lads could learn a thing or two from you. My husband doesn't even know most of these terms "red pill this orange pill that beta alpha omega whatever" He's just always been smooth and collected. All we know is when men or women describe themselves with acronyms or pills, its probably bad news🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:51 AM
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Perhaps because the sub is mostly full of men? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:45 AM
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Oh poppycock. Firstly you already have a lovely husband and successful relationship, and secondly cats are the freaking best! If 30 is old then ill be old soon enough 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:44 AM
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Have u tried therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:31 AM
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I think you may be over complicating/over thinking it a tad 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:17 AM
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Well you cant just sit around despising everything mate. 🤷‍♀️ Lifes too short
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:14 AM
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Post wall? Sorry i really dont know the lingo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:13 AM
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Have u made any effort physically/mentally
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:11 AM
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Im not surprised women are no longer a challenge to you. I agree wholeheartedly with what u stated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:06 AM
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Thank u for saying this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:54 AM
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Exactly thnx for pointing that out. And i married a nerd!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:51 AM
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Very wise words sensei. Getting pissed or arguing is normal, jus kiss make up and lets watch TV. Really nkt hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:46 AM
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Absolutely, you have the right to feel how you feel in this case jaded. And if enough is enough, thats your call too and you dont have to date women🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:44 AM
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Cheers! I enjoy reading peoples experiences. No so much the cussing tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:38 AM
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Hahhahahahahaha😂 thanx
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:37 AM
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Heeey SMG i like that! 😜 Congrats on a long marriage! Inspirational, hope to make it as long and strong as yours
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:35 AM
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Yup. Hubby doesn't even have a six pack lol but the sexiest deep green eyes. You love him for who he is as a person, Couldnt have said it better myself Lucy👌😘
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:34 AM
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I know they want to be desired, i make sure my husband always feels desired. I know he believes it cus its true. I dont give back handed or lame compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:31 AM
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True i think its projection
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:24 AM
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Sadly ur right, had the same convo in the thread with another woman who felt the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:23 AM
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Can confirm. Im 5'2 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:20 AM
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Haha no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:18 AM
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Omg yess i feel the same way. Its not that we go for hot guys or "chads" When we love our men we love every freaking hair on their body😍 their mannerisms, their stare everything becomes a turn on and i just wanna freaking jump on him hahaha brings out the sexual deviant in me😜
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:16 AM
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Im not sure what u mean by pretending to be a relief?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:05 AM
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What do mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:03 AM
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I went down a rabbit whole yday when i was bored and ended up here lol. Lots of toxic people yep, those i ignore but the nice ones who inform me of something i didnt know or ask me a question i respond to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:03 AM
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Omg thank u! Holy crap thats soo cool 😄😄😄😄😍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:58 AM
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Thank u! I like helping people or giving advice on relationships 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:50 AM
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Wow i dont think many young men would date a woman with kids. But u seem happy and it works for you so best of luck to u both. Btw and waited to have sex for over a decade? Wow! Kudos
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:49 AM
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I knew ittttttt haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:43 AM
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Oh shite really? I think hes hot/sexy due to the combo of personality and appearance, hes goofy af 😂no Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:42 AM
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No prob. And first date was dinner and drinks. Btw are u dressed from full mental alchemist???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:40 AM
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I didnt lie to him either. I related to something he said and shared my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:39 AM
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Im afraid i dont, probably a hello or something how are u perhaps. It was simple
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:38 AM
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He seemed to have a lot of hobbies which was nice. And he hard the dark Knight on fave movies (mine too). And he was super respectful, esp when u get so many dick pics and sexual innuendos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:34 AM
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Haha cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:31 AM
3

Sure, we met on a dating site called Badoo when i was 22 and met up the same week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:27 AM
0

Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:24 AM
2

I am
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:23 AM
4

I find it fascinating. What started as a rabbit hole yday landed me here. Also i have single friends who i showed a few comments to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:23 AM
1

Hm true, id love to hear a mans opinion on this☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:20 AM
2

Im not his parent, thats not my place. Thats a good convo for face to face, all i can do is be kind. Anyway i hope dating is going/will get better for you and others (if thats what u want)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:15 AM
1

Thank u, youre very kind and respectful in your responses
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:11 AM
1

Aww haha congrats i wish u both eternal happiness! 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:07 AM
1

Oohh yes true thank u for explaining😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:06 AM
1

True, but it has helped some guys i think. Ive gotten msgs from nice men asking my opinion on things. I was happy to answer honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:02 AM
1

Well.. I disagree. We both wanted to meet in person so We literally exchanged numbers on the dating app and the same week, he drove over to my apartment and took me out for dinner and drinks.☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:00 AM
2

Thats not why i asked. I asked because a very young boy msged me earlier who lurks here and i made him feel really good about himself. He was only 15 and going through something , i was genuinely concerned. I dont want people attacking them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:57 AM
1

Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:53 AM
0

Im grateful for it. Had this hilarious guy not msged me and asked me out i never would have met him, my now husband😭❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:52 AM
3

I agree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:47 AM
2

What do u mean by get everything though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:43 AM
4

Idk what to say in that case. But best of luck 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:43 AM
4

Aw thank you! How sweet. I like to post here to sort of show that it is possible you know? And im always open to answer any questions when it comes to how i dated, and how i navigate in my marriage and why we work so well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:42 AM
9

I think that's a tad extreme. If you become jaded towards all women you may miss out on great ones due to you being harsh and not giving them the time of day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:39 AM
-1

Shes sharing her experience, so what. I think its nice for men to see that there are women like us who genuinely love their husbands and can give a womans perspective maybe insight on why we work so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:38 AM
5

Well, I do have a great marriage. Im very lucky to have met my husband at 22, and to me hes the sexiest man alive 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:36 AM
5

Harsh lol. Some of us are just out here minding our own business
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:34 AM
3

I met my husband via online dating 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:34 AM
6

Im married, was off the market early lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:32 AM
0

I wish men would understand this!!! To some other woman ur husband may be a 5 or 6 but to you hes a 10 because u genuinely find him sexy/hot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:31 AM
0

Meh while im pretty young I dont value these ideals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:30 AM
1

Ah ok young but old enough to plan a future and decide when he wants marrkage/kids, a lot of men or women usually have hoe phases that time. So those are the ones you'd wanna avoid... And weed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:29 AM
0

I know its harder for men... I do wonder how old those men are though. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:21 AM
2

Very true, but both parties should engage in dialogue. Not 1 sided
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:18 AM
1

I mean.. For me its basically been if i like you i like you💁‍♀️ simple i dont follow any pill codes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:17 AM
1

Oh okk my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:08 AM
2

You would still want him in ur life as a friend after he rejected you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:07 AM
3

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:05 AM
1

Oh im sorry i misunderstood. But you could be right yeah 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:03 AM
3

Some do, im obsessed with Red dead and God of war 😅 but maybe just asking about the other person's hobbies is a good convo initiator
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:02 AM
1

Ahh i see thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:57 AM
5

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:49 AM
6

Deceitful yes and im sure she will end up regretting it. He deserves better, probably dodged a bullet blessing in disguise 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:47 AM
1

Can u summarise please? I don't want to wake anyone and dno where my headphones are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:43 AM
2

Wait explain that, what does that mean? Im bottom 10?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:41 AM
1

I like what I like 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:39 AM
1

Oh my bad. I assumed you were just being nice to hee given her circumstance. Not actually hitting on her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:39 AM
6

😂😂🙋‍♀️ Hahqhqq Sending u virtual hi5
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:36 AM
3

Nothing wrong wjth being attracted to hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:34 AM
8

I couldn't agree more. And God forbid I mention that I like to have sex then I'm suddenly a whore... Umm OK
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:33 AM
1

Better to settle with someone tho right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:31 AM
14

Wtfffff thats creepy. Basement dweller im sure most men dont feel this way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:27 AM
1

Series, games other hobbies, whatvhe does for work, where he lives etc those are good topics 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:25 AM
1

Do u see u settling as a bad thing tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:13 AM
1

Would u say u have done everything possible to makd ufself more desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:07 AM
5

I personally dont believe in celibacy so no. I have a very high sex drive 😛😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:59 AM
1

Well he seemed nice enough to accept my encouragement. Guess ill stop then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:57 AM
1

How so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:56 AM
2

I wish just trying to cheer him on...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:54 AM
3

Hey thats alright🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:50 AM
2

I agree, provided there is attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:47 AM
0

Sure you can, maybe try a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:44 AM
5

Well how is that on me? I treat everyone with respect and compassion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:43 AM
2

Woah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:39 AM
2

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:33 AM
5

If i was dating a man and im attracted to him and his personality, i will very likely have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:26 AM
1

Ofc whatever works for u
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:24 AM
6

Ive never felt "used for sex".... I wish men would realise some of us have very high libidos🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:23 AM
3

Put yourself out there and date, u can do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:17 AM
2

Thats better. I always recommend tea, key to all of lifes problems. Relax. Take a break from dating however long you need. Focus on yourself and take care of your mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:15 AM
5

Nobody is owed sex or commitment. But the vast majority want both, so thats where dating comes in if you are attracted to eachother🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:13 AM
7

Ive never expected my ass to be kissed by men... Idk where people come up with this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:12 AM
1

Oh that sounds depressing. Thnx for explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:09 AM
10

Im one of these women, some of the acronyms i dont even know. Someone had to explain what a chad and stacey referred to 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:08 AM
1

Honestly i dont really know what a red pill is as ive seen men who want some of it but not all. So for me i require compatibility in this area 🤷‍♀️ someone feel free to explain the essence of RP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:06 AM
2

Whats a black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:05 AM
7

Thats the spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:03 AM
14

You sound super angry, rage posting gets you nowhere. Have a cup of tea and try to calm down. If you feel this way about women then perhaps its indeed wise for yoj not to date. may i ask how old you are? 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:02 AM
1

Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:59 AM
3

Maybe for some but i certainly dont feel like that i settled
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:49 AM
1

Oooh i get it, it doesnt apply to you 😅 i think they forgot some women dont want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:47 AM
2

Thats a very healthy way of looking at it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:45 AM
1

Its in the name... Literally "involuntarily celibate"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:45 AM
1

Whats confusing about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:43 AM
1

Incels
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:42 AM
2

I agree with literally everything you said. Sex wont solve the problem of incels, thats something nobody can help with. A healthy sex life is important, which is why i think its good to get to know people and date to determine compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:40 AM
1

Better option i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:37 AM
1

What do you agree/disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:31 AM
1

I know right! 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:31 AM
1

Nonononooo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:28 AM
3

I think certain men mean frustrated because not many of us women will sleep with them and they crave sex, which is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:27 AM
3

Im nor reading it, but was curious if it was infornative to men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:26 AM
1

I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:24 AM
1

There are seeking arrangements and things of that nature if you like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:21 AM
1

Well alrighty then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:20 AM
1

Ahh okay. Did it give u insight?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:18 AM
2

Im simply stating my preference. I don't find self pity attractive in women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:15 AM
1

What's it about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:04 AM
1

Hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:03 AM
5

Not all of us are out here chasing "chad" (btw someone just explained that name to me)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:02 AM
2

I imagine eventually itll feel hollow but idk. Nothing tops a genuine lover imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:00 AM
2

To each his own, not my place to judge if men prefer to check out or seek prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:58 AM
2

Yuuup pretty much 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:52 AM
1

Totally fair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:48 AM
1

Honestly I dont care how much sex anyone is getting besides me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:40 AM
2

In that case great, keep it up 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:36 AM
2

Would u say its worked for u?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:32 AM
1

Is TRP considered like a holy book for men???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:30 AM
2

Self pity simply isnt an attractive trait🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:23 AM
0

What lies tho? Be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:18 AM
1

Yeah i guess so. I think serious dating when young helps while finding sexual compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:13 AM
1

Of course, everyone should be allowed to have standards or preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:07 AM
1

He isnt tho... He just has preferences so do I. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:03 AM
2

Why would men want to raise your kids? I wouldnt want to raise some mans kids that arnt mine 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:00 AM
5

Okay so not all men are getting laid... What does that have to do with a woman if we dont want to have sex with you? We also have preferences when dating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:48 AM
-2

Untrue, i believe its men who are angry at women cus we dont want to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:45 AM
2

Ikr🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:38 AM
1

Not in my eyes as a woman, u have preferences🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:34 AM
1

No, right person. Which is y i settled down w him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:31 AM
2

Im a planker, chest or back im planking 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:25 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:23 AM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:20 AM
2

I jus wana massage it or use ot as a bed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:16 AM
2

I dont think they have much choice...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:11 AM
1

Thats the spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:10 AM
2

For sure, but DM wasnt what he was referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:09 AM
9

Amen 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:08 AM
1

Oh lord.. Thats insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:05 AM
4

Can i pick medium height and medium dick instead of options given?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:04 AM
2

Hmmmm unsure if ur a sarcastic man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:02 AM
2

I meant it as part of personality.. Also kinda geeky 😅q
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 02:00 AM
1

That's good, dont settle for psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:58 AM
2

Sorry i cojldnt resist hahaha that was mean. My bad, ita 2am here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:51 AM
1

Believe it or not, some of us actually value a man beyond just wealth. Appearance, personality and sexual compatibility are what are important to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:50 AM
3

I guess its because we dont pose much of a physical threat🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:47 AM
1

Then why keep them in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:46 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:44 AM
2

No, its a smart man who knows his wife wont stop at one bite of his burger, so he gets her one.😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:43 AM
1

Not sure whats meant here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:39 AM
1

Humble
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:37 AM
1

Playing dumb neanderthal gets you laid? Ok then i guess keep doing that😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:37 AM
3

If this was the case i wouldve done it by now 💁‍♀️😢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:35 AM
1

For some reason i love mens backs. Its so wide and sexy. Idk what it is!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:34 AM
1

I think so too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:32 AM
3

Id definitely also say hot 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:31 AM
2

Why generalise? I picked hot becauae you can learn tk be brilliant at something... But not hot. Intelligence is very important, esp in your field or where your passion lies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:28 AM
2

Hot 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:26 AM
2

Ive always avoided mixing male friends and sexual partners 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:25 AM
8

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:22 AM
1

Thats soo cute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:20 AM
1

I think that's mayb for older single women. Some of us settled down very early🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:19 AM
2

Not all of us, some sure. But most of us want loving relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:18 AM
1

Yesss shoot your shot!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:09 AM
1

I do agree with being honest about if you are not attracted to someone. But i struggled with this back then and hate to be hurtful so i used to just not respond and hope they took the hint
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:08 AM
1

This is some women, not all of us. Ive always preferred men to approach me, it shows confidence. Ive never done the approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:02 AM
4

Omg are u seriously suggesting men to settle for obese women? I know i shouldn't laugh but thats pretty funny😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:00 AM
1

Okay and? Hes happy then great, he had sex. Thats how I find out who is sexually compatible with me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:51 AM
1

I do understand if some men wont do oral during hook ups. But if they aren't willing to do so in a relationship that would be a massive dealbreaker for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:48 AM
1

Ah yeah that makes sense the "bitchy boss"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:41 AM
3

I actually have an extremely high libido, and my husband wanted to marry me. Our sex life hasnt changed since we met, and i had sex with him on the first date. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:39 AM
1

By deal i mean if id want to be with him, relationship wise. I couldnt be in a relationship where with no oral sex so if he refuses and says he doesnt like eating me out i wouldn't be interested in him after that 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:37 AM
2

I change sidewalks if i feel like im being followed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:34 AM
2

Clingy? Maybe idk
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:33 AM
2

Read below what i consider creepy, its really obvious when its seen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:33 AM
2

Im glad to hear he got arrested, scum bag indeed. And cat calling/objectifying us never works. Those men really need to learn basic respect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:28 AM
2

Well... Im not exactly going to pay attention to ALL men thats ridiculous. I can only control me and who enters my life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:26 AM
1

Thats all i can ask! 😊😊
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:19 AM
1

What do u mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:18 AM
1

Hey thats totally fine as long as you think but not comment out of basic respect you know. I prefer hearing you look beautiful in that outfit or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:17 AM
2

Cave man version indeed😂 youre funny, u should lead with that. It will get u places
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:13 AM
1

Lie about what tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:11 AM
2

I agree! 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:08 AM
2

You can think it but Its not appropriate to say 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:06 AM
1

Oh then yeah absolutely. Husband and i have regular sex. Hasnt changed since the day we met
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:05 AM
2

Omggg 😂😂😂😂😂 i meant like to say that they find me pretty. NOT comment on my butt lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:04 AM
1

Please dont make assumptions. My husband and i both work and have well paying jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:01 AM
2

I do, but still... Thats how i define creepy. But nothing wrong with a man approaching or complimenting in a respectful manner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 12:00 AM
1

I wanna comment but the link doesnt work for me, but i like a man with facial hair😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:58 PM
3

For me, creepy is when men whistle at me. Or when they yell sexual things at me on my way home from work, or follow me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:57 PM
2

If he is your boyfriend why would he need to ask? Isnt that a given? Serious question
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:55 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:53 PM
1

I agree married men get more sex, but regular broke guy? No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:52 PM
2

Not broke men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:49 PM
1

I agree with the married men part, but not the broke part...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:48 PM
1

Then by all means a prostitute is the way to go if you feel this way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:48 PM
1

Oh dear...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:45 PM
3

On the contrary its done nothing but bash me when i try to respond to men in an honest way. It seems to keep trying to push its agenda on me. I politely asked it to stop harassing me🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:41 PM
1

Im in my mid twenties and hes now my husband. I knew he was the one instantly. I have no regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:39 PM
1

Omg this sounds like an ep of 90 day fiance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:36 PM
2

I have my reasons 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:35 PM
1

Its not a bad thing to have sex on the first date, I did. Doesnt make me "not a good girl", it makes me a girl who was attracted enough to a guy during a date and wanted to sleep with him 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:35 PM
3

I find him unattractive, i dont care that hes tall. and his text seems like i wouldnt enjoy his company
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:31 PM
1

Ah got it. Like i said, most of us prefer loving relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:24 PM
2

I absolutely agree. I was referring to the ones who keep suggesting paying for sex because they are done with women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:23 PM
1

True, but peoples colours will always show.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:18 PM
3

Yup its almost 50
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:17 PM
1

Thats not completely true, i know plenty of average looking men with girlfriends. To me he may be average looking but to her hes smoking hot. Also, i know average looking women who cant get a man to commit to her🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:16 PM
3

Oh okay phew 😅. As cliche as it sounds, you HAVE to be yourself. You dont ever want to be fake or have someone fall for you by putting on a facade. Be your inner weirdo! Embrace it. Its fun
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:13 PM
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100000% yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:12 PM
2

Today has been so educational, i honestly didn't know about a lot of the struggles some men face. Mostly because its never occured to me. Interesting to read how it is on the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:11 PM
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Are you being sarcastic? Sorry but i really cant tell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:08 PM
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I know, im agreeing. Its not smart at all,but its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:08 PM
1

Kenya moore HAIR CARE
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:05 PM
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Agreed! I certainly dont
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:03 PM
3

Introvert and confident are not synonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:01 PM
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If men are afraid to approach then perhaps you are coming off too strong? Nothing wrong with a smile and small talk, even if i didnt like the guy or taken id still be polite. Maybe even set him up with a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:01 PM
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Maybe they were hoping to change him, i know thats what some of my friends do. Most of us want relationships and to have love and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:59 PM
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I mean i personally dont like timid or shy men as i find confidence to be a turn on, and i like to me approached by men. but nothing wrong with introverted men in fact i prefer introverts. Also, some men who consider themselves average... Are actually good looking but don't even seem to realise it(not all, some). Having hobbies or a shared interest is always a bonus for me. And lastly sexual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:57 PM
1

If you want to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:50 PM
3

She tries to push her backwards views on others its annoying🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:49 PM
1

Awww thank u thats so nice of you. Im in my 20s and married/settled down early for this very reason😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:47 PM
2

X 🙋‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:41 PM
1

You are just gimpgirl, with another account. Please stop harassing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:40 PM
1

Definitely😻!!! I wouldnt last very long if that was the setting haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:39 PM
2

Average looking men absolutely have a shot. Having confidence, hobbies and a sense of humour on top of that is a huge step in the right direction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:38 PM
2

"Theres light at the end of the tunnel" thats the right attitude, that and your last bullet point with advice for men. I couldn't agree more🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:35 PM
1

Bless you! Im sorry i didnt see x
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:31 PM
1

I mean they're nice to look at, but i think the dancing is a bit cringey for me. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:31 PM
1

I have once, It does nothing for me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:28 PM
2

Can someone summarise pretty please? 😂☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:26 PM
1

You are exaggerating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:24 PM
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I disagree, i dont disregard mens issues. In fact i try to ask questions to understand and gain perspective but as soon as the name calling and disrespect starts... I disengage in conversation 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:21 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:20 PM
1

Lie about what
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:19 PM
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Im speaking from my own experience, im not here to argue. Just to say attractive man does not equal less likely to commit. Also depends on who finds him attractive, might be to one woman and not to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:17 PM
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I meant its illegal bcus ofc she isnt a child. But considered statutory rape if she is a minor. Either way, plenty of young women out there no need to touch underage girls (not saying u do)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:16 PM
1

Agree to disagree i guess 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:15 PM
1

You lost me at the last part, pay for a baby incubator?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:14 PM
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Age gap if shes a minor then yeah, but beyond that.. I dint see an issue (her choice)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:08 PM
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Absolutely and i dont judge at all, thats your preference and by all means thats why prostitutes exist. I personally loved that experience of dating. Ill never forget it, That's what made me want to have regular sex with him. Just overall a hot man and literally so hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:06 PM
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😂😂😂 That gave me a chuckle, cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:03 PM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:02 PM
1

True its not universal, but i know plenty of handsome men in long term relationships. We really cant generalise or use blanket statements
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:59 PM
1

But why would he pay for it if he knows i will have sex with him on the regular and genuinely want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:58 PM
1

Attractive men dont value relationships is untrue. Speaking as someone who is always in LTR with attractive men this has never been the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:55 PM
1

Not true, fake news
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:51 PM
1

It sounds cliche but personality is super important, my husband is the funniest man alive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:50 PM
1

My best "date" experience went as follows: date 1 and 2 I was taken out for dinner and cocktails. We got to know eachother and he cracked me up with his humour, i also found him very attractive. He paid because he wanted to, date 3 he cooked me a delicious home made meal. We had a great time and we didn't consider it a transaction, especially cuz i can easily pay for myself🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:48 PM
1

some guys who consider themselves "average" i often consider sexy. Some, not all, i think underestimate their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:41 PM
2

Sorry i meant to respond to the other guy. You're absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:36 PM
2

Sorry but this truly is untrue🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:35 PM
2

Not true at all. I dont find average men repulsive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:34 PM
1

Not true, ive never accepted money for sex... If i like you, chances are ill have sex with you. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:34 PM
1

Hey more power to you if you prefer to pay for sex. To each his own, who am I to judge🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:29 PM
1

Idk, i think you're always better off just simply straight up asking the opinions directly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:28 PM
3

Agreed! That will solve their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:26 PM
2

Planning a date is a hassle?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:21 PM
2

You are both very level headed imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:17 PM
2

Lucky!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:14 PM
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Aw thank u! I do visit FDS and read it to my hubby for a laugh. I dont like their mentality 😂
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 09:14 PM
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Definitely, I dont think i really have a type. But usually theres never an initial spark until i get to know them. Like men who can make me laugh or share some of my interests!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:08 PM
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Id be very embarassed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:06 PM
3

Wow thats so upsetting! Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:03 PM
1

Tenet was great!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:57 PM
1

Damnit the link wont work for me. What did it say? Or relink pls?... How did u respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:56 PM
2

I think this batman will be better than affleck though, i really couldn't stand him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:47 PM
2

Aww sorry you are going through this. Has he been unemployed for a long time? And also, if he is home all day and you are at work then HE SHOULD be the one cooking and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:46 PM
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I absolutely agree, but lets be respectful while trying to communicate these issues. Im always open to hearing the perspective of men as it gives me insight and perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:45 PM
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I REALLY hope not. But as a fan of the dark Knight trilogy i dont have high expectations 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:42 PM
1

Thats extremely tacky... The asking about income that is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:40 PM
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Not women, golddiggers*
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:39 PM
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Very true, as women and men we both need eachother for genuine love and affection. But some men on this sub opt to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:36 PM
2

Im so sorry to hear that. Is it okay if i ask what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:33 PM
1

Yes I should've phrased it better. That's what i meant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:33 PM
1

Hey at least you have a plan 😹
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:30 PM
2

Oh no! Are you about to break up/divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:29 PM
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Golddiggers are common indeed but thats why sites like seeking Arrangements are getting more popular. Men with money are okay with it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:29 PM
1

And that's your right, just make sure you dont impregnate if you dont plan on being a dad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:25 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:24 PM
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If some men are like super sexually frustrated and cant get women then perhaps they should pay for a prostitute? A lot on the sub seem very anti women, we are all just cum dumpster whores from what im reading 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:24 PM
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Me too, i see it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:19 PM
3

Ah Oki thnx
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:11 PM
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Ah now THERE we agree 😂 im talking in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:06 PM
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I guess😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:57 PM
2

Sorry but what is nsa sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:50 PM
2

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:45 PM
1

Thats not approach to me, thats being friendly. Id probably just smile
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:42 PM
1

This has luckily not been the case with me. Sucking dick and being eaten out make for great sex 😻💞
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:40 PM
1

If you havent cum yet, like if im initiating with oral before the clothes have even come off
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:38 PM
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Thank yoou
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:34 PM
1

Do you like younger men? I personally dont but thats just a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:32 PM
2

Well good luck. I love sucking dick and getting eaten out, thats what I need in the bedroom. Some women dont want or expect much so that might work for you if u find that. Also, not that it matters but ive never touched a vibrator in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:30 PM
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Preach ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:28 PM
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Some women* please dont generalise. Just because ive dated a dick doesnt make all men dicks either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:27 PM
2

Im thinking recieving? Honestly jus wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:24 PM
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I agree with supermarkets but dont get me started on bars and clubs. Ive never had to even pay for a drink or wait in line at a club ever. But thats not my scene anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:22 PM
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😻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:20 PM
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Speak for yourself!! Men like us to genuinely ENJOY sex with them not be bloody used and starfish. Im a very sexual woman who knows what she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:20 PM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:18 PM
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Well damn, sorry but if you arent willing to please us sexually then don't complain that women wont sleep with u
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:16 PM
2

You mean giving or recieving oral?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:15 PM
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A thousand percent! I hope men are reading what you said. Nothing like great sex that makes me want to do it with you again. Selfish in bed is the biggest turn off for me, i dont care how hot he is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:01 PM
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I dont think all of us settle, if we are attracted to you sexually and genuinely like your appearance then then a lot of us would want to be with that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:00 PM
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True, but mind you there are also plenty of women out there who cant get a man... Some of my friends for e.g who i would consider average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:57 PM
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I like the way you think, well said! Getting to know me and finding out what I as a woman find attractive should be important to a man if he is interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:55 PM
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I couldnt agree more, no oral sex or focus on my pleasure as a woman is a deal breaker for me 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:47 PM
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Well i settled down very early because I always knew what i want in a man 😅. Not interested in disrespectful men, no muscles or six packs in the world can make me wanna have sex with someone who is a dick to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:40 PM
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True we dont have to be forced into monogamy, but I think most of us do want that. While we do get approached and get a lot of attention, we do have to weed out according to our preferences when it comes to men. So regardless not everyone is going to win 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:30 PM
3

Yup at least thats the case for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:27 PM
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I mean looks are definitely number 1 when it comes to getting my sexual interest. Personality, mutual interests and sexual compatibility are what I then look for😋💞
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:24 PM
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Ahh i see. Well if thats what you are attracted to then makes sense that its important to you. Looks are also important to me as well as personality and sexual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:18 PM
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Im in my 20s and married and I still get approached. It's flattering if they aren't disrespectful. I just say thank you that's very kind but im married😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:16 PM
1

Yeah thats probably a wise choice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:12 PM
1

Whats stacey sexual? Never heard of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:08 PM
1

Ahh okay best of luck with the procedure!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:08 PM
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You big tease! You cant say you vet for 4 things and not say, spit it out 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:04 PM
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Im sorry, i didnt mean it to come across like that. My apologies, i just hate the thought of that😔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:58 PM
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I really dont think thats picky tho haha. Surely something, perhaps similar series or movie interests, cooking, gaming etc. Also depends on age range and what you want for your futures to align
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:57 PM
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What kind of cosmetic work if i may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:54 PM
1

Thank yoooou gosh im tired of constantly reading that on other subs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:50 PM
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Hahaha that gave me a chuckle. Try other dating apps, im sure there are plenty of other single women looking for the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:47 PM
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I understand, mutual interests, a great personality and same needs is very important too imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:38 PM
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Yup if he pays for the date i think its sweet. As for men not wanting to wait a long time for sex i think it depenss on both and what is "too long". For me, i really liked him a lot, we texted and called often too. I am quite a sexual person so if i like you and we are having a great time then chances are it will lead to sex🤷‍♀️ Id be happy to answer any questions you might have, i think knowledge sharing is super important. But i dont think this sub is very open to the opinions of women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:36 PM
1

Ah that makes sense. Whats your situation if i may ask and are you fairly young?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:16 PM
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At first I thought aw give them a chance since men on here are always saying they never get women. But making drunken scenes is a big no no, so i understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:06 PM
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I absolutely didnt sleep with him because he paid. I have a well paying job so i could've easily paid. We just seriously clicked, i found him attractive and he made me laugh a lot. After a while i sometimes paid for dates and sometimes he did. It was never a big deal. I also enjoyed the sex very much and he really always gave me the best orgasms, sorry if TMI😜
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:04 PM
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Yessss its happened 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:59 PM
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How am i supposed to know or care? We as people tend to care about those around us. Those are the only men i care for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:57 PM
1

Ah ok understandable, nothing wrong with u paying. Its nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:49 PM
0

I would say 22 for a guy, my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:48 PM
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Oh sorry to hear that rhat for u as well, what happened specifically if thats ok? And hey bright side better to divorce before kids than after
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:45 PM
1

Ahh i see what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:43 PM
1

Hmmmm interesting 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:41 PM
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Thank you for being respectful in your question, I actually had sex with him on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:39 PM
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Oh well then she should. My best first dates were dinner and cocktails for dates 1 and 2 where he wanted to pay, and then date 3 he made me dinner at his house ans we watched a movie. It was amazing! 😻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:36 PM
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I disagree, we really aren't spending our time wondering how people (both men and women) who we dont know are doing. There are only a handful of males i care about, and they are the ones in my life 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:34 PM
1

I disagree, no need for games. Just offer to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:29 PM
1

🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:26 PM
1

The lunch wasnt any good? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:24 PM
2

For sure! If you want to be more sexy for this person you've chosen you can work on aspects of yourself such as e.g fitness that she finds sexaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:23 PM
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Not at all, its sweet because you didnt have to. This is dinner you are referring to right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:19 PM
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Pretty sure thats her fake account given how new it is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:17 PM
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Well, i didnt think you were expecting me to elaborate. What one finds sexy another may not idk🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:15 PM
0

Was that not a good answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:07 PM
1

Incredibly sad, i could never be in a relationship where my needs weren't being met
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:07 PM
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Im glad you guys appreciated. I was called a whore by some random here. Its just a funny username ppl need to calm down😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:04 PM
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Nothing wrong with introversion. Also, confidence is just sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:03 PM
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Ignore them, i learnt my lesson earlier. The delusion is unreal, makes me grateful not to have friends like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:01 PM
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Yup i think so too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:00 PM
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Hey, youre in shape and got rid of acne so thats a step in the right direction!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:54 PM
3

Very true. The only men i genuinely care about are the ones close to me in my life. I assume this js the case with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:46 PM
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We all have our bad days, watch some TV and have a cup of tea. If you have a cat, give her the pets! That always cheers me up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:44 PM
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Oh, the sarcasm went over my head. I dont think its creepy at all, very sweet gesture actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:42 PM
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Chin up buddy☺️ you seem like a reasonable guy based on your other comments. It will happen for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:40 PM
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It is🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:38 PM
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False, men who dont go down are either selfish in bed or dont enjoy it. I personally could never be with someone who wouldn't go down on mee
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:37 PM
3

Woohooooo! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:34 PM
2

Yeah trust me the grass isnt greener here, i used to ignore most men on OLD due to unsolicited dick pics or just creepy vibes. I did find an amazing guy and went on 3 excellent first dates with him, no creepiness or msging nasty stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:32 PM
1

Wait you dont want to make a woman feel welcome in your home? Why, genuinely curious given my opposite experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:30 PM
2

Omg my soul mate 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:27 PM
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Hahahaha nono i meant like, if im reaaally aroused and i feel like initiating, after making out a bit ill move his hand south of the border and most of the time he gets that i want some kisses down there. And if he doesnt ill whisper it, usually works 😻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:25 PM
1

Amen to that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:23 PM
2

Im saying that a lot of them have resorted to random hook ups in the hopes of meeting their match
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:22 PM
2

Aw thank you! I have an immature sense of humour 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:19 PM
0

Its a lovely idea but id say make it the 2nd or 3rd date. Sitting down, eating, talking is best to get to know eachother. The focus is on you both rather than distractions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:18 PM
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😶
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:14 PM
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Oh, my apologies... I just have a lot of single friends who date men who just won't commit to then. So i do try to understand both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:13 PM
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Its popular check the app store. Also i wouldnt recommend making dinner as a first date, but the way he planned it as our third date seriously made me so comfortable and was the best dating experience of my life. The first 2 dates of dinner and cocktails were a great opportunity to get to know eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:10 PM
1

Oral sex is a muuust☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:05 PM
1

Luckily i havent dealt with this but im very clear on what i like, i think more women should speak during sex and tell the man what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:00 PM
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We met on a dating app called Badoo, it really was the best first 3 dates. Try it Matt! Once your kitchen js done, was an excellent third date. He made me rice and chicken madras curry😻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:56 PM
1

I was taken out for dinner and drinks the first and second date and he paid, third date he wanted to cook for me at his place and watch a movie. It was truly amazing☺️☺️☺️☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:47 PM
2

Hahahahq makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:45 PM
1

Trust me i get it as someone who has cut contact with her mum. Dont believe that shit she says, and please dont turn out like these women hating incels. I cant believe how rude people have been on this sub... Unnecessarily simply because im a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:42 PM
1

I agree with u here, just reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:37 PM
2

Same 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:36 PM
7

Oh hell no! You need to both enjoy it. I love sucking dick AND being eaten out. No oral sex is an instant deal breaker for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:34 PM
3

Ridiculous, Id feel uncomfortable if a guy took me somewhere super expensive for a first date...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:31 PM
0

Aw im so sorry to hear that, thats a terrible thing to hear from your own mother. You haven't been successful YET, im sure you will be and your mum can suck it ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:29 PM
1

i dont know about ugly mens experiences but ive read a few on here so i sort of understand . Im not saying all but i meant often men cat call and objectify me, have tried to grope me and if i ignore to tell them to fuck off then suddenly im "a fucking whore anyway"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:26 PM
2

True, its wrong and shouldn't happen. We as women are often called whores and men have yelled all sorts of things at me omwh from work, especially gets worse because i ignore them. Shouldnt happen either. But it does
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:20 PM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:18 PM
2

Its my opinion, im open to hear yours
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:18 PM
1

Is it men shaming you? Cus most people really dont care what others are doing, myself included
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:15 PM
2

Men wont be shamed for this if its literally their ENTIRE personality. Working on yourself physically, mentally and having hobbies is a big step up imo 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:11 PM
6

Why on earth would he spend 150 on a first date? Thats weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:10 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:07 PM
2

I consider myself an extremely sexual person, but just for my man that is🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:02 PM
2

Yeeeeees all of this! Also, i know some women who have never recieved oral. Thats already a deal breaker for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:55 PM
1

Hmmm i honestly dont know 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:53 PM
2

Why do you want to control a womans sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:51 PM
-1

Usually it gets boring and when theres a man we really like it moves to just lots of good sex with him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:40 PM
2

Thats probably why you get laid 😂 hard for some men to imagine we like sex too!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:38 PM
1

Nice username
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:08 PM
0

Yeeesss this 💃
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:03 PM
-1

I meant that lots of men and women like hook ups so it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:57 PM
1

Why is it hard to get away from? I really dont care for SM (Unless you count reddit/linkedin for job purposes)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:17 PM
2

So? To each their own. Just because something works for you doesnt mean everyone else wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:14 PM
1

Ok.. And? I work from home
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:07 PM
1

I agree with the first part, but if you as a man spend all your time on social media thats all you will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:03 PM
1

Well... We both have money as we work. So if we want wnt something we can afford it, No kids yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:55 AM
1

Omg i just looked at her profile. I feel sorry for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:50 AM
0

Thing is, you may need to avoid SM and talk to those of us who don't even have SM.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:47 AM
2

Well in my case its mutual love and respect if you want to call them "terms"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:46 AM
1

Oh im sorry! Hahaha i assumed you meant me🤣 I thought gimpgirl was actually a man... Because why would they say no man would wife up girls nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:45 AM
1

Oh damn, i wish i could set them up with some of my friends! Trust me i hear so many stories from them but i think they also should tell the guys what they want and be more direct
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:44 AM
1

Why would you think this?! Thats not even true...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:43 AM
1

You think the majority? Idk cus i do see it happen to so many of my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:41 AM
1

Downside is now i have to pee non stop. Damnit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:37 AM
1

I got a loving husband who is genuinely the best person ive ever met. I feel very lucky and loved
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:35 AM
1

We gatekeep sex sure, but I know a lot of my friends who date guys that wont commit to them. So in that sense men do control relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:32 AM
1

Going well too thanks, just had my fifth cup of tea and watching brooklyn 99 in the background
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:32 AM
1

Oh Hiii! Hahah yup im just lurking around this morning. Hows your day going?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:29 AM
1

I think it applies to us all in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:25 AM
0

You disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:25 AM
1

Yesssss this!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:23 AM
1

Interesting to read this from a male perspective 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:21 AM
1

Mehh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:19 AM
1

True, agreed🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:15 AM
1

I guess, but why should anyone care if someone likes to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:12 AM
-1

Its mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:10 AM
0

Nobody said rape. But sexual compatibility is important to me🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:09 AM
1

We don't, maybe some bitter women sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:04 AM
0

True, I prefer it this way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:03 AM
0

Whats wrong with this though (serious question)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:00 AM
2

That's really sad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:58 AM
1

Not a puppy. Mutually appreciative and willing to fulfil eachothers needs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:51 AM
1

Oh wow. I definitely wouldnt say most women, i know not a single woman who has experienced this. Most of us are very comfortable in our sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:47 AM
1

Well not all of us women feel this way, i certainly don't feel negative towards all men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:44 AM
1

Yup at least for me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:42 AM
4

That's awful, sorry you had to go through that. May i ask what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:28 AM
2

Perhaps, i guess it depends on how many ppl you've slept with as all experiences differ🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:21 AM
1

Life is full of random assholes, he was probably just another 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:19 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:18 AM
0

Thats ridiculous, I was "wifed up" and plenty of us are happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:05 AM
1

Omg your last paragraph is perfection, i wish more men realised this 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:00 AM
2

To each his own, Sexual compatibility is important
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:57 AM
1

Yuppp😻
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:56 AM
0

I like confidence though, so its worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:55 AM
0

Yup. I did too (granted not many or with all men ive dated). Sexual compatibility is just as important us as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:55 AM
5

Is this what you went through?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:51 AM
1

Have you tried to make yourself prettier with the parts that you can control? Such as skin care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:47 AM
0

Agreed, our bad experiences. But for sure its not to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:39 AM
3

Trust me they still do 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:38 AM
1

🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:31 AM
1

Do you really feel like trash though? You can be happy by doing things that make you happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:20 AM
2

Your last paragraph fascinates me... And is very true. I had no idea about the gap in attention when OLD. I knew it wasnt the best for men but not thaaaaat bad. The more you know i guess🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:18 AM
5

We are not emotionless demons my friend! Stay away from toxic men who tell you this, they most likely dont want you to be as miserable as them☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:15 AM
5

Well, im married and love the crap out of my husband. The friends he cares about, i also care about. Also my male relatives or close colleagues 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:10 AM
1

Actually, I don't care about anyone that i don't know🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:06 AM
1

Hmm and what kind of men are in the 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:53 AM
1

Rude...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:52 AM
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Doesn't bother me, im much younger and happily married and prefer to surround myself with women who are too. ☺️
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 07:47 AM
1

Honestly idk who that is, but a lot of people here are generalising. All i know is my friends and i all have different appearance preferences 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:38 AM
3

You really shouldn't, what one woman likes may not be what i prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:25 AM
2

Pretty much🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:22 AM
2

Yeppers!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:21 AM
1

Not true. Depends on who you ask 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:14 AM
3

Because we all want different things, what one woman likes may not be what I prefer🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:12 AM
1

Omg thats disturbing AF. Every woman you know?! Thats really sad... You should never have to do something you are uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:06 AM
1

I met my hubby online, id recommend it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:57 AM
2

I think overall taking care of yourself physically, mentally and being emotionally open and respectful can definitely attract a woman. We all have our preferences of course but if (and this is for us women too) you have gigantic list of requirements you're setting yourself up for failure. I find myself often saying "thank you for responding respectfully" to a lot of men on these sorts of sub because im so used to recieving "fuck off stupid bitch" or "cum dumpster". I really understand why those …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:37 AM
2

Ding ding ding! Imagine that😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:27 AM
1

Well, I hope you find happiness and perhaps seek some sort of therapy so that you can some day find healthy ways to overcome negative situations from your past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:24 AM
1

I mean dont allow anyone to make you feel less than human. Its a heart breaking thing to read so i just wanted to reassure him, sometimes 1 comment is all it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:22 AM
1

I think finding hobbies, hanging with friends and generally being occupied is important and not to feel validated by others. That being said, try being open to date and not letting it get you down! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:19 AM
1

Ah ok, what do you mean by totally giving and sharing everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:17 AM
2

So are you saying nothing happened to make you feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:13 AM
3

You absolutely DO have worth! Respect yourself and be kind to yourself. Nobody deserves to be treated less than ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:10 AM
1

Thank you for saying the last part. I responded to something in another thread (same sub) and was disrespected beyond belief simply for being a woman?! I understand why that guy is single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:09 AM
1

Oh I see. Interesting perspective! Where were you raised if i may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:07 AM
1

Why does it have to be one or the other? Surely you would prefer it come from love and mutually wanting to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:04 AM
1

What do you mean by "men like me" if i may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:00 AM
1

Whats wrong with what I am saying? I mean it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:58 PM
3

I agreed with you until you said "cheap ass cum dumpster" and "tricked into bed"... Thats not very respectful and why trick? We prefer to be willing participants. Aside from that yup, self respect and confidence is the way to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:52 PM
1

We are all allowed to have our preferences though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:49 PM
5

Barely human? Im sorry if you have had bad experiences but could you elaborate as that sounds very extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:48 PM
1

I really don't think so, perhaps this is more the type you see on social media? Lots of us dont even have SM
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:46 PM
1

But i stand by what i said!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:44 PM
3

I think I don't fully understand what's meant here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:42 PM
1

I found it funny 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:41 PM
2

Phew 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:36 PM
0

Thats a tad extreme, self love and confidence! ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:34 PM
2

Hey you do you. But if i may genuinely ask, do you prefer to pay? 🤷‍♀️🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:31 PM
1

I think age/auto immune diseases can play a factor on some ppl 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:27 PM
1

Amen! I look fwd to being home, i get to be warm? All the TV i want? Plus food and snacks? Sold! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:25 PM
1

I disagree, as long as you are healthy (not too thin or fat) then you're fine! Confidence is sexy 😻
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:22 PM
1

Im sorry but thats not true, SOME women yes and and some men not ALL🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:18 PM
1

I love being home! Its my fave place😍 granted I am glad to be able to go to restaurants/bowling etc 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:11 PM
2

Is this really a serious issue that some of you want extreme measures? (genuinely asking as i've gone down a midnight rabbit hole and ended up here). I really had no idea... 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:10 PM
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I've ended up down a rabbit hole and found myself here😅 that being said, as a woman I do agree
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 10:57 PM
3

Of you or certain men are ok with never having sex or a relationship that's fine. Majority of people such as my self really are not bothered by the decisions others choose to make as long as it doesn't effect me or my life🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:27 PM
1

Im not sure if you're being serious or sarcastic 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:22 PM
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