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| 4 | Leaving BPD wife after 6 years of insanity. How to mediate? | Spousal Support / Alimony | WorldlySession5904 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 06:32 PM |
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| 2 | Endless projection and it’s all so clearWowsers. Yeah same situation with my STBX. Always worried about who I’m talking to at work and sleeping with another guy frequently. Many times now. The projection is so unreal. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Good riddance! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Update 3 months after divorce..So glad to hear your success. I am still in the early stages of similar situation. Mediation today! I agree, this group has been so helpful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Leaving BPD wife after 6 years of insanity. How to mediate?Day 3 trying to get back home to organize and separate….. she didn’t like any of my 3 proposals. She wanted twice as much as my highest option and we made the mistake of talking after she got stoned and had a few drinks with one of the guys I’m staying with this afternoon. So….buzzed and stoned. Made for a great conversation. I spent an hour making dinner for the both of us after work. We didn’t even get it off the stove when she started with me. Accused me of being on drugs when she was high as… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Leaving BPD wife after 6 years of insanity. How to mediate?I keep chasing the dragon thinking of when it will ALL be over. (Alimony). Eyes on the prize baby | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Leaving BPD wife after 6 years of insanity. How to mediate?Doesn’t it get less painful at some point? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Leaving BPD wife after 6 years of insanity. How to mediate?I am staying at a friends house. Need to go home and pack stuff and sort so me being at a different house is so counter-productive. She’s made “us being in the same room” very unrealistic and this process is going to take forever it seems. There’s an option to get her a used car with a car note (paid by yours truly) and get her quickly out of state (she wants very little furniture and very much my paychecks). That will give me privacy at the house to break our lease, toss a bunch of furniture an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Leaving BPD wife after 6 years of insanity. How to mediate?Holy ouch man. Yeah we are somewhat speaking today and landed on numbers that were way higher than I wanted or can even afford without bankruptcy. We’re trying to mutually avoid a long court case and do it amicably. Wish me luck. Thank you guys for the awesome insights. Never wanted a sex change before, but it’s not sounding so bad….shes gonna be okay. Me? Not so much more than likely. Geez | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 10:46 PM |
| 1 | First time meeting wife after moving outWhere does the anxiety and feels come from? Obviously, you have PTSD or survivor’s guilt? Maybe no more in-person contact until you resolve your unhealed trauma? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Leaving BPD wife after 6 years of insanity. How to mediate?Thank you so much. You were right! I had to leave today. We had a nice start to the AM and it ended with me leaving for safety. Full gamut of the playbook was thrown at me. Threatening my work (and her alimony lol). Apologies later in the day of course. Staying at friends house tonight and maybe every night until divorce is final. It’s going to make the moving process quite difficult while we can’t be in the same house together. I am basically tasked with getting her a new place and paying the b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Leaving BPD wife after 6 years of insanity. How to mediate?Thank you. This has been very helpful | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Spouse with mental illness and financially dependent on me.Checks out a few of Ramani’s videos yesterday. Very much worth the time. Thanks for the tip! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/24 07:27 PM |
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