WormTickle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Thoughts on polyamory? I think that if everyone involved is honest about their needs and desires and treats everyone involved with respect than it's fine. When deceit and disrespect infect a poly relationship it's like a domino effect of pain and drama and bullshit. On a semi-related note that this made me think of, my mother is now a widow. She feels tremendous guilt over having fallen in love with someone other than my dad (it's been almost 2 years), and feels the need to remind me and my siblings that she still lov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/14 06:25 PM
2	Redpillers do know that promiscuity doesn't effect the appearance of a vulva...right? Do whatever makes you happy and brings you fulfillment without hurting others. :) If promiscuity is not your jam, don't put it on your toast. Nobody is owed a relationship or sex with anyone else, so I won't judge you or anyone else for personal standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/14 04:35 PM
2	Redpillers do know that promiscuity doesn't effect the appearance of a vulva...right? We were in college. It was pretty ridiculous, but it's hilarious with about a decade of hindsight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/14 06:49 AM
6	Redpillers do know that promiscuity doesn't effect the appearance of a vulva...right? Yeah, I figured my ex taking it seriously was much more a reflection on him then on men in general. :) Goodness knows I've never met a man more singularly able to ignore reality, and he is like the poster child for "results not typical" when it comes to other people. Thanks for taking the time to talk to me!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/14 12:26 AM
11	Redpillers do know that promiscuity doesn't effect the appearance of a vulva...right? I'm curious about why people use the insults about it damaging her body when it doesn't. Sure, you can look down at her for being promiscuous if that's your jam. But why the claims about the body being harmed? I'm very curious about where that whole thing comes from. My ex cheated on my with the girl I initially posted about (she had been told we broke up) and he immediately started saying to everyone that she was loose, gross, etc. It sounded to me like a defense mechanism about him having lost…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/14 12:03 AM
10	Redpillers do know that promiscuity doesn't effect the appearance of a vulva...right? I don't quite think I understand you. Are you saying that them claiming that her being damaged goods solely due to her partner count isn't physical? Because it sounds pretty physical to me. Or are you agreeing with me that physically, being damaged by the partner count isn't a thing? I feel like I'm missing something and I'm very sorry for not understanding. I thought it was obvious that I think the idea of a woman being "tainted" by multiple partners was bunk by comparing my experience VS that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/14 11:37 PM
26	Redpillers do know that promiscuity doesn't effect the appearance of a vulva...right? Why should it be damaging to have sex once with 500 people but not sex 500 times with one person? That's what always amazed me. The "slutty" girl in our social group was having less sex than I was, but SHE was the one being brutally insulted behind her back for being "rode hard and put away wet LOLOLOL hot dog down a hallway amirite?" I'd have sex daily with my monogamous boyfriend but she had sex with 2 different people in a month and she was the one they said had the gross broken body that was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/14 06:34 PM
4	Do you think you've ever slept with a Red Piller? Do you regret it? I only called him red pill because that's terminology he used for himself. General consensus here is that he's just a jerk who read some books and got nothing out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/14 07:26 AM
2	Do you think you've ever slept with a Red Piller? Do you regret it? Ten years ago, yeah, bookshelves. It's not like people tend to throw out their books... That's a lot of good money spent. Many of my more geeky friends still have a huge amount of physical books because it's how the tabletop RPG thing has been for so long that they're not going to replace all of their rulebooks with PDFs. And older family members also seem to still buy physical dead tree books for their young intellectually inclined relatives. So, if you happen upon a bookshelf it's usually wort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/14 07:23 AM
2	Do you think you've ever slept with a Red Piller? Do you regret it? I don't think he has any sort of emotional attachment so much as he's trying to make lightning strike twice. I put out once so he thinks it can happen again. It's not a symptom or red or blue pill thinking so much as he's a jackass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/14 04:10 AM
2	Do you think you've ever slept with a Red Piller? Do you regret it? He self identified as red pill in a recent conversation and I took it at face value. However, if his self identification is about as accurate as me saying that I'm actually a teacup then I'll happily cede my point. :) It's an interesting example, in that case, of the difference between people who merely read a bunch of books and don't put the important parts into practice VS the guys who really "get" the point. The 'real' RPer has residual benefits when single because people think highly of him.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/14 02:21 AM
2	Do you think you've ever slept with a Red Piller? Do you regret it? Ah, my misunderstanding. I apologize. He called himself RP in one of our recent conversations and I took his self identification at face value. In the case of what you're saying it is a good example of what works (genuine confidence and self improvement) versus what doesn't work (being a stalker who has a bunch of lines memorized and hates women). All the more reason for people to be cool instead of a jerk... The nice guy gets the fond memories and the wing woman, the boundary ignoring guy is th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/14 02:07 AM
8	Do you think you've ever slept with a Red Piller? Do you regret it? PUA/the mentality did. This sort of stuff was around for a lot longer than a subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/14 09:18 PM
12	Do you think you've ever slept with a Red Piller? Do you regret it? Both times with an RP guy happened a long time ago, before I knew what was up. Teenage me was pretty naive. With one RP encounter, it has been years. I'm happily married, pregnant with my second child... And he still won't leave me the fuck alone when I see him. No matter how many times I try to get him to back the fuck off he still tries to corner me at parties and does other obnoxious shit. Any time I get a cell phone number he has found out through mutual friends my number and is inappropriat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/14 07:37 PM
2	Define "manipulation" and, when is it wrong and when is it right? Your friend and my ex would either adore each other or tear one another to shreds. Hard to tell with that sort of guy. And I'm sorry to hear about your truck. Messing with someone's ride is never OK. Even if it's a total jalopy no good person fucks around with someone's car on purpose. If I hear about that stuff I immediately feel like I know what sort of person the vandal is and immediately hate them. (Like that stupid pop/country song about destroying the dude's car because he cheated.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/14 10:14 PM
2	Define "manipulation" and, when is it wrong and when is it right? Oh my goodness, yes. If you're a fan of Harry Potter, it was like I was dating teenage Severus Snape in the scene where James and the Marauders flip Snape upside down... But it was everywhere we went on a nearly daily basis. The sneering and the general foulness... Including the OBVIOUSLY shabby clothes that come from being a kid in a poor home, with the added bonus that he'd get hand-me-downs from his older brother who weighed 150+lbs more than he did. Even when his dad finally got a job and he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/14 09:01 PM
2	Define "manipulation" and, when is it wrong and when is it right? When I was with my ex as a teen, we were attacked by a group of guys. 8 of them, because we dared walk near the bowling alley where they were hanging out. My ex and I got into a huge brawl, and we escaped mainly unscathed (my shirt had been torn off and his glasses broke, but no bruises or broken bones) from the ordeal. It was like he attracted that sort of shit... Everywhere we'd go, people would come up to us and they'd start shit with him and we'd get out of it with varying degrees of violenc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/14 06:46 PM
2	I want to sleep with physically attractive women. A lot of them. If TRP is 'the wrong' way to think TBP, what is your solution? You COULD, but I don't recommend it at the gym or the beach.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/14 08:38 PM
0	I want to sleep with physically attractive women. A lot of them. If TRP is 'the wrong' way to think TBP, what is your solution? A well fitting suit is basically the dude equivalent to makeup. Instantly adds points to the hotness scale.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/14 06:58 PM
2	Do you feel being a stay at home parent is as much work as having a full time job? I'm new here and just saw this without actually realizing how old the post was, haha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/13 09:37 PM
3	Do you feel being a stay at home parent is as much work as having a full time job? Generally the word is "neurotypical" if we're comparing those with mental health issues to those without. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/13 09:11 PM
1	Do you feel being a stay at home parent is as much work as having a full time job? I'm a traitor to the cause, sorry. My kid is the easiest child I've ever dealt with in all of my time nannying and caring for kids. Seriously. She's very high-needs and demanding but she's just seriously awesome and fun to be with. I can take her anywhere and know she'll behave herself... Cross country flights? Fine and dandy. Restaurants? A darling! She doesn't beg for shit at The Disney Store when we go to the mall. She doesn't make demands at the grocery store. We can go on hours long drives …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/13 09:04 PM
11	Friend posted this on FB. It's nice to know some people respect our right to like different body types. And if you DID have an eating disorder, what the fuck of it? Why should anyone decide, "Oh hey, that girl is sick... let's torment her!" That's horrible, and I'm sorry it happened to you. My SIL is in a similar boat with her body and while clothing sizes are getting more and more ridiculous. Some shops don't carry clothing small enough for her, and random saleswomen make it a point to make remarks about it. Nobody has any just cause to make nasty remarks about a human beings body. At all. I hope…	/r/MensRights	11/05/13 03:23 AM