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| 2 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.The AP is taking his time to come clean, so this means either he is thinking of an exit strategy to blindside the OBS and getting the upper hand in the divorce, or he has no intention of getting divorce in the first place , either way the OBS is the wronged party her and OP should do something about it if he can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.Just make sure it doesn't trace back to you, if you are concerned it will affect the custody agreement, don't take any chances doing something uncalculated, try looking for evidence that relates only to the AP, it doesn't have to be related to the affair, but will make OBS question everything about her husband. As for methods of sharing the information, I suggest something indirect, like looking for mutual acquaintances, spreading gossip here and there,also looking for people with grievances wit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/23 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about telling OBS about ex-wife’s affair. Concerned about retaliation.Instead of telling her, maybe help her uncover her husband affair, you don't have to give her the full truth , just enough to let her uncover the whole thing, then your wife will not have the necessary leverage to modify the custody agreement. The wife might already suspect something, an affair is not easily hidden, you can't let it get traced back to you, you're a smart guy, I'm sure you'll find a way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/23 10:02 PM |
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