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WorriedCourse/r/MGTOW18/12/18 06:54 PM
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WorriedCourse/r/MGTOW20/12/18 08:17 PM
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Ad hominem attacks and gas lighting, their go to ammunition.
/r/MGTOW24/12/18 07:30 PM
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Nice guy= Someone I can easily control, walk over, and allows me to do generally whatever the fuck I want. I know because I was a nice guy and flipped it over on my wife when I got tired of her shit. When I say flipped I merely mean at the most basic level standing up for myself and holding frame. Now I'm an "asshole" she claims she never wanted to marry.
/r/MGTOW23/12/18 11:37 AM
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My wife was a "godly" woman, a virgin, and had only courted a couple of people with chaperones present. She was quite possibly the sweetest thing I ever had the pleasure of knowing, AT FIRST. When I married her the mask came off and the claws came out immediately. She is an abusive, narcissistic, materialistic, nightmare. Has she cheated on me? I don't know, but her behavior over the years has shown me that she does not love me so I don't doubt it at all that she has. DO NOT GET MARRIED. I REPEA…
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 07:33 PM
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She doesn't know what she actually wants. She is an NPC doing what nature designed her to do. Too bad she got hacked and modded by PC culture.
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 07:22 PM
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I like to think of cringe memories being our body's way of telling you not to do that fucking shit anymore. I am the same age as you and probably made even more mistakes (got married, had children, etc...), I have a lot of regrets due to my mistakes, but I look at them like valuable lessons I would have never learned had I not made them. I look to the next 30 years as being full of potential, there is no limits. I hope you can too! It is liberating.
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 07:18 PM
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I used to work in a coffee shop. A coffee shop is hunting ground for women who hit the wall. They hang out there all day looking for vulnerable, working men. I've seen some really pathetic things there.
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 01:52 PM
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Lesson learned. Dust hands off and move on. Start working on improving yourself and enjoying life for you. I'm 33 and married-soon to be divorced probably going to be hell but I'm not letting it get me down, I will be free of a venomous, leeching, vampire. I will be free to be the person I want to be.
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 01:30 PM
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As a father of two, this story had me livid. The women deserves far worse than 28 years.
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 01:22 PM
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Well at least in the dark knight the female lead gets blowed up in a warehouse. The joker is actually a good bro.
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 12:33 PM
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I've thought about leaving the country too.
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 10:10 PM
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She is abusive. I have been putting up with it for far too long that's why we are splitting. You don't even want to know the horror I have been through.
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 10:09 PM
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Cool her name isn't on it and I already have 20k worth of equity on it.
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 10:09 PM
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I hope they take poor people because I live paycheck to paycheck. I'm running a tight ship right now.
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 08:46 PM
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What if her name isn't on the title?
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 08:44 PM
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To be honest it was the peace of mind part that disturbed me the most. Women don't even understand the value of something simple like mental peace of mind.
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 08:42 PM
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WOMEN ARE FAR TRASHIER THAN MEN in a social setting that consists of only females. Long ago I got the offer of a free haircut from a coworkers sister who was learning how to cut hair. I was like sure, free haircut no problem, I'm there. I show up and discover its some kind of sick haircut party. There was like 8 women there all with wine glasses in their hands giggling and shit. I instantly thought, wtf did I get myself into. So I'm first to get my haircut and right in the middle of it, I see th…
/r/MGTOW20/12/18 08:38 PM
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Good way to look at it, thank you.
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 01:33 PM
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My wife has BPD, I have been through hell and back with her. The extreme amount of manipulation and abuse I have been through has scarred me out of relationships forever. Almost 8 years in and we are finally getting a divorce. I feel ya man. Make goals, stay busy, and improve myself is the plan.
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 11:37 AM
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Or even worse, hold everything you say accountable no matter how long ago it was said (yes even years) and bring it up at the absolute worst time or when it suits her best. My wife had an entire spank bank of shit I've said stored in her brain she used as ammunition for manipulation.
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 11:24 AM
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Turns out we are separating.
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 11:15 AM
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If she decides not to work after graduation, she is a complete fool. This education is 100% paid for because of her ethnicity and smarts (she is extremely smart IQ wise.) What I mean is, if she doesn't work after all this stress SHE put herself through then it was all a stupid waste of time for her. Most people don't know this but nursing programs are hell to go through, she would be a stupid bitch and I'd have zero sympathy for her if she decided not to use it. I agreed to do all the house duti…
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 11:08 AM
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I am pretty sure they are mine. First one, I have always wondered about. My second child is 100% no doubt mine.
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 11:01 AM
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Because I really like this community and we have mutually discussed getting a divorce already.
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 10:59 AM
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Sure I'd like to read it. Is this like going "nuclear"?
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 10:15 PM
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Not sure I've heard of the term "Monkey Branch" before, but I assume it means get with a doctor because he makes a shit ton of money. It has crossed my mind many times already.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:57 PM
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Ok, can you explain why its more favorable to divorce her before she has a job? I was under the assumption child support is decided based on both incomes of the parents. If I were to split now wouldn't I have to support her far more than if she had a job? Obviously legal advice from a professional is going to happen here soon just wanted your thoughts since you mentioned it.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:55 PM
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How you doing now? I hope you are living a happy life!
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:49 PM
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That truly sent a shiver up my spine.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:42 PM
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Her bad mouthing to her family behind my back was the biggest red flag for me. She showed me there is far more going on than she is letting on. I'm not putting up with it, not after all the pain and hard work I've gone through to get us where we are at.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:41 PM
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You are lucky. The thought of even asking my parents about marriage contracts would have never crossed my mind back then, and for you to be able to think like that is a beautiful thing to have. Religion really screws with people's ability to critical think, especially when they were born in it like I was (dad was a pastor for 25 years).
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:36 PM
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You could very well be right. I try to give her the benefit of the doubt on that one because she was highly emotion and depressed from pregnancy. She did make it aware to me over the course of a month that she was homesick, not sure if shit tests endure for that long? She has told me in the past that she did regret moving back because her mom never gave her support. Has she shit tested me before the point I am at now? Oh abso-fucking-lutely, but I was clueless and the damage was done for too lon…
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:32 PM
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Sucks to hear that, it really frightens me the chance to lose it all like that, but I got to weigh the costs, be a miserable husk of my former self or die happy knowing I didn't waste the second half of my life trying to make someone happy in vain. Money never controlled me, and it never will, I always made a way for myself with the minimum. My wife is going to school completely free of charge. We haven't had to pay a single penny this entire time. Now if she doesn't want to use a valuable educa…
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:18 PM
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Thanks! I am incredibly optimistic about the future and have huge plans. Divorce will likely be a messy speed bump, but I will make a way to persevere regardless of anything thrown my way.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 09:01 PM
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Because some people grew up with ideals about marriage burnt into their heads. I grew up in a heavily religious household that enforced this type of lifestyle in its teachings. I never stuck with religion as I grew older but I always liked the idea of getting married, having children, and building a life together that I could be proud of. I loved the thought of having someone who would always have my back and would love me through thick and thin. I fought to keep this idea going. Unfortunately r…
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 08:47 PM
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Its as heartbreaking as it seems. Trust me.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 08:32 PM
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We are getting her through school then we are splitting. To get a divorce now would terribly fuck up everything I have worked for. I also want her to have a job so it makes it easier to provide for our kids. Call me stupid for sticking around that's fine, doesn't bother me. I'd just rather her to be in a better situation for my kids when that time comes.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 08:16 PM
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It was the second hardest thing I've done my entire life. I worked harder than anything to get that damn house for my wife. It was her "Life dream" I felt if I hadn't accomplished this I'd be a failure in her eyes forever. Turns out I was always a failure in her eyes.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 08:11 PM
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I don't feel attacked my man. I don't expect anything not even advice, I know what is to come. I wanted to share this story because I love this community, what they stand for, and felt there is something to be gained for others that might be interested. Also because I will likely be divorced when she graduates. Finances aren't the only problem she has, I'd just rather not go there because its been a long, sad road for me. I chose to share this financial story because I felt it perfectly showed t…
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 08:05 PM
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It has been an existential nightmare. I would never recommend anyone to get married.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 07:40 PM
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Put it to you this way, I'd be making a 6 figure income today easily, but ultimately my wife's feelings were more important to me back then. It hurt me to see her sorrow. She was pregnant and wanted to be closer to her mother, I felt this was the right thing to do for her wellness at the time.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 07:35 PM
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Funny you mention about comparing to other men. I intentionally left a shit ton of information out because it would cause the whole thing to be way too long, but I don't mind adding more to comments. She compares me to her sister's husband all the time now. He makes a lot more than I do.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 07:30 PM
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Dude thanks! I don't know, I felt like a TL;DR diminished how I was feeling but I am glad you made one for people who are too tired to read.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 07:26 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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