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| 277 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]See game guys, all you need is a “what’s good?” & be attractive lol | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 08:18 PM |
| 1 | (ULTIMATE GUIDE) 4 PILLARS OF DATING, if you lack one of these factors then you are ACTIVELY decreasing your resultsGo back and read their example. “Every 30 girls I approach 25 say no and 5 say yes.” Do the math, 5/30=16.6%. What’s your math? | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 10:40 AM |
| 1 | (ULTIMATE GUIDE) 4 PILLARS OF DATING, if you lack one of these factors then you are ACTIVELY decreasing your resultsJust be aware- It depends on YOUR numbers. OP has a 16% (5/30). Yours could be 0.5%. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Bars ARE one of the best places to meet people.I never got those people who sit at the bar staring at the wall of liquor bottles. Then waiting for someone to order next to them to start a convo. Who has time for that?! Lol | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?“Sup” - Chad | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?And have different faces | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Talking to my girl “friends”made me realise I’m actually not that guyThis | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Confidence boosters are holding me backI understand. You can adapt by rolling up your sleeves. Unbuttoning two buttons instead of one. Less jewelry. No belt. Switch from pants to dark navy slim fit jeans. Plus many more… Just remember, classic never goes out of style. And classic is never try-hard. | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Relying on dating apps👏 | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 02:17 AM |
| 2 | If a guy goes in for a kiss on a first date and she turns her head…You have better than a 1/2 (50%) close rate?! Lol where are you? Thailand or PH? | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 02:56 PM |
| 0 | HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.”Self preservation | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | If You Struggle With Rejection….Remember when we used to mass approach women like hobos, then women said to leave them alone? Pepridge farm remembers. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 06:28 PM |
| 9 | Can you be the prize as a male?Be the adored instead of the adorer. | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 02:55 PM |
| 0 | What Are Some Common Misconceptions That Guys Have About “The Game” or Seduction In General?Cope | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Weekly video call to talk game :)Send message/link | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 03:28 AM |
| -1 | Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating?Aye aye Captain | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating?So ‘toxic masculinity’ guys for sex, but a ‘liberal open minded’ guy to cuff you afterwards. Lol | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 06:47 PM |
| 17 | Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in.Change funny to exciting | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:15 PM |
| -4 | Age gaps in seductionFacts hurt someone’s feelings | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 08:03 PM |
| -5 | Age gaps in seductionIt’s 16/17/18 depending on state | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I had a F-Close last wednesday. When was your last one?What country and what was your opener on the street? | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else been cockblocked by another dude.Agreed. If he wasn’t a beggar / c blocker, op would have scored by now lol | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else been cockblocked by another dude.If only the “5’4 Manlet” had ‘game’ to beat the attractive guy she prefers lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Dry Texts - What She’s Really ThinkingFinally some text game lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do our experiences differ so much?Aren’t they both similar as you are trying to get the girl initially? How would you say they differ? | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do our experiences differ so much?Many never get picked over years lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Sex with older manNot a lot of talking is needed lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I develop game?“At first, I didn’t like him” I get it, but… Who the F wants to be that guy? Lol You’re just convenient, for now. Enjoy and move on. I have a friend who’s now wife said “at first I thought he was scary looking” but then she realized he was wealthy and locked him down. I don’t envy him. | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Being the only loner in your friend groupExactly. Focus on Rule 1 & 2 Too much effort is unattractive | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 01:51 AM |
| 4 | How to go from talking in the club to making out?Be careful saying this here 😂 | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Can putting standards in your dating app bio (ex. No _, must be at least _) make you seem like a higher-value male and give you more matches?Unfortunately, (for men) you take the risk of offending some female bc she didn’t meet your standards then getting flagged or banned. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | How to Have Better Conversations Over Text In Order To Make It To The First Date - Amateur Levels of Success?I ask out after 3 back and forth messages. Spaced out one day each. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 09:53 PM |
| 49 | What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from menI’ve still seen gorgeous awkward guys pull despite putting their foot in their mouth. They recover by just shutting up. But I get your point, some have had enough (ghosted) gorgeous salami and give average with personality a try. Lol | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Sacrifice all fun just to get more girls? Last night got me thinking.👏 | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | How much of a difference does money actually make?Older woman are still woman. They admit they won’t keep the broke guy long term. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 01:00 AM |
| 2 | How can I make her think about me moreBc he’s probably getting ghosted | /r/seduction | 02/07/25 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Nearing 30's; I feel my space is not good enough for women my ageMy place is just as small. But as mentioned, they subconsciously judge. To over come this, you must display that you Can afford a house or condo but prefer not to. ‘You don’t want to pay for landscaping, cooling and heating empty rooms and property taxes and insurance’, as you would rather have that invested or start (another) business. Nice car(s), nice outings, nice job/career and paying/holding plenty of cash helps make it easy to overcome. Your attitude to/with money is also being judged. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 07:08 PM |
| 8 | All the guy's I've [F22] asked out so far had girlfriends💀 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:34 PM |
| -2 | She Was a Feminist. I Told Her I Do Daygame. Here’s What Happened…“It’s not what you said but how you said it” -wahmen Lol | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | My best tips to get pretty girls to chase (been doing this for 15 years)“..getting girls to giggle to the bs I spew.” I want to know more about this. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approach0.0014 it’s a numbers game | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | What is the best career for game ?Smart convo isn’t seductive lol | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 12:24 AM |
| 58 | I don’t need a pickup line. I need a man who knows when not to speak.“Take control without asking…” 🙄 This post is the ‘compliment vs creep’ meme lol | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Best country for flirting as a woman?Haiti 😆 | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 02:38 PM |
| 0 | The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any OtherNever said that | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any OtherPoint still stands. *Less important if you’re very attractive. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 08:34 PM |
| 9 | The Opener That Gets Me More Dates Than Any OtherLess important if you’re very attractive. Check out the social experiments on yt. Guy makes male model profile and opener is “Vagina,” gets digits shortly after. Even wrote he was a convicted pee-do in the profile. Then girls messaged him to be his ‘little girl.’ | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice?So you don’t shower and let them build up? What’s your method? | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice?How would you do that without insulting your bro? | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | It’s easier to pull a hot girl who is way out of your league in in a big city than a smaller oneEverything matters. It’s why he asked. Not many short fat bald broke dudes killing it | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 12:35 AM |
| 24 | I match with apparently every Ukrainian/Russian girl in the North East, is it because my profile gives sucker energy?Nigerian scammers perhaps? They’re very eager lol | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Ranking every location I have approached women at regarding how effective it is (based on personal experience)Meh, I’ve been to some where there was tons of families or couples. Few singles. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Ranking every location I have approached women at regarding how effective it is (based on personal experience)Best recommended resorts ? | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 08:16 PM |
| 64 | What’s it like to date a woman who constantly tests a man compared to one who doesn’t?“I don’t want peace. I want problems. Always” -meme | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 06:29 PM |
| 2 | What's your favorite way to make someone crave you before anything even happens?Wait, do you write your personal number on there separately? Or is your business your personal number? Lol | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 07:53 PM |
| 2 | This is why I cold approachWas she wearing a wedding ring? Maybe that ass was too distracting. I used to make this mistake and they love to chat and get free attention. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | If women are truly picky as many seem to believe...Since it’s a numbers game, Game (your behavior with women) improves your number. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?Be attractive lol | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:16 AM |
| 12 | When other dudes blow you awayShow value, mention value, but don’t give it unless deserved. “I always carry a wad of cash, so they can see it and smell it, but I don’t give it (directly).” -Tom Leykis | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Why do some men ghost when everything is going well?Everything going so well…. for her lol | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 09:18 PM |
| 2 | She’s not “out of your league”Exactly Work on your body > looks don’t matter | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 05:35 AM |
| 7 | You lose the girl not because you say the wrong thing, but because you kill the vibe“But his scent and beautiful eyes did the trick” -Game has left the chat 😂 | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have girls on a rotation/get girls? How often to you get rejected“It’s a numbers game” = You just have to find out what your roi number is…. Depending on your attractiveness, it can be high or super low. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 07:23 PM |
| 15 | How does everyone pick up girls in the club?If you get it 😂 | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Lol @ 50% …. 25% | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?this | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 07:53 PM |
| 17 | I Slept with 40 Women Last Year From Real Life Approaches - Here are 7 Lessons I learned…and in Barcelona 😂 or Thailand, Ph, MDE, Rio… | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameThis is assuming he’s been there before and is recognized lol | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night Game-“But we’re assuming random strangers” Who have never seen him 🙄 and he has not approached them (cold or warm) lol | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameLol @ the amount of coyotes that guzzle down your bottle so you buy more, then disappear when the bottle is empty And even with a suit and athletic body, it’s not going to change your face but can help a bit. Having recognized status would help the most. But we’re assuming random unknown strangers. But good for you that it happens to you without being a mark | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameHe is already (physically) attractive. You don’t get approached and tapped on the shoulder bc you’re average looking or worse, ugly lol. But I get it, a shy Chad is also welcome to learn to be social and kill it. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameSome context could make it believable. Your height, weight, ethnicity and city/location? | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 01:33 AM |
| 1 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameHow humble lol. Your experience says otherwise. It reads; Chad learns to be social lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:32 PM |
| 2 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameAnd Quasimodo with game beats the mute model who uses only gestures…. Gtfo lol | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 08:54 PM |
| 5 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameNumerous girls approached you? Lol, you shouldn’t be here | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Generaly - when asking a girl, should I ask if she has a boyfriend?Free currency (attention) | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Can somebody explain this?Brutal truth 😂 | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 12:04 AM |
| 3 | How to purposefully date for sex?Great post. I do the same but as bf material or total package, as they’ve said, they always make me wait 2-3 dates. I get the fwb but wish I was a quicker pick. Despite hard escalation, which sometimes I think makes it worse. Keep routine or act more disinterested? | /r/seduction | 14/02/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I have a 30 second rule when it comes to approaching women.…looking 😂 | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 07:52 AM |
| 2 | I have a 30 second rule when it comes to approaching women.If you spoke the same words… it’s clearly your looks 😂 🙄 | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | My short coworker is my source of hope💀 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Got approached last night by a girl who used an opinion openerGame; 60% of the time, it works every time 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Feel like I ruined my lifeRemember, there is no other moment but the present. You cannot forget and you cannot predict, a future that may not exist. All you’ve got is the now. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Did I overreact?That (vagueness) works if you’re picking her up. If you’re meeting there, she needs to know where. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl is neutral towards me– How do I make her want me/escalate with her without trying too hard?Switch from indirect to direct/flirting. You may lose her as a friend but that’s the risk you take. “Don’t look at me like that” (smirk) ‘How?’ (Confused) “Like you want to kiss me” (smirk then laugh) Or “That dress is too sexy. Makes me want to rip it off with my teeth” (squint and nod) Then when you get positive feedback, just say “hey, what’s up with me & you?” If negative feedback, you’re done. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How to Build a Social Life That Attracts the Women You Want?What country/state are you in? | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Where do you guys get the endurance?What’s a realistic percentage of full closes for beginner vs advanced? (I think most of us average guys set them too high and get disappointed) | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Real eye opener about Miami after hearing about this, is this true?Many ny brokers moved down there bc they could work remotely after the bs lockdown. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How are yall seeing iois and interest from girls you don’t know?Peripheral vision | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | This is what happens when you speak from a privileged positionJust take your face to the gym bro | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 08:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you even do if girls dont even ask you question?Flip those numbers if you aren’t Chad. I expect one text a day. Ask out by third text. Following texts are for logistics. Even then, they can still flake/drop the day of, depending on their interest & options. And never double text (every text should have a question for them to follow up on). | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Realisation that girls actually want me to approach them most of the time.Start with indirect approaches, then, much later, start adding direct approaches. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Are cute,hot and handsome the same for guys, if not how are they different and how they treated by womenWhat’s the cats predator? | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 11:31 PM |
| 28 | Most promiscuous city you've been to?Best pools/ clubs? | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 03:06 AM |
| 7 | The “being too young” problemYou got approached!? Already winning. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?😂 | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?Please elaborate… is the meaning the effort will then be higher than the roi? | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?Aiming for that 1% 😂 or nothing! | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 09:33 AM |
| 2 | getting rejected on all approaches i made yetWas going to say… 2 down, 95 to go. (@3%) ^ You’re doing great at 10% | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Does caffeine worsen your results with approaching women?I get jittery and over talkative, pass. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 08:03 PM |
| 0 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?Bro, you are still at kiss no tongue. And at your place. Your place is for sex. You need to escalate; tongue kiss, then tiddy touch, then crotch touch. Then stand up, hold out your hand & say let’s go to my room. Then repeat on your bed. You can still have LMR. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 10:42 PM |
| 35 | Everyone thinks I’m a player but its the total opposite.This. Own your good looks. My better looking little bro would do it in cycles. GF for 6 months for proof, then breakup and break hearts for another six and repeat. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Has the community done a bit of a 'U turn' in recent years?We have more data that shows the truth now. It’s the same biological behavior today as in the past. | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Assuming attraction sounds crazy to me-I’m 6’5 athletic, good looking…. It’s Your Mindset ! 😂 | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Stop Chasing Numbers: The Real Way to Measure Dating SuccessWhat was your repeatable method? | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 07:50 AM |
| -10 | 2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guysThat’s what you call game? | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Is swiping and lack of results on apps bad for your irl game and cold approach?He means focus on rule 1&2 😆 | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 08:41 PM |
| 1 | 2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guysWhat cities have been your most successful? | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 08:27 PM |
| 3 | 2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guysCan you outline the ‘game’ in this post please | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you put your partner through some type of loyalty test before tying the knot?I wouldn’t. Bc I know they would fail. 😆 | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how to woo womenExactly. Attraction is #1 | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 07:42 PM |
| 4 | With which intention do girls go on a date?Yep. With women, Actions>words. | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 12:12 AM |
| 7 | Is it more attractive to seem like a guy who doesn't care about sex or a guy who seems like he loves sex and is not afraid of saying it?Be more attractive | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ?Probably bc one isn’t attractive enough. If you were, you could get away with typing “vagina” and get a response. This has been proven over and over. Therefore, if not, you need ‘more effort’ as he implied. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 09:30 PM |
| 2 | What's the Value of Seduction?He probably just uses rule 1 & 2 | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 05:19 PM |
| 12 | To youngins struggling- it gets way easier in your mid to late 20s if you look after yourself in your early 20s💰 | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Did I just get the friendzone of the year?I never mentioned clubs. Don’t be angry she made you wait 3 months, when she gave it to her ex 2-3 weeks later. You won’t know until after sex & you develop enough trust for her to tell you. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Did I just get the friendzone of the year?No. Are you saying that her making you wait 3 months to “conquer” makes her a catch? Lol (Did you ask how long she made her exes wait? Lol) | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Did I just get the friendzone of the year?The one that threw herself (since it never happens)(also less time/energy/effort to later find out she isn’t a catch). | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 03:58 PM |
| 19 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?If she ‘insists’ on paying, let her pay. Save your money, you won’t be seeing her again. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 03:30 PM |
| 5 | A Completely Wild Night Out at a New BarOp definitely has rule 1&2 Cold approach game = 0 Girls approach him = 5 😂 | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 04:38 PM |
| 2 | What is too nice? Or what’s the difference between a nice guy and regular hood dudeThis. An a-hole can behave like that bc he is forgiven for poor behavior bc he is attractive. Same applies to mean b-tches. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Girls who talk about sex in their dating profilesAre you forward prior or just meet, chat, drink then ask over? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 05:21 AM |
| 4 | Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here?Workout your face too | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Should I Be More Picky, Even if It Means Fewer Dates?This | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 01:30 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to rejection texts?“K” or nothing at all | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | First proper cold approach with a 10☝️ | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The girl my friend was pursuing chose me insteadSimple. You are more attractive than your friend, despite his “game.” | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 06:06 PM |
| 52 | Why do I get low effort girlsThis. Behave like YOU have many options, even if you don’t. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Short infield -- a girl approached me at a bar“Sure, I’ll get the second round” | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Online Dating - 2nd Date Achilles Heel? What is causing my slip-ups compared to 1st date.You sound needy and unsure you will see her again. If you mention future plans like “we could go there/do that in the future” you don’t have to ask. You already implied. Kiss close. Message chat first, then message to setup next date. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Online Dating - 2nd Date Achilles Heel? What is causing my slip-ups compared to 1st date.Don’t ask ‘would she like to do something again’ during date. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 03:28 PM |
| 19 | Singles nights not going anywhere despite face 2 face successSometimes, like at speed dating events, many of the pretty ladies are actually friends of the event hosts. I would get matches that went no where. Kind of like hot girls who are brought in by club promotor and drink free at the vip table to entice others to get bottle service next to them. Not worth the $ | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Girls trolling on dating appsIt’s entertainment for them | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What kind of personality in man is attractive to woman? Do we have to be a rude person?First realize: An assh*le can behave that way bc he’s attractive. Same way a woman can be a b*tch bc she is attractive. The guy will put up with it bc she’s hot. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for guys who aren’t attractive?Most times I’ve seen that, I investigate and find out the guy is paying for all rent/bills and she enjoys her money for herself. Or he has some kind of hookup at venues/businesses, lends her an extra vehicle or takes her traveling. Humans are selfish by nature. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Any tips for guys who aren’t attractive?Nope. I’ve seen attractive guys get picked up next to me despite being sad from a break up. The girls want to cheer him up. Lol | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for guys who aren’t attractive?True. But that will make you realize how bad western women are when you get back. Lol | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Our Time for Dating Is Running Out Faster Than You ThinkLow roi; exhausting | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Went to the club last night, had zero successWhere is this workbook? | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Body count has gone up 11 in the last year.HOW you met them? Online, bars, clubs. How MANY girls did you date to lay 11? | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Body count has gone up 11 in the last year.How/where did you meet them? & 11 lays out of how many dated? | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | takes so much out of you“Sometimes the juice ain’t worth the squeeze” —Ghandi | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women pose for us?It’s to show more eye sclera. A feminine tactic | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal, like part of the process, to be continually rejected?Keep track. 1-5% results is average, unless you don’t look average lol | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Post-Covid “Men vs Women” trend cockblocking me?“Game” is like that; 60% of the time, it works every time. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I feel like this "always stay persistent, it’s your fault if she’s not interested" mentality is messing up my headThis sounds like many with “Game” lol If you’ve got game, you can convince anyone. If you don’t get her; your bad game. I’ve seen Chads fumble, stutter, say stupid things, or just nod their heads and take the girl home. I agree with your perspective. Don’t waste your time. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I feel resentful towards women?You may have not developed actual interest prior to asking out. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 09:20 PM |
| 0 | The problem with pickup artistsIsn’t that “game” lol? | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Any good movies with womanizers?Wealthy jingle writer who picks women up in his wealthy neighborhood? Nope | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 09:34 PM |
| 23 | A guy asked to do night game with me and I wish I didn’t agree.Wish I was your student lol this guy never took action. Despite my many of attempts, most fail. It’s like knowing how to play chess, but not being able to check mate. (This guy didn’t even know how a rook moves) any tips? | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.Yup. Never got many girls in college myself. Many handsome guys hand out advice and it doesn’t matter if you copy them to a ‘T.’ Remember, ROI is in single digits per 100, but we have chads here getting 10%+ or 1/10 approaches. It’s not easy getting picked if you’re not (in their eyes) handsome. And stop crying, it’s part of being a guy. At 10% or even 0.5% roi. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Thrown off by change in partner's sexual behaviour upon self-improvement.Fear of loss 😆 | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern datingHow is it 20% “ease” when the girl you want prefers to talk to your handsome friend instead of you? That is 100% his win vs your 0% “ease”. Sounds like cope. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else experience anxiety when losing a fwb?How do you present yourself as non long term potential? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 02:40 PM |
| 5 | I Challenged Myself to Approach 1 Girl Every Day for 30 Days—Here’s What I LearnedResults? ROI? 1%? 3% 5%? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Moving was the worst thing I have done that affected my game/sucess with womenAnd what hometown? Contrasting places? | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”“I’m very busy (building my business) lately” Dhv and sets up less constant messaging. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 04:27 PM |
| 28 | Favorite responses when a girl says she had a dream about you?What were WE doing? 😏 | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Some guys just have it. Funny story on a night outIt was more like game recognize no game, just be attractive moment. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | If you go to bars solo, should you lie about why you're there alone?Don’t use the word ditch. Too negative. My friend just left with a girl and I wanted to hang out some more. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRL😂 They need the Chads to keep them hopeful | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Getting rejected by 200+ women in a row... now what?Agreed. I’ve seen tall handsome guys pickup girls with just a “what’s up?” and barely speak (no game). Aside from height, no one mentions facial structure. Retrognathic jaw, eye distance, deviated nose, etc…. It has Nothing to do with that of course, it’s just your game lol | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Dating in different countries/cities in Latin America: a reviewGreat post. (But results may vary to OP if you’re not a Chad) | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 11:02 PM |
| 1 | My 1 secret to building an effective dating profile and standing outAgreed. They even write it out : tattoos. (And it’s both, those with and without tattoos) What would you recommend if you don’t have a sleeve? (And don’t want one) | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Are you able to get female attention if you’re not a 7/10+Wishful thinking? Lol | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.Don’t use “hypothetically, If we were together…” | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.Lol you’re trying to prove a guy that thinks his clean 1988 Honda accord is a “nice car” bc he thinks so. Subjective…. I forgot I was on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.You’re stuck in specifics and special cases. In general, most people know what a nice car is. Maybe you don’t . | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.I guess your date has never said “nice car” (She doesn’t want one, but she guesses you can afford it; bonus points) and like you said, a pos car can be a negative (points). | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.It’s not the nice ride, that’s actually bonus points. Perhaps you’re showing too much interest. Show interest but also show doubt bc you are picky (even if you aren’t). Be ok with silence as it conveys less neediness. If you’re too good to be true…. they will run. Unless you’re a celebrity. Dates that I’m not into and just hang out to finish the drink, are the most interested in me. Had to use that knowledge to my advantage. It’s like a psychological game of showing interest but creating doubt. … | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:14 AM |
| 0 | Dating is so draining. Never get second dates.I’m going to use this with kissing 👍 | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 12:00 AM |
| 14 | Women are teaching you to be a better man. Learning elements of game helps make you the best version of yourself.Asking a fish how to catch fish 🎣 | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 06:53 PM |
| 0 | PSA: Seduction is 10% theory and 90% a numbers gameWhat is the % of success? 1%? Vs how about you guys that are skilled? | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?Despite introversion and shyness, their subconscious can’t stop natural innate attraction. They will take multiple looks and look away, play with their hair or look downwards instead of up and away. Attraction is not negotiable. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Why am I getting ghosted after meeting at bar/club…to be remembered | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 02:29 AM |
| 27 | What are your experiences with speed dating events?If there are any hot ones, they are fillers. Friends of the hosts. They are called in to fill in the empty seats. I matched with a few. I called them and got no where. One even answered the phone while having her guy next to her and kind of laughed that I called. I’d only go again if it was free or I was getting paid. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 08:43 PM |
| 5 | How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical?Same. Start by catching yourself doing it and then actively stopping. Then remember to focus/talk about the moment, what you see, what is happening. It’s tough but possible. Don’t expect to stop, expect to diminish gradually. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 04:50 PM |
| 2 | is bald shaved head still attractive?Study from many years ago: Hair>shaved>thinning | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)There is “30 or 40 years from now” Possibilities and desires are limitless Enjoy the ride. And he is more experienced, therefore will have the choice to continue to experience it or not, as he has had it versus those who have not. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 03:16 AM |
| 6 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)“Even if you’ve been married 5 years” Brutal lol This one’s a catch | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)It’s not the destination but the ride there | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 11:13 PM |
| 5 | What would be a good response when someone says that you are good looking?Now flip it. What do you say when a girl responds with that??? | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 02:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with late bloomer tax?Sounds like you’re just gaining experience and worried about the outcome. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: Why she doesn’t feel the sparkDon’t you mean his face? 😆 | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Seduction is not for everybody👍 | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Women I approached either married or have a boyfriendIn other words, fish like handsome worms. 👍 😆 | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 02:09 PM |
| 3 | how do you guys turn a girl on?Me when I speak facts & stats, thinking it’s sexy “Stop it” - Michael Jordan meme | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Why no success in clubs?This is a seduction thread. Explaining “how” would help. Especially if you are very successful | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:21 PM |
| 38 | You need to spend money to get laid!We ALL pay; with our M.E.A.T. Money Energy Attention & Time -CGA No 🐈 is free, even for brokies who say they get it for free. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Libido & Stamina!And sleep 😴 | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Why no success in clubs?Elaborate on how you get a hookup “every time” if you try | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Why no success in clubs?Please elaborate how it’s easy if you “look hard enough?” | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Why no success in clubs?They grab their arms and scream or twerk if he stops. Seen it too many times. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Is over… sighAccept defeat but try and find out where things went south. If you can, then you can learn from it. If you don’t, don’t kill yourself with guesses. | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 08:10 AM |
| 0 | I feel like giving up“It’s bc your Game sucks, your height and looks don’t matter” - Reddit seduction Lol Make the best of what you have buddy. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 09:37 PM |
| 45 | Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girlsOp hasn’t heard of the Halo effect lol | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I agree with you. Bc it’s true if you really know the culture. But I think it’s because you’re too nice. I also have had this happen to me. Unfortunately, you have to become a “tigere.” An -unapologetic- one. Your fear of rejection is making you too nice. Accept that you aren’t going to win them all and accept that others will do better than you. Only then can you work and improve on yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 12:48 AM |
| 9 | Girl shaking at first kiss, rainchecks second dateHe didn’t eat a Snickers prior the date :( | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Ha. Your solipsism shows. “It isn’t about me” after saying YOU wouldn’t. You’re in the wrong place. This is a seduction thread. He clearly wants dates with intimacy and you came here to be an antagonist saying you wouldn’t. He’s not asking if YOU would. It’s clearly possible, with or without dinner (my say), but YOU would not (your say). Nobody asked you if you would. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls(Early 20s) repel a kind and caring person and go for the oppositeYeah, raw physical attraction | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Why are you making this about you? Lol | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.To a car collision death? No. But I’ll definitely listen to them if they’re getting laid and they could help with guidance, if that’s what my goal was. (Your question proved nothing lol) | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 11:00 PM |
| 2 | I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas.Obviously no guarantees. But If others have done it, why not him? Lol | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 05:34 PM |
| 0 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?But he’s a virgin…. so doubtfully a 9 lol | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellSome of these people in the comments remind me of that meme: “Just say hi, it works for me.” 😂 | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach will SAVE you.Read my comment again. After the hard work HAS been accomplished by those that don’t have it easy, (including myself, since you assumed), once you get women, you realize it isn’t worth all the hard work for them, but for yourself. It’s a seduction page. You’re in the wrong place, go to a self improvement page then. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:54 PM |
| 35 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?So if you’re single, make sure you make $$$ | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approach will SAVE you.And those whom win when it isn’t easy, are realizing “the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.” Lol | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How can I get multiple sexual partners?Yup. Also, some girls give their number to be nice. You need the girl to feel attracted for a reply. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Picking up guys, improving/learning my/new skillsChump vs Chad | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Short with handsome friend ? (Shitty title)“You have the wrong mentality brah. You need an abundance mindset…..” ….bs You got c blocked. It happens. She probably won’t go for you now bc she doesn’t want to mess up the chances w your friend. Live and learn. This happens. Especially with attractive friends. Adapt & Move on. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How to not let rejections wreck meWhat did they say so far? Take note and work on those points. Remember, you too will eventually date someone you prefer not to see again | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Exactly. When a woman says she wants a funny guy, it’s an attractive guy. They will laugh at the stupidest things and call him funny while I watch and roll my eyes. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Yeah, I’ve seen that too. It’s usually Chad has set higher standards and turns away free tail. He may not notice it, but the girl I’m checking out is staring at him. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Girl changed her mind about sex while we were butt naked about to have sex.You kinda messed up interrupting the moment. Take note (women are finicky) and move on. See if they will meet again, through your friend. She probably realized there wasn’t much in it for her. These workers have a one track mind $. I’ve had similar experience where the friend later told me her friend liked me but has to feed her kids lol | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effects😂 | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 11:34 PM |
| -1 | Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculineFeminine women like to fuck too Lol. GTFOH Not everyone likes female sailors Traveling to non western countries will open your eyes | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 06:57 PM |
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