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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Divorce is coming and I'm not sure what to do.Sorry friend your marriage is over. She found some dude and is monkey branching. Do yourself a favor and get out of the cruise. Look up “grey rock” and the 180. Get on with your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Lawyer is asking me to pay half the mortgageYou and your ex don’t agree on everything. Through her lawyer, she wants you to pay half the mortgage. You could try asking her directly in case it’s the lawyer being a zealot advocate for their client, which is her. edit Time to get your own lawyer or communicate directly with your ex to find out what she wants. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/26 07:53 PM |
| 12 | Let’s be honest with each other….did alcohol contribute to the divorce?My actions when I was using alcohol absolutely contributed to my divorce. I have a bunch of shame/guilt over it. Living for your kids is a good motivator for staying sober. It’s where I am at. Working towards living for myself is the goal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/26 04:02 AM |
| 5 | Freaked out at custody exchangeBrother the woman you married is dead and gone. Your reality now is she is a stranger. The person you had kids with is gone. Read up on “grey rock”. It’s a method to help control yourself when dealing with her. Go low contact / strictly necessary. As for that display of anger, that’s out there in the wild. She can and most likely will use it against you. Get yourself to mental health. Start processing the grief you are feeling for the loss of your marriage and loss of the military career you hav… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 02:35 AM |
| 2 | My Wife won’t stop being CruelBrother she’s abusive. Get therapy to find out why you keep choosing abusive women. Decide if you can live walking on eggshells knowing if you make a mistake she’s going to treat you like trash. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/26 03:54 AM |
| 7 | I finally broke last nightDid you at least do a contract? At the very least do you have a emails or texts? If not, get it into writing and that may save you from having to pay for it twice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 07:32 PM |
| 3 | The closest I’ve been to another human since my divorce.That should come with a warning. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/26 12:47 AM |
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