| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 172 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly) | REMINDER 👑 | WorthReindeer8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with women who put you down for FDS | NAH, SIS | WorthReindeer8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | So happy to see porn not being normalised 😭 | FDS SUCCESS! | WorthReindeer8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heartone of my ex friends slept with a guy bec then she thought he’d magically wanna marry her, lo and behold after sex, he dipped and she ended up engaged to her cousin 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:06 PM |
| 130 | How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heartpick mes say it to try to guilt you into making a move, no man is getting any benefits unless we’re committed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 6 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.flashbacks to when i was on call with this lvm 🤢 (just a friend who was ‘in love’ with me) and he heard my notifications and goes oh you get w lot of messages huh?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 20 | "Women Are Warning Creators About The TikTok Silhouette Challenge"wait what happened, i thought pics saved on my eyes only couldn’t be gotten through to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 09:58 AM |
| 104 | .needed this 🥺 esp in my culture, 2 more years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 12:51 AM |
| 8 | Save time: Picture-based vetting on OLDor men who hardly posts pics of themselves!! they may be insecure and project that onto you queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Emotional F*ckbois: The Subtlest Gaslighters of AllUM thank you so much!! this is exactly what this asshole tried to do then gaslight me!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else notice when eldest woman in the family passes away the entire family falls apart?they tried to say my dad killed her when he wasn’t there, it was all about the money for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:19 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else notice when eldest woman in the family passes away the entire family falls apart?HAHAHAA you don’t even know, my grandad has stolen my mums business when his wife died (rip she was an angel), everyone became upfront greedy and selfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)i’m so sorry i rlly don’t know how men have the audacity to be such dickheads?? i’m proud you left that scrote, you deserve way better. men honestly believe they’re a prize... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:29 PM |
| 6 | A household with a LVM father and a pickme mother is a terrible environment to raise children. So many people have unresolved childhood trauma from being raised in this dynamic.this!!! show your kids healthy relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:07 PM |
| 5 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)every day we’re reminded men are trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)i hope she leaves him but i doubt she will, that’s why they pick ‘mediocre women’ bec they won’t be confident and have other options, the perfect wifey i can’t imagine what she’s going through :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:39 PM |
| 13 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)no what’s on the inside counts, some picks me came running, like no my husband does need to find me attractive to an extent?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:38 PM |
| 6 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)‘my mum was insanely gorgeous so i’ll marry a mediocre women???’ like talk about the mummy issues 😭😭 he probs sucks as a husband and a father | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:37 PM |
| 32 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)honestly the guy i was dealing with didn’t seem conservative but he was just a hypocrite, i imagine the minute her husband finds someone he’s attracted to, he’ll have an extramarital affair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:42 AM |
| 54 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)exactly and the culture i’m from really enforced this bs, i bet she cooks and cleans for this man too 🤢a lot of scrotes have their ‘fun’ and then marry a poor girl who doesn’t know what she’s in for :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:41 AM |
| 17 | Hi, i literally love each and every one of you, tysm for fds for cutting off my crush/best friend who just wanted me to be his incubator for his kids 😭 he deadass said he wouldn’t care about physical attraction as such (not to toot my own horn, but i’m not ugly)i also ended up ghosting him bec he was a MAN child who Id have to pick up the slack for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 21 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Omg this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Mama said.....My mum always taught me never to support a man until you’re married, he’s not your responsibility and to focus on your career which will never leave you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Watch Out For Love Bombing!!! (Idealize/Devalue/Discard cycle)Omg sounds exactly like what a friend of mine tried to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:37 AM |
| 8 | She’s right, you can’t teach someone to love you or make you a priority. When someone genuinely cares for you, they’ll want to make you a priority and act like itUhhh idc Bec they should be putting effort in and coffee dates aren’t encouraged in fds so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:18 PM |
| 19 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsEw ew ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:19 PM |
| 13 | If it wasn't for arranged marriage, most desi men would never be getting married.Fam my mother thinks it’s the kiss of death but tbh I’ll wait out till I find a good guy, and as for those middle aged ladies who try saying anything, I’d suggest to ask them how much they accomplished in life being a lackey (read:slave) to their husbands and how much said husbands respect them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:56 AM |
| 11 | If it wasn't for arranged marriage, most desi men would never be getting married.This this this!! There’s this guy I used to like and he thought oh you know shes wears a hijab so she must be a good homemaker about me. And for the longest time would make me feel like arranged marriage is the only way to go, I soon figured out these marriages being beneficial for us is also a product of the patriarchy. Why tf would I marry a manchild who doesn’t care about feminism or anything?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:53 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with women who put you down for FDSHonestly yeah and she’s a shit friend, we just have a common best friend :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:35 AM |
| 10 | The best advice I was ever given was by a 35+ woman who said, “you have to love yourself more than you love them”.My sister said the best revenge is no revenge, and men get off on hurting you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 5 | The best advice I was ever given was by a 35+ woman who said, “you have to love yourself more than you love them”.My sister said the best revenge is no revenge, and men get off on hurting you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 21 | Women have the stereotype of being needy and clingy whereas I keep meeting men that are needy and clingyThis is so true, I’ve cut off men for being too clingy and needy. And they have the audacity to turn around and say it’s me whose clingy. They have triple text you with no remorse but god forbid you start a convo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:00 AM |
| 6 | Pay attention to the relationship his parent’s have, and the relationship he has with his parents.I was such a daddy’s girl until I realised this, and the worse bit my mum CONTINUED THIS coddling and so does my sister. This man cannot even pick his OWN clothes, well he does try to do tiny things now Bec I call him out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 35 | Men’s favorite body type: Insecure!!! yes I’m comfortable being thick and no I’m not insecure about losing weight, this guy who I’m kinda friends with in public tried to say I’m wide/fat but then he’s in my messages saying I’ve got the meat in all the right places🤢AND DISSING THE GIRL HES INVOLVED WITH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 13 | Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer.Comparing you to his ex!!! BIG red flag saying she gossiped and you don’t, you keep to yourself she didn’t wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Nothing but factsI personally believe it’s okay as long as he doesn’t want to inflict violence on you kinda like he’s the sub ig | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 7 | Nothing but factsWhat if he wants you to hurt him like bdsm? Is that okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Be the first one to pull awayHmmm I agree but with men you kinda have to stroke their ego, atleast that’s what everyone tries to teach me as I come across too harsh :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:30 AM |
| 12 | Entanglement told me he didn’t talk to a girl because she was out of his league.Pls stop thinking of him as your best friend :( just a slippery slope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!My parents wanted me to always become a doctor now I won’t even consider anyone whose not a doctor at least | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:22 AM |
| 20 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!It took me a gap year to get into med school and not the one I wanted but you gotta preserve if it’s what you really want 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:21 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a man who plans to beat his children?Never RUN FAR AWAY. You never know when that can turn on you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a man who plans to beat his children?NEVER RUN FAR FAR AWAY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Deleted a text tonightThank you!! I’ve stopped replying to him and even though he asks to chill, I just make an excuse. He just makes me cringe now 😭 but I still wanna be friendly but for sure next time I’ll bring along a friend without telling him!! That’s genius and will deffo let him how I feel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Deleted a text tonightI’m in a pretty similar situation!!! How did you stay friends? What boundaries did you enforce? How did you stop hanging out with him one on one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself.Could anyone link the trp wanna see if I’ve been manipulated using it 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Just substitute “Taurus” with “LVM”You’re going to make me go for this libra sun aries moon 🥺 I love how they will pursue you and aren’t nonchalant like Tauruses!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Just substitute “Taurus” with “LVM”GURL you brave 😳 libra men scare me but I also feel like they’re so cute and clingy in love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Just substitute “Taurus” with “LVM”GURLLL I love my taurus dad but he has the biggest victim complex and cannot ever help at home 😭 until I start bullying him about it, I did have a toxic attraction to taurus men but like cap/Virgo men is where it’s at | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 9 | Just substitute “Taurus” with “LVM”Ok but taurus men somehow of the highest lvms at least in terms of being stubborn and useless slobs in the house | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:17 AM |
| -41 | Caption was “just bc p*rn is normal for boys of our age doesn’t mean its good for you”. I’ve never seen men speak up against this, Im having hope for improvement for the next generation (sorry if the flair is wrong)Guys so even having a lot of sex gives ED? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:24 PM |
| 22 | Thank you, next.It’s a clever dynamic with the whole no labels thing on their end, they’ll pay for your food but never brainstorm fun date ideas!!!! plus the whole I don’t like you but let me claim you in front of everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 31 | He thought I was willing to audition to be his girlfriend and compete against all his side-girls. The shock of rejectment hit him hard.Why did this guy pop up in my head 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I COMPLETELY CUT OUT LVM THAT'S BEEN KEEPING ME DOWN 1-/2 YEARS!!!!Thank you and fds has rlly helped me🤍told this guy way too early on what I wanted in a man :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | I COMPLETELY CUT OUT LVM THAT'S BEEN KEEPING ME DOWN 1-/2 YEARS!!!!Thank you but I feel like the worlds biggest idiot for even entertaining him :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | I COMPLETELY CUT OUT LVM THAT'S BEEN KEEPING ME DOWN 1-/2 YEARS!!!!He sounds a lot like the guy I’m getting over, we never admitted or feelings or started anything tho :/ although I asked if he had feelings, he’s a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:51 AM |
| 10 | I COMPLETELY CUT OUT LVM THAT'S BEEN KEEPING ME DOWN 1-/2 YEARS!!!!Omg I don’t stay friends with anyone I had feelings for either and I think you’re right it’s guilting us so they can keep some sort of hold on us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 2 | I COMPLETELY CUT OUT LVM THAT'S BEEN KEEPING ME DOWN 1-/2 YEARS!!!!It’s like bragging he could get them back right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:38 AM |
| 3 | I COMPLETELY CUT OUT LVM THAT'S BEEN KEEPING ME DOWN 1-/2 YEARS!!!!Is it a red flag if he’s still friends with all his exes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:34 AM |
| 5 | Have any of you heard where males talk about women being 'clingy' or 'crazy' yet males fixate on you for months or years, otherwise convince themselves of the nonexistent interest you have in them?not this guy friend who loved me saying I was clingy when he’s been stalking me even after it’s been 2 years since I removed him + acting crazy by talking to my new guys ex 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:36 PM |
| 3 | When my husband gets something nice for himself, he buys me one tooSo happy for u❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:17 PM |
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