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| 1 | Confident is no problem but I avoid connection with womenMaybe something traumatic happened to you? Therapy would be good to get down to why you are an avoidant. If you’re feeling it is a problem. Many men are like this, but first step at least you’re aware, but if it is hindering you on what you really want, then you gotta do research on it, not just research on getting laid. And when you eventually get a girlfriend, you don’t want to be avoidant because that will cause a whole new set of issues and it will be toxic. | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Getting back to dating after a toxic relationshipAt least you’re aware and may be best to have a month at the least to be alone and hang out with friends. Eventually when you’re slowly not thinking of your last toxic situation, you will be in a mindset of wanting a connection again. And if you’re confident in yourself and not wanting to use women as a distraction, then you can get yourself out there and start building vibes instead of just trying to get laid then feeling empty, since you’re a relationship type of person. You just gotta know wh… | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 04:20 PM |
| 2 | The thing PUA accidentally got right: people like feeling understoodGreat advice, which I follow, But a lot of people on here just literally trying to get a conquest of them in their bed. Not have a genuine connection. | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Don't make assumptions. Just do it without expecting any results.That scenario just screams scarcity mindset. If you're so worried about 'the next guy,' you aren't holding a strong frame. Hooking up just to score a conquest yields mid results. Building that initial tension and making her blush is exactly how you make the sex elite, because she actually wants you, not just any warm body. | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Don't make assumptions. Just do it without expecting any results.Hooking up purely for a conquest gets old fast because the sex is usually mid. When you actually have mutual chemistry and you're both making each other blush and trip out, the sex is ten times better. Aiming for that vibe gives you a way better payoff than just chasing a number | /r/seduction | 04/08/26 03:46 PM |
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