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| 1 | I'm (25F) dating a great guy (36M) for 3 months, we haven't slept together,I (potentially) want to wait until marriage but idk if that's fair/potentially manipulative and have no clue how to have the conversation!I think your attitude is awesome! He's obviously into you, but respectful enough to restrain himself, and that's hard. Even if he doesn't show it. Tell him you want to talk about sex, it's that simple. Talk about waiting, his and your appetite and needs. Trust me, it's on his mind, too! As a couple, you can make a plan and lay down some guardrails. You're in a great spot with what sounds like a great man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/25 09:56 PM |
| 5 | How should I view past sexual encounters that only happened because I was drunk?Don't worry about it. I think your honesty is great. Be honest with others and yourself. Learn and move on. We all have a past. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you stick around?Just be glad he'll wait for you. A lot of guys could care less if you're married. The fact that he does says something. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Is this seriously just how dating is like for women now a days ?Yes, it's terrible. I'd look into a protestant religious group. They tend to still hold marriage sacred and serious. The free sex we live around is causing a plague of "daddy issues" girls that wouldn't know a good man from a scum bag. It's not their fault. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/25 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Imagining alpha vs. beta as a two-scale system instead of oneFrom my experience, girls with good upbringings tend to lean away from alpha males and prefer emotionally close men. These relationships seem to be longer lasting in general. Women who had loose attachments to a father figure seem to want the attention of dominant, emotionally distant, but very confident men. These relationships are based on "I want to feel your attention" and are therefore short and rocky. Sadly, it doesn't matter how hard you try. She will always be used by bad men whose atten… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/25 09:37 PM |
| -3 | How do I reconcile being a “good girl” but with a shameful past?I'm a man who was married at 32 with no women under my belt. I can tell you without a flinch that good men could care less about your past. The fact that you have shame is a good thing, not bad. Keep your head up and be the woman you are. Don't let this affect your view of yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/25 09:19 PM |
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