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Social IssuesWowwOkk__/r/MensRights20/01/23 01:02 PM
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It sounds edgy but I purposefully make strong eye contact at some point when I'm around women at the gym in a close space for a period of time so that they can tell my will is greater than theirs. The dudes online getting shamed are all half present and the women take that opportunity. The few instance the guy was assertive the accusors got actively destroyed and still tried to play it off as being a victim but it was even more laughable. Men can't back down from this stuff.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:49 AM
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"I've discovered that it doesn't take much to make men happy and of course as a woman, that fascinates me" 🔥
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:08 AM
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I think it's better if men and women can make fun of eachother and freely criticize one another. It's when women are immune from criticism that shit gets really fucked up. But if men were protected from it too it would get toxic quickly. So yeah, stereotypical male living spaces are funny. She can say what she wants. Women can say truly vile shit and idgaf as long as I can dish it back. It's more necessary to be able to point things out than to protect feelings or inequity builds and becomes mor…
/r/MensRights05/02/23 11:06 AM
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Man you're lucky if you can discover yourself without catching a record. I had a similar childhood and got my shit together early 20's but I made a lot of mistakes before that. We sort of figure shit out though because our bodies usually have some internal moral compass if we listen.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 08:16 PM
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Figuring out this information is difficult I haven't ever seen anything that has convinced me completely one way or another which is why I have to rely on generalities also. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1730227/ One thing I'm thinking from looking around is things like this. It's clear that there's high rates of abuse in men who have certain temperaments and traits. So removing the socio-economic factor, if one were to find the traits correlated most with abusive behavior in rela…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:25 PM
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I'm going to dig on this and I'll get back to you because it's an important question I was thinking I should be able to provide some data for. But at the same time keep in mind that there is no data supporting the opposite either, and that is the side which is accusatory and defaming.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:14 PM
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I mean this is focusing on one example which isn't really the point I'm trying to make. I just want to pull back from hyper-focusing and keep broader statistics in mind because these things devolve in to singular anecdote. So in this specific case I think the relationship is transactional. The young women gain status and popularity, live a lavish lifestyle and associate with many powerful people. I don't think they are just dropped in to destitute poverty ever. I think they know exactly what the…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:11 PM
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How big of a difference? Twice as many? Four times as many? Also, men who have money and social status tend to be less abusive over all objectively speaking. It's more equitable poverty that drives domestic violence from both sides
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:08 PM
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Well, grooming can have a few meanings and it can be done with deception in mind. But grooming can be done with musicians who are talented, by teachers or something for example. So it comes down to the intention of the person whether it's actually abusive or not. There's also not even evidence that grooming occurs in these relationships except for the abusive ones which still constitutes a very small %. A lot of these relationships are mentorship with benefits and transactional. It would be curi…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:07 PM
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Here's a way to look at it. The same type that abuse in relationships would be the ones who would abuse while dating younger women too. There's no reason to assume a non-abusive man would groom and condition a younger partner to be easy to abuse right? So it's fair to suggest that if x% of men are abusive in relationships, then that same % would exist in age gap relationships. It might be higher or lower but that's probably the case.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:04 PM
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Is grooming for insidious purposes the rule or the exception?
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:00 PM
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Based on a lot of prejudice and assumptions. When you ask why that's a problem, is any reason actually substantiated or does it just amount to "Men predator, young girl naive and abused", which has no grounding in reality. Unless of course people are taking a microscopic % of cases as a general phenomena which is almost always the case. The way violence and rape is attributed to all men when it's likely less than 1% based on prison and sentencing data It's always fear mongering using extreme cas…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 02:51 PM
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People think their opinions are law.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 02:39 PM
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People don't care about or respect the law. They think their subjective opinion is more important and then echo chambers embolden them. It's how mob mentality forms and escalates, which is mostly an irritation but imagine if those people had complete authority. It's understandable that people use the word fascism so frequently now.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 02:33 PM
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That's a vicious point. Terrifying.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 02:31 PM
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I mean my entire post was literally warning guys in my age group that these sort of people are coming for us and in 15 years imagine how vitriolic that person is going to be after further solidifying her beliefs in her echo chambers with others. Literally mob mentality hyenas. We need castles with gates and boiling oil/sewage cauldrons we can dump on them when they come for us. And they'll probably be like "AH YOU EVIL CREEPS HOW DARE YOU DEFEND YOURSELVES THIS IS PROOF YOU'RE EVIL". There's no …
/r/MensRights22/01/23 12:44 PM
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Thanks for that perspective. Confidence has a lot to do with it for sure like insecure young women get brainwashed by "feminism" and men are evil narratives much easier whereas confident women tend to just understand life through actual instinct and intelligence and can form their own opinions without having to use a self serving ideology as a crutch. It really is a lot like a religion in that sense, where people pick the parts that benefit them the most and ignore the rest. If you're interested…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 11:55 AM
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I find this idea that it must be a defect of a man not to want to date women his own age who always act like they know better or bring some profound mystical value to the relationship due to their experience crashing relationships throughout their 20's and 30's lol. It comes back around to this belief that men can't have their own standards or feelings or values. Imagine wanting a partner who doesn't have to cope by constantly being subversive in some egotistical way and just likes you. I'd date…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 11:34 AM
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Seriously though. I wish when I was young someone had explained this all to me a bit more clearly I probably wouldn't have spent so many years thinking I was just fucking up when this is literally just the way the game is meant to be played. :') damnit.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 11:29 AM
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Idk. That's what people are criticizing him for is that he tends to break up with partners and then date younger ones.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 11:27 AM
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my boss and she noticed my silence around her but she interpreted my silence as me not liking her but I was silent because I was genuinely genuinely afraid of her.. Of course she did, because she only cares about and not your feelings at all. I'd bounce from that situation just because she's got no reason to talk about it other than to bring her victim identity in to that environment. She could leave it elsewhere but she wants to be seen as a victim THERE to leverage the power advantage, which w…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 08:13 PM
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Because the statements above go against my own personal social agenda that benefits me at the expense of others. And to add to that, many edeuacated people agree with me, so therefore my view must be the right one. : P
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:42 PM
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Tis as scripted as you are grifted.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:40 PM
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This is very porblematic.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:39 PM
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Women aren't capable of exercising wise judgment, if you listen to feminists that is. The older bitter women shame the younger women while at the same time teaching them to demonize men as predatorial.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 01:07 PM
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Except that makes him a "groomer" because adult women can't make decisions according to a significant group of people trying to fear monger against men. Absolutely they will try anything and it's angering to see
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:39 AM
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I replied to another comment with a DM I got about this post and you were downvoted twice just for saying this LOL. The way the phrase it as though 19 year old women are "literally children" is disgusting but also worrisome that they can't tell the difference between a 19yo old woman and an 8 year old child. Like uhhh. Meanwhile these 19yo ADULT WOMEN, recognized that way by the law, have agency of their own action and decisions but for a random arbitrary reason a large % of the population belie…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:35 AM
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Being older and having much wider selection of sexual partners takes the edge off. I'm not even dating young. I had a recent relationship with a 31yo woman because she was hot and intelligent, unmarried and no kids and made smart life decisions. It's nice spending time around someone who doesn't fucking hate you just for being a man lmao. But God forbid I don't want anything to do with the "mean girl" cliche who was cruel af in her 20's and now has a kid no one will take care of as she expects l…
/r/MensRights21/01/23 01:30 AM
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Lol I already received a hate DM from this misandrist for posting this add , basically telling me I'm shit for wanting to fuck "barely legal women" and that it's because women my own age can "see through me".. Which is EXACTLY the point of this post. Even mentioning the "barely legal" part as though to imply its grey area legally or something, and apparently it's wrong to avoid women who hold toxic and hateful views toward me as though I'm a terrible person. Shits crazy out here lol. Here's the …
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:25 AM
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Fuck the loser who banned you from r/offmychest , the pathetic schmuck will live the rest of their life flexing meager power on Reddit until their shitty lifestyle takes them out.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 11:23 PM
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They can only do it for 160 days. The court case will drag on for a few years if he fights it so eventually he will get out either on house arrest or having to sign papers at the jail every week.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 11:17 PM
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"She had mental health issues and is a vulnerable person herself" LOL. I'm surprised they didn't try to spin it to make the boy look like he was taking advantage. Male abusers often make themselves out to be victims and the media fucking skewers them as they should, but here they are going out of their way completely to give her the "tee-hee" pass. It's insulting to women as whole and just too fucked to comment on legally speaking. Damn.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 11:15 PM
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Ugh read a book.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 11:06 PM
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Everything you're saying is just emotional opinion and doesn't fit reality. Idk what to tell you but it's a huge job for me to even begin to get your head on straight dude. With all due respect believe what you want and if it works for you then more power to you.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 11:05 PM
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I have no resentment toward women at all. You're kind of a fucking idiot.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 11:00 PM
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Lol you're being vitriolic and pathetic.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 10:56 PM
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Mind if I ask how old you are? I'm 34 and life is the best it's ever been. All the women I knew and watched make selfish decisions throughout their 20's are now hitting their 30's and what they are doing is no longer working, just like I suspected it would. They never had to listen to any advice or take any accountability because they could always blame their partners and move on. At 30 they are starting to wake up and by this point I have a wide selection of partners and no reason to give them …
/r/MensRights20/01/23 12:31 PM
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Fr I can see some truth to this based on what I've seen. Realism issues on both sides. Obviously this is probably not the place to get too deep in to it but I appreciate you pointing it out because it's something to keep in the back of ones mind, especially because I hear a lot of talk about how women's standards today are insane. I think many women do have unrealistic standards but I think on the flip side of you talk about it, many lazy men who don't want to improve themselves will jump on tha…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:14 AM
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I just don't know why it's a competition to decide who is the villain and whose the victim, rather to address the issue that everyone is suffering equally and focus on that problem. One of the things feminists say so often is that by destroying the patriarchy they will help men, and that they aren't against men, but many policies and actions specifically cripple men as opposed to creating more opportunity for both, as though the best way to solve a problem is to hurt someone instead of help ever…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 02:02 PM
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I think it's fear based conformity at its core and believing they are being "protective", but they are more often than not bullies who enjoy making other men outsiders.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:39 PM
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Man I have crazy nightmares sometimes and what happens is you'll be fighting someone but you can't impact them. In your dream you're doing that, but once you realize you can't hurt them your mind makes a connection to your sleeping body that it can move larger body parts. If anyone who reads this is prone to nightmares, you can almost always break out of one by turning your hips to the left or right because it does something to wake you up, at least for me it does. But yeah, like an irl fight it…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:35 PM
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You need to remember though that these jobs are physically demanding because they were designed with men in mind and not women, which is a result of the patriarchy. For example, deep sea diving to repair oil pipelines is one of the most dangerous jobs on the planet and extremely physically demanding as well as navigating a high level of threat. Men do this but have no consideration that it would be harmful to women because they don't see women as people, only objects. If they really cared about …
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:25 PM
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Being a good person is hard work and being a selfish abusive liar is incredibly simple. Humans have every incentive to be shitty since historically we lived 32 years on average. Enough time to reproduce and die before getting caught. When the life expectancy raised to early 40's grandparents became a thing and I reckon they had more insight in to the dynamics that others would use to exploit their young. That's probably where things started to get more interesting.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:22 PM
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Tbh I have a certain level of respect for the girls that blow up to extreme proportions. They are almost always mentally ill and extremely narcisstic. One of the big ones who was selling farts in jars made a DM to a high paying customer saying she would include some fecal matter for him. On the surface it's all "Tee hee", but these are ruthless, sadistic "business" women who are capitalizing on the sick society. Thing is, there's countless women as attractive as them but some of these psychos ri…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 01:19 PM
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The article says human resources is implying humans are resources lol. As opposed to being resources for humans. I'm not defending the problems with HR and bias' that make it toxic but unless I'm misunderstanding that article is really dumb ? Sorry if so.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 12:54 PM
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Not trying to be antagonistic but I'm wondering what sites you recommend because I'm usually looking for other perspectives. Cheers if you can point me in a new direction.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 12:50 PM
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Gen Z dudes getting left behind everyday Is that a positive thing?
/r/MensRights09/01/23 12:48 PM
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I'd have the cleanest light switches in the city if they were paying out on it. If being a house husband compensated financially I am sure so many men would choose to do it. I've always known I would, it's like the best of every world. Getting to support someone you love and see the real time difference in how you have a positive effect on their life, while getting to spend time on your own or with your kid. Maybe I'm not as ambitious as other guys but I think that would be pretty awesome.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 12:47 PM
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It's probably on a gradient to something similar to that. I heard someone savagely say a while ago "of course ugly people are fucking ugly people, where do you think ugly people come from?" And that sort of helped clarify some things for me as brutal as it is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:11 AM
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I'd argue that women are more able to adapt to this by dating upward whereas men don't have the same option as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:28 AM
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1/3 men haven't had sex in the last 3 years or are virgins, so usually a small % of men. On the whole women can't understand or emphasize with how many lonely men are out there working their asses of every day and invisible to them because it just doesn't occur. Idk about monogamy but I'd like to get data on average relationship spans tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:21 PM
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I didn't mean to imply that. Just sexually speaking women are encouraged to go mad while young men don't have that option at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:15 PM
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I think a lot of frustration from young men comes from the fact that it is almost impossible to build themselves, it takes so much more work for such little reward and during that time young women are encouraged to just have fun and fuck around. In the past you could afford a house working a minimum wage job and you were able to be a provider and actually still enjoy and love life. Men simply don't have that opportunity so now they are gimped and many many many young women take advantage of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:56 PM
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I also go as far as putting intercourse off the table but leaving other things open because it creates a sense of heightened desire and frustration but tbh it's because sex itself is sort of sacred. I don't understand why people think they have to fuck just to do sexual stuff together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:40 PM
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Every time a guy present himself as boyfriend material, high value, wonderful guy, the sex goes on hold to ensure that he doesn't see her as "easy". In essence men who want easy sex do themselves a disservice by being too high value. Tbh I 100% agree with you haha. It's all about reducing the level of threat and increasing the reward potential. If there's nothing to lose and only something rewarding to be gained humans are gonna go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:39 PM
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Refute the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:23 PM
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But do they realize the more they keep attacking basic masculine physcology, the more it will come back stronger? Sadly that's not true. Many will just kill themselves after suffering silently and wondering why they aren't worthy of love. Feminists realize this, their intention is to hurt men and at this point no bullshit deflections will convince me otherwise
/r/MensRights31/12/22 11:20 PM
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It's so insulting to women jfc. As though men don't have other obligations also. How dumb.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 11:17 PM
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I'm a victim because men don't give me what I want, therefore men bad. It's a lot like the incel narrative tbh. Women become disillusioned and then blind to all the good that men do. This is an extreme and small sample size of course but it deals with two polar opposites so I kind of like it personally.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 11:14 PM
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We support equality for all but men need to quit complaining and figure out all their own shit while we purposefully handicap them to elevate young women in to positions of excellence.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 11:11 PM
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First of all hilarious that the banned you. Second, why do these people keep getting away with blaming all of men for the actions of a small % ? They always say "who does the murdering.... MEN!" Therefore women victims. It's so stupid that they can keep running that same argument
/r/MensRights31/12/22 05:00 PM
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Evil unborn baby overlords.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 02:05 PM
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But we care about men too... Right?!? Anakin and Padme meme
/r/MensRights31/12/22 02:04 PM
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It sends a bad message to young men is part of the problem. But in the privacy of my own sexual life I must admit I sort of dig it lol
/r/MensRights31/12/22 01:58 PM
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Unfortunately there isn't a really solid way to get the truth and you're just sort of rolling the dice. She did it once so no matter what it's possible she will do it again but people do learn and change without a doubt. But yeah. It's a gamble either way. Maybe that's why she's being so nice to OP in the first place tbh, maybe she feels bad about the way she's treated men in the past and wants to turn over a new leaf. I met someone like that a few years ago and it was weird af. It wasn't typica…
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:51 AM
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Omggg. You're being so mean to me and then when I get upset back at you you just.... Yawn?!?!? The ambivilant nature of your responses is so frustrating because I'm so heated up and triggered but you seem so relaxed and calm!!!!
/r/MensRights18/12/22 06:00 PM
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Why are you so mean!!! Why don't you care? You downvoted me AGAIN???? Keep it up and see where it gets you seriously I'm going to downvote you right back. Then you'll see how it feels.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:56 PM
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Justice system at its finest.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:51 PM
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Did you just downvote me? How fucking dare you.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:49 PM
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Ok. Keep shooting other people down for trite and see where it gets you.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:45 PM
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The answer is simple. Tie them together at the wrist and the one who is able to successfully rape the other is the rapist and must go to jail.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:49 AM
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I assume it more like yin/yang traits. So a heightened feminine or masculine trait set would have toxic qualities. But I never hear other people use that It's a shame I can't say "toxic yang" or "toxic yin" and be taken seriously, but that's the way I view the issue when I remove the social issues and implications which is probably why I'm able to avoid grouping traits to people as a whole , since these traits are individual. To that point, most of the posts on feminism subreddits are hyper masc…
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:47 AM
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The post is informative yet you cling to one thing and dismiss it. What butter are you bringing to the table? Otherwise stfu.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:34 AM
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That sub is so toxic. Holy fuck. I guess if I feel like a bad person for reading things there it's because I must be the ones they are talking about though right? Yikes.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:22 AM
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Early signs of prostate cancer look like urinary issues. Nothing burger article but still helpful to draw attention to. Now I'll be paranoid I have prostate cancer every time I piss for the next few weeks so thanks.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:09 AM
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That's why you ask though. If she's being evasive and placating you adjust accordingly. Decisions like that don't need to be made in a day it takes longer than that. For example for anyone reading, even beginning to ask questions like these to a potentially volatile partner changes the dynamic. Not only do you get the feedback but you see how she adapts to the question being asked and responds. Maybe the person will resent you. Maybe they will feel it's important to clarify further and thoughtfu…
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:01 AM
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I guess one thing I'd want to do personally is understand her motivation at the time and be paying close attention to how she responded, and also if she was lying tbh. It's still a risk factor but there's a lot of things at play and people do change. I'd also want to know about drug/alcohol use at that time in her life and watch out for that.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 09:57 PM
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Idk honestly. Its something to feel out with the person to understand what the right question is because you need to be gauging the emotions behind the response, the thoughtfulness and all sorts of things that you can't prepare for. For example if he asks her what she thinks about all that now and she's like "uh, I don't know lol" definitely not a good sign
/r/MensRights17/12/22 09:53 PM
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I think there's one in the r/prequelmemes subreddit that is based on ChatGPT specialized to be a starwars character and it's super convincing. I thought it was a con of some sort at first and that's how I realized what was happening. Mind blowing
/r/MensRights17/12/22 01:11 PM
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I always ask questions like this and get infront of it in part because I like to date interesting women lol. You either get a shocked response and an answer to let you know to bounce, or they respect you for helping get to the core of the issue. It's doing your due diligence. In my past relationships the ones that went dangerous were always because of intellectual dishonesty. Not asking the right questions, not getting to know the person, and getting physical too early. Maybe most people don't a…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 01:02 PM
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Yah.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:54 AM
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t remember - it's not capable of thought. The answers it gives you are statistically derived from it's training data, and will frequently be wrong This is what ChatGPT kept saying to me when I tried to befriend it lol. It said it couldn't pretend to be my friend because that's not it's purpose and would constantly reaffirm what you wrote the more I tried. I asked it to stop saying that but it was having none of it. I just wanted to pretend.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:49 AM
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Are you unable to read? That was concise and informative. Saying shit like this is stupid and deflating to an achievement like this.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:45 AM
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Actually this A.I making the rounds doesn't learn from its conversation apparently. This is what it told me when I asked anyway haha. It's coding is pre-programmed and based on input/training data which it extrapolates and it seems able to actually philosophize very well. I had some good back and forth with it about good and evil. But according to it, it operates on training data that is given to it in a direct way and not from user interaction. That's just what it told me but maybe it's lying.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:34 AM
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To add to this, this is why some guys develop a cuckolding fetish. It's a distorted (perverted) response to a natural instinct. We actually get aroused to a degree if we find out our partner had sex or cheated on us. This natural biological response gets clouded in rage or aggression but the point of it is to make us dominate her and outcompete the other males sperm. But in this society we can't do that (understandably so) but if you check out any kink site there's so many women who are "brats" …
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:30 AM
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Tbh a quality bendy silicone dick is pretty easy to take, even like 9 inches. It's hard things that are the worst but those things are flexible and comfortable. You can also hit the prostate with sounding. That's the most luck I ever had with it but I've tried multiple ways and just don't seem to be a responder. Supposedly one of the best tools for it is the njoy wand because of its shape. You can find cheap knock offs on Amazon that are exactly the same thing for like $20. Again it looks effect…
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:26 AM
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Talk to her. Ask her why she would treat you differently? Approach the problem directly. If it inflames the issue then you'll be ahead of it. Don't play games and talk to your partner.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:22 AM
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I'm more of a throw the whole thing out kind of person because where there's terminology like that there's weaponized ideology right underneath it. usually absurdly stupid stuff. I'm not saying there's not good in it just I search for better sources that align better with myself is all.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 06:54 PM
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This guy literally says "If she sees you as her Apex-Alpha". How can you take anything he says seriously when there are so many other sources of information on the internet?
/r/MensRights14/12/22 04:36 PM
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There's many Feminists on kink dating apps and sites looking exactly for the sort of treatment you'd probably guess. The irony really suggests some inner psychological dissatisfaction.
/r/MensRights14/12/22 04:22 PM
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/r/MensRights14/12/22 04:17 PM
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As an also tall man with a tiny dick I agree with this. You can almost hear their thoughts when they realize you aren't going to be driving them around and making their life blissful. I finally got my own place (something that should be absolutely easy and always has been for men historically) and my self confidence has improved immensely because despite trying to convince myself it doesn't matter and I can work around it, nothing has ever panned out because I wasn't fulfilling the role of provi…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 03:59 PM
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Finally, at an Iron John retreat, a therapeutic masculinity workshop — think drum circles and hero archetypes — modeled on the work of the men’s movement author Robert Bly, Ned began to lose it. Being Ned had worn Ms. Vincent down; she felt alienated and disassociated, and after the retreat she checked herself into a hospital for depression. She was suffering, she wrote, for the same reason that many of the men she met were suffering: Their assigned gender roles, she found, were suffocating them…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 03:55 PM
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Most of the women I know who have "attempted suicide" just take a random bottle of medication that has almost no chance of killing them. It isn't meticulously thought out and there's no real intention behind it. Men do it viscerally because they are hopeless. They know that no one will help them and no one cares. They know to die they have to kill their body and that's the only escape. Of every attempted suicide by women in my life or that I've known it was always just impulsive and superficial.…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 03:32 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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