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The redpill has always been about looks (lifting) and money (being a high value man). No matter how slick you talk you're not going to get much poon if you are a still live with your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:38 PM
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The only thing making women less likely to date is a lack of men they find attractive. Let's be real here there's shitty people online and offline but being a shitty person has not stopped them from dating and screwing. If you think some comments online will change that you're mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 12:52 PM
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Because they feel it's easier to keep them and when you're past it an okay guy is always better than no guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:44 AM
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But women's standards are high, if they weren't we should be seeing an equal number of women approaching or accepting similarly rated men for casual sex but that just isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:43 PM
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Morality is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:14 PM
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Women frequently give their male friends useless information or no information at all in order to preserve the fantasy of "natural" and "authentic" romance. Think about it most women want a long term relationship or marriage but women going to tell their male friends or associates exactly what it takes to marry them, even if she finds him attractive. I think things will be better when we drop the fantasy and pretense surrounding human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:59 PM
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This is the closest answer that's come to changing my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:57 PM
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No I don't have to respect schools of thought I consider dumb, especially not those that thrive on falsehood. The redpill was created for a purpose and that purpose is being subverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:32 PM
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There's a lot of nofap stuff that's been pushed for a while as "self development". Andrew Tate's apparent conversation only emboldened the traditional voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:18 PM
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You can see in my second paragraph I said it was ruining the original spirit of the Redpill meaning it was turning from a sexual strategy guide to some twisted contradictory mess of self hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:13 PM
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Most of your "observations" are thought terminating clichés meant to massage a woman's ego while giving the man no real roadmap to get what he wants. This is simply because thebluepill and other anti masculinity subs are designed specifically to mock and put down men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:09 PM
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The sidebar of r/Thebluepill literally claims to be a satire of the redpill and subreddit analysis shows users tend to lean female and get their jollies out of mocking "incels" and other strawmen concerned with masculinity. You can't claim something is a caricature when it is literally what they are claiming to be, stop the gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:08 AM
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The original meaning of "Bluepill" was just people, men and women, who are unaware of sexual strategy until a bunch of other people decided to make a sub just to oppose the Redpill and called themselves "Bluepill". Bluepillers are usually SJW types with deep seated negative views about men and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:42 AM
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BP "advice" is just a tactic to keep the "lesser" males from accidentally reproducing. Notice how it tells men nothing but constantly shames them for not being naturally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:29 AM
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Bluepill doesn't give any actual advice, it blames men who the BP individual has never seen or talked to for being unfortunately ugly, not charismatic or any other made up personality flaw. But rather than show men a way to improve it doubles down and tells men their feelings are invalid and their lack of success is some cosmic justice for naturally being a piece of shit and they need to perform penance until they find the magical unicorn that's on their level. There is no way any man with a bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:25 AM
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Dahmer, Charles Mason and a lot of other killers gained a following from prison even though they were shitty people who looked bang average at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:57 PM
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Dylan Roof has a community of online sickos called "roofies" who send him letters and presents.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:55 PM
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Most guys aren't neckbeards, the neckbeard trope is a stupid ad-homenim many bluepill sympathisers use to justify a man being alone. This entire post is an ad-homenim full of false equivalences and ridiculous assumptions. Messi is not the average guy, if Messi was a random nobody with the same attitude he'd hardly be seen as attractive by most people. Concerning the last part of this post there have been serial killers who have women send them love letters in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:06 AM
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It's been an honour purging with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:06 AM
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The leftwing have become such humourless bores they are sounding no different from the fundie Christians they used to hate. Clearly someone having a different opinion from you and joking about it makes them brainwashed alt-right neonazis. I've seen your shitty video compilation whenever I dared stray out of the hive mind, it's ridiculous, separate your head from your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:28 AM
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"Listen to my programming to deprogram yourself, do not resist you are being rescued".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:46 PM
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I know your mom's popular around town.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:44 PM
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Never said I was, people can't discuss parallels between ideas and real life anymore? Jesus Christ some of you need to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:33 AM
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A movie about how a technology superior civilisation wages war on another for control of resources. Clearly never happened before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:04 AM
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Back then marriage was about survival and life was tough, now that pressure isn't necessary anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:55 PM
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Fully automated luxury gay space communism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:36 PM
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Asking women out first does not make a significant contribution you get to complain about. Because women don't have to do any of that shit you can't understand. Nora Vincent got depressed just from trying to ask women out and getting repeatedly ripped apart. If a woman asked YOU to marry her, you would lead her on. I'd stick around if she was good enough, men don't typically shut women out immediately because most don't handle rejection very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:33 PM
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Female solipsism at its peak Women aren't expected to ask men out, pay for dates, woo and charm or propose. The onus is on men to initiate and maintain the relationship until they get married. Despite knowing this you still hold on to the ridiculous notion that men and women contribute "equally" to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:15 PM
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I do not spend my time bitching about men Could have fooled me You have internet access And? You mean a couple dinners and some enthusiasm If it's that easy why don't women do it more often? It's a nice gesture, and it is NOT a lack of contribution by women But it is though, most women can't be bothered with putting effort into starting a relationship and put it to the other party to be proactive. Bisexual women who recently start dating women learn this the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:42 PM
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What the Hell kind of world are you living in where women don't contribute equally? Anywhere outside of "The West"? Heck even in the west women expect men to do most of the hard work in the initial stages of the relationship. I want you to not spread diseases and knock women up Condoms and birth control exist Women are equal If women actually believed this bullshit maybe they'd ask men out and pay for dinners at the same rate men do but they don't. We have been taking up the slack of raising man…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:11 PM
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Of course they are https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/100bwxt/the_incels_vs_inceltears_meetup_is_the_funniest/j2hvms9/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:59 PM
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Not sure how the gay relationship dynamics go but it feels like it they are more likely to have shared interests if they do actually find a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:57 PM
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I mean she's making a negative implication about guys who patronise sex workers because of a cheap date so I don't see how that's a plus on your end. Y’all so quick to pull out ya dick. Be bold enough to tell her your intentions . “Hey how you doing I wanna have sex”. Lmfaoo it’s forward but honest. BUT y’all know the odds of you getting rejected are more likely if you just say it w your chest when you first hit these women up She knows the onus is on men to drive the tone of the relationship bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:50 PM
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Where does it say you are a rapist for it? Literally just above that KNOW you can’t get it no other way so you lure women by pretending like you’re interested ,asking them on dates & THEN try to make them feel like they OWE you sex bc you spent a total of $41.02 at applebees. Y’all need to unpack that predator/rapist trait that’s inside y'all. I'm not even going to bother responding to the rest because there's no way someone can be this naive. Like people just making casual accusations of a seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:40 PM
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Nope, I do not believe you Of course you don't if you're using that very narrow and graphic definition of what rape is to evoke an emotional response. Histrionic and irrational people don't hesitate to call any behaviour from men they don't like rape. Anyway here's a thread which says the exact same thing I'm talking about. go up to a man, as a woman, and tell him about your sexual experiences with your previous boyfriend. It's hardly controversial as telling someone you visit ladies (and dudes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:16 PM
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The payoff is usually one sided even though it's been drummed into our ears that "we are totally equal now".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:03 PM
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In your mind you've already assumed the question is rude or inappropriate without prior information. I can ask to see someone's glasses, ask for money ask to borrow their car but sex is always given this extra emphasis to be polite. Also "You should deal with being assaulted for asking a question" is the classic retarded bluepill thinking I come to this sub for. Zero self awareness as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:01 PM
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Women want equality when it's easy and convenient for them, making sacrifices and participating in the actual gritty reality is too much work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:01 PM
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Go on grindr and ask anyone you match with when they want to fuck, this is a normal and often expected behaviour despite homosexuality still being taboo. But when it comes with women you need to engage in some silly game of quasi prostitution when you both know what you want. Keep licking that clit man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:54 PM
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Relationships which come with a social or direct economic payoff, no payoff no party.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:40 PM
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Another retarded bloop who misunderstands the point of what I'm saying so let's have a little thought experiment. A gay guy and a straight guy meet 10 people, what's the chance they will have sex with their target audience just by asking nicely?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:40 PM
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Yes, you don't even need to ask many will imply it if you're headed in that direction. If the sex worker is legal and not forced, why is it bad? Big brother again. Next time you meet a new woman let her know you frequently patronise sex workers and let's see her reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:37 PM
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No. Neither would EVERY man. So why is it bad to say what you want? Refer to this comment. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/100ip7r/why_dont_men_just_ask_for_sex_instead_of/j2ih2lr/ That assumes there's a "big brother" watching. What if she never wants to have sex? Because many women honestly believe a man who asks for sex without "proper" emotional investment is a rapist, I am not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:28 PM
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Many women think sexual interest without any chance for a long term relationship equates to viewing them as a "piece of meat". Dudes get slapped and have water poured on them for asking these, for many there's no "respectful" way to bring up the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:09 PM
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You got too much dip on your chip I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:44 PM
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But most people don't just say "Yes" heck if it was a 50% chance of getting laid just by asking the redpill wouldn't even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:42 PM
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The best part about this is when those guys grow older and get more experience most will grow out of the incel identity, can't say the same for the ones on the right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:41 PM
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Based off of fucking what!?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:37 PM
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You made a negative connotation about someone without prior evidence and you're surprised people get defensive? Using that ass logic I might as well say blacks are criminals, after all only someone who fits the stereotype would be offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:55 AM
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I'm not even a fan of Tate but carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:49 AM
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Anything nice to say about women* men on the other hand are small dicked neckbeard incel if they so much as sneeze wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:21 AM
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Men never denied this though, years of feminist brainwashing made it so calling ugly people ugly is now a cardinal sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:49 PM
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By "winning" I mean the redpill is actually having a measured effect on global political discourse. The idea that the Redpill going mainstream would create competition is silly because there is already competition and you can't fuck everyone in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:42 PM
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I used simplistic terms that soft minded bloops can easily understand. There have been repeated attempts to squash a movement which only made it more mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:37 PM
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Weird how you guys always measure a man's value by the amount of women he's fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:25 PM
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Exactly, bloops celebrated when Kevin Samuels died only for someone more extreme and hard-line to take his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:02 PM
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Shouldn't be too hard for Andrew in any case
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:51 PM
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Think Astronautloveshack Think, would Greta even respond to Andrew Tate if he was a random nobody?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:44 PM
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The status quo originated when people started moving into industrialised cities away from the countryside. When you had your whole community living in a small area entire families would choose wives and husbands for their children. You can even look at the divergent dating trends in big cities today compared to small towns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:17 AM
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She literally admitted down the thread that her opinion is borne out of personal trauma she suffered in the past, you came out of nowhere and made a stupid assumption about me because as usual you have no point. Can't bother engaging with someone who thinks like a teenage girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:23 PM
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This is so weird, you said you fell in love with your husband "normally" without any of you approaching romantically? Why was your husband worth the risk of being around and not any other guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:31 PM
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So you're essentially here to derail the debate and deceive women into staying single while you've got a man yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:27 PM
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But how are you going to know a man frequents this sub without approaching and talking to him? How do you even know people here don't maintain friendships with women? Maintaining a friendship with women and being in a relationship are two different things, you can have a thousand female friends and still be single. Your initial comment said women shouldn't approach men at all since we are potential rapists, therefore women should just stay away from men and not take the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:19 PM
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Where did I make the assumption about your marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:12 PM
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So if all the women you follow your advice and stay away from men while you remain (allegedly) happily married will women also be happy or miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:12 PM
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Honestly my dear, I don't care, do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:00 PM
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Ad-homenim, the bloop tactic for when you don't have a point just need to have the last word. Honestly my dear, it's getting old.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:55 PM
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Don't care, didn't ask
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:53 PM
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Respectfully, your reason is at odds with reality and does absolutely nothing to protect anyone. It seems like you want to ruin relationships for others by casting fear and doubt because of your bad experiences. Also this is a debate sub where we dissect the trends in modern relationships,you can ignore these trends and continue running on autopilot, doesn't affect me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:23 PM
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When you've been through trauma going to the Internet to vent at strangers instead of healing through professional help only makes things worse. For the guys reading don't take these words to heart, her case is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:00 PM
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This arrangement only works if the average woman goes after the average man and we all know they won't do that. I can even go further and say women do approach, they just approach the small pool of top men in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:44 PM
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Because with or without money an "alpha" man is still attractive, while a "beta" man is the consolation prize or backup option for when you have no more alphas after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:41 PM
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I ain't reading all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:36 PM
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This is basically AFBB in PC language.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:43 AM
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He took that silly picture to revive his career but got turned into a meme instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:35 PM
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We all know they don't want equal roles in relationships, women very much expect men to lead and provide from start to finish. If they wanted the equality you describe they would just do it already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:24 PM
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It is hard to be sociable when you are ugly, what part of this simple phrase isn't clicking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:39 PM
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Yes, why is it even a meme in the first place? All he did was take an ugly picture and random people on the Internet created a character filled with negative stereotypes, all off a fucking picture. People already hated the guy without even knowing his name and you want to say people in similar situations are struggling to date because they're just not being friendly enough. This is another level of self delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:48 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ujkj6q/most_men_who_dont_have_success_with_women_are/i7jjugr/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=PurplePillDebate&utm_content=t1_i7jp29o
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:35 PM
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The post is about success with women,are you guys misreading these posts on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:25 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ujkj6q/most_men_who_dont_have_success_with_women_are/i7jjugr/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:33 PM
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I don't know why people like to play dumb when it comes to looks, as if you didn't assume this guy was a horrible person because he took an unflattering picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:44 AM
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It was an example since we all love to play dumb and deny reality on the Internet. Go knock out a few of those pearly whites, wash your face with battery acid and hit the club in search of a good night then I will be convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:40 AM
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Same women where over the moon when Chris Rock was slapped for saying the wrong thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:35 AM
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Have you tried asking women out with a face full of acne and no front teeth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:31 AM
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A lot of people won't give you the time of day if you're ugly though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:23 AM
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Read the above comment. Declining marriage rates are a global phenomenon. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/tzk948/the_deteriorating_relationships_between_men_and/i3zxg6q/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 07:43 PM
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What happened to the blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:07 PM
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As countries develop economically, the marriage rate declines
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:59 PM
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Women are people, people have biases
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:48 PM
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To pass on your genes like any other animal does. That so called prime period is where you get the best outcomes for pregnancy, the ideal goal is to get your kids and secure the man before the dating pool dries up. Most people don't have a passion for work but are doing it to survive. Staying single and being a worker drone during your most youthful period is an easy way to end up miserable and with a partner you don't desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:04 AM
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TRP ideas aren't new, men just got soft through Hollywood brainwashing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:20 AM
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Women earning the same amount or more then the men they meet has been seen as a reason why they find it difficult to get a partner these days. Because women are hypergamous they won't for the most part, settle with a guy who is doing worse than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:26 PM
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Where does it leave old people, widows, the infertile or people who just don't want to have kids? Birth control has existed since humans used their brains for more complex things than throwing rocks. The kind of world you're imagining is what many African countries are going through right now and it's objectively shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:20 PM
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People like sex, people have always liked sex, now we have medical services which makes sex less likely to result in unwanted babies and STDs. If you want to find people who want a committed relationship before sex, go to a church, or a mosque, whichever and find the neediest guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:16 PM
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Guys, I hate to tell you this, but women don’t have this wall you think they do. When it comes to children? Sure, but these stunning, successful women didn’t want children anyways! Pish posh. Most normal women want children, people aren't having them these days because it's too expensive and too much of a commitment for the hedonistic age we live in. A woman who doesn't want children is seen as less valuable than one who does, because men and women view success differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:28 AM
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See this is exactly what I mean by hypergamy in action. You don't need to be a supermodel to get male attention but for a man to get the same attention he needs to look like a men's health model. And again you confirm the guys aren't good enough because your go to response is "meaningless sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:32 AM
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Sex has always been transactional, families would trade their daughters for land, cattle and alliances. Now we are simply more honest with the trade and don't fret about commitment when the sex is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:52 AM
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If this was true then average dudes should be having no issues with dating, but Jenny from down the block thinks the guys on her street aren't good enough for her. Heck if this was true the average woman wouldn't complain about thirsty guys coming up to them. Hypergamy in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:33 AM
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I know it's hard for the female demographic of PPD (overweight, 30 year old women) to believe but many young women outside expect this lifestyle, which is why more guys are opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 10:18 AM
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Let's just list off the common requirements Be taller than her earn more than she does be as educated as she is, preferably more have your own car and house And finally be her "type" Back in the day when families could survive on one income it was very realistic, the norm in fact. Now, with basic necessities becoming more expensive, more guys are opting out and more women are settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:57 AM
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Women started the body positivity movement because nobody wanted to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:36 PM
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Everyone knows the comment button only works when you're sitting down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:33 PM
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Many women already experience this when they grow old or get married. No longer the centre of attention or object of rampant thirst, just another person, ignored and only cared about when they are useful. Many young women would be fine with this, most would be pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 08:30 PM
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What do you think the femboy revolution is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 10:59 AM
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Use the subreddit analyser and you'll find your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 10:55 AM
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The department of rectal studies of course! After all the studies showing how loneliness contributes to mental illness we still have people saying it's been "debunked"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 07:51 AM
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Women are difficult to fuck and tend to have contrasting hobbies/outlooks on life. Plus pussy does feel good and people still need to keep up appearances/reproduce because being in a gay relationship isn't accepted everywhere regardless of what popular media wants you to believe. The entire world isn't San Francisco
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:43 PM
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This might come as a shock but young guys don't know how to go about it, leading to the aforementioned issue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:40 PM
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It may not fill the emotional void but it may fill the physical void of sexual release. When it gets cheaper and the craft is refined with VR more men will buy in just to get off. society as a whole despite removing gender roles for women keeps gender roles for men and therefore shames men for not being attractive and sexually successful with women Women gained equality but didn't let go of hypergamy, now the bar for what continues an attractive man is out of reach for the average guy. I think w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:10 PM
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What about actually communicating your romantic or sexual interest in someone rather than being a friend with the hopes the person will suddenly like you? Because most of the people who complain about the friendzone are shy and inexperienced boys/young men who have been fed bad advice. It does toy a disservice to say you want to be friends and suddenly want to be a couple or FWBs. Men are often told, usually by women and their female peers, to "be friends first" and "get to know her" before aski…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 07:48 PM
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Nope. Friendships have boundaries and you're going to crave intimacy no matter how cool you are with your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:26 PM
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Nope. Friendships have boundaries and you're going to crave intimacy no matter how hot your friend is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:26 PM
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When men talk about "the friendzone", we aren't entitled, we're frustrated with trying and failing. Men aren't happy with being "just friends" because a one sided friendship is never a substitute for a loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:24 AM
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You can't even speak your mom's language, she would be ashamed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:27 PM
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Why do you think the handbrake is shaped that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:07 PM
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Not with that attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:54 PM
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Go convert some triglycerides you fatcel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:52 PM
1

A man's thirst trap is his flashy car, watch or designer belt. Unless you're built like a freight train, you've got nothing else show except your cock which mainly attracts gay men and honestly, isn't that impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:44 PM
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A man's thirst trap is his flashy car, watch or designer belt. Unless you're built like a freight train, you've got nothing else show except your cock which mainly attracts gay men and honestly, isn't that impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:43 PM
10

You're better than most
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:37 PM
33

The amount of pussy a man gets has no correlation to how much he hates women, men who have a lot of sex frequently can still hate and abuse women. I wish people would apply basic common sense but apparently that's too much to ask for these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:21 PM
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That person is confused, you can't claim to separate from women while still pining for them, it's an idiotic contradiction. Words don't stop becoming words because you see exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:17 PM
1

Incel subs talk about women, because they want to get into relationships and are unable to, MGTOW avoid or don't care about getting into a relationship. You talk a lot of shit but can't even get your terminologies right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:59 PM
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First off what the fuck do you think MGTOW and black pill mean? Even when guys do leave women alone you still get upset about it. Second redpill males don't hate women, they just hate the bullshit modern social dynamics where men are fed bullshit and coddled to be docile and asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:44 PM
0

Been here longer than your account has existed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:47 PM
0

Are you judging a girl just because she's attractive and wears shorts? Do you think smart and funny women can't be attractive you FEMCEL shitlord!?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:45 PM
0

Literally nobody says they treat attractive women like average women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:43 PM
1

Damn you followed the redpill, good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:41 PM
3

Or maybe being a "Chad" allows you go get away with being a piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:53 AM
3

People do say this r/justneckbeardthings is people saying some variation of this bullshit every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:46 AM
13

But looks don't matter it's the heart that counts or whatever bullshit people say to make themselves feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:08 AM
11

Always bending over to let guys fuck them in the ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:55 PM
14

Proof of what the redpill has been saying for years, as long as you're attractive you can get away with being a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:54 PM
1

English is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:41 PM
1

I'm not white you dumbass. Always one dumbass social justice lunatic on the Internet thinking anyone who doesn't agree with their deranged worldview is a white male.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:38 PM
11

Do a user analysis and you'll see most FDS users are lonely 30 year old women who have passed their prime and need to achieve their dream relationship or really any relationship before the ship sails. Perfect candidates to be nickel and dimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:14 PM
0

Oh never mind then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:23 AM
1

Did you read the part where I specified hobbies men find interesting or are you just bent on being stupid today?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:03 AM
-1

Someone who's hobbies are things most men find interesting instead of the usual Netflix and vapid pretentiousness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:59 AM
9

The vast majority of the comments about "ashanti white man" are coming from black women talking about straw black men Logic got the same treatment as Doja for years Meanwhile Donald Glover got flack for years because he married a white woman and black women are writing dissertations because 50 Cent used the word exotic correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:31 AM
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There's a subset of black women who can't get rid of the unrealistic expectation that they are owed a black man to start a family with. She views black men as her birthright so even if a white man was interested she has already rejected him before he made a move. When they see a black man, especially a famous/rich/good looking black man dating out it fucks with their self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:13 PM
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That's what I'm saying, women in "the west" don't need to rely on men because they are liberalising and abolishing gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:46 PM
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Men tend to put lots of effort into women who don't reciprocate, so women are conditioned to believe she can get special treatment without doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:42 PM
1

For this I blame the men for rewarding mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:51 PM
2

Was she totally nuts or just the regular type of 4chan nuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:51 PM
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But feminism told us a woman needs a fish like a man needs a bicycle, heterosexual relationships are slavery and you should be a disagreeable cunt if you want to make it in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:42 PM
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All over twitter, every fucking day. Same with girls who say men shouldn't exist but whine about being lonely when they see a happy couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:37 PM
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Every other day it's one complaint about how nobody likes them, black men are bums, white men are all evil yet they're still "hot girls" who aren't "appreciated and protected" enough. Just watch r/Blackladies make this a topic of discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:32 PM
1

Because many countries are very conservative and haven't gone through the phase of abolishing gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:31 PM
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No but finding a composer who you find attractive to serve you tea in the morning is pretty difficult. Houses and cars though are pretty expensive, only half the people under 30 in the United States own the houses they live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:28 PM
1

*women in Europe and the Americas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:56 PM
6

Demanding someone get a vasectomy and despise children in all forms. Wanting a composer to bring them tea in bed, among other demands that aren't feasible for the vast majority of men in the current global economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:29 PM
0

Women hold the advantage when they are younger and in demand. When they get older and expectations change men are more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:22 PM
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The real bare minimum is her finding you attractive. Nice is just a word they use to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:43 PM
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They just have to make the excuse that every man who "does the right thing" while still being unlucky romantically must either be exceptionally ugly and a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:33 PM
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See this is bullshit because people don't actually know what "genuine" actually is. They can't know your motivations, just assume from a vantage point outside your mind with their own interpretation. Even if you tell them many still form a narrative that you're just doing it for optics, especially if they don't fancy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:28 PM
1

You guys are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:25 PM
0

As long as there is informed consent of all parties involved
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:26 AM
1

You're literally sexually harassing me right now you I'm so traumatised! MODS!!! I need to watch some gay Taliban h3ntai porn to cleanse my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:14 AM
7

Oui oui de pussi iz so entrangé
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:05 AM
1

Someone you messaged first. Now go make yourself useful by bringing me a sandwich with extra cheese and no crust please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:02 AM
2

Fuck off Katy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:29 PM
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While I think the vast majority of your post is bunk I agree with the title. The cheapest gotcha online is to pollute the well by calling someone an "incel" so you can claim the moral high ground. Even more ironic that people who claim to be feminist will try to "win" an argument by claiming whoever they disagree with "gets no bitches".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:26 PM
6

Bullshit sells
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:01 PM
7

I've seen a girl reject the "perfect man" because he was too short, and this girl is a giant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:00 PM
5

I have waited a long time for this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:57 PM
4

Is it some recent personal issues causing you to go from sub to sub starting fights or is this just a normal Tuesday night for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:07 PM
6

A lot of ideas which constitutes "the redpill" are true but it's not politically correct to say this out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:08 PM
1

Maybe the society that exists solely within your mind, sex work has been going on forever. Victorian era historical revisionism still has a vice grip on many people's minds apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 09:43 AM
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Damn near every redpill critic is punching a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 12:09 AM
1

Dating and marriage rates are dropping because women say men aren't earning enough to be in a relationship with them. Women still expect to be catered to within a relationship, many just won't openly say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:54 PM
2

Kindness is the most valued trait in a relationship partner by men and women alike. It is in no way disingenuous to say people value kindness in the dating world, or to point to someone's meanness/hostility as a key reason as to why they're unsuccessful. Kindness is valued when the person is already attractive, an ugly woman or man won't be attractive to the vast majority of the population regardless of how kind they are. This simplistic way of viewing the world is what creates the "nice guys" w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:18 AM
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Different women have different standards. Not all women care about a guy being nice. Yet we keep seeing the amorphous quality of "nice" being thrown around to explain why a man is struggling in relationships. Men, especially young men are frustrated with being fed false information about relationship dynamics. If we were told "niceness does not matter, here is what really matters" many men wouldn't be subscribed to the redpill. The problem I see is that a woman will talk about having been abused…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:17 PM
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The problem is the whole argument is based on a strawman. The woman in the video said it herself that being nice was the "bare minimum" yet we see men who fail to meet that "bare minimum" enter into relationship after relationship because the truth is she's lying about what the "bare minimum" actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:49 PM
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I lost braincells listening to her oink. So essentially he's right but because he didn't validate her ego she's going to strawman everything he said? And if course she falls back to the "bare minimum of being nice" bull that's been parroted for decades. Absolutely no self awareness in that video or the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:31 PM
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Maybe that would happen less if everyone was open about just wanting a fling or if sex work was legalised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:40 AM
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Or the west has become so socially retarded they can't differentiate between social awkwardness and murderous intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:31 AM
1

That's even more of a reason to be worried
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:37 PM
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The way I see it all it takes for a major cultural change is for individuals who hold different values to obtain power to change laws. We saw it in 2016 and we might see it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:11 PM
1

Well you're old so you don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:54 PM
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Well there's this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:34 AM
2

Yeah this is one of the reasons why I hold this view. More of our interactions are happening online and I keep seeing more people being outwardly hostile to any kind of male/female interaction that isn't work or school.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:20 AM
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I've been reading a redpill for a while now so yeah. I'm just trying a different perspective for the sake of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:16 AM
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Well my grandparents were very dead before I got here. Even older couples from as long as I remember didn't have the level of disgust we have these days and were more likely to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:13 AM
2

You've got a point there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:26 AM
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No it's not, things like this don't just happen in a vacuum. Why would so many people around the world just decide "you know what, fuck children" within the last 40 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:25 AM
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Don't get me wrong I like the idea of the population dropping but it's happening so fast and with so much resentment stewing around I feel it may lead so some unforseen consequences down the road. Reminds me of the roaring 20s but more digital.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:22 AM
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True but people still got married and had kids earlier. Being unmarried well into your 30s was unheard of unless you were some monk or prostitute or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:18 AM
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It seems, in the west anyway, that people have taken "natural" to mean "I'm ugly and proud" or "I put absolutely no effort into my appearance whatsoever". A naturally beautiful woman is one who looks good even when the makeup is off and yes these women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:16 AM
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There's also the possibility of less men being around to choose from because of the ahem particular way laws are enforced in your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:04 AM
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If only there was some big institution that could influence public opinions and behaviour on the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:14 AM
8

Large number of sick people found near hospital
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:43 PM
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This sub is nothing compared to the hatred it gets outside reddit. Many people deliberately go out of their way to misinterpret TRP because they have outsourced their thinking to internet personalities and blogs masquerading as news websites. Most people who hate it haven't even read a single thing in the sidebar and confuse the redpill with other aspects of the manosphere with conflicting ideologies because some blog or breadtuber told them ReDpIlL BaD!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:32 PM
1

yeah 75% men competing for 25% women its obviously rigged It is rigged. it seems like alot of men get success tho. The vast majority don't because it is designed to frustrate the users unless they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:03 PM
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Online dating is rigged against men. Not only are there more men, the apps themselves reduce your chances of being seen unless you pay. Your standards could be rock bottom yet you'd still have a hard time finding anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 09:14 AM
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Non Binary is a blupill ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:17 AM
2

Nothing just happens by chance. Things happen as a consequence of action. Therefore, by continually making good choices you are almost guaranteed to have success. Just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:26 PM
2

Let me just stop you there man. Historically, the black community has blamed white men in positions of power for their social ills through decades of biased public policies as well as other black men for succumbing to social vices like gangs, drugs and family abandonment. Recently the black community has decided to look inwards to fix it's social problems. Black women, especially educated black women have become a very vocal group who seem to be leading the conversation. Time and time again, str…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:52 PM
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That's because redditors always get jittery when discussing black people. Any discussion or criticism of the black community is met with cries of racism even when those discussing were asking questions in good faith. Also actual racists come to fling shit at everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:43 AM
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I frequently watch Kevin Samuels and let me tell you these men are not the ones trying to "bring down" black women. In the eyes of these men black women have already been "brought down" by making choices they regret and now they want to get their ideal man who more often than not is not interested in them. You're from Germany, which is pretty liberal, the American black community is very conservative in many areas, especially older black people. This is why what they say comes off as aggressive …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:40 AM
3

This is exactly what the "just world fallacy" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:21 AM
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Mega oversimplification which is very typical of this sub. People change, some people change more rapidly and openly than others. A typically "normal" person can get indoctrinated and their behaviour can change drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:19 AM
2

Seems you care more about other people's perception of you than finding an actual relationship. Asking or not asking doesn't mean you won't get stung, women asking just reduces the ambiguity in initiating relationships, whatever happens after that is up to the two of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/dfl3oy/im_a_liberal_but/?ampcid=1*vawep4*cid*YW1wLVJhS0lzR2ZldkFpVlNRTE81RVpBVnc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 04:11 PM
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How is trying to spot red flags and avoid cheaters and abusers a "revenge fantasy"? Refer to this comment. As if like 99% of men don't have strong expectations regarding looks, education, finances, social standing and more from potential partners too. Only a woman who has no idea what dating is like for men can say something so delusional and out of touch. From the OKCupid study, Nora Vincent's experiment and other studies and discussions already prove how women are disgusted at the prospect of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:30 PM
0

No, the core ideology of FDS is to siphon as much money from men as possible while being a massive bitch about it. It's all right here in their handbook Nothing there about any actual self improvement like working on physical appearance or personality because the women of FDS already see themselves as the prize that must be earned and the only reason they aren't getting high value men to fall on their laps is that they weren't acting shitty enough to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:09 PM
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So many women tolerate cheating and even abuse from men in the name of love So it is just a stupid revenge fantasy, these women are literally making another man into an outlet for her past trauma. and you think our standards are too high already? What a joke. Yes, they are, it's like you've never heard of hypergamy before. Women will make demands of a man's height, finances, social standing ,education, while having little to none of those traits herself and feel entitled to a partner possessing …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:27 PM
0

What!!? Women's standards were already through the roof before this bootleg redpill imitation sprang up. Men hate FDS because most of their advice is centered around being a dislikeable bitch and thinking it will get rich and available men to love and respect them long term. It doesn't even offer any advice just "YASS QUEEN!!!" revenge fantasies and pointless whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:36 PM
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People who make posts like this don't know what the red pill actually is and just regurgitate popular bloop talking points and label any behavior they don't like as "redpill" If you read the side bar or even the bloody the handbook, it tells you chasing after unwilling women and whining to her when things don't work out is a waste of time. All these two men needed was an abundance mentality and holding frame, they failed on both counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:53 PM
1

Your real self is the one you show on anonymous reddit accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:31 PM
3

Totally not the same thing, with an unsuitable date there's still the hope of something starting up again or at least a form of friendship. When you get rejected you get absolutely nothing, not even food or a decent outing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 02:29 PM
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I too was an idealist once, and I highly doubt they will do anything about it, just double down and ban until they become tumblr. More likely they go to places like 4chan or other reddit clones where the negativity can fester.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/21 12:19 PM
1

Because back in the day if kept cancelling plans eventually nobody would invite you to anything and you would become a shut in. Now because of the Internet, we can meet people and gain validation by setting up thirst traps on social media. A lot of people here are saying people flake because of a lack of interest but I don't buy it, we're simply too easily distracted and thin skinned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:03 AM
1

Trust me, I don't intend to, I'd just prefer not to get into legal or work related issues because of someone's hurt feelings.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:56 PM
1

So the rules only apply to low status men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 09:55 AM
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That is until word gets round that you have a big dick and people just want to try it. Black men are seen as instantly attractive because people assume they have huge ducks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:03 AM
1

I'm black
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:18 PM
1

Can any of you idiots from r/blackgirldiaries read ? Any one? Are y'all that stupid and insecure on that sub? Coming here with your throwaway accounts to bitch about how life is so unfair is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:12 AM
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I like right in the middle of a majority black country and I keep seeing foreign influenced bullshit attitudes popping up in women I know. In the same vein why don't you worry about yourself when it comes to men, non black women and people who date interracially instead of crying about it on FDS and blackgirldiaries? And finally can't any of you people from r/blackgirldiaries read the fucking sidebar? Or the sticked post about purge week instead of asking me all these inane questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 09:19 AM
1

The conclusion of one set of the subrerddit population who up voted this horrible take that repeats the same tired mantras of "entitlement" over and over which overall help no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 08:00 PM
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Jesus Christ can't you read the OP? Are you lost or new to r/PurplePillDebate? Surely you know how to read and I want to believe you're a reasonable person and not whoring for attention from subrerddit to subrerddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 07:58 PM
1

Refer to this comment I can find even more egregious examples on Instagram but I don't follow those pages. Twitter is an easy way to condense how people think about certain issues. I find it funny however that using twitter as a way to judge group behaviour is wrong depending on the issue being discussed. People form their entire opinions on a person based on one tweet when they want to cancel them. Is it wrong to judge even the President of the United States as an idiot based on what he tweets?…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:08 PM
-1

I doubt you're a Nigerian male and deal with the constant demands for men to provide for women's every whim because we happen to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 04:02 PM
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It's annoying because women have demands that are at odds with reality. Some demand that the guy be 6'2 or taller or at least taller than 6 feet, which is a small percentage of the single male population, while still having a laundry list of demands yet they can't seem to understand why they are still single. I know a woman pushing 6 foot who rejected a "perfect guy" because he was shorter than her. Chances are if she gets with a shorter guy she must have gone through many frustrating days and "…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:49 AM
1

Read "Radicalising the romanceless".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:39 AM
1

Are you seriously asking why I'm talking about relationship dynamics of the people I know on PPD during purge week? Seriously!? I could equally ask why girls are so pressed when guys say they want a fair skinned girl with big tits, a fat ass and a knack for good cooking? Better go back to the pity party that is r/blackgirldiaries to jerk each other off about how "strong" y'all are because you clearly aren't ready for this sub at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:25 AM
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As the yearly week of purge has come to an end and we now have to restrain our utterances to give a semblance of civility I kindly ask that you get over yourself and shove your diagnosis up the nearest rectum. Good day to you M'lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:12 PM
4

Are you daft or something? These are coworkers, friends and other random people I follow on social media. I'm pointing out the humorous way they sabotage themselves while whining about how they can't get a man. Shove your concern trolling up your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:05 AM
8

I'm not reading all that, I'm happy for you though or sorry that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:42 PM
3

Google "bone straight hair boyfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:39 PM
149

You should learn to be more inclusive and never body shame or slut shame women. Also if you disagree with me on any issue you're a short incel neckbeard loser with a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:19 AM
1

You literally said it's fine to eat in a restaurant if you don't know what the actual ingredients are with some people you can not do this. If they were totally healthy and having a good compliance sure but for some it's a fucking bad idea. This isn't punishment it's making the right choices there's room for individual preferences but HAES just sounds awful. That would be like a doctor saying giving a shot to a screaming kid is harsh because his bum will hurt for a week. Maybe because it's "curr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:00 PM
1

The thing is that it isn't more effective, people just claim it works because it makes a small subset of people feel better without actual addressing the problem. Sure tell diabetic, hypertensive, people with Celiac Disease, people who had complex surgeries of the GIT or food allergies to just eat whatever, I'm sure it's going to end well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:51 PM
1

Guess what, this is the watered down version of standard clinical practices. This It’s okay to occasionally eat restaurant food even though I won’t know the exact calories/ingredients. And this I don’t need to cut out “bad” foods or food groups completely and then feel bad when such drastic action is hard to sustain. Doing this with some patients will land them in the hospital again. Usually when someone needs to see us they aren't just overweight they have other metabolic disorders as well and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:27 PM
1

The system hasn't been failing people have just been following stupid tabloid bullshit "nutritionists" and mommy blogs instead of advice by health experts. I see bullshit claim after claim by people who are not health experts and people who don't know better eat it up and use that bullshit advice to declare diets as useless. We have no idea if "Health at every size" even works long term because the concept is new and slathered with twitteresque bullcrap. We keep statistics and surprise surprise …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:00 PM
1

Most of it is watered down versions of what we tell people in clinical sessions mixed with feel-good claptrap. It follows the annoying modern trend of dancing around the truth to accommodate people's feelings. I don't slam the research on patient's heads but I won't hesitate to tell them the truth, being outside a certain weight range puts you at a greater risk of falling ill. I'm only speaking to you this way because you have been typing bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:26 PM
1

I have a nutrition degree but whatever, you can continue to eat yourself to an early grave. Maybe the collective IQ of the planet will rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:02 PM
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I didn't know the absence of "y" was the fundamental point of this entire argument thanks for pointing that out. Do you want to continue to be an obtuse retard or shall we stop here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:55 PM
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Who the fuck is "they", every man in the universe? Surprisingly some men actually want romantic relationships and not just to fuck you. Also surprisingly some men are actually nice but shy and don't want to be too forward because they have been told all their lives that it's wrong. It's quite convenient that every man who has an ounce of self respect and doesn't stay in a relationship he is uncomfortable with is only out for what's between your legs. Maybe if he was a good boy and continues to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:52 PM
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OK thanks for wasting my time with your stupid comments. When you can't back up your point attack the person's grammar and declare yourself correct but hey randoms on PPD know more about health than people who actually study the stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:39 PM
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Non western person here and there's a lot of similarities in the topics discussed here partially because there's some things humans universally experience and also because the whole world has become saturated in Anglo/American culture especially dating norms and relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:28 PM
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OK "Health at every size" are you happy now, want a cookie? Does that one nitpick make this ridiculous movement and the ideas proposed by it valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:19 PM
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When you use this strawman they feign friendships with women to get into their pants Supposing that sex is the main motivator of the interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:18 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Health_at_Every_Size Honestly I don't even know why you chose that part to (incorrectly) nitpick at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:13 PM
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It means the overweight and morbidly obese people who use that phrase and their enablers are trying to ignore the problems right in front of them by claiming their current weight is "healthy" and not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:10 PM
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I just tell them straight up "you aren't". Maybe someone finds them attractive but most people don't. Although I do find it funny that you can rail against neckbeards til the cows come home but calling a morbidly obese woman unattractive makes you a big meany. .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:49 AM
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I don't think we should shout down obese people but anyone who believes in "healthy at every size" is insane. Maybe the rising American obesity rates are a driving factor in this. Remember though that we shouldn't single out women, everyone is guilty of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:45 AM
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I don't understand why women reduce romantic relationships into one singular aspect in a weak attempt to strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:38 AM
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I don't, a situation where someone has feelings for another but the other person is not interested yet still wants to keep the friendship on their terms is one sided. This more often than not happens to men because men, more often than not, take the active role in initiating relationships. If a woman is in the same situation she is more than welcome to apply what I typed. You can fuck off now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:52 PM
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Because it is. It's easier to assume everyone who rejected the consolation prize of a one sided friendship had bad intentions (in their eyes) rather than wanting different things. By the way there's nothing wrong with men wanting just sex, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:45 PM
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Why do you keep asking me stupid bait questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:36 PM
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Who said anything about apologising? Better put down that strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:18 PM
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People I hang out with apparently. Some say they don't want to "lose the friendship" especially if he is "nice". Take from that whatever you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:12 PM
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I expect you to drop some bombs this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:12 PM
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That's a cope to make themselves feel better after rejecting someone. If you stay and don't complain about it you're a doormat if you stay and complain about it you're a "nice guy" if you leave you were only using them for sex. You can't win, anyway whatever they think doesn't really matter anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:06 PM
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Same here bro same here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:39 PM
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I don't know where you're from but I'm not American and I seriously disagree with your interpretation of what stoicism is. I see it as "No use crying over spilt milk" and expressing emotion just for the sake of it won't exactly solve your problems. The concept of stoicism is thousands of years old and is only getting shit on because the redpill adopted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 08:14 PM
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Great topic, I was about to post it but I was waiting for purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:00 AM
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Sometimes women are more focused on intangibles such as the guy must be smarter, or less emotional, or more courageous, or be socially well respected, etc. Redpill does talk about this, they literally go on and on about frame, social status and stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:59 AM
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Being overweight isn't attractive to a lot of people unfortunately. You're also over 40 so more competition, less leverage to bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:53 AM
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You might feel that way but our experiences will be worlds apart, unless you're really unattractive then I can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 03:26 PM
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Ever seen r/deadbedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 12:32 PM
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They are constant statergizers who discuss pursuit statergies about landing pussy. But what kind of real standards do you apply on the said women? Other than physical attractiveness? Like, don't you want to guage if the woman is a good person? Attentive? Has a good career and earning potential? Why do male dating subreddits centre around 'how to appear confident and bag multiple women' than on 'how to overall judge a woman and how to find the right woman?'. Don't men really want...good women? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 12:28 PM
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Social media and increased expectations making it harder for people to compromise. Social media again providing a way for extreme voices to meet each other and claim their position as the most rational one. Social media companies giving in to the extreme voices because they really just want to make profits by keeping as many people on their platform as possible. Hypocritical "progressive" people labelling others as inherently bad because they aren't part of a "protected group" regardless of what…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 11:03 AM
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Have you been to a war torn or highly corrupt country before? Or played a session of GTA Online? Also by the way I think you're confusing decriminalisation with legalisation in your second point. I know it's unrelated to the greater point but it's a little bit of a pet peeve of mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:00 AM
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I lean redpill, had issues back home, didn't really have much of a social life in my teenage years and any good advice or mentors regarding relationships. Was always trying to be the good Catholic boy. I read through the Internet for answers but I got the typical bluepill stchick, Dr Nerdlove, feminist blogs and YouTubers telling me how shit of a person I was for not being attractive and "figuring it out" A friend let me read her copy of "The art of seduction" which strangely actually worked and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:52 PM
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In a world where boys are bombarded with "looks don't matter", "just be nice", "the good guy gets the girl in the end", "I don't like Fuckboys" and "just be yourself" it's not unusual that young men refuse to make massive changes to their lifestyles because they see themselves as dishonest. Here's the truth, men are bombarded with bullshit advice about dating regularly. Your advice to them? Don't try shit that actually works, just "figure it out".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 11:15 PM
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And they don't huddle in an internet forum making up cruddy 'science' and saying that men are shit and that women should avoid them apart from using them to make babies or whatever. You mean like the patriarchy and lesbian separatism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:59 PM
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My issue with arguing about biological differences is how inconsistently it's applied by certain people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 12:46 AM
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A nice guy is usually spawned by a clueless male trying to navigate dating and relationships while being bombarded by bullshit. They don't exactly "create" them but they sure do add fuel to the fire by giving shit advice, being clueless themselves and lying either by omission or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:42 PM
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The biggest problem with "nice guys" is that they are unattractive. The difference between an Internet "nice guy" and a guy who's "soo sweet" is presentation. That's why the nice guy caricature is always a neckbeard because it's easy to make fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:28 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:11 PM
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Good thing we don't live in Roman times anymore. Most women these days turn out fine, and would do it again if the economy was favourable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 08:07 AM
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The government already has your face, fingerprints address and financial records. Getting your DNA for any reason will be trivial.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:39 AM
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You act as if being pregnant is like stepping on a landmine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:36 AM
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I was told for ages that looks don't matter and personality is what counts. Heck even one of the top posts today is about how looks are irrelevant. The redpill and YouTube changed that notion very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:11 AM
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It seemed to work for me. Felt less inhibited and more creative like a was a real person that someone cared about. I can compare this to feeling like a kid again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:09 AM
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I have experienced both sides of this situation and let me tell you looks bloody matter, anyone who says otherwise is lying. Looking good doesn't just make people comfortable around you but also gives you a sense of self confidence that makes interactions much more convenient and got me a pass in some areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:06 AM
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Condoms are good they prevent diseases which take up doctor's work hours and pregnancy. Abortion could stop people giving birth to kids with severe disorders that need lifetime care. Think of it this way, would you rather your taxes go to condoms or welfare for millions of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 12:48 AM
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You mean these women? I don't even know why you went on a tangent about incels, was that some kind of poorly thought out gotcha argument? Incels tend to be young neets, this is about older people's chances of getting married. These women are shooting themselves in the foot by holding on to ridiculous standards and requirements when they have less to bargain with. They could have male companionship but hypergamy won't allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 09:33 AM
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People getting married later, more work for less pay, men are unable to reach women's ever increasing standards, the Internet allowing for distractions and socialising without leaving the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 12:33 PM
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Gas lighting... Your inability to follow conversation is not gaslighting. men are more afraid of man on man violence than women on man. Yet men don't play stupid guessing games with other men like women do so maybe it isn't about potential violence but being a horrible communicator. Women communicate in a way to minimise any potential violence. Female on male violence is basically a joke in popular culture. Y'all joke about, commit and encourage violence all the time. Go to the Acrimony trailer …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:38 AM
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If you were paying attention (which you weren't) you would notice that I wasn't talking about women assaulting men I was talking about men being victims of violent crime in general yet still being more direct in communication and not using that as an excuse for why they can't makeup their minds. I didn't think we were talking about All women, I thought we were talking about the unsure ones... Let's not change the goal posts and stay on topic. Good because I wasn't talking about all women, I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 07:54 AM
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Yeah because it's not a threat to you to say no. Women don't have the same privilege. You think guys are immune to threats because? So the part where she tries and works out all of the above is a chore for you? Then don't ever ask a woman out or to join your friends. Simple. If you don't have the patience to let her decide in her own time, because you know, there could be a number of reasons she might want to make sure she is safe, then you're not suitable to spend time with women who can unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:33 PM
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By being straightforward and telling them you don't feel comfortable and dont want to go. Guys have asked me to go do some stuff that didn't seem right so I declined. The issue isn't her coming or not it's the in-between and having to play games and this barrier of communication which is more often than not based on superficial qualities. Bad things don't just happen to women you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:34 PM
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What? I'm talking about older women complaining that no one is ready to marry them but they have so many requirements before they even consider a guy. Your thinking is completely at odds with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:36 PM
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When you restrict yourself to men who are older, taller, wealthier, equally or better educated it soon becomes an uphill battle finding anyone at all. That doesn't include other stuff like looks, ethnicity and even horoscopes that apparently some people take seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 11:35 AM
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What radfems call men who dare to be turned on by looking at the print or digital renditions of an attractive naked woman in a sexual situation. All you need to be called pornsick is to seek sexual release by your own hand and not at the whims of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:59 AM
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Some men do some men don't. A lot of guys would rather avoid the hoops of having sex in the LTR or deal with the relationship dynamics changing over time as they always do. Also I don't get this Hollywood definition of emotional connection, a man can have emotional connection with anyone they don't have to be his lover or even female. Some people seek validation through sex some through LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:53 AM
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Chad is an archetype, an idea of a tall, handsome, blonde, strong, self confident to the point of arrogance young man who effortlessly excels in athletic abilities and getting girls for sex and relationships. A major defining trait of Chad is is that he's either a natural and seems oblivious to his elevated status or an overbearing bully. Examples of Chad in popular culture are Jamie Lannister, MCU Thor, Price Charming, Chad Dylan Cooper and Chad Dixon two walking Chad archetypes. What the redpi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:04 PM
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Yeah you might have to go through this a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:59 PM
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You raise a good point AnalGenocideComeBack.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:04 PM
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I was just using that to illustrate how people like money, even the insanely rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:30 PM
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Women seem to have put up this invisible social barrier between themselves and men that repels our usual modes of communication. That's why guys get so excited when girls tag along for things they usually do with each other. When asking a guy something(in person not online) you usually get a straightforward answer with women it's like you have to play this game where if you follow the right steps she may come.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:27 PM
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Less work, more disposable income for her hobbies and interests, some people just like more money. That's like asking why Mckenzie Bezos needs to be paid out of the joint fortune she had with Jeff if she's already a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 05:17 PM
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Anna Nicole Smith, Carson and Kate's 'relationship', Regina Daniels, the entire concept of sugar babies, numerous testimonies of girls keeping guys around for favours while dangling sex in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:54 AM
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I had my parents old books from the 60s and 70s where kids actually spent extended amounts of time outside without adult supervision, this is a weird concept to me. I wonder what that must have been like. One thing I noticed is that they would always tell me the whole up the hill and down 2 miles to get to school but couldn't let us walk down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:51 PM
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its easy if you think what they think. It's not that simple, the redpill may seem easy but really it is hard. Maintaining good looks, lifting and obtaining financial stability isn't easy but it's attractive so we do it. I'm not fully there but I'm working on it. For what it's worth I enjoyed your rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:48 PM
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Thanks I'm mostly normal now. Although if I'm being honest I would rather be in the military than live with my parents again even though they mean well it isn't helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:12 PM
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I've seen the statistics and they're pretty bleak. Is there a there any way this will change in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:10 PM
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You have to get out there and learn yourself. Did you miss the part where I was prevented from doing just that? Why is this so hard for you to grasp? no one owes you a playbook on how to be a human. Is this your idea of saying that having age appropriate social interaction is not needed for health development? If you couldn’t italics the 30 hours a week you were in school as an adolescent Yes in classes where you're meant to listen to the the teacher and shut up. Whatever 30 minutes to an hour s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:01 PM
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It's almost like everyone is different and not everyone reacts to things the same way. What about the kids who grew up like you who resent you for being able to go to college at 18? Where I'm from most people go through higher education, my parents went through higher education and just got lucky that they were born during the oil boom to rich parents. You have taken my post and turned it into something else pulling assumptions out of your ass while making this needlessly personal. It's like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:30 PM
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Thanks I'll check him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:12 PM
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My post is about other people who didn't get out of that mindset. Sooo you figured it out in college like a ton of people so what’s the problem? The problem is that I had to learn at 18 what most people already knew at 13. Some people never get that chance to grow because they are too deep into the mindset that they are broken and worthless or nobody ever told them their problems because they thought they were fine just the way they were. Why is it everyone else’s responsibility to teach you abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:10 PM
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I mean I'm good now mostly because I had the freedom to make my own choices and form my own personality for once. I can't tell you everything about my life here on reddit but their idea of parenting was a huge factor in my development. I mean these are the same people who didn't want me working unless they drove me there because I had to take the bus and 'the bus is dangerous'. My post wasn't even about me though it's about guys who fall into but haven't gotten out of that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:59 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:53 PM
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Did I get pissy and waste energy blaming society/my parents? I didn't either I'm just making a reddit post discussing this topic in the only appropriate forum I know. You seem to be under the impression that being a paranoid and smothering parent is normal and anyone who is socially stunted from that is just being a little bitch. You are asking for society to basically cater to everyone’s needs. A titanic leap of logic and misrepresentation. I can't influence society at large I'm just here havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:52 PM
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Most of those self help books just ramble on and on about the author's life story and provide nothing useful. The redpill says it straight to your face why you're like this and how you can fix it. At first I didn't believe it worked but I just kept seeing the same things they talked about manifest in real life and it became impossible to ignore. Although I will admit that the redpill can be dogmatic and stuck in broculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:44 PM
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I tried but I never seemed to understand what was wrong with me. I didn't know that my acne, horrible clothes and bad haircut weren't doing me any favours. There were no clubs or school socials either just sitting alone until 6:30 when my parents eventually picked me up. I tried the Internet but good resources that weren't PUA click bait or teen blog crap were hard to find. When I was in Uni and finally out of the house with people my own age where you would get honest criticism not schoolyard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:37 PM
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If I tried I got beat, it didn't matter anyway it's not like I had any friends with planes anyway. What did change was when I was 16 and finally allowed to walk home myself. I used this opportunity to sneak friends into the house to play video games. I also found the redpill and Robert Greene at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:30 PM
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Well you're fortunate and that's good but for me it wasn't that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:28 PM
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I assume that you didn't fully read my post. I couldn't leave the house for any kind of social interaction with people my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:25 PM
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No, in all seriousness the redpill works, I got into my first real relationship by following it's advice. What the redpill showed me was the truth, that I was a self pitying sack of shit that needed to get his head out of his own ass and actually improve if I wanted life to change. A lot of people often repeat common redpill talking points without knowing. Although I'm not fully convinced by everything it says your interpretation of my thoughts and experiences is ignorant and patronising. The re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:22 PM
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For my parents it was constant paranoia from being connected to news and the Internet 24/7 from moving to a new neighbourhood. They kept going on about kidnappings and robberies like they were happening to everyone. It got so bad that we were banned from going to our neighbor's house, someone that my dad has known for years who's also a bloody lawyer. Weirdly the last neighborhood we were in was having weekly robberies because it was close to the airport yet we had more freedom then as 5 year ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:16 PM
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Friends, Family, phrases like 'be a gentleman' those silly scenes in cartoons where a guy lays his jacket in the mud for a girl to walk on. There's a massive TVtropes page about it and this article better explains the phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:57 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Yes people will have sex in relationships but for how long after the honeymoon phase is over? Some people simply stop trying after they've 'secured' the relationship. TRP is anti-LTR, especially marriage, because you have a lot to lose when the relationship goes sour.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 10:35 AM
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It's pretty common here in Africa as well,mostly due to religious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:36 PM
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This might sound daft but what are the signs someone is DTF?Most of the people who are down that I come across are usually high maintenance.
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