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I have friends like this. People like this tend to think just because they have their shit together they are going to get girls.He should be going out to bars/clubs where there are lots of girls. Do activities to meet girls.He sounds boring. He needs to loosen up and have some fun. There is no point in having money/ ur shit together if you are not happy/ don't make the time to enjoy it. Tell him to loosen up/have some fun
/r/seduction30/10/18 09:32 PM
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I feel this way too sometimes. My advice would be to write down a plan of small actionable steps towards achieving your goals. Try to hold your self accountable to these steps. This is often reccomended by highly successful businessmen and entrepreneurs. For example for the things you mentioned: Approach 5 girls every night u go out, study programing 2 hours per day, workout 3 days a week, then continue escalating and calibrating as needed. Hope this helps!
/r/seduction29/06/18 08:39 AM
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You and your buddy shouldn't be hitting on the same girl and being rivals...you both lost. You are essentially cockblocking each other and most likely making the girl feel uncomfortable. If you or him are doing well with a girl you should give the other person space and do your own thing or at max just add to the conversation when it's getting dull. Alit of my friends try doing the rivalry thing with me almost never works for either of us...which is why I prefer to game solo
/r/seduction15/06/18 07:30 PM
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My thoughts: You are going into very deep conversations very quickly with people you do not know that well. This typically makes people uncomfortable, at best you will probably be friendzoned so she can confide in you. You should be keeping it light and fun. Focus on contributing FUN and a positive encounter. People (girls) want to have positive experiences/fun.
/r/seduction21/05/18 09:46 PM
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You described it very well. Pretty much all of my friends end up dating the first girl they hookup with that will see them regularly. I am very picky and do not want to waste my life with someone that I settle for, hence settling down. If you know you can hookup with multiple girls or high value girls, you are less likely to settle. Hope this explains.
/r/seduction24/04/18 09:05 PM
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If you wanna hookup with her just invite her to a party or something. You're in college, I wouldn't take anything too seriously. Also have fun enjoy these years of your life, you sound like you're taking alot if things way too seriously. Loosen up a bit.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:58 PM
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I'm 24 and alot of my friends getting married/never wnna go out. My advice would be to move on from them, make new friends ( maybe younger) go out and have a good time. Embrace being more independent. People come and go, this is the nature of life. Learn to embrace it.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:41 PM
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Ha was just thinking that. I think it comes off as your super into her. She may/may not like that. I would just hit her up on a weekend, invite her at a bar or something casual so you don't come off as too into her like your message may display, but also shows intent. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:30 PM
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This happens to me sometimes when in big groups. You get kinda lulled into small talk with ur boys. This is why I prefer to go with 1-2 friends or solo. Learn from it and make the proper adjustments. When I find myself in that situation I typically just walk into the crowd on the dance floor solo and go from there ha
/r/seduction21/04/18 02:36 AM
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It sounds like to me you are not fully enjoying yourself. Focus on having fun/enjoying the night/the music/the surroundings/the people. I feel the same way sometimes. I think u may be forcing it too much, makes it feel like your going through the motions. Enjoy life's beautiful experiences. A girl should just be the icing on the cake.
/r/seduction21/04/18 02:29 AM
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It sounds like to me you are not fully enjoying yourself. Focus on having fun/enjoying the night/the music/the surroundings/the people. I feel the same way sometimes. I think u may be forcing it too much, makes it feel like your going through the motions. Enjoy life's beautiful experiences. A girl should just be the icing on the cake.
/r/seduction21/04/18 02:29 AM
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It sounds like to me you are not fully enjoying yourself. Focus on having fun/enjoying the night/the music/the surroundings/the people. I feel the same way sometimes. I think u may be forcing it too much, makes it feel like your going through the motions. Enjoy life's beautiful experiences. A girl should just be the icing on the cake.
/r/seduction21/04/18 02:29 AM
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It sounds like to me you are not fully enjoying yourself. Focus on having fun/enjoying the night/the music/the surroundings/the people. I feel the same way sometimes. I think u may be forcing it too much, makes it feel like your going through the motions. Enjoy life's beautiful experiences. A girl should just be the icing on the cake.
/r/seduction21/04/18 02:28 AM
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Ha I've had friends like that. I would pursue the girl,sounds like he struck out, sucks for him. He does not own these girls, you do not owe him anything. If he gets upset tell him he struck out. If you don't seduce her somebody else will. The only girls that are "off limits" for me are girls in relationships and friends ex girlfriends.
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:11 AM
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From what I read you may be coming off as boring/stoic. Also think your in your head/overanalyzing a bit too much. Your friend sounds like he is funny,doesn't give a fuck, life of the party type. He is contributing fun to the girls experience, people like to have fun, and want to be around people who are fun. I would work on trying to up your energy/focus on contributing fun to the overall experience of the group.
/r/seduction14/04/18 11:42 PM
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I go solo to bars/clubs alot,my friends are lame too. Just make sure you go when it's crowded get into the middle of the dancefloor and enjoy the show/dj/band. Look for hot girls dance near them, I prefer behind them. Then introuduce yourself between songs or wait til they grind on u
/r/seduction14/04/18 02:20 AM
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I prefer going out solo or in small group 2-3 if gaming have always had much better results and generally more interesting nights. I find when I go out in big groups I get sorted of lulled into boring small talk and just chatting with the group. I honestly prefer going solo but most of my friends would never do it...takes confidence.
/r/seduction13/04/18 01:13 AM
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Great point about alcohol in the room. Little tips like these are the reason I read this stuff.
/r/seduction08/04/18 02:29 AM
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I'm 5'10, i dress very nicely, have decent haircut, go to bars/clubs where lots of girls are. I dont coast on social circle cuz I already hooked up with the girls in it I wanted to. I do whatever I want as far as drinking/drugs, triple fist beer etc. I like to have fun when I go out and do not care what others think, but make sure to treat everyone with respect and appreciation.
/r/seduction07/04/18 10:47 PM
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Good advice bro.
/r/seduction07/04/18 02:43 AM
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Your trying too hard to be perfect/ideal. Start enjoying yourself/having fun. Life is short enjoy it. If you have no friends go out solo and meet new people. Also use this as a lesson: Don't base your life around a girl. A girl should just be icing on the cake. Hope this helps you'll be alright just start enjoying yourself. Nothing wrong with self improvement but have fun too.
/r/seduction07/04/18 02:29 AM
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I understand your frustrations but your post is not true at all. I have pulled girls shitfaced while on 3-4 different drugs. Its about confidence and having fun. Your focusing way too much on inner game. Outer game is more important for hookups. Dress nicely/get nice haircut and go to places that are lit af and have alot of hot girls. Enjoy life's experiences stop focusing on results enjoy the process.
/r/seduction07/04/18 02:20 AM
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I got with 30-40 girls, most one night lays or ONS turned FWB in college. How I did it? I went to every party I heard about. Also start having post games. You need to start having alcohol at your house for post game after the kegs are done.invite the girls and some of ur bros or just the girl ur feeling. Good post games got me laid consistently and u will meet people and girls to build up ur social circle. TLDR: POST GAMES GET U LAID ALWAYS HAVE AlCOHOL FOR AFTERPARTY
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:59 AM
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She's cheating on her boyfriend with you. This is why you shouldn't take it seriously/constantly think about her. She will most likely cheat on you if it gets serious. I would move on with other girls that are single. Think logically about it
/r/seduction05/04/18 11:50 PM
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I gradually move closer to her then if she keeps rubbing on you I slowly escalate. The key is to let her decide. I typically dance close enough where they can rub on me, then if they continue to rub I will slowly rub them with only my hips, then if she starts twerking on you I escalate hip movement/dance to her speed, then after that for a bit I progress to hands on her hips. Be methodical, escalate slowly.
/r/seduction01/04/18 02:03 AM
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In the future I wouldnt have ur friends text girls after the first time they hangout with you and ask if theyre single/if they like you. Comes off as extremely desperate and could creep them out. Next time you are with her I would be friendly and a bit flirty, do not come off as creepy tho. Also hit on other girls while you are out if you can.
/r/seduction30/03/18 09:16 AM
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Life tip: Don't sit around wasting your life waiting to do stuff only when your friends want to do it/ when it's socially acceptable. Grab life by the balls and do what you want to do when you want to. You only get one life make the most out of it.
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:17 PM
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I go out solo a decent amount cuz alot of friends never want to do anything. My advice is go to a bar/club that has band/dj so you can watch the show without looking awkward. I actually have had most of the best nights of my life when going solo or when I straggle from the group. I also noticed I am much more successful with girls when solo. I find it very liberating and allows me to just do what I want and have fun. If you do it enough you'll get used to it, if you truly have game you should no…
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:01 PM
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From what u wrote I don't think u got rejected. She mite be busy. I would recommend getting her number. Then invite her to a bar/club/party then proceed to hit on her
/r/seduction18/03/18 06:25 AM
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I went to a regular college. Banged alot of girls, sorority girls etc. All of these relationships pretty much ended as soon as I graduated. I am 24, got a business degree and am still struggling to get a good job. Don't worry about others, you can only control your life. Try to make the best of your situation and enjoy your life. Just try to make yourself better and improve yourself every day if you can. Hope this helps. I wish the best of luck for you!
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:23 AM
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Message her to try to get her number. Then set up plans. It's more personal.
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:02 AM
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I read it next time use a tl;dr please. My takeaway is she likes you but is confused by her feelings. Depends what you want from it. I prefer to be direct as possible so nothing is misunderstood. Ask her if she wants to date or hook up occasionally. She sounds very confused. If I were u I would hook up occasionally and not take it too seriously since u are a teenager it will most likely be done after high 🏫
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:07 AM
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You're not ugly. I would trim your hair some on the top it looks incongruent to me. Alot of people ur age drink and go to parties. I would recommend at least attending some parties, you don't have to drink, but you can observe and learn from people who are successful. You seem to be very smart and focused which is good. If you can learn and observe from others who are successful in social situations you will be very successful in the future however it will most likely be after college when ur ma…
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:43 AM
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That's what I used to be like but have gotten much better. I try to psyche myself up before getting to the bar/ club by listening to hype music and pregaming. This helps me get acclimated to the environment I'm bout to enter so I don't have to warm up to it. Alot of people won't agree but drinking more will obviously help u loosen up. I also forced myself to go out alone sometimes and do things out of my comfort zone. Also i find that sometimes when I go out with a bunch of guy friends I get cau…
/r/seduction03/03/18 03:16 AM
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It sounds like to me you are too tense and get in your head. I have friends i have been out with and they are very tight in their body language, don't seem to enjoy themselves, and are kinda buzzkills, you do not want to be that. It's not fun to be around and not attractive to girls. I think you need to loosen up more and try to up your energy. Focus on having fun and enjoying the moment. People (girls) like to be around people who are having a good time. I find that good things naturally happen…
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:53 AM
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Everything you mentioned is inner game. None of these things will get u laid with out outer game which alot of people on here don't mention. My advice would be start going to trendy bars/clubs that alot of hot girls go to. Start dressing nicer/ get nice haircut. Learn to not give a fuck what other people think so you can have a good time and approach girls and be generally more confident. Observe what others in real life around you are doing to be successful are doing and implement to your game.…
/r/seduction27/02/18 09:31 PM
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Ok I now understand what you are talking about. I would say the less time/meaningful the interaction you have with a girl, the more important looks are for success in pulling. I think game is more about building comfort with the girl, so they feel comfortable around you/hooking up with you, not necessarily all about building attraction. Looks are less important when you have more time/meaningful interactions as this builds comfort and can establish a personal connection that builds attraction be…
/r/seduction24/02/18 10:49 PM
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Looks are pretty subjective. I've been with 9s and 10s (sorority girls and cheerleaders) who thought I was hot af and been denied by 7s and 8s at times. Ive also seen goofy looking dudes with girls I thought were way out of their league.
/r/seduction24/02/18 02:33 AM
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Ha I knew I'd get down voted cuz I didn't tell him he'd magically get laid just by working out. Game, especially night game is extremely situational. Its not about being the most ripped, attractive, or interesting. It's about being in the right place at the right time. I see ugly skinny dudes with no game hooking up with hotties all the time, just because they positioned themselves in good situations, around a bunch of hot girls that are drunk and horny. IMO positioning yourself in successful si…
/r/seduction03/02/18 11:26 PM
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I will give my advice as recent college grad that did quite well. You are focused on inner game and social circle which is cool but alone won't get u laid. I did much better than my friend's because I PUT MYSELF IN GOOD SITUATIONS. What does that mean? You want to get with a single girl? YOU NEED TO PUT YOURSELF IN GOOD SITUATIONS. For me that meant going to lots of parties where there were alot of hot girls. I was going out and meeting new people and new girls constantly, while my roommate was …
/r/seduction03/02/18 02:51 AM
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I graduated last year from college. Have pulled many a time while way too drunk/shitfaced, because added confidence and because the girls are drunk. Definitely should try to avoid it but it happens in college so don't be too harsh on yourself. Based on my experience i'd recommend not drinking/limiting your liquor consumption and drinking water while pregame, this helped my game IMMENSELY because I was drunk but not sloppy. Smoking ALWAYS ruined my game more unless I was completely sloppy wasted.…
/r/seduction22/12/17 10:44 PM
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From what I read in ur story. The problem was not drinking too much, even though u should try not to. U left talking to her to smoke a joint, then didn't talk to her cuz u were baked...I think this was ur problem. I never smoke when go out, ruins my game and become quiet/awkward. I would recommend not smoking when going out if trying to pull. I wanted to say this because nobody else seemed to mention this. Hope it helps next time!
/r/seduction22/12/17 03:13 AM
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In my experience going out and partying are a skill. The more u do it the better u get at it just like any other skill. I go out alot because I enjoy the music, meeting new people and having new experiences. Hooking up with hot girls is just a plus. I have had nights not getting laid I enjoyed much more than nights I did get laid. Learn to enjoy the moment. Go out. Get drunk. Have a good time. A gf won't fix any of these problems you've stated. Hope this helps!
/r/seduction01/12/17 02:48 AM
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