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Need SupportWrestlermaniac94/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 03:35 PM
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Yeah... if it's something I did. I would have to set strict boundaries with her and myself, but above all, I have to heal from this trauma first which I am starting to do even though I haven't presented papers yet
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 07:20 PM
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I know I am jumping ahead of myself here, but I do want to have some accountability. I haven't present papers to her yet but I know the longer I wait, the more stressed I get and it has started to manifest physically like vomiting. My list is this once the final signature is made: Work on my business to profit >$100K this year Talk to this girl I have been crushing on for some time Read, journal daily Study Italian and other points of interest Heal from STBX's traumas/resentment Go to Italy to s…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 02:58 PM
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I hate to say it but I’m in the same position as OP. I somewhat agree that couples therapy is a waste of time. I was told my sexual needs were compensated by hugs and kisses from her. But as soon I wanted more I got the excuse book thrown at me. My next step is a lawyer because now I’m so stressed that I’m vomiting. Don’t be like me.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 04:47 PM
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The thing I can’t handle is the “what did I do? I didn’t cheat or lie or steal.” No you didn’t but you were controlling and I couldn’t have a say in my own household. I’ve talked to so many people about my situation and everyone saw it but me
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 02:15 AM
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This is the exact point I’m at except she keeps reeling me back in to try to fix it. I hate myself for all of it but I know deep down I just don’t care anymore
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 01:48 AM
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I did forget to mention. She blamed her medications for giving her low libido. As a nurse, I knew these did and tried to get her off of them or at least to make a work around. She was so stubborn that she didn't want to until recently when she wanted to start trying for kids this summer. Now she is empathetic with me and how I felt over the past few years. I have very little drive to do it with her. I have told her numerous times that I don't want kids anymore. I haven't told her the real reason…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 07:34 PM
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Hi, I appreciate the time you put into this post. I consider your post a breath of fresh air. I agree that most people here tend to jump on that "just divorce her already" bandwagon and a lot of times for good reason, but I don't think it should be the first thing we jump to. I had an uncle go through a nasty divorce that took years, so I empathize with many who say it. Side note: Your English is exceptional for not being a native speaker. I am curious as to what your native tongue is. I realize…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 03:16 PM
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I love Daily Stoic and much of what Ryan Holiday has to offer. So much so that I have his book titles tattooed on me lol
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 02:19 PM
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CAn I ask what was similar about it?
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 09:10 AM
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I have blunted the edges with the gym, starting a business, and trying to take up other hobbies. Only for it to be shut down because everything else had to come first. Her nature is to serve everyone first and then me and lastly her. She also expected everyone to do the same for her and would get pissed when no one would other than her mother.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 08:14 PM
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Thank you. This is a very difficult thing to condense as there are a lot of instances that I could have listed but don't. I think the original document I typed up back in December/January was 4.5 pages long single spaced. She is working on herself too and realizes a lot of what she was doing was from her childhood, even though I tried to get through to her to go to therapy for other reasons. She never wanted to listen or didn't think she was the problem but now she sees. Could I salvage this rel…
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 08:13 PM
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My therapist told me to make a journal entry about what makes me happy. Everything from hobbies to what I want in a partner. He said be as selfish as possible lol.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 08:06 PM
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Oh... I know kids will not solve those problems, but only exacerbate them. We are both going to individual therapy but I feel once the stressors of kids come into play, she and I will resort back to our old ways and I will be miserable again.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 08:05 PM
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She definitely is controlling. COVID was a literal nightmare living with her being a germaphobe. Coming home and having to shower immediately. Spraying all of the groceries with Lysol. Washing my hands after every literal thing I touched. When COVD first started, I felt like I couldn't be in the same room as her. I am surprised I lasted as long as I did. Edit: She has gotten better but the trauma remains.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 07:51 PM
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I would definitely be interested. Her dad was an alcoholic and didn't do anything. Mom ran the entire show. Mom is also very critical of my wife with everything. Those two have no boundaries with each one. I am interested in those books if you have them on hand.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 07:49 PM
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That's what I was thinking. Of course we use other contraceptives. I wouldn't do it if we weren't. I don't think she would but you're right... people in general will go extra lengths to get what they want.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 07:44 PM
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