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OYS #2 34yo, 5'7", 140lbs, <10% bf, married 10yrs, 4 kids under 8 w/ 1 on the way Reading Completed: 16CoP Current: TRP Sidebar (reading), Book of Pook (audio) Mindset As I mentioned last week, I find just about all the content on MRP somewhere between mildly and excruciatingly triggering. In order acclimate, I've been listening to 16 Commandments of Poon once a day on audio. I think it's helping reshape my blue-pilled brain. Fitness Spent the weekend building a workout routine focused on hypert…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 03:34 PM
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Yes, this is all insanely enlightening, and lines up with some lessons that've hit me from other directions about how judging (people, situations, opportunities, etc.) just feeds the ego and pulls me away from the true nature of any present situation. I've noticed my wife is much more receptive to sexual language in the bedroom. Not so much sexual advances or touches (yet), but I can speak directly about what I want to her breasts and it's like she didn't hear me. If I say those things much earl…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 06:48 PM
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All of this content is super triggering. In the past I used that as some key that something's wrong with the content. This I'm taking the perspective that it indicates there's something wrong with me. I've read other guys' stories (including yours) of the years it takes to really make it. And here we are. Week 1. This place is a psychological gym, and I'm the skinny-fat loser who's never done a proper pushup.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 04:24 PM
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Don't know why you guys hate it so much. It's in r/TheRedPill's sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 04:17 PM
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Your perspective is super helpful, especially. I'm the sort of person who likes to try to fix everything all at once overnight. Doesn't work. Never did. Conversation last night included, "I don't trust you," and, "I don't feel safe with you." Asked her to explain what she meant. She shared that on any given day, she's never sure if she's going to get the husband who takes care of her or the husband who sees her as the cause of all his problems (and goes rambo to trigger all her own anger and dar…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 04:11 PM
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Answer me this: When was the last time you fucked your woman? Before we were married. Sneaking around. Her body used to literally lock up in catatonic shock afterwards the orgasms were so powerful. The first handful of times I was concerned I had literally paralyzed her. She would text me the next day about how her legs were still shaky. Decided to get married. Fell back into the standard Christian nice-guy, get married paradigm. Haven't had sex like that ever since. You're exactly right. I'm he…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 04:16 PM
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OYS #1 34yo, 5'7", 138lbs, married 10yrs, 4 kids (2yo - 8yo) w/ 1 on the way Intro This isn't my first time "trying" MRP. Was here for the first time about five years ago. Was too ego-driven and porn-addicted to really get anything out of it. Got really fit, succeeded at work, but rambo'd my way out of most personal relationships at the time, including a lot of the good vibes I had going with my wife. This past year has included a spiritual transformation. Two things have fallen into place recen…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 02:38 PM
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This is where I got mine. There's a hardcover & faux-leather version.
/r/RPChristians06/03/25 03:37 AM
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Justin Martyr in 130 A.D. says the Jews changed the Hebrew Old Testament to obscure references to Christ (see "Dialogue w/ Trypho"). In the late 1800's, two not-even-believers Anglican Priests named Wescott & Hort introduced a new way of interpreting Greek manuscripts and suggested flip-flopping words in the New Testament around (so, like, for 1800+ years we had one thing we called the New Testament, and then these guys introduced a brand-new paradigm allowing us to have multiple versions of THE…
/r/RPChristians05/03/25 03:28 PM
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We used to use words like "handsome" and "charming" to describe the men women prefer to be with.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/24 11:37 PM
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Children are a gift. If he can't see that he needs to hash it out with God, not you.
/r/RPChristians23/08/24 11:02 PM
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Stop living a low-effort life.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/24 06:58 PM
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I wasted a year doing this: thinking. Spend all that thought energy solving some real-world problem that you actually have. And just keep you mouth shut about it while you make your plan, while you execute your plan, and while you stand at the top of that little mountain enjoying the view. Frame takes care of itself.
/r/askMRP10/08/24 03:14 AM
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This is probably the best response. I still don't think I fully understand the relational prerequisites to see an MRP success story.
/r/askMRP10/08/24 03:06 AM
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I think you already know what to do.
/r/RPChristians02/08/24 01:15 PM
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I've had success with "Don't speak to me that way" when it comes to issues of disrespect. I came on real strong with that stuff early on. If I could go back, I would have escalated in intensity. Begin with a more polite request and escalate into more aggressive forms of communication if it doesn't seem like your point is getting across. If you're already married, you can go through those verses together. However, this is one area where your wife is really on her own spiritual journey and you can…
/r/RPChristians02/08/24 12:07 PM
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So, I have an anti-MRP but pro-Christian idea. Relationships are real. As in: In spiritual space (if you can conceive of a paradigm like that), they have a tangible existence, a structure that has its own form though dependent on the two parties involved. Here's the thing: It's possible to do damage to that structure. And the structure cannot operate properly until the damage has been repaired. In Christian vocabulary, we would call this process of repair repentance and reconciliation. Here's my…
/r/askRPC01/08/24 11:05 PM
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Or go read Gregory of Nyssa and ask yourself, "Are he and I participating in the same religion?"
/r/RPChristians31/07/24 12:45 PM
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Lol, $5m or bust! How do you treat your wife? Like, day-to-day, what is your disposition toward her?
/r/askRPC31/07/24 12:44 PM
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So where are you seeing that they are not born again? You can check out my response to u/rocknrollchuck for how the oldest Christian usage of the phrase "born again" demonstrates the Protestant mind has been categorizing that term incorrectly. a true convert will have works. In the Orthodox approach, there is no demarcation between what you think/believe and what you do. What you do is what you believe, and if you are doing something different than what you claim to believe, it's clear you're ju…
/r/RPChristians27/07/24 01:55 AM
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You must be born again to enter the kingdom of heaven. Justin Martyr makes it clear - in 130 a.d. - that this phrase was understood within the church in his time as a euphemism for baptism. As in, Jesus was telling Nicodemus, "You should have been baptized in the Jordan by John, instead of standing afar off watching everyone else do it." But I guess you have to decide how accurate you think Justin Martyr's interpretation of his own religion is. So...repeating "Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have…
/r/RPChristians27/07/24 01:43 AM
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sex with your wife hinges on you getting your "addiction" under control? I mean, I'm all ears for alternative solutions, but as I comb through others' OYS's, seems like nearly everyone's still "struggling" with porn and/or masturbation. You don't even know how to count your children There's four of them. Two are boys and two are girls. How would you recommend I denote that?
/r/RPChristians27/07/24 01:23 AM
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OYS #3 (prev) Stats: 33, 5'7", 155lbs, 16%bf, wife 36, 4 kids (7m, 5f, 3m, 1f), most recent workout Career - Had a great month of sales and and now fighting the monster tempting me to procrastinate, to take it easy until next month. I have plenty to work on and lots of positive support from my colleagues. No one blames me for slowing down the pace, but know that doing so inevitably blows up in my face a couple weeks later. Learning a ton of skills in software to apply to a side gig. That's hones…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 08:34 PM
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Yeah, my bad. I made some assumptions In my own journey, I've just decided that in my Stage 2 that validation sex is completely off the table. Which means no sex until I have finally decoupled sex from mood repair or "I need mommy to make me feel better." I should go post an OYS
/r/RPChristians24/07/24 08:04 PM
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Don't discount the lingering effects of porn. What you experience as "sexual desire" might only be withdrawal pangs from your addiction to the opioid hits you get from your own orgasm. Breaking that chemical dependency in your brain takes time. I remember reading u/HornsofApathy's story about how he made the decision never to masturbate again and then faced like 60 days of hell (and no sex) while his brain unwired from his internal dependencies. All of his success in life began to build *after* …
/r/RPChristians24/07/24 05:14 PM
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You're probably still a loser. Move the needle by losing the fat, fix that haircut, and add a zero to the end of your paycheck. Stop telling yourself you're "doing a good job." Itemize the things that are wrong with you, shut your mouth, and get to work. And don't ask your wife her opinion of your "plan." Her deference in public and her performance in bed will convey her "opinion."
/r/askRPC24/07/24 05:06 PM
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I think that probably works for most people. I've seen that advice out there and over the years I've tried it. This time around, I noticed that in so, so many of those interactions there was the covert contract for sex. I would become aroused. She would deny my escalations. And then I would become angry and use that as an excuse to use porn and/or masturbate. It became clear that there was something broken deeper inside that messed up the pattern of even good, simple signs of affection. So the g…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/24 11:59 AM
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OYS #3 (prev) 33m, wife 36, married 9 years, 3 kids (7m, 5f, 3m, 1f) PHYSICAL: 5'7", 155lbs, 15.5% bf Currently working kettlebell + bodyweight fitness routine. Most recent workout listed here. Open to advice on how to translate this into traditional lifting stats, if it's possible. MENTAL: Currently on day 11 of 30 day reboot from porn & masturbation addiction. Twenty years of this addiction, and it has finally become something that I can't ignore anymore. Rules for myself are zero sexual stimu…
/r/RPChristians22/07/24 09:08 PM
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Goal: 30 days w/ zero sexual stimulation. Boundary: The above includes physical affection w/ my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/24 03:26 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: 33yo, Married 9yrs, 4 kids (7m, 5f, 3m, 1f), 5'7" 151lbs, 16% bf Mission: A) Dominate sales responsibilities within the agency I work for, and B) Launch new software platform in the hospitality industry. I shared in my last OYS that I felt split between those two, but it's become clear that I can't at this time pick one or the other, but I can prioritize one over the other. A will pay the bills today, and B will pay the bills tomorrow. Fitness: At-home kettlebell & bodyweight routi…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/24 06:44 PM
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OYS#1 33yo, 5'7", 154lbs, married 9y, 4 kids (7m, 5f, 3m, 1f) Mission: Feeling split between two missions. More below. Financial: It's a mess, and right now I'm not making enough money to sustain our lifestyle more than a few more months. Physical: Kettlebell & Bodyweight Routine. Last workout was 10x18 16kg hard-style swings; 3x4/4 16kg Reverse-Ladder Clean & Press; 2x6 pull-ups, 2x8 reverse oblique crunches, 2x15 push-ups. I'll need to figure out how to translate that to more readable stats fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/24 02:42 PM
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