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If that’s what you think that’s a very sad way to live. And if your only reason to uphold your commitment is duress and constraint, you are a lousy partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:02 AM
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Yeah, we’re clearly not operating in the same level of reading comprehension here so I’m going to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:06 AM
1

Sure, and when they no longer want to be in that relationship they can leave. Because it’s not a prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:02 AM
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And when you’re the dictator of your own dystopia state you can knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:01 AM
1

Sometimes people don’t want to be married anymore and that’s ok. Weird thing to want to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:00 AM
1

My parents are divorced. It would have been hell had they remained married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:33 AM
1

Yeah, you know people said the exact same thing about gay marriage and interracial marriage and somehow society hasn’t completely collapsed. You know what makes people really unhappy? Not being able to get out of a legally binding relationship they no longer want to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:32 AM
1

Then why disagree ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:30 AM
1

I don’t think no fault divorce is bad. If you don’t like it don’t file for no fault divorce. It really is that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:56 PM
1

That just seems very sad to me. And I think marital abuse would skyrocket if you made it illegal to leave. At the end of the day, live your own relationships the way you want to, but it’s very strange to me to want to control other people’s right to get divorced… who cares if your neighbor files for a no fault divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:35 PM
1

And that is their business and not anyone else’s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:30 PM
1

You think it’s ok to keep someone married against their will?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:30 PM
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I got married because I was in love and wanted to legally be my spouse’s family. However if one of us ends up unhappy I absolutely do not want to get trapped in a loveless marriage, and we would part ways. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:21 PM
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I have duties to my spouse but it wasn’t my duty to get married. There’s a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:19 PM
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The result would be less human rights, which is almost never good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:13 PM
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Neither here nor there. I won’t be engaging with your insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:06 PM
2

A violent threat, how very civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:03 AM
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Accountability for what? To whom? What grave mistake are you accusing women of here? Women don’t owe you partnership!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:02 AM
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Ok, and? What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:12 PM
1

I hear how angry and hurt you are. I’m sorry you’ve been lead to believe that you’re average and undeserving of partnership. I personally believe there’s a lot more at play since less and less women want children and ltr to begin with, due to the state of the economy imo. I hope you find someone, truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:11 PM
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I’m sorry that your feelings were hurt by the word whining, that wasn’t my intention. Please answer my question - what do you want anyone to do about this? Let’s say all women agree with you that dating is harder for a certain subsection of men. What now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:00 PM
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No, it can never be a problem with women because women don’t owe partnership to men. The whole point of this sub is to allow both women and men I believe. If you want to be miserable in your hole that’s your issue. I agree and hear that men have tough experiences on dating sites - I have yet to have a single one answer my question. What do you want anyone to do about it? Because constantly whining is not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:56 PM
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I just find it strange to whine about not having any relationship with women, then shit all over women, ignore them when they tell you about their experiences and then… want them to go away? Like you’re only punishing yourself here. Plenty of men have partners, the problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:29 PM
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Never said anything to the contrary. Again, go knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:02 PM
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Alright we’ll have fun with that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:16 AM
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What L? Do you seriously think women see this post as an L?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:54 AM
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What’s your point? All of these words are gobbledygook in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:53 AM
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Yeah you can find plenty of articles about this already… it’s also not a valid study because of sample size and confirmation bias. Again I just don’t see the point. Women on this sub generally just don’t like misogynistic men. If you wanted a sub that excluded women maybe go elsewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:52 AM
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This is a debate you are having with yourselves. What is the point of your argument here? “Less people want to fuck me!” Ok? And?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:58 AM
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What would the point of that experiment be? Op’s little science project could have been entirely avoided by just… listening to women. Everyone is aware that straight men tend to have lower standards than straight women on average. What’s the point you’re trying to make here, and more importantly, what’s your solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:55 AM
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You’re making a lot of unfounded claims here.Care to provide any sources? Or is this juste what you personally think? What are your credentials, I think it’s funny that people on this sub both claim that all women fundamentally hate 80% of men but also that all women… hate all other women. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:59 AM
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This is a wild, inaccurate, and seriously tone dead statement. Maybe get out of your tiny circle and you’ll find the feminists just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:54 PM
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Don’t date men anymore but number 3 as long as he’s got similar political and moral views as me. If his special interests match mine that’s a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:23 PM
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Buddy, when women talk about men being low effort, they’re talking about their partners who despite having similar working hours, can’t seem to be bothered to load a dishwasher. Can’t remember their birthdays. Never plan a trip. Always expect their female partner to have everything ready for them. Get a generic gift for Christmas. That’s what they are talking about. Also, bumble? And I know plenty of women who send the first text, often.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:20 AM
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I just gave you a detailed response as to why those results are skewed and misinterpreted. It’s ok if you don’t understand how statistics work (no one in this sub does anyway). I just don’t have the time or will to hold your hand through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:25 AM
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Wether you think it is relevant or not changes nothing in this conversation. You clearly are just looking for conflict, and I believe, male attention? I hope you get that. Have a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:23 AM
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Im not your babes, so don’t call me that, thanks. Have you not been around lately? Right to abortion was just upheld in the French parliament, as opposed to the constant attack on reproductive rights in the US. And that was very much thanks to modern feminists. Also nice goalpost moving. You asked what feminism has done. I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:21 PM
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No, it isn’t. First of all, there are wayyyy less lesbian couples that are married, because marriage has only been legal for a few years as opposed to straight marriage. So your pool of married couples is smaller. Add to that the fact that most lesbians aren’t going to be incredibly religious or conservative, and you’re going to get more couples that feel comfortable ending things when they drift apart. Plenty of traditional, conservative straight couples do not divorce due to social pressure. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:19 PM
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Then date men dude, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:15 PM
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Rights. It has gotten us rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:14 PM
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Actually those statistics about lesbians have been debunked and were basically manipulated to say what the (homophobic) authors wanted to (which… is the case with every survey but I digress). Lesbians actually stay in relationships the longest - which is one of the theories as to why lesbian bars have all but disappeared, as opposed to gay bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 11:13 PM
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And right there, you have the reason as to why you have been struggling to form meaningful romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:04 PM
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I fundamentally disagree. You do not sound like a person who has understood what kindness is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:41 AM
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I think a big thing is also a lot of women want a man who is kind. Like genuinely a good person. And when you say that, people answer “well I tried being kind, I tried being the nice guy, I tried doing romantic gestures and that didn’t work”. Well that’s the thing. You can’t “try” to be kind. You have to actually be kind. That means being a good person even when there’s nothing to gain from it. It means helping someone without expecting anything in return. Seriously, shrimp guy should be cited a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:34 PM
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Hey my guy - this is a humorous tiktok video making fun of an uncomfortable experience shared by many. It’s really not that fucking serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:30 PM
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Hey my guy - this is a humorous tiktok video making fun of an uncomfortable experience shared by many. It’s really not that fucking serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:29 PM
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Hey my guy - this is a humorous tiktok video making fun of an uncomfortable experience shared by many. It’s really not that fucking serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:29 PM
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Projecting are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:50 PM
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No I haven’t. You don’t know me, do not speak for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:17 PM
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I think only being with someone for the physical attraction is a recipe for a very rocky relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:20 AM
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From a clearly fake account, real nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:19 AM
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They don’t, actually. Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:18 AM
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Well that’s not the same thing at all, lmao. You can’t keep moving the goalposts and expect people to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:18 AM
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No, they don’t. Have a nice day!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:17 AM
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“Here” and real life women are very very different my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:16 AM
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Well that’s not really the same as saying “I gave the ugly guy a chance” now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:16 AM
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A viral video of “famous emo singer” Billie Eilish? Well that settles it then doesn’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:15 AM
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A little bit of advice: sometimes the best people to be with aren’t always the most attractive. Attraction grows with proximity and intimacy. You shouldn’t have to feel like you have to fight to keep your high value partner, you should feel like you’ve met your equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:15 AM
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Yeah but you see how that’s much more of a you problem than an “all women” problem, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:04 AM
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Why is lowering your dating standards a good deed lmao? We’re not talking about fostering puppies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:02 AM
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I’ve also never heard a woman say these words? Ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:59 PM
1

Yes, it would make me feel a lot safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:08 PM
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Ok man, I hope you heal whatever is eating at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:57 AM
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Yeah you’re not operating in reality. I explained why mandatory testing was a bad idea. It is accusatory, I don’t know what else to tell you here. Women aren’t all out to get you, I promise. If you have a valid reason to doubt go right ahead. But she just ruined her body, went through immense pain, changed her life forever, and your whiny little ass is sitting there like “is it mine”? That’s plain disrespect. She gets to react however she wants. What are you going to do, ground her? Like serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:50 AM
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You sound insane. And again, you can ask for one, you can’t ask to control the other person’s reaction. She just gave birth and you’re accusing her of cheating? You shouldn’t date or have kids either dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:36 AM
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Oh. My. Fucking. God. The question here was why are women IN COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS upset about paternity tests sometimes. IF you have valid reasons to be suspicious, I have zero issue with a paternity test. I was very clearly talking about always asking for one, right off the bat, as soon as the kid is popped out, without any reason to suspect anything. You are reaching so far back. I never said it was crazy to ask for a test when your kid looks nothing like you, or the timing doesn’t add up, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:24 PM
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Yeah you’re right. You’d have no idea that the kid who looks just like your grandfather did at the same age, who has your eyes, who was born precisely 9 months after that time you had unprotected sex with your spouse specifically around her ovulation period, that doctors confirmed was the date of conception, was your kid. You would have no way to know!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:39 AM
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It’s not a flaw, just my personal conditions, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:12 PM
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Again, I’m not using it as a threat, I’m saying I don’t want to be with someone who would do that. I’m allowed to have my boundaries about that just as much as anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:11 PM
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I don’t, if I give them a reason to doubt our relationship I will gladly have that conversation. But accusing me of cheating out of nowhere should not be tolerated by anyone. So again, you’re entitled to a paternity test, not entitled to your partner’s reaction being positive. This should be fairly simple to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:02 PM
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So I should just be ok with being baselessly accused? No, my love is not unconditional, you are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:45 PM
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Oh I wouldn’t threaten. I probably would leave. I don’t like being baselessly accused of something I didn’t do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:36 PM
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No sorry, I’d rather trust my partner and not live a sad life of fear all the time. If I can’t trust my own life partner implicitly, what do I have? If they break that trust, that’s on them, not on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:13 PM
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Again, I never said you couldn’t do it. I just said you aren’t entitled to your partner being perfectly fine with it. I’m in a committed relationship. If our of nowhere my partner asked me to get STD tested, that’s implying I’ve cheated. And I would be upset, possibly to the point of leaving them. Now they have every right to ask me for one, but I also have every right to be offended by the implications and not want to be with someone who thinks so little of me. That’s all im saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:11 PM
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Yes, exactly. The implication is what is disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:46 PM
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Oh, it definitely would trigger me? That was my entire point? If you accuse me of something I didn’t do, yeah that’s going to feel really shitty. And our relationship might not recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:26 PM
5

Would you say the same thing about violence towards women? Should I be suspicious of every interaction with men because there’s a high probability of me getting raped and murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:25 PM
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You’re operating under assumption that the person who is suspicious is always correct in their suspicion. That is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:00 PM
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I’ve been cheated on. I didn’t then let that one experience with one person color my relationship with my other partners. I married a person that I trust and who trusts me and if they indicated they had lost that trust, I would no longer be interested in repairing something I never broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:59 PM
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That says a whole lot about you then it does about me. Maybe you should be a little more selective about your partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:52 PM
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“Explain how motorways are different from unicorns even though I’m the one who made this insane comparison”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:51 PM
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If you had a coherent argument I would have loved to. But, when arguing with a fool…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:49 PM
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I’m saying if you suspect your spouse cheated on you, that’s a whole issue completely separate from a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:48 PM
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No bud, I’m not taking time out of my day to explain the difference between a paternity test and a medical screening. I’m not debating with an insane person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:47 PM
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If you don’t see how they’re different I would need to explain a lot more to you. I’m not going to spend time arguing a completely asinine point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:44 PM
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Are you actually equating paternity tests with prostate cancer screenings? Have you lost your entire mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:40 PM
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See the thing is, you’re clearly not operating on the same plane of reality as I am, so no matter what I say, you’ll find some weird way to bring it back to “women are overreacting”. I have no interest in continuing this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:38 PM
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Yeah that still doesn’t mean anything as far as respecting my own spouse goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:36 PM
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Throwing out statistics without any context or sources is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:14 PM
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Checking phone = paternity test. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:13 PM
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You’re on a debate sub bud. I get that you respected these women, but they are truly just two random people. To then use that as a reason to be fearful of all women in your life is sad. If anything the only thing it is indicative of is that you are friends with two shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:03 AM
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So… you know two random women who cheated. How is that indicative of anything? I also know two people who have children with incredibly rare diseases. Should I obsessively ask my spouse to take every test in the world because rare diseases exist? You know of two women who cheated. You don’t know what their relationships are like. Again, yes you can have whatever testing you want. It doesn’t change that the mindset that is coming from is deeply, deeply disrespectful to your partner and indicates …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:55 AM
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But you said these women either don’t care or don’t think you’re serious. So how is that no issue? If your partner accused you of cheating out of nowhere, and demanded proof that you were not, wouldn’t that bother you? Also mandatory testing is fucking stupid. That would be a massive civil rights violation, could lead to your personal data being used by third parties, and what do we do about couples who use IVF with a donor? Inflict more damage by saying “just making sure you know you’re not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:35 AM
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I mean, you’re allowed to do whatever you want, you just can’t control how your spouse reacts. If you’re in a long term relationship, have been trying for a child, something both of you want, and you still go through with asking for a paternity test, that’s fine, you’re allowed. She’s then allowed to say “sure asshole” and hit you with both the test results and divorce papers. You’re basically saying you don’t trust her one iota and that your mutual commitment isn’t worth anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:37 AM
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Are you currently in a committed relationship? If not, that kind of negates the whole haven’t had any complaints thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:29 AM
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monolith noun [C] (GROUP OF PEOPLE) : a group of people who are thought of as being all the same. - Cambridge dictionary And only a sith deals in absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:37 PM
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Sure, keep telling yourself that. Anything to not have to look in the mirror right? Maybe accept that humanity contains multitudes, and that women aren’t a monolith, and you just might have a better time at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:57 PM
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Because I date women, and also, I’m a human being who exists in society. Claiming “all x do y” is indicative of a very narrow, sheltered, and immature mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:47 PM
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That’s a ridiculous statement and a truly stupid way to live your life. There are superficial people, and there are those that are not. Claiming the majority of women are superficial by nature is just about the dumbest take possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:27 PM
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Ok, but do you actually have meaningful relationships? Or re you just sleeping around? Don’t you kind of prove the opposite point you’re trying to make? Yeah, I mean, if you want to appeal to vapid, superficial people, it’s better to be one yourself and fit their standards. It’s harder to actually get to know someone for something other than sex, I get that, it’s not as easy to find a healthy partner as it is to find a one night stand. But do you seriously want everything to be easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:44 AM
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If they didn’t believe that they would have to start taking responsibility for the fact that no one wants to date them, and that’s just not as easy you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:16 AM
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It’s a thought experiment. You don’t seem to understand what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:06 AM
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No, people are dumb, and aren’t understanding the impossibly simple parameters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:01 AM
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It’s a damn thought experiment. Christ almighty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:58 AM
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You always get told by who? Women? In that case, there’s probably something to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:11 AM
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I’m starting to become a dog lady but you can have both! Happily married and absolutely obsessed with my furry creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:46 PM
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Kind of the whole point really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:43 PM
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… yeah ok lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:53 PM
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Oh sweetheart I don’t sleepy with men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:28 PM
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Very clearly said vibrators and clit suckers. And specifically mentioned that men only care about penetrative sex. You just proved OP’s point. I feel sorry for the women you’ve slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:20 PM
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The original post very much said vibrators and clit suckers, so maybe you should take your own advice about reading comprehension. And… lmao. We don’t “stuff” them in. Again, you’re saying a lot about yourself here. Might I suggest reading up about the female orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:09 PM
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I mean you can, but it would be like using a straw for a bowl of chunky soup - you can do it, but you’re not going to get much out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:55 AM
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The fact that you think we put vibrators in our holes says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:03 AM
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Yeah bud those studies have been heavily criticized for unfair biases. Lesbian relationships also tend to last longer than any other couple - which is also why you have that skewed result. Lesbian dynamics and straight dynamics are not the same, so comparing the two doesn’t even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:46 PM
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Yeah? We all do? Humans are visual animals. Don’t act like looks aren’t important to men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:20 PM
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You’re comparing absolute apples to oranges, so no, I will not be engaging in your bad faith arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:09 PM
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Both can be true dude. If it’s gone from 4% to 6%, the number has skyrocketed, but they are still very much not the majority. Older women aren’t jealous of younger women. They don’t care. They just see 60 yo dating 20yo as creeps. And they don’t usually consider those creeps to be the “good men” there is a shortage of. It’s a non issue really. It’s just weird and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:47 AM
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It’s creepy to want to be with someone significantly less mature and therefore more impressionable than yourself. Let me return the question to you - why would a man want to date someone who doesn’t have the same cultural references, isn’t as mature as him or his friends, isn’t at the same point in their life, doesn’t understand certain things because she hasn’t experienced it yet, has vastly different interests and goals and knows so much less about life? All that’s left is “I like how younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:42 AM
1

This is already having a direct impact on the lgbtq community as well. There’s absolutely been an uptick in intolerance lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:17 PM
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“Living alone with a pet” brother, no one is stopping you from having a hamster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:54 PM
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Buddy, I can assure you that if women aren’t interested in you it’s not just that they are ignoring you. It’s your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:56 PM
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No, I got your dog shit point. I’m just not interested in engaging with it. Have a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:00 AM
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Congratulations! You managed to miss my entire point. When will you start actually listening to women? How many of us have you heard of being assaulted by trans women???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:19 AM
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I sincerely hope you get help, and that you stay very far away from me or any other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:27 PM
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Your sentence doesn’t make much sense, so I’ll try to answer what I think you are saying : there is a difference between a man just saying they are a woman now, and a transgender person, who dresses in a gender conforming way, sees an endocrinologist, takes HRT, has made painful and difficult changes in their life simply to live their truth. It can alienate your family, your friends, impact your job security. There is so much hate towards trans folks right now, why would anyone go through that “…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:26 PM
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You’re right, it isn’t equality - it’s equity. In perfect world, I would love for there to be true equality. But our world is far from perfect. I’m not going to bash a solution to a wide spread problem (women getting sexually assaulted far more than men) just because it wouldn’t make things perfectly equal. Getting assaulted isn’t equal. Being eyed like a prey in a bus full of men after sundown is not equal. Asking me for my number and then threatening to rape me after I say no is not equal. Hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:19 PM
1

If they identify as a woman than they are a woman, and the issue of being allowed onto a woman’s only train no longer exists. Trans women are much more likely to be victims of sexual assault than perpetrators. As a cis woman, I also wish my trans sisters could be protected from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:12 PM
1

Yeah you’re not operating on the same level of reality as I am and if you have trouble finding partners I can honestly see why. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:28 PM
2

Who is talking about cheaters here? Absolutely no one. I have always been faithful and when I had more than one partner all parties involved were perfectly aware that we weren’t serious and we were all seeing other people. You know, how regular people date around until they find the right one? Do you expect women to never go on any dates with any one else the moment you go out together?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:59 PM
0

What the fuck? Do you function in society? People have sex. I don’t see it as being a “hoe”, that’s the whole point. Normal people tend to have several relationships and usually will have sex. What the fuck are you talking about “poor” women? We all have varying degrees of sexual experience, some of my friends are virgins, some of them are ace or aro. I’m just saying I know plenty of people, my own relationship included, who have been perfectly capable of having multiple sexual partners in the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:50 PM
1

Nope - happened to me, my wife, and all of our friends. It’s pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:33 PM
4

What is your problem? And you do know people can both have had a rich sexual past and still decide to be faithful, loving spouses right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:12 AM
1

And she was 23, so wrong in both cases. But why does it only matter how old she was?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:47 PM
-1

They were 29?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:19 AM
1

What to make of it? A couple got divorced because it wasn’t working out. That’s what I make of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:02 AM
0

That’s on me for giving them the benefit of the doubt, I apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:21 PM
1

I mean… ok, but should we never do anything because we fear a possible outcome? Should I never go swimming again in case I drown? Should I never drive a car since car crash casualties are so high? Should I not have children because pregnancy is painful? A lot of marriages end in divorce, yes. But a lot don’t. And for those who do, in between there was a time where they were both happy they got married. Things don’t work out sometimes. Oh well. Even your parents - you say they divorced despite be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:46 PM
5

Personally I like sex that lasts longer than 5 minutes. But you do you I guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:36 PM
1

Oh no I can assure you, I very much meant the /s. Glad I cleared that up for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:57 PM
2

They definitely do though. Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:47 PM
1

Clearly./s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:09 PM
2

The fact that you can’t seem to wrap your head around the fact that complaining is something we all do, rather than it just being pesky, stupid, inferior woman things. Personally, in my social circle, it’s the men that seem to complain more. Women try to mitigate the situation, try to make things ok, put on a facade. Whereas the men around me tend to just huff and puff and be generally grumpy. I don’t think it’s a gender thing. I think it’s a contextual, human thing. Men aren’t more stoic or les…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:06 PM
0

Ah, infaillible arguments we’re dealing with here. Try seeing women as human beings, you might like it sometimes!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:57 PM
0

Do you think maybe, just maybe! That your irl view is skewed and biased and perhaps it is just human nature to complain about things we te unhappy about? Or maybe, maybe!! That women have more to complain about, being that they are generally at a disadvantage compared to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:53 PM
3

Why, do you have a complaint about my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:57 PM
7

Are you on this sub? All men do is complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:06 PM
2

Idk, I’ll be having kids and I’d like to think I’m an ok person. Then again, I base my criteria on kindness, respect, and empathy, and not physical appearance or IQ (which has been proven to be extremely biased).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:23 PM
2

Women don’t owe you appeal :) Hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:37 PM
1

Well then you must not have great reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:36 PM
0

Ah yes. You seem stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:39 PM
1

Most people don’t have a body count of 200.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:38 PM
1

Lots of stuff… how you handle finances, how you eat, if we have similar interests in the long run, if we travel well together, if we live in the same space well together, if we have compatible work life balances, how you handle hardships past the honeymoon stage…Tons of stuff comes up that could be a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:35 PM
1

Have you conducted peer reviewed surveys? Are you a sociologist? Or is it just that YOU think you’re attractive enough, and smart enough, and emotionally mature enough and can’t understand why YOU can’t get a long term relationship? Convince yourself all you like, it’s bullshit. Your personal perception of the world does not make it general fact. Plenty of people get together. Plenty of women find plenty of men attractive. There were a lot of flowers bought two days ago. You have to stop thinkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:30 PM
1

Yes, but they don’t make it their entire personality or the fault of the women around them. They’re just like “yeah it sucks, this one didn’t work out either”. It’s just a matter of luck I believe, as many men I know do in fact have partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:30 AM
1

Communication. All I’m seeing here is a situation where two people have wildly different expectations of each other, and aren’t communicating what their issues are effectively. Maybe they aren’t compatible, and unfortunately that does happen, but if you have effective communication from the get go, you weed out who you aren’t compatible with BEFORE getting married. Don’t settle for “they’ll do I guess”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:57 PM
1

I must be living in bizarro world then because I know plenty of happy, healthy couples. Oh wait, maybe it’s because the men in those relationships tend to treat their partners like, you know, human beings. Also, divorce rates are on a steady decline since the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:03 PM
1

Yes because one random image I found on the internet is representative of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:32 AM
1

Wow the content on here in the past few days has just gotten worse and worse. What happened to the “no incel shit” rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:47 PM
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Keep going you’re looking amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:34 AM
23

Ah yes, you seem very stable and worth talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:32 AM
31

What the fuck is this garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:06 AM
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Umm… maybe they like each other for something else than their looks? You sound pretty miserable to be around tbh. Girls aren’t pokemons. You don’t have a higher probability of bagging one because you think your stats line up with hers. You just spent a whole paragraph talking about how meh she is, maybe model thinks she’s the best thing since sliced bread, and treats her that way. Eye of the beholder and all that. I’d advise you to pursue women you actually enjoy rather than calculate which one …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:14 PM
3

Jesus Christ, no need to be so rude, I was just (jokingly, mind you) pointing at the fact that I was here and I happened to be french. Really not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:31 PM
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That’s where you’re wrong 🇫🇷🇫🇷🇫🇷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:37 PM
2

Who cares. They probably get dates with people who appreciate them, instead of just seeing them as their weight. I don’t get the point of you “feeling bad” for them. Plenty of people of all shapes and sizes are in relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:09 PM
2

Do you guys really only care about attractiveness? Is that all dating is for you? “Oh a 7 or 8 guy would end up with a 6” And? What the hell happened to personality? Maybe we can stop and think about what was on the dating profile. Of what I’ve seen, most men will blindly match anyone who they find even remotely attractive and weed out later. Hence OPs wife’s numbers. Whereas women pay more attention to the bio and general vibe of the guy before matching. If men were more discerning women would …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:06 AM
1

It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:53 AM
1

And the statistics are in my favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:22 PM
2

Why do you assume I spend my time in a well off area? Because I don’t. And even then, every time I’ve been attacked was in a nice area. You clearly know nothing of what life is like as a woman and how some men behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:23 PM
4

Text is taken at face value except for those who have a modicum of common sense. I’m not going to engage in petty arguments with an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:13 PM
5

It was sarcasm, genius. Glad that’s the one thing you got from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:06 PM
7

Men are more likely to land high paying jobs despite being less qualified Men are more likely to work dangerous jobs, due to these jobs excluding women Men are less likely to talk about their issues and feelings, because patriarchy (which men set up) doesn’t allow it Women are a lot more likely to go through childbirth, and the access to abortions and childcare are ever slimmer Men have historically made up the majority of the military, having barred women for so long. What was the right wing sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:58 PM
1

I won’t give any because you’re not worth it dude. Also I’m gay, my advice has worked plenty well for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:41 PM
1

Exactly my point. You already think women are evil, so what is anyone’s advice going to change. Trying to change your mind or even trying to help you is pointless, you’ll fight me on everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:21 PM
1

What a sad life you must lead then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:49 PM
1

Not interested in offering advice to someone who’s already set in their thoughts about how horrible women are, as I said in my first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:47 PM
3

What you’ve said doesn’t make any kind of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:49 PM
3

That’s what the whole thread has been about? And awesome, why did you feel the need to in the first place then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:45 PM
2

Cool so we agree, women don’t have more privileges than men. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:43 PM
5

Women getting assaulted in higher numbers is an observable fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:42 PM
2

I suggest you go and read the first sentence of my last reply again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:42 PM
6

Except I don’t, and I’ve been attacked before. Oh, and I’ve also been threatened with rape for not wanting to have a drink with a guy in a “nice” neighbourhood while walking my dog. So it gets me pretty fucking fuming when someone says women have so much privilege over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:01 PM
5

Cool. Because I am extremely afraid of men, even when unarmed. Hope it feels nice to go out at night and not have fear eat away at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:53 PM
1

Genuine question. Are you afraid of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:51 PM
5

Then you are truly a deranged, disturbed individual. I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:03 PM
4

As I said, you’re clearly too far gone, so I’m not interested in fixing you. You won’t change because you don’t want to change. It’s so much easier for you to think women are just doomed and there’s nothing you could do to help yourself, than to actually give a damn and be a better person. It’s always someone else’s fault right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:01 PM
4

Ok so let’s map this out. According to you, women get the pick of the crop while men often get rejected. Now let’s look at some facts. - Women are far more at risk of sexual or physical assault. Ask any woman what her biggest fear is on a blind date and it isn’t rejection, it’s rape or murder. - women are worse off in a relationship than men are. It is actually not in a woman’s best interest to be in a relationship, studies have shown. - there is still a pay gap - domestic violence disproportion…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:58 PM
5

Never said that, also not what you were mentioning, and again proving my point further.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:46 PM
5

Thank you for proving my point champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:42 PM
7

Care to elaborate on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:25 PM
7

Absolutely. Sadly, this will only reinforce their warped view of women and cause them to treat them even worse. Often when men ask “how can I be more successful with women” and you give them actual advice, they come back with “well yeah that would work if women weren’t such stupid materialistic whores” - and then you realise they’re too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:57 PM
11

What privileges are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:54 PM
1

So what is your proposed solution to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:39 AM
1

So… you wouldn’t date someone who wants the same thing as you do, but you’re totally cool with leading a girl along just to dump her as soon as you have sex? How is this strategy working out for you so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:00 PM
3

That’s… what I meant. You see a lot of men shit on women for exactly those reasons, but then there are posts like this. You can’t have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:55 PM
7

Ok. So nothing wrong with a woman who has multiple partners, high body count and doesn’t want a LTR, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:11 PM
1

Yeah sure whatever. Leave me alone now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:11 PM
1

I’m not your personal coach. Many people have given you advice and you just keep being defensive. Go read them, and figure it out for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:06 PM
1

Yep, just keep complaining and not taking anything into consideration. You know it really doesn’t matter to me wether you end up alone for the rest of your life or not. Wether you want that to change is up to you. Stop whining about it expecting to just get laid out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:00 PM
1

So that’s what you got out of my comment? Jeez… What I’m saying is there are regular people on dating site and apps, and some that are neurodivergent if that’s important to you. You can state in your bio that you’re on the spectrum and looking for like minded people. But here’s the thing… no one is going to get a date for you. You have to talk to them. You have to strike up a normal conversation and be able to keep one going. You need to be able to act interested in what they’re doing even if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:19 PM
2

Dude, at this point you’re looking for reasons not to do anything, and for women to just fall in your lap. My wife is autistic, and we met on Tinder. You have to start somewhere and if you’re going to shit on every example people give you, you’re not going to get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:38 AM
1

You clearly don’t leave women alone - you keep responding despite the fact I do not want to engage with you further and I’ve specifically said I wasn’t interested in this conversation. Take the hint dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:29 PM
4

You’re clearly not open to dialogue, you seem extremely set in your ways and I’m frankly not interested in changing your mind. If you are so convinced men should have nothing to do with women whatsoever - fantastic. Leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:19 AM
4

I’m a woman so you probably won’t want to waste your time with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:26 PM
3

Great. Then please let women live their lives as they please. Stop policing their love lives, fashion choices, and whatever else you think a woman shouldn’t be doing. Leave them alone and go better yourself amongst your red pill friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:42 PM
3

No I think it’s a preference. I didn’t love my experience of dating bi women as a lesbian. It’s just a very different mindset and if you’re into that - awesome, lots of people are! But I need to be with someone who aligns with my sexuality because it’s very important to me to have that in common with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:50 PM
1

Still not what we were taking about, you’re going off on a weird tangent that has zero to do with the og comment Nobody asked I do not believe in Freud’s writings (along with a large portion of modern psychologists) so this definition means very little to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:39 PM
2

That wasn’t the question at hand. I was specifically referring to the other commenter. She specifically was looking for a relationship and no man in his twenties was interested. She didn’t find any compatible partner. How you extrapolated that to “a Madonna whore complex” is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:01 AM
2

I think you’ll find that isn’t true if you just speak to more women around you. Also, what’s the solution? She should have forced herself to date someone she found unattractive? How is that fair to either party?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:12 AM
3

She just said she was actively searching for relationship types. You can’t force yourself to get into a relationship with someone you have zero chemistry with apart from wanting the same relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:11 AM
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I never understand why it’s ok for men to seek out attractive female partners but when women do they’re somehow a hypocrite? Like, why should women date people they aren’t attracted to? That’s how dating works. Two people attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:09 PM
2

Regarding relationship market value, you just mentioned that being celibate until marriage has made it harder to date, so doesn’t that kind of negate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 09:54 AM
2

I think it’s also a sign of emotional maturity to have friends of both genders. And obviously it depends on who you are, but as a person welcomes diversity, if my prospective partner only had friends of their gender, ethnic background and sexuality, I wouldn’t be interested. I think to a lot of women having a diverse group of friends means you are trustworthy, open minded and well adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:08 PM
10

While I don’t agree that you should remain friends with someone who rejected you romantically, I think when other women say things like that what they really mean is “I don’t trust a man who has no female friends at all.” If you’ve never or don’t currently just have female friends you genuinely like to hang out with without expecting sex, a lot of prospective female partners see that as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:46 AM
5

If this were a widespread issue, why aren’t we seeing astronomical amounts of lesbian women with throat cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:25 PM
3

How is that not exactly what I just said
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:44 AM
1

For real. I feel for single dads, I really do. I’ve just recently reconnected with my own dad after being isolated by my narcissistic mother for two decades. I’ve seen my dad go through a lot of pain and it hurts to know many other dads have as well, due to the court preferring mothers (which as a feminist, I think we should fight against. I’m for equality, not female supremacy). However Kanye is by all accounts not the best guy and not the best dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:57 AM
2

Yeah man, 6ft5 300lb men to be absolutely exact!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:25 AM
3

I feel like you are being purposely negative. This is how YOU feel. There are plenty of women who enjoy men and men who enjoy women. If you don’t, that’s cool, you don’t have to be with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:54 AM
3

Freud just absolutely ascending right now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:51 AM
2

If the only thing keeping you from being a gay woman is being able to have children, my wife and I (and plenty of other gay couples) will be creating a family in a couple years. If being with women would bring you happiness, please, do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:47 AM
1

Not in my social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:14 AM
1

I didn’t say be a nice guy. I said don’t objectify women. It’s not that hard. You must have other interests besides “wanting a relationship”. What makes someone attractive is often how funny or interesting they are. If there isn’t anything past looks, well… you’ll get other people who are also shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:41 PM
-2

Being told you are beautiful is a compliment, not objectification. Being told the only thing you are good for is being hot, giving sex, and providing children - is. Huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:35 PM
1

Instead of seeking out a wife, seek out a friend first. Make connections off of hobbies, interest, hell anything that isn’t just “I want you to bear children”. Don’t rush the courtship. Seriously, just act like she’s a normal acquaintance and get to KNOW HER. Flirting will come naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:33 PM
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Again, no. They don’t want to be objectified. There are average looking men (and plenty of them) who have great relationships, because they’re intelligent, caring and actually treat women as human beings. And FYI - I have a ton of friends who left their very attractive partner because they realised they were being objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:30 PM
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Yikes. No. No woman wants to be objectified. If they’re into you, they’re into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:26 PM
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