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Oh, and also he has outwardly said he doesn't have university education. He's entirely going off his own playbook from what I understand. Not saying you can't learn anything without university, but it's suspicious
/r/ExRedPill11/09/25 04:12 PM
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The other problem here is that he is partly correct. Parenting can affect your relationships, and also chasing women without any other purpose is harmful. Even Myron Gaines acknowledges that latter point. But much like a lot of influencers I don’t like, he can diagnose the problem but not the solution. My point is, the same could be true of Ryan, at least maybe
/r/ExRedPill10/09/25 03:48 AM
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Okay but people's actual problems can vary quite a bit, and I agree with Dr. K when he says that many poeple are held back because they misdiagnose what's wrong
/r/ExRedPill08/07/25 12:03 PM
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If you have to try hard to " not to be a creep", then it sounds like you don't have too much experience with women. Try talking to women without the intent of forming a relationship so you get more comfortable around them and don't have to overthink everything. I'm not saying you're a bad person, actually I have a similar problem with guys. I barely have any relationship with my dad which makes other guys seem really scary to me. I posted about it on another sub and they told me to socialize mor…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 04:51 PM
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My thoughts are that OP is overthinking a lot of things here yeah
/r/ExRedPill23/06/25 04:36 PM
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For me it was just several years of too much hyperfixation and too little socialization or intimacy
/r/ExRedPill18/06/25 06:03 PM
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> please, how could they even tell that i think like this when they dont know me ? In my experience, people with mindsets like this are a whole lot less subtle than they think.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 03:31 PM
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I personally agree from what I've seen so far. I might have made a mistake comparing him to Jordan Peterson in an earlier comment.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/25 02:05 PM
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I don't think you can quantify blame like that. No single person can bear all the responsibility. I also think "blame can be a somewhat abrasive and connotated word, and it's better to consider what factors led to the occurrence. We can use models like Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Systems Model to develop a nuanced perspective on the event.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 04:22 PM
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Fair enough, this has gotten a little out of hand. To be clear, I used that argument because the person seemed to imply that no one would want to take care of a child, or that they didn’t deserve it. Other than that I understand what you’re saying
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 07:47 PM
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I'm not having this argument with you.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 06:03 PM
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I am typing this slowly, and angrily. No, it's not your responsibility. Whether you raise children or play video games all day, the government can't arrest you. However, you will not have a happy life from simply doing whatever you like, whenever you like.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 05:35 PM
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I'm saying it would be unreasonable to suggest children don't deserve someone caring for them
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 05:25 PM
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No sane person believes that.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 05:11 PM
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I mean you were a child at one point but alright
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 05:04 PM
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"I've never had a girlfriend and that's okay" "I still deal with isolation sometimes and that's okay" I'm not saying these things are the best outcomes. What I'm saying is that it's still possible to enjoy life with them. They encourage you to focus on yourself, which keeps you from pedestalizing which will definitely hold you back from achieving what you want.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 02:06 PM
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Right, fair enough but that’s not direct evidence, just circumstantial
/r/ExRedPill23/02/25 04:51 AM
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Could you show some evidence for the part about introversion? Other than that I agree, especially about making female friends, but that part isn't something I usually hear from psychologists, so it'd help if you could clarify your position
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 06:02 PM
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Those things have all affected me and caused me to withdraw somewhat, I think. I don't personally have this mindset, but I've met people who say they're embarrassed because they've never had a kiss on the lips before. While I understand the feeling, I also fear that being super embarrassed about one's life can cause a person to withdraw more or be unintentionally inconsiderate of others. That's why one of my primary healing goals right now (at age 21) is being able to say things like "I've never…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 04:59 PM
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Personally, I made myself miserable for 7 years with TRP ideology. Now to be clear, my ideology wasn't obtained directly from TRP creators, it was obtained from myself and my probably skewed perceptions of what others around me were saying. But I not only believed women were hypergamous in relationships, I also believed people in general were hypergamous in friendships and that I couldn't make any friends until I'd built talent and muscle. During that time I sobbed my eyes out for at least a hal…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 03:56 PM
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A coach for healing male trauma who's been on several podcasts. I don't think he's university educated. His discussions are largely focused around archetypes - I believe that's also a topic discussed by another psychologist whose name I can't say on this page? The core theme of his program is healing your inner child.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/25 02:48 AM
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Right, but what I'm saying is that even though I'm not questioning the truth of what you're saying, I am questioning whether it really addresses my question
/r/ExRedPill05/02/25 01:59 AM
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Yes I agree that power is important, but that doesn't mean you should be constantly obsessing with it. As an analogy, avoiding poison is critical to life but most people nowadays shouldn't spend all their time thinking about it, they should simply have an effective system to detect potential signs of poison without hyperfixating. I'd say the same is true of power. Idk if you're redpill or not, but either way, this kind of black and white thinking is why I'm never coming back to the redpill
/r/ExRedPill04/02/25 11:19 PM
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I agree that it can apply to different communities as well, I'm just saying that I'm personally an ex-redpiller and power is very much emphasized in redpill communities, so it's possible an ex-redpill community would have good advice about it. I'll give you an upvote FWIW
/r/ExRedPill02/02/25 01:57 PM
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I mean I agree but this is too idealistic. I'm saying I have a mindset I've struggled to work my way out of despite wanting to and I need some help, and you essentially respond by saying "it's a bad mindset and here's why". This is probably the kind of thing that pushed me towards TRP in the first place because my parents give advice like this sometimes. It's true what you're saying but good advice meets the person where they're at.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/25 01:56 PM
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I am starting to do this
/r/ExRedPill02/02/25 01:53 PM
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Yeah For me I have at least some social skills, but what I need is to be less fearful of committing. Even if it's just friendship I want I get so anxious when I realize that I want to form any type of commitment
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 03:09 AM
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I think it's all of the above. Ugh And yeah. Holy fuck the things I've heard about redpillers lately are horrifying
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 01:09 AM
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I knew it was a good idea to infiltrate TRP by reading their books and getting to the core of their ideology. Thank you Myron Gaines, without your book that you dedicated to preying on people's insecurities, I might not have been able to articulate my own problem
/r/ExRedPill31/01/25 11:47 PM
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Yeah exactly. I was thinking about pedestalizing a lot lately. Honestly I've been trying to work my way into the idea that if I like a girl then we can become friends, maybe even close friends. Thanks for validating this, I will double down. I'm only 21
/r/ExRedPill29/01/25 03:51 AM
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However I will say that this was another mind game I played with myself. My mindset wasn't "I need to get the most stereotypically perfect woman imaginable" it was "I'm so fucking worthless that almost no woman would ever accept me and certainly not the intelligent ones I like". My redpill addiction has been so persistent because I've sometimes managed to find ways around the common counterarguments
/r/ExRedPill29/01/25 03:31 AM
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Too perfect sounds scary to me ngl
/r/ExRedPill29/01/25 03:24 AM
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Which therapists are the best to help me through a mindset like this? I've used Affordable Therapy Network to find therapists before, but are there any keywords that I should be looking for?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/25 01:16 AM
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THANK YOU that's a good way to frame it. Unfortunately I must confess that I had a recent relapse this Christmas where I literally could not stop binging redpill content. It's kind of horrifying in retrospect
/r/ExRedPill29/01/25 12:47 AM
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Yeah. Ideologies that are too theoretical are problematic. However, I will say that this is a multi-layered problem where when I realize this, I say "well I need to improve to be comfortable with myself" and then I don't make enough tangible changes. Which is where therapy for social anxiety would probably be beneficial so I don't have an anxiety attack whenever I find out some way that I'm behind on some aspect of pop culture that probably won't destroy a whole friendship.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/25 12:37 AM
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Edit: holy fuck I just found out something. As I mentioned, TBYS' video on Ilyssa was controversial and caused a drama but wow. In this video I just found out that part of the drama involved him putting out an apology "to make it easier to return an apology". Even regardless of the context that's bad. Apologizing because you expect something from another party is fucking low-class. This could still be motivated by ignorance rather than malice (like severe ignorance of what's socially acceptable)…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/25 12:33 AM
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Yeah, I think one of the most important things is to drop the idea of explaining the whole "meta"
/r/ExRedPill29/01/25 12:17 AM
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Yeah And figuring out people's intentions is important. Some people may be selling you TRP ideals without your even realizing it. Or even without their realizing it. And also. Don't fall for the excuse of "well this is okay because it encourages men to be better" that's not all. In my experience stuff like this does lead to men being irrationally jealous of women for simply succeeding, or other phenomena like that
/r/ExRedPill28/01/25 10:38 PM
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My favorite metaphor is The Great Gatsby. You keep thinking once you achieve one more self-improvement goal and then what actually happens is you want more.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/25 09:58 PM
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I also think it's kind of a trick question where the only way to win the game is by not playing it at all. It's not about different perspectives on "the meta", it's about not overthinking about the meta. I believe creators like TBYS whose job is centered around thinking about "the meta" hold themselves back. While yes TBYS has been in a relationship before, he also doesn't seem like the most social person. I honestly think in the case of people like TBYS, they need a larger-scale restructuring o…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/25 09:41 PM
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Right, like for example people like Myron Gaines never seem to have healthy or long-term relationships. That's a huge red flag
/r/ExRedPill28/01/25 09:36 PM
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