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Ahh, ok! Haha I thought that maybe I used the word wrong which wouldn't surprise me, I feel like I find gaps in my knowledge every day I did mean it in the sense that effort needs to be explicitly focused on men's issues. Not that we need to reduce efforts in other areas, its just that I notice that men's issues tend to get lumped into other movements and direct focus on these things seem to be diluted. Empowering all members of a society results in a net positive in my opinion and its ok to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:45 PM
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Ya, its a good thing when people acknowledge all sides of the issue. Fear of self analysis is the death of personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:19 PM
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Perhaps, but getting knocked up by someone because you were careless, isn’t nearly as shitty as knowingly abandoning a whole ass kid. I mean cry all you want about how women SHOULD have made better choices, most of these guys have the opportunity RIGHT NOW to step in and be a man for their kids. What’s worse? Making a shitty choice once or continuously making a shitty choices day after day for eighteen years?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:15 PM
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Well if that’s true then we should normalize men being the primary care givers. Sounds like they are great at it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:08 PM
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lol, oops!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:58 PM
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Ok man lol Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:56 AM
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What are you getting out of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:53 AM
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Ya, that’s what pissed me off. His post was full of nonsense. It’s not that he disagreed, it was that he was taking out of his ass. They’ve done studies on men not being as in tune with their emotions and not being able to control their emotions like women, on socialization, empathy all that. It’s really interesting. You can’t just sit there and pass your feelings off as if they are fact when there’s information out there already
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:51 AM
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Ya, I don’t think you want to control women, I think you want to excuse yourself from control and responsibility. Sorry you’re having a hard time. There’s nothing I can do for you here man, it’s Reddit for gods sake
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:41 AM
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Hmmm, I think you have my opinion confused. I can see why too, I was all over the place, sorry I don’t care if you get your advice from men or women. Everyone needs to do their own thing. I was responding to that guy about women’s brains. I really don’t have a strong opinion on the main post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:36 AM
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Then don’t do it. If it’s such a burden to take care of yourself, stop. You being mad about women being the object of romantic and sexual pursuit isn’t going to change the way things work. You hyper focusing on a singular aspect of a woman’s experience and then driving yourself into a rage because of jealousy isn’t going to change mating patterns of humans. That only person your bitterness impacts is you. So don’t work out if you think it’s unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:31 AM
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No one needs a phd to bitch about things in their life that are specific to them but I’d hope that no one is stupid enough to believe that all women can be analyzed through their narrow world view. The second you made a sweeping statement I lost hope for a productive conversation. The best advice in the world for anyone is to focus on things in the realm of your own control rather than rehashing negative emotions over and over and using those emotions to shade your opinion of half the worlds pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:25 AM
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Sorry but before we continue can you tell me about your experience with brain development and structure or do you just wanna rant at me about how much you resent women? I get so sick of arguing with people who have never cared to look into the subject they think they should have an opinion on. They love to start conversations like this, not because they are interested in the subject. they just want to yell at a woman. If you wanna believe that women are just dumb because they are and men are jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:03 AM
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Any decent study isn't going to be a gotcha. No study on earth is going to prove anyone on this sub wrong or right because men and women are not better or worse than each other. We have different strengths and weaknesses. Emotional intelligence rates tend to be higher among women. Men tend to have higher spatial awareness. Notice I didn't say ALL. Notice I didn't assign good and evil to these traits. They're just trends that scientists have noted in an attempt to better understand the human spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:41 AM
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I'm here for it, I think men look good when they deck themselves out. We should bring it back!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:31 AM
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Got it, you pick on women because you're scared to pick on men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:20 AM
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Its not about a moral high ground, its about owning up to your actions instead of whining that tHeY Did iT fIRsT Be a dick to people for all I care but its you making that decision. Your mommy isn't forcing you to call fat people names. Thats you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:06 AM
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Ya men will fuck a chicken sandwich. Putting effort into your appearance communicates a level of self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:00 AM
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Exactly, people who do not try and improve themselves can't blame others for their lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:55 AM
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And you admire that behavior so much that you feel the need to emulate it. Dude, you make the decisions for how you act. Don't try and deflect, if you wanna be shitty to overweight people then do it but don't cry when people treat you negatively for saying shitty things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:54 AM
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And good for him. Or any dude that understands the importance of appreciating the effort that their girlfriends put in. I don't know if this is information you can use or.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:51 AM
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It does. People who feel good about themselves are more motivated to take care of their bodies than those who wallow in self pity. Its about encouraging them to just take small steps and work towards obtainable goals. The more small things you accomplish the more the reward part of your brain associates the task with positive feelings. Its how you cultivate intrinsic motivation. Shaming people doesn't work. People like you are not helpful, you're harmful. I don't expect you to go and cheer fat p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:50 AM
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Yes, the source of their problem is in their control..... When you want to be successful in life and dating you can't blame others for your lack of success right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:45 AM
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I agree about not making excuses. People on here love to make excuses for their lack of success don't they? As for the overweight thing, I use to work at a gym and no one goes to the gym because they're shamed into it. They go when they feel empowered. If your motivation is to encourage overweight people to get in shape being shitty to them does the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:43 AM
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Fuck that. I put work into my appearance, that includes running three miles every morning and lifting 4 days a week. That's just the tip of the ice berg, skin care, hair care, hair removal, nails, toes, teeth whitening. Its not nothing. I can tell you my partners not stupid enough to dismiss the work I put in. But that's why he's got a woman I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:37 AM
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Personally I can't believe he brought North Korea into this. That country is a bit of a morbid interest of mine and I've read a few books and watched plenty of documentaries and I can tell you, their people are not about to marching into battle against the South Koreans. Its just unbelievable how little this guy understands about either nation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:29 AM
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Eh, you seem moderately reasonable. I don't really know what there is to disagree with at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:22 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:20 AM
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Fair enough, agree to disagree on some points but over all we probably agree on a lot more than we disagree on. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:12 AM
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Men deserve to feel safe in our society too and harassment should be addressed regardless of the perpetrator. I’m a big fan of people being held accountable for their actions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:23 AM
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What? No of course men can be victims. Where did you get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:18 AM
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“I can’t understand your words but hold on I’m still gonna talk at you!!!” Dude you don’t have the respond if you don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:31 AM
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Cry harder. Your stupid little "I think ALL women are lying liars and I am gonna prove to you that I DO talk to women with this weird irrelevant screenshot" Gimme a break
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:14 AM
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I don't care what you do dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:12 AM
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I don’t give a shit what you do you weirdo. Again, and I can’t stress this enough, you are not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:02 AM
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If you don't like it don't talk to women. You thinking all women are liars isn't my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:56 AM
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Yes they do. Men get butt hurt and women get butt hurt and accuse each other of all sorts of things because of their own insecurities. It is what it is. I'm just saying that if you have standards, focus on the people who meet those standards rather than whining about people who don't. Makes you look pathetic. Even when it comes to people saying shitty things because of their preferences, I generally don't mind an asshole who spouts rude comments, its entertaining and at least they're being upfro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:55 AM
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Who cares what a single mom wants. You don’t want to be with a single mom so her preferences aren’t useful or relevant to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:42 AM
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No he was sitting and reading his bible and did nothing wrong what so ever. He is clearly the victim of bullying he had no control over and did nothing to deserve /s These guys will call women perpetual victims while painting themselves as martyrs with every other breath lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:14 AM
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I don't think women should shame men for having standards. I think any backlash is rooted in the same mentality that makes men get angry about women wanting men who are 6 ft tall and successful. A person is entitled to their preferences. If a man's standards are what she perceives to be unreasonable then he's not the man for her anyway. People should focus on the type of people they want in their lives instead of the type that they neither respect or like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 11:53 PM
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You think the majority of women are dating drug dealers and gang members specifically? Can I ask how many drug dealers and gang members you know of in your community?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:43 PM
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We agree on several of your points. There needs to be a concentrated effort on education regarding men’s issues and measures need to be put in place to ensure equal access to services that support emotional well being like therapy and community services.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:42 PM
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This doesn't make sense from a general viewpoint. Criminals have a very hard time integrating back into society after prison. are you talking about something specific here? Can you give me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:25 PM
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Awareness and education. Beauty standards that encourage unhealthy lifestyles are now known to be unrealistic and harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:21 PM
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You are right, fixing unfairness for one group and not another is an example of life being fair. How do we fix this for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:07 PM
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I mean you might be right, I haven't looked into it. Why do you think this is the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:05 PM
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Again, irrelevant unless you're saying either you DO want those type of women or you're willing to settle for those types of women because filtering for women who want decent men is too hard. It all comes back to you. You make the decision in the end for better or worse no matter what those women do or don't do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:02 PM
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You claiming we don't have the mental capacity to have a healthy sense of self is in fact a dig. Women are capable of higher order thinking whether that fact makes you feel scared or not. If you go around assuming women are stupid and talking down to them, the one's who know what they want are going to avoid you and the one's that are less mentally capable of articulating their needs are going to be pliable to your influence. You will believe that its because you are smart and women are dumb but…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:46 PM
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A fish is both a different species and an animal which is being caught with the intention of eating it. You don't talk a fish into sucking your dick so ya no, there's no need to ask fish for advice on how to interact with other fishes Women have the pesky habit of interacting with men even after they're married so talking to women about women is useful information.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:41 PM
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But familial influences were much greater all the way up until very recently. Families have always been responsible for indirectly influencing a woman's mate choice. This is what I mean about mothers telling their daughters this stuff. If its someone she doesn't really want to marry because she's not attracted to him and asks her mom for advice her mom is going to tell her that the love will manifest over time. This is because the family wants her to marry this man for what ever reason and a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:38 PM
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It doesn’t matter what those women do. Those aren’t the women you want to date right? So why waste time analyzing their behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:22 PM
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Do things that give you the results you want in life but take responsibility for your own actions. Whether or not it’s what a lot of women want, you ultimately decide what you do. Therefore if you do those things, it’s because you decided to whether or not it was because you are easily influenced or you truly wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:18 PM
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It’s based off the red pill narrative. The red pill narrative falls to pieces when we consider the complexities of individuals in different situations and morality being subjective. The more complicated version of this is that who you are attracts different people and that’s a fact. If all you care about is getting a chick who is willing and attractive and base your personality and actions on that goal, you will attract a mixed bag of people and some of them will be shallow and incapable of fulf…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:15 PM
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I have no desire to change your mind, I just provided information and my interpretation of it. I could give a shit what you do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:08 PM
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I don't tell myself these things. This is what the research says. Its ok tho, most people act fearful in the face of information that will change their world views. Its normal. Don't worry, no one is going to force you to educate yourself so you can continue hiding from this kind of stuff all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:50 PM
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If all it took was being a good guy or being productive socially then maybe I'm not as good of a person as I thought I was, even though I constantly strived for that. That's what I took this to mean but if I'm wrong that my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:39 PM
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Sorry but if you base your personality, actions, and words off of whether or not it attracts women that is indicative of who you are and what you value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:36 PM
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then they weren't your values. What ever you believe will attract women are representative of your true values as that is your sole motivation for self growth. The type of women you attract will be a direct reflection of your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:29 PM
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No, you assigning blame to women for giving benign, generally helpful advice is not something you should do if you value your mental health and relationships. Nothing in that advice hurts your chances, it just doesn't get you the immediate results you want. Being a kind and honest person is not going to get your dick wet. Its going to establish you as a trustworthy person who can be counted on, but no one is going to drop to their knees because you're following basic social tenants. Being a bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:27 PM
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MY reasonings for waiting to have sex are useless for you to analyze. You are not pursuing me and my explanations are not relevant to your situation. If you want to understand the motivations of the person you want to date you are going to have to get to know them. Their religion, past experiences, family pressures, and environment impact that kind of decision tremendously and you can agree that those are all factors that look different for every single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:21 PM
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They who? The women you want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:17 PM
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If all it took was being a good guy or being productive socially then maybe I'm not as good of a person as I thought I was, even though I constantly strived for that. Your values should be standards you've set for yourself. If they are so easy to abandon when a reward isn't offered then they aren't your values, they are masks you put on in order to gain something. Women hate telling Men what those things are. These things are going to include unflattering and uncomfortable analysis of you as a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:17 PM
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A lot of the bitterness in dating comes from the fact many guys were lied to about this. Context clues indicate that he and some other men feel that these misconceptions can be blamed on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:12 PM
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There's plenty of evidence on it, remember that someone indicating that one group of people is better at certain aspects of a complex system doesn't mean that group is better overall, just better at that aspect. "There's another way of looking at male-female differences in EI: Simon Bar-On Cohen at Cambridge University, says that there's an extreme "female brain" which is high in emotional empathy — but not so good at systems analysis. By contrast, the extreme "male brain" excels in systems thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:08 PM
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Why do you think this advice was intentionally malicious and in what ways has it sabotaged you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:52 PM
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The lack of sexual attraction being overcome is a sentiment from times when women were not the ultimate deciders of their partner. It was a lie told to women to make them feel better about being married to someone they didn't choose and that's why its so heavily perpetrated by women. We've heard it from our mothers who heard it from their mothers. The sexual attraction not being purely physical is very true but I think people misinterpret this one too. It can add to the misconception regarding t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:50 PM
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Who wants you to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:45 PM
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Can I ask which women were telling you to be a good and productive person and would you say this was a direct reference to finding a mate or just general advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:44 PM
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Which lies are you referring to and which sources would you say perpetrated those lies the most in your own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:28 PM
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Its not simple. Its incredibly complex. Each individual has to determine what they're looking for in a partner and only pursue love interests that meet those criteria. If you choose the easy option because its obtainable you are going to get what you get. So either put in the work and hold yourself to the standards you've set for yourself when finding a mate or opt for the easy option and relax/abandon your standards. If you decide to dismiss your standards in favor of immediate gratification, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:23 PM
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Consider the variables within your direct control and analyze patterns of your behavior associated with negative outcomes. Look at the interplay of these factors with your social successs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:02 PM
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It’s a shame that men chose to let this happen with their inaction. A single mother can be a good caregiver or a bad caregiver but a coward for a father as signified by his absence is universally detrimental I can’t think of anything more weak and selfish than leaving the cultivation of your own offspring to chance because you couldn’t be bothered to take accountability for your actions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 06:00 PM
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I don’t really think there’s any reason to continue this conversation. We aren’t going to change each others minds here. Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:22 AM
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Me telling you that science doesn’t back up the idea that women are mentally inferior to men isn’t emotional. You projecting your own elevated emotions while refusing to engage in the content is emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:15 AM
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Ya guys, back him up here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:11 AM
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Why dont you do the red pill thing and sack up in the face of information that makes you uncomfortable instead of running from it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:05 AM
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I will, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:03 AM
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I have a masters in curriculum design that included a heavy focus on neurological development. I’m not going to go back and forth with you on the science of men and women’s brains. If you cared to know you would have informed yourself. From an academic perspective these ideas are down right silly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 02:00 AM
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I’m not going to coddle you. Your ideas are foolish and self serving
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:57 AM
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So women are weak minded in the red pilled ideology. While science backs up the biological factor it absolutely doesn’t with the mental factor. That’s why the red pill is such a difficult thing to take seriously. For all its talk about facing harsh truths it sure provides a narrative that flatters men with ideas that aren’t backed up by reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:45 AM
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Part of the moral panic angle is suggesting authoritarian like control measures that would result in far more damage than the 'threat' they supposedly address.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:33 AM
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Oh I have no issue with the biology aspect. Its just the way it is. tell me about a woman's mental competency from the red pill perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:29 AM
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yup No matter what, you should never pursue a relationship with someone who you think you can 'change' You mate preference is a reflection of your character and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:20 AM
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believe it or not I agree with a lot of what the red pills says. Its just that I believe that the red pill encourages the idea that women are inferior to men so I am curious to hear straight from a red piller what the red pills opinion of me as a human woman is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:16 AM
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To women mass-spamming the post "You don't love women, you just want to fuck them" - YOU ARE PROVING MY POINT. Thank you. Only a person with a deep unlove for male sex would see it in such a light. People who are incapable of love don't deserve love from others. The witch hunting moral panic BS. You parade an issue out and dress it up as a serious injustice, provide evidence that proves women are evil, and neglect to address a solution. There is no solution to the scenario you've manifested. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:14 AM
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I think its interesting to interact with all sorts of people. And you should continue to do so but we are talking about people who are going to be in your intimate circle here. When do we treat someone like an object and when do we not? 🤔And why viewing someone as someone to just want to have sex with is an issue? No but you should be clear about your intentions regarding another human being. I don't get why you are associating my unwillingness to share to cowardice. Is a woman unwilling to shar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:04 AM
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Summarize it for me here, I feel like you should be able to give me a general idea if you understand it well enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:00 AM
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Tell me about how women work. What are their motivations? How do they think? What do they need?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:44 AM
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What's wrong with objectifying people?🤔 Don't we all do that? This is how you view the world. This is why its important to speak your mind about these things so you can ensure you are surrounded by like minded individuals. Otherwise you might have people who don't think objectification is a normal thing getting offended. Make sure you surround yourself with people who think its ok to view others as resources. I prefer to think of it as my business, just like how a woman's past is none of my busi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:42 AM
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well what does the red pill tell men about women's nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:39 AM
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No. But I think you should live your life by these principles if you truly believe in them. We all determine the principles that influence our actions, words, and ultimately trajectory of lives. If you believe that women in your life are a commodity that should be treated like currency, I think you should make that clear to the people you interact with so that its easier to live your life in the way you believe you should. Let us know how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:30 AM
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You don't have to justify yourself to me. I'm just telling you my world view. Do what ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:17 AM
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You are ultimately the one who determines what provokes you. Flying off the handle at a perceived slight looks weak. It makes you look scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:23 PM
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Its common knowledge. I'm actually surprised you are arguing against it. I thought it was a pretty well known thing. Self control has always been a respectable trait
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:19 PM
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You can stand up for yourself and still hold yourself to standards you've set for yourself. A man is only as big as the smallest thing that provokes him. Men who are confident in their ability to handle themselves tend to deescalate situations to the best of their ability and only use force as a last resort. Its an admirable trait no matter how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:04 PM
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Ya you let the actions of others determine your decisions. Most people do. It’s called reactivity and it’s a symptom of a lack of willpower and weak character.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:02 PM
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No such support systems exists for those who are socially unsuccessful. Not going to argue with this. People need community and they aren't getting it. I think systems put in place to help out with that would be awesome. What would you recommend? Flippant, dismissive, rude or condescending comments aren't helping. I appreciate your willingness to not be so inflammatory. I will also try to moderate some of my discourse. Ya, as much fun as it is to argue its terrible in the long run. Both for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:24 PM
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Its true. Nothing will make you happy. But the onus is on you not me. It is not my responsibility to make anyone else happy. So the whole, "I bet they'd be a lot more happy if women would date them" Ya and I would be happy if someone gave me a bundle of money but I'm not going to wallow in self pity when it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:08 PM
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Where the fuck did I say “I want to make short men happy?”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:03 PM
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I didn't filter for height. What don't you understand about that? This is such a weird way to argue against this. Its not enough that I said I don't have a preference for height. I'm literally getting picked apart on a comment that says, hey I think filtering for height is unfair and I would date a short guy Nothing will make you guys happy. There is nothing anyone can do for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:56 PM
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You didn’t say it exactly the way I want!!! Wahhhhh!!!!! I said I’d consider a short dude not a child lmao Nothing can compensate for a petulant attitude You want women to be evil so you will assume the worst no matter what I say. Good thing my choices don’t affect you at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:47 PM
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I didn’t say I was filtering FOR short dudes. I said I wasn’t filtering for height at all. But that does t seem to be good enough. Looks like guys don’t want women to stop filtering for height. That’s not enough. They should ONLY go for short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:23 PM
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No you’re right, it’s a thing https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/why-a-growing-number-of-american-men-say-they-are-in-a-friendship-recession#:~:text=You%20have%20to%20work%20at,Geoff%20Bennett: Lot of young guys don’t have friends like they use to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:47 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:42 PM
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Ya, the hard truth is that if you want to know how to attract person you need to interact with the person you want to attract and learn about who they are as a person. If you don’t believe the person you want to attract has traits that are unique to them then you’ve already shot yourself in the foot. People want to be made to feel special, you can’t do that if you treat people like NPCs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:36 PM
1

Not offensive. I might have read into your comment the wrong way. If so my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:31 PM
1

I agree. Women should be upfront about their interests so a guy can make decisions appropriately. I do think some women drag guys along either for back up or because it inflates their ego All the more reason for men to be upfront with his intentions If he doesn’t want a friend but a lover tell her. If her answer is anything but mutual he should walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:30 PM
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I hold myself to my own standards but there nothing I can do about your behavior. I thought I’d add my insights but they were not well received so I will keep them to myself next time. Loud and clear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:27 PM
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No I think hobbies matter little to women. We view men as individuals who have varying interests so it’s whatever. What you’re into is your thing and what I’m into is my thing My guy loves dirt bikes, mma, cars, all the stuff that I could give two shits about so no I don’t think it’s a strat that a guy should use to pick up chicks. Might as well find a hobby that makes you happy. As far as the muscles, money, game and fame thing, it’s a strategy that doesn’t involve wallowing in self pity and bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:26 PM
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He’s 5’9 This is what I get for being empathetic. I’ve been called a liar twice now. When women say they like tall guys they’re being unreasonable When a woman advocates for short guys she’s a liar and should be ridiculed No but ya, it’s totally your height that’s the problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:17 PM
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I was and my guy is 5’9 I also wasn’t filtering for height at all. That’s how odds work. If you don’t have a standard for height you run the chance of getting a short guy or a tall guy, in my case I got average height. Not that it matters either way to you Women: i only want tall guys Men: your standards are too high!!! You are evil!!! Also women: I don’t filter for height Also men: you a fucking liar!! All women are evil!! Why even comment dude? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:13 PM
1

If you wanna see a different side to these women you can’t start the conversation off by insulting them. It’s just common sense. Don’t hold people to higher standards than you hold yourself to. It would be a good thing for me to keep in mind too. This is a lesson everyone can learn I get that my comments are inflammatory and that’s because they’re reactive. That’s the whole point of this sub, to get a reaction. My mistake was taking these comments too seriously and getting wrapped up in the hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:08 PM
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Yeah there’s really no way to argue against that. Short guys have it rough, there’s literally nothing they can do about it and it has no bearing on who they are as a person but women still filter them out. But I’m in a relationship so it’s kind of a moot point. Of course girls with reasonable standards on height are harder to come by, they see the value in men outside of something as stupid as height and get into relationships If I were single I would totally snatch up a shorter guy. I mean if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:44 PM
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So don’t date women who don’t put out. It’s that simple dude. Filter for the people you want rather than lamenting about the people you don’t want and how they should change. You can only control yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:21 PM
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The guy she sleeps with immediately she wants to fuck and the guy she makes wait she doesn’t want to fuck. If you want a woman to put out early look for women who put out early and don’t waste your time on those who don’t. It’s better than sitting here working yourself up trying to analyze people who you don’t believe have logic or reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:03 PM
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Na, I’ll stay. I love watching guys like you justify turning your back on the women here. It’s especially fun seeing it come from someone religious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:51 PM
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Yep women want to date attractive men. And ya he was rejected cause she didn’t want to be with him. I agree that hobbies don’t matter to women. We want men to get hobbies because they need to find a sense of worth that isn’t dependent on another person. What don’t you think I get?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:52 AM
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Because she does care what a man looks like and is attracted to the other man and she spoke about the piano playing with him in mind. People say things without thinking about it and it kind of sounds like she realized what she miscommunicated as she stopped talking about piano after OP played
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:09 AM
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Ya it’s pretty clear I was talking about the men on this sub. Don’t play dumb. These guys get on here and say what they’re too afraid to say in real life. The romantically challenged face their predicaments for all sorts of reasons but it seems by and large not a single guy that complains on this sub is willing to take a look at his own faults. Instead they hate on women because it’s easier. Sometimes they get like you, where they squirm around the point and embarrassingly claim “men don’t do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:59 AM
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Value as in you don’t harp on about they’re inherently evil while complaining about how you can’t get a girl friend. Person A: i want a girlfriend Person B: you just got done talking about how all women are gold diggers who can’t be trusted Person A: doesn’t mean I don’t want to fuck one Person B: …..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:25 AM
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You’re right, man this might be my next rabbit hole. He was a wild dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:39 AM
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If you want more friends you have to value people. No one wants to be friends with a snotty little prick who blames everyone else for their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:07 AM
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Not that you’ll ever really know. You like that narrative and you’ll refuse to do any research that says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:02 AM
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The composer spurned intimacy – which he considered sinful – Stop blaming women for doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:42 AM
1

ya you don't deserve a person if that's what you think of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:32 AM
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then it is what it is. can't blame women for your IQ, immaturity, and complete lack of empathy. At least you take responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:25 AM
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dude explain to me why you want a relationship. Your inability to articulate your needs kind of tells me that you've never thought about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:18 AM
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why do you even want a relationship? What would you get out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:07 AM
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would you want to be with someone like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:00 AM
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no. this is a weird work around intended to justify anger towards women for their disinterest. You can quote all the stats you want and give me all the break downs but if you can't value women, you are not going to receive their attention. A big trick to getting people to like you is showing interest in who they are and valuing them as individuals. If you dont think women are worth valuing you don't deserve a relationship with one. Women want companionship too They don't want to give their bodie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:53 AM
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so how counter intuitive is it to go around hating half of the members of your society for no other reason than that they aren't sexually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:50 AM
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It might be harder but its not impossible to find companionship if that's what you really want. The problem is with it already being difficult for some men, they aren't doing themselves any favors by maintaining a mindset that places the burden of their happiness on another person while communicating that they don't even like that person. Honestly, a lot of these guys complain about not being able to attract women while dismissing women as people. If a dude wants a girl so bad that she could be …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:33 AM
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What’s the truth of most women? edit: no answer. can't expand on your hatred because at the end of the day its one note and indefensable. So ya double down to cover for the fact that you're your own problem. Stay away from women if they're so awful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:21 AM
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All the more reason not to look to women for validation. Someone’s attraction to you shouldn’t not be the measure of your self worth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:53 AM
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What's there to say? It was a shitty experience. The guy had a terrible experience and I bet it did a number on his self-esteem, especially considering it was tied to something he was passionate about. Rejection hurts. At the end of the day tho it doesn't sound like she wasn't being intentionally malicious, just kind of dumb and inconsiderate. I do think women should be empathetic to how hard it is to be rejected. But at the end of the day, if a woman doesn't want to be with a guy for whatever r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:53 PM
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it did not, in fact, work for him lmao I did not DM him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:46 PM
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you know reproducing involves caring for children right? I know someone with schizophrenia and they've told me that they don't want kids specifically because raising them might be hard. You know what I think? I don't think you mean right to reproduce. I think you mean right to have sex but the small amount of self awareness you do possess knows that's beyond shitty. I think this whole argument of yours is in poor form because you don't value people. The absolute cowardice of feigning concern for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:44 PM
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lol hey dumbass. For all your talk about how important it is for people to be valued you forgot about women. You are saying my needs and wants in a relationship mean nothing because autistic men want to reproduce. Would you say the same about other disorders such as psychopathy, narcissism, schizophrenia? You deserve whatever life you live based on these comments. I would never reproduce with someone who lacks the capacity to view me as a human. Even if they have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:46 PM
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When you say 'I wouldn't have sex with an autistic person' you are basically saying, 'I think that you are unfit to exist, and people like you shouldn't reproduce. No lol me not having sex with people says nothing about them because me spreading my legs doesn't determine another persons worth. And even if you have autism, you're still responsible for the way you treat others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:37 PM
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you think the only way to care about someone is if you want to have sex with them? Listen, no. Someone who is so heavily autistic that they cannot live on their own or keep employment is not a sexual interest because that's pretty fucking weird. Its more like grooming than anything. That's what your study was referencing by the way. Severe autism. The studies were from the early 2000 before more subtle variations of autism were widely accepted so we are talking about courting someone with severe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:21 PM
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This conversations dead. You're not here to talk to me. You're here to rant at me. Nothing I can say will penetrate your preconceived notions. Good luck out there man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:10 PM
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Sorry to double respond but I just realized why you response is so sad to me. Its the autism thing. Just because autistic people have to live with their parents and can't work at the same rates doesn't mean they don't try to improve. In the right environment they can find happiness, connection, and self-worth, even if they live with their parents. This defeatist attitude is actually pretty ableist if you think about it. All people everywhere are capable of growth. All people are worthy of the pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:55 PM
1

ugh this is sad. You will go the rest of your life assuming that the people who have anything positive are just lucky. You will resent those who overcame barriers because you'd rather believe they lucked into something that they don't deserve than believe they were able to accomplish something you're not willing to attempt. In the end, what you think, you become, what you feel, you attract, what you imagine, you create. You can laugh at that quote too. Afterall, for you its useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:42 PM
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So mentally ill, reclusive, friendless autists need to just take more responsibility. Got it, I'm sure that your advice will be helpful to them. Did you know that autistic barriers like social awkwardness and inability to pick up on social cues can be reduced significantly through therapy and practice? You don't get something for nothing and if you don't put in the work you get what you get. What about people who can't go to the gym because of health issues? What about short guys who will just l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:11 PM
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lol dude. Self reflection means taking responsibility for your own actions and not hyper focusing on others whom you cannot control. That's what I mean in this analogy. A self aware person will understand the importance of being aware of the other drivers on the road because that's what they can control. A non self aware person will never reflect on their driving because they only see other people's mistakes and never consider their own. This is what I mean. Most people you know self-reflect? Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:51 PM
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A strong sense of self means you take responsibility for your actions and behaviors. You know who gets attractive bodies? People who go to the gym to work out. You know what that communicates? I take responsibility for my health and wellbeing. Steady income? I am responsible enough to hold down a job. Me having an income isn't conditional depending on who I want to date, its dependent on the standards I set for myself. It also means your actions consistently reflect your own values and don't flu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:44 PM
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No its not based on my experience. Its based on a study I read. I always assumed that when most people make a mistake, they sit and think about what they did wrong and how to be better next time. But it turns out most people don't actually analyze their own behaviors. They will rehash interactions or accidents but a lot of that talk focuses on whose to blame rather than how they might be able to navigate the situation differently regardless of who was at fault. For instance, if someone cuts you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:39 PM
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This narrative is misguided. The condition is that you won't unnecessarily burden the other person. Pulling your weight in a relationship shows the person you love them enough not to place the burden of your happiness solely on them. It comes naturally to people with a strong sense of self and empathy. Most people view relationships as a companionship. They LIKE being around the other person and benefit from shared experience and a close bond. you don't get that if you think you're owed somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:25 PM
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I agree and I also think that at its heart, this discussion revolves around how important it is to be responsible for your own happiness. You happiness should never be wholly dependent on the attention or acceptance of another person. Don't get me wrong, humans are social and we crave interaction, acceptance, and companionship but at the end of the day its an unspoken expectation that you will pull your weight and not burden the group unnecessarily. Someone who has a sense of worth and accomplis…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:17 PM
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You would think so but surprisingly reflection seems to be kind of rare. I am in a relationship, 5 yrs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:36 PM
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you should get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:17 PM
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you want me to share my personal values and beliefs to a stranger on reddit? Ok I believe people are inherently good and it benefits us all to empower and support each other. I believe people work best together and love and empathy are cosmically important regarding quality of life. I believe honesty is an incredibly important trait, even if its hard to maintain. I believe courage is rooted in curiosity and self reflection. I believe that nothing worth having comes free and the bigger the reward…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:15 PM
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Because you don't want to fuck and discard chicks. Paying someone to fake an interest in you sucks. You know why? Because people want to be wanted. People want to be valued. People want to be appreciated. People want to believe they are important to others, especially love interests. You guys do realize that those wants go both ways right? Women want to be valued just like men. Its a human need. So this narrative that revolves around the best strategy for snagging a chick is counter productive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:58 PM
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I hate this 'hobbies don't get my dick wet!' pity party BS. The main reason people tell guys like this to get a hobby or work on their personality is because its weird to be obsessed with just getting women. Especially when they don't like women lol Hobbies and working on oneself is suggested to people like this because usually the burden of dealing with the constant complaining revolving around their fixations fall on others. Crying about women, crying about how unfair life is, crying about how…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:31 PM
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I only came to comment because I was triggered by the title. I am in fact avoiding my homework because I’m fucking around on the Reddit app I have nothing else to say about your post tho sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:54 AM
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Eh it came off different but it doesn’t matter. Have a good one Watch out for bears
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:47 AM
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Are you ok? You did accuse me of being fat, you said “most of you” which is why I responded. Then we got off the fat thing and you were complaining about being trapped on your base because of the bear thing and I said, I dont fucking know you dude don’t bring up stuff like I’m supposed to know what your taking about. Then you started rambling on about BMI again. You drunk? No judgement but it would make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:43 AM
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What? You said don’t start with a personal attack. That’s what I was talking about. I don’t care if you insult imaginary women who you don’t know I just don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:40 AM
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How’d you know I’ve been laughing all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:35 AM
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Don’t insult you if I don’t want you to trauma dump on me lol? I don’t care if you respond like that. I’m just letting you know I’m not whoever you’re pissed at. I’m a stranger dude I could be anyone but your telling me this shit like I’m supposed to know what the fuck you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:35 AM
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My friend when a woman says she wants a man who makes her laugh, she ain’t talking about the butt of the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:32 AM
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lol wtf dude. I don’t know you, why are you launching into these weird personal stories? You may not be a threat but I can’t imagine your fun to be around either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:30 AM
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Lmao ya you are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:29 AM
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lol oh man a lot of you guys were really devastated about that bear thing. A man is only as big as the smallest thing that triggers him. Let’s be honest, if it wasn’t the bear thing it would have been something else. Hates easy. It’s fun too right? Aw man but the hangover. I mean you have to log off and live with … well you after all so this little conversation doesn’t really mean much at the end of the day does it? Oh well, even a little distraction like this is nice huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:27 AM
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Haha ok. I mean I get it, you running around telling everyone “don’t you dare try to convince me to do something no one cares about me doing! Don’t you do it cause I won’t! Don’t try to change my mind! I see you over there sir trying to avoid eye contact! Are you gonna change my mind because don’t even thing about it because you can’t!!!” lol you’re funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:23 AM
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Do it. Be a little dick to everyone. It’s perfect for everyone else. Decent people will see your shitty little attitude and steer clear. Shitbags will be drawn to you. Surround yourself with the people you deserve by sending out the energy that really shows your true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:20 AM
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Can you link it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:14 AM
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Men and women are fat all over this country. What a stupid thing to say. You don’t like fatties, ya me either I think men look better trim and it’s something everyone can fix if they have the right tools and support. But to be pissy about other fucking people not wanting to workout is some of the stupidest shit I’ll never understand. And then to pretend like it’s just women when you goddamn well know better. I don’t get it man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:13 AM
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Shadap, you said something shitty you don’t get to clutch your pearls about someone misconstruing the meaning of your stupid comment. You’re lashing out, the lot of you are. I get that you’re upset and that’s why a lot of guys are here. To lash out. But if your gonna jump in here and roll around in shit with us at least own up to it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:07 AM
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Ya don’t do it. Sounds like it’s not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:58 AM
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I’m 125lbs and in a relationship so I can’t relate to whatever this whiny “aLl wOmEn ArE fAt CaT LaDy BeAr LovErS” woe is me bullshit is. Sorry about whatever’s going on with you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:57 AM
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you will survive this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:36 PM
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If a guy gets fussy when asked what his core values are or doesn't even understand the concept of core values I would suggest that he find a woman who will not ask these kinds of questions. Its not that hard dude. Why is this bothering you so much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:30 PM
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I will assume people are what they present themselves to be. This hypothetical man is either the OP or an invention of the OP. The OP can't explain the complexities of this hypothetical man's motivations, values, or character. He's. Never. Thought. About. These. Things. People who don't think about these things lack depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:23 PM
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Because they can't answer complex questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:16 PM
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Because men who lack depth are frustrated by complex things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:14 PM
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Stay away from women capable of critical thinking. They will just upset him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:41 PM
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Fundamental beliefs that guide decision making processes and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:41 PM
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I asked clarifying questions because this guy could be anyone. People are complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:38 PM
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What does he do for a living? Is he religious? What are his core values? How's his relationship with his family? Does he like women? If yes, what is he looking for in a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:33 PM
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What standards should an incel aspire to? I can't answer that, I don't know or care about your quality of character or what your needs are. What the fuck is the point. What i chose to do is to regurgitate my bile into the world If that's how you wanna live then do it. The only one who's actually going to be affected by this is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:24 PM
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A man is only as big as the smallest thing that provokes him. You determine the quality of your character. You've decided to base who you are off of the actions of people you hate. Bully for you. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:18 PM
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It sounds like you are worthy of your endeavors and deserve what ever your reap from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:09 PM
1

Ya, aren't you doing exactly what you're accusing women of?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:01 PM
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Weird how you seemed to be defending the guy even tho I'd wager you don't know him. Isn't this post about how women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:59 PM
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Ya random people do crazy things huh? Do you know these two personally or?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:58 PM
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So he should break it off if her lying bothers him. That's how dating works. You meet people and through the process of dating you determine if their values align with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:53 PM
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I'm not your mom. If a vegan tells me they don't eat meat because of the inhumane treatment of animals, I am not going to try and argue that animals aren't being treated that way because it makes ME feel better about MY choices. They are being treated inhumanely and me eating meat directly contributes to that. Sorry. That's the truth. I make the choice to eat meat fully knowing the circumstances. And yes. Watching porn directly contributes to trafficking. We all knowingly contribute to shitty th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:59 PM
1

Is this the case with the women you know personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:55 PM
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Still no. Do what works for you and stop yelling at strangers about it as if they have the same experience. Focus on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:37 PM
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No. Everyone needs to do what’s best for themselves. You are only in control of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:23 PM
1

Then don’t jump through hoops for a woman. You are in control of who you interact with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:57 PM
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Ya, that makes sense. In a way its just frustration for being taken advantage of though and not really a gender thing. Lots of people out there suck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:22 PM
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I suspect what's really happening here is that they are being rejected for things that are actually well within their control but to analyze those things would be painful. So they focus on things outside of their control so the responsibility can never be laid at their feet. Furthermore, since the things are out of their direct control its even more wicked for women to exclude/hate men for them so it serves a dual purpose of vilifying the very people who made them feel inadequate. Its so much mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:12 PM
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https://academiccommons.columbia.edu/doi/10.7916/D8FB585Z#:\~:text=Women%20put%20greater%20weight%20on,grew%20up%20in%20affluent%20neighborhoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:05 PM
1

Dude people break their diet all the time for special occasions. Imagine the one dude sitting at the table who then starts grilling the person on the diet. "I thought you said you were avoiding sugar!!!" "I am, but this is a special occasion..." "So you're a liar??? A big fat liar who doesn't stick to her convictions!!!!" Imagine witnessing this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:53 PM
1

Gotta tell you, this message isn’t for most of the guys that post on here. This isn’t information a lot of these guys have the capacity to use
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:07 PM
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Lmfao now this is the kind of information I appreciate. the next time I catch someone making eye contact I will assume they are challenging me to a staring contest. I can’t believe I’ve forfeited so many challenges!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:03 PM
1

Oh for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:04 AM
1

I bet we agree on a lot of stuff. I guess I just wish people would realize that curiosity is a very helpful trait. All these guys want to know how to talk to women. Its just like how you talk to any person, make them feel like they are worthy of attention. Make them feel like they are special. Obviously looks are important but knowing how to make a person feel seen, important, smart, interesting, whatever. That's what gets you connection whether you're talking to a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:44 AM
1

Agree to disagree. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:29 AM
1

Ohhh I see now. Ok have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:23 AM
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You aren't being analytical, you're being reductive. You are mistaking my annoyance with your inability to analyze interconnecting variables with being emotional. Abraham Maslow, John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth, Edward Deci and Richard Ryan, Robin Dunbar, etc. These are psychologists and anthropologists who have looked into the role that connection plays in human interaction. You are looking at dating from an incredibly narrow viewpoint and I think if you look in the logical side of your brain yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:14 AM
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I gave you truth and look how you responded. Well then if all women are liars stop getting on here and asking them questions. Clearly you stand to gain nothing from talking to people who you believe are inherently deceitful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:56 AM
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She's either extremely closed to the idea of dating making her reject all her options(could be trauma or standards) or there's something wrong about her making her without any option. Cant tell without more information The reason I am even asking this is because the older you get the weirder it is to be a virgin. Anyone who's saying its not at least a little strange is lying. My first thought would be, "I wonder why he's a virgin" I literally cannot make any judgements one way or another without…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:48 AM
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So its very certainly not anything to do with you, but rather the people you interact with are judgmental shallow jerks?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:32 AM
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Right so you frame it in the context of what you can gain from her. Nary a thought towards what set of circumstances or belief systems contributed to her celibacy for 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:30 AM
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Can you expand on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:27 AM
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Can I ask if your personality on reddit matches the one you have in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:25 AM
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I'm saying this because it seems like you're sterilizing the dating process. Underplaying the importance of connection in favor of believing that females are calculating, cold-hearted, and superficial beings is not a great strategy. Even men in the RP understand that you have to at least pretend to like women in order to get with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:24 AM
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Women aren't being intentionally malicious. Understanding that small penis size and height are qualities that are not favored is pretty universal. We can argue about it all day long but at the end of the day we all know that those two things are going to hurt your chances. I'm going to try and tread lightly here but the truth is people don't want to be burdened with placating you about things you should already know. Putting people on the spot like that is awkward and difficult to navigate, espe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:21 AM
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Can you explain the dehumanization part? What are women saying/doing to make you feel like less of a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:16 AM
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Can we talk about how its going to raise eyebrows for anyone over 30 to be a virgin? If a woman were a virgin at lets say 37, would you really not have any questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:14 AM
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What would be your honest reaction to a woman who was 40 and still a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:13 AM
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Would you analyze the process of making friends this same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:49 AM
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A stranger on the internet shouldn't have this much power over your emotions. No one is forcing you to participate in this conversation. Put your mental well being first my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:29 PM
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decided to be a cunt about it hurt your feelings pretty bad huh lol. I probably wouldn't have questioned your ability to identify sources if you had been able to read them thoroughly and presented the information correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:04 PM
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and yet still no primary sources. Sorry dude, being able to identify proper sources is a big part of research. You don't get to get on here and talk like an expert when it wasn't important enough to you to actually do the research.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:47 PM
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Well, if a society that prioritized the freedoms and rights of men due to their superior abilities is so important to you, there are plenty of countries you can move to which support these ideologies. Men like you will go to their graves desperately trying to force people to give them the validation that they think deserve all while being incapable of appreciating others. But I have nothing of value to say to a man like you. There's no need to carry this conversation any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:45 PM
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You do realize every source I linked was the primary source of the secondary sources you provided right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:20 PM
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I said mainstream. Mainstream media definitely supports fat acceptance. The vocal minority online doesn't change that. It's why we now have overweight models in Victoria Secret catalogs and for clothing lines. Fat people are consumers too and representation is actually important and doesn't affect you at all. This is a non-issue. Speaking of We should be encouraging them to eat healthy and workout for their own benefit. We are not the people that need to give these people this advice. No matter …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:16 PM
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Men and women are required to pay the same amount of taxes. Catching criminals and preventing crime is something both men and women do in our society Building and maintaining prisons is something both men and women do in our society You’re glorifying the roles men play in these situations and refusing to acknowledge women’s contributions. “Dur!!! Cops have to be men!!! Lifting heavy things is cool!!! Women are stupid!!!” Shaddap For a police department to actually be able to run you need Patrol …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:57 PM
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A: pop into the comment section of a fat influencer and then tell me about the support you see B: we should push body positivity for men and women. People should t be shamed for being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:43 PM
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You deserve a partner who embodies all of your beliefs regarding women. May you find someone whose character matches your own. Good luck out there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:03 AM
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You should make sure you include psychological and anthropological basis. I see huge misconceptions stemming from peoples' lack of understanding regarding community and communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:01 AM
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tell me about the sacrifices men are making to bring down crime rates
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:58 AM
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Women don't treat victims of SA like untouchables. Shitty people treat victims of SA like untouchables. Lets call it what it is and hold people accountable for their actions on an individual level rather than hiding behind the boogeymen created by this gender war
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:57 AM
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I think we probably agree on a lot more than we think. Thanks for the convo!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:52 AM
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It's sound only in your head. Taking advice from women on how to date women is opening yourself to the worst advice possible, precisely because women do not act the way they say they do. And their advice is based on how women say they act, NOT how they truly act. Ok. I have nothing of value to say so there is literally no need to keep up this conversation. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:13 AM
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Why would you assume it's supposed to help the average person? A free market is a meritocracy, and meritocracies are not optimal for the average person. They're best for an above-average person. Nope, advice should be about how best to read your personal situation. That includes increasing your social emotional intelligence so you can respond to your environment and the people around you. You think the same sales tactic works in every environment in every demographic? Business is a bunch of dram…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:10 AM
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Just as fun as enduring your presence, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:57 AM
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It funny that every time I respond I direct my comments to you and every time you respond you direct your comments at all women. You think you're talking to someone who is wrapped up in conspiracies like you. I am telling you this because I believe it to be true for all individuals, man or woman. If you are so caught up in paranoia that it impacts the way you receive information, ie, taking the sound advice I gave about manifesting what you believe, warping it to represent one gender instead of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:54 AM
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oh no! an insult that doesn't actually target my beliefs. I'm devastated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:36 AM
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Have fun being you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:26 AM
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Do you have issues with it? If so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:20 AM
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Yes, but each member of the market individually decides what being adequately valued means. For some people, they just have kind of a static idea of what they want/deserve. For others, they look at the market and they want the maximum return. Here is where the analogy falls apart. If each and every individual is capable of setting their own value, blanket statements like this doesn't help the average person. No matter what, relationships are not business transactions. In order for a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:19 AM
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Then stop dating women who do that. In order to do that you need to believe that women are capable of being emotionally intelligent beings and after that you can actually identify the character traits that will make you feel valued. There is a study where participants were given fake facial scars and told to go to a job interview. Before they left they were allowed to view the scars but immediately after the make up artist performed a 'touch up' in which they removed the scars. Participants went…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:17 AM
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Cool your the 256th man to shout your opinion at me while I was asking a different user for clarification on what they said. Sounds like you should avoid women if they are so awful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:03 AM
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Can you provide context? What's your job, what's your family like, what kind of place do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:48 AM
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Women are tangible, as are men, Men and women are consumable, in the sense that they both live for a finite span, Which they do, but that price is bartered through an exchange of service (generally) rather than currency. An exchange of services places emphasis on the product, a relationship is contingent upon a bond. Personal bonds are created through trust and mutual respect. This means in order for this 'transaction' to work BOTH parties need to feel that their contributions, are valued. In th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:47 AM
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agreed, humans are complex and I don't think anyone gets to live very long without experiencing some form of trauma. We should all make decisions that are best for us and our loved ones regarding the circumstances we are in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:34 AM
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That's an analogy that refers to a product that is tangible, consumable, and has a price. Can you explain how the commodity in question can be the rate at which a woman is willing to give her body to a man? What other examples in society mirror this? What other groups should be required to participate in a social contract involving the use of their body for the greater good?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:30 AM
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So women are the commodity in this example, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:20 AM
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In your opinion, is this a good thing or a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:05 AM
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How about women excluding men with trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:59 PM
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I wasn't asking for the definition of free will. Does the advice go both ways or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:54 PM
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In a few words, respectfulness and consideration are the big ones when it comes to dating. When it comes broader society, patience, kindness, charity, These things are rewarded by acceptance into a community. Humans live in groups and if your behavior threatens the cohesion or peace of that group, you will be shunned. That's just the way it is. Women will always be a part of society and the way you treat the members of your society matters. Bigly. Prioritizing your own desires without considerat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:53 PM
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Makes sense, thanks for your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:35 PM
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I think there are both upsides and downsides to both. I guess I am trying to understand if the envy you were talking about in the original comment is specific to certain aspects of women's lives or if you considered the whole picture. No hate either way although I apologize if the comment about no downside came off as snarky, I could have phrased it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:30 PM
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Would you give the same advice to women about men who have been SAed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:25 PM
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Why wouldn't you want to live out y our life in the body where you could express your creative side? I mean it seems like there is no downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:23 PM
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Why would you want to convert back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:16 PM
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Would you become one if you could? If a genie popped up and said, you can become a woman in your society and gain all the benefits she has! Would you take that chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:06 PM
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But acting as if the moral burden is on the unappreciated to keep doing what they get no reward for instead of the ungrateful people who take them for granted, is backwards. Expand on this for me. What behavior is getting no reward and how should they be rewarded For instance, you say the moral burden should be on the ungrateful people. What behavior am I ungrateful for and how am I (and other women) expressing that ungratefulness and how can we show appreciation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:04 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:50 PM
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Walk me through what this looks like regarding sex, society and morality. You say that because men aren't award for good behavior with sex that men have no reason to behave with integrity. What solutions to this do you propose and who will be providing the incentives and to what degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:49 PM
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If you can't answer a simple question, why respond at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:40 PM
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Lets do it then. If a woman wants sex, does it make her a bad person if she lies to a man about who she is in order to get him into bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:34 PM
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The dangerous part is the swaths of men who proclaim that their morality and actions aren't in the realm of their control. The idea that if young men aren't appeased they will have no choice but to become toxic is akin to the idea that we should spoil children so they won't throw tantrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:33 PM
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Good people can seek and enjoy all sorts of stuff. Take money, good people seek and enjoy having money. Are they still good people if they steal that money from another person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:30 PM
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Tie it back to the original point for me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:27 PM
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No? I don't mean to be obtuse here but I literally have no idea what you're talking about. Is there anyway you can give me a link to an example of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:25 PM
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Oh, yes I agree that young minds are susceptible to indoctrination and we as a society should be vigilant when talking about things like TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:53 PM
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"Wives have predominated in wanting divorce since the earliest available data on who wanted divorce from the 1940s. Wives have consistently reported lower marital satisfaction than husbands since the earliest available data from the 1970s. The lack of apparent progress overtime in two key marital gender gaps (breakup and satisfaction) is consistent with the stalled gender revolution theory (Hochschild and Machung 1989)." Rosenfeld's study suggests that, while instrumental reasons for divorce (fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:51 PM
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is this for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:04 PM
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Wanna try being concise?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 09:00 PM
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Right? I actually found the whole study, its interesting but like you said, its a small sample size and the authors point out "A limitation emerged from this study since the high homogeneity of our sample limits generalizability."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:59 PM
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Provide the links, I'll read them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:55 PM
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What if men were required to pass a psychological examination before being allowed to enter the dating pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:46 PM
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If a man who thinks he's good sacrifices his integrity for his own pleasure he was never a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:43 PM
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And when a woman is an alcoholic, has a gambling problem, is over weight or bad with money, people make excuses for that? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:29 PM
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Nobody finds excuses for men's poor choices just as a hypothetical, can you provide an example of men making poor choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:24 PM
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Love this!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:04 PM
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This is called Moral Panic. You're exaggerating a threat. Crime rates have been dropping so there is clearly no correlation between promiscuity and crime committed by men. You're identifying Folk Devils, ie. scapegoats and suggesting irrational solutions that would do more harm than the initial threat. This is a common trope. Satanic Panic, the War on Drugs, the Red Scare, etc. Paranoia and conspiratorial thinking are the real villains
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:44 PM
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It really is like talking to a crazy person sometimes. Like every time you say something reasonable they’re like, “ that’s exactly what a lizard person would say.” Like the guy below calling you a white knight. It’s so weird to interject some random propaganda into a conversation rather than addressing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:39 PM
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Get help
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:35 PM
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Jesus dude. Your obsession with the gender war has robbed you of your ability to have a normal conversation. No one cares what you do in your spare time. It’s super weird that you’re on here trying to fight me like I’m actively trying to take your porn away. It’s like me saying, eh I don’t like to eat hotdogs because I don’t like to eat too much processed food and having some rando that over heard me argue with me about how he can eat hotdogs whenever he wants!!! I tell him ya, you can eat hotdo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:31 PM
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So me saying that I don’t watch porn because I don’t feel comfortable supporting a business that exploits people is the same as women trying to control men’s hobbies? Does it relieve you to know that I don’t give a shit what you do in your spare time? I control my own actions based on my values. I don’t care what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:12 PM
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Every single dude that’s got on here and tried to convince me that this statistic is overblown makes the same argument. The crazy part is I’ve never said you once that YOU shouldn’t watch porn, I explained why I didn’t watch porn. Its funny to see how many people are triggered by the choice I made for myself. I don’t care what you do. It’s why I don’t watch porn. If that bothers you, that’s a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:47 PM
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Lmao tell me more about how you missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:32 PM
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I already responded to a point like this. Keep reading
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:44 AM
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Sounds like you have a healthy handle on your emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:42 AM
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I think that if a country mirrors your views to the extent that you would rather marry a woman from that country, you should move there so that you and she can experience the benefits of that society’s beliefs together
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:21 AM
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And which country are you flying to in order to find women who have been so well raised?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:15 AM
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It’s probably more likely that he’s just not well read. People who spend time educating themselves aren’t this obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:13 AM
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Men want women from countries where they wouldn't live themselves. Countries that oppress women have poorer standards of living. Passport bros want to fly to these countries, fuck the women who live there, and fly back to their own countries where they benefit from the standard of living that comes with equal rights and contributions of independent and educated citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:55 AM
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ok. Well thanks for sharing your opinion. Have a good night
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:50 AM
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oh well thats good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:50 AM
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A man judges the moral capacity of all women and then scoffs at the idea of a woman understanding him. It doesn't matter. You're only engaging in this conversation because your looking for an opportunity to lash out at me. Nothing I have to say would register through your lens of ire. That's all I really need to know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:40 AM
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Life is funny. Its a shame you lack a sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:32 AM
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Even if you found a woman who had empathy and compassion, you would lash out and drive her away because of your paranoia and hate. Nothing will ever convince you, nothing will ever be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:31 AM
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Even if you were transported into the body of your dreams, you would be no happier. You would judge those that gave you attention and distrust everyone who was nice. If you think everyone is horrible, even genuine interactions are lost on you. You would still be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:28 AM
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Criticizing others is a poor substitute for holding yourself accountable. No matter how much energy you put into scrutinizing people, you are stuck with you at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:22 AM
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And you want to be spoon fed information you're too lazy to look up just so you can spit it out when it tastes bad. Its a weird ego thing that I see people do. My contribution to this conversation is useless to someone like you. You don't want to talk to me, you want to invalidate my stance because it makes you feel better about yourself. I believe what I believe and make choices based on those beliefs. It has nothing to do with you or your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:13 AM
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Its so odd that you have unlimited examples of men who control their behavior despite the role testosterone plays and yet you dismiss it in order to maintain a narrative that paints you and other men as simplistic beasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:05 AM
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The people you surround yourself with reflect your character. Decent people seem absent because they avoid individuals who wallow in hate and self pity, not because they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:54 AM
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So men are inherently violent and men who can't regulate their emotions are dangerous to themselves and their community? I don't think so. This is a very narrow view of humanity. In every society there are men who reflect, identify, and articulate their emotions. Through that reflection comes clarity in the things you can control and the things you can't. There is no need to be angry at the things you cannot control. Its a weak minded thing to obsess over the behavior of others to the point that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:51 AM
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Can you? Not really. The dick wants what it wants though, so we have to put up with our grasping lessers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:46 AM
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No skin off my back. Have a good one stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:42 AM
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Your life is a reflection of your thoughts and values. We attract the things we believe. Your anger hate and resentment isn't going to impact women. Just yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:35 AM
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What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create,
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:27 AM
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You get what you give. You deserve a partner who values you as much as you value them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:23 AM
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And you believe that the people who go this far in order to not work will be fixed if we remove these measures? Think about what you're saying here. Single mothers get more money so they can feed kids. According to you, the small percentage of sociopaths that are willing to jump through hoops to avoid contributing to and taking part in society will suddenly start making the right choices but only if we punish ALL OF the women and children who can benefit from this service. This is called moral p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:10 AM
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because the emotional effort you put in is counter productive. How is it helpful to avoid addressing the way you feel? How could it possibly benefit you or your relationship to keep your true feelings from the one person you're supposed to feel safe with? If you believe that women don't want to talk to you about your issues, you're going to attract women who don't want to talk to you about your issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:00 AM
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If you are suppressing your emotions to the extent that you feel this way, like I'm trying to rob you of validation, it means you are not benefiting from suppressing those emotions. Its not that I think you don't have problems. But if your hostility towards women is the reason you don't address those problems then no conversation on earth is going to make you feel validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:51 AM
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Are you actively regulating your emotions now? please, I know how unsufferable I am, I'm the one typing the self righteous shit after all. But why would you choose to engage with someone who is frustrating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:35 AM
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ya doi. Only children believe in 'right' answers. Don't be naive. We are never choosing the right answer, we are always choosing the answer that is least wrong in our opinions. The cobalt in my phone, my clothes, hell even my seafood almost certainly came from slave labor. So I will do my best to make the least wrong decisions, buying from thrift stores, not prioritizing getting the newest phone but instead using older versions for longer, and trying to prioritize eating fish from smaller busine…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:28 AM
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probably because I'm not taking a hard stance on one side or the other and in a world of people who are naive enough to believe there is a right answer for everything and all other answers must be wrong this kind of mentality isn't entertaining or relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:24 AM
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And its not clear by now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:21 AM
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Is your goal to talk me out of my convictions or talk yourself into not feeling shitty about yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:18 AM
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That's fine and well. I base my behavior off of the standards I set for myself. I don't want to support companies that exploit young boys and girls. That's a choice I am happy to make. If it bothers you that's not really my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:17 AM
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these are some of the weirdest conversations I have ever had. Why wouldn't I support a company in the middle of a sex trafficking lawsuit even if they might be paying one actress money? "So our neighbor is a sex offender? Why can't he watch our kid, the one he molested was a boy and ours is a girl" In OF you're paying the creator. In porn your paying the company and trusting them to treat their entertainers right. You big on trusting corporations to do the right thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:15 AM
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The same reason grandma thinks that the young black man who delivers her mail is awful. Its not that he's actually awful. But grandma will go to her grave with hate in her heart. Reflection is hard. Projection helps you avoid thinking about your biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:12 AM
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Getting paid the big bucks by companies like MindGeek?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:09 AM
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Men who don't care about personality don't get to be picky when it comes to quality of character. Sorry. If you take the first thing you can get because you just want a bang maid and not a partner, its gonna be a mixed bag and there's no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:04 AM
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I'd love to say I'm shocked at your response but I anticipated it. There is no amount of data that will turn you into an emotionally intelligent person. Its like trying to talk to a flat earther. you don't give two shits about truth. you just want to be right. you will sacrifice your dignity, values, and character if it means not giving consideration to any views that challenge your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:02 AM
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I think it's more likely men are taught to honor their words a bit more where as women are taught to trust their feelings and prioritize themselves. I'll never understand how people can have so little self-awareness that they say these things out loud. Men are not 'good' and women are not 'bad'. Grow up. What exactly do you think men get that qualifies as domestic comfort? Having a maid/nanny. Women aren't punished for making bad choices. Women are coddled and protected from the consequences of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:56 AM
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In like an OF scenario where the creator is verified, interacts with her audience, and has major control over production and distribution, I am all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:50 AM
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Tentatively, yes. the issue is verifying the actual consent part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:44 AM
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I can't wait for you to read the data and respond rationally. "A young boy was 12 years old when he was raped by an adult man, who drugged him, overpowered him, and filmed his sexual abuse. The child abuser uploaded videos to Pornhub in 2018. It is reported that these videos generated “188,000 video views with more than 1,100 subscribers on Pornhub…One video generated more than 50,000 views…” SAN DIEGO – Adult film performer and producer Ruben Andre Garcia was sentenced in federal court today to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:43 AM
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Try to focus on one conversation at a time. This is what happens when you view women as a monolith. You start to sound like that crazy person who includes strangers midway through a conversation that was happening in their head. Just because you had this conversation with some other woman doesn't mean I psychically know all the details. You have to explain your thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:04 AM
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nah, while I don't think the burden of making men want to try should be put on strange women, I do agree that women will have to start approaching more as our society gets less strict about gender norms and more equalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:55 AM
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Why would I want to fight you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:52 AM
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It probably triggers a lot of emotions, insecurity, guilt, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:51 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:50 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:49 AM
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true, but I think its a fair price to pay considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:46 AM
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For sure, that's probably a good option for people who are into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:46 AM
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This is purple pill debate dude. I see this all the time, "whaa!!!?? how could you possibly think that I would support the views of half the people on this sub...the sub we are on right now..." A lot of guys are calling for traditional gender norms on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:45 AM
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All avenues will be at risk of people who coerce and manipulate others however there are huge differences between OF and porn which make it a lot safer for the entertainers. OF: allows the creators to control several important aspects of production. Porn: requires production companies and third party contributors which can increase the likelihood that the actor is being taken advantage of. OF: creators interact directly with their audience. Porn: The actors could literally be dead and we would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:40 AM
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Ok man. Enjoy actively avoiding your responsibilities while patting yourself on the back for putting in the same effort of those who actively deal with their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:33 AM
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You want gender roles to shift more rapidly towards women making the first move? Are you ok with the fact that we only really see these kind of things in countries and societies that view women as equals and don't hold strict gender norms?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:32 AM
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So? that was never my problem with porn. Entertainment is supposed to be entertaining. But watching something where there's a chance that the woman or man could be doing it against their will just bothers me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:30 AM
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Dude. This is an actual statistic. You can view this from an unbiased lens you know. MY problem with porn and why I DONT watch it anymore is because of the statistics regarding the sex traffic industry. YOU feel like MY opinion about MY preferences are an attack on you? really?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:29 AM
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Only fans..... Creators profit off of their own bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:23 AM
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Jesus, I am not your babysitter. I was talking about how I feel about porn. Here comes some rando that actively denies that this is an actual thing for no other reason than; A: it might make him feel bad if it were true so he immediately denies and will refuse to look it up. B: He couldn't possibly be bothered to think about anything outside of his own pleasure. These kind of guys aren't addicted to porn. They're addicted to being lazy, judgmental, whiney, and mean. Self-control is an attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:23 AM
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Guys dress like shit because they know they're invisible no matter what they do. It's on women to show that men have a shot and they don't do that. Is this what you mean by holding up the sky? You want women to actively encourage men who are bitter and don't care while ignoring men who put in the effort or are naturally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:18 AM
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My problem with porn is that sex-trafficking is a major factor. I never really was against porn until I read the statistics on how many people are being exploited. I've never been able to look at it the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:06 AM
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Ya, people who don't work on themselves but desire partners that have worked on themselves are pathetic. You get what you put in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:01 AM
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I hope your future partners value you just as much as you value them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:56 PM
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You deserve a woman who appreciates you as much as you appreciate her. I hope you find that one day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:55 PM
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Do you have a job? Do you have your own apartment or house? Do you cook your own meals?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:50 PM
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Avoiding, ignoring, or denying emotion isn't considered actively managing emotion any more than ignoring a pile of laundry is actively managing the laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:45 PM
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Can you expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:43 PM
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I would suggest you do your best to avoid women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:38 PM
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I can see what your saying and its true that certain genres see a much lower percentage of women but if the numbers are damn near 50% for just gaming in general we can logically assume the women also like to game and when you see huge disparities in gender across different platforms there are probably variables that skew these numbers this way. While interest in different genres certainly play a part, I don't think its the whole picture. I have female friends that play traditionally 'boy' video …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:37 PM
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There are women who are interested in these but women tend to try not to cause a lot of waves in male dominated spaces. Its kind of like how girls make up 40% of gamers but will not turn on their mics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:29 PM
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which is why men end up with women who they can't be vulnerable with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:25 PM
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Because the data I'm looking at and the experiences I have put women as a much higher percentage of gamers. ESA puts it at 46% According to newzoo " almost three-quarters of women play video games in 2022" Google play says 49% of mobile gamers are women So I am trying to figure out why you think only 1% of players in your platform are women. Could it be that women don't speak up for fear of harassment or bullying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:18 PM
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It is certainly possible that men have more to lose in divorce. That's why its sad that men will marry women who they don't like. Why aren't men choosing better? Maybe men don't initiate divorce as often because a significant amount of men are comfortable not liking their wives. They will just avoid them but assume that its the price they pay to have domestic comfort. Women aren't incentivized to make bad life choices. Birth rates are falling. Women own more homes, have higher education, commit …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:11 PM
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can you give me an example of a game?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:03 PM
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Snap benefits are averaged at $240 according to your source. That's 2,880. Not quite the 7,896 you've claimed. Medicaid isn't a cash incentive. According to your source its available to families, pregnant women, children, elderly adults, and people with disabilities. Coverage varies between states and not every provider accepts it. Are you saying we should just take this service away from single mothers or the elderly and disabled as well? According to your source HUD housing is voucher that can…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:01 PM
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What communities do you belong to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:23 PM
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You’re advocating for legislation that will affect the people of an entire country off of rage bait posts on Reddit….
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:21 PM
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And how are gamer girls treated by gamer boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:58 PM
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I call bullshit. Care to provide your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:57 PM
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Ok. So single out women, take away access to social safety nets. Are we taking this away from men who use it too? If we want to fight the system around making women the default parents, we need to make sure men are sharing in the childcare at least half the time. Judges award custody to the partner who spends the most time with the child. You’re saying we should encourage men to take part in childcare duties equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:55 PM
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Well it looks like women are awful enough that you should be avoiding them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:52 PM
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But that requires you to trust a woman to have enough emotional intelligence that they aren’t being pedantic and shallow. The women you’re telling this to, that you feel the need to educate about this stuff, are not the women you want to be in a relationship with. Telling Stacy to suck it up and get into a relationship with someone she feels is beneath her is going to expose that poor guy to a shallow, potentially manipulative person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:52 PM
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The level of each is going to vary tremendously considering the wide variety of people and the unlimited patterns of their values. But having nothing. Zero ability to manage finances, zero ambition, allowing oneself to descend into the worst version of yourself physically, these are huge problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:49 PM
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Tell me about the character of someone who can’t manage money, has no goals or aspiration, and doesn’t take care of their personal appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:45 PM
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I grew up dirt poor my man. Went to community college. Paid for everything myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:44 PM
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Ya. It takes work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:05 AM
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“The other point is that yes some women might be meaner about it but behind closed doors, some will have the same thoughts and just not say it outloud or be more modest about it .“ I might have misunderstood this, what do you mean by this? And if you think I’m doing damage by giving men false hope, what you’d rather me do instead is tell them to stay in their lane?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:05 AM
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So to recap. You’re saying; There’s no need to try and work on your physical appearance because we can’t change things. All women are mean some are just quiet about it. Correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:49 AM
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What policies concern you the most when it comes to social welfare? What country is doing it right as an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:48 AM
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Ok, what should women be looking for in a man. To avoid being shallow, what characteristics should she prioritize?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:47 AM
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Sounds like you’re dodging a bullet then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:37 AM
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Yes. The majority of people become immediately more attractive if they are in good physical shape, take care of hygiene, and dress well. As far as women swooning? No. But you’re more likely to find someone whose into you when you put forth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:32 AM
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Meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:30 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:26 AM
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I mean before marrying them you should definitely have a good grasp of their character. For instance, you say you don't think you missed anything but it doesn't sound like you were actively vetting against poor moral qualities. But even if you had done all that, there's still a chance you might have been manipulated. Some people are really good at hiding who they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:09 AM
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Before marrying, was there anything in particular about her values that made you feel like she was trustworthy? For instance, was she altruistic? Charitable? Empathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:58 AM
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A father is expected to take of the baby with money. I'm a little confused here. This sounds like child support Nah mostly just visiting. Some stay if they work online. Not easy to do if you don't Why wouldn't they just move to the country? Wouldn't it be easier than flying there and flying back?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:51 AM
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Well it could be the standard except in special circumstances. I agree that men should be looked at as capable caregivers at the same rate as women. For this to happen they need to be able to take more of a role in caregiving in general. Custody is usually award to the parent that spends the most time with the kids. If this were 50/50 it would be much easier to make this the standard. Depends. Latin America is popular with some guys, Thailand with others. But best believe that a whole lot more g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:43 AM
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Is there a way to choose woman who will be loyal? Well, what selection process did you go through when choosing your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:38 AM
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50/50 custody as in a mandatory ruling across the board? Regarding passport bros, which countries are these men flying to in order to find these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:35 AM
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Right. By your same logic, alimony and child support should deter men from making bad decisions right? If punishing people for having kids with the wrong person is such a brilliant plan, why don't men learn from these penalties and only choose women who they know are going to be loyal?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:26 AM
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Its true that men need to be moderately attractive in order for their personality to be an influencing factor. Most men can achieve moderate attractiveness by maintaining their bodies, focusing on hygiene, and dressing appropriately. The problem with the confidence advice is that its not quite what people need to hear. Its a growth mindset that people need to develop. The belief in ones ability to improve with work. A lot of people out there believe that traits like intelligence, being socially …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:22 AM
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Can you provide me an example of society rewarding women for bad behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:11 AM
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People want to be good humans because its in our DNA. Groups with cooperative individuals out perform those non-cooperative individuals. Altruism and compassion signals to the group that you can be trusted and will add to the group. Humanities success is due to our ability to work as a group. Good humans mean safety, growth, prosperity, and peace. This is why we have positive brain reactions when we do something good. Its an evolutionary trait that developed due to our communal nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 04:06 AM
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Sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:54 AM
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Why does it bother you that women who are 'fat and ugly' are finding reasons to value themselves? Would you rather they wallow in their own self pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:51 AM
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What? Women who only want men 6 ft or taller are probably shallow and should be avoided anyway. Women who only want men who make 100k are clearly too focused on money and wouldn't make a good partner anyway. I just don't want you to take welfare if you become a single mother to these top percent men, I don't want my taxes paid with my hard earned money going that way. Wtf are you talking about here? This is so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:45 AM
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I can agree that money and status can potentially be negotiable. Money comes and goes and women are capable of making money so I don't think it would hurt to be a little lax on this. But some standards on this are just common sense. People who cannot manage their finances make bad mates. The status one is pretty flexible too because it can be subjective. You might be respected and well known in some circles but not others. However, having a bad reputation, no education, no achievements could be …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:40 AM
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why would women lower their standards in those areas?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:03 AM
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I really have nothing more to contribute to this conversation. Your lack of empathy is not my issue. You don’t want a conversation. Your reply is seething with anger, hurt, and resentment and while I am sorry about that I also can’t do anything about it. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:13 PM
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If you are worried about mental damage I implore you to stay off of reddit. If you think that Mr. Rogers and Steve from Blue's Clues are not performatively 'nice' for entertainment purposes and that they act like that in reality then I honestly don't know where to go in this conversation. The reason women get into relationships with 'assholes' are mostly because at least the asshole is genuine. You know what you are getting. A lot of people would rather have a partner with flaws, like they thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:18 PM
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You hit on a point without realizing it. Over the top performative niceness appeals to children for a reason. Try acting like that at your job and you'll come off as weird. Genuine is the word that escapes a lot of people. If you're nice but not genuine, it comes off as manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:06 PM
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well said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:02 PM
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So this is your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:17 AM
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I think you missed my point. Either you care about personality or not. If you don't care about personality, you don't get to be picky when it comes to quality of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:13 AM
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Ya, I can see the intent. The other user, the purple pilled man bear whatever one, I think is the secondary account. I hate to say this but I am loving this post. very entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:06 AM
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I don't speak for all women. Its just your post comes off as a little one dimensional. Why keep pushing for more ways to make men stop approaching women when plenty of women here are trying to engage in the more nuanced parts of the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:04 AM
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are you sure you're purple pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:55 AM
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It could be. My edibles are kicking in so maybe I'm just in conspiracy theory mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:51 AM
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I don't think you're a pick me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:50 AM
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ya but don't you think someone like that would love arguing with the men on here? They are ignoring them completely. And the way the comments directed at the women are like....probing but not in a conversational way. This is total bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:49 AM
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Sorry but no, its an uncanny valley thing. The comments they're making are just... off Like I said. Too obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:42 AM
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I mean didn't you come to the coven gathering? We all talked about this during the meeting. Then we all hopped on our brooms and went to Shake Shack Weren't you there, fellow woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:36 AM
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They are very different situations. You're right. But men are multifaceted and complex creatures. Just like women. Look this isn't exciting but communication, understanding, and education will solve this gender war. Its gotta go both ways tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:33 AM
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I bring up those traits for a reason Humor is associated with open-mindedness, empathy, resilience, and optimism. Passion is related to perseverance, dedication, and enthusiasm. Creativity to openness, curiosity, and problem solving. These are all the traits of a well rounded human.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:30 AM
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Of course people should have varied interests, its healthy. But a lack of concern for who you partner is at the core is never going to end up well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:26 AM
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you're being too obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:14 AM
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Ha! I suspected
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:10 AM
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We are in this gender war because both sides refuse to acknowledge the value in the other. This notion that people are beasts driven by pure instinct is immature. Lets dismiss all of the cultures created by societies of people including role specialization, adaptability, industriousness, and art. If women were the useless incubators that some men think they are we would have never gotten to where we are today. I hope you get someone who appreciates you exactly as much as you appreciate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:08 AM
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What are some other ways to discourage males from building up the courage to shoot their shot? At what point is he going to 'shoot his shot' then? After I give him my wallet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:03 AM
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I don't care if you take it back. Your lack of empathy isn't really my problem. Its your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:02 AM
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lol I didn't expect you to take it back. You're way to full of ire for that. You get what you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:44 AM
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the 'building up the courage' part gives it away for me. Its like a line from a poorly written villain. "How can we crush their hope even further!?" lol but who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:38 AM
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Its bait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:32 AM
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A call for violence. Ya these things usually work out well for everyone involved. In fact, I think there are a lot of examples of societies that use violence to oppress half their populations that are thriving and happy. I just can't think of any off the top of my head. Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:30 AM
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This is part of the problem. She's hot. She will be in a relationship with me. Hired! And now we have men complaining about not being able to open up to their partners because they never thought to vet for personality traits. No dudes on here talk about wanting their girlfriends to be funny. Creative. Passionate. No guy gets on here and says, man I just want a girl who will watch anime with me, who I can go snowboarding with, who I can talk to about my interests, who will push me to be better be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:14 AM
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I think the reason it comes off as icky is because this complaint is just self-indulgent shit talking and not productive or insightful. Imagine anyone reacting to criticism this way. "They bitch about how I come in late but I've been watching them and they are late all the time too! They are just as shitty as me!" "They think we are shitty parents because we party at our house on school nights but they let their kids run around at all hours of the night! They are just as shitty as us!" "My neigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:00 AM
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thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:05 AM
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Men have gotten the message that they need to improve and are reacting to that in various ways, but that includes turning the lens back on the segment of society that is asking for that change. I think this talk is really just the counter-swing of the pendulum. I don't think that the men who have 'gotten the message are the ones posting on this sub. We are talking about men who don't feel the need to regulate their emotions, asking to have women who have put in the work required for regulating t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:45 AM
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Reddit comments might not be a perfect representation of men but they seem to represent men like you pretty perfectly. You don’t have to respond to me if I’m upsetting you. You’re perfectly capable of getting off Reddit and touching grass too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:14 PM
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Yep. You can sit on purple pill debate all day long complaining about traits women should change but if those traits cease to matter the second you actually select a partner then none of it mattered to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:56 AM
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2 things. It’s not shallow to assume that guys want looks when it’s all they harp on about on this site. It’s disingenuous of you to pretend like that’s not the overwhelming narrative online where men constantly talk about how womens value are looks . The second thing is your immediate hostility. This is a common theme on this sub. men talking about how they want agreeable women and then not having the emotional intelligence to speak with strangers civilly. You don’t think I can do anything for …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:51 AM
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Sigh. And yet still not a single mention of filtering for personality. You taking the first 6/10 or 7/10 that comes your way is still going to mean that you’re not filtering for personality traits and thus, the woman you chose based on the limited criteria of “petty enough” has a chance of not being “agreeable” The problem isn’t the degree of attraction, the problem is the complete lack of criteria regarding any other trait besides willing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:36 AM
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I think you might have responded to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:54 PM
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you keep saying hypergamous. Also, walk me though your thought process in believing the cultures created by humans don't reflect biology and evolution. There are major differences between the great apes and ourselves that account for a difference in societal structures, one of which being sexual dimorphism. It makes a big difference in how societal structure plays out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:11 PM
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Hypergamy refers to dating "up" You say monogamy isn't natural and your right. Serial monogamy is what our species exhibits overwhelmingly across cultures and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:57 PM
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this sentiment goes both ways, be wary of anyone who generalizes or devalues the opposite sex. They deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:22 PM
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You want someone with a healthy social emotional intelligence. Men constantly seek women who look the best and forget to filter for personality traits like empathy, logic, and integrity. If you want a woman with these traits, you have to look for a woman with these traits instead of just going after any girl you think is hot and hoping she has them already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:20 PM
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since most women in the US will be sleeping with the small pool of men, commonly known as the "top percent of men His question is based on a world view that doesn't represent reality. This is how guys get like this. They've build their paradigm on false logic on order to preserve their ego and then they continue to build on top of those skewed ideas. Unless something happens to rock the foundation they've laid they will never be able to view these things in a mentally healthy way. Imagine the ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:18 PM
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lol profiles are very telling buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:58 PM
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Mind you this is just one chart I've found and I haven't really looked into it further than a couple other websites but it shows that men are much more likely to use the app for casual sex and women are more likely to use the app to find long term relationships. If we are looking at the difference between men and women on these platforms its important to keep in mind the number disparity and the intentions. If women are looking to date someone seriously and are also being overwhelmed by response…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:00 PM
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"I love my neighbors" I don't get this one "Lets go shopping" Depends. Is he talking about the hardware store or Ikea?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:17 PM
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Cheating hurts people to be sure, its an unfortunate thing that happens and if someone is willing to hurt you in that way then yes, you have been wronged and yes, the pain is valid. The problem with legally persecuting people over it is that you would inherently be violating privacy laws. What if they were on a trial separation and agreed to see other people but then one party gets mad and decides to prosecute? Are all couples going to need to make sure they have evidence of their personal agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:48 PM
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This is quite a bit different than fully imprisoning civilians for private acts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:36 AM
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Men are SAed as well. If rapists knew they could counter an accusation with a false accusation claim don't you think we would see less men reporting their abuse and more men being accused of lying about their experience? This can potentially happen at HIGHER rates than the false accusations you believe are a high threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:51 AM
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Men are raped as well. If rapists knew they could counter an accusation with a false rape accusation claim don't you think we would see less men reporting their rapes and more men being accused of lying about their experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:47 AM
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the reason for the prevalence of this is because people overestimate their expertise on a subject. You say the internet is an adequate tool but in order to effectively use a tool you need to understand how to use it properly. For instance, you have my last sentence displayed before you to read as many times as you want but you still don't understand what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:43 AM
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Its not self censoring to choose your words wisely or to make sure you understand an issue before blathering about it. Its just called integrity and accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:40 AM
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If you are too lazy to fact check it and its not an issue that you care about at least refrain from causing harm by perpetuating false narratives when speaking on adolescents who have taken their own lives. These are people with families, Their parents might be reading your comment right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:35 AM
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I am very capable of doing research but I'm pressing you because I don't think you know much about the issue you have such a strong opinion on. I'm not going to argue that false accusations don't happen or that they don't ruin lives but when discussing the issue I try to look at it through a broader scope rather than using my rage and emotion as a guide. For instance, have you considered the fact that in a time where men are just beginning to report and expose the rates at which they suffer from…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:33 AM
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I'm not sure its so simple to be honest. Rather than assigning poor character to the gender that is clearly experiencing an alarming rise in suicide completion it might be better to withhold judgment based on your own biases and a lack of thorough research. If this were reversed and we assumed that men commit suicide more often due to their own short comings in mental vigilance, I am sure you would immediately doubt that conclusion. You would be right to doubt something so dismissive and simplis…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:24 AM
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lol the break in thing, not the false accusation thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:15 AM
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So you attribute these outcomes to emotional weakness in girls and an inherit vigilance against rejection to boys? Is there any evidence to back this up or is this just your personal opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:13 AM
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Do you know of any real-world cases of this personally or seen online that I can look up?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:12 AM
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There was also an increase in prescription of anti-depressants from what I can tell. Why do you think these factors have not influenced boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:09 AM
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This is alarming. The study says this increase is mainly affecting adolescent girls (10-14) and that girls are using more violent means. The study says that the percentage of girls committing suicide is almost that of boys. What do you suppose the underlying causes of this are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:00 AM
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For example?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:50 PM
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When you say suicide rate, are you referring to the study you cited or a different source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:50 PM
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How prevalent do you think this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:43 PM
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Short term effects would probably include an increase in legal proceedings which would take up a lot of time and resources seeing as how this matter has to do with intimate relationships and therefore would be bursting with emotionally charged motives and reactions. Long term we would probably see a break down in laws that protects the rights of individuals. Privacy laws (the government regulating interactions that take place in private settings) and autonomy laws (people have rights when it com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:42 PM
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"One potential explanation for this finding is that the mental health of male adolescents improved during the pandemic, thus decreasing their need for antidepressants. However, this explanation is not supported by data revealing that emergency department visits for suspected suicide attempts in male adolescents were higher in early 2021 compared with early 2019,[15](javascript:;) or by data revealing that the proportion of male high school students reporting persistent feelings of sadness or hop…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:26 PM
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