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Anyone who wears it on their sleeve in public deserves your reaction. Those people are idiots. Being too interested in something that is just plain unattractive. In more ways than we can quantify.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 08:51 AM
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You dont have to be a follower to get something of value the same way that parables from religious texts can still be useful regardless of your belief in the ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 01:17 AM
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Yeah I do agree. It goes both ways. You don't think all of the hate for the reds over at TBP doesn't "saturate" or change the reader's thoughts? It's clear that there are extremes on both sides. It is almost never the case that the extremes are anywhere near most or even a third of the population. You are painting with a broad brush as if that could really form a good argument. If you could finish what you are really arguing instead of just asking questions that would also be very beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 01:09 AM
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Because the inability to filter the wheat from the chaff is a feature of the people who use trp. Reading TRP does not automatically make you dumber than before or lose mental skills. It is completely dishonest discussion to assert otherwise. Doing so would just tell me that you are not actually interested in having an open conversation or considering viewpoints that do not match your own. Which kind of hilariously, is exactly as you paint the people who visit TRP. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 09:15 PM
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Touche.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:48 PM
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I have no doubt there fuck sticks on both sides. If they're here its most likely they are opinionated and only want to cheer lead their teams ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:12 PM
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cause the bullshit gravy is heavy in this one. Anyone in a normal frame of mind just laughs about it and moves on. You are right that guys with less success or direction with their lives are MUCH more susceptible to believe the crap. Just doesn't really seem much different than people buying into MLM schemes (it works, Amway, etc.) or completely buying into religions that practice hate. People are brainwashed by all kinds of shit. Better just to avoid people who are weak willed enough to get bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:10 PM
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Relationships come down to trust, if he's treating you right it would only make sense to trust that he still has a pure heart. Kind of just gotta agree that this all rides on partners being trustworthy. Really not much more to argue there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:07 PM
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I think also being over the internet is an issue. Face to face discussions come to agreement much more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:03 PM
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I guess I had a certain type in mind when I wrote the post. Can be hard to keep in mind how different everyone's perspectives are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:03 PM
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It's really confusing to me that you think any source of information doesn't have some bullshit that one must wade through in order to get the desired data. Filtering information for truth and bullshit is a common life skill we apply every day. Why is applying it to TRP any different than applying to news websites or promotional material?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:01 PM
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You can also read things without changing your mind. We do it every day. The reality is that we spend most of our lives sorting the BS from the truth anyway, why is applying this life skill to TRP any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:57 PM
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This is weird part that I really don't get. If their behavior is the same, why does it matter how they got there? What if the "natural" had to waste more years and get rejected or fuck up 10x more than the guy who read TRP? It's the same for any learned skill. "Naturals" are not coveted in anything unless they have unusual talent. Most men are not unusual talent TRP or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:55 PM
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I think it's important to distinguish between "hiding" and just never bringing it up. Also their reaction if you found out matters a lot. If they lie about it, apologize or otherwise act shady or capitulate that is a bad outcome. If you are enjoying things I don't see any reason why it would be any different than him finding out that you compared notes with your friends about how to "train" your husband the best. It's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:53 PM
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still had issues in the sexual marketplace Still completely disagree. At least for me it wasn't a complete failure, I was doing fine by normal standards. But I was interested in being better than just average. TRP really helped me delve into the deeper more fundamental aspects of human interaction. The only reason it made any difference was because I went out and practiced, talked to all kinds of people and really applied the information. Once you get into reality it is much easier to separate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 05:51 PM
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used it on me How would it be any different than a man with the same internalized behaviors and attitudes that did not have any knowledge of reddit or the manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 07:04 AM
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As long as your man has boundaries, he can be as beta as he likes if it's what makes him happy. Boundaries are the really critical part of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 07:02 AM
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I think it's unfair to say that all TRP readers have touched or lived at the bottom. Some of us just used it to help sort out the puzzle pieces. Would be like trying to solve a puzzle, obviously with no marking on the pieces and TRP then add numbers and a map so you can just match the number placements to the map. Same task, except that it became WAY easier with more information and data.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 07:02 AM
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TRP basics, listen to actions not words. It's what I always tell my gf when she is unsure about things. You can't argue with real action.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:59 AM
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Would you consider a lurker to be someone with the qualities described? What about a man who finds value in some of the content but not other parts of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:58 AM
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If you were otherwise really enjoying the relationship, what's to say it really matters? Everyone has something about them that you don't know and would be concerned to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 06:56 AM
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Honestly wish more people had experiences with mind expanding compounds. Might help some of the bigots reconsider their crusades. but if you talk about needing a virgin I'm just gonna assume you're shit at sex and don't want her to know better. LOL Yeah pretty much. I used to be shit at sex. Only way to get better was through experience. That might be the disconnect there. Guys not willing to spend the effort for improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:58 PM
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It can be tricky. Usually why I go for the ones who have already been introduced. Easier to find someone experienced rather than deal with them most of the time. Pretty much the same feeling/reasoning why dealing with virgins is worse than most people actually realize. Why Terps dont understand this I will never know. Probably because most all of them are too pussy for even approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:50 PM
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The most basic of business skills! Who needs a college degree amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:46 PM
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Maybe I'll do it with my next gf soon eh? Only if she's ready for it. Can be easy to want to push your fantasies on others sometimes. I'm sure you know not everyone can handle some of those things. Otherwise, as long as she's in a good mental place there is no doubt it would cement a relationship better than concrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:45 PM
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They aren't mutually exclusive. There are also lots of sluts with lives that are a mess. But if they have had to be firm with guys more often, dealing with getting home after crazy nights, know how to do a drug deal, etc. that's kinda more what I meant. Tailored more to my style I guess was how I thought of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:44 PM
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Your value should only be evaluated by the people you are looking for approval from :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:41 PM
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Nothing quite like a mutual X or lsd trip. Truly a journey to another world. You seem like my style of personality. Cheers mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:40 PM
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Tall girls have long legs. mmm. Legs. my gf is 5'11". guess its my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:39 PM
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Sometimes it's worth just relaxing and taking the low stress route. But only if it's by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:38 PM
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Men wanting women without experience is kinda weird. Why would someone deliberately go for the complete fucking n00b (figuratively and literally)? Seems like a waste of time to me. Dealing with insecurities fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:37 PM
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These women are just as capable and trustworthy because of their life experience. Women with little experience dealing with the hurdles of life are a pain in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:35 PM
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I agree. I believe that sluttier women are able to gain much more life experience through their journeys and as such are MUCH more able to relate with the "realness" that men are forced to deal with. Sluts know the deal and know how to handle themselves. That genre of character traits is very attractive to upper tier men who have something going in life. Basically just that the women who have been through more do not need to be micro managed or anything. Her partner can be confident that she is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 11:33 PM
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Really the explanation that makes the most sense to me is related to what people are looking for. People looking for the types of connections that tinder or OKCupid provide are obviously going to be who makes up their user base. Chad who wants casual sex is going to be on tinder - but because so many of the Thads and Brads are busy actually dating really hot girls (kick ass careers and lifestyles tend to work better with stable partners), chads only make up that top 20%. This gives the impressio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/17 09:26 AM
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People still pay ass loads of money to go to clubs where the drinks are $12-15 and listen to a DJ or rap artist "jam" or "rap" for 30-45 mins playing their pre-recorded hits. Money is still there, quality just took a big nose dive.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 06:39 AM
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a social circle of similar social awkwardness That will only be able to hang with the lower tiers of females. If you're stuck down there, make the most of it for sure but other guys sure as shit are NOT going to take a big hit just for you (unless they are really your bros and know they can score whenver).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 05:09 AM
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Time to really stop giving a fuck! TRP says that will get you pussy lmao. Hope things improve for you dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 05:01 PM
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No one wants to hang out with a creep. It scares all of the girls they want away. Might just be guys with macho egos that believe this but I would wager that your "average" guy from most of the US would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 05:00 PM
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Yeah there are a LOT of bullshit definitions from crazies. I like a lot of TRP concepts but only when applied rationally. I've certainly had other impressions of what AWALT means to RP. Like what? If it's anything other than 100% blah blah then I would be interested to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 03:23 PM
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You always make the conversation about you, regardless of the topic. That's really what the previous poster meant. It happens every time. You seem not to be able to make comments without bringing up how you are involved with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 03:18 PM
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that this a good heuristic to apply to women women act in their own self interest even if it hurts men they are/were romantically involved with. Seems pretty good to me. Women hurt men all the time. I am sure it happens every single day of the year. that men do it any less. They probably do it exactly the same amount. I am sure RPW or wherever women get their information would be saying exactly the same thing. AMALT. It's totally fair to expect less from people until they show you who they reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 03:03 PM
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Only idiots think in absolutes. TRP has a lot of idiots. I really don't understand how anyone could seriously think that someone truly believes AWALT as a concrete 100% absolute idea. That is just fuckin' ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 03:00 PM
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AWALT = women act in their own self interest even if it hurts men they are/were romantically involved with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 01:21 AM
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It would be a very true thing to say that sometimes women definitely act immature when they are feeling lots of emotions. Whether they are on their period, giddy and excited, bored and acting dumb, whatever. It definitely happens. Men do this too but again TRP is aimed at mens strategy so it should be unsurprising they do not really focus on men being dorks and doofuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 01:18 AM
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And they're all way too soft to go and lay some game on chicks in real life. Compete where they can't or won't!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 06:35 PM
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**last couple weeks of approaching girls and their numbers so at least 10-15. One might bite, who knows.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 06:30 PM
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Go for it and start feeling her pussy after you grab her ass. "grab her by the pussy" is correct advice in this scenario. You will know how it went pretty fast.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:35 PM
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sometimes it's worth running through the last couple weeks of texts and throwing out a couple hail marries, then deleting their number.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:16 PM
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That may be, but really someone who is street smart and can get stuff done is far more valuable than someone with just a degree. The people who are bought into the college system are understandably interested in keeping a degree in high regard. To not do so would devalue their own degree basically. The feedback loop is pretty easy to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 12:23 AM
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I would not be with my bf if he did not let me stay in his house without helping to pay his mortgage. So now you EXPECT handouts? Aren't feminists all about equality? Mortgages are a pretty large burden. Maybe you could get some of these guys on your side if you started drawing up contracts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:50 PM
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I go to a large state university. Students at more specialized arts or technical school are obviously likely to be more engaged. Just wanted to illustrate that "college" in America spits out a LOT of idiots. TL;DR because someone went to college does not automatically make them smart or a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:28 PM
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Maybe it's different in Norway. Here in the US I can say pretty certainly that most of the students are not coming to college with education as their #1 goal. Usually having fun by any means necessary and copying their homework an hour before it's due. Obviously some students are really engaged but really many people in the US see college as more of a rite of passage to a higher social class than a time to actually become highly educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:14 PM
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Why assume that a bachelor's means anything other than parents who can afford it? There are tons of kids who are cheating their way through college and coming out the other side with a BS degree and earning $40k per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/17 05:03 PM
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I can immediately tell if someone is following pick up theory because it's fucking obvious. I (like many women) like men who are authentic and have a skill/hobby/interest/talent they're passionate about. You must be dealing with amateurs. The guys who are good at improvising and already know how to blend the flirting with their legitimate interests will appear normal. The actually experienced guys are MUCH better with the nuance and coming off as natural. Because it IS natural for them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 04:59 PM
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Nah dude its like squares and rectangles. All creepy behavior is unattractive but not all unattractive behavior is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 04:21 PM
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I gotta say talking about having kids is pretty much 0-100 real quick. Would be a red flag for me if a woman was talking like that! Most definitely creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 03:11 AM
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Did some googling, doesn't sound like me at all. Definitely not envious of the upper classes and also not a hippie. Just really try to make my way through the world with something I can enjoy looking back on before I die and maybe record some stories or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 09:14 PM
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Business and engineering types definitely have different ways of thinking. It would not be surprising to say that business people are much more likely to have social skills being a major part of their success. This obviously would translate to their respective children. May have been unclear but I was referencing that the parent's majors make the biggest difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 09:48 PM
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Possible that it was a personal health issue that had no connection to another person performing the same work? Sounds reasonable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 05:45 PM
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a disproportionate number of kids in college have had their ways paved for them by mom and dad. Definitely have seen that. Though to be fair there are a LOT of kids in business school who have real life skills but also got their shit paid for. Seems to me that parents who are business people impart much more real life into their kids minds than STEM and accountant types. Also, unsurprisingly those STEM lords come with a flat, milquetoast personality. Really though as someone young, I always like…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 05:44 PM
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Since we agree, I want to ask you about a sort of 3rd option. How would you classify someone who earns money to enable them to have experiences. Whether that is starting a business you always wanted, following your dreams being a pro ice skater or even just being able to travel the world? As in, money is just a means to an end, but definitely not the end goal. I have a very hard time relating with either of the perspectives that you mentioned. Neither really makes sense or seems to be extremely …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 05:38 PM
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Yeah, I go to class with those people. There are idiots everywhere, but what really is so surprising is the lack of critical thinking among youth. College really does NOT teach you those critical thinking skills that apply to anything outside of academia. Kids use critical thinking to solve class assignments, but can't seem to bring that out into the real world. (Very much including STEM lords) People really don't question things often enough to get a good picture of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 05:27 PM
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Hiding debt problems becomes the norm with a demanding spouse. Realistically you can carry a large amount of debt if you have assets. Easy to live way above your pay grade if you are an idiot or a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:26 PM
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But the UMC and UC are about building and consolidating generational wealth. Touching on this point a bit, I really believe that there is a completely different view to the purpose of having and earning money for UMC vs WC folks. UMC and above stock pile money. They plan for a future far beyond their end. They make money more to make money and be rich to cement their right to live with dignity. Something like that (not verbatim, just the spirit). WC and lower classes are much more about spending…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:24 PM
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oh yeah definitely... I was specifically thinking of university students, though. Colleges tend to tell you that you can expect a really high salary right off the bat and it rarely comes to fruition. It's a recruiting tool. It's actually really surprising to me that people actually believe those stats. Like somehow everyone is top of the class AND has awesome negotiating skills AND can demand it. Boggles the mind how non critical some people are of people claiming you can strike it rich. Same ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:20 PM
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Her story always comes to mind when I think of the challenges women face physically in the long run without a balanced lifestyle. How about anyone who works a very strenuous job? There are FAR more difficult occupations that being an architect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 04:02 PM
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To spin this around, I could say it's only weak, insecure women that care about some men not wanting to date sluts. If they were secure in themselves, they wouldn't care, because they'd have the confidence to know that they can land a quality guy anyways. This is definitely ALSO true. Insecurity may not be the only factor but I am sure it plays a huge part in all of this for men and women both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 07:35 PM
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The more experienced guys know that you can only ever really know what the woman is like after flirting with her. See what kind of game you can play and what their demeanor is like. I mean hot girls are hot whether they are in a turtleneck or yoga pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/17 07:15 PM
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If only more people encouraged accountability for your own actions in society things would very likely be much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 08:29 PM
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According to the law it's straight up sexual assault, that being said I never felt "extremely violated" or "emotionally disturbed" by it, but the fact that its not all that commonplace might be OP's point. The whole debate about this subject seems to lie in these varying degrees of assault. Some feel those events you experienced from close friends mean nothing, others think that they are a big deal. Many guys have such a negative reaction as the OP asserts however I really think that the reactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 06:03 AM
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Okay so the follow up is since they were all people you know, what makes things go from "awkward moment" to straight sexual harassment? To me at least grabbing ass or some titty isn't really that bad despite being a bit aggressive. No worse than any other overly-intimate acts. There most certainly is a difference, but if a social faux pas is classed the same way as deliberate and repeated aggressive sexual advances people will be getting unnecessarily slammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 05:34 AM
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By creating intimacy I simply mean doing something to sustain an open, honest, non-critical, compassionate, and supportive style of communication with your partner that produces feelings of closeness and understanding. That should have been going on the whole relationship! You might be having some trouble if you failed to build the foundation of the partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 03:17 AM
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The "respect women" message most certainly will not change the behavior of those men who were seriously sexually harassing you. That's what makes it annoying. The message is completely a waste of time because the people who need to hear it do not care. instead all of the men who do not do those things get brow beat and brainwashed into believing that they can get what they want with these hilarious "girls only" type of respect. If anything I really believe that the recent push towards this type …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 02:48 AM
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without discussing it with him and expecting him to pay for it. Lack of respect right there. Sounds like she's already taking him for granted. Good luck to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 02:41 AM
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calling girls is way more effective. definitely impresses the ones with good communication skills haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 06:21 PM
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High value people will always expect greatness. Lame ass competition just helps make it easier if you don't suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 12:36 AM
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I managed to make food today without burning the stove. That's a pretty low bar for unconditional love dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 07:28 PM
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They are from the south. Really most places pretty far from the coasts or away from big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:23 AM
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My cousin just got married, practiced abstinence. There are definitely a LOT of people who are like that in this world. The internet definitely skews things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 10:05 PM
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What are you talking about? Guy 2 is very achievable for plenty of men. The exercise part just kinda gets in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 09:56 PM
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waste of time to tame their ego for sure. Being liked is definitely pretty important to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 09:51 PM
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Agree with this completely. Really do not understand the aversion. As others said the most likely reason is probably inexperience on the guy's end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 09:24 PM
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Still bending to the will of the patriarchy huh? Srat? Still a frat! lmao wish I had emojis on the computer Also weird how people don't see that the hot girls usually are into serial monogamy with hot, rich, swole boyfriends rather than take some random dick that comes with no perks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:34 PM
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Not to be a dick, but really it looks like you used this to justify posting about your own beliefs. I hope you enjoyed it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:29 PM
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I mean lets be real and admit that TRP does have a few holes here and there. It certainly is not what I would want to construct my entire world view out of. I believe that it is important to entertain some more "out there" arguments simply for the practice in dealing with them. If you are never presented with a normal type of reaction to some of these ideas it can really go to your head. TBP is like the rookie league. Great for a warm up, but really wont get you all the way there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:28 PM
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Same as with the red pill. They have very distinct theories and beliefs. The beliefs are so extreme that very few of them wish to go public with them. You are either red pill or you're not. See this is where we depart. I really do not think this is true. If you define redpill as butthurt and angry sure, I would think you made an accurate statement. Not everyone who goes on TRP or PPD is an ugly sperg. Some of us are good looking and also used TRP to accelerate our trajectory and refine our skill…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:25 PM
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You can discuss the merits of the ideas? How normal people debate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 04:21 PM
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Yeah I understand what you are saying - it definitely is more exciting when personal stuff gets into the mix. However when there are more serious threads actually discussing more general topics relating to TRP/TBP and the world, digging deep into someone's reasoning is an easy way out to invalidate their argument. I suppose I could have simply stated that people insert their own contexts and scenarios for other people's arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 08:35 PM
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Can you clarify the difference between "your own opinions" and "your personal reasoning"? Sure. We'll use the "disgusted by high N count women" example Personal opinion: I think high N count women are disgusting and completely unfit for marriage. Personal reasoning (for having that opinion): Thinking about so many man meats have been inside that girl is extremely repulsive. Women who sleep around are morally corrupt. Whores are damaged and have mental issues. Focusing on why people have their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 08:32 PM
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TheRedPill has to defend red pill theories. Otherwise, why are they identifying as red pill? Same as if you're in the KKK - you have to defend the basic principles - otherwise why are you KKK? If you pick and choose between red pill and anti-red pill theories, then you should flair purple. I certainly agree that support is necessary. However the distinction that I am trying to make is about low effort attack arguments. An example I saw today was about a post on TRP referencing "All single moms a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 08:25 PM
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I know reality is there but who isn't tempted to enjoy things while they last? As long as there's no butthurt there's no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 06:33 PM
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Discussing topics without also inserting your own reasoning for holding the view point. Literally just talking about the idea. Not why you hold it (which certainly is important, but much more of a side bar). Many posters get caught up in a morally righteous whirlwind of excitement and want to share why they are so much better. It's all just a bunch of hot air bullshit moral superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 06:29 PM
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It is pretty ridiculous that this concept is hard for so many to grasp. Be honest and keep it real!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 07:04 PM
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Shit testing is the female-male equivalent of getting a hard time from your male friends. It's a little bit of ball busting to make sure you aren't and keep you from becoming a huge pussy. In that context it makes a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 05:53 PM
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huh didn't know it wasn't classified as a nootropic. Knew about the GABA thing though, that's what makes it so fun with a few beers! Of course everything in moderation. Plus tolerance build ups are no fun at all. Just a waste all around. Alcohol is cool but there is WAY better stuff out there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 01:05 AM
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Check out Phenibut, a nootropic like caffeine. It will really help you get into the social mood without alcohol! I really like it because it also potentiates alcohol, basically doubles your drink count if you take it. Nothing like a 3 beer hammered!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 12:39 AM
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Tl;dr Men experience performance anxiety when alcohol is not involved. They also experience anxiety when the woman takes charge. Hence hookups are not for teetotallers I completely agree that many men cannot hack it when sober. You are also correct that hookup culture is mostly fueled by alcohol along with hormones. Many men who are not naturals or consciously practicing game will have a hard time sober. The alcohol helps smooth out shortcomings and increase the margin for error with women. Pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 12:36 AM
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There is nothing better than a hot girlfriend with an IUD and no STD's. Condom's become obsolete! There are some ways to get pretty close to a winning situation haha
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:00 AM
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That sounds like a pain in the ass. Why not find someone who is actually enjoyable to hang out with? Pussy is definitely an acceptable answer but really you're only making your life worse by dealing with mediocrity instead of what you really want!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 11:58 PM
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IUD all day baby. The only way to fly. But i always used condoms with short term partners. Kids were definitely a no go for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 04:43 AM
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It is honestly pretty hard for me to do this, but I gotta pull out occam's razor. The simplest explanation is pure idiocy and hormones. Also some insecurity. Stupid is as stupid does. KISS. Idiots everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 04:40 AM
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They're the ones doing the alleged biased grading or telling the students which majors they should choose. Other students have little say in how well women do in STEM and zero say in whether they choose a STEM major. The students have little to nothing to do with it. People of all kinds must be able to push through some resistance in pursuit of what they want. Nothing is easy or free. There WILL be some difficulty and women must also be able to overcome the challenge. EDIT: Yeah I agree and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 05:37 PM
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Men that are so manly that they don't go to the doctor if they are sick or that need to bash homosexuals to show how straight and manly they are. Men that don't go with the times and become a modern man that cares about his appearance, can cook, etc. I have always been a bit confused by this. Is it not more a function of stupidity than "toxic masculinity"? I mean let's hold them accountable for being complete buffoons to the point where they hurt themselves. Far as I am concerned seems like a gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 05:29 PM
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I read most of the abstracts. It was not a small amount of information. Most of them were about grad school or PhD's and working in academia (a very small amount of people to begin with). My experience has showed that the bias and negative feelings mostly come from the professors or advisors than the students. The students are living in this reality whereas the older people came of age in a very different time. I have never seen a girl catch shit for studying STEM. Pretty much all of the student…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 05:14 PM
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The article you linked included lots of papers on higher level academia. There was almost no mention of undergrad. The data looked like the same kind of thing with women being high ups in corporations. They are likely going to have to seem bitchy and unlikeable to get there while also definitely not spending much time away from work. A lot of women do not like working that much compared to men. I am currently a STEM student and can honestly say that there are plenty of women who enroll at the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 04:59 PM
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TRP Also advocates for being cunning and smart enough to know when to say things and when NOT to say things. Remember that silly line about fight club? Don't talk about TRP and no one will know. How could you form any kind of quality insult or counterargument without that little nugget? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 04:49 PM
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Yeah it's related. If men are able to contribute and work together with others who also have jobs, what changes when he becomes romantically interested? Do men really expect women to take care of their own house? (the man's) As in taking over all of the stuff that he was previously doing before she came into his life? Asking as a guy. But still early 20's so really have no idea. I am constantly surprised at the low quality of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:50 PM
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If men can do their share of housework with roommates, why can't they do the same share of work with their spouses?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 06:51 PM
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I truly do believe that it is important to make the distinction of time period. When I came across TRP in 2013, it was much different. I gained a lot of quality information and improved significantly. Though I was also one of those people who had some success and was able to understand the information much better. But year, TRP 3 years ago is NOT TRP today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 06:44 PM
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$6 too much to risk The whole idea is about the principle that both parties are taking an equal risk by spending their time to go meet someone. I shouldn't owe them a coffee just for showing the fuck up. That's just a participation trophy. Really the heart of the issue is that I really believe that MY time is worth exactly the same as any woman's. They don't get prizes just for attendance. Youth do not have anywhere near the same types of expectations that even 30yo women do. Culture has been mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 06:34 PM
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Men with real life achievements are sure of their value. However if a guy is starved of female attention his biological drives can most definitely over power any logical reasoning and drive him wild. If a guys is not at all succeeding with women it can feel like a major life failing, despite being economically or otherwise a success. Men who have felt even a whiff of power in the SMP and are more experienced being intimate with women are much less affected by this issue. Then you get to the part…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 04:48 PM
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I can tell you are probably as hot as you say by all the hilarious emojis. It's great. Brings a bit of levity to this sub. Rock on!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 12:01 AM
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Just because those are the 3 main market forces does NOT mean that they are the only way to success. It's confusing how you seem to live in a world that is black and white. Chads and incels. The real world has plenty of average people who breed together. I guess you haven't gotten out of the anger phase, or at least past the acceptance phase and gotten out into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 10:27 PM
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Would you be open to considering that plenty of 4's 5's and 6's are only interested in a relationship? If so then they certainly will not be "have had fun in their teens and 20s with chads and then decide they want to marry and have kids." Honestly it's not that I want to prove you wrong, I just want you to admit that there is more than one way to get pussy in this world that doesn't include chad, money or social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 04:47 PM
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1 if she's horny. 2 and I'll have more respect. If we get to 3 I know she wants me but is playing hard to get. Really annoying. Not wasting more time if she doesn't put out on date 3. Date 4 doesn't exist without some sexytimes. These days there really doesn't seem to be much stigma about getting to the point. I find that fewer and fewer women are playing hard to get once they are already really attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 04:52 PM
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They prob don't have sex on the first date unless she's desperate and he is perfect in every way. Dinner dates make it hard to get revved up. Anything where you can touch each other makes a huge difference. I find women are very responsive and enjoy being caressed/touched quite a lot. Dinner doesn't really get those types of feelings going.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 04:42 PM
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I'm in California. Everyone loves going outside here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 04:13 PM
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just one man would like to do something that gets us out in the fresh air and moving around! Yeah I mean that's just my personality type but again it really helps with weeding out the people who are completely incompatible or a waste of time. Perhaps attractiveness is the ticket to this wonderland? How so? If you have a leg up on sex appeal it makes everything easier. Since I haven't seen it from the other side, do men really have to work that much harder to impress a girl? Is money spending abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 04:08 PM
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Funny you separate it like that. I actually try to use it to weed out girls who are boring, girls with spaghetti arms and no fitness, girls who complain, girls with no imagination. The list goes on. I mean that I use this style of dating to find legitimately genuine women who I relate well with. How well we relate determines their place from ONS up to girlfriend. You would assume that the trad con people would want easy ways to figure out what kind of girl they are dealing with. Dinner dates are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 10:54 PM
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I mean if you literally saw something that you could not explain away with more reasons, would you believe it? The rationalizing has to end somewhere right? If it doesn't then you aren't speaking truth, you're in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 10:51 PM
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IF you saw a 6 dude bring an 8 home from the club, would you still be in denial? Was it a fluke? How about the second time? The third? Really considering if it is within you to ever change your mind, and what the evidence would be for that to happen. You seem to have such conviction with this idea of attractiveness ruling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 07:24 PM
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But that doesn't exist in a vacuum. You're right. It exists in a world where people will take this new study, compare it with the previous and take it as gospel now that it has been "repeated". Most of your post I really do not understand. I am concerned with people using weak studies to hammer bullshit down everyone's throats. I really take issue with the direction all of this anti rape/sexual assault is going. The altruism that once surrounded these ideas is most certainly being replaced with …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 07:05 PM
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Women make their own money. I like women who can handle themselves enough to cover their own stuff. I will fund the first date. By fund usually doesn't include buying stuff specifically for them. Think gas money or purchasing special ingredients for a meal. No. My dating style basically eliminates this common trope. Now I am not sure if this is something to do with my age (college) but really traditional dating has never been a reality to me. I always make dates activities that: A. I would alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 06:58 PM
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The problem is that authorities are legitimizing these personal slights that everyone deals with. The idea is you don't grind against random people, and you both look for signs you're both into the experience. Sure works for some, but really lets not pretend that the idea is anywhere close to reality. The low response rate is also a pretty large red flag. If someone is more affected or thinking about these ideas the chance they respond is much higher. This is not about pressing charges. It is ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 04:39 PM
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the threat of that touch Does this go as far as to include something like a girl feeling anxiety that some guy is going to try and grind on her? How legitimized to the victims feels need to be? Where is that line is the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 02:06 AM
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That being said, 1 in 10 is still pretty depressing. When you have so many kids getting intoxicated and horny the chances of mistakes on behalf of both genders increases a LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 07:49 PM
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G3. Since you have been attending [University], has someone used physical force or threats of physical force to do any of the following with you: • kissing • touching someone’s breast, chest, crotch, groin or buttocks • grabbing, groping or rubbing against the other in a sexual way, even if the touching is over the other’s clothes When you define sexual assault to be exactly what happens at every single awesome party or poppin' bar it would be expected that the result would be extraordinary. I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 07:46 PM
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The study that your link references also classifies "non consensual touching" the same way as "intimate partner violence". I would stand to reason that the reason they were able to replicate the results is because of a similarly watered down version of "sexual assault". If they want to keep labeling something "assault" it should probably actually be defined by activities that fit the definition of the word - violence, battery, physical resistance, etc. Otherwise it really makes it hard to take t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 07:40 PM
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And yet that little brain in our pants still gets men into relationships with these crazy women. I would say women are a lot more likely to actually follow the advice when it comes down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 07:16 PM
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living in the first world. That's what really does it even to those with the quality skills. Some time living at the poverty line here in america would probably be enough to get most kids to suck less later on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 02:31 AM
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Believing in the "gray area" would be understanding that both sides of the spectrum are possible, not being surprised when either end is fulfilled, but really hoping that reality won't be so harsh. I can want something to be true and also accept the reality at the same time. It's not all or nothing per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/16 01:48 AM
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No. Men get different messages. Men are told not to follow their passion, but to do what makes money. What they really want is secondary to their success as measured by other people. This is just as bad as what you are claiming. But why should women have it harder than men? They don't, not these days anyway. They are both misdirected in youth. I would even go so far as to say that women have it easier than men in STEM subjects and the like. The "reverse discrimination" is a completely real thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:19 PM
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This is far too overly general. Seriously getting into AWALT territory type generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:11 PM
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These beliefs have been challenged in the last century. Plenty of households are based on a double income and the man is no longer able to bring as much bargaining power, men should be sensitive and sweet and feminine, it's really what women have always wanted anyway. Men simply don't have the balls to act aggressive anymore, especially criminally so. Yes, you have no right to admire a girl with a miniskirt, that makes you an eye rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:08 PM
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There is a limit to how much you can blame the "narrative". At some point if these women are really so strong they should be able to overcome SOME kind of barrier to entry. Nothing in life is a walk in the park, it is absurd to expect women to only be able to do things that are made very easy for them. Your argument about the narrative is almost condescending to women. "the narrative convinces women they suck!" but in reality the women who are convinced they suck probably didn't have the gusto t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/16 06:04 PM
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yeah, but those guys deserve it by the grace of their superior looks. Haha superior looks are most definitely not a prerequisite for sex. Even a solid 6-7 guy can be getting easy pussy if he's got some good game. I know these guys. I have seen them get pussy. My own experience has proven it again and again. Because they are only attracted to male models type. If a woman isn't a fattie, that is. Really not sure how you could be serious. Lets think: lumberjack look, hipster types, crunchy hippies,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 05:46 PM
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For thousands of years men went to war to gain the right to gain wife. Now they think they can go pump iron and take steroids and bam, pussy abounding incoming. Nah. Who cares. Many guys get pussy for free, with less effort. The world isn't fair. Really dont understand how this could be an objection but I guess I have been surprised before. Nah. I don't really interact with people outside of my social circles. But you still act like you KNOW for a fact that people are only attracted to model typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 04:41 PM
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So you aren't a fan of slutty girls. Congrats. I am really surprised no one went off and started accusing you of being one of those RP incels who demand a hymen haha On topic, Yeah I agree being so open about it is a turnoff. To me its a green light to go out and just be rough with her. If they're that slutty anyway i am sure they will enjoy some nice rough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 04:37 PM
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What's up with giving this guy so much shit? You already said it at least one time. Must be the insecurity leaking through the cracks. How sad. Your view of what can be attractive is so warped I wonder if you have ever really been out in the world with anyone OTHER than "model" types out in LA. He's jacked and not fat, plenty good enough to score some poon if he didnt act like a sperg.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/16 04:28 PM
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A guy having to beg for sex is a huge red flag that they have absolutely no idea what they are doing and are also extremely pathetic. If a woman still sleeps with him she is an idiot or completely ignorant to the SMP. Which I doubt the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/16 01:13 PM
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I completely agree, but if I am really true to RP principles I kinda have to treat men's disposition to do things to get pussy the same way I treat women's disposition to break down men's minds. Not always relevant, but not a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/16 12:33 AM
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Logically your argument makes sense. If you could ever find one single guy who never did something he thought would get him some pussy you deserve a nobel prize. AMALT. Even that incel playing WoW probably gave some good shit to a girl player one time so she would like him. Like I said, Hind brain. Not regular brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 04:26 PM
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the idea that its universal is misandrist and essentializing As a guy, it is still the damn truth at the bottom of it. The hind brain is one convincing little bastard. Who cares if something is an "ist" if it's true?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 04:16 PM
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too bad it really is true one way or another. Directly or indirectly. Really wanting a high paying career can be just as much about liking the subject as wanting to be rich and have a hot wife. Really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 03:56 PM
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(because it's already born) in the OP he specifically states that the financial abort must be decided within or sooner than the time frame of an abortion. If the man ran away and never did the paper work it would most certainly be his to support.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 03:36 PM
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I would have thought you were red with such an egotistical outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 05:43 PM
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I love how well you get the RP's to act just as illogical as the BP's sometimes. I admire your affinity for equality in embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 05:41 PM
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You really rarely actually refute anyone's arguments. Lots and lots of short comments asking for more evidence or dissmissing something as "your opinion" (which is the same standard of evidence you provide). People may take you more seriously if your posts and comments had actually reasoned out arguments. There's just too much intellectual waffling for anything to be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 05:36 PM
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perfect, I will finally be able to easily see who has better genetics. No more lies!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/16 01:42 AM
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I dont see why it's any different than expecting men to initiate and approach women in public. Once you are dating things get more intimate but the social roles dont really change much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 06:27 PM
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So its not the red pill, its the kinds of people who REALLY need help. The red pill is mainstream enough to be used as the title for that documentary by Cassie Jaye that just came out. The information is not a secret and most are aware of what it encompasses. People who are in their own club/group/etc. use shorthand language because everyone understands. People who cannot translate TRP jargon into normal words are those people who REALLY need some help. The same information from attractive peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 04:45 PM
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It's not the information, it's the demographic! Surely you agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 04:34 PM
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If the man she's having casual sex with offered to be her boyfriend, would she say yes? I would argue most would say no. How on earth would she even have the smallest idea of who or what the guy is? Chances are the most she remembers are his name and a few catchy lines he dropped on her the night before. Unless the sex was unreal I think most would NOT want to date them immediately the morning after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 04:49 PM
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Always great to have a good reason for another sex session and seduction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/16 07:27 PM
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I don't see what we should be jelly of Being rich, tall, muscular AND slaying poon with a broadsword. Why not have both? There are most certainly STEM lords out there who are awesome. They just realized it was better to be in business lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 06:43 PM
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Insecurity relating to beauty pretty much guarantees a shallow personality. Why would they give looks so much weight if they really had all that much else to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 03:48 PM
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I meant that insecurity from society's "messages" of what make people beautiful really should dissipate after teen years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 06:29 PM
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At some point it is most definitely on YOU to stop buying into the hype. No one was telling you what to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 06:09 PM
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talk on whatsapp You mean SET UP THE DATE on whatsapp. There should be minimal witty banter but mostly setting up the date. It's almost a waste of time to actually try and chat with them through text. It is extremely difficult to really communicate how fun and awesome you are using only words.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:08 PM
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Excellent list! I definitely most agree with Does not shy away from hardship and suffering. In fact he relishes the opportunity to take on challenges and grow stronger. To me this is a major part of people's personalities that really shows true character.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:20 PM
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Honestly curious, do you think there is any difference between calling over the plate on a week night or fapping and going to sleep? Been pretty much going every day im not getting it and everything is still awesome.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 03:50 AM
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Really seems to me that "Beta bucks" is really just a consequence of sucking and not being attractive. People do what you let them and if you give someone valid reasons not to work with you, the results may not always be to your liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/16 03:27 PM
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Yes I think that people on their wedding day genuinely are attracted and believe they will stay attracted to and in love with their partner forever, but attraction fades so the sex stops. I don't think they consciously seek unattractive beta bux as a free meal ticket, I definitely agree. AFBB is not as premeditated as some RP pundits would have you believe. I really think it is more of a natural course than anything. If you dont keep dating her past the wedding like the chads were dating her bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 10:50 PM
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least she is clearly guilty of perjury Please stop with the childish bs. You so very often come off as very condescending to everyone here who disagrees with you. Its pretty repulsive. It doesn't take a lawyer to see two tapes of people in court that are completely contradictory. Comey got absolutely grilled and admitted that statements directly contrary to what Clinton said in court were true. Not sure how much clearer it could get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 04:58 AM
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Once again picking all the fun, controversial stuff off your RPizza and saying the same thing literally everyone has been saying. I mean AWALT is wrong per se, just sort of targeted towards the perspective of men. Men tend not to use logic when pussy is involved. RP is targeted at men. This connection should be clear. Regardless, we strayed away from your OP about TRP. The guy you met is a sperg. People who read TRP, get some interesting information for thought and leave are not your client. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 03:47 AM
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If you actually take the time to get to know people (this includes women), things like AWALT start to magically dissipate from ever being a plausible concept. AWALT is best applied as all people are like that. Given the right circumstances every human looks out for themselves first. I do not have a problem with a random man trying to steamroll my decisions because I wouldn't allow that to be present in my life. "Steam rolling" decisions is not a power dynamic, its a dictatorship. Most people are…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 03:03 AM
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At the very least she is clearly guilty of perjury - regardless of the emails. Even THAT wasn't prosecuted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 02:40 AM
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If you go on dates that don't depend on spending money it really is easy. Hiking, playing in the park, grabbing coffee, etc. But yah being hot definitely helps, you can get away with more.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 09:14 PM
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Don't do formal dates. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 09:13 PM
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You bring the interested question of where the line should be drawn. At what point does it go from "should have known better" to "the spouse was lazy and did not contribute anything"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 01:43 AM
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Im sure you have noticed that people's actions rarely match what they are actually saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:38 PM
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Do you have any friends over age 30 who listen to Nicki Minaj, Lil Wayne or Luke Bryan nonironically, who think Olive Garden is authentic Italian cuisine? So you basically just said trump supporters are people who have never been able to get more than 50 miles from their remote rural town.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 04:26 PM
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It's not their fault, it's just the way they are. Or maybe they are just too #basic to stay with someone they are attracted to because their friends don't like it. You can be a really good woman and a good person but still not eant to date a guy that's really short. You said there were several women interested in you. Some women are fine with who you are. Now you just have to find one with supportive and awesome friends as well. Let's be real for a minute and remember that people are usually muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:03 PM
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I got way more poon after leaving the frat surprisingly. Like way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:00 PM
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Really though besides getting a nice bang in, would you ever really enjoy hanging with someone whose mind can so easily be swayed? Who succumbs to group think and peer pressure like it's their day job? Women who have that mentality are definitely good for a fuck, but ANYONE who is so easily led like a sheep is a poor choice for much more than a plate. When you find someone who actually has their own thoughts and opinions I believe that you will really begin to enjoy feminine company once more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 04:24 PM
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People who have seen it, and done it, understand it to be true. SOME people are capable of that, and everyone thinks that the group they hang with is "average" (it's not, but only to them). When all your friends party hard and crush puss it can be difficult to understand what is average anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 04:16 PM
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Somehow I find it quite hard to believe that with n=20 before I am out of college I am nearly 3x the number of the average man's entire lifetime. Does this mean I'm a player?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 04:14 PM
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I have very little experience with dating That's why you have this opinion. Get off the internet and go outside. People are nice most of the time. If you can manage to avoid shitty women in your life you can manage to avoid shitty men. That's the bottom line. Men are just regular ass people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 03:18 AM
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You forgot the part where he literally talks like trump did in that video that was recently released. It's the mentality that seals the deal on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 02:04 AM
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They may not actually go for it, but they have all definitely thought about having sex with you. More than one time. At least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 11:37 PM
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They assume she married them, so they must be the best in her opinion So they are completely naive? I really have a hard time believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 05:50 PM
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It just wouldn't ever occur to him that he's not the best ever So they are all self absorbed narcissists? Seriously that mentality is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:52 PM
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No, it is basically a fluke. These party cultures (whether a college or a city nightlife scene) exist in their own local bubbles. Because they are so highly idolized and promoted it seems more prominent than it really is. Even at these crazy colleges, it's a very small part of the student body that is part of the "in" crowd that parties like you see in these videos. I'm being completely honest, you're blowing this out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 01:52 AM
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To be honest, I went to one of those schools and yes, that is pretty much every day. Girls wearing yoga pants/booty shorts/sun dresses looking hot. Every. Single. Day. Of the week. It's like booty shorts heaven. Granted not all of the women, mostly just the girls who know they are hot AF and want you to know it. Chad might talk to her in class today (seriously that too is also a reality.) So YES what /u/oilpainter777 is describing is actually a reality. Just not for most people. Although it real…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 09:40 PM
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she's got dick on the side while you don't. If this is part of your assumption, sure it sucks. This type of situation would actually be pretty awesome if you were on the same level. Plenty of backups & potential waiting for your call. Just like her. Most girls who would be this savage would never put up with a guy so soft and lame he didn't have any other options. It's arguing in bad faith if you aren't comparing the "RP" guy at a similar level to this chick. If he's at all awesome and hot enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 04:32 PM
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The answer is always YES for people with an RP mindset. They treat each other the same way are are both in agreement about what's going on. An RP guy would definitely enjoy this type of arrangement if they are into plate spinning. Finally, a woman who thinks the same was as they do. Your whole premise falls apart because it is based on a false assumption that the average RP type guy would be chasing after commitment. Because this assumption is false your argument is easily refuted. But I would a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 04:23 AM
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Reduction to absurdity means absolutely nothing. Not sure about you bud but I would definitely expect far more than a pulse from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 02:56 PM
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good posture is useless when you are unattractive People underestimate the value of your own body language and thought patterns on your mental state. It changes how you feel to act differently. There is a lot of science to back that one up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 07:42 PM
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Your body language is a huge aspect of your looks. On tinder I completely agree with what you said, but in real life there are many more subtle contributions. Even if a girl isn't sure at first the way you act and carry yourself (including mannerisms, speech, etc.) are very important. These types of soft skills can push you 1-1.5 pts out of ten up or down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 07:40 PM
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Just as body language is important for men, I also really agree and believe that it is very important for women. Basics like keeping your shoulders back when you stand, the way you walk, eye control (like in the video), having congruent words and style, all take someone to the next level. A woman who really knows how to walk in heels is 10x sexier than one who is just OK. Women can sabotage a great body just the same was as men with lame and unrefined body language. Though again disclaimer, this…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 07:38 PM
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I have a notion that if I were born a male, they'd have trouble accepting it as much Welcome to that awesome male privilege! haha Just kidding! Really though it's awesome that you seem to have such a leveled opinion. Everyone wins and loses in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 04:01 AM
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Hands around neck, pulling hair (as close to scalp as possible obviously), holding down limbs, leaning on them to keep their body pinned down, all good shit. Pretty sure everyone* can agree those kinds of benign dominance are great fun. *anyone who has had enough sex to know whats up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 07:10 PM
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Yeah. Just because I get pleasure from thinking about sex doesn't mean that I am willing to put up with someone's bullshit to get it. I have enough sex in my life to be able to be discerning. Some people are at a level where they feel a much larger desire to have sex and as such will tolerate more bullshit to get it. Also, it is not mutually exclusive to want to have sex with a beautiful woman but also refuse to jump through hoops to get it. It still gives me pleasure to imagine it, just not eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 02:53 AM
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Once you lose your virginity and look back on this post you are going to cringe so hard its not even funny. Mlady. Dear gentlesir, I must comment that your writing style is surely one of a distinguished gentleman who is of a noble caliber. Such vocabulary is the only way to accurately describe the precise causes of your worries. Have thou ever considered perhaps that such personality is not effective?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 06:41 PM
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For example, if men have 5x fewer people interested in them for casual sex, we'd have to see something like women being 10x more likely to care about their partner for it to be the case that men have an easier time finding a partner who cares. The degree to which women have an inclination for men to care about cuddling with them after sex has absolutely nothing to do with percentages or ratios. Women want men who they are attracted to who care. You forgot the qualifier that most all of women's p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 11:07 PM
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The problem is that until men are sufficiently attractive to have options and feel the dating dynamic from anywhere near what a woman does, they will never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:30 PM
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The dating world is unfair because men just don't get it. Most men honestly believe, inaccurately, that women have as easy a time getting laid with partners who care as they do. Because they are at a severe advantage they don't understand their privilege in the arena of the casual hookup. There are wins and losses on both sides. Funny how you can literally flip comments to the other gender without much effort, goes to show how it's really not all that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:26 PM
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Are you sympathetic to dating woes of a woman of a 33 year old woman who hit the wall? Probably not, so why is it so unfair that dating is hard for young men. One can see it coming for 10 years and prepare. The other hasn't known anything else for their whole lives. That's the difference. If you literally miss signals for 10 years it's hard to feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:23 PM
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the point was just to get a negative response, to hear no, and to be ok with it. Acceptance of rejection in a nutshell. Men are usually more comfortable with being denied. It goes a loooong way for thinking nothing of asking for something. What's the worst they could say, "No"? Insecurity is definitely a major factor as well. Maybe some other things like women caring more in general about other people's opinions of them. I swear if women spend any time at all going to spit game on other women du…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:21 PM
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Ford GT definitely the most interesting. It's a very sexy car. Look it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:15 PM
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You win the prize for most plausible explanation. The simplest answer is usually right. It's almost like the TRP poster's ego is blinding him now that he's a muscle bound alpha women just cant keep their hands off. Though it is nice to know some of them still are optimistic (BP in their mind) enough to think the best of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:12 PM
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Maybe this is why men succeed more professionally. They are much more used to chasing their goals and being assertive enough to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 04:47 PM
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I really think its more of a personality thing. I don't give 2 shits whats on the box if it does the job. Some people care. Some people pay more because they care. Those people can't complain it costs more. That's all. The opportunity is available for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 06:04 AM
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Your argument is making the assumption that men are always trying to get at the woman. Men with options have a very similar dating experience to women. I guess you are talking at men without options, which I guess is your choice. Just don't forget there are plenty of people who don't put up with or even consider most of the bullshit dating "expectations"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:33 AM
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Have you ever bought a ''feminine'' hygiene product because it was a better deal? Definitely have bought products that were definitely not marketed at my gender at all. I usually find out which ones are the good stuff on the internet. Gender is so strong that most people just don't buy stuff that's meant for the other gender. Lazy, ignorant, conforming, never had to shop thrifty. Take your pick. People can do better if they try. Not even trying and complaining is what I think is the ridiculous p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:31 AM
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That is basically the only thing men are thinking about when they see a beautiful woman. Literally the only thing. Goes a long way to explain your opinion of men getting some magical hormones from it. Thinking about sex makes you horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:19 AM
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People don't know that these products are exactly the same and can't be differentiated aside from the fact that one is pink People who are too lazy to actually look at the active ingredients in products and compare deserve to pay more. It's a tax on the lazy and ignorant if anything. Smart women will still spend the time to find the best deals on stuff. People who are used to just buying whatever without comparing ingredients or prices pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:08 AM
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Im talking about arizona state. Google it at least once with any variation of "party". It's the stereotype shit to an absolute T. Sometimes I do forget it really is a bubble though. Scottsdale az is also extremely similar. Quite a wild night life scene out here even after college.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 03:18 AM
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it is an alcoholic with a dad bod in a frat. So wrong it's not funny. Sure dad bod frat star bros probably pull harder than regular dad bod betas but they sure arent pulling the quality girls. There are so many physically attractive men the hot college women absolutely do not need to settle for a dad bod. So it's alcoholic gym bros with huge arms.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 02:44 AM
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I think it's the sense of being ''watched'' in public, especially when you're uncomfortable with your appearance that triggers this reaction. It's sort of funny you say its about insecurity because if someone looks twice its definitely because they like what they are seeing. Plus like...yoga pants...mmm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 05:21 PM
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Youre definitely right as far as sorority girls/ those involved in the social scenes are concerned. Plus there is HUGE competition among the men. Gym is absolutely packed with huge, swole gym bros. Just like there are hot girls, there are many, many attractive men. Though I do think things have changed substantially in the recent past. Tinder and similar apps have definitely made it very easy to eschew the whole social status BS. Girls can hide their fuck bois much more easily to protect their r…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 06:38 AM
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Being in a frat in college was pretty god damn sweet to be completely honest. Really one hell of a life experience to say the least. Most of the guys who fit into that scene are NOT successful though. They peak in or just a couple years after college until their connections and pussy dry up. The guys who are in frats and still kick ass outside the confines of a frat party are who you want to know. The dudes who will likely actually be hugely successful in business later on.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 06:34 AM
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I will have you know long legs and a killer ass are definitely sexy to people over 5'3" as well. Damn sexy. mmm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 05:52 AM
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Neither show much interest in staying fit apparently too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 05:45 AM
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I spent a lot of time approaching and read studied body language as well, it sort of becomes natural and is definitely too complex to explain through text. Ultimately though my perspective is probably useless to someone who is struggling because it's easy for me these days. Being tall and attractive definitely skew the outlook too. I definitely was able to learn how to socialize though, anyone can do at least that much!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:53 AM
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Hot women are getting fucked by someone, that's really all the evidence we need to know. If women are getting theirs plenty of men are as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 12:51 AM
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Not really sure where you spend most of your time, but in real life those people are very tiny number. Most guys (the silent majority) arent losing hard enough or havent been burned bad enough to start literally googling their girl problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 11:32 PM
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Okay, we can start with the idea that I haven't been outright rejected in at least 6 months. Tinder makes dating so easy I barley ever have to deal with that kind of bullshit anymore. Choosing your approaches more carefully and going for targeted objectives will yield much better results. There have definitely been times where I had a 50% success rate for getting legit dates. Men who spend their time fucking around hitting on everything that moves will get rejected as often as you say. Men who s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 04:04 PM
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Yeah and....? water is wet. case closed. What exactly are you trying to argue? This whole post seems much more like a circle jerk about validating your own lack of success. Men and women certainly can increase their hit rate, which is something that you dont seem interested in talking about or acknowledging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:29 PM
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Based on the premise you presented you are not wrong that most guys are definitely getting rejected sometimes. You are wrong that there is nothing these men can do to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:12 PM
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So whats this argument really about? That rejection is inevitable? Welcome to reality!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:08 PM
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So what's the big deal with getting rejected most of the time? If everyone has to deal with it, no one is special anyway. I completely fail to see how rejection is such a huge and pressing issue in men's lives. Many seem to be quite satisfied with their love life as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 03:00 PM
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This mentality and cycle really starts in college. Some people never grow out of it or improve beyond the mentality. Just how it is unfortunately. The sooner you see what sexual and social power is the quicker this type of behavior disappears.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 11:48 PM
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I have always interpreted the RP material as a guide book or foundation upon which to build the real "you" in a natural and evolving way. You can use the info as support but YOU still have to grow strong enough to escape the need for support. The RP ideals are completely useless unless someone spends time building, growing and developing themselves according to their true beliefs and identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:20 PM
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You're right whether you think you can or your can't. - Some guy The defeatest attitude ensures that you will never achieve anything great. YOU are holding yourself back, not some magical fairy that steals your gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 04:08 PM
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It's not the physical gains that make the biggest difference. It's the mental effects. Having tons of hormones coursing through your brain has an amazing effect on your mental state. It also really helps fix your posture if you squat correctly. It's not all about the physique side of things. This is by far this biggest reason to lift: Practicing forcing your body to push through mental roadblocks is also a HUGE benefit. It will help you in all areas of your life where you are being challenged by…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 04:07 PM
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That was the joke bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/16 03:21 PM
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Youre not the only one, big booties are where its at! Ass gotta clap! haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 06:06 PM
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i can't really speak for the women who believe the man must pay, but i can say... plenty of us don't think like that. This is the type of attitude I am used to dealing with. The last girl I went out with paid for her own stuff without question or anything. I thought it was nice to keep money out of the equation. I only made the post because I wanted to see what the general sentiment was. How pervasive that type of thinking is, etc. Definitely some interesting and unanticipated responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 05:45 PM
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An average woman has more prospects than the average man, regardless of what she does. It definitely is possible that my perception of this is relative to my fair abundance of options. Thanks for the insight. Also a guy fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 05:26 PM
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if you can't make interesting conversation over a pleasant hike and beautiful sunset, your dull ass is getting nexted. if you can't make interesting conversation over preparing some nice food together at home, your dull ass is getting nexted. if you can't make interesting conversation over a romantic walk on the beach or through the park, your dull ass is getting nexted. and on and on. Dinner dates are lame most of the time. Choosing activities that reflect your personality also are great for ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:32 PM
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So you cant even summarize the abstract? Did YOU even read it? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:19 PM
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There is no advantage to being the cool girl though. There is no advantage in being anything you are not. Being honest to your true personality is really important. Men need about 50% positive reinforcement but they also need 50% challenge. They need to feel like they earned it. Definite truth. But also definitely goes both ways. People want to know its what their doing that wins you over. Achieving friendly challenges and giving positive energy are great ways to build relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:18 PM
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If you don't agree that time is not of equal value to two different people just because they want to be there, then we can leave it there. The main point is that if you feel like you are doing someone a favor by going out with them then you are an entitled prick. I'm a college age male with plenty of free time mostly only looking for casual relationships. your post addresses people who are working a lot more or are interested in more serious relationships. I definitely didn't really consider tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:14 PM
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Regardless of what you think my opinion is, what does the study actually mean when it says "benefit from women's company"? How did they measure it? What was the metric? I am actually interested to see what it's about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 04:00 PM
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Your comment definitely has a lot of truth in it. I do agree sometimes many people are not self aware of their dating habits, what it looks like from the other perspective, etc. The question still remains for me though, what level of effort is right for a first date? Just because the girl is hot has not much to do with actual relationship compatibility. Thinking with the wrong head does lead to some confusing behavior. I suppose I also have a different idea of what dating is. I will never go on …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:59 PM
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What does "benefit from women's company" actually mean anyway? I still have no idea what you are talking about. Please explain. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:54 PM
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your right i forgot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:53 PM
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If a guy thinks is date is too entitled, he's free to bounce... Yeah I've definitely done that before. better just to nip things in the bud haha Thanks for the thoughtful response.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:37 PM
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Do hot men go on dates with unattractive women? I can't think of a time I've witnessed it. Do women go on dates with less attractive men? Yes. I specifcally put "less attractive" because it can even be like 8 vs 7.5 or 7. Not ugly. The emergency vehicle with sirens blazing has a higher value time than privileged travelers for one example Well duh. This question is posed a dating context, not anything else. And when women's value is derived by other than similar means, such as the genetic lottery…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:33 PM
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The only "benefit" I get from hanging out with girls is a friend to chat with and a lover to bang. What does "benefit from women's company" actually mean anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:23 PM
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Lots of guys are competing for the same privilege, but she chose him so now the onus is on him to prove to her that she made the right choice. This is usually pretty easily snubbed by suggesting they come do something actually fun instead of some boring date crap (like a dinner). Also never really calling it a date, more like "come out hiking with me this weekend" or "come out on the lake with us and show me your wake boarding game!" even if you were already going to go out yourself. <- the impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:21 PM
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Then you're okay with having to put the same amount of time, money, and effort into your appearance? It doesn't matter how much effort it takes, it only matters if women find you to be as attractive as they are. Some people have good genetics and do not need to spend so much effort, of both genders. The time investment argument is actually really petty and ridiculous. It doesn't matter how long it took you or how much work, the only thing that matters are the results. But yes lifting and eating …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 03:01 PM
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Finally a reasonable response, all the way down here. You have a great team player mindset, I like it! Too bad all the entitled women won't get to enjoy the sweet taste of cooperation and relaxation on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 02:44 PM
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Is is so criminal to have the expectation that men's and women's time or investment are equal? Why is her time worth more than mine? Simple entitlement? Cultural expectations? I have had women become quite hostile when I told them that I didn't think that their time was worth any more than mine. THAT is entitlement. Those are the types of people who are NOT cut out for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 02:41 PM
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I am honestly interested in hearing what you think about dates that don't involve money. My favorites are hiking, cooking/baking something together, nice romantic walks to see the skyline (maybe spend $5 on some ice cream), etc. That type of stuff, where money never really enters the equation. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 02:39 PM
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Funny that's how your experiences played out, as someone much younger I definitely have a very opposite view. I expect women to pay for themselves on the first date (granted Its never ever something as lame as dinner. I went rock climbing for a first date last week!) Anyway to me its really important because it shows equal investment in the experience. I suppose my view that my time is worth just as much as any woman's is exactly contradictory to the OP, but that's basically what it boils down t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 02:31 PM
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I completely agree that making dinner with chicks is a complete turn on and a great date idea. But seriously, keep it real! Keep it motherfucking real bro!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 06:45 PM
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Nothing more hilarious than girls apologizing for their bodily needs. Shit like this just sounds so vile. You come across as a complete douche. There are a lot of people here (likely you too) who could really up their game by fucking relaxing a bit. The quoted sentence just reeks of "try hard" bullshit that people make fun of RP for. It makes it much easier for women to see who you really are and what you are after pulling try hard crap. Otherwise, I completely agree that making dinner with chic…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 04:35 AM
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So despite all the lifting advice, guys like me (fit, lots of friends, easy casual sex, etc.) are definitely in the top 5-10%? Honestly I have always had a hard time believing that with so much self improvement emphasis that the above would be the reality. Makes a lot more sense why people hate it so much I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 02:24 AM
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So does that make me a super outlier if I used TRP to help me succeed and I am literally none of those things? Pretty much the exact opposite? I really have had a hard time conceptualizing what most of the people who surf RP are like. (serious)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 02:11 AM
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You are helping me to understand how hard it is to look from the perspective of pre-TRP. Also sort of saddening to think about how many other things in the world I have a metaphorically "naive" knowledge of. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 09:13 PM
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physical attractiveness Be fit, work towards a body type that works with your genetics. Not everyone is destined to be yoked as fuck. Ottermode body type is cool too. So is the bear bod if that's your genetic predisposition. sexual escalation skills Practice them. Just GO for it. Kiss the girl when you feel like it. Make that sexual undertone joke. Talk about sex when you are hanging out with them. Most importantly, NEVER go back on something if the girl is unreasonably offended. The long and sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:07 PM
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Okay yeah, you are correct it was a bit of a self important of a comment. Though I think "do it right the first time" is something almost all men understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:04 PM
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I'm just so confused why people try to complain about stuff after the fact. RP is all about "be a man" and get what you deserve. So do it the fucking first time, idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:24 PM
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Clothing doesn't alter your physical features or personality. You're right, but completely missing the purpose of fashion and clothing. It's all about changing other people's image and perception of you. Dressing yourself is a way to show your inside personality on the outside. It communicates how you think about yourself - your self esteem, interests, confidence, energy, other bs type personality stuff. Changing the packaging of inferior goods is a great way to make people think they are the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:21 PM
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Funny you have that outlook, because I find that sex is much more enjoyable with a bit of an emotional connection. Not lovey dovey crap, but a genuine interest and lust for that specific person. Women definitely enjoy it as well, a fun and playful date is always superior to something more serious and to the point. My point is that being a charming gentleman does not preclude you from fucking on the first date. It can actually be a huge asset to your game. If you really are an awesome guy to hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:14 PM
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If you are dumb enough to fall for that bullshit long enough to get married, you are a fucking idiot. The dumb guy not looking out for his own interest is the real issue in my mind. Oblivious people get the predictable results. The drank the kool-aid and committed suicide for the pussy cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:09 PM
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This is just a personal preference for some people that you are extrapolating and projecting onto all men. Not everyone is looking for the same things in a partner. N count is just ONE factor in the huge equation. Usually the only people who care are guys with low counts by choice (chaste religious, moral types) and those who are not sexually successful (don't understand what it's like to have options and power). Men who are amazing, good looking, fit, making bank, having an awesome life, etc. c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:05 PM
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It's one thing to have an opinion, quite another to go around preaching. If you don't like sluts, don't hang out with or try to date them. Duh. The world doesn't care about your opinion. Do YOU bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 06:00 PM
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I reserve more respect for the women who have sex with higher quality men. Sometimes if they are surrounded my quality people they might have more sex. The whole thing is kind of moot though if you are so awesome as to be their best anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 05:57 PM
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They fell for the trap. Not sure in their own desires and intentions. I'm actually quite turned on when a woman sticks to her own choices. The same way it's attractive in men to stand their ground, I really do like it when women do the same. Nobody wants to date someone who is not their own person. Edit: so yes if they fall for the bullshit, they definitely are in the "no commitment" zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 05:54 PM
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its NOT "I don't know" It's "I haven't decided yet."
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 05:32 PM
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I just think her being receptive/open to it plays a role as well. That's where the social skills come in. I have a keen sense of when it is probably and probably not OK to connect with strangers. Unfortunately that is something that you have to learn from practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 01:03 AM
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Embrace the hate dude! Its just an anti-fan club!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:48 AM
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I really think that its the surprise that can make or break it. If you have solid social skills it can definitely be an advantage. If not, well then you're in an uphill battle anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:47 AM
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I think a bar or social scene would be more efficient. Wrong. Much easier to get their attention somewhere like the store. No music, no distracting friends, no competition, etc. Also, her public bitch shield is most likely down in the supermarket, or at least on a much lower level. This is extremely important for public approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:46 AM
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This is more a case of: It's OK to get help and look for advice. It's NOT OK to never move past looking for advice. The distinction between attractive people who hang out here and the unattractive people is the actual real life practice of methods and strategies that go along with your true personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:35 AM
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There is no shame in analyzing data, making predictions, setting goals and testing them. The "testing" of strategy requires going out into the world and talking to real people. Talking to people and discussing strategy are NOT mutually exclusive. I am really unsure how that is confusing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:33 AM
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We could've cured cancer, but the scientists were too busy in the gym. This is such a dishonest statement. Looking like a yoked male model is a job, it needs tons of commitment. Any lab scientist can take a few hours a WEEK to go hiking and workout. Maybe not if they jog on the treadmill, hit the elliptical or some other bullshit, because those dont burn calories like truly intense exercise. No matter how smart the scientists are, so many of them overlook the basic arithmetic it takes to be real…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 12:24 AM
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As a woman who hangs with a lot of straight male friends, they do in fact make fun of or poke fun at "ugly / fat" girls who approach or heavily crush on them. You got it exactly right here. If you have the power it's fun to pick on those who are losers. The gender is mostly irrelevant. It's all about who is doing the choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 09:55 PM
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Putting the cart before the horse. How will you ever have a chance to break up if you never get together? The reality is that even with sadness you will feel much more fulfilled having taken the chance and not succeeded than kept jerking off at home.
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:53 AM
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Chances are that if you find yourself interesting, the maximum you'll ever get from me is sex and nothing more. Women who actually ARE interesting definitely hold more value. Who the fuck wants to have to deal with someone who isnt as motivated to be awesome as you are? Sure it might be in different ways but someone who did not have a self actualization mindset would be completely incompatible. Why would you ever want to be with someone who is much closer to the "women are children" trope than o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 09:04 PM
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Let me tell you, perfectly milled jet engine compressor blades are a god damn masterpiece. There is beauty in almost every area that involves creating something, the difference is all in how you approach it and appreciate it. A passion for sharing your work and understanding that other people may not be as into it as you are is also a necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 08:30 PM
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Do you think it was an example of special treatment for women though? How much of the pussy pass thing in our society is men's fault? It's all his fault. The guy is a complete pussy if he cant even be OK with maybe possible potentially depriving a woman of something she needs. As another poster said in a response to you, its the men that perpetuate the pussy pass - either through benevolent sexism or purely inexperience and misguidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:15 AM
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Youre selling yourself short dude. Why even hang out with someone who needs to be helped so much and can't even make you laugh when you are constantly helping them? Whatever happened to "be the prize"? Your list is basically describing an empathetic hole that makes babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 06:10 AM
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There is no such thing as game. Its a marketing tool created by a bunch of guys who figured out how much money they could make from thirsty betas, so they got together in the 00's came up with some BS and bam, Roissy, Pook, Mysthery, anda ll those money-grubbing mofos appeared. "Game" is the exact same shit as sales skills. There is literally no difference between making a cold approach for sales or for sex. How about finding new clients? Same shit again. Maybe following up on previous interest?…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 09:49 PM
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I have a feeling your game is just awful, because without it, the only way to get laid is like you say, being the jacked alpha model. Game is what levels the playing field for average guys. Most people do not realize how far behind they are with social skills. Its much more nuanced and subtle as things become more advanced and thus much more difficult to spot mistakes on your end. Even if all you can get is 4/10's you are still NOT going to get laid without any game at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 07:31 PM
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I agree maybe not JUST to bang you, obviously they wouldnt stick around if you didnt have something else to offer. Doesn't mean they dont jerk off to the thought of it or wouldn't given the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 09:18 PM
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The cure for this is approaching during the day. If you cant make progress online, don't bitch about it, just use another method. Duh. You really seem kinda butt hurt that your tinder game is weak. Get over it and go out to talk to women in real life like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 09:09 PM
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I completely agree, except im a guy so its for women. I started using that Bumble dating app which is basically tinder, except girls have to send the first message. Its just appalling how many girls only go with "Hi" or "hey :)" or something else dumb. People suck in general, its not a guy or girl thing. Giving half of a fuck definitely puts you in the upper level when chasing women or men anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 09:07 PM
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At least 90% of your guy friends have most definitely thought about banging you and likely would if the situation were right. Men are way dumber than you think when using the wrong brain. It literally is like a mind altering substance haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/16 09:02 PM
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This is the exact phase im in right now. I partied hard for a couple years and now I really am kind of over it. I think having a good job for a while is really what helps develop this mindset. Pussy is everywhere, it can be thought about later.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 08:55 PM
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Guys do the same exact thing. Dumb bros are the same extreme in men. The guys are just as horrible to listen to or hang out with, its just sports beer pussy and jeeps instead of shopping nails and makeup.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 06:18 PM
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Day game has really become my favorite way to meet people in general. Not to mention the extra satisfaction of success from day game. You really come to truly enjoy it after a while. becomes second nature and a great way to relax and laugh a bit!
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:59 AM
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The reality is that if you take care of yourself, the chances are much higher. Women who waste their 20's getting fucked up and stuff have little hope though.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 03:57 AM
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My mom had me and my brother at 36 and 34 respectively. No complications or anything. I really think that the window has a lot more to do with how well you treat your body up until that point, as well as genetics.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:35 AM
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Being inseperable from love and enhancing a love connection are not the same thing. one night stands show how much people believe that you can definitely separate love and sex. The importance of sex in a romantic relationship highlights it's ability to enhance an intellectual connection. Either way, wouldn't you want to know what you like? If you are not finding out what really does it for you, how will you be able to discern the women that will best fit with your life? Without context it is ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 09:54 PM
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I mean it wasn't mean to be personal, I have no idea what you are really like. I'm sure you are a chill bro. And it's cool if you want to say that is stupid or weak/passive, but I will say that it's a choice, and it's one that I believe is not weak at all. I think that it is a strong choice for me that gives me an personality honor aspect to it. I do think it helps me with honoring all people in it and being just genuine and true to form for me. I really want you to re-read that passage a few ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 09:51 PM
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Honestly the way i usually handle it is to say OK, and completely stop paying attention to them. That usually weeds out the chicks who are serious or not. When she says "were not having sex tonight" and proceeds to continue getting down, what the fuck am I supposed to think? Their body language makes it obvious that they don't really mean the words verbatim. Also it is completely intellectually dishonest of you to keep ignoring the importance of congruent words and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 04:52 PM
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Sex is inseperably connected to love. Really, as someone who has had sex, it completely is not. It's just another awesome way to enjoy your partner's company. A relationship without sex is a broken one, but sex is not the main focus or what makes you develop feelings. Sure it feels great, just like doing drugs (cause that's basically all it is) but ultimately is only an accessory to the attraction you have to someone's personality. (ONS excluded) The way you romanticize the whole thing is just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:58 PM
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It happens all the time, obviously. But strong, independent and talented people do not. Even I froze sometimes, but have trained myself to react better. Check out target fixation during vehicle crashes. It's a survival reaction that paralyzes decision making. It definitely is a real thing, but those who want to be elite have trained it out of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:47 PM
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is the act of a woman asking a guy over to her place giving consent to bend her over at will in Pem's world? Well at the very least it most certainly is suggestive if in a romantic context. The body language and physical actions are FAR more important than the words. If the supposed girl just got up and left, saying "oh I have to go grab my friend from the airport" or "Someone is expecting me" or some other BS it would have been MUCH clearer than a verbal "no" and remaining stationary. The words…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:40 PM
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"we're not having sex tonight" Ever heard that one? It means they are probably going to bang. Reading body language is far more important than taking words at face value and in an isolated way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:31 PM
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You never even had an interest in trying it at least one time? You may try all kinds of foods or check out new cities traveling, maybe see whats up with that awesome graphics card or new power tool, but sex never got that same feeling for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:26 PM
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trying to push me down over this Your friends likely do really want you to be like them. They want you to fit in and see the success (at least in their eyes) come that you deserve. I felt that they weren't respecting my choice honestly. It has to BE a choice before they will respect it. We often delude ourselves into thinking things that we want to be true. Unless you have literally turned down very overt signals for sex, it's not a choice. Choosing not to play the game and claiming that you cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:23 PM
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I always desired to only be with my one and only (girl) who I would be with hopefully for life and us making love. Once you start banging girls this becomes obviously ridiculous. To me being a virgin is kind of a red flag. It says that you aren't a go getter, you are more meek or shy, are very risk averse and generally are more susceptible to and affected by being rejected. Anyone who is fun, outgoing and has a great attitude will definitely get laid by 26. It's not about being a virgin per se, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:11 PM
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give men equal reproductive and legal rights. So exactly what people are trying today? Your point is exactly the RP sentiment of holding women to the same standard as men. That is a really long way off. Until every single man is sexually satisfied it probably wont happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 03:02 PM
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They all have equal opportunity. That is what counts. Life is not fair. Work with what you have. Why would I ever want to get unfair advantages so I am perceived to be "equal" to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 12:31 AM
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One of my fraternity brothers is like this. Dropped out of college and became a drug using car salesman. Still slays like a motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 02:22 PM
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What "data point" and story are you talking about? You, claiming that you are not AWALT is the data point. It's a bit confusing that you really think people believe that 100% of an entire gender acts the same. The outlier case that you present is completely expected. Also, AWALT can so often be exactly the same thing as acting in self interest, which is definitely also something that I expect people of both genders to do when given a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 02:16 PM
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Your one data point is pretty much irrelevant. This argument that you have is the exact same one people on TRP use to justify their agendas. Your one story only makes as much of an impact as the one story where a woman was definitely AWALT. I can believe that you are not similar to the stereotype presented at TRP, but really who cares anyway about one person and seriously I don't think anyone is self aware enough to really make an objective assessment of themselves. Time to get off PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 05:11 AM
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The guys who continue to struggle putting together the big picture clearly are not exposing themselves enough. Actually practicing the red pill ideas will bring a lot more context and understanding. Those who are "stuck" somewhere most likely are either trying too hard, thinking too hard, or seriously have not been just trying to actually go out and interact with people. Most all of us KNOW what we should change or be doing, its just that actually DOING part that people get hung up on. That step…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 04:54 AM
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I would respond the way you said a majority of women would. The first option for every choice. I am very sure this is really what most people in general want. Unless you are trying to stroke your ego about how hot you are sleeping with women who dont know what you like is definitely a compromise. Plus its definitely much more fun when I know just how to play with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 03:58 AM
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kid, who grew up with a non-imposing white collar dad, feminised school system, feminised media messages and testosterone wasting hobbies like video games. Literally me and I'm most definitely overconfident. I was really into technology and video games so stayed inside. Though my hobbies always came after football practice of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 07:11 AM
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Commenting on how a guy has such a nice job and is so rich is the same as commenting on nice tits. They both suck. I really stated to sympathy women once i started earning money. The feeling when bitches are only after your cash is really shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 03:41 AM
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it doesn't matter anyhow. It does matter if you plan on breather for any amount of time after that. It will be pure bliss even if just for a moment to know that you overcame some shit and made it out alive. Imagine how that would feel for a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 04:23 AM
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If you plan on breathing for at least a few more years, you have a future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 03:11 PM
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I refuse to resort to the behavior of and I accept it and expect no better. Average and below men are not even human to women. This is a complete contradiction. You say that you will not "resort" to such behavior as if it were beneath you. Such arrogance is actually kinda douchey. Yeah, YOU. Then go on to act as if you are "below" average or something. Look at what you are writing dude. It's pathetic hamstering. I guess you were fortunate enough to get some feminine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 04:21 AM
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You keep forgetting to take the pussy off the pedestal. Literally. Take a step back and try to think about what it looks like when you post victimizing comments. Why the fuck even post if you are going to shoot down every single suggestion with a pitiful comment. If you really have such a hard time looking in the mirror honestly, at the very least be aware of your selfish behavior. How we take criticism and are ok with being wrong sometimes is a huge indicator of self acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 04:13 AM
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with this mentality you will forever have a missing piece. The satisfaction of competence and creation. Being an eternal follower is far worse in the long term. If you ever want to feel anything, the bad will equally come with good. Our biggest roadblock is always mental. Your mentality steers your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 04:07 AM
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Life is just as easy for the "chad" or anyone who is on top of their game and successful. It's a case where the only people who care and complain are those who are the losers. Winners dont care, they are having a great time being awesome by themselves. Similar to things like fat acceptance. A cause only for those who are fat or insecure about their bodies. Hot men and women dont even consider bullshit like that. To answer your post, hell no. Life is awesome when you are riding high.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 04:05 AM
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"Just get it" I know some posters do take it a bit far, you are forgetting just how hopeless some people are. We all start from somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 03:41 AM
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IF you want to continue making the same or more money after 3 years out of the workforce you better be cooperating with your spouse to be doing something, anything related to your job or industry. Should you have given up on it and don't care then that's your choice too. I am very sure that a smothering amount of attention is just as bad as too little. There IS time for yourself and some work when you cooperate with the other parent. Please stop pretending that your life ends completely when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 01:54 AM
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looking out for your own ability to earn money Does not mean legitimately earning money. It means staying on top of your industry and keeping your skills sharp so that you can jump right back in when the time arises. Completely letting go and ceasing all thought related to your career is just a recipe for disaster - or the admission that you will either never work again or have given up really trying to ascend. Being 100% about either career or family is not always a good thing. Even 5% work 95%…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 01:45 AM
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I'd prefer to do things that involve money, just because I don't like the outdoors That's where the creativity comes in...those two things are not always connected. I guess my attitude stems from me not being interested in spending money very often haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 08:50 PM
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using them for money Usually only a sentiment of someone who spends money on dates. I take girls hiking, baking pies, go do yoga instead of doing anything that costs money. It has turned some girls off but I know the ones who stick around are actually interested in me and like to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 08:20 PM
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how common they think it is. With any given person, more likely than not to have occurred is the assumed answer until their actions prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 08:18 PM
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The funniest part is that your "cynical", realistic attitude will very likely attract men who are weary of gold digging whores because they know you actually like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 07:55 PM
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Pretending like any agreement is going to last forever is completely ridiculous. Marriage is an indefinite contract with a high penalty to nullify. But people have that unrealistic ideal in their heads about living happily ever after. It's absolutely reasonable to expect the contract not to last forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 07:52 PM
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but if you aren't building a contingency plan into them that allows your woman to leave and remain financially healthy, good luck getting her to accept it If you aren't looking out for your own ability to earn money, something is seriously going wrong. Being too dependent on another person (husband or wife) is a ticking time bomb. Such large power disparity makes for a volatile relationship. She's going to want protection in the event of a divorce just the same as you. And she is definitely enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 07:50 PM
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AWALT and its associated concepts is the idea that until something is either proven or disproven, assume and prepare for the worst case scenario. "most" means "more likely than not". I will make the assumption that a girl is basic as fuck and superficial until her actions prove me otherwise. I am sure most women who are attractive have a similar approach when first meeting a new potential suitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 07:44 PM
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The nuance you missed was that the girl is never more "bad" than the guy. The more "bad" the guy gets, his window of acceptably degenerate female behavior shifts accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 08:57 PM
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When reading RP stuff, I always keep in mind basically 80% is bullshit and 20% might be useful. This lens applies to the whole subreddit. Pretty similar thing here at TPP as well. Maybe if everyone here had this mindset there would be far fewer bullshit arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 04:10 PM
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But that means you're knowingly taking pleasure in hearing things that you know to be untrue. Just because something is beneficial to me does not mean I enjoy it. Constructive criticism and all that. I would actually like it if things were more aligned with TBP in real life, but unfortunately they usually are not. Sometimes we all need a reality check. Also, what about low-IQ readers who are too stupid to understand that TRP is not supposed to be taken as fact? Is there no responsibility towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 05:06 PM
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making grandiose changes to your life when you're actually only changing a mediocre amount. This is only true if you really don't actually go apply it. I made significant improvements in my life by applying the attitudes and mentalities that I first learned about on TRP. That doesn't mean they are ideas exclusive to terpers but that is where I heard of them first. And all of this is generic non-RP advice. I would say it is both RP AND mainstream. Why can't it be both? The core of TRP has a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 04:37 PM
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Sometimes people need a defibrillator to stay alive. That doesn't mean they need it every day. TRP is healthy in small doses. It helps keep our idealistic, romantic world view in check. Some BP and some RP help keep a balanced mind. However I do think that men generally tend to get enough BP sentiment naturally and as such some doses of harsh, confrontational shock from TRP can be beneficial in keeping the balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 06:09 AM
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TRP tends to hold self accountability as of the utmost importance. Of course sometimes taking it to an extreme like always. But it definitely is true that you DO have more control and influence than you may realize sometimes. Saying that TRP is the "easy" way out is just ridiculous even on the surface. Most notably, lifting heavy weights, approaching random girls during the day, grinding hard on your career, all of these are definitely not "easy" yet are the basics of what TRP recommends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 06:06 AM
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There has to be a contextual filter on this notion. Maybe it is where you live, but different markets behave in various ways. Be open to the idea that in some places it really isn't easy unless you go for ugly chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/16 05:42 AM
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Maybe developing a satisfying career is a better long term choice than being an instagram model...can this seriously last forever? The mind boggles some of these alleged choices. Not to attack you personally but damn if this isnt all a bit confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:11 AM
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You are thinking way too black and white about what brings success. Listen to this guy, he is 100% right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 02:52 AM
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Its very refreshing to hear this sentiment expressed here on TRP. I am quite a sharp guy and really have utter disdain for most all bar sluts. I really want to be with women who I enjoy hanging out with AFTER we have sex...it really makes all the difference as far as relationship satisfaction is concerned. Also, who the hell would pick a dumb "first mate" so to speak? I want my partner to be close, at or even above my ability to earn/intelligence/charisma. I will always have emotional control as…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 04:57 AM
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well-groomed, fit dude Dude then what the fuck are you complaining about? What's keeping me from getting laid is the dudes who are a lot better looking than me, the alphas. I know several men who are by no means extraordinarily attractive, really average at best, that get laid like tile. One is a car salesman, the other a nightclub promoter. Aesthetics are important but if you are already fit and look sharp then you are definitely in the game. Charisma and confidence can literally make up for al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:29 AM
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realism Unless you look like a bridge troll it's a self defeating attitude. But even if you are a bridge troll there are plenty of people who would be happy with a well groomed, confident, athletic bridge troll. The whole point is that without an improvement mentality, you are shaping your reality into exactly what you are complaining about. The more time you spend on the internet commenting about how you have it so hard and its all just "reality" the more you construct that reality around you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 03:06 AM
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Your self defeating attitude is rather hilarious. Its just so obscenely extreme that I can't really tell if you are serious or a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 12:45 AM
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Attractiveness in a man is solely based on his looks Not really sure how much more wrong you can get. Anyone's value is highly dependent on whether you like to hang out with them as well. Your whole attitude towards this topic is just really shitty. I am guessing you may have tried day game or hitting on random girls and got shot down hard. No matter how hard you try, a bad attitude is just as repellent and obvious as being covered in shit. Cold approaches are very interesting because even someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 12:38 AM
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Oh I only do it for my own entertainment. But surprisingly you pretty much got it exactly right. 85% troll is quite accurate. Still serious but really mostly not haha I have found it's a very reasonable approach to applying anything I learn on the pill subreddits. Really filters out the bs. After a few messages you seem much more reasonable and normal than most of your comments would suggest. Though I suppose you also do take the piss more often that not when debating in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 06:02 PM
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There is way too much nuance in this topic for me to ever be able to satisfy your rebuttals to my arguments on the internet. As I am sure you know most of communication is body language, speech tone, inflections, etc. Lets just sum things up by saying that yes people do like me, no I am not a virgin, no i do not have any mental issues and finally that PPD, TRP and TBP are all ridiculous but entertaining. I will say that I really do like your enthusiasm though, keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 05:38 PM
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It's not talking to them differently, it's just treating them as another person. Nothing special. That enrages men and women for some reason. But it also means I can just relax and watch people get butthurt which is pretty fun too. Nothing quite as fun as watching the look of confusion on someone's face when you bring out the equality argument against the misogynist accusation. It's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 05:10 PM
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It'll be so metal! *BRUTAL!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 10:13 AM
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Now I know why reddit and PPD are not really taken seriously. I am surprisingly in the very small minority with no mental issues, a strong friend circle, awesome social skills, a STEM degree and not a virgin. Sick dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 10:09 AM
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One thing they will never take or get themselves is the awesome muscle building power of testosterone. Men make HUGE GAINZ at multiple times the rate of females. Amazing muscle development, much lower body fat, more robustly designed musculature, and the awesome power that comes with it. I would take that over anything women have in today's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 09:58 AM
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go over and over them in a way where it was clear to anyone he was now just perving Seems pretty blatant to me lol. And the objectification thing ties in nicely with me lamenting about the shallow nature of many college age people. Honestly speaking, it is extremely difficult to have major insecurities about something unless you feel it is a major part or your main quality of attractiveness. Men and women who KNOW their value is validated by things that they DO and not majorly based on attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 09:52 AM
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Just because I think something does NOT mean I am going to live it out in real life. Me having an opinion that men and women are complimentary beings does NOT mean I am going to apply that to real life always. It often makes my life much easier to follow the politically correct narratives in real life. RP is not my bible, it's just some interesting information I have chosen to selectively apply to my life. The one thing that really sticks out to me in your posts is the presumption of complete in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:51 AM
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The part that really sucks is getting accused of being a misogynist asshole when you treat women the same way you treat men. That's always a fun time. Male feminists definitely do not treat men and women the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 02:35 AM
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It's all in the context that it is presented. If you are creepy about it like it seems you had experience with, its pretty weird. When the professor is clearly joking about it and is fair to all students the picture is a bit different. Also to be honest, it would really help if most girls actively worked on their personalities so they had some substance. Most all of the girls I meet at college are vapid, boring and completely vanilla. Absolutely no passion about anything. It really is depressing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 02:31 AM
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Since when has it ever made sense to take what most people talk about in TRP at face value? I sure as hell don't ever. For most of us who actually know true "alpha" men in real life, the picture of what the concept really means is much easier to see. We understand it is much more nuanced and contextual that can really be explained on the internet. Unfortunately not everyone has this resource from which to observe and is left with total misconceptions about what things mean. Long ago I gave up tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 02:13 AM
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He's not saying they MUST be happening, but that there is a chance. Similar to AWALT. There is always a chance if you do not really know the truth. Alpha is not a personality characteristic as you seem to apply it. It is a behavioral characteristic. These men are only "alpha" because they act like it. They could still go completely beta any day of the week. Alpha and beta are only temporary descriptors of someone's behavior. Today alpha, tomorrow beta, etc. We all do "alpha" and "beta" things ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 09:20 PM
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It was more in response to all of the posts he made in the comments section. Maybe I read it with a different emphasis than what was intended. Just seemed like he was acting as if it was a hopeless situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 09:12 PM
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Yeah and its messy, hence why shower sex is so great. No one likes blood stains on their furniture or mattress. Don't think I haven't earned my red wings before. Also, i really am not fighting for anything or requesting help with my plights. I just like to read PPD and laugh at all the people who are WAY to into it, such as yourself. Based on your attitude, chances are you aren't any older than 21 at most. Your oversimplified view of things and automatic assumption that people should see things …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 08:50 PM
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Smelly, messy, generally gross. It definitely is not a controversial opinion to say that people would rather have sex with someone who is not on their period. You have such a dismissive attitude and act as if you are never wrong. It's extremely off putting and shuts down any real conversation. Perhaps acting without such levels of righteousness and entitlement will help people take your arguments more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 08:43 PM
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Your attitude is self defeating and sucks. A positive outlook with improvement in mind will do much more than most all specific advice. If you are constantly improving success will come.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 08:34 PM
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Yeah enters it during a time when I would never put any body part near it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 08:32 PM
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You cant seriously say that you thought being fat was NOT a problem right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 08:31 PM
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It's disappointing that you think TRP is all hate. I certainly learned how to give the women in my life more pleasure and have fun myself as well. At this point I am not quite sure why everyone doesn't completely dismiss and overlook the batshit crazy posts that use strong language. They are ridiculous and obscene for sure, clearly an attention grab. The people posting those were not really going to turn out any different if it werent for TRP anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:02 AM
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It could also be used by a guy who is sick of only being used for his money or something though. Maybe that guy does have a good personality but no one cares because all they see is $$$. You're right but if this is the case chances are he is presenting himself in such a way as to flaunt his wealth. No one know who you are until you show them something. Show them what you want to be loved for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 04:14 PM
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I definitely think you are simplifying this too much. Style definitely not about money, even rich people can choose a $10k outfit that sucks ass. Style to me is much more an outward appearance of your personality. Is it congruent, genuine, well put together, fun? How you dress is a great way to communicate how you feel that day, what things are important to you (nice watch, matching colors, etc.) as well as show that you have some fluid creativity going on and are not a robot. It's essentially v…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 07:14 PM
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no such expectation is placed on women. Maybe you don't...but i most certainly do have that expectation. Some of the information in RP has really helped me understand what I want in women, one thing being value aside from their body. Just being hot really just doesn't cut it for me anymore. I'm good looking, fit and attractive outside my appearance so it is completely reasonable to expect the same from those who I date. Also, it seems like you have a legitimately fun personality. Exclaiming that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 07:01 PM
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I agree with your assessment of what people think that this "love me for who I am" trope means. However that attitude is pretty silly as its basically asking for a participation trophy. No one should expect to be loved just for being alive and existing. You have to do something, anything, for anyone to have a reason to be attracted to you. The entitlement attitude of "love me for who I am" is really just gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:28 AM
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I fail to see how other qualities that make you attractive (fun, positive outgoing personality, humor, manly skills, fitness) are not part of the real "you". Being physically attractive is only one part of being totally attractive. If you are a genuine person who is not faking their personality and happen to be extremely attractive in many ways, people are actually attracted to the "real you".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:26 AM
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When you work towards being an awesome, fun person with cool hobbies, great friends and social status, liking who you are is very easy. It's still "you" but there is no issue because you are awesome! This argument of "like me for who I am" seems to be the go to for people who are NOT awesome. As if somehow they are too lazy to improve their life to a point where they are easy to like by most everyone. In the end this argument of liking someone for "who they really are" is a huge cop out and rati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:23 AM
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It seems you have a narrow view of the world. I know short, average guys who get laid like tile. Someone is a great attitude, fun personality and confident demeanor is most certainly going to be able to find some girls to have sex with. The hottest ones? Probably not, but you will likely achieve success without too much effort. The main issue most people have is that genuine attitude and personality. It is really hard to fake but will take you far. Practicing talking to girls in real life is one…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:55 AM
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Funny fat guys can still get laid for a reason. They are fun people to hang out with. Nice and good hygiene is great but really below baseline to be honest. You have to differentiate somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 06:27 AM
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I was talking about how when the men speak, the mention clear, specific statistics, formulate logical reasoning as to why the stats matter and affect people in big ways. Most of the arguments by feminists are about "patriarchy" "oppression" and other rather vague or opaque terms. I don't think they ever really quoted any stats besides exactly the same ones that have been beat to death already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 04:53 PM
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You obviously have never been to a university gym, seen any of the guys on their sports teams, been to a single frat party or even gone to a spring break destination. There is definitely a huge pressure to be a very attractive man if you want to hook up with attractive women. The main crux of this whole issue is that the pressure to be attractive increases with your level of basic-ness or shallow personality. This is absolutely true for men and women both. The less interesting, fun and pleasant …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 08:27 AM
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The way that the MRA's and feminists present their arguments should be enough to see who is thinking more rationally. And did anyone notice how ONLY the MRA rallies/events had protesters and such? The events for women's rights were always peaceful, no one protesting. The men's events on the other hand...there were plenty of angry feminists who spent the time energy and money to come rain on someone else's parade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 08:18 AM
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If you've had enough sex, its extremely obvious when a woman is REALLY cumming and when she is not. Full body convulsions are pretty hard to fake. Anyone with some experience would sniff this out within a very short time frame. Likely well before any LTR label would be applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 08:05 PM
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Most people also do not think critically of societal trends and how they are affected by them. People follow bullshit media standards because they are sheep. They want to fit in. Risk averse behavior without critical thought. I think that is the root of many of the "issues" we see with unrealistic standards and such these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 06:59 PM
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More like: Give a fuck about what you love. It can be pokemon for all I care as long as someone enjoys it a lot. I mean this is assuming they have to social skills to own their hobby and be proud of it in the face of shaming. (pokemon is for nerds and little kids) the defense of your interests is almost more important than the interest sometimes (as was with my example) which is why "frame" is so heavily focused on in RP literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 01:40 AM
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Actually sperm donors are usually selected much more on sperm count. The freezing/thawing process kills a lot of them so the overall count is extremely important. Much more so than whose actual DNA it is. Even ugly people can have a few swimmers that will breed a 6'4" anatomically perfect human. I would even say that the mothers genes are way more important.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:09 AM
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The key element you are missing when a guy is sad that he doesnt get to buttfuck his wife like chad did is because of the secrecy. She didn't tell him outright, it is usually something that must be coaxed out after a few drinks. Women do NOT want men to know they are being sold short for obvious reasons. I would say men have the same motivation for not talking about how they treated previous partners. Its not about the reality, its about the agenda that hiding it implies. That you were tricked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:54 PM
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This whole thread could be summed up by saying that yes, people do make choices for a reason. Sometimes people do unreasonable things because that is who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:49 PM
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From my experience talking to hundreds upon hundreds of women at my enormous college (all of whom were pretty hot, I was fairly selective) the first thing I would say is being passionate about legitimate interests that do NOT include netflix, pool partying, getting drunk, pinterest or similar. Most people are fucking boring and offer no value outside companionship and sex. EDIT: The male counterpart holds true as well. Lifting, fucking girls, partying, netflix, etc. To be clear anything can be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:39 PM
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haha thanks for the laugh. Even in africa the war lords and kings get the most pussy. Actually, ESPECIALLY in places like africa where most people are dirt poor. Money matter a LOT more when you live in a fucking hut. Also in Africa it is even MORE important for women to go for guys with more money/status because a small increase in wealth makes a larger difference in quality of life when you are destitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:59 PM
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This reply is basically justifying a fantasy of yours where everyone is on an even playing field. That is never going to happen. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:57 PM
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The world, our environment is currently fucked I pretty much agree with this. and if we are to survive, something has to change... that's the problem! People are going to be just fine if the world continues as it currently is. Sure its great that you want to find a non-shallow girl but ultimately you should expect that the majority of the population does not give a single shit about what is shallow or not. The people who agree with you are a drop in the bucket. Here is my logical refutation to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:54 PM
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You are right about the mentality. Going out to day game girls can either be really fun or extremely soul crushing. Day game is exactly how I developed my social skills. Its not the easiest or least risky but it is definitely extremely effective. Trial by fire is always exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:45 PM
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because I was lied to. The world lies to everyone, everyday, all the time. What separates those who succeed is how good they are at wading through the bullshit to find the information that is important. Believing everything you are told is the hallmark of a very naive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:44 PM
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believing what he was told Taking everything at face value is completely different than believing what you are told. The issue that most people do the former. They don't use their own brain to decide what to believe. People who take everything at face value simply haven't developed their social skills and critical thinking or haven't been fucked over enough times yet to catch on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:41 PM
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You are on to something with the compensation idea, but I do not think its to makeup for looks, but attractiveness. Most of those guys are genuinely BORING and have very undeveloped social skills. There are plenty of guys swimming in pussy who are not conventionally attractive. To me, making up for shortcomings with being nice is just flat out LAZY. Working hard to become someone who is attractive (overall not just hot) is not nearly as easy as being "nice". The main issue most of these guys hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:37 PM
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To answer the title: No. Just on PPD. I completely agree with you. BUT I will also say that most people in general are boring, don't really workout or spend a decent amount of effort on their appearance or generally give a fuck about being the most awesome that they can. So I can see how some of them definitely do have the nice guy experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:33 PM
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After reading this reply, it is very obvious that you have not had much experience out in the world. Your world view is very narrow and assuming of other people's thoughts. your arguments aren't even being logically OR emotionally justified. There is simply no justification at all. I have a feeling you just wanted to reaffirm your own beliefs by refuting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:20 PM
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All of this bullshit about "deep" attraction and "shallow" attraction is just ridiculous. If everyone is on the same page as to why they are dating/fucking/engaged then whats the problem? Remember that movie the wolf of wall street? when his wife divorces him, she says "YOU married ME!" We can't blame anyone for tagging along when presented with an amazing offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:17 PM
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It took tens of thousands of years or more to evolve our bodies and minds to this point, just because we were able to make some features less relevant doesn't mean things will change at a much faster rate. It will be more than a couple generations for such an innate attraction marker to go by the wayside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:14 PM
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The most logical response to this post is that yes it is shallow, people are shallow and things will never change. You are completely right and likely just butthurt that someone doesn't get why you are really so awesome. The freedom and power afforded by money will ALWAYS have some effect on attraction no matter how egalitarian your partner is. There is simply no way to completely isolate the variables. Even if you are homeless, the better off homeless guy is going to get more pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:13 PM
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I totally agree where most everyone in that thread is coming from. Most women are boring and do NOT work out at all. Fat butts are not toned squatting butts. Netflix and pinterest are NOT real hobbies. I have similar standards for women that they do men. Boring people absolutely suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 06:10 PM
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I've really enjoyed your banter with pembayliss and others as your view point is a nice balance in the race to give everyone ultimate agency. I do agree with you somewhat about not banging married chicks, but ultimately I really feel sort of like a white knight for not taking what I want because of someone else's choice to commit. It is definitely a tough call whether it is affording ultimate agency or being an accessory to a "crime". BUT Put another way, just because a crime has no punishment, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 01:32 AM
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Large hits of DMT are both terrifying and just amazing at the same time. Was cool to try one time. Source: Took too big of a hit of DMT.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:34 PM
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How do you feel about being ceremoniously married and not legally? Seems like the best of both worlds assuming you are living in an area compatible with that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:31 PM
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The main reason that your argument or viewpoint is totally wrong is because you are not using equal examples. Conflating the concept that every woman has the capacity to lie, cheat, and deceive you is completely different from anything involving physical violence or criminal acts. The appropriate compliment to AWALT is that all men have the capacity to lie, cheat, and deceive their partners as well. Which I completely agree with. All men do have that capacity, its usually only one or two choices…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:27 PM
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The corollary to the girl who likes to travel and might be a slut is a man who is just a horn dog who wants to fuck and is commitment phobic. Rape has no place in this comparison, it is far and away much more damaging than cheating or backing out on commitment. I agree that women should rightly be aware that all men have it in them to fuck and chuck girls without a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:13 PM
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The simplest analogy that totally explains my view point is the on of "Guns don't kill people, people kill people." Sure the strategy that TRP talks about is effective and sometimes deceitful or negative, but god damn most all of it is extremely effective. It's not the information, it's what you make of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:01 PM
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All people make emotional decisions. You are probably a sociopath if you do not feel emotions or factor them into your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:51 PM
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Everyone acts that way for the most part. I don't see what's so controversial in admitting the truth. Emotional decision making is the cornerstone of more than a few industries throughout the world. Think about how something like ice cream or chocolate sales would change if people only bought it with logical reasoning e.g. baking a cake or having a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 05:41 PM
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the whole point was that logic and smarts are not often used by women to select their partners. It applies to everyone, even men. I'd say thinking with your dick and being a slave to the tingles are exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 09:10 AM
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If you don't want to see them again, pay for your self. In addition to it being a decent thing to do, it'll also send a pretty clear message that you are not interested. I do not think that this statement is a fair assumption. So many people are not nuanced enough to see that conclusion from those behaviors. Hell, I even have girls pay for their share when dating and they still want to see me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 03:02 AM
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I like how you framed it as having class to turn down the gifts. I definitely agree that it is much more honest to not accept things you really didn't ask for. I want women to be as parasitic as possible so I can easily tell which women NOT to date haha (yeah I know i'm pulling a "just be yourself" move here, there is a reason its used!)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 08:15 PM
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I mean I kinda agree, but my opinion would be very different if I were in another position. Actually though, a hot milf bought me a drink last night which was nice. I told her that I like older women because they have their own credit cards! Later on bought me a drink which I thought was hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 08:13 PM
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It's interesting you mentioned the gifter having a very negative reaction because I have definitely heard of cases where guys got obscenely mad at women for accepting their gifts without putting out. Funnily enough, the issue seems to be about communication. RP style overt communication would seem to completely eliminate this issue. Would it be fair to say that it is beta/BP/weak as fuck to use the covert style?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:38 AM
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Okay, that is definitely reasonable. I agree with you. I also agree that the concept of spending money on someone as a romantic gesture is silly. I want girls to hang out with me cause I'm awesome not because I'm rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:35 AM
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if a reasonable person would assume you had romantic feelings and you don't, then you need to clarify this. Is the onus on the giver or the receiver to clarify this? That is really the crux of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:28 AM
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I think the real question you are getting to is whether it's ethical to lead someone on for a relationship/sex/anything. You definitely touched on an integral part of this discussion. What constitutes "leading someone on"? To me that means having direct and overt verbal communication about what is expected in return for the gifts or whatever. Subtle, plausibly deniable bullshit to me does not constitute "leading someone on".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:24 AM
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Obviously these opinions are entirely based on one's moral compass. It's good to know there are more than a few honest people out there. Maybe the sentiment you express self selects for like minded people, leaving those who reflect the trope in the OP to mingle. What do you think makes men want to buy things without ever actually asking directly for what they want? I'm sure many people could have saved a lot of time and money if they went for the kiss and made a move to try and f-close or someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:21 AM
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A good friend allowed a guy she was just about to dump to buy her a new phone, and I found it gross and repugnant. How do you feel about someone who is so desperate and socially obtuse to make a decision to do buy her the phone? Are all parties involved gross and repelling? I totally understand how people can feel that the women receiving the free shit are gross. It is an abuse of power plain and simple. Even I would have a hard time accepting something like a free phone knowing it was already o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:18 AM
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That's exactly the question. Is it leading them on if there was never an explicit statement about wanting to date? Or should the implied desires be treated as overt communication? It really just makes the most logical sense to look at it in the way a court of law looks at plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:13 AM
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A legitimate relationship where you actually have sex and are emotionally connected is a whole different ball game. When you actually love someone their sheer excitement or happiness is the reciprocation for your gift. Orbiters and friend zoned people do not get that in return. Thanks for your input though, it is good to remind us that positive emotions are payment enough sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:12 AM
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As a guy that means being reliable when something needs to get done. As in, will always answer the phone or call back missed calls, communicate well and never "forget" to respond (aka too self absorbed to think about consequences external to their life) To be honest most people are not what I would consider "dependable when called upon." As in 80-90% of ALL people. The dependability is also based in a respect and valuation of one's partner or friend.When you deeply care for someone, you will ens…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 03:26 AM
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excellent summation. 1-6 make a great short term relationship, but having too large of an intellectual deficit will take a lethal toll on a relationship. Friendships as well. Even business relationships. Being on the same metaphorical wavelength is extremely important for strong interpersonal bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 03:22 AM
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Good luck trying to keep it in check, everyone fitness tests others all the time. Ball busting, compliance testing, shit testing, etc. are all things that people do in the workplace, personal lives and social gatherings. I see shit/fitness testing as less of a nagging thing and more of a barometer to see if you are still on the ball or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 09:11 PM
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Not caring about the rules is not the same as being unaware of the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 03:26 PM
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But he stands too close, and does things that are against social rules. Like talking to people who have headphones in. There is a huge difference between basic stuff like personal space and not caring that someone has headphones in. One is some autism level of incompetence and the other means you simply want their attention enough to bother them. AKA damn she is so fine I want to try anyway. To clarify, it's the difference between being actually creepy and being actually annoying. Nah, but I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 01:37 AM
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I know a guy who is confident and graceful and all that shit completely socially inept breaks social rules all the time He even jokes about himself saying girls only like him from afar. What? You said yourself he has no social skills...so he is a terrible example to use for your argument. Using this friend as an example actually PROVES my argument that you need awesome charisma to get away with breaking social norms. Confidence and good looks don't mean you get to disregard social rules. Clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 01:10 AM
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Well yeah dude...just like how small skinny guys can pull tons of pussy. I've seen many of both types in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 06:34 PM
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Ultimately, social conventions are good guidelines, but if you are attractive and well spoken the game changes. Same with the other way too, if you are less attractive and awkward. Thats why I said it was a "guideline". It is absolutely 100% true that people will allow you to get away with all kinds of shit if they think you are good looking or like the vibe that you have. Not disagreeing about the fact that people often do want to be left alone when wearing headphones, but to say that one must …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 06:22 PM
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You seem to be thinking waaay to deeply into other people's thoughts. I would even go so far as to say assuming as if you know what other people are thinking. That's what makes me think you are completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:50 AM
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Or maybe someone just wants to listen to music or a podcast? headphones are a universal symbol for "I want to be left alone." Everything is in context. Saying things like always/never/everyone is what makes your point bullshit. I would agree if the claim was that usually people with headphones on want to be left alone. But not everyone. We will have to agree that understanding when it is appropriate to talk to people is mostly something gained from experience, talking to people. Giving advice th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 12:25 AM
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Ever think that most people with headphones in are just listening to music....just because? If people are closed off (low hat, resting bitch face, closed body language, etc.) it is MUCH different than just hanging out listening to music or whatever. Like I was trying to say before, its all contextual whether you should approach or not. There really are no hard and fast rules to follow. Only guidelines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 12:19 AM
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The core of my comment was trying to illustrate that a man who can take your annoying comments and turn them into an opportunity for a laugh is what the ideal should be. People with strong interpersonal skills can very easily tell what is a legitimate concern and what is just petty bullshit. When a woman needs comfort and when she needs to realize she's acting like a bitch. So far he has always been the bigger man and let's things go before I do, but sometimes he reacts a bit emotionally to my s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 12:16 AM
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Why would you be concerned about it? Obviously it helped you avoid someone with a weak will. No one likes it when people always apologize or concede immediately. All the joy is in the drama anyway. Plus, you know you have found a good one when he can turn your shit stirring comment into a hilarious moment! To me that type of charisma is a HUGE plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 06:49 AM
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The sooner you start cultivating your inner savage who doesnt give a fuck the sooner you will be getting dates. Outcome independence is the #1 thing that will bring you immediate success. Also, remember the cliche, you miss every shot you dont take.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 03:28 AM
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This is complete bs. Headphones don't mean shit. It is completely in how you approach them: confidence, tone, eloquence, friendly attitude, no overt sexual comments, etc. Plus, why would I care if she got pissed cause someone wanted to talk to them? Thats some petty bullshit. BUT, I do agree that the right context is necessary. I dont usually talk to girls who are actually doing homework or are on the phone. However, if they are surfing their phone they are fair game to me. Often I will use an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 03:18 AM
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What your reply seems to be missing from the original post is about how the man accepts and takes shit from his wife without even trying to stop it. Individually, the parts that you quoted are not bad in and of themselves. But when you are at a point where your balls have receded so far into your body that you cannot tell your wife she is acting like a cunt (obviously when justified) then there is a problem. I actually agree that communication is something that they really need to work on. The h…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:47 PM
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Nah you can tell there is a decent amount of lingering fat. If he were 10-12% bf his abs would be extremely obvious without flexing like the "ottermode" examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 09:31 PM
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So many people also just suck ass at being successful. Those among us still need motivation to work hard and achieve. It's pretty clear when someone is not getting promotions because they suck at life and are idiots. Despite this, it is still very important to show that it CAN be done by the responsible among us.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 11:14 PM
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I was recently talking to a friend of mine who is dating someone I know, when she made a point that totally changed my perspective. It was about one of her friends who had 100+ partner count before leaving college which in and of itself, kinda whatever. She also mentioned that the girl in question contracted chlamydia. That shit is no joke for a woman, it will mess up your whole body. Sometimes to the point where you cannot have kids. Random sex partners are a LOT more risky than people want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:53 PM
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It definitely wasn't just because of TRP if someone becomes a huge douche bag. It's also a sign of impending doom if you are looking on the internet to help solve your marriage problems. Things were very wrong long before anyone got on TRP, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 05:26 PM
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When it comes to physicality I think of women like I think of children. I'd step in if I saw a man hitting a 10 year old too. This above quote is really what white knighting is about. Also funnily enough you threw some RP in there too. Ultimately the OP fucked up the definition of a white knight. Its not usually to get laid, it is based in men's inherent instinct to protect women. Much like the sentiment that you expressed. Also, how is a weaker man getting his ass beat any different than a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 02:13 AM
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How is it more "right" to help women than men? Would you spend the energy to help a small guy getting threatened or assaulted by a bigger guy? We're all equal apparently, so what makes the women more requiring or deserving of your help? Who says they even wanted it? etc. Not trying to say you are an idiot or wrong or whatever, but think about how what you said is not exactly a display of balanced intervention. It's helping women because its "right" which is exactly what the OP defined white knig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 06:32 PM
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I'm unconvinced that refusing to let your partner sometimes have some more control is a good idea. Yeah I definitely agree with that. Good leaders let others take control sometimes so they feel more in control themselves and not oppressed or held down under the first person's dominance. When TRP mentions things like the captian/first mate dynamic, I always think of a nearly equal but clearly defined partnership. Something like a 55/45 or 60/40 split in general relationship control seems like a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 03:12 AM
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The deal breaker is really whether it's a genuine interest or one of convenience. If that is what she is really into her behavior would be obviously different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 03:31 AM
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The whole idea is to be the partner who has the most control of the relationship direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 03:10 AM
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my first reply had the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 02:55 AM
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I feel you on that final sentence as an engineering student in a fraternity. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 02:41 AM
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I'm just arguing the logical point that if you become addicted to staying at home for whatever reason, it sure as hell is not going to be the fault of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 02:30 AM
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Being able to spend your entire life satisfied by the entertainment of a computer is my understanding of it. Women certainly don't force lame guys to stay home all the time. Let's have some accountability here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/16 02:11 AM
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Your view of RP is just as narrow as the ideas that you say RP believes. By using such a strict interpretation you essentially make yourself look just as crazy, idiotic and insufferable as the average idiot RP reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/16 05:35 PM
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Dude, really, please go outside and day game some girls at the mall. You post way too much on this subreddit. Then you can go and see what average people look like in REAL LIFE instead of soliciting input from strangers to compare yourself to. You best data is out there, go and get it! Asking for pictures of people on the internet will never give you a real, legitimate idea of what the average dude looks like. beer guts, skinny fats and dad bods definitely look much worse IRL. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 03:28 AM
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On any given week, how many women that you meet/see/speak with would you find "cute" or "pretty"? 30% On any given week, how many women that you meet/see/speak with would you find "beautiful" or "sexy"? 25% Not interested The rest (45%) But then again I go to a huge public college well known for having hot girls. The numbers of swole chad types out here is simply through the fucking roof too as you might expect. My rule is that once you get to this area EVERYONE goes down 2/10 points. 7 -> 5, 5-…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 03:53 AM
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Whatever. The reality is people do not have a very high aversion to it. It has become commonplace and widespread throughout our culture. Your views are that of a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 12:17 AM
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Your view on divorce is not shared by many. 50/50 divorce rate shows how much they do not think its a serious reputation hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 07:04 PM
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So get there already. You come across as a sniveling loser because you aren't good enough to make it to the big boys club. Buck up and shut up until you have spend a considerable amount of time and effort improving yourself. Once YOU make it into the top 20%, I can guarantee your viewpoint will flip 180 degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 07:00 PM
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Definitely should have waited to meet up with her again before writing the FR. Inconclusive ending here. Numbers mean nothing until they meet you in person again. That's how you know they like you.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 04:40 PM
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Not every girl is hot enough to get away with it. A 5/10 has much less leverage than an 8. There are fewer 8's than 5's so besides the beauty difference they are in an inherently lower supply, thus more valuable. It is not a linear scale determining what women can get away with, its almost more like an exponential increase in power. So yes, you are correct. It definitely does not apply to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 07:13 PM
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Muscles are part of it, but behavior I Think has a much more profound effect. Social status is like imagining if you were exactly the same, except a super popular celebrity. There is no doubt that you will be more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 06:37 PM
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I'm interested to hear any real counter arguments you have to my post. That is a pretty shit argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:38 AM
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A simple explanation that makes a lot of sense is to think about male vs female attraction cues as being the same, but opposite weight. For men, beauty is the primary, with other non-physical traits coming secondary. For women, non-physical traits reign supreme(confidence, social status, "manliness"), with beauty coming after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:30 AM
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I have been an avid reader of TRP for almost 2 years and used to spend time telling people it wasn't so bad. Posters such as yourself really paint the whole subreddit in a bad light. I'm pretty much finished with that sort of thing now I guess. Chads are people too. Not all of them want to spend their whole lives filling vapid whores with cum. A lot are smart and successful as well as good looking. Its only normal to want something different if you are having a very one sided experience. No one …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 01:26 AM
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I believe the true answer to your question is: It;s all based on context. A shitty answer I know, but really that's the truth. Any of the 3 scenarios can play out in any type of outcome or lasting impressions. If you have sharp game it is possible to turn almost any situation into a positive one. My advice: Just go with whatever. Use the woman's suggestion as a possible insight into how they value money and equity in relationships. This type of situation is great for finding a small piece of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:31 PM
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The OP is right. Stop giving a shit about what he says. Calling him a pussy on the internet is pretty pathetic. Normally when I hear BP posters say RP is angry neck beards I laugh, but this time they might have actually been right. Also contrary to what you might think, when you are slaying and have it all with women, sometimes it is nice to descend into the realm of equal input to relationships. It is uninteresting to be too far on either side of the failure - success spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:27 PM
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If you want more than a fun fling, the most obvious answer is to change where you meet women. Clubs and organizations are great, basically anytime out of a party/sex context. After spending time talking to girls during the day I have found a lot more of the types of girls I can actually respect and develop better relationships with. Obviously this is not the only solution, however it is a step in the right direction to find normal, attractive and lovable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:25 PM
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It's just that I see MOST guys and they have to pay the cheque yet I don't. It just seems off and even a bit unfair. Come on, we all know the world isn't fair. To me, the fact that women are so willing to pay would signify that I am such high value they want to leave a lasting impression. A stroke of my ego if you will. Why even care about what the "norm" is? Do you and enjoy free meals. Women have been doing it for a long time, except now you are the one raking in the benefits. The truth is unf…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 11:19 PM
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You are totally right, but I would definitely mention that you need to have sharper game and a small to none SMV discrepancy. A girl with higher value than you (at least from her perspective) is going to expect a lot more than one who is the same or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:41 PM
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Really, it doesn't. When I date a girl I always start with fun and free activities whether its going to an art fair or some similar event (don't need to buy anything to have a good time), hiking, playing sports at a park, going for a nice walk at a vista point, or my absolute favorite, cooking a nice dinner together with a bottle of wine. Now I mean naturally I understand I probably would not be able to do this if I was not good looking and had pretty good game. But once you get here, you wonder…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:39 PM
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Interesting perspective on this topic. I would guess that the disparity between male and female college graduates is having a fairly large effect on this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 10:23 PM
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TRP is about picking one of the two or three traits people (of either gender) might positively have and put them on steroids, making the person unbalanced and emotionally stunted That is quite the assertion. Amplifying your positive traits is usually seen as a good thing. The way you are making blind claims about what other people are thinking combined with the negative language is pretty disappointing. Really makes me feel like there is nothing I can say to shake the idea that TRP is to blame f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/16 01:18 AM
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Your whole approach to this idea is just negative in general, assuming bullshit like the fact that families live there means no one like to party. What? It's possible your defeatist attitude is holding you back from achieving a type of lifestyle that you want. A good attitude will take you a lot farther on the path to your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 06:09 PM
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Thanks for the honest answer, I'll keep in mind what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 06:07 PM
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I have to ask, as I am legitimately curious about this. I see getting emotional over words as someone else controlling your own emotions. I spend a lot of effort focusing on maintaining composure when people start flinging shit. Maybe it comes from a true sense of self worth or something but I can never take insults seriously. They make me laugh. The words simply do not make me feel anything. Is it an unrealistic expectation for everyone to have this mindset? It has certainly made my life much m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 12:43 AM
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Through reading TRP, I have become much more satisfied with my life and its direction. Ultimately accepting that my happiness must be something to come from within myself, I became much more relaxed. Very similar to the buddhist idea that the glass is already broken, it just hasn't happened yet. So when it does, there is no surprise, you already knew it was broken. Also low investment living. If there is little to lose, there is little to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 12:31 AM
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NYC? LA? Miami? Wherever there is money, there will be hot girls. You can do anything you want as long as you spend the effort to attain or obtain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 12:24 AM
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I'm going to keep this short and simple to help keep my main message clear. within a framework of full and undisputed gender equality This idea of equality that people keep parroting is definitely one of the things that hold them back from really understanding what TRP is about. TRP is not meant to foster equality of any kind. Ultimately people go there to learn how to WIN. Traditionally women have had power in relationships. TRP helps men become the ones with power. It helps employees exert the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 12:18 AM
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I see guys out of college living this lifestyle regularly. Check out Scottsdale, AZ, more specifically the "old town" area. There are numerous high end nightclubs and bars frequented by absolutely gorgeous women and good looking men every single weekend. Maya, Livewire, CAKE, El Hefe, just to name a few for your googling pleasure. The lifestyle you describe can be lived out as long as you can tolerate it here. New girls are arriving all the time with nearby colleges and a good job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 06:11 PM
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TRP matches people in abusive relationships. Manipulative men and insecure women. Everyone is manipulative. Me responding to your post manipulated you into reading it. Leave these bs arguments at home. This would be like a "stop being alcoholic" forum being denounced for not offering an option to the crave of booze for someone whose sole purpose in life is to drink lots of it. I agree, a forum about curbing addiction that does not offer any solutions or recommendations would be a huge waste of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 05:55 PM
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I love it when girls hit on me, its absolutely hilarious. Since they don't get much practice, their game is pathetically weak. I have to keep myself from laughing too hard most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 05:48 PM
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The clear distinction that it seems is missing from this comment thread is not about how much you can increase your x/10 rating but much more related to how large your dating pool is. With the same amount of point improvement, women in general seem to be able to increase the number of people in their dating pool at a much much higher rate than men. It is easier to have more people think you are sexy with the same amount of improvement. Pretty much the same argument, just with the essential nuanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 12:59 AM
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FEMinism is about women and advancing women's issues. Egalitarianism is about creating equal opportunity for everyone. I have always taken issue with people claiming that feminism is about equality. Right in its name it identifies as explicitly female and not gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 12:31 AM
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Justified or not, the best way to keep your daughters from being "plates" is to teach them that they are higher value than a booty call. Proactive (women respecting their value) instead of reactive (telling men to respect women).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 12:15 AM
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I agree with you, it is important to respect the people with which you associate. However I would also say that it is not solely the man's responsibility to respect the women. Girls need to respect themselves first and they will get much more respect from men. Being a guy's "plate" is not something most girls would be proud of, and if they had enough respect for themselves would not be there in the first place. So it definitely does go both ways. It is important that everyone look out for their …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 05:08 PM
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You may be surprised what even well adjusted children choose to do. I have seen people completely change in college, going from a conservative mindset to one of indulgence and risk. Believe what you want but there is no way you can be sure any of your children will not be engaging in casual uncommitted sex with a really hot guy. Its just the way it is. Also, "plating" is something that top tier men have been doing for ages. TRP certainly did not start it. Top tier women do the same thing. When y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 01:10 AM
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Everyone like to talk a big game, but I guarantee you would have different feelings if such a situation were to happen for real. People talk a lot of shit on the internet, including TRP and TBP. The actual behavior of the people who are keyboard warriors is almost always completely sanitized of the extreme viewpoints. Follow through is hard for some people. Similar concept to extremely conservative parents having to confront a gay son. Most people are much more accepting when it hits home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 10:53 PM
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Tell all my friends. Have them tell their friends. Show them TRP if they aren't familiar with it. Tell my family. Have my family tell their friends. Your free advertising is always appreciated. Seriously, this type of reaction is how TRP is given an obscene amount of publicity. What if someone like your brother started reading TRP after you mentioned it in a rant? Even normal people can find something of value in a pile of trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 09:07 PM
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It definitely makes a huge difference in what people will allow you to do and their perception of you. Unfortunately there is really no way to make objective measurements and unless you make a drastic change from ugly to hot or vise versa, you will not notice a massive difference. But yes, I definitely have noticed that I can get away with more in regards to girls. Whether I make a mistake and have a moment of weakness or escalating conversations much more quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 02:38 AM
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There are also DINKs, who do cool shit with their money. They do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 02:30 AM
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Gutless? Try a 1995 Toyota Tercel with a 1.5L. It makes less than 100hp! Fast it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 02:20 AM
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I like how you remind us to stay low investment and just enjoy what we can, while we can. One of my main strategies to really enjoying life is to stay in a state of low investment. One can never be really disappointed when the input of effort was low. Makes it very easy to always see the bright side of things. It is interesting as well that you remind us of where you can find virgins. In fact, through day gaming at my school I actually found a nice cute blonde who claimed to be a virgin. The tee…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:03 AM
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I cant believe you wasted this much time on this. You knew how it was going to end before it started. You just wanted to revel in some drama filled debate. Come on dude. I feel the same way but the reality is you just wanted to prove yourself right. Be smart and remember to quit trying with these types of people.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:49 AM
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I would engage in casual, consensual sex, but shes not really that hot at all. 4-5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 11:06 PM
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Not everyone is the same. It is extremely immature to assume that everyone else shares your same experience. Only bigots are unwilling to try new perspectives. Don't be a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/15 11:28 PM
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If you want a family, focus on that first. If you want a career, focus on that first. Never expect to have the best of both worlds, there is always compromise. Sometimes you can get what you want, but plan for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 08:03 AM
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Your extremely negative attitude is no doubt making those statements a reality for you. People with positive outlooks can achieve much more than you ever thought possible. Perhaps it may be of interest to you to humor the advice of some posters and really give the whole positive outlook thing a try. You might even learn something. Only bigots are unwilling to try new perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/15 07:57 AM
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excellent reply post. especially pointing out the prevalence of bitter men in pop culture. That sentiment has been around forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 09:15 PM
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Your comment on college educated women going for single motherhood (using invitro for example or a donor) is interesting. Definitely makes a lot of sense and it will be very interesting to see how the current ratio of men v women in college pans out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 08:03 PM
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there is gender inequality, the world is skewed in favor of women. At least in western first world countries. It is definitely in favor of men in other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 07:50 PM
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In the game of attraction, tip top game and social skills will trump money overwhelmingly. Some times money works, dont get me wrong, but you usually end up with different types of girls who are more interested in your money than you. Knowing they are attracted to who you are is much more satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 07:48 PM
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1) some people are fundamentally repellent to others. This is definitely a TRP concept. If you get friendzoned or rejected its time to move on and find someone new, not double down. See Abundance mentality. 2) if you are one of these people, there is very little you will be able to do to become less repellant. Sorry. Hard-to-swallow, right? But the problem is a lack of social skills, and I don't think there's much to be done for people who can't participate in the kinds of social nuances that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 07:42 PM
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I completely disagree. I have learned how to be someone that other people want to be around through practice. I spend time going out to talk to random people and practice gaining trust from strangers and sharpening my speaking skills. There is a dramatic change from 8 months ago in my confidence and social game. I think the fundamental gap in your reasoning comes down to what appears to be your assumption that RP material is NOT what "naturals" use. The information presented in TRP is EXACTLY th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 07:34 PM
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You're asking for an easy set of rules to follow that will help you. TRP is a lot about how there are no rules, you must take all of the information and form your own path. Determine what you want to believe in and how you want to live your life using this new information. Asking for an easy, bite size formula is like trying to find a TRP get rich quick scheme. That is fundamentally not how the information here should be applied. For many, the information here will completely change who they are…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:26 PM
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Your explanation of the redefinition of what sex is and who benefits frames the whole situation exactly. People act as if having sex is something that only benefits men, like women never enjoy it and lose something of value from it. BUT, then again, if you are a lower quality man, that is EXACTLY how women feel about having sex with you. Its always funny how this feminist bs is completely targeted at loser guys. Women really do want to fuck high quality guys, they gain something from those inter…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:05 PM
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I like how you remind us that we are not special ourselves. Sure we can be fit and attractive, but we are being naive if we think we are special and unique. Thinking we are special alfalfa snowflakes is just as bad as the dumb girls who tell themselves the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 02:25 AM
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what the fuck is this bullshit post. Talk about what you are sharing dude.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 08:24 PM
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If you actually look for the legitimate research the average is actuall 0.8-1.0g/lb that yielded optimal results. take a second look at the information is all im saying.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:36 AM
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Sometimes its worth more to have a small slice and eat less later on than to flat out reject (at least in their eyes) the gift. Small tokens of appreciation (eating the smallest slice of cake possible) go much farther than most people realize at first.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 01:50 AM
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Yes, it can really pay to know exactly what must be done even if you are paying for a service. Keeps them honest like you said. Repairmen hate that shit though, always looking for the next dumb blonde to fleece.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 01:29 PM
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I completely agree. Far too many of my fellow men act like women and just call someone. A huge expense over the long term not to mention costing them some masculinity. However it must be noted that if your time is worth more, it does make more sense to hire people to do shit for you. Like if you are making $100+/hr. But that is nearly always a very long way off.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:13 PM
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It is often amazing how much harder you can push yourself when shutting out thoughts. It really is true that the mind holds back the body.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:28 PM
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"With a clear head, I can feel my ambitions pulling at me, like horses on a rein." Such a good way to explain this. Since I have started focusing on my goals and treating myself better my ambitions are always nagging me to get off my ass and get started already! It truly is an amazing feeling.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 02:06 AM
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When the going gets tough, do you quit or do you double down your effort? The true answer to that is a huge indicator if you have a winning mindset. If you are not pushing your own limits what are you living for?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 05:14 AM
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Aside from the college thing, even just moving away and having to live on your own will mature you much faster than staying somewhere comfortable. I have learned so much from just having to deal with reality and such that I would almost say it was worth the money just to be out here aside from the engineering degree.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 09:35 AM
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This is something even the ancient greeks understood. Look up the word Kairos for more information. It basically means the same thing, the most opportune moment, the supreme moment for an action. The best possible time to execute your move for maximum effect. This skill alone will take you far.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 07:17 PM
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This is how a subreddit should be run. Should have expected it from someone who takes RP to heart.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 08:08 AM
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excellent analysis. However emotion often fuels hamstering hard. This topic is always emotional to some extent.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 07:46 AM
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I would agree with this post except for a small detail that is fairly important. It is necessary to mention that for example not watching horror movies because they are scary and give them negative emotions. This is perfectly fine because the person has a real REASON for not watching horror movies. Using the cheesy cop out of it "offends" me is bullshit and stupid because they have no evidence as to why their actions are logical. But then again that seems to be exactly in line with reality, ther…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:20 AM
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This is a very good post, thought provoking for sure. I believe that you are correct in seeing any ideology as a control mechanism. The thing is that it works because people think they are following the ideology on their own volition. If it were commonplace to view ideology as a control of your life, much fewer people would buy in. What this new ideology that is being followed does extremely well is to get people to feel good about following the ideals. This positive emotion is what keeps them i…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:36 AM
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STEM subjects are very redpill in that there is an objective answer all the time. There is no disputing accurately recorded data. Often times researchers and scientists will run a test countless times, just to verify unexpected results. If the result is always the same the only conclusion is to accept it as the truth. Maybe that is why women are not too interested in it, there is no room to bullshit your answers. The hamster wheel does not exist in good science.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:17 PM
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That was great. Her hamster is going at ludicrous speed. I enjoyed this video so much.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:11 PM
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You answered the question before you even wrote any of the post. Read the title. It already tells me your mindset, which is one of defeat and not perseverance. You already assume you are unable to get out of your bad habits. The mindset is incredibly influential in your actions and reactions. You have to stop giving a fuck, all of the emotions you feel are being generated by your own mindset that you have accepted, which is: I will NEVER be as alpha as those other guys. You are your own worst en…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:38 AM
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I kinda agree but still think that its all about your genuine attitude. if you REALLY dont care it will come off in your demeanor.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 01:20 PM
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Dont listen to the haters, have some fun, stir some real shit up and see how dumb you can make your teachers look. You are in high school, its your time to fuck around and see what happens! First rule of TRP only really applies in more sophisticated adult life where you have something to lose.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:07 AM
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awesome FR. Putting the advice here to good use!
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 10:51 PM
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for many it actually is magical. Naturally things need to be hyped up for anyone to take action. Lifting can be one of the hardest activities to get yourself to do. It takes motivation, and people coming here need some help. It was magical for me, my body turned itself into a sexy beast just from lifting things. Like magic!
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 10:02 PM
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I love how GIVING her a choice is controlling. Don't want to make the choices? Find another guy to fuck, its not that hard. No agency whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 09:59 PM
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you are thinking into this way too far. If she liked you it would be obvious because girls who actually want to get with you arent going to walk around making out with every single dude. Drunk bitches do shit like that all the time. It means nothing. Go talk to the other cool girls who arent blacked out and have FUN
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 07:05 PM
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You are completely missing the point. Lifting is something that is really beneficial for a lot of people with a no confidence. If anything I think you are misinterpreting RP philosophy just by the fact that you made this post. RP is all about doing you, and not thinking about others. If you get mad pussy not lifting then fucking great for you! All the better since it sucks and is hard haha. But really, ignore the things you dont want to read or care about, simple.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 07:02 PM
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You answered all of your own questions already. If drunk girls are hooking up with more than one dude in a night they are not looking to fuck most of the time and just want to make out with the next guy. Look at the situations with some perspective. Plus I wouldnt want anything to do with those drunk sluts anyway if im just another makeout. IOI's are the same on a date as in a club, eye contact, kino, etc. Though eye contact is much easier to read, and you can bet kino escalation means shes into…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:17 PM
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I think people need to remember the context of the NFL's choices. Their viewers are half if not more women, it only makes sense they pander to their more likely to leave demographic. I am sure this will not really affect the viewership of males, however had it been handled differently many women would have likely formed a negative opinion of the NFL.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:13 AM
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join a frat freshman year and get pervy as fuck with the freshmen girls, they are dying to find a raging party and get railed out by some frat bro. I watched it happen last night: I found some girls who came to our party (admittedly slutty and dumb), then flat out asked my brother to "show" her his room within about 15 minutes haha TL;DR gain status in your first year so you can leverage it way harder the second year. Dont forget there is a new batch of freshmen every fall to meet hot girls.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:08 AM
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Joined a frat. Bro. Works wonders for "bro game"
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:47 PM
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Wow. Not sure who is right or wrong but as per usual youtube not even considering that the woman might be wrong. I should have expected that really.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 08:54 AM
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So funny how the women try to deny the "date fabio and marry mark suckerberg" haha
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 08:34 AM
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Once a woman has tasted the sweet nectar of another hot dude's cock, your chances at a successful marriage drop significantly. Interesting chart that shows the real rates at which sexual partner count correlates with marriage success.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 04:51 AM
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I think a really great way to help you learn how to dance is to get comfortable relaxing you body and letting it move freely. For me the real ticket was playing sports. It helped me get spatial awareness and learn how to let me body move in fluid, organic ways. I have always found that men who "cant dance" simply cannot relax their body enough. they are robotic with their movements instead of fluid. also remember that everyone knows, if you can dance you can fuck, and vise versa. Especially girl…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 04:33 PM
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If I remember to I will, but I wont be partying hard with hot young girls everywhere until the semester starts again in about a month. I definitely need to think out more of my party game before then so thanks for giving me a kick start. And that story is funny, you only missed your chance, that one night! haha
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 10:05 PM
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Your strategy at parties is interesting, and makes a lot of sense. I will have to try that sometime, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:35 PM
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Whiskey dick strikes again!
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:30 AM
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Same age as you man, and yes, females at this age are usually not the sharpest crayon in the art supply room.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 12:16 AM
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This is exactly why, as a young college age male, I joined a social fraternity. It has many things to offer to young 20 somethings, such as: --Near endless college pussy --Binge drinking with the bros --Late nights out to the club where your brother is the manager and bottle service doesnt cost an arm and a leg --Pledges to clean your house (one of the best things) Its too bad these types of organizations are so vilified by the media and public today. They provide a great experience for young pe…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 07:11 AM
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Just dont give her TOO much attention. If you make hanging out with her a commonplace, predictable thing the passion will slowly start to wither away. Just keep things interesting and dont try to spend too much time with her. Kept at an arms length so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:48 PM
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It all boils down to not believing the shit women say. You aren't a man or a leader if you are following the orders of your woman.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:58 PM
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I definiel agree that you have to give some signals. Just surprise them with little demonstrations of affection. If you play it right normal shit should be surprising and flattering. Making your regular habits worth even more. ♂
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 09:55 PM
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I definitely agree, complaining is a HUGE waste of time. Not only will you look a fool, but you will feel shitty as well. Though I tend to do something like swear loudly one time, letting out my frustration, but then shut the fuck up after. Letting out a nice FUUUUUAAAARRRKKKKK can be so liberating sometimes. (as long as you maintain frame afterwards)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:28 PM
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It would be interesting to see what his response will be. If positive, show him the thread haha Nice of you to stick up for those who think they have tried everything to help themselves, everything except the solution.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:01 AM
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He means to literally laugh at her when she gets mad at you for some bullshit. Amused in that it entertains you to see her getting angry. It is the ultimate insult if they are legitimately trying to instigate something.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:53 PM
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TL;DR: Keep your complaints to yourself, and only open your mouth when you have a solution or are going to actively do something to remedy that complaint. Just saying, X is wrong/bad/annoying/etc. doesn't do shit, only solutions do anything to help your situation.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:12 AM
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Based on your post, it seems this is only an issue if you are a beta bux who feeds this validation craze. Any man worth his salt wont give a fuck about 6/10s thinking they are the shit, they will next them hard and pickup the 7 around the corner. The whole "problem" you are describing relies on the fact that there are still a LOT of people out there to give the 6/10 attention whore her validation. If you aren't one of those people, or give less than or equal to zero fucks about these attention h…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:05 AM
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The oatmeal is awesome, they have many interesting comics that interpret life in a nice simple way. The sad part is many people will not realize what you explained, unless they are looking at it from a different perspective. All of the guys who already would sacrifice that much for any woman would get mega butthurt about how the comic shows that "assholes" and "douchebags" are always there just to kick them down and take their shit. Which I will give them is usually true, except they wont admit …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 04:04 AM
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