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You can’t claim that your “proof” is “personal interactions” because your personal interactions are no more valid than mine and anyone else’s. You can’t claim that your personal assertions are valid and others’ aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 03:43 AM
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Hence why you’re on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 04:37 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:07 AM
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finding someone attractive and dehumanizing them are two completely different things. You’re either willfully ignorant or uneducated. Either way, go fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:05 AM
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Men have to shame one another for the size of their dicks because religion and if they don’t, families fall apart. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:05 AM
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So we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 12:44 AM
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Men practice it for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:43 PM
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What the hell are you talking about my dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:43 PM
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👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:42 PM
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Even if you were the most amazing women he’s ever met, and believe me, it’s not just “Chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:42 PM
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Attraction may not be negotiable for you you or other men, but as I stated previously, many women feel attraction and desire differently than most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:40 PM
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I’m not framing it as symmetry. Resources ≠ beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:38 PM
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I don’t know why I expected anything different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:37 PM
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Women don’t care nearly as much about height than men tell each other women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:36 PM
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If women practice hypergamy for resources then men practice hypergamy for looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:52 PM
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And y’all believe women treat men shorter than 6’2” like lepers when that’s objectively not true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:50 PM
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Yup. Men created the same issue with penis size, but based on these comments they sure as hell won’t take responsibility for that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:47 PM
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“this chick” is talking about men the exact same way y’all talk about women on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:44 PM
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And men wonder why marriage rates are on the decline and bemoan that women’s’ standards are too high
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 03:29 PM
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You know women are individuals, real people each with their own thoughts, emotions, aspirations, fears, and desires and not just the fictional hive-mind caricature you’ve made up in your head, right? Really think about your answer. Do some genuine self-reflection on why you believe the things you do about women, about the women you respect and the ones you don’t, and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 07:36 AM
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Your whole argument is besides the point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:37 PM
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every day I understand more and more why the men on this sub are the way that they are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:17 PM
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I never said anything about reasons a man dumps his partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:16 PM
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Do me a favor, double-check the name of this sub and tell me what colors you need to make purple. Red….and….??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:44 PM
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It’s not a myth, it’s a noted psychological phenomenon called (today commonly called The Madonna/Whore Complex) that can be found in art and literature made by men going back hundreds of years. I suggest reading some of the work Uwe Hartmann has published for a more in-depth analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:42 PM
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I’m tryna tell this guy what he can do, I can’t give his wife advice if she’s not here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:35 PM
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Men know that they can’t support the kid with themselves AND work to provide when the kid isn’t with them. divorcemag.com states 1/3 of children in sole-residential homes see their other parent at least once a month, 1/3 less than once a month (1/2 of that 1/3 less than once a year), and 1/3 never see their non-custodial parent. If the majority of men paying child support see their kids less than once a month, there’s no reason they can’t work to provide for their child just because of partial c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:33 PM
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Men are constantly dehumanizing women to sexual objects and have been for all of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:01 PM
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It’s a complicated issue that’s already been broken down and analyzed by experts much more throughly than I can in a Reddit comment, but I’d say the jist of it is that our society views women as inherently more competent than men when it comes to homemaking and raising and caring for children (and inherently less competent than men in business and other professional fields), and more women ask for full custody of their children than men do. As a result, more women end up with full or primary cus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:41 PM
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And women want to be desired for more than their tits and ass, so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:01 PM
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all the men in the replies to this are already convinced that you wife is gonna run off and fuck another man, jesus christ no wonder they can’t land a date. Listen, women’s sexual desire is a different beast than men’s desire, not less than, just different. I suggest reading “Come As You Are” by Emily Nagoski. And sit down with your wife, talk to her, look at her the same way you did when you first turned and saw her walking down the aisle, speak to her like you did when you read your vows. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:55 PM
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It’s an interesting juxtaposition, men say they desperately crave affection and want women to desire them, but if a woman “gives it up too easily”, they don’t respect her because she’s a whore. They want women to desire them… but demean the women who show them desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:49 PM
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oooh buddy the average woman out-earning the average man?? I’m gonna need to see a source on that!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:46 PM
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So let me get this straight. In my original comment, I stated that I, personally, am not disgusted by the thought of sex with an average looking man, but I am disgusted by the thought of sex with a misogynist who doesn’t value me as a person. In response, you’re trying to postulate that the “trend” is that “the opposite happens way more often” and your proof is your “life” and that’s valid argument because “the sample size statistically significant.” Do you understand how nonsensical that is? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:54 AM
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Alright what’s your source for these trends? Because anecdotal evidence doesn’t mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:51 PM
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That’s a different statement than “men cannot take half her shit”, which is the statement I’m refuting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:23 PM
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You can’t use your life as a source to refute my personal sexual preference dude, your life has nothing to do with me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:22 PM
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Half those descriptors apply to my ex (we broke up for reasons completely unrelated to his appearance, before you ask). He was relatively short for a guy (about 5’7”) was moderately overweight, had a round face, big lips, big eyes, all that. Granted, he didn’t have a high-pitched voice, but I genuinely could not care less about the pitch of a guy’s voice. Lord knows Id rather be with a soft-spoken man than a man who yells all the time. But I’ve never been into k-pop or any of those idols, no. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:20 PM
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I actually like men who look a bit feminine/androgynous so that’s a plus for me, “shy” meaning, what, he has anxiety? a hard time opening up to new people? That’s not something I’m going to look down on him for. And the “3/10” means what? Acne, glasses, crooked teeth, etc? I don’t care. If he, like, doesn’t shower or brush his teeth, that’s definitely going to effect my perception of him, but those are behaviors that can be changed if he wants to change them. And I’m assuming this 8/10 guy is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:38 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:12 PM
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Hell no. I would never consent to sex with a man who doesn’t respect me, no exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:12 PM
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Men can get alimony, child support, and other belongings in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:45 PM
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The thought of sex with an average-looking man I like isn’t disgusting at all, but the thought of sex with a misogynist who doesn’t value me as a person definitely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:01 PM
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The percentage of men who leave/cheat after their wife is diagnosed with cancer is drastically higher than the percentage of women who leave or cheat if their husband is diagnosed with cancer. Men are also much more likely to cheat if their partner has a miscarriage. I think your ideology is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 06:57 PM
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fanfiction has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:38 AM
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So let me get this straight. You have a homophobic friend miserable enough to insult your phone case, and you actually care enough about what someone else thinks of the plastic that covers your phone that you actually spent money on a new one? Why are you friends with such a terrible person? Why do you want to date someone like that? she’s very attractive ah. of course. hope she settles bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:33 PM
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That leap from “being affectionate with your male friends” to just straight up gay sex was astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:26 PM
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That’s just straight up homophobic. Get better friends dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:19 PM
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I’m being more and more convinced that the reason the men on the sub can’t land a partner is because they have convinced themselves that they know what women want better than actual women do, but they’re wrong, they’re all so wrong, oh my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:18 PM
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oh no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:15 PM
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If men were as affectionate with each other as female friends are, women would assume they’re gay and disqualify them. This is the funniest goddamn thing I’ve ever read, what planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:16 PM
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/s?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:14 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:37 PM
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those backflips… astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:35 PM
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illiterate then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:33 PM
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female privilege As a MGTOW ah there it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:27 AM
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luckily for you you already know you’re better than women then huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:19 AM
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I’m so sorry men sometimes get called mean names on the internet 😢 that’s the real tragedy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:18 AM
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ew, an insecure man who calls women “females.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:14 AM
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are you illiterate? the one covered in the article I directly quoted? the one OP posted about? literally scroll up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:13 AM
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Alright take it up with the author of this study
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:49 AM
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The only people who are threatened by someone else’s intelligence are people who are insecure about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:49 AM
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Good for you! Unfortunately most men don’t share that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:02 PM
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Props! Just a generality that I know from speaking with other women and from my own personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:01 PM
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Such a shame all the men out there who harass, stalk, and hurt women have given men, in general, a bad name
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 10:00 PM
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Pre-pandemic I can recall multiple instances. Once at a restaurant I left the waiter my number (he was wearing a t-shirt for a band I liked) once in college I asked out the guy in front of me in the cafeteria line, many times I’ve struck up random conversations with guys, had a nice chat, and gone about my day. In the south that’s not uncommon. Have I been shot down? Absolutely. Have I tried to chat with a guy who clearly wasn’t interested? 1000%. But I didn’t mope and whine on the internet abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:49 PM
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You’re blaming your own illogical argument on a theoretical idea of “women” you have in your head, but honestly I don’t expect any different from guys in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:44 PM
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y’all self-victimize entirely too much. if she has headphones in, is reading a book, or anything similar that coveys: “I don’t want to talk”, then don’t talk to her. If not, say hi, introduce yourself, ask how her day is going. If she responds positively, great, keep the conversation flowing. If not? Then leave her alone. It’s not that hard. You ask how her day is and she just says “Fine” without making eye contact? She doesn’t want to talk. Say, “Glad to hear it, have a good one.” and walk away…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:20 PM
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yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:12 PM
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That’s extremely telling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:09 PM
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further incentives people to be matched hypergamy you’re contradicting yourself. do women want someone equal to them or do women want someone in a higher station?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:09 PM
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men have fragile egos. they don’t like seeing a woman outperform them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:36 PM
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“men do not value women’s intelligence or ambition when it exceeds their own” there it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:23 PM
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If you don’t want to do that labor you’re welcome to hire someone to do it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:46 PM
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And expecting your partner to clean up after you because you refuse to clean up after yourself is even greedier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:45 PM
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Sir. Put your dirty socks in the hamper. It’s not back-breaking manual labor. It’s the bare minimum of being a grown-up. You’re being overly-dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:11 PM
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I’ll never understand why some men think working full time AND contributing to upkeep the household is on par with asking for the moon and stars. Go to work, put your socks in the hamper instead of tossing them on the floor, offer to do the dishes if your partner cooked dinner, and if you have kids trade off picking them up from school. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:59 PM
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You’re making a lot of broad, sweeping generalizations about women with zero evidence to back up your claims. Women are not a monolith. Don’t be a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:24 PM
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Environment is minimal. Take responsibility for your success and failures and stop obsessing about “getting laid”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 09:04 PM
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thanks bestie 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:07 PM
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A woman is not a object that depreciates in value, she’s a human being who’s value is inherent. If you lose respect for a woman because she ages or because of what she does for a living, that’s a reflection on you, not on her. Just because you don’t see a woman’s value doesn’t mean she has none.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:14 PM
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Craig’s gonna buy me those scrumptious cheddar biscuits? And I don’t have to worry about getting covered in sand?? Take me now, Chad Craig!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:10 PM
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women have been seeking men who can provide for them since the dawn of humankind. the man who killed the mammoth and brought it back for everyone to eat was the man most desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:58 AM
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I’m sorry you had to experience that. Men being drugged and raped by women is an extremely uncommon phenomenon, and your situation in which you would have had to pay child support is not the type of situation making up the vast majority of child support cases. The reason they gave men custody of their children historically was because a large number of women weren’t allowed to have their own bank account, let alone a job that paid enough to raise a family, where men have had that privilege. Payi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 01:04 PM
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high value =/= high quality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:28 PM
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I hope shirking responsibility in your relationships works out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:47 PM
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giving attention to someone you have no intention of dating despite your partner’s unhappiness is a shitty thing to do, regardless of whether it’s in-person or on instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:30 PM
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Okay you’re being willfully ignorant. If the girl was continuously flirting with random guys despite having no intention of dating them, and chose to continue to do so despite it upsetting her boyfriend, you wouldn’t blame the guys she’s flirting with, you’d blame her, not the guys she’s flirting with who don’t know she’s in a relationship. Same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:20 PM
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your words, not mine!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:41 PM
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Again, it’s not the picture, it’s the boyfriend choosing his own gratification over his girlfriends security in their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:06 PM
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And it gives her the freedom to find a man less shallow. Win/Win!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 04:05 PM
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You’re confusing “standards” and “expectations”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:35 PM
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It never ceases to amaze me how much straight men hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:19 PM
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It’s not the picture, it’s the boyfriend choosing to do something despite knowing it makes it girlfriend unhappy. It’s choosing his own gratification over his girlfriend’s feeling of security in their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:00 PM
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You cannot fathom the trauma of longer feeling safe in your own skin because someone has ripped that away from you for their own gratification. God forbid a man give up some of his paycheck so his children don’t go hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:57 PM
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If he isn’t happy with her appearance he’s welcome to break up with her and pursue someone better looking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:54 PM
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A man hitting on your girlfriend- not a decision she made. But she chooses to reject him. A man following women on instagram just because he thinks they’re attractive- a decision he made. But he chooses to continue following them and liking their pictures knowing it makes his girlfriend unhappy. See the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:54 AM
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Honey do not mistake my self-confidence for a personal attack. The reason I don’t care about anyone’s judgement of me is because I love myself enough to know that their opinion of me holds no power. It’s not that I have a low opinion of men, is that I have an exceedingly high opinion of myself. If you mistake a woman’s self-love for hatred of men, that says a hell of a lot more about you then it does about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:46 PM
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That’s very unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:44 PM
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you only want to have slept with more people because your partner has? that’s so weird, it’s not a competition. your partner’s exes are in the past and therefore irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:58 PM
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Accusing me of being a misandrist, once again, allows you to dismiss my perspective as a woman regarding what women actually desire in a long-term partner and blame your failures on others rather than taking responsibility. If you chose to not believe women when they tell you what they’re looking for in a long-term partner because you have convinced yourself that you, as a man, know women better than they know themselves, you’re a misogynist, and odds are you will continue to fail, and that’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:25 PM
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Okay, I’ll keep it 100 with you: I could give a fuck about other people’s judgement of me, especially mens’ judgement. I’m an anonymous woman on the internet, why would I lie for fear of being judged anyway? You’re intentionally seeking out confirmation bias. you want a woman to come forward and say, “Yup, it’s true, all women care about is height, abs, dick size and income!” because if you believe that, then the fact that women don’t like you isn’t your fault, and you can absolve yourself of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:43 PM
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It honestly amazes me how many men insist they know what women want more than women do. It’s a bias rooted in misogyny, and gives a clear indication as to the real reasons why they actually can’t secure a relationship despite insisting they’re “doing everything right”. Exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:19 AM
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so if it were up to you, you would have a high number of past sexual partners, and that’s okay and you would expect any woman you date to be okay with that, but her having a high number of past sexual partners would be unacceptable to you? that’s hypocritical. a woman’s value isn’t determined by her number of sexual partners, no one’s is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:53 AM
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reading the term “divorce rape” just made my stomach turn, but then I read the rest of your comment and now it makes sense why you’d think paying your ex-spouse alimony/child support is anything close to being physically and intimately violated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:47 AM
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Your external locus of control can be seen from space. To answer your question, I have no doubt I could, but my sexual success would be in the form of securing a long-term partner, not in a one-night stand. I’m kind, compassionate, empathetic, hard-working, thoughtful, caring, I have a steady income, I keep a clean home, I know how to cook, and I know how to perform emotional labor. I keep myself clean and groomed and I know how to dress nicely. I’m educated, I read often, I’m creative, and I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 06:34 AM
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It’s literally impossible to stop aging. No one can stay in perfect shape forever. Also, saying women just want to go on vacation to post pics on instagram is casting women as incredibly shallow. There are many men and women who want to travel so that they can experience new things, gain new perspective and grow as a person- not just for pics on insta. But what is shallow is only valuing someone for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:50 PM
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adventure and excitement? what, like traveling to different places or trying new cuisines? That’s not a strictly female desire. Besides, wanting your partner to travel and try new thing with you isn’t on par with wanting your partner to stay young and fit forever. You can’t make the decision to stop aging, but you can make the decision to stop trying new things. A woman being unhappy because her husband stop putting in effort is very different than a husband being unhappy because his wife doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:40 PM
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On the surface a nice gaming set-up might not raise any red flags- there’s nothing wrong with investing money into your hobby, after all- but sooo many men who identify as “gamers” are incredibly toxic and misogynistic as hell, and any man who happily invests in his hobby but won’t invest in his partner? Run for the hills!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:38 PM
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HVM are more likely to know other HVM, ask him to set you up with one of his friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:14 PM
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apologies for my unclear wording, should be, “nearly half of the sexually active boys they surveyed”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:44 PM
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I’m not gonna lie, I find it incredibly hard to believe that nearly half of the boys they surveyed have had anal sex, especially considering they’re so young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:25 PM
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men who get off on raping unconscious women have serious necrophiliac vibes 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:58 PM
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I’m currently 26, but I woke up on my 20th birthday tomorrow, here’s what I would do: Go to therapy and get medicated. From 20-21 I was in a severe depressive episode, and almost flunked out of college because of it. Going to therapy and getting properly medicated would have saved me so much grief. Applied for many, many more scholarships and grants to help pay for my college tuition Cut off my toxic, fair-weather friends and surrounded myself with positive, genuine people Found myself an older …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:52 PM
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This is why I’m so incredibly thankful for my close friends who have been in my life for more than a decade. We met when we were 12/13 and we’re all in our late 20’s now. I’ve known these women for more than half my life and I can go to them for anything, and vice versa. Don’t seek validation in a man, find women you can be friends with for a lifetime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:46 PM
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I mean, they keep saying they want someone who is chill, likes sports, doesn’t spend time on their appearance, doesn’t nag or expect anything of them… sure sounds like one of their homies to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:59 AM
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it’s honestly astounding how much straight men don’t even… like women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:10 PM
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and he still looks like he did at 25, right? no?? shocker!! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:51 AM
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$140?? That’s the cost of a nice dinner out for the two of them, not the ring she’s going to be wearing for the rest of her life! She dodged a bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:32 PM
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those cheekbones tho!! 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:15 PM
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eugh I’m always so bummed when there’s no captions 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:54 AM
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But when a woman wants a tall, handsome man with a large salary they cry “misandry” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:40 PM
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LVM/NVM come in all sexualities 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:13 AM
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it’s the ✨audacity✨ for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:23 AM
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this is so inaccurate! His life won’t remain largely unchained, HIS quality of life will increase dramatically because she’ll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, and laundry for him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:01 PM
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Moreover, MEN need go step up and put a stop to this behavior when they see it. Men need to hold each other accountable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:13 AM
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The terms “white knight” and “simp” were originally used by women to describe desperate men on the internet trying to get attention from women by posturing as nice guys, but they were appropriated by men to describe literally any man that doesn’t treat women like garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:35 PM
2

Ah yes, subjugating yourself to patriarchal beauty standards and giving men exactly what they want. soooo empowering. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:20 PM
53

LVM could be HVM if they put in the time and effort. But most of them won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:23 PM
26

First post: The ultimatums never last!! Update: He promised to stop and this time he /really/ means it She is not the clown, she is the entire circus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:45 PM
29

we gotta pool our money to get the mods gift cards for christmas or something, the unflaired comments on this post alone must be cluster****
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:49 PM
103

prostitution should be decriminalized for women only, in order to help keep trafficked and abused women out of jail. the johns, however, can stay getting arrested and rotting in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:14 PM
32

men: it’s just biology that men are smarter and more rational and think more logically also men: it’s not my fault I raped her she was dressed provocatively and I couldn’t control myself I’m just a dumb animal driven by instinct I’m not responsible for my actions riiiiiiight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:37 PM
8

the term “spinning many plates” means to multitask or have multiple projects going on at once. In this context, op is referring to the women he has in his rotation as “plates”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:01 PM
34

After switching BC methods, so almost wound up in the hospital needing a blood transfusion because I bled so heavily for so long my iron levels plummeted. I would be sitting down at my desk and I couldn’t catch my breath, and just walking a hundred feet made me feel like I was going to pass out. But this guy is losing “vital fluid”, suuure lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:53 PM
10

There are apps you can download that can pull exif data from a photo, I use EXIF Viewer. This is assuming the person who took the picture has their location enabled on their phone, not everyone does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:27 PM
98

These men realize this law was passed to keep trafficked women out of jail, and not for them, right? Of course not, that would require having more than two brain cells 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:21 AM
2

No worries, I submitted my post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:36 PM
2

No dice! Here’s what it looks like when I try to post! https://imgur.com/a/glxE5mS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:16 PM
2

I tried to post there, but it says only trusted members are allowed to post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:01 PM
3

He really went into my post history for no reason, saw I’ve posted here in the past, and then replied to my unrelated comment letting me know he didn’t approve. Honestly, what drives men to do things like this? Why do you think I care? We stay winning and scrotes stay mad 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:54 PM
19

a hvm secure in his masculinity would never be intimidated by a woman’s height. one of my favorite youtubers is 5’8”, and sometimes people give him shit because his girlfriend is 5’11”, but he always defends her and says she’s his “tall Dutch queen” and I adore that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:22 PM
82

He’s also a former police officer, but they’re trying reallly hard to not mention that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:00 PM
66

with young boys being exposed to porn before they even hit double-digits, yeah, no, there’s no way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:13 PM
323

and yet men who make the conscious decision to stop watching porn say themselves they started seeing their partner as more beautiful and their other interpersonal relationships improved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:04 PM
27

My grandmother. She lost her son (my uncle) when he was in his early 20’s, but kept herself together so she could raise her daughter (my mom). When my grandfather had a stroke that left him disabled, she cared for him by herself for 10 years. She deserved so much better. She is the strongest woman I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:52 PM
12

So someone should only be labeled an addict if their distress begins when their partner finds out?? so single meth users aren’t addicts then? single alcoholics aren’t addicts? that makes zero logical sense. addiction is addiction regardless of whether it impacts the people around you or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:42 PM
2

You’re missing my point. Women are people, but men have been comparing us to animals for a thousand years and it’s dehumanizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:58 PM
5

Again, I’m not arguing for the term “sex worker”, but words have power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:39 PM
5

I mean, both, obviously, but this thread is specifically about the verbiage. Dehumanization is the first step to violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:23 PM
33

You should not give men attention for free, full stop ✋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:20 PM
3

What makes me uncomfortable is knowing that scrotes refer to these women as “prostitutes” and “hookers” as well, although their justification is different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:18 PM
1

Scrotes aren’t thinking of how hungry or battered these women are anyway. And again, I’m not arguing for or against the terms “sex worker” or “prostitute” because I honestly don’t like either one, just for different reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:13 PM
2

That’s what I mean when I say “uplift” them, but I don’t think any woman should be compared to an object or animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:11 PM
15

Yeah. I understand not liking the term “sex work” because it paints a pretty picture of a deplorable industry, but verbiage like “prostitute” and “hooker” are so dehumanizing. Trafficked women forced into “sex work”/“prostitution” are our sisters and we need to uplift them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:26 PM
34

Ehhhh not a huge fan of comparing women to animals, but I definitely see what you’re trying to convey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:08 PM
11

See also: The Narcissist’s Prayer “That didn’t happen. And if it did, then it wasn’t that bad. And if it was, then it’s not my fault. And if it was, then I didn’t mean it. And if I did, then you deserved it”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:44 PM
3

FDS: Just because a man is gay doesn’t mean he can’t be a misogynist. Reddit: hOMoPHoBIa!!!! They realize there are many bi, pan, lesbian, and queer women on this sub, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:26 PM
48

“WE paid off $15,000 of HIS debt”??? oh no no no no honey whyyyy would you do that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:01 AM
90

and he calls her a “deadbeat”!! Imagine what the world would be like if all “deadbeat” dads paid 125% of their child support!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:10 PM
22

and I thought “house dates” couldn’t get any lazier lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:36 PM
288

how the hell are you supposed to get to know someone and talk to them if you’re both working?? this is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:34 AM
9

“feminists hate masculinity!!” ummm no? no we don’t? A huge number of feminists love a strong, masculine gentlemen. What we don’t love is TOXIC MASCULINITY. And if you don’t know the difference by now, it’s simply because you refuse to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:16 AM
210

yeah, no. when I left for college the only thing I knew how to do was boil water and press buttons on the microwave. so what did I do? I went online and taught myself how to cook dozens of different meals, taught myself how to do laundry, taught myself how to make a budget, taught myself how to shop for good deals, taught myself how to sew up damaged clothing, etc. Unless you’re dealing with a severe physical or mental illness, it’s achievable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:07 PM
21

lesbians can orgasm from penetrative sex?? duh??? I blame porn that shows women moaning like crazy when a guy so much as puts his hand on her arm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:56 PM
53

Thank you so much for your insight! I’ve read far too many horror stories to EVER trust a male doctor, male therapist, or male OBG/YN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:21 PM
70

YES!! There are female abusers out there, but the vast majority are MEN! To pretend otherwise is asinine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:16 PM
22

Ah! I literally just got it in the mail so I’ve only read the first little bit! But from what I can tell so far it’s awesome! I know there’s a couple other posts on this sub about the book if you search! But I will definitely update once I finish it! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:08 PM
38

I got the book from ThriftBooks.com, literally the best place to buy second-hand books!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:58 PM
87

Imagine being so privileged you think being able to accuse someone of sexual assault is a privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:43 PM
127

this man genuinely believes she is “obsessed” with her cat because she goes above and beyond to care for it. astounding. do men not understand unconditional love?? I guess they don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:31 PM
7

Unfortunately not doable, he works night shifts and I work 8-5 so he’s up and about while I’m asleep. Also, he doesn’t use the kitchen, he pretty much lives off pizza and cigarettes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:50 PM
5

Yes 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:16 PM
58

As a woman who has to share a bathroom with a male roommate, I can confirm. He refuses to wash his hands, and will only use hand sanitizer after defecating. It’s absolutely disgusting but there’s nothing I can do to force him to wash his hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:24 PM
18

Ryan Higa is solid gold 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:00 AM
115

and if she did fuck them, they’d still hate her and shame her. there’s no winning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:25 AM
82

I remember reading that book in high school, and it hit me really hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:49 PM
13

Can you link the original post? I’m dying to read it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:00 AM
11

It’s a mannequin from a sex shop. You can clearly see him breaking the shop window. The fact that this scrote would sink so low as to do something like this is hilarious to me- they’re so deplorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:17 AM
243

yup, as in, “spinning many plates” aka “dating many women at once”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:55 AM
81

Unfortunately, a lot of them are popular and well-liked by those around them. You can never let your guard down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 12:29 AM
45

and all the TV shows and movies where a good girl “fixes” a shitty guy... barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:14 PM
121

That, or he views her as “damaged goods” so he sought out a woman who “wasn’t”. Absolute trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:42 PM
82

The words “I consider myself a supreme gentleman. I was angry that they would give their love and affection to obnoxious brutes” came out of this monster’s mouth with complete sincerity. The incel community inspires outright terrorism. They’re all deranged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:53 AM
323

It makes me sick to my stomach to see him say, “I’m struggling on seeing a way out”. He ruined his wife’s life and made his own life miserable, and all he can think about is escaping and leaving his wife and kids behind. What an absolutely despicable human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:18 PM
6

I have a degree in psychology! :) I’m happy to help in whatever way I can, DM me if you want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:55 PM
12

I found an amazing mental health professional on tik tok who specifically talks about intergenerational trauma in black families! as a white woman with a psychology major it was eye-opening!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:50 AM
5

thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:18 PM
3

thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:17 PM
58

don’t even have to read it to know you made the right decision. you are ALWAYS better off single than staying with a man who doesn’t make you feel like a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:43 AM
89

I’m nobody’s “property” and I never will be! I belong to myself only!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:37 AM
27

he can have three more wives if I can have three more husbands, lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:36 AM
64

this would be great on the malicious compliance subreddit! you go girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:34 AM
33

I’ve been told I walk “like I’ve got somewhere to be” aka I walk quickly with a long stride. that’s just my natural pace. and I’ve never had a problem slowing down for others!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:23 AM
9

jokes on him, I’m absolutely thriving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:21 PM
60

that’s when you casually start spinning your (legal) butterfly knife with a big smile on your face. let’s see how long he sticks around when you’ve got a knife in your hand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:20 PM
281

“he just wanted to say hi!!!l 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:24 PM
15

It’s tragic that such a talented, beautiful women makes such pick-me music
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:01 PM
2

I Will Possess Your Heart by Death Cab For Cutie “How I wish you could see the potential/ The potential of you and me/ It's like a book elegantly bound/ But in a language that you can't read just yet (Chorus x2) You gotta spend some time, love/ You gotta spend some time with me/ And I know that you'll find love/ I will possess your heart There are days when outside your window/ I see my reflection as I slowly pass/ And I long for this mirrored perspective/ When we'll be lovers, lovers at last/ (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:57 PM
8

she doesn’t look a day over 40! the “wall” is total bs!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:31 PM
5

no no, it was in reference to how she met her ex: through a friend. she’s saying next time she DOES get into a relationship (and she said she doesn’t plan on it for a while) she’s going to find someone herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:27 PM
36

For some context, I was talking to her months ago about her ex’s LVM behavior and red flags, but she decided to give him a second chance and try to work things out. I’m sorry that it had to happen to her this way, but she’s thrown herself fully into a glow-up! I’m so proud of her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:21 PM
22

girl... do not come onto this sub and defend men who treat their mothers like personal servants 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:19 PM
60

it’s not that he feels the need to take care of his mother, like op said his mom is healthy and young. he doesn’t want to live without his mother because I guarantee she still does all the cooking, cleaning, and laundry for him, so he never has to lift a finger. if he moves out, he might actually have to gasp put some effort into being an actual adult!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:58 PM
-1

I’ve actually played the game she’s talking about: it’s called Hunie Pop if anyone wants to look it up. It’s pretty gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:43 AM
144

a man could meet a woman who checks all of his boxes like the girl of his wildest dreams but if his bro says “nah her face kinda messed up” he’ll dump her. men care sooo much about impressing each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:35 AM
275

I feel so bad for sex workers who can’t pick their clients 🤮 no women should have to deal with disgusting men like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:29 AM
9

Girl I am in AWE! Keep slaying!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:28 PM
152

When razors first started being produced, men were the target audience because they shaved their faces. However, during WWI and WWII, there were so many man drafted that razor sales plummeted. So, a bunch of men sitting in a board room decided to market their razors to women instead, and they did this by running ads declaring that body hair on women was unhygienic. So women started shaving their legs and underarms, and the rest is history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:26 PM
3

imagine being on a date with a girl that beautiful and having the audacity to think you’re better than her. just completely incomprehensible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:53 AM
2

I learned this the hard way. I got looked at like I was crazy when I complained that my ex didn’t each vegetables. It’s “small” but it says so much about their maturity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:39 PM
66

and then in the next breath they say only men are rational enough to hold power 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:37 PM
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