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257	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.	Debate	XCheeseMerchantX	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 01:33 PM

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2	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. He also confirmed he has a brother and two nephews with autism. You realize there’s a high generic component to it, right? Especially when that many people in a family has it. I am not denying that, nor is it a guarantee someone has it as well since it can skip a generation. meaning you could still be not sure of it purely on the basis of that. Because his social skills were really bad and I doubt he was intentionally creepy. He too didnt follow social norms. Pervert's in general don't follow so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 05:53 PM
5	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. Anecdotal: Many of them are because they become creepy neckbeard weeaboos. I have never seen an autistic guy being accused of being creepy unless he‘s doing something creepy or socially weird. The fact that for you social akwardness/weirdness is the same as creepyness tells a lot about how judgmental you are as a person. a guy that does not conform to social norms because of an illness is always creepy according to your logic. you are the prime example of a woman that entirely judges a man's wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 04:56 PM
5	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. Its not impossible to find a relationship as an Autistic man. but statistically having one as an autistic man means you are an outlier. and not the norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 04:31 PM
10	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. Thanks for this chart. it sadly confirms what i have been thinking for the majority of my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 04:26 PM
48	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. experienced the same as well. the worst thing is when you confront people about it, the counter argument is always "but woman have this other problem that is entirely unrelated to the subject to deal with"	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 04:23 PM
2	As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues. This exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 04:21 PM
13	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success I don't see any of that in my enviroment, and i go outside enough. Statistic,s and the well known male loneliness epidemic confirm my arguments however. Statistics and research don't lie. Your "go outside and touch grass" argument doesn,t change that fact. I want Both genders to put the same effort into eachother. The fact that you strawman that into me wanting Women to cater to my feelings shows you are arguing in bad faith and have nothing of value to add in this discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 01:04 PM
18	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success Seeing a big part of women being single by choice contradicts your statement. It implies that those women cannot find that treatment from some one else. A lot of women instead rather be single with unrealistic expectations and getting pumped and dumped once in a while by fuckboys then having to lower their expectations to realistic levels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 12:51 PM
20	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success I care about that because most of the Women have those unrealistic standards. What you are saying makes sense IF 80% of the woman having those delusional standards wasn't the case, which sadly is the case in todays world. if it was only a small part of the women that had unrealisticly high standards, then the average man could just go and try taking a shot at a group of women who has realistic standards. However that percentage of women that have realistic standards is a minority nowadays. A par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 12:44 PM
37	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success A man not wanting a relationship that is completely on the woman's unrealistic delusional terms is not the same as a man not really wanting a romantic relationship. Its like saying "if you don't want to buy this crappy second hand car that is almost falling apart then you are not a real driver, so you should stop driving cars" Men want relationships that benefit them as well. not only the other way around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 12:30 PM
42	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success You are right that a lot of men don't put in the effort. But that is because the Juice is not worth the squeeze for most men. and the effort is very often not given back by women. Having to cater to the unrealistic expectations of modern women while barely getting anything in return effort wise from women is a double standard most men are just not willing to deal with anymore. If women were willing to provide the same effort in return, i am sure most men would be willing to put in the effort. Bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 12:22 PM
3	It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partner A parent failing to do their job is not equal to a parent not loving their kid. every parent fails in some way or form where parenting is concerned. perfect parents do not exist. but according to your logic when a parent fails in some way or form he instantly does not love his kids? "special" logic you have there man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 01:48 PM
3	It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partner You can indeed still love your children without them passing on their genes? i never stated the opposite. So nice job making a irrelevant point that had nothing to do with what i said. Children not partaking in their parents best interest does not equal parents not loving the child. Reality tells us that a shit ton of parents want grand children. Which makes it their job to teach their children how to. Basic 1+1=2 logic here. So if as a parent you want grandchildren, which most of the parents do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 12:48 PM
3	It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partner From a biology perspective, it is in the best interest of the parents and their genes to teach their offspring how to atract a partner to maximize the chances that the parents genes will go on. So i would say yes. it is your parents job, especially the ones that have the expectation of wanting to have grand children one day, to teach their kids the way of atraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 11:46 AM
2	Life as a single man vs a single women Yes sir.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 11:41 AM
6	Life as a single man vs a single women I personally wouldn't know because i don't make use of prostitutes myself (i am very conservative), but i know many friends that do and they say they apreciate the fact that it is possible. I also asked them the question if they don't feel pathetic. Most of them reply that a man always pays in some way or form for sex. Some pay for it with social currency, others with emotional investment currency and they decided to pay for it with financial currency. and i agree with them. Something that i did…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 11:40 AM
4	Life as a single man vs a single women Living in a country were prostitution is legal, living life as a single man isn't that bad. Women cannot use sex as a weapon over here really because all it takes is having some disposable income to get it. and you even have the luxury to choose what body type of women you are getting it from. So sexual needs can be met a lot easier for a lot of single men. Socially speaking, Men also have it a lot easier over here. the first point i made ties into that aswell. Men are not forced to participate …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 07:42 PM
1	Men: how do you feel about yourself? What do you think of yourself? Despite having had a life full of trauma,mental health issue's and abuse, i still managed to be as succesfull as the average guy when it comes to income,housing and most other important things society considers important. Which relatively speaking means i am more succesfull then the average guy. realizing this a few years back boosted my confidence and self esteem a lot. Sometimes i do find it sad that i could have reached a far higher potential if i had experienced a lot less abuse and traumati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 06:30 PM
1	CMV: Before any other factors such as appearance, status or money, the first filter in dating with women as a man is your neurotype Atypical autistic man here. In the couple of dates and social events i have been to with women that i found atractive, most women lose interest in me after the first initial contact. Its exactly like there is some filter at work here were a woman filters me out because i am atypical and a danger to her perceived social status. No amount of self improvement is able to overcome this. I did accomplish things like having my own apartment, a job and staying in shape over the years despite my ilness. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:42 PM
1	What's the best piece of dating advice given to you (that worked) and did it come from a man or woman? As a man i think its best to get dating advice from other men and not women. Preferably other men that care for you and are not in competition with you. Like your father, brother or a very good friend. This is the people i took advice from. The problem with getting advice on this subject from women, even your own mother, is that while the intent of the advice is good, the advice will in no way correlate with the experience you have as a man. Since Women experience dating and courting radically d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 10:39 AM
1	Women do not care about confidence , really attractive people just happen to be more confident due to validation from the outside for being attractive Attractiveness completely decides what you can and what you cannot get a way with with women. Guys making fake accounts on tinder with extremely attractive men as profile pictures have proven this. You can literally say to a woman for example that you would like to bend her over and fuck her brains out, and as long as you are an 8/10 looking man women will reply to you in a positive way. Laughing or even suggesting that you should come over. Do the exact same thing with a tinder account that has…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/22 09:44 AM
2	Is it actually unreasonable for men to politely decline friendship with women who reject them romantically? Its entitlement from the Woman side to believe that a man has to settle for a friendship if a relationship is not going to happen. Friendships and Relationships are about equal exchange of value. If i offer a relationship to a Woman and she refuses me, then i got confirmation that i will never get the value out of her that i wanted. If i then would continue a friendship with her this will result in an unequal exchange of value as in she values me much lower then i value her. Yes she may value me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 11:59 AM
2	Men depend on individual women more, while women depend on collective of men more Source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 11:48 PM
2	Love is dead and Hollywood killed it They were are myth insofar as what motivated entire population to obey the trend of staying in marriages.My evidence? The moment legal and technological shackles were removed, men and women en masse took advantage of the new options available to them. Not true at all. in the sixties during the liberation movement. the majority of woman were against equal rights between the sexes for example. This shows that they did not perceive those strong values as myth at all. It took decennia of massive m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 06:44 PM
3	Love is dead and Hollywood killed it While i agree that it was preferable for a woman to marry during those times if quality of life is considered. this also was the case for Men. they also needed to be married in order to advance their social status and even career opportunities. Being single as a man was socially frowned upon as well and would lead to ostracization from the community very often. Now does this mean most men were married against their will? Of course not. A lot of men, the absolute majority i would argue. were lovi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 06:08 PM
2	Love is dead and Hollywood killed it Correction. Strong moral values are a myth for you. that does not mean they were a myth for everyone and on themselves. Toxic marriages are a bad thing that also still happen today and are continued today. You don't need any particular value system to make that happen. what you need for that is bad people. The point that i am making is that under a system with strong moral values its far easier to judge if someone's character is good by his or her adherence to those values. instead of what we ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 05:44 PM
2	Love is dead and Hollywood killed it There were houses in the past were single woman that failed to find a man could live together under government assistance. Also you could become a nun. So they definitely could survive. It was not forced. And no man could force a woman to marry him. A woman always had free choice in who she wanted to marry. We are not talking about medieval Europe here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 05:34 PM
1	Men depend on individual women more, while women depend on collective of men more Truth is spoken. Nor do most Women have the physical capacity to work real taxing jobs like working on an oil rig, working in a mine or work to maintain the sewer systems. all things that are vital for modern society to function. But all things you will not find a single woman performing the actual hard labor in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 05:11 PM
1	Love is dead and Hollywood killed it coercion implies it was forced. Many people were religious on their own accord because of their background and upbringing. I could otherwise make the same argument and say most People are coerced by Progressivism nowadays into letting relationships fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 04:58 PM
-2	Love is dead and Hollywood killed it Forced was never a thing. No one pulled a gun at a girls head and forced them to marry. you make it sound like most marriages were forced. which is a flawed Feminist narrative which i am not even going to entertain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 04:54 PM
7	Love is dead and Hollywood killed it You're nostalgic over times that have never existed. Marriages used to last because people couldn't divorce and most of them couldn't afford living on their own, not exactly because people loved each other more or deeper than they do it now. But that time did exist tho. Marriages lasted because it was the cultural norm that they lasted. and because it was considered a promise made under god which in a heavy religious society back then actually meant something. People are a product of their cultu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/22 01:47 PM
1	In a society where beauty fads come and go, what beauty standards do men actually care about? As long as a girl looks healthy and is my thing when it comes to body type,hair color,eye color etc then i don't care for anything else. She could be dressed like a trash bag for all i care. i would still feel attracted to her. I never understood Women's obsession with make-up. It does not make you more attractive for most men. quite the opposite actually. So it has nothing to do with biology as in increasing the chance of finding a mate. Which makes me think the obsession with make up has every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:51 PM
2	What part of the dating discussion has this subreddit helped in changing your mind? rekt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 06:41 PM
8	Google isn't as biased as it seems You sir are unfathomably Based.	/r/MensRights	20/02/22 12:15 AM
1	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? What about a sex bot that can mass produce bumpstocks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 11:08 PM
4	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? Nah I rather go to the gym. And prepare myself for the inevitable collapse of society. Thank you very much tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 11:07 PM
2	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? Shit is getting real now isn't it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 10:44 PM
2	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? It was only an example. OP did not specify at what age exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 10:43 PM
2	Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstance Autistic guy here. Saying that you are not entirely doomed as an Autistic guy on the dating market is like saying a Brazilian kid from the favela has a chance of becoming a high star soccer player. Does it happen? yes. But the absolute majority despite playing soccer their entire life will never ever get a serious chance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 10:41 PM
-1	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? We don't know what the future holds. Maybe current society will end because of a massive global conflict. and we return to our roots. and decide that how society used to be was a hell hole of degeneracy and pure corruption of the human spirit. and never make that mistake again. Or we turn into a distopic society. Where everyone fucks everyone. Including the air with a VR helmet. and our ancestors that fought literal sabertooth tigers look at us with pure disgust. I prefer the first option. But t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 10:23 PM
1	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? Not really happy about VR and other stuff like that. Just imagine the picture in your head of you sitting in a room with a VR helmet fucking the air... Now does this picture seem like its the correct way masculinity is going? I am actually getting repulsed by the modern world more and more as technology advances in that direction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 10:11 PM
17	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? Prepare for sexbots to be banned in the near future. Women don't want any competition. especially when ultra realistic bots come that can be programmed to clean the house,make dinner etc. There actually was a brothel in Spain that existed entirely out of sex bots and the nearby real woman prostitutes made a petition to close it down because it made them lose to many customers. That tells a lot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 10:02 PM
7	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? A fellow romantic failure i see. Well at least for me i know what the true reason is why i am a failure romantically. I have high functioning Autism. And it sabotages my personality when it comes to women in a lot ways. Despite having had some sexual conquests. Maybe i too would have benefitted if people told me earlier that because of me being an autistic sperg that cares way too much about his passions i will never find a satisfying connection in my life. besides being some girls fetish for a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 09:55 PM
19	Do you have any realistic ideas on how to solve the rising male loneliness problem? I think telling unattractive men the truth sooner will only cause them to check out of society sooner. It also depends on what age and how soon we are talking. If you tell unattractive jimmy at age 12 that he will never have a girlfriend, never have a family and all the validation that comes from those things, despite a big chunk of the male population getting those things, He will turn bitter even sooner. But now your dealing with an really young guy with an underdeveloped brain and full of tes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 09:30 PM
-1	Anyone else looking at content here and redpill at the same time? Yes i am doing the same. I usually take the middle ground in stuff like this. I honestly think some parts of the red pill have some value to them. While a lot of people want to trow the baby out with the bathwater and say everything is bad about it. But there are definitely a lot of toxic sides to the red pill as well. Especially the entire concept around Alpha and Beta males seems flawed on a fundamental level to me. Like how do you define an alpha male? Red pill seems to define this by being a…	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/22 04:11 PM
2	So what is it that women want, and how am I supposed to achieve it? There is no one path. trust me. i just like you tried to find quick and easy answers for complex problems in my life. And i realized along the way that there are no quick and easy answers. From what i have observed from my own life. the "just be yourself" cliche most of the time does not work. Quite the opposite actually. because this mindset makes you unwilling to improve yourself. because why should you if being yourself is already enough? What can work is trying to be the best VERSION of your…	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/22 01:15 PM