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| 8 | Tried to shoot my shot but not sure how to respond? | XDarkstarX1138 | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 03:48 AM | |
| 2 | Any advice on how to respond? Mentioned "ISO someone to bait my hook while fishing" | XDarkstarX1138 | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 09:58 PM |
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| -2 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Why did she give you her number when she has a boyfriend? I'm sure she's a big girl, could have told you in person and avoided all that. You got her number for almost nothing. Doesn't make any sense. She probably doesn't have a bf and is just shit testing you tbh. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 04:47 AM |
| 4 | Chasing Women Vs. Attracting WomenIf you don't approach women or engage in choking the chicken, it doesn't mean a woman is going to magically appear in your lap. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?A little. I also think outside sources like dating apps and social media have manipulated women's behavior in recent times. Plus the overall pressure by the media of not having relationships and taking life in other directions like building a career may have played a role. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 03:32 PM |
| 8 | She is clearly out of my league but also clearly into me. WTF?Give it your best shot but don't think about her being out of your league. Leagues don't exist, that mentality doesn't help you progress when you believe she's out of your league. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | have your own fun and girls will join in naturally :)Well they were drunk. They wouldn't act like this sober. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 02:44 PM |
| -3 | Pretty much sums it up for those of us that have solid ancestry.Not necessarily these days, I'm hardly getting any female attention through dating apps. With my work schedule, it's like the only thing convenient for me. Through personal experience, it's hard for them to stay and not my fault when they make up excuses to skip on dates they already agreed to. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Pretty much sums it up for those of us that have solid ancestry.True story, dating these days is such a shit show. No one wants to commit. | /r/seduction | 18/08/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | 101 QUICK Tips to Get Laid, OftenOnline dating is turning into a big shit show. I wouldn't recommend it for connecting with women since it seems women there just use it for attention or as a time waster. | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Saturday night I was at the club.They look like they'd be fun at parties... | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 07:45 AM |
| 2 | I just got approached by a guy who played the game perfectly!Close enough to it. It's the same thing like they're saying "I'll let you know". Not outright rejection but it's a softer way. | /r/seduction | 13/08/19 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Just an advice I want to give my fellow brothers: "Girls should not be your destination but should be part of the journey." If whatever you're doing is to try and get girls rethink your mindset.What I meant was, it's probably not easy to find the next girl. They'll be able to move on but it will be hard once they have. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Just an advice I want to give my fellow brothers: "Girls should not be your destination but should be part of the journey." If whatever you're doing is to try and get girls rethink your mindset.With some guys, it may not be that easy to move on to the next girl. | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 03:00 PM |
| 3 | I want to ask my friend (girl) to hangout this week and I kinda like her. How to respond to “is this a date?”"No, we're going to steal the Declaration of Independence" | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 06:55 AM |
| 2 | If she talks about how she rejects other fellas, she's probably into youYeah, right... | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I got called pretty fuckboy, should I take it as a compliment?It might be online dating. But I don't think a majority of the girls are getting pumped and dumped on the regular. More like they just get on for the attention and redownload the app every so often. | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | 18 - 19 year old here, does it get better with age?It's so so at times. With the modern dating age and all the dating apps out there girls have the mindset they want Mr. Perfect and won't settle for anything less. There are a lot of them out there that have become very picky. After college it gets harder meeting people too because everyone's in their careers and busy. | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 05:44 PM |
| 0 | FR - Girls DO care about looksLooks aren't all that important, girls care about it to a certain extent. But overtime it tends to decrease in importance and personality becomes more relevant. | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | The Foundations of Natural GameNo one is born a natural, everyone learns at some point. Some had it easier than others with the right family, money, etc. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Smiling in online dating picsIt's not dependent on facial expressions and depends on the person. It's not worth the time based on my experience. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 11:21 PM |
| 3 | What could be going through this girls mind?She wants the validation and attention. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Message Game GuideLooks like too good to be true. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How To PASS ANY Shit Test (The Triple A Trick)Smells like clickbait for useless advice. | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Shit Tests-Are shit tests even used in real life? Asking for a friend. 😂 | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 10:30 PM |
| 9 | Online dating, 2019.It's a shame that it seems there are hundreds of these women and not many others that are genuine and interested in something long term or serious. The plague of online dating and social media. | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 02:02 PM |
| 9 | Girl I'm texting indirectly cancels date by saying she's going out with friends. Where to go from here?She's a bitch, move on to the next one. If she flakes now, she'll probably do it later. | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 06:54 AM |
| 3 | Lost my virginityWell, the trends of society and pop culture seem to make it a big deal. Look at all the movies out there that protray it as an achievement. | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 06:53 AM |
| 7 | Girl at the gymWell, it's the truth. Nothing pathetic about it. He's better off approaching during another opportunity. Guys usually aren't approached by women at the gym when they don't know each other. Based on what I've read, it's not seen as socially acceptable since it's not a typical venue for daygame. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:01 PM |
| 79 | Girl at the gymJust my two cents but I would say don't approach her at the gym. It won't look good unless you're very confident. Girls don't go to the gym to get hit on, they go to work out and escape. Plus it's hard when everyone has their headphones in. Everyone is in the mindset to work out. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Game is a mythGuaranteed she flaked | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Too old to party?I've felt that way too with friends. Most of the time we've gone out country dancing but no one would want to try out a club when I suggested it. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Turning things sexualIf you're already friends with her you're fucked. No escaping the friend zone because she doesn't see you as potential relationship material. I'd suggest not fucking friends and move on to someone else. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Hello Seddit, can anyone tell where did I go wrong? She didn't respondedLooks like she just wanted the validation and didn't want to keep up a conversation to me. I've experienced that before. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | is it over if a girl mentions her boyfriend in a conversation?You can probably take it like it's a shit test and just keep talking to her and figure out if she's telling the truth by gaming her. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 03:53 PM |
| -2 | What do I respond to this?"Because you're trouble..." | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Gym gameDon't approach women at the gym. It's a recipe for disaster, they don't want to be approached. They're focusing on working out with their headphones in.... | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else find pulling girls from tinder to feel like it doesnt count?Tinder girls are so flakey. I've seen most of their profiles with their Snapchat and/or Instagram handles meaning they won't fuck you. They're just there for validation. Plus, many never use it for hookups anymore. Tinder is too mainstream these days. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | if you're good at this, please start posing FR's that aren't on 'yes girls'Sounds like these FRs are just clickbait and too good to be true. Not really much substance with them. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 06:06 PM |
| 4 | What city is better for single men: Las Vegas or San Antonio?San Antonio sucks for finding single girls. I'm from that area and it seems most of them are already in relationships. Most of the girls use dating apps and only want validation. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Online dating -- please interpret thisWhy does sex on the first date matter? It shouldn't be much of a big deal whether it's the first or fifth date. You know people use online dating apps and have sex on the first date right? | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Little tip on leading in a crowded area, escalating and B E L T L O O P SIt seems like you're reading too much into how they look at you depending on your actions getting a drink at the bar. In this setting this "alpha" behavior isn't going to be judged by a woman on the dance floor you happen to meet. It doesn't matter to her. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 09:03 PM |
| 2 | WHY Would a girl have too many followers and LOTS of male friends + Orbiters + More...They keep her on a pedestal hoping it goes somewhere but it doesn't because they never make a move. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to say next. Please helpOuch. Tell her "Playing hard to get already? :P" | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What is the average male Tinder experience really?I've gotten matches from time to time but you're better off investing in meeting girls in real life. Girls treat Tinder and other apps as a ego booster and get validation from thirsty guys. Don't expect to go far with matches, turns out they will hardly continue the conversation that lead up to a date, just saying. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Meetup group F Close and other detailsSeems to good to be true. Don't expect a meetup group to be all about hooking up. | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Numbers GameI'd say more like 60%. I've seen quite a few that have those in their profiles. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 05:32 AM |
| 8 | Numbers GameOnline dating is easy mode for women. An endless buffet of guys to swipe on. So much flakiness and attention seekers wanting validation from their social media too. | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 08:11 PM |
| 0 | When a Girl says she has a boyfriend...From my experience before according to what I gathered from this sub, depends on the context when she's telling you. In a nightclub or similar setting, if a guy isn't hanging around her, she may be shit testing you. Then you can try to earn her interest. This doesn't really apply to other situations. She's probably not going to say that to every guy she meets though. Otherwise, you may have to accept it. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | RSD Tyler vs Todd V. Who's your fav?Why not both? I thought the love for RSD was gone after reading a few recent posts in this sub. Nice to see it's still liked. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 11:21 AM |
| -12 | When a Girl says she has a boyfriend...It probably depends largely on the situation you have the conversation. If you're both in a nightclub setting and you're trying to talk to her and she brings up that she has a boyfriend it's probably a shit test. Unless she has a guy wrapped on her arm that night. You can proceed as usual and try to get through it. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Tindr girl offers me friendship?Next her. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Latino Picks Up Hot Ebony Girl in The Grocery StoreMy bullshit detector is lighting up after seeing this. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Need a quick come back for ‘I had a crush on you back then haha’"Cute, I would have had a crush on myself too" | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How do you build an awesome social life with cool friends once you are out of college and in the real world?True, I've noticed most bars I have gone to recently to try to meet girls has been the opposite and a huge sausage fest instead. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Men not having sex at an all time high. What happened in 2008?Because men feed the validation and attention women get through dating apps and social media. These days it's way easier for women to market themselves online to gain that ego boost without leaving the house. As a result, women become more picky and have a line of guys waiting for them but are hesitant to pick the guy. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Tinder U flirtingWhat are you talking about, there's no such thing as Tinder U. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Are blond guys seen as the most desired in the US?Not at all, they're more average. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Looking for Houston, Texas WingHey, I'd consider the offer but I'm way down on the southeast side. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | dates are WAY more serious and I run into WAY more LMR now versus 2-3 years agoThey want to settle down with you as a provider so they can split their share of your money and you to provide for a family or serious relationship. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 04:33 PM |
| 2 | [NSFW][MF] Good Vs Great Pu$$ySounds too good to be true tbh | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 01:40 AM |
| 2 | My female friend is acting weird, keeps distance from me in sort of way.I'm getting a little of the same treatment from my female friend. Whenever we would hang out with our friend group she'd be near me, talking to me and I think I got a few signs she was interested. But now after we exchanged numbers to keep in touch since I'm moving a few hours away she's giving me the cold shoulder. No replies or anything. I don't get it either. | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Girls just want to have fun, on Tinder--My Tinder profile philosophy/ engineeringGirls just want to have fun by getting validation from you and followers for their Instagram. They rarely contribute to the conversation. | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | A borderline suicidal incel's sad rantStop reading incel garbage and falling into their cesspool. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.Guess I missed the memo of meeting your future wife in college. From my experience, it looked like quite a few couples were getting engaged by senior year. Hard to meet people too in college, everyone is so busy. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 09:19 PM |
| 9 | Tinder and similar dating apps are complete garbage for 80% of men, uninstall them instantlyAgreed, it's hard to get laid off them anymore. Those days have long passed. Now, many girls use them to feed their egos or waste time. I've witnessed many profiles with Instagram or Snapchat names asking for people to navigate to that account. They use it to gain followers and validation from countless numbers of guys. These days women have a pool of endless guys to choose from leading to higher standards and pickier attitudes. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Are there any good apps specifically for sex and hookups?More attention seeking than hookups these days. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you use Social Media to your Advantage or Ignore it ?Hardly use Instagram, not like I'm going to get laid off there. Plus, many women just use that and other forms of social media to gain followers or get validation from men. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How to solve "fapping arm" (assymetrical arms from masturbation) because it is one of the most underrated turnoffs.My bullshit detector is off the charts, just went from 0 to 100 real quick! | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How would you guys message a girl who changes the date timeSeems like a valid reason. Ball is probably in her court now to accept it. A job should come first and from my experience it's an understandable factor. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Only agree to settle down with women in their prime, not pastSettling down with a girl at 22 is like leaving the bar at 10. There's so many other factors to take into consideration also. What if she is usually shy, didn't date that many guys or just didn't "party/experiment" a lot among other questions. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 05:56 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you're a virgin?Just mention you're don't have much sexual experience next time. Suggest she guides you along with what turns her on. Don't make a big deal out of it. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | User names on Tinder profilesThey just want validation from guys and them to follow her on those accounts. She doesn't really have an interest in meeting up, just wants to waste time. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What does this mean in Dating apps?They're probably trying to get some validation from having you follow them there. Then be reluctant to meet up. They usually want to boost their following. That has always been my experience. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | When you see a profile and it has the good ol fashion "hit me up on my snap/insta" what's your approach?Swipe right but don't expect much from it. Those girls usually just want validation or new followers for their social media accounts. They don't usually have an interest in meeting guys. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 05:34 AM |
| 1 | It's Valentine's Day! Get out there and talk to girls!Not really, usually a marketing gimmick for men and girls would probably be put off a bit since it was Valentine's. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 05:31 AM |
| 3 | American girls are something elseYou're over 6 ft and a foreigner in the US, has to account for something. | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do many girls I approach have boyfriends?I've had that experience with women I'm interested in and speaking to or find out later they have one also. Honestly, it sucks and we have to live with it. Seems common these days though since social media and dating apps have given them the opportunity to talk to many different guys on a daily basis. So, they always have many different options. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 12:20 AM |
| 12 | Three hookups in on day: a Fairly gross experienceMy bullshit detector is off the charts! | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Girl makes jokes about us having sex.She wants you | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 06:12 PM |
| 0 | valentines day clubbing / seductionI would say it may be a challenge seeing girls out. Normally they'll tend to stay indoors with their girl friends and binge watch Netflix over wine for the evening. Expect to see a total sausage fest at the bars. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 07:53 AM |
| 2 | How important are physical looks in attraction?Being good looking has it's advantages but it's not the only thing that keeps girls. It draws girls in initially but personality and confidence are what keep them around. It's not the most important thing out there. | /r/seduction | 09/02/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] April 2018 - Hollywood - How I overcame fear of Physical Escalation - The FR I will never forget..Seems too good to be true... | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 05:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Tinder match to lay within 4 hours; full text convos attachedThis sounds too good to be true... | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Girls Without SAYING Anything (explicit)Clickbait?? | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 06:50 PM |
| 8 | "I don't reply to 'hi' or 'how are you?'"Kind of ironic because most of the time they'll send that same thing if they had to send the first message. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Girl ghosts, and then acts unusually kind the following week when I bump into herSounds like she's just getting off on the attention you're giving her. She may just be engaging to make her feel a little better and you get a little satisfaction from that. I suggest moving on because she's probably flakey and will continue to be with you. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 06:32 PM |
| 18 | The Ultimate Guide to TinderWomen on Tinder are just there for attention. | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl I just met sends me text asking me "where do you see this relationship going" how do I respond?Take it as a joke and ask her when's the wedding. Although if you've never been on a date this seems like a red flag. She may be a psycho. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of the SC and IG names on tinder?For that sweet validation and attention from all the thirsty guys. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Is instagram necessary for success?This reads a lot like a poorly put together, cheap commercial.... | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How to meet Instagram model type girls?You have to stand out. Most of those girls get off on quite a bit of attention. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I have a mild crush on a friend; is this a good idea?That's how most relationships start or so I hear. You won't know until you go for it. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else noticed this?This is common especially with online dating these days. Women use apps for attention and to direct guys to their Instagram or other social media accounts to boost their ego and get that sweet validation. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 04:40 PM |
| 3 | What women expect you to do in the first date?Have a good conversation with them. You're probably not getting sex on the first date from most women too, based on my experience at least. Don't stress about it but look at it like it's a casual thing going out and getting to know them. Most women are hesitant to kiss on the first date also. | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date...lolOh that could be why, I've been usually searching for girls in the early to mid 20's. I'm in my 20's. I hear the 30 and older crowd are pretty up front with what they want and don't beat around the bush as much as the younger ones. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date...lolProbably depends on where you live. I know what you're saying about the hookers, they'll quickly want you to add them on Instagram or Snapchat so they can peddle their price to you. I've matched with plenty of girls that made it clear their not looking for sex too, just friends or attention. Might depend on how you put yourself out there too. Just saying, young women these days use Tinder for attention and to waste time, Tinder has changed so much since it was first released. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Why Are Women In Relationships More Friendly and Receptive While Single Girls Act More Guarded Towards Me?Girls have a bunch of thirsty guys they have to deal with. Apparently when you're taken you get more attention from single girls because you're the forbidden fruit or so I hear... | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date...lolMy experience has been quite the contrary. Most look like they want attention and money on their cash app from thirsty guys these days. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Scene in new Gillette ad caught my eye"Yeah, spend ridiculous amounts of cash on Gold to find true love one swipe away. We are not responsible for the results of your actions and don't expect your money back." | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Scene in new Gillette ad caught my eyeI can see them pushing towards that. The subtle nod to meeting through mutual friends or spend so much cash on dating apps in the hopes of meeting women, which is not guaranteed especially through the apps. Demean cold approach as another form of harassment. | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Let’s Make Gillette’s new ad the most disliked video on YouTubeSo there I was, putting on my rape shoes, and practicing my sexual harassment pickup lines this morning. I just got done cyberbullying my coworkers. It was time to shave, I yelled at my wife to smile because I demand it, while pinching her butt right after she told me she didn't consent to it. Putting on the shaving cream and thinking about how I can get my son into a fight at the next BBQ, I replaced the worn Gillette brand Mach3 and began to chant "boys will be boys" as I started to shave. The… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/19 07:27 PM |
| 17 | How Women Rate Men (Krauser's SMV Scale)I read somewhere that statistically women will rate around 80% of guys as below average attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Pro-Tip - Turn off NotificationsI think this is counterintuitive, if you don't message back fast enough she loses interest and moves on. These days you're probably not the only guy she's talking to and interested in her. | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 03:44 AM |
| 2 | The deal with “hot” girls... and why they’re definitely not out of your league.From my experience the hottest girls are the ones who are more judgmental and want the attention from guys especially on dating apps. Hard to get their attention as a guy or you really have to stand out to them. | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How often are you guys “talking” to girls on a daily basis?Talking with a few girls from apps but that's when I get matches that have potential once in a while. There were times before where I hardly texted girls every day. Do I win? | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Girl wants to bring friends on the first dateI'd say tell her straight forward that you're interested in her and don't want to just be pushed to the sidelines as another friend. | /r/seduction | 30/12/18 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.That's rude of her, I'd say just forget about her and move on to other girls. Isn't worth your time. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Have tinder matches gone down drastically since tinder gold was introduced?Yeah and I'm seeing quite of bit of bots infecting the app these days. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Any good books to read?The Alchemist and Models. Heard The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck is pretty good too. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Coming from r/foreveralone.. Somewhat intimidated by this subreddit.. Where can I begin?Welcome to the sub. You can take a look at the sidebar first and start perusing topics here you think could be useful for your development. Like others have said, stop going to the incel forums and foreveralone sub because they don't help your mental health in the long run. You can check out meditation if you want and start going to the gym. A few books I've read that helped me included Models and The Alchemist. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 08:11 AM |
| 4 | What does being too aggressive look like?Nope, sounds like your brother is giving you a hard time... | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | cruise ships for game?Yeah but go when single women are frequently going like Spring Break. I've gone on one with family a week or two before Thanksgiving and it was tough to meet girls. So many families and honeymooners, plus girls on vacation with their mom. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Don't let online dating be your main way to meet womenWhat if you're too busy to meet people in person? Online may be the only way to date in that case. Seems like meeting women in bars has become so much harder these days. From my experience it's quite a sausage fest in bars and women are far and few between out at places like that. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 06:08 PM |
| 3 | I don't want to use Instagram, but it seems the best/easiest way to pull these daysInstagram is just a tool for girls to use to gain followers. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:17 PM |
| 8 | 13 ways to make a girl want youThis only matters maybe for generally the average guy out there but you don't have to worry about it or much else if you're very attractive. If you're attractive, regardless of this girls will want a piece of you... | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | The Real Reason Most Guys Don't Succeed With Women (and what you can do about it)From my experience trying to meet girls irl it seems most I'm interested in already have boyfriends and there are few single ones out there. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Anyone got links to the '77ways to make Her wanna Fuck u' By Jason Capital.. Really need thisRead Models instead. Sounds like Jason Capital is all fluff and no substance anyway. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:25 PM |
| 9 | The Real Reason Most Guys Don't Succeed With Women (and what you can do about it)So many thirsty guys out there these days, online dating has made things harder for the average guy to find someone. Girls can just swipe on the next available guy through Tinder. The apps have made it harder so you have to really stand out if you want her attention. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | "Do not go chasing butterflies, tend to your own garden and the butterflies will come."Not entirely correct, if all you do is tend to your garden that's all you will have. You also have to take the initiative to go out and meet girls while tending your garden. | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 03:42 PM |
| -1 | One of my funniest tinder experiences.Adding to Facebook probably means 100% friendzone or her not thinking about dating you ever. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | How I Get Laid On TinderGirls on Tinder just want validation these days. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | X-year-old still a virginWell, I was referring to being out of school and college before where guys are usually surrounded by women. But you're right about being inexperienced also, that might be another factor. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | It's So Frustrating Seeing Everybody Else In A Relationship But MeI'm single as well and understand it could be tough. To me it looks like everyone my age or in relationships or getting married now. Most of my buddies are already married now. I can imagine it being hard on our mindset seeing most couples every month or so announcing they're finally engaged or married through Facebook. Take a break from social media. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 03:48 PM |
| 2 | getting a boner while kissingWho cares, in that case you know it's working. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | X-year-old still a virginIs OP a virgin? If he isn't, I don't think he has much room to talk. Coming from experience, it seems when you don't lose it before your 20's, it gets a little harder after. As you get older, it also weighs on you more because people talk about how great sex is and with no experience it's not always easy to hear. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm cringing while writing this, but I need some advice about how to proceed with a girl I matched with on Bumble, then Tinder.I'd just send one message on Tinder and let her go if she doesn't respond. I've had enough of noncommittal girls on dating apps. One time I matched with a girl and both Tinder and Hinge and the conversation was going pretty well. After finding me on Hinge shes all "Oh, maybe this is a sign we should meet!" and even throughout that she never confirmed or even got to the point where we both met in real life. | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Met my looksmatch from tinder (7/10) but her less attractive friend is way more into me than she isI've seen it on some incel posts before but not too many other places... | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 06:10 AM |
| 11 | "We might die". How to PLAN A DATE that'll blow her knickers off. FR Taking a 19F Art Teacher on an island adventure. Models Series [FR] [F-close]I kind of agree but it seems that there's a little added fluff which makes the story a little less believable. You can create memorable date that goes well but this sounds a little too over the top and unnecessary. | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 03:21 PM |
| 28 | "We might die". How to PLAN A DATE that'll blow her knickers off. FR Taking a 19F Art Teacher on an island adventure. Models Series [FR] [F-close]Sounds a bit exaggerated to be honest. | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Tinder tips for getting replies and numbers (/r/Tinder x-post)This might be helpful for some but for other guys Tinder may not cut it in order to get dates. Every girl is different so it doesn't matter what you open with, it boils down to them responding to the opener or not. Some like the cheesy name puns, others enjoy straight up direct sexual innuendos. In my experience, Tinder may have been great but now it's a sausage fest and such a waste of time. I'd get 1 or 2 dates out of 10 or so matches. Girls just use it as another method of drawing followers t… | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Tinder in College Questions Regarding Hooking Up and MessagingI'd say state your intentions whether it's wanting a fwb, hookup or relationship. Feel free to be indirect or direct in your messages, some girls like it direct and it depends on who your talking to. My opinion would be to ultimately delete Tinder but you do you. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Question for those of you who use tinder:Tinder turned into a waste of time for guys. These days girls just use it to occupy their time or gain validation from guys they match with not intending to meet up. In my experience, if I'd match with 5 to 10 girls, only about 1 or 2 would follow through to meet me. Contrary to the belief, girls aren't usually open to having sex on the first date. I've experienced that they're more comfortable meeting for drinks first to get to know you better. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Dating a girl whos batshit crazy Part one.No commitment? Sounds like a plan. But damn, she seems crazy and my experience sounds so mild compared to yours. I had a period were I got a girl's number from Bumble but trying to break things off. It seemed like she was interested in meeting on Bumble but led to a totally different outcome on text. A few red flags but I thought I'd give her a chance. Most of our text conversation she acts so noncommittal, not responding about meeting up or never committing when I propose something. Saying she … | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | [Online game] Girls who are unresponsive to date requestMove on, she obviously doesn't respect you're time and wants to string you along. Maybe tell her that you don't appreciate and have time for her games? | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 03:12 PM |
| -1 | Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling.Sounds like you may not completely know the difference between the two. Cat calling and cold approach are two totally different openings. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Tips for high school game?Wait until you're in college. | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Headline: Serial 'dine-and-dash' dating suspect faces up to 13 years in prisonDouble standards much?? | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Nobody Owes You AnythingThanks for the reminder. I've struggled a bit with online dating wondering why this girl never messaged back thinking she should eventually. In the end it's her choice though and I can't make her. A lot of truth to this post. Some groups of men, especially incels may not realize this. They believe "Oh, I deserve sex from a girl" when that shouldn't be the only thing to focus on. You always have to work for the things you want, there's no deserving it because you believe it's owed to you. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 05:01 PM |
| 8 | Girl asks me to visit her then ghostsShe's looking for validation, in this case I wouldn't waste time on her. She's just playing games and stringing you along, probably time to move on and ghost her. | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 8 | Deleted Tinder a while back.. much happier now!I would tend to agree and considering doing the same after I've been using it for the past month now. For me, I've gotten some matches and speaking with a few girls at once. It just gets discouraging because it seems most of the conversations are one sided and I'm always putting in more effort. Previous times I've spoke to girls on the app lead nowhere when I try to steer things towards a date and at the end of the day I feel a little burnt out. It works for some but meeting in person always loo… | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Online dating apps negatively effect brain functionQuite the brag of the century here.... | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Why do some women do the bare minimum in regards to conversation on dating apps, but expect men to be interesting and humorous?She gets bombarded with messages from guys. It's a sausage fest most of the time and girls, even the 6 and 7's are very picky. It's unfortunate for us guys dealing with the ones who don't respond, in my opinion just dump those types of girls who don't put an effort in. Tinder and other apps are hard these days because most girls will match with you and just want the followers on Snapchat for validation mainly. | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 06:59 AM |
| 15 | I finally asked out the girl that I had a crush on for a year...Move on and talk to other girls. Don't dwell on the one that just rejected you. | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Getting with women outside of uniI graduated from college also and it's tough because you're not surrounded by all these girls with about the same schedules as you. Now, most have jobs or are pretty busy. I recommend putting yourself out there and getting involved in other activities. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | FR: 1st time ever approaching like this - Success - Mind OPENEDWell, how did you go about suggesting that or what did you do that got her interested? | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 02:32 PM |
| 5 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?I tend to agree. Or most are just there to waste time with no intention to meet up while seeking validation like you mentioned. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 03:01 AM |
| -2 | FR: 1st time ever approaching like this - Success - Mind OPENEDFingering her under the table? How did she not get offended? Most girls I've talked to would seem offended by that. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 11:57 PM |
| 2 | When a girl says she has a boyfriend, how often is she rejecting you nicely.It's a 50/50 if you're at work during the day. But if you meet her in the club at night and you don't see her hanging around a guy she's probably shit testing you. | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | How many girls do you typically approach before getting a date?Well, this escalated quickly... | /r/seduction | 26/08/18 12:51 AM |
| 2 | How many girls do you typically approach before getting a date?Join clubs and activities with women and be an active participant. Keep approaching and make friends with women because one of those may have a mutual friend who is single. There's so many girls you're surrounded by in college. | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How many girls do you typically approach before getting a date?Don't worry, I won't amog you here. But just letting you know in real life I expect to be approaching your girl while you're sitting on the sidelines. It's ironic, you're posting on a seduction sub for people intending to get better with women to follow your black pill ideology when that bs won't help in the long term and is just a refuge for self loathing, attitude associated with hate and disrespect towards women. | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How many girls do you typically approach before getting a date?How about you take your black pill nonsense and shove it up your ass. | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Having lady issues.Girls just want to fuel their ego on Tinder. I've tried to work a FWB situation myself but they never follow through. Most of the time the girls quit responding after I bring it up... | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | My Tinder Opener Strategy *95% success rate*Generic Tinder info we've all heard before. Not worth your time. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | My Tinder Opener Strategy *95% success rate*Just a 5 mintue video of bogus info with no strategy at the end. Not worth y'alls time to watch it. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | New To Hooking Up, Not Sure what to doHookups through Tinder these days are a dime a dozen. I've looked for that for a short time before. Most girls either want followers and validation while others want something more substantial. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 02:53 PM |
| 5 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meGhost her and move on. Sounds like she isn't worth your time if she keeps chasing others away. | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 06:23 PM |
| 2 | There are no leaguesIt's a term Incels use to describe life and how anything you do never works out and life doesn't get better. I wouldn't recommend you to read it, becomes very depressing the more you study it. Instead, enjoy and live your life the way you want. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 03:46 PM |
| 2 | There are no leaguesThe black pill is bullshit... | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond to girls on Tinder who respond late?Low interest towards you on her part. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 04:09 AM |
| 0 | How Do I Build Sexual Tension and Hookup with Tinder?Tinder is turning into a joke these days. It may have been a hookup app in the past but turned into a way for girls to gain validation and followers since then. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Girl at CVS thinks I'm a creep.Sounds like she has a stick up her butt.... | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | The 3 L's of meeting girls that WILL get you laidLooks may matter predominantly in the beginning but doesn't mean its a majority in the interaction. I've personally seen some non attractive guys with beautiful girls. It depends on a few factors. As always, hygiene is very important. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Sarging on a college campus when you're not in college?Go somewhere else, you're too old for a college campus. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How can i learn game at a young age?Focus on school instead of this. You'll have time to do quite a bit in college. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Best dating apps apart from tinder?Meh, Hinge may not be a swiping app like Tinder but it's still not the best to use. From my experience the girls use it for validation same as Tinder. Although, the like you give them on their profile is a boost to their ego and most of the time they'll ghost during messages. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | How To Make A Woman Think About YouHow do we do it then, examples? | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | How come military men are more successful with women?I hear those dress blues are panty droppers for most girls.And all my buddies in the military are married, likely because of the joint benefits also. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl’s friends basically killed things between her and I. Any advice here?You may need to state your intent and explain that you want to be more than just friends. Also sounds like the friends are prying into other people's personal business and blocking you, they're clueless about your relationship and not the ones dating you so they should stay out of it. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Reconnecting with girls you went to high school withThere's other girls, don't bother with them... | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 06:52 AM |
| 2 | How do I improve my luck in Tinder?Kind of agree, it's for a select few of the upper echelon of guys but if you're lower than that it's definitely hard for you. | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Tinder is Now My Main Source of Lays Nowadays; Alternately, is Night Game Dying?I don't think so. I've been using Tinder to try to find lays and haven't had much success lately. Seems like it's less of a hook up app and more of a way for girls to get validation these days. Most girls flat out say they don't want them on their bios. | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 02:24 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to "Do I have a bitch face?"Agree and amplify | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Matched with two girls on dating apps. They're friends. Do I continue with both?Go for it. If a question about the friendship comes up just act like it's not a big deal. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 06:39 AM |
| 3 | [meta] can the mods please start cracking down on this incel infestation we seem to be having?Agreed, I've been trying to improve myself and be more positive about it. All the incels do is supress that and keep generating a loop of negative thinking and energy. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity when I was 16 - I've slept with 22 different girls now, and I'm 18 yrs old. Here's my most honest guide on how I've done it.I'm saving this...😈 For future reference to improve my game. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 06:33 AM |
| 2 | What's your go to first date?My bad, ice cream at the mall then. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 09:36 PM |
| -4 | What's your go to first date?Drinks at the bar. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 06:25 AM |
| 1 | What to do when your self confidence is low and dropping?Do you have alumni groups with other people your age around? You could check out other hobbies like playing an instrument. Like others have said, check out some of the local bars. I heard the Meetup app or Facebook events in your area may be helpful. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Today I Have Asked Out 10 Girls In My Life Even Though I Used To Be ShyYes | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 03:02 PM |
| 2 | How can short guys seduce women?I'm 5'8" so don't sweat it. It's average height. Most girls are usually shorter than that so you good. | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Makeout buddy lolGet her to hang in your room after dark and talk to her normally... | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Today I Have Asked Out 10 Girls In My Life Even Though I Used To Be ShyKeep it up man."The past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run from it, or learn from it." | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Which practice needs to stop in the world of dating?Ghosting or flaking... | /r/seduction | 24/07/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Went to a bar, almost ended up in a fightSounds like he was the white knight in the situation trying to save the "damsel in distress" from all the "bad" guys. It seems you did the right thing through. Like others have said I would try to be friendly with him and introduce myself to him. | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | This guy is an oldcel betabux bluepilled?Perhaps r/braincels is leaking? | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Girl doesnt reply at texts but when she does it sounds like she reciprocates. Should I drop her?Drop her if she stopped responding. There are other girls out there. It sounds like she's not interested since you mentioned she never responded after two times. I'd give it two chances to text and move on if she never responds, imo. Sometimes you may get away with a third and she responds though. | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Tinder and Snapchat/Instagram ground rules?Validation and increasing their follower count. They will hardly message back. | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Is There a Big Difference Between College Juniors and Seniors and Girls 1-2 Years Removed From College?Girls just want to have fun. Don't worry about it, fuck fear. Drink a beer instead. | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | 24 Techniques and Mindsets that Immediately Attract FemalesThat looks like a mouthful. We need a tldr in here, stat! | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | (27/m) The last couple tinder dates I’ve gotten ended with little interest and I get a text the next day saying “I didn’t feel much of a spark” or just that they don’t feel interested.Good job on getting dates. For me Tinder has been dry recently. I'd speak to girls and arrange a date with the conversation that seems to flow well. At the last minute she makes excuses why she can't meet including she's tired or too busy with summer school. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | How to Bring Girls Home | The PULLING Guide (+Actual Examples)Just out of curiosity, how would you go about pulling to her place if your logistics suck? | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve been texting for 3 weeks says she sees the potential of a relationship yet states she has a lot to figure out! She says I’m a good person and she doesn’t wanna lose me. I get the feeling like she’s saying all this to politely reject me! Should I just stop texting her?Let her go and find other girls that value your time. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever had sets that went really well but then the girl ghosted you?Yep, met this girl from Tinder and it seemed the conversation was going well between us. We set up a time to meet together for frozen yogurt. I was looking forward to it but at the last minute she texted me some excuse that she was too tired from work, school and taking summer classes but she'd like to meet another time. After I sent a couple texts to reach out since then she ghosted me. | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with flakes?Just move on. Had a girl I was speaking to (Met on Tinder) and seemed interested in meeting up based on the back and forth conversation. Quick replies from her and quite a few emojis. Then all of a sudden, about an hour before we agreed to meet up she flaked on me with some excuse that she's too tired. Now it looks like she's not interested judging from her non responsiveness. I don't understand either.... | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Coming to this sub while in a relationship, does it help?Not really, trying to get out more myself but it's been tough. Dating is a bore sometimes. | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps worth it if you don’t have your own private place?I'll just convince her to stay at her place :P | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps worth it if you don’t have your own private place?Sounds like it's not a big deal if you don't bring it up.... | /r/seduction | 27/06/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | What are the best youtube videos/channels about seduction?Todd Valentine, RSDMax, Bradicus | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How do you love yourself more?Pick a few hobbies, playing guitar, reading etc. Also set a few goals and start going to the gym regularly. Being able to get out and have a good workout has helped me clear my mind and made me feel better. | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 02:31 AM |
| 1 | If I'm very good at "tinder game" how easy/hard will it be to learn normal gameGotcha, thanks man. I've watched a few of Todd's videos and also listen to RSDMax sometimes. Just taking a break from online and trying to get out more. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what "congruence" is in seduction terms?https://youtu.be/tZkAVtTUZug | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | If I'm very good at "tinder game" how easy/hard will it be to learn normal gameWell, I wouldn't think this would be something to lie about but this is the internet. Anyways, that's quite the achievement and impressive. I wish I could get those kind of results off the app myself and haven't been as lucky recently. Trying to improve in the meantime though. Any advice? | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 01:58 AM |
| 2 | If I'm very good at "tinder game" how easy/hard will it be to learn normal game30-35? I'm skeptical about that. From my experience most girls on Tinder would use it as an ego boost and ghost after I mentioned meeting up or just not respond. | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Online/App GameIt's been an issue for me also. Had girls I wanted to meet up with give me excuses why they couldn't, busy with work, out of town, doctor's appointment, etc. They would usually agree to postpone for another week but seems like that would make the situation harder. | /r/seduction | 20/06/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | So somehow my Dad just picked up 2 girls for me in a Walmart parking lot. And I'm pretty sure I messed up a threesome.Sounds like you have this one in the bag. Props to dad. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Was This A Missed Opportunity With A Girl?Just ask if she has plans to do something and propose to get her out next time you see her. In the words of Shia LeBouf, just do it. | /r/seduction | 10/06/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | No luck in dating/life/womenSame, 24 and never had a girlfriend. Feel like recently women are sometimes repulsed by me. Feels like online dating doesn't ever work because I try to start a conversation over Tinder, Bumble and the girl winds up ghosting after the first few messages. Girls I attempt to meet up with make up excuses why they can't the day we decide to meet up when they were originally up for it. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | IG Close - Number Close - First Date Sex in Parking Lot.The story about sex in the parking lot... | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Came to realization about my relationship and how i'm more desired than i realisedMaybe she sensed you were in a relationship and realized you're a higher value target to talk to because of that rather than being single. | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | IG Close - Number Close - First Date Sex in Parking Lot.I'm calling bs on this, even though there are some helpful tips to read here. | /r/seduction | 08/06/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Stop using Tinder/Dating appsOnly if they don't ghost or flake on you first. Seems most girls will say they want to meet up then may not follow through because they don't feel like it. | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Stop using Tinder/Dating appsI kind of agree. Recently I've been talking to two girls off the app and through snapchat. Tried to get them out for drinks but so far I've gotten flaked on the day of the event for different reasons. Wondering now if they're really interested or just doing this out of boredom... | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 07:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with parents?Sounds like my parents. I'll say, "I'm going out to meet a girl, see y'all later." And they'll want to know what bar I'm going to, how long I'm there, who I'm meeting with, etc. It gets annoying sometimes. | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Do techniques like Dan Bacon's "The Flow" work on REALLY smart girls ?Look into RSDMax instead in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Is there a hard core of men for whom seduction and relationships simply wont happen?I think I feel where you're coming from. Sifting through quite a few girls at the moment through these dating apps, Tinder, Hinge etc. Most of the time I get ghosted especially when I suggest meeting up. For me sometimes I wonder if finding a girl will ever happen to me and seems like everyone my age is getting married or into relationships these days. I admit it's kind of frustrating sometimes, 24 and still a virgin myself so.... | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 01:23 AM |
| 4 | Have times changed or is it just me?I graduated high school in 2011 also and agree with you. These days it seems apps like Tinder make it easy for women to receive instant validation and everyone is glued to their phones. Along with that ghosting has more of a presence. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 01:32 AM |
| 5 | Is it okay to not get laid, not get phone numbers?If you believe that nonsense about women, you're gonna have a bad time... | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy who keeps poking fun at me in front of girls?Like others have said, brush it off and play along. May be able to get away with saying "You're being weird but don't let me stop you from collecting the digits and sweeping every girl off her feet." | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Tips for my Tinder text game2nd convo referring to the disappearing account makes it seem like the girl is interested. Don't let her go. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Wingman in Sa TxNope, only Twitter for professional use. Considering creating a personal Instagram though. | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Wingman in Sa TxI live in SA and I agree with what the previous guy posted about girls being stuck up. It's ridiculous. I'm 25 though... | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | A message for all young guys out there, life does not end or suck after college.I may belong to the minority here but it seemed the last year I was in college and about a year beyond that many people who went to my university were in relationships or getting ready for marriage right after graduating. | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Height insecurity preventing me from approaching girls and ruining confidence, help appreciated.I'm 5'9" bro. Don't worry about it at the end of the day. Like others have said, look up RSDMax. In my experience it doesn't seem like a big deal because most women I've met are around that height anyway. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 02:51 PM |
| 2 | I recently got a new girlfriend and I'm already kinda having jitters, is this normal?A relationship isn't based upon whether you have sex or not... | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Tindie girls: What do you want ?I suggest he should start calling them Tinderella instead, that ought to get their panties wet. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Tips on picking up girls on Reddit?GIRLS online = Guy in Real Life... | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Myn outfit is seducing me, what’s your favorite thing to wear?My birthday suit, nothing like that crisp, fresh air feeling. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 04:15 AM |
| 26 | Are tinder and bumble just totally not working for anyone else lately or is it just me? They've been bone dry for a long timeSeeing a girl off Tinder working towards a relationship but haven't had any hits on the app recently. | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Dude, pick-up line works!We're waiting, what is it? | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Alright slapdicks y’all need to learn something about online datingAll the girls online are there for one thing, validation. When you match it's a ego boost for them. You may get lucky sometimes but most of the time they use it when they are bored, you start chatting and as soon as you bring up meeting they go quiet. | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I just used a Lelo toy for the [F]irst time.Reported... | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | I just used a Lelo toy for the [F]irst time.Sounds like you have the wrong sub here. This is for Seduction and tips to pick up women not sex toy reviews.... | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR][PSA] Just Shut the Fuck Up!!!I'm curious what you texted her... | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 04:39 AM |
| 2 | To those who have done a bootcamp, was it worth the money, travel, and time?Curious as well... | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 02:24 AM |
| 2 | The 9 Rules to win at SeductionSame, I enjoy watching his perspective and wisdom of game once in a while. I would also recommend Max or Madison and they're a nice change after listening to Tyler sometimes. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 02:55 AM |
| 11 | Guys who quit and or minimized porn/masturbating, how has your life changed?More energy, better focus on other things during the day. Although like others have said before, hornier and more attracted to women in real life. Maybe it could just be me but I have more of an urge to get out and meet women at bars, clubs or other venues. | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Help with a girl with a boyfriendI'd friendzone her or treat her as an fwb. Maybe you could also turn her into a wing girl to help you talk to other girls. | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How did you raise your self-esteem?Read The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. Most of it is about finding your own personal legend in life and focusing on your purpose, very inspirational tale. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Girl bolted after finding condom wrapperYes, use humor to your advantage and make it seem like you don't care. | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How to be mysterious without appearing like a loner?Curious as well. I'm also an introverted guy and want to explore some of the clubs/bars where I live. But, always told it's always good to go with a group and never alone. | /r/seduction | 09/03/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Weird, unique experience I have - I have ZERO problems making eye contact, but women AVOID eye contact with meI have a solution for you. Stop posting on here, you've posted similar stories a few times before in this sub. At this point, you make it seem like all you want is validation... | /r/seduction | 09/03/18 01:40 AM |
| 2 | What are some PUA companies besides RSD?Watch RSD Max. Although he's been part of RSD in the past it seems like he's trying to be more independent recently. | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Having relied on online dating for so long (which has been bullshit lately), I wanna start approaching women but am so confused about my approach anxiety and shit self imageDude, I've seen you post this exact same thing a couple other times recently on this sub within the last week or two. Cut it out and start getting out there, stop looking for validation on here... | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 04:08 AM |
| 7 | Very confused.Sounds like she just wanted the attention.... | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How doomed are you if you don't meet your SO in high school or college, especially due to the long work hours in the real world?Seems like that is normally what happens from my experience, guess I didn't catch that memo. Like half of my buddies are married already and got another wedding later this year. They all met their SO's in college or through mutual friends. As for me, I wasn't too talkative in high school/college and guess I should have been but working on changing that now. But seems like everyone my age is getting married these days, some of them got lucky. | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Why are you not a fan of Tinder?I get some matches but many times I've experienced girls either ghost or use it for validation. Doesn't seem to work for me much at all. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 10:18 PM |
| 0 | STOTD - I like big strong menWell, haven't field tested it but thought it may work as a reply in a comical, jesting manner. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Ending STOTDThis sucks, I chuckled a few times reading some of the responses to these tests. Thanks man, it's been helpful. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 10:06 PM |
| 4 | STOTD - I like big strong men"Well, lucky for you I hold the world record for the fastest time popping the top off a tight jar." | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | PSA for newbies: This is a daily grind.Not being a lonely person sitting at home watching tv, playing videogames alone. | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Horrible approach anxiety, made my first 4 approaches over the last 24 hours, when trying to get the number got hit with “I have a boyfriend” 4/4 times.Sounds like you got hit with the Schrödinger's boyfriend line... | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Need advice to handle the guy friendHe's a little jealous... | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Why the FUCK weren't we taught this language growing up?Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. The other guy obviously couldn't tell when to take a hint and probably ruined the mood for y'all. | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 05:22 AM |
| 4 | STOTD - You suck at dancing"Then show me your moves, girl!" "Don't worry, I'm a fast learner. Fake it until you make it." | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 06:00 AM |
| 2 | One date, hooked up, ghosted (sorta)At this point, I'd say move on to another. Sounds like what you had to deal with was token LMR at the time. She probably would have done it with you, just didn't feel ready. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 06:59 PM |
| 7 | Girl at work keeps staring at meShe's interested, next time see if she wants a sweet glaze or icing with her pastries. | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 06:54 PM |
| 18 | STOTD - You just want sex / to fuck me"Is that all that you have on your mind?" "Slow down tiger, we just started talking to each other." "Congratulations, you found out men like sex." " Isn't that what women were designed for?" "Of course... your place, mine or right here on the table?" | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | STOTD - (Overtly keeps looking at other guys)"What about that one over there? You all look like you'd make a great couple." "He looks like your type." In a joking manner... I'm kind of new at this so I appreciate the advice. | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 08:22 PM |
| 0 | STOTD - You are not even cute..."You're right, I'm not cute I'm fabulous!" | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 11:04 PM |
| 4 | STOTD - Are you gaming/playing me?"Yeah, you and 50 other girls tonight." "Nah, I usually don't play around, unless I play for keeps." | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Girl at MMA gym keeps looking at meBe her MMA partner. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:24 AM |
| 1 | second date helpI'd recommend dinner and then dancing. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:24 AM |
| 21 | STOTD - What kind of car do you drive?"The fastest hunk of junk in the galaxy." | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Weekend before Valentines Day?Hustle it. Always see Valentine's Day as a blown up marketing gimmick anyway. But what would I know, I'm still single... | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 11:19 PM |
| 3 | When is too soon to date exclusively?It's called screening. 1 month or 3 months can be as much as it takes to find out that she's not an axe murderer. You're ignorance and assumptions scream immaturity. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm so fucking tired of losingDating sucks, I understand in that aspect. I've been ghosted by all the women I've been on dates with so far and it seems never ending. I want to find a woman I connect with so I can start a relationship with her but that doesn't seem like it's changing any time soon... | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 07:45 AM |
| 1 | A bulge grows larger.This is gold haha | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Cute girl approached me, should I go for her?"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. -Wayne Gretzky" -Michael Scott | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Guys. I fell in love with my best friend.Move on and meet other girls. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Where to start bettering myself? 24 year old male whose never had a meaningful connectionI understand, I'd say I'm bit of a late bloomer myself. 25 and haven't had quite a meaningful connection yet except only a few dates that went nowhere. Discovered Seddit about a year and a half ago and wish I did earlier, felt like I missed out the times I could have used these tips during shenanigans in college. Half of my buddies are married now and it seems it's what is happening for most guys my age. Although, I'm speaking with a girl now and hope to turn that into something. Don't give up a… | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Good Tinder bios for guysNo shame, own it and be proud | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 06:55 AM |
| -3 | Tinder success storyTinder is a trash app. Most of the girls there are superficial and swipe right to boost their ego when they recieve matches. It's also ripe with ghosting also. I've had a few good conversations with women on there but as soon as a potential meet up is brought up they ghost. It isn't worth the time, only guys that get pussy are the ones who are the 6 foot+ ones who look like models, anyone else is SOL. | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes your schedules can only permit for a rainy day date. What are some fun date ideas for a rainy day?Netflix and Chill? | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Who is going to be single on St. Valentines day?Valentine's day is just a marketing gimmick for the most part anyway. Getting girls chocolate and flowers to mean something more important on a specific day besides getting them any other day and the significance being about the same? Yeah, I'll pass and won't care. | /r/seduction | 24/12/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Going on a week long cruise, any tips on closingGood luck, I've heard and experienced that it's pretty easy to meet people on a cruise. Most are on the vacation mindset and are very friendly most of the time. So, go have the most fun you can and speak to everyone you are able. I went on a cruise in November close to Thanksgiving, it may be hard to find many single girls by themselves at this time interested in a fling. Most of the passengers on mine were families and couples on honeymoons. Although there were a few single girls on mine, almos… | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to make a move on the first date?Go for it, escalate. But if she seems uncomfortable with your advances at any time then take a step back while continuing to engage her. Also, eye contact. | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 05:29 PM |
| 11 | What are good video games to play co-op with a girl?Super smash bros. Just ask, "Wanna smash?" | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 06:46 AM |
| 2 | How to get women in your life and create abundance?Have a sense that you own the place and a feeling of there's always another woman around the corner when one rejects you or isn't interested. | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Any MGTOW?Wrong sub bud... | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 07:28 AM |
| 2 | tinderListen here, noob... | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 07:27 AM |
| 19 | What is the best book I can read in two weeks before I start college?Models by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 15/08/17 05:47 AM |
| 2 | New girl on baseDon't shit where you eat, bud | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 06:24 AM |
| 1 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?Only if OP wants a fast way to be put in the friend zone or become her orbiter. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Is going too fast hurting me on tinder/dating apps?Tinder is a waste of time. I've had experience where the girl seems interested as I chatted with her then I bring up the instance of setting up a date to meet up and suddenly she stops communicating, never responds. | /r/seduction | 23/07/17 04:04 PM |
| 10 | What is the age of women that would be alright to pursue?Dude, focus on school for now and worry about approaching women later while you're in college. You'll have plenty of time to do that down the road. | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 07:33 PM |
| 1 | What was your misconception about women before having a girlfriend?Agreed, heard that from my mom plenty of times but never experienced loads of girls interested in me yet. | /r/seduction | 18/06/17 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Your opinions on being called "cute"Parents as well as other adults called me cute and said the girls will be chasing after me as I get older. Haven't seen many behave that way so far.... | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend losing interest!Dump her now, she's likely to cheat if some other "stud" happens to come into the picture... | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | ChivalryDead. Dating scene thanks to all the single girls right now and culture ruined it. | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Why wouldn't a girl cheat on me?I'm 24 and never had a girlfriend either haha | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Good news! You ARE somebody's typeI feel you, it's like the same for me man | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Dating sites seem depressingI've used Tinder and noticed more often than usual, girls just match for the validation and ego boost. Many I had conversations with just end up being a few messages back and forth then she doesn't respond at all. People say girls are there to hookup, date, relationships or whatever but I just don't see that most of the time. Only had a couple dates off there but at this point I'm almost ready to give up on online dating after trying again recently. | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 10:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Sexy Personal Trainer (Pics Included from Start to Finish)Assert your dominance by saying that you don't care or ignore it. It's genetics and you can't change that unlike women who can and have the ability to change their weight. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 10:10 PM |
| -1 | 5 Appearance Hacks to Make You More AttractiveFor me, stubble is like after 3-5 days. My hair grows fast lol | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | How to message a girl on facebook without worrying?Messaging through Facebook sucks, texting or getting a number is a better way to communicate. | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 10:00 PM |
| -2 | yall pathetic afCompared to quite a few other major subs on here, say 300,000 + subscribers, this is a very small population. Keep dreaming bud.... | /r/MGTOW | 13/03/17 04:14 PM |
| -3 | yall pathetic afAgreed, this sub is just a cesspool of ignorant and bitter men who all hate women... | /r/MGTOW | 13/03/17 04:04 PM |
| 2 | STOP DOING THIS CUCKS..This isn't cuck behavior. Cuck behavior would have been that he paid for all her stuff and built it but that is nowhere near the case. Shut the Fuck Up and mind your own fucking business... | /r/MGTOW | 13/03/17 03:47 PM |
| 0 | To those who say, "I came here to see exciting, positive, wonderful, stories about going your own way, and all I see are complaints and negativity."Because MGTOW is full of bitter, lonely men who can't find or attract women. They like to spew false bullshit because they're mad they didn't get what they wanted or are mad at the world. Or they just hate women all together and blame them and others for their shortcomings. Seems like they just hate women from reading through many of the posts on here... | /r/MGTOW | 27/02/17 04:21 PM |
| 1 | I have bumble for the sole purpose of not replying to girls when they message me.Sounds easy for you, free and easy pussy... | /r/MGTOW | 27/02/17 04:10 PM |
| -1 | School is mental castrationSounds like you'll be the one still at McDonald's while I'm making 6 figures with my college degree. It's not at all what you say it is but be my guest and continue spreading false information about it. | /r/MGTOW | 27/02/17 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or is his girlfriend making him an asshole towards me?Or maybe he's gone out and found himself a girlfriend and doesn't have time because he has one. You probably wouldn't understand because you aren't doing anything and haven't experienced it but sitting on your ass all day complaining about it. | /r/MGTOW | 26/02/17 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Does freedom really exist?Rolling my eyes at OP | /r/MGTOW | 26/02/17 10:06 PM |
| -1 | Women are thieves of life.This thread is so pessimistic. Say what you want how women take your life and livelihood but not all women will necessarily steal men's lives. Your life is yours to live, not for anyone else to direct. You have to live your life to the fullest. It is certainly short but you likely won't have a long, healthy one when you soak in self pity and pessimism like this compared to someone who's optimistic and makes the most of themselves. | /r/MGTOW | 26/02/17 10:04 PM |
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