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Yes of course clean sheets are a minimum, I mean a guy with a new girl should be on his best behaviour "to impress". This isn't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:48 PM
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If he cared enough to impress he, he'd have clean and decent bedding. Edit: Also, beware of ulterior motives. A guy I used to work with told me he had a friend who would only have a bedsheet and no blanket so that the women he brought home to sleep with would get cold and not spend the night. True story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:45 PM
12

Maybe: His best friends died in a car crash a year ago. ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:03 AM
52

You know, I've never dated a guy thinking about his past dates, whether they were at my level or not. The thought has never occurred to me. I evaluate men based on themselves and not whether some pretty or smart girl chose to date them, because they can make mistakes and they in no way raise the value of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:58 AM
50

If you have assets like a rental property and money, get a prenuptial agreement to protect them but also to negotiate your future if something happens to the marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:51 AM
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Looks like he needs a shower and a brain transplant, and not necessarily in that order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:47 AM
17

If you are online: go to your profile, user settings (the little wheel), Chat &Messaging: Who can send you chat requests: I put nobody Who can send you private messages: I put nobody below that there are Approved Users and you can add people to the approved list. Profile Allow people to follow you: I unclicked, makes me uneasy Content visibility: I turned off Active in communities visibility: I turned off so no one sees the communities I'm active in Notifications: Notification settings: Messages…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 06:06 AM
83

Temperatures here are already at 0C. My legs are as nature intended :) and will remain so until Spring 2022.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:36 PM
22

I've also blocked any and all DMs, messages, people following me, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 03:29 PM
8

Poor girl, she might be in a very pickmeisha stage, or in a frail moment of her life, and who knows what quality this 'relationship' really has. Yes of course he is trying to talk to you, especially if he was manipulative with you, and enjoyed manipulating you, then of course he will continue to try to push your buttons. My question is, have you fully blocked him? If so, how is he trying to reach you, via people you know in common?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 12:57 PM
45

One reason to not go on a coffee date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 04:43 AM
7

Yes, gambling is also scarier, I think, because the financial implications are far worse for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:39 PM
274

Good for you, for recognising that you need non-romantic company. I hope the board game day is fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:26 PM
33

TIL porn="therapy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:05 PM
14

That's why it's important to block. Don't give anyone the chance to keep you chasing their crumbs of affection so they can use you. This also applies to manipulative and user "friends"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:19 PM
55

I hope though that even if not real it inspires someone to do the same one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:17 PM
43

Yes please do that so we can get rid of you immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:57 PM
61

Cold hot friendships, men who contact and then ghost repeatedly, relationships where you break up and get back together, all cause the same addictive effect as slot machines or gambling: an intermittent release of feel-good brain hormones and that is what keeps one hooked. You don't cut a dog's tail bit by bit, you do it all at once. If you decide to go NC do block in all platforms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:38 PM
16

Better than who? Pugs? Rabbits? Cats? I'm not convinced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:25 PM
19

"I don't deserve you": I don't deserve you and I won't do shit to change that fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 07:45 AM
11

At least dandelions are beautiful and nutritious. Also, we do not owe anyone our trust, it has to be earned. Safeguard it like the jewel it is, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 07:10 AM
8

They look positively thrilled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:51 PM
114

I only know one couple who have taken good care of each other; they are in their sixties. They are each other's second marriage. He had both knees replaced and she cared for him. Later on she got stage III breast cancer and he took care of her all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:49 PM
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Guuuuurrl! 😅 Go buy yourself a pretty bra or two, and matching undies and enjoy feeling pretty under your jeans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:45 PM
55

Now that you have smaller breasts you can buy yourself bras that are more pretty than functional and matching undies. And wear them to go grocery shopping because why not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:37 PM
16

Are you able to block all messages to you on all platforms for a while or at least limit them to only your contacts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:24 AM
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Also: Ask him for his number instead. Or If in the US make a fake Google account and get a Google number tied to it. Or I'm not in US but got a Google account and via my laptop connected to US VPN and have a US number (I did this for reasons unrelated to dating but still, there's options. ) I am able to use it overseas. But if I'm travelling no one knows if I live in the US or not so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 09:35 AM
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he should answer for what he did, and explain ( at least to the Petito family) what escalated things to the point of murder, Ideally yes, but we know there is no justification, it could have been any minor thing since he was an abuser, and there is no guarantee he would even tell the truth. Wanting him to answer for what he did is kind of like asking cheating scrotes to be straightforward with us: a waste of time, really. I understand the desire to know the truth but we need to sometimes realise…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:23 AM
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Practically speaking: He won't get to do that to another woman in his life, which is a positive. Gabby's parents have been saved a long painful trial with no guarantee that he would be convicted, which is a positive. Citizen's tax dollars won't be spent giving room and board to such a person. So I think this worked out the best possible way. Melonhead's parents were very cruel by ignoring Gabby's parents' calls and messages, and doing nothing when their spawn showed up with her van but without h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:12 AM
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I will check this out: https://www.androidcentral.com/how-add-multiple-users-and-use-guest-mode-your-android-phone on my Android and see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:31 AM
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Strong NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 02:07 AM
153

Sounds like block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:19 AM
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Single forever > stuck to a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:51 PM
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Butthurt scrote. So, anyway....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:48 PM
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I am way behind in stuff because I do not own a TV but have watched a few married at first sight shows to train myself to pick up lvm signs early on, and see where and how women are told to cOmMunICatE, and what compliant behaviour to avoid. Looking at them as a catalogue of examples of what NOT to do, I am using some reality shows as a learning tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:38 PM
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I'd say typical, each scrote projecting how ugly they are inside onto a woman way out of their league, who has nothing to do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:24 PM
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yuck burn them, who knows where he rubbed them. eeek.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:22 PM
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My only advice is regarding "how could you be so dumb and insensitive": criticise peoples actions but not them. "your actions were insensitive/irresponsible" is more respectful than "you are insensitive/irresponsible", especially if you are in a relationship where both parties are respectful and have a no insult rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 09:51 AM
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I can't see any graphics, but congrats on the new you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 09:34 AM
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Yeah they are trying to make a new version: 50's housewife at home who also works full time, just get that "fear of staying single" in them. I think what we women need is to not be afraid of being single, stop that "the one" fairy tale, and stop that notion that one has to be married to be fulfilled. I think it is much easier to choose a partner when you are not desperately trying to find one and are no afraid to remain as you were born: single!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 09:30 AM
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As far as I know, virginity until late in cultures where pre marital sex is not the norm, does not cause impotence. See OP's comment that the guy was searching online for 'porn related ED'. I do agree though that the title of the post can be misleading because some people abstain from sex until marriage due to their culture, and in those cases that is not a red flag, but the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 07:56 AM
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Iliza Shlesinger: Elder Millennial is the film. Came here to say that less educated and more helpless women could also be seen as less-effort for them to pick. Ladies, educate yourselves in life wisdom at the very least, and avoid guys like that. Even if you don't have formal education, you can still be f'ing brilliant and talented at several things, but some men will assume you are dumb and an easy target. Avoid at all cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:45 PM
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I’m on an IUD that’s stopped my cycles so I haven’t been able to see how my current partner would react You can always text him "I think I might be spotting, can you get me pantyliners?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 04:58 PM
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They say single like it's a bad thing.... Back in the 1950's after the war ended, the same thing happened; propaganda to convince women that staying at home and being housewifes was the non plus ultra of accomplishments and the road to happiness. Many fell prey to this, and many ended up with depressions, affairs, and a lot of unhappiness. It would be really sad if that happened again. I do hope more women raise their daughters to not put up with bullshit. So what if you stay single? If there ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:51 PM
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Reading things like these makes me realise how damn lucky I was never to have to deal with this when I was young. This is just horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:03 PM
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even in long term relationships where my partner knows I don't orgasm from sex, there was no initiative to change that fact You deserve better partners, who will make sure you get your share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:02 PM
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Oh sure they try but I know I can have them and I have had men who could give them so I use that against their BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 01:18 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 01:14 PM
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Agree 10000000000% The second thing they say is "all my exes had orgasms all the time". Sure, buster, sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:46 PM
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A bad case of sour grapes, he has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:19 AM
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Oh apparently it is the dressing room of a store called Hollister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:45 PM
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Maybe he sent that message to every woman he has not yet slept with, to see who bites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:34 PM
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never knew that sub existed. so anyway...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:31 PM
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So is Matt married and that is why he is not showing his face? Also, is that some sort of a cot to his right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:28 PM
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Ugh, the deflection is strong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:52 PM
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What a disgusting xy-chromosome-bearing conglomerate of cells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:13 PM
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Ugh. That is not a man, that is a child. No one wants to marry a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:07 PM
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"I was too independent and men need to feel needed" That sounds like 'why don't you act helpless so men can come and be your saviours?' I'm very independent as well, and I give myself the chance(s) to try stuff before I ask for help. I don't want to need anyone, and I prefer to choose to be with a person and not out of need. So someone wanting me to need them as if my life depended on it, well, nope thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:04 PM
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I hope that with time she comes to realise she is so much better off without those extra pounds of dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:38 PM
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I did a BS in applied mathematics. The class was vastly made of women, not men. Just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:12 AM
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Ursula K. LeGuin I don't know who she is but I guess great minds think alike X-D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:06 AM
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How can something "impressive" be small? To me something impressive is: lifting a car so a kid can get the ball underneath curing cancer saving someone fromdrowning de-escalating a confrontation that could turn violent raising a million for charity Like how low is the standard for impressive these days that it equates to small? Help me understand. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:33 PM
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You're always so quiet lol dont be afraid to say hi. "I don't want to say hello to you, more like." but of course that would not cross his mind, because he exists, therefore everyone must want to say hi. ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:24 PM
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Ladies: just call the first man you see and ask them to help that guy, then gtfo. See a man hurt? Get in your car, lock, then call 911.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:11 PM
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I see there are 4 comments but can't see any of them so sorry if someone already said what I am writing. You can act modest, i.e., don't brag constantly in public about your acomplishments, but do brag to yourself about how great you are, what you have accomplished, your drive, what a good friend you are, your values, etc. Examine these things and keep them in mind! Being outwardly modest should not mean you do not appreciate how awesome you are. Also, I am myself uncomfortable with compliments …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:49 AM
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I've noticed a difference as well in what some people consider to be 'nice'. To me, nice means you are kind, always talk to me with respect and act and conduct yourself like a gentleman; but a Chinese woman once defined a nice man as 'spending money on you'. I can't have you spending money on me and not treating me with respect. Nice is necessary but not sufficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:30 AM
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There are lots of paedos and depraved men out there and I suspect things are now worse than when I was your age. Always stay alert, be careful where you go and with whom. Be very careful in clubs with your drink, never leave it within reach of anyone not even a friend. You are young and society should be protecting you but seems it's not the case. Being afraid of leaving the house at some hour after noon because a man is harassing you is frightening! Is there a way to notify the police and make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:01 PM
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I agree with you. We can be civil but we don't have to be nice or friendly to everyone. Civil is enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:36 PM
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with a younger woman of course. Still nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:35 PM
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Yep. What a time to be alive. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:33 PM
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Sounds like porn is rendering men useless and obsolete. And they complained in the past that it would be women working outside the home, or using vibrators that would do that...yet they have done it themselves..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:01 PM
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Wrap your hand around it, and keep the hand (index and thumb) connected to your lips as you do it; there is zero need to even put it deep in to the mouth, because the hand helps provide a longer friction surface. Just make sure you lube your hand and you'll be done quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:00 PM
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Oh absolutely! I know lots of gay men and there IS sexism and misogyny in them (find out how more feminine and bottom guys are seen!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:36 PM
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"I think the man should be the head of the couple/relationship/family" "I don't think women should ______" "You are very independent and don't want kids. Are you sure you are not lesbian?" "I don't like girls who wear makeup"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:21 PM
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So he did not read your bio but is recommending you become a blogger? Because he finds it fun? And you should take career advice based on what he finds fun? Entitled much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:01 PM
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* "meetings", and then stop going to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:50 PM
15

No one is born knowing it all. Some women are raised with values that go against them but they learn to prioritise themselves and I think this is a good and valuable thing. No one is perfect. HV women make mistakes. But the key is catching yourself and learning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:32 AM
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He needs to shave that fluff off his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:07 AM
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I agree with Samantha (until much later on when she started to have her life revolve around Smith...she later caught herself and corrected), and Christina Yang (after she realised she was putting herself second). Don't know the two others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:03 AM
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All that energy spent doing all those preventative measures is better spent on oneself, be it updating the cv to get a better job, studying, improving whatever needs to improve, and gettign the hell out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:59 PM
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If your family disapproved, I'm sure they sighed with relief when they found out you were no longer with him. Everyone says 'love is blind', so perhaps they thought the same at the time. I do not think they'd be as harsh on you as you are being. So, dust yourself off, promise to forgive yourself for having made a mistake (you are human!), be proud as hell you took care of correcting your judgment mistake before digging yourself deep, and look ahead! Looking like a dummy is the least thing to wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 04:56 PM
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emotional part of my brain that gets sad/creates scenarios in my mind Catch yourself at that moment: those are not real, merely a product of your imagination. Put a different face on the imaginary man. Also, I notice that sometimes we can see people as (pardon the bad metaphor) a bottle: We should start with the bottle empty. They have to earn each coin/shell/pebble that goes in: trust, friendship, your time, etc. This way it is easier to see realistically if they are good people to have around,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:20 AM
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Congratulations, so many good news, so many good steps taken!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 08:00 PM
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Congratulations on your ~175lb / 80kg weight loss. The first step on the road to a great life. Plan a busy and fun weekend, take time to pamper yourself a bit, and let us know once you have made your future plans and goals. Much success!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:54 PM
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It also screams Middle Eastern men. It also screams Sicilian and Italian men. It also screams Spanish men. (Yes, I also know exceptions from all three groups)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:45 PM
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Thesaurus says: "Have no expectations, then you won't be disappointed", "Stop expecting so much"= settle. As you said, having zero expectations is not going to keep a terrible man from pushing low standards even lower, not save you from disappointment and heartbreak, and it could even be dangerous to your life if you end up with a terrible person!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:02 PM
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Oh I really hope not! That is the feather to break the camel's back, after how shite the dirty laundries have behaved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:56 PM
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texts me randomly at 1am... he again texts me at 12am... Ladies, don't answer texts after your official bedtimes, especially from new dudes. I wouldn't hear from him for a while because he was taking a temporary 2 week job assignment out of town Texting to say hello and share news about the trip takes a few seconds. I wonder if he was going to be in the company of another lady...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:54 PM
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the times I've felt the loneliest, the most vulnerable, and the most distant from my communities were the times that I made the worst choices in men. I came here to just respond to the title (not yet read the full post): I limit myself to choose men only when feel good about myself, because in college when I was feeling iffy I made poor choices. Yes, this means I go long stretches of time on my own. Edit: after reading. Do not romanticise men that you meet just because they are foreigners and so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:23 PM
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I have a friend, whose grandma, back in the 1940s (conservative days), decided she wanted a baby but not a husband. So she did just that. The man tried to get her to marry. She refused. She raised my friend's mum on her own and remained forever an independent woman. Which was gutsy as hell, and perhaps easier than having an adult child-man to also take care of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:04 PM
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"I am invincible" My brain went to: When someone is using cocaine, they may seem overly alert and excited. Users often feel invincible when they’re high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:21 AM
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Trying to be 'mature' and 'adult' instead of just breaking up quickly and moving on in one relationship in particular. I really should have just blocked/deleted and moved on instead of trying to be mature and adult dealing with a difficult guy. One day I was feeling very anxious and angry, and I told myself "I will not feel like this again", then blocked and deleted him. Never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:33 PM
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I am merely newbie level here so I can't go on advising friends and family as if I were a pro. I've gently forwarded things to some women here and there, but of course it is up to them to go read/watch them. However, if they come to me complaning about a guy, then the fact that they involve me will give me the 'right' to point out whatever is wrong. I have to accept that adults will do what they choose, no matter what I say, and that some people only learn when they live an experience, and not f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:28 PM
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Muy buena suerte y que cumplas todos tus propósitos. :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:03 PM
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Google translate Scrotese - English says: "wanna start with something casual first" : "I'm not looking for a girlfriend"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:38 PM
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afraid he’d harm me or himself i bet he would harm her before even thinking of harming himself. massive red flag. GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:55 PM
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new jewelry, new shoes, going to my favorite restaurants read about lovebombing and watch out. too much too soon that looks too good to be true, often is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 08:58 AM
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If they were brought up to think that THE goal in life is to get married, they did it, that is their accomplishment! That sounds like some of my cousins who told me, at 20 "oh but you don't have a formal boyfriend"...they married young and are all now divorced. They were all brought up to think that marriage had to be the top of the top ten in their list of things to do. Those of you with daughters (I only have a cat and she refuses to share her home) let's bring them up to realise that they sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:55 AM
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"he got to fuck you" if a boyfriend talks to me that way, automatic exing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:28 AM
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Not me. I personally do coffee and walks every week with a local group of ladies, so I would want a date to be different and special ; for him to be excited enough to plan something that shows he put some thought into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:25 AM
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When I see “dentisting” makes me think he is not a dentist but works as an assistant or hygienist. Thank you, you read my mind. I believe if he were a dentist he would PROUDLY and LOUDLY say so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:47 AM
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Is he a dentist? Or does he work at a dental office, i.e. hygienist? If he were a dentist would he not proudly state that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:44 AM
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Don't let a man colonize your life if he doesn't respect its value AND add to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:30 AM
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what’s wrong with giving a guy a chance Which is quite hypocritical because guys don't give any girls a chance if they don't like what they see. We are not vacant toilet stalls that go to the next person in line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:27 AM
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All renters should become familiar with the landlord tenant laws of their city/state/country. It is a violation, for example, of the florida landlord tenant act to enter the rented premises without giving adequate notice (in the case of Florida this is at least 12 hours) What your landlord did was completely illegal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:24 AM
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*and making terrible financial decisions. Just what no one is looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 06:01 AM
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Women of the world, unite and take over!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:29 PM
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I would recommend something that seems trivial but has helped me with other problems: spend time most days walking in green areas or among trees, safely. Being in nature has been healing. Walking is too. Baby yourself any chance you get. Get or give yourself a manicure and pedicure. Make facials at home. Wear perfume to bed, even if to watch a movie online. Tiny pampering rituals to tell your body: you matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:08 PM
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Why would I want a kept man? I like men who work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:00 PM
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Guy 1 just wanted to get into your undies and not be a friend. Guy 2 thinks he's a psychiatrist but is just a misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:23 PM
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Oh could be all of the above for sure. And instead of working to improve himself he decides it's better to throw a pity party. 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:11 PM
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They do vary a lot in size, see https://www.worlddata.info/average-penissize.php 6" is 15,24 cm as a reference. These tables are AVERAGES, so there are way larger ones in the wild. As an example, the largest I've encountered was from Spain (which is listed as having an average below 6") and it was large!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:26 AM
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Living the QueenLifeTM Many congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:45 AM
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He sounds like he has accepted he is not attractive so why bother. He sounds like a very shallow man, who thinks only physical attraction is IT; totally ignorant of the fact that a person can be ugly physically, but still very attractive due to taking care of themselves and their body, keeping groomed, having a good attitude, being nice, and cultivating themselves intellectually to be interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:36 AM
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Put some uplifting dance music, and either take a bath, or go for a walk, or cry and let it all out. Take a few hours for you and then lift your head up. Focus on remaining as claim and logical as you can. Don't drop the charges. Talk to your lawyer. Just because he accuses you of something doesn't mean it flies. There has to be proof. Just make sure you have proof of whatever he's done. A big e-hug to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:08 PM
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Although he sounds like he actually came out of the anus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:17 PM
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Don't tell him you found the accounts Agree 100%. Knowledge is power and in this situation she needs to keep the power to herself until she has taken care of all she needs to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:11 PM
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I belive so. Every other animal has instincts they follow; humans are the only ones that seem to try to condition ourselves to not listen. I firmly believe our 'knowledge' comes from several places: instinct is one place, intellect another, experience yet another. We should listen and respect all our sources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:07 PM
51

"when... someone else would ask me about these aspects of my life, he faked a sincere interest when I was talking to a group of people about my new job or my progress in my hobbies" Is it also not illogical AF on his part since if he were interested in your stuff, he would already know the answers to these questions and not have to pretend to learn them at the same time as others??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:57 PM
72

it's only fair that I get to have my share of difficulties with housing, because things have gone smoothly for me so far Envious petty NVM. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:51 PM
4

Maybe this pad could help those men? Or modified to help?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:57 AM
26

I heard that in a Russian accent. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:05 AM
438

Google-> FBI -> Report Google-> divorce lawyers near me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:00 AM
82

"You can now look like you have mild scrotal elephantiasis, for only 2 dollars! Call now!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:49 AM
75

"I don't deserve you"... he didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:40 PM
78

Indifference is 100% the best approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:31 PM
26

Hello! I was wondering why "Men who Hate Women & the Women who Love Them, by Joan Torres and Susan Forward", (disclaimer: which I read in the 90's) is not in our book list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:36 AM
81

Came here to say to avoid lawyers. Argumentative and manipulate the law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:59 AM
38

I was never sure if I was immature for completely eliminating all exes from my life (i.e. all contact options etc.) , but now I see it was self-preserving and I'm reassured it was the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:28 AM
20

Sounds like yet another case of a below-average guy trying to portray himself as what he considers to be 'superior'. There must be a name for this condition...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:52 AM
89

What broke my heart and also angered me upon reading the police report is that they were barely aware enough of DV to write that brian did not show signs of abused boyfriend sydrome, but were too stupid to stop and think, "hey what about her?, she was crying a lot which is unusual" Evidently they really need training to spot the signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:24 PM
40

I understand your point, but don't think they know based on their genes alone. You actually have to go to very progressive countries like maybe the Nordics and even then make sure you find a HVM, regardless of hair and eye colour. It is their surrounding culture and mentality first and foremost, and from what I read on this sub, plenty of white blonde blue eyed guys in US who are also scummy and gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:08 AM
57

"He didn't openly lie". A lie by omission is also a lie. His friends' opinions are irrelevant to you, you're a grown woman with your own opinions. Don't be mad at yourself because he concealed information from you. You don't read minds; be proud you found out and took action and got out in time!! Get a nice massage or something to pamper yourself, you deserve it. 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:57 PM
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