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My name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my parents.
/r/seduction12/01/17 04:34 PM
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You can do both. The important thing is to make sure you're actually working towards something and not using excuses to avoid dealing with something scary or hard. I can't tell you the best way to do it because we all have different circumstances in life.
/r/seduction23/11/16 06:49 PM
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The same way you talk to random other people. Start practicing by talking with randoms you don't have any sexual attraction or "goal" with. Just people waiting for the bus or in an elevator. Even something like a comment about the weather. When you realize that the world didn't end and that even if you said something awkward it doesn't matter, do the same shit with a pretty girl.
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:46 PM
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Women have harder teenage years, but better adult years
/r/MGTOW08/11/16 10:27 PM
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Giving yourself tasks you can tackle and conquering them is a huge help in general, psychologically speaking. Cooking can feel overwhelming at first. I've made up a lot of various bachelor meals and recipes with stuff I just happened to have around the house, but people I've fed it to always seem impressed like it's a "real" meal. I guess it is, but to me it always felt like just making it up as I go along. Nice and easy stuff is fried rice. Just cook up some rice, then take that rice and put it…
/r/seduction24/10/16 03:03 PM
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Yes without a doubt. Men are pretty much exactly the same. It's just human nature. I mean, Hamlet is about a dude that doesn't know what he wants. MacBeth too. Pretty much all Shakespear. People are full of doubt, they don't know their "true selves" and we lie to ourselves in the hopes that it's either close enough to the truth or a happier lie that we can live with. Nobody knows what they're doing, why they're doing it, or what it matters.
/r/seduction21/09/16 08:44 PM
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I'm not trying to make some sort of virtue signalling thing or whatever. I'm just saying, people, regardless of gender, race, religion, etc, are all pretty much the same. Yourself included. Don't have a mindset that everyone else is somehow different or magically has more shit together inside their own heads. Think about what a stranger could do to make you open up. Maybe reveal something a little vulnerable about themselves and ask you about the same thing in your own life. Something like that.…
/r/seduction12/09/16 04:09 PM
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How am I meant to talk to girls when I struggle with people? Girls are people.
/r/seduction12/09/16 04:02 PM
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Think of any real fights you've seen and compare them to Hollywood fight scenes.
/r/seduction08/09/16 03:46 PM
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How do you live without income?
/r/MGTOW07/09/16 05:56 PM
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Same reason people get straight up hostile towards vegans. (I'm not a vegan, but know some and they get a lot of crazy open hate despite being very low-key and never mentioning it until it's brought up by someone else) It's the unspoken assumption that someone raised in the same culture is living differently and therefore must be judging you.
/r/MGTOW07/09/16 04:53 PM
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Never be in a position where you can't walk away if she makes your life worse instead of better. This means emotionally, physically, friend network, financially. If you can't walk away, you'll never be truly choosing to stay.
/r/seduction29/08/16 03:31 PM
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Emotional care. You'll probably be a mess. Resist the urge to drink away your problems or do other destructive activities. This is easier with... Keeping busy. Pick up that hobby you neglected. Rebuild friendships that have stagnated. Don't give yourself an empty space and time to rot in. Finances. Girlfriends are expensive, even if you don't buy her much, just the activities and expectations get pricey. Now is a good time to work on that budget and put some money away or Work on yourself. This …
/r/seduction17/08/16 07:55 PM
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Seddit is more about inner game and confidence and learning to just have a good time and the sex will flow. Red Pill is about saying Nazis did nothing wrong, some races are superior to others, etc, but then being outraged about how people call you racist and sexist and that if they oppose you then they must obviously only be the most extreme of liberal SJW instead of literally anyone outside of that safespace internet bubble that is /pol/ and stormfront.
/r/seduction12/08/16 03:14 PM
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You can love what you love without saying someone else's taste is 'bad'. If you actually can't describe why you like the things you like without putting someone else down, you've got something to work on.
/r/seduction26/07/16 10:01 PM
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Confidence comes from knowing, deep in your core, that you can handle whatever happens. Build it by accomplishing things. Let your inner voice really understand that you're a capable human being. Get a hobby that's outside of your usual comfort zone and get better at it every day.
/r/seduction18/07/16 07:46 PM
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One of the things that shocked me when I first came here is how it's basically "be like the person you'd want to seduce" (well groomed, confident, fun, etc) and "respect boundaries and don't be a creep". Not going to lie, I always assumed it would be sexist, shitty stuff. But it's probably one of the healthiest subs I've ever seen.
/r/seduction15/07/16 04:21 PM
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Yes. One thing to also keep in mind is shy people aren't meeker in their heads. That inoffensive shy girl is still thinking all sorts of sarcastic and mean things, just like anyone else.
/r/seduction15/07/16 04:17 PM
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People in high emotion states need the blindingly obvious.
/r/seduction15/07/16 04:04 PM
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Not being a financial mess != being rich.
/r/seduction14/07/16 03:15 PM
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Yes. Why not? It's waaaaaaaaaaaay more about her personality and how much she takes care of herself. I don't mean as a body builder or anything (although props to anyone doing that) but just generally like anyone else; don't let yourself go and don't be a greasy mess. Attractiveness, regardless of if you're a man or women or identify as something else or whatever, has a lot more to do with her choices than genetics. Not everyone can be "Hollywood" attractive, but everyone can find what works for…
/r/seduction13/07/16 04:59 PM
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Wit and humor are all fine and dandy, but at some point you've got to be able to take a risk at offending someone. Don't try to offend them, but don't stay so safe that the topic never goes into anything deep. It's a sign that people trust you when they go into a deeper topic. Even if you might disagree, you won't use that to attack them personally. The best way to gain that trust is to take the first step and open up.
/r/seduction06/07/16 04:21 PM
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Yeah. There's the whole discussion about the difference between assertive and aggressive. I think it's really a matter of tact and class. You can be confident about who you are, what you want, and project them without stepping on anyone else to do it.
/r/seduction06/07/16 02:15 PM
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How important is assertiveness? Literally the most important thing there is.
/r/seduction05/07/16 04:41 PM
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Some people are just shitty to be around.
/r/seduction04/07/16 10:27 PM
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What does your gut tell you?
/r/seduction28/06/16 10:24 PM
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Ask what they've been up to. Put yourself out there by being the first to admit you don't remember them that well.
/r/seduction28/06/16 09:46 PM
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Love yourself. You're worth loving. You're worth improving. You're worth your attention and help.
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:24 PM
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You're not worthy. You're not unworthy. That thought process alone is your problem. There's no such thing as "being worthy" of having a woman.
/r/seduction24/06/16 05:01 PM
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Largely ingrained bias. Maybe you got hurt. Maybe you subconsciously believe that because guys like her, she has a duty to not hurt their feelings by banging other guys. I don't know. But at least you recognize it and can work on it. Would you think a guy who sleeps around is bad? Isn't that why you're hear? If you still think yes, maybe you just have sex issues in general. I'm not trying to be a prick because I don't know you. It's just something you have to figure out with yourself. The best t…
/r/seduction14/06/16 05:20 PM
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Just do what you'd do anyway. Ignore him. He's a nonfactor. If he wasn't, she'd be with him.
/r/seduction13/06/16 08:21 PM
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Step one is to have fun. You know what makes a shitty dancer not look shitty? When they're having the time of their life. Reach out your hand and invite them into your fun. If they don't want in, no biggie.
/r/seduction10/06/16 04:47 PM
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Take it from a tall, handsome guy; it only matters for people that aren't doing any seduction. A short, ugly Danny DeVito is doing much better than a tall Chris Hemsworth if that Hemsworth is an awkward chode and the DeVito is a charming mofo. It's an advantage in a vacuum, but you don't live in a vacuum. Exercise your charm.
/r/seduction07/06/16 05:13 PM
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As a tall, good looking dude, I won't deny it's a big help. But it's meaningless without being charming. Before I really started improving myself, I was awkward and only lucked into the few hookups I had with aggressive women. Confidence is what makes it actually happen.
/r/seduction07/06/16 05:09 PM
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I can only speak anecdotally (out of my ass), but I'd say a better looking wife is a wife that y'know, exercises and cares about her appearance. I think that's more important than being pretty. It's a self-confidence thing and means they're less likely to be a depressed mopey sack that brings down everyone around them. I'd rather have a naturally ugly, chubby wife that jogs and at least does something to take care of herself than a gorgeous slob that never tries in anything. To me, that personal…
/r/seduction03/06/16 04:26 PM
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My job, actually. And a fantastic mentor. I was the back-end tech/support guy, but my job changed and I had to go more into customer service/billing/angry customers, then to sales and schmoozing. It's a bit of a learning process, but now I find I live for it. For me, it was a do-or-die scenario because I desperately needed my job. I'm in a better place now, but I love what I do. I think the experience of dealing with angry customers a lot really helped too. After awhile you don't fret getting so…
/r/seduction30/05/16 05:35 PM
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Yes. It becomes a need that feeds your energy instead of a hassle that drains it.
/r/seduction30/05/16 05:14 PM
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It's not a date, mate.
/r/seduction30/05/16 02:42 PM
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Link or example of these comments? Details, man.
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:54 PM
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A cartoon dog said some wise shit one time: Sucking at something is the first step to becoming sorta good at something. When you first started playing WoW, did you give yourself shit for testing the mechanics and doing new stuff and dying because you tested too far? Fuck no. You died, learned, improved, and came back. Fail hard and often. Imagine it's a movie montage and you're the audience member watching yourself. Even poker stars lose constantly. They play well, but you'll see world champions…
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:45 PM
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It can be frustrating because over text, there are very few cues or signals. You can't just change up the approach by making an observation about the room or whatever. If you're getting nothing, the only solution I have is just outrageous comments that are guaranteed to get a reply. The same way you can make a reasonable, kinda funny comment online and a few people might upvote or whatever, but if you make a wildly "What the fuuuuuck" comment, you'll get thousands of people swarming it and respo…
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:18 PM
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The most attractive guy I know is fat and started balding at 14. He's ugly by any objective measure. He had trouble for a few years, then he owned it and made it work for him. He has the most presence of anyone in a given room and meets girls online all the time. I still remember him as my ugly, awkward buddy in high school, but that's now how girls see him.
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:02 PM
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You're braver than me. Girls in that age range are flighty and have no idea what they want out of life.
/r/seduction26/05/16 03:33 PM
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Much easier. You're older, more mature and confident, and the girls are smarter too. Less bullshit all around. As long as you're keeping decent care of yourself and your life, you should be moving upward, not down.
/r/seduction26/05/16 03:01 PM
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All the time. And I call them out for for it.
/r/seduction26/05/16 02:55 PM
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That's good. It's important to keep that muscle active.
/r/seduction25/05/16 04:16 PM
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One day and step at a time. Eat some decent food, sleep well, and move that mountain by starting with a few pebbles. Don't look at the mountain and say "I can never move that." Look at the pebbles and know you can handle that. As you get stronger, you'll move more. You're going to be fine. We're all going to make it.
/r/seduction25/05/16 02:24 PM
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You'll be okay. Just remember that while you loved her, you've got to love yourself now. Date yourself. By that, I mean, do all the things you'd have done for her. Do your laundry, make yourself nice food, take care of yourself. Love yourself, and others will want to love you too.
/r/seduction24/05/16 10:53 PM
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No worries. I find I do too much relating and need to step back and ask more questions. It's tricky because everyone you talk to will have different needs. Some like to talk, others like to be told stories. Sometimes their needs depend on their mood. Remember that it's all about the overall trend. Don't let the day to day failures and successes get to you. Look at the big picture.
/r/seduction24/05/16 08:41 PM
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If that weren't a common thing, this sub wouldn't exist. Don't sweat it. Be proud of you.
/r/seduction24/05/16 06:53 PM
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Ask and relate. It's a balancing act. If you ask too much and nothing comes of it, then relate.
/r/seduction24/05/16 06:41 PM
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It's not niceness, it's assertiveness. There's nothing nice about neglecting someone, and often "nice" guys neglect themselves and feel burnt when nobody respects them. Would you respect someone that allows themselves to be bullied all the time? Would you respect a bully? When you're a "nice guy" you're just being both to yourself. Be nice in the way that you're considerate of people and don't shit on anyone, but don't be nice in the way where you downplay your own wants and needs and you become…
/r/seduction24/05/16 05:34 PM
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It'll get easier next time. And easier after that. Eventually you won't even care. That's when you'll have the aura of confidence that makes you attractive
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:34 PM
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