| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | Help figuring separation agreement | XXX_TEEN_AVI_EXE | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/22 04:53 PM |
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| 1 | It was never about the choresDitto. Mine's main complaint is that I don't clean enough, and yet she asks me to find work for our part-time cleaner/cook/nanny to do around the house. Y'know, Katherine, if I'm really not cleaning the house, then we shouldn't have to hunt for things for her to clean, should we? 🙄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 03:19 AM |
| 6 | Wife says we don’t spend a enough time togetherAgree with everyone else here who says to stand up for your decompression time or make a plan for divorce and see the 30% as the cost of buying your life back. My wife is similar, only I watch TV/movies. We also have a young kid. I've given up all my other extracurricular activities to "spend more time" with her, and if I stay up for a half hour to decompress in front of the TV while she's sleeping she complains. My problem is I like solitude, and need a certain amount. If you don't mind being w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/23 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Female Nature: Never take responsibilityMine once ordered in and blamed me for her meal being undercooked. The meal that she selected that was cooked by someone else at a restaurant she chose. My all-time favorite was when she backed out of someone else's driveway and hit a car parked on the opposite side of the street, and blamed me. I was not in the car. 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Help figuring separation agreementThanks; sorry to hear about your situation. The other difficulty I have is the housing market, as I'm probably going to have to move and get much less for my money. But I suspect it's a bullet better bitten than not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Help figuring separation agreementI just spent 15 minutes reading about "grey rock" and J.A.D.E., and want to thank you, streetsmartwallaby, for the tip. My wife totally matches the description of someone with NPD, and knowing this gives me the confidence to move forward with separating and asking for 50-50. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/22 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Help figuring separation agreementThinking about it some more, I'm actually okay with less time (like 70/30) because I pity my wife: she has no family here, few friends, and no one else who loves her. I realize seeing me less may be worse for the kid, but I'm assuming I could make up the quantity of lost time with quality, still seeing him two or three days a week. We tried counselling and she quit after a few sessions. Counselling can't help people who don't want to be helped, and she thinks it's everyone else in the world who'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Help figuring separation agreementI once saw a family on the subway headed downtown. The boy and girl were like six years old, and the dad was playing with the boy, hanging off the grab bar with him. The wife looked really uptight, and scolded the dad with, "Morris, is this how you want to raise our son?" The guys came down from the bar, and I felt sorry for the dude...until they reached their stop (a shopping mall, IIRC) and the mom ordered that their son would go with poor Morris, and the daughter would go with her. The daught… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Help figuring separation agreementWe don't want each other's money--she doesn't like to owe anyone anything (not a problem when you're rich), and I'm happy with a slightly above-average income and no debt besides the mortgage we share. I just want to keep the money I already have and see my kid regularly. My concern isn't that he'll suffer for anything, but that with only my wife to influence him, he will grow up as toxic as she is, with zero emotional intelligence and no concern for other people. (She has been described as "tox… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/22 08:03 PM |
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