XYZRGCMYK Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Are bluePillers more fortunate and privileged than redPillers ? Assuming both types of pill takers are guys: Some of them certainly are. Some are genuinely innocent and good hearted dudes with autism. Most them are just some variety of beta 'male' loser. Think gay/bi social degens or left(ish) incels with simp characteristics. Source: personal experience + extensive observations and investigations as a social media anthropologist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 12:54 AM
0	women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where? Go to r/DeadBedrooms and look at the divorce rate in America. Most are initiated by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 04:08 AM
0	CMV: it is a huge red flag if a woman uses the terms "pickme" or "nlog." RUN. Because "I'm not like the other girls" was the example of a 'pick me' thing to say. If women are not a monolith then she is quite literally not like the other girls. You're attaching negative valence to (and denying) a logical consequence of a claim you accept (that women 'aren't a monolith'). This is a contradiction. You cannot coherently hold that 'women aren't a monolith' is good and true while also claiming 'I'm not like the other girls' is false and bad ('throwing women under the bus'). Cle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 11:19 PM
9	If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up? Be a passport bro. Move abroad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/24 01:05 AM
3	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. No. Learn to think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 08:34 PM
4	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. The analogy works perfectly. This is obvious if you understand how analogies work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 08:30 PM
2	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 08:25 PM
6	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. Even in their trauma women have to be nice to men and if they are not, they require treatment. Can’t make this up. This comment exemplifies the toxic stupidity and moral retardation that's being complained about here. This is very simple. Trauma usually requires treatment because untreated PTSD is bad for you and those who interact with you. There is no rational justification for hating half the Earth's human population because someone attacked you. People who engage in irrational thought proces…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 08:08 PM
8	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. You believe a survivor of multiple SAs and rape is not justified in hating men? Yes. They are literally not justified in hating men. Their reaction is understandable as it is a psychologically natural trauma response. Much like a white man becoming a virulent racist after getting assaulted by a group of black guys. Like all such trauma responses it should be treated and not encouraged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 07:31 PM
6	Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women? Why don’t woman hating men date men? They usually do. Misogyny is pretty rampant in gay culture. Straight men who 'hate' women for behaving as described above don't actually hate all women. They just look down on the kind of women described in the OP. Thankfully, those women aren't representative of normal or decent women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/24 06:08 PM
3	Women are just as redpilled as men. Light traditionalism, Define this without using the words "conservative", "traditionalism" or their synonyms in your answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 09:32 PM
3	Women are just as redpilled as men. So economically you’re in the left but socially you’re a conservative? 😂😂😂 Buddy. Define social conservative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 09:16 PM
1	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims How would you know someone has a dark triad personality if they don't mean to show it? They can display DT personality traits without meaning to. They are very rare to begin with, and like narcissists or psychopaths don't go walking around with that written on their forehead, They are rare in the general population of men but well represented in certain communities. For example, CEOs and men with high bodycounts. Being rare is neither here nor there. Being in the NBA is even rarer. Magic Johnson…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 04:08 PM
5	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims So, its a suprise to you that people who are capable of manipulation, say exactly what you want to hear for personal gain and are very outgoing and confident are rated more attractive for a short term fling by undergrad students? Men who are very outgoing, confident and say exactly what you want to hear are attractive to women in general. That includes the women who are not undergraduates and prefer long term flings (LTRs). The point of the study is that men who display DT traits (e.g. narcissis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 11:15 PM
–	Is it wrong for an inexperienced older man to prefer younger women due to them also being inexperienced? 🤣🤣🤣 But seriously. You've obviously hurting. Go to therapy and get off Reddit. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 07:24 AM
4	Why doesn't pre-selection affect men too? What the fuck are you whining about? The person you replied to was describing an ideal preference held by him and some other men. Don't act as if it has any impact on your dating life or that of the average woman. This 'double bind' doesn't exist IRL. Conventionally & unconventionally attractive women will both be attractive to men other than their husbands. The number of women in relationships is far greater than the number of men in relationships. Most women are physically attractive to most m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 03:54 AM
–	Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep" Speaking from personal experience on a packed train: this is false. I've done this to other men because I'm not going to stare at the ceiling or the floor and I usually keep my phone off while commuting. Staring straight ahead means staring at the person in front of you. No one has done shit. You are mentally ill and no amount of lying about basic human interaction will change that fact. Increase the dose on your anxiety meds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 11:00 AM
–	Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep" I dont like rude behaviour regardless of what the other person looks like. Amazing. We are not talking about you. This thread is not about you. Your (alleged) preferences do not refute the generalisations being defended here and you know it. So what is the real reason you make comments like this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 10:46 AM
–	Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep" You must work as a professional liar or a professional imbecile. Because this claim is so obviously untrue that only a liar or an idiot would try to defend it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/23 10:43 AM
5	If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids. You think not wanting to pay for a kid that isn't yours is an entirely emotional issue? Why? I think you need to pay me at least half of any money that appears in your bank account for the next 20 years. If you don't do this then you need to go to jail and society must shame you. Do you genuinely think your objections to this proposal are completely emotional? I don't believe you do. So why think men paying for some strangers kid is any different?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 03:13 PM
16	Men do appreciate female friendship, but they often avoid it because it is costly Men like OP want to do absolutely nothing and just get friendship benefits from their female friends. This is the kind of disgusting mindset that basically proves OP's point. Whenever you want to highlight the difference between male friendships and the average male-female 'friendship', simply refer to this comment. Imagine how depressing it is be a man and be 'friends' (lol) with this person. These types men see women as just a sex object and life assistant, 😂😂😂 Stop projecting your guilt onto …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 08:40 PM
1	It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partner You want parents to tell their ugly fat kids that they are ugly and fat and that no one will date them and you think this is better than “lying” to them? Why? If anything that would likely destroy their self esteem. I didn't say you should tell them that. I do expect them to help their child lose weight if they're fat because the health risks of obesity (and the financial costs of those risks) are best avoided. Being 'ugly' or 'not ugly' is subjective enough to make 'being ugly' fixable. It's ra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 01:51 AM
1	It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partner No, it doesn't. The fact that humanity continues to exist shows they disagree with you in deed if not in speech. Actually, traditional gender roles and arranged marriages are the reality for a large swath of the world's population. So I guess that section of humanity disagrees with you in speech and in deed. I'm not sure where red pillers get the idea that animals routinely teach their offspring to attract mates, Me neither. Anyway, most mammals don't do things to actively hinder the reproductiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 01:06 AM
1	It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partner No, it's not. The human species (and most other mammals) collectively disagrees with you. The responsibility exists as a social fact underwritten by evolution. It will continue to exist whether you like it or not. If you have a problem with this then don't reproduce. By this logic, it would be a parent's responsibility to force a gay kid to marry someone of the opposite sex, which is idiotic. I agree. It is idiotic. It also doesn't follow. If you read it as implying a responsibility to equip you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 07:49 AM
3	It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partner Nobody thinks there's some universal instruction manual that applies to every woman. This is simple. It is a parent's responsibility to ensure their offspring have the best chance to reproduce. If you disagree with this then don't reproduce. Thankfully, the human species persists because most human societies explicitly accept this responsibility. Fulfilling that responsibility involves (at minimum) not lying to your kids. For example, by pretending that no observable patterns exist in heterosexu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 08:20 PM
5	Question for passport bro's The US dollar goes long way in the third world. Every guy I know who decided to 'relocate' to South America or Asia is doing more than fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 11:37 PM
2	Most problems in this subreddit are caused by people not knowing how men/women really are However, the scope of human behavior is too vast and diverse to be reduced to a "one size fits all" model and No. It isn't. the existence of observable patterns doesn't automatically validate applying broad generalizations. It does in this case. For example, most women are not interested in dating homeless men (generalization). Women don't want to date them because they are homeless. This preference results naturally from broader preferences regarding socioeconomic status, competence and the men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 07:32 PM
1	Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no sense Imagine using daily mail as a source of anything besides toilet paper. The Daily Mail is usually shit but you're worse. That article gave more evidence for its claims than you've given for any thought you've expressed in this thread. Source your claims with stats or stop embarrassing yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 06:38 PM
3	Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no sense You stated that women who partner with men of similar financial standing will ask for smaller settlements in divorce. You provided zero evidence for this claim so l dignified you with a counter example. It's a level of engagement beyond what you deserve. (There are many other such examples by the way. All suggest that upper and working class women behave similarly when it comes to divorce.) Source your claims with stats. Otherwise, you'll get what you give.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 05:33 PM
4	Educated Women’s arguments here against dating the working class make no sense the real reason why men shouldn’t marry women beneath them financially land that’s how you end up paying large alimonies and child support. This doesn’t happen when you date your financial equal. Laughs in Bezoz This is one of the most insane lies I've seen here in some time. That'll probably happen regardless of her financial status pre-marriage. Moreover, women don't (in general) want to date their financial equal. They prefer dating up. Men dating down is helping out both parties. Stop disgui…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 04:55 AM
1	Q4M: What do you think women mean when we say we want to feel protected? Can you explain what 'protection' means for you and what you think other women mean when they say this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 04:36 PM
2	Is it wrong to track data in your relationship? Eh. Most of the comments I've seen here seem to find it odd rather than immoral. I think it's neither. In any case, what everyone thinks isn't as important as why they think it. "Everyone" once thought Earth was flat. Ignore them both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 04:25 PM
3	Is it wrong to track data in your relationship? Absolutely not. Do not believe anyone who tries to convince you that this is immoral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 06:15 AM
0	Is it wrong to track data in your relationship? They didn't say the list was exhaustive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 06:14 AM
2	Is it wrong to track data in your relationship? No. The answer is no. It is not wrong. Anyone who tells you otherwise is mistaken, immoral or stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 06:13 AM
0	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. Do any of those talk about the impact of gendered socialization? Hopefully not. Women are raised to shut up and look pretty. Men are raised to speak their mind. As it relates to women born in the West over last 30 years: This statement is a complete lie. It's not even just false. You're deliberately telling an obvious lie. Stop justifying your natural instincts by pretending someone taught you to act like this. I’m not sure why anyone would be surprised to learn humans do what they’re raised to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 08:55 AM
6	Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisy Him: I’d shoot myself in the foot for a 5/10 partner that would never cheat or emotionally manipulate me, give me space to open up emotionally to her and wouldn’t share my business with her friends, would just generally respect me so I could do the same... Seems like a reasonable list to me. You: If you rate people like cuts of meat and go into the relationship with zero trust or respect, then you don't deserve one. ..... That's your response? Holy Fuck. If this is your instinctive reaction to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 04:03 AM
7	Women saying it's hard for them to find a man to 'commit' is pure hypocrisy Men who aren't rich, tall, hot, and supreme in their genetics are not seen as human. This is false. Proof: The majority of humans who have entered into relationships or reproduced satisfy none of these conditions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 03:46 AM
0	The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+ You were the one who brought him up otherwise we wouldn't be talking about him. False. I didn't bring him up. I'm not the OP. People brought up a million other topics on Reddit. You didn't have to chime in on this particular one. You chose to do so because his lifestyle enrages you. The problem is that you have no good reason to abhor his lifestyle. I don't care about his resources and if I'm not wrong all he women who left him went on to marry higher earning men within a few years of the breaku…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 11:20 AM
8	90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypes Drawing attention to the ways women enforce and perpetuate gender stereotypes...is not promoting gender stereotypes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 03:43 PM
8	The majority of younger women (18-24) are NOT attracted to old men 30+ No woman is jealous of dicaprios girlfriends. This is a baldfaced lie and you know it. They're outraged that he never settles down with them. Why? They aren't entitled to his resources and he isn't obligated to settle down with them. It's literally none of your business what he does with his life. Huge age gap relationships ate gross, a person cycling through them is abhorrent No. They aren't. Stop embarrassing yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 05:40 AM
1	If women used the word "compromise" instead of "settle", things would be better. I'm not losing my shit. Also you: Why are you making stuff up and spiraling into delusions? Nah. You're losing your shit. Nobody comes out like that unless they're in their feelings. You’re the one who got so upset that I mentioned people have different opinions that you accused me of settling. You write like someone who feels seen by some of these comments and hates it. I just asked a question. Why interpret that as an accusation? Relax.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 04:48 PM
1	If women used the word "compromise" instead of "settle", things would be better. I didn't see your comment lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 04:26 PM
0	If women used the word "compromise" instead of "settle", things would be better. Did you settle for your husband or something? Why are you losing your shit? It's not the world's biggest misunderstanding. But it's obviously not trivial. Nobody wants be the one their partner "settled" for and women throw that word around far too loosely. If more and more women are "settling" then it's important to know if they use that word as it is normally understood in English or if it means something different in womanese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 11:50 PM
–	If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women. but I've never really met women whose hobbies consist in talking about gossip or drama or about celebs. Stop the cap. I agree with your overall point that women have a diverse range of interests. But pretending that women who also have the above as hobbies aren't the norm (or reside exclusively in trailer parks) is flatly delusional. Come on now. You don't need to make things up to defend a perfectly good point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 04:08 AM
–	If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women. "How do you explain dead bedroom relationships that don’t end then?" Easy. Divorce is a horrible process that results in catastrophic consequences for men once completed. Much easier to just hope that they'll start having sex again. (There are also those who have given up such hopes entirely and remain stuck purely due to the power of habit.) Do you seriously think guys in dead bedrooms are happy?! The guys on the dead bedrooms sub provide evidence for OP's point: Take away the sex and the exper…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/23 03:27 AM
1	Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why? Bro. She is not okay. This person is very mentally ill. Thankfully, people like this tend to be single and remain so until the grave. Do not try to convince her to behave nicer. The last thing you want is for that lunatic to inflict herself on another human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 12:46 AM
1	If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadness If the options are give up or become home grown terrorists. For the love of God give up. Those are not the only options and you know it. Home grown terrorism is a direct result of being told to give up. Do you think they're doing terrorism to get laid or something? They're lashing out through terrorism because they've given up. Most guys who talk about their dating troubles aren't trying to commit femicide. You know that too. Most of these guys are looking for advice or venting. The solution is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 11:39 PM
2	If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadness How is what the quoted poster said gaslighting and not truth? It's not true that his life being shit is unchangeable. That would mean there exist no actionable steps he could take to change. This is clearly false. Since you have no way of knowing his future you have no idea whether or not he'll make the necessary changes. Yes, some guys won't make those changes. That this is true of them doesn't mean it's true of you. Pointing out that some guys will never reproduce in this context seems like an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 01:05 AM
17	Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women. Put that wallet away silly! You're only allowed to spend on me AFTER the marriage. I vet marriageable men non financially. Quick, take this Personality Test! This is the dating norm and it's truly how I date. Btw, did you know that ever since the abortion ban 100% of women GLOBALLY do this too? Come on. Be serious. You know women take advantage of guys they have zero interest in fucking or marrying. You know that men have to demonstrate financial commitment to women if both are dating for marria…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 11:40 PM
11	Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women. Investing time typically requires investing money. Especially if both are dating for marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 10:06 PM
6	Monkey Branching: The Best Mating Strategy For Men This is not a real risk and you know it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 02:35 AM
1	Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating? You seem to be unable to understand nuance. Sharing your emotions is obviously not the problem it’s other behaviors like guilt tripping and manipulation, abuse etc that are the issue. I'm not even sure what to say to this. Do you think guys here are complaining about not being able manipulate and abuse women? How is this not a complete deflection?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 12:03 PM
1	Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating? You clearly do care seeing as how you're so bitter towards women. Aiding your moral development isn't bitterness. It shows you care about basic decency. Men don't give a fuck about your displays of emotional vulnerability in a relationship. Women view such displays negatively but many of them lie about this. Gaslighting people & lying is trash behavior. It's only right to call it out. Your gender facts have no basis. They are facts. Therefore they have a basis (otherwise they wouldn't be facts).…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/22 06:05 AM
1	Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating? So we can agree that using people as an emotional crutch and a therapist is a turnoff? No. We agree that it's a turn off when men do it to women in an LTR. Men largely don't give a fuck. Women and men both do this Women do it more. They also have an absurdly low bar for what counts as 'being a therapist'. Women lie about this constantly. I know that's hard to accept. But you will get over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 10:57 PM
3	Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating? Its okay to be vulnerable. It's not okay to use your partner as emotional crutch and therapist. Women do this all time in relationships. Over the most trivial shit. What you meant say is: it's not ok for men to use their wife/gf as an 'emotional crutch'. Stop trying to lie with gender neutral language. Get your emotions together. You can't talk about that you are dealing with heavy stuff. But you actually have to deal with it. Most accurate part of your post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 09:52 PM
1	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? Sometimes it is but you have to cover it up with another lie. In this case, lying is not nice. It's morally fucked and socially destructive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 06:31 PM
1	When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language? No you aren't. Those women know he's right and are choosing to lie (with a tiny minority being genuinely ignorant).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 06:26 PM
1	if women value looks more than men(according to this sub) why are older male yoounger female couples much more common than the reverse? Because women value money/resources even more (for LTRs). Older men are more likely to have those things than younger men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 04:16 AM
2	Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is. For most people the belief that 'girls like guys who bully them' dies out in middle school. US DV stats + millions of women lusting after celebrity abusers suggests the belief persists among women after middle school. but that's after they've dropped their façade and stopped acting nice. This is pretty self evident to anyone who actually goes outside and interacts with people They can be assholes during the courtship process. How they treat others + known relationship history can predict how the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 07:28 PM
4	Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is. US domestic violence stats suggest they're more than just 'an exception'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 06:57 PM
4	Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is. Bad people are also open about being bad and still get sex. It just depends what else they bring to the table. So the OP is right. Stop pretending the counterexamples require deception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 06:55 PM
4	Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is. You can be a good person and not have a relationship, You can be a bad person and have a relationship. So you do not need to be a good person to be in a relationship. Therefore: being 'a good person' is not a minimum requirement to be in a relationship. How are you struggling with this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 05:53 PM
2	Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is. but they're nice to the girl so that doesn't matter. TIL there are no guys who are assholes to their gf. Disagree? You've never been in a relationship! you're misunderstanding a basic principle, these 'asshole' guys may be mean to other people...so that doesn't matter. It says a lot about women (esp. you & your friends) that you feel so comfortable calling this a 'basic principle'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 05:33 PM
4	Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is. What the fuck are you on about? The guy treated her with decency so she went and told his friend that she thinks he's a creep who she'd never date. He told her he doesn't find her attractive enough to date-literally informing her of a fact. In response to her reporting the same kind of fact. In doing so, he put her in her place. Women* constantly behave like the woman in this story. They should be called out in a similar manner. There is nothing hateful here unless you're a fucking cry-bully who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 04:58 PM
1	Being Good or nice is not the bare minimum. Don't keep saying that it is. K. Here's one example. Here is another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/22 04:32 PM
1	Women need to step up in the modern dating world 😂😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 08:30 PM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage If you'd rather be with someone you think is shitty just to avoid being single, that's obviously your call. Nobody is arguing for this. Backups ensure the rebound is easier if the current relationship fails. Most relationships will fail. Women rebound easier than men as 'having options' is their default in relationships. OP is calling for men to also ensure they always have options. That's it. And dating is a chosen state of existence. Conscious existence is a chosen state as suicide is always a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:18 AM
3	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage The thing is that privilege is something you all give us willingly. We can't fix this for you. Value yourselves and what you have to offer more and then maybe we will too. Women enter into DV relationships willingly....even when the man has a public history of it. We can't fix that about you. Value yourselves and what you have to offer more and then maybe we will too. Same energy. I know men that don't need much effort at all so I don't think this is as big of a problem as you feel like it is. G…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 04:26 AM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Maybe. But look at the reply by u/Morrigan66. At first glance, it's just more evidence that the author is mentally retarded. But even if she wasn't, even if she understood the point being made perfectly...there's a good chance that she'd be deflecting with the exact same comment. Stop assuming that women are approaching these debates in good faith. Too many of them aren't. .	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 03:43 AM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage I know this one fat guy who has women throwing themselves at him cause his personality is awesome and no he's not rich. K. Introduce him to the divorced woman I replied to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 03:09 AM
3	Are men just not as attractive as women? Every time I see an “attractive man” I just see an average dude. You're gay. Remove yourself from the het dating market and start seeing women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 02:23 AM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage There are no universal standards when it comes to dating lol There are standards that are almost universally true. Generalisations do not need to be always true without exception to be useful. Example: Most humans feel pain. Some humans cannot feel pain due to a genetic mutation. But pick a human at random from Earth's population and it's more likely than not that they feel pain. There are patterns the occurrence of which is more probable than their absence. The OP's remarks about women always h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 10:42 PM
0	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage How would you know what immorality feels like? It's not that hard to find out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 10:17 PM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Your dating life is still easier than a fat man in your position. Start dating fat men and you'll find more success.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 10:13 PM
3	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Everyone should be equal instead of expecting special privileges because of what's between their legs. The first step to equality is admitting you have privilege. Privilege is invisible to those that have it. So women (like you) probably won't admit to having it. So we'll probably never have gender equality.👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 10:06 PM
9	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage If you have a safety net, then falling becomes an option, and you're more likely to do it. Women always have a safety net. Therefore most relationship failure is more likely the woman's fault. Right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 09:49 PM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage If girls chose better there'd be less domestic violence. Cool. What's your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 09:41 PM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage See, women aren't people to these guys. So they're totally not hurting anyone. Here we see a woman telling the world how she views men via projection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 09:38 PM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Women who do this suck, also. It’s got nothing to do with an even playing field. All women do this. It just happens automatically if you're a woman. Therefore: all women suck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 09:33 PM
2	Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men? They are the perpetrators of DV in their own relationships. Straight women experience more sexism than lesbians experience homophobia (the majority of which is experienced by gay men). I'm sure women are unhappy about the imagined (and real) things men have done to them. But as you've acknowledged, women are more neurotic than men. This is not a quality that bodes well for lifetime commitment. It is also not a good predictor of general day to day happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 11:40 PM
0	paying for the first date So dating to you is very transactional? It's like that for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 01:13 PM
10	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. Seems like some men date women with different values and then act shocked when that value difference flares up. It's usually shocking when you discover your woman lied about her values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 01:58 PM
2	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. Actually it does if you’re trying to claim that a drug dealer you know getting laid is proof that women as a rule want drug dealers. He did not claim that. He claimed that women like guys who are assholes citing a drug dealer with an estimated triple digit body count as evidence. That he was a drug dealer (literally creating or feeding addicts) with zero respect for women (cum buckets) functions as evidence of him being an asshole. Here, 'asshole' = 'actual morally bad person.' If that were true…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 12:37 PM
4	Women absolutely are not attracted to nice guys, and men expressing their understandable frustration with the dishonesty of them saying they do is met with shaming and attempts to silence them. This is the foundation of TRP. To nitpick: this is not a complete explanation of how TRP originated but it is an integral part of the explanation. Otherwise, I agree with every word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 12:50 AM
1	The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world decent women. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 09:53 PM
2	What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own? Mrs Potato: Posts self evidently false statements about the psychology of half the human race on a public forum. Throws in cryptic statements about 'good men'. I reconstruct your drivel into a clear refutable thesis Mrs Potato: oOf yOu TrIeD. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 06:11 PM
1	What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own? Ah yes famous people the basis for reality and the average person. Me: Guys who tick most or all those boxes are much more likely to get women than guys who don't. This is true of average guys and famous guys. Mrs Potato: So you're saying that famous people are...'the basis for reality'? Not sure how you ended up there but ok. Anyway, most domestic violence against women is done by average people (men and lesbians). Famous people are a fraction of DV cases so 'the average person' is the defendan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 06:40 AM
8	What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own? Why the fuck should he do something? Sex crimes are dealt with by the police & the courts (both largely male run institutions). He is not a court or the police. Have you done anything to stop burglaries or gang shootings lately? No? Then what exactly do you think he could be doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 05:29 AM
0	What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own? Why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 05:15 AM
-1	What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own? Men put those badly behaved guys in a prison and invented the internet (and Reddit) so you could live to write this nonsense. They don't need to 'call out' shit. The only reason you do not exist in state of sexual slavery right now is because enough men in this society have mercifully decided to allow you to experience freedom. Go and call out other women for their bad behavior before you speak on men. Start by teaching girls how to think: just because a few members of group G do Z, it doesn't m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 05:13 AM
3	What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own? Guys who tick most or all those boxes are much more likely to get women than guys who don't. Any famous rapper or musician rn with a known record of violence/abuse against women still has women begging to be his groupies. Perhaps share your insights on what makes a Good Man with your fellow women first. They seem to need it the most. EDIT: Might as well deal with the rest of your cringe... it leaves traditional masculinity to be less desirable. No it does not. Women still prefer to date up rathe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 03:53 AM
2	"No woman is like that" is ALWAYS a lie Your point is correct. It's also a severe understatement of the situation. All the negative acts you describe are mostly done by people who are not psychopaths. This is obvious once you realise that there are simply not enough psychopaths to account for how much of this goes on in society. It's disturbing how many people are choosing to veer into tangents & nitpick* or publicly degrade themselves with idiotic requests**...rather than acknowledge that your post is obviously true. Missing the fore…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 09:17 PM
1	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also ...I don’t care if he shares it or not. What I’m trying to figure out is why he does so This question has now been answered multiple times by several different people. ...if whenever I show my art to a certain group of people they always rip it up and I don’t like that, is it logical to then continue to share it with those people? Let me correct myself. I can't tell if can tell that you're incapable of grasping that your threshold for 'so emotionally hurtful that I'll never speak of it' is not s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:35 PM
5	Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to also This is truly not that fucking hard. The women's reaction to his personal story is exactly why he should share it. It illustrates the double standards, dishonesty and general moral stupidity of so many women today. He's choosing to take one on the feels (he can do that because he's a man) so that other guys can see the shit they're actually dealing with. It's honestly pretty weird that you're making so many essay comments on his motives. Because it's really not that fucking deep. I can't tell if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 06:48 PM
2	How does TRP explain the outliers, the oddballs, the people who can’t be pigeonholed? Most people have fingerprints but some are born without fingerprints. Outliers aren't that common. That's why they're outliers. There is little need to pay attention to them as most people aren't likely to interact with one. TRP isn't there to explain the exact mechanism by which your childhood trauma turned you asexual. It correctly points out the following. You're going fuck up your chances and your dating life if you decide to center your approach around 'sexual outliers' and the 'lessons' yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 05:03 PM
1	What are your opinions on those guys that are in love with anime girls and date them? They were not meant to reproduce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 12:15 PM
1	Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them. Women approach Chad like that. So, women must approach men they find sexually attractive. Therefore: It follows then that if she does not approach you for sex, then she does not find you sexually attractive. Conclusion does not follow. Sometimes men find women sexually attractive but they do not approach them. The women that these men are sexually active with are only a proper subset of the women they are sexually attracted to. Consider the possibility that this holds of some women too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 01:37 AM
1	TRP and FDS are dishonest about how vulnerable they are, and about how pain and personal experience are more important to their ideology than logic or reason. Sounds like whatever you're doing to find it isn't working. Maybe go wife hunting in a (non Western) foreign country. High probability of success + you get to improve someone's life and save your own in the process. At this point, it seems like you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 11:18 PM
7	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. You just don't have these experiences because I assume you're not a woman. Men are far more likely to be victim of every type of violent crime than women. Rape may be an exception to this if we ignore prison rape and the fact that men are less likely to report being raped than women. I understand it's hard to comprehend if you don't go through it yourself, but this happens all the time. I'm sorry you experienced those things. At no point have I denied what happened to you nor have I denied that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 11:28 PM
8	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. Clearly you should protect against it. The issue is The amount of hysteria women devote to this is comically disproportionate to the likelihood of it actually happening. The steps women take to protect against it are often objectively retarded. For example, PPD women regularly defend ghosting guys rather than texting a rejection because 'what if he's Jack The Ripper and wants my head?!'. These arguments make no intellectual sense and are usually a pathetic excuse for shitty behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 08:58 PM
2	Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman? People act vastly different when online anonymously. The difference being that FDS actively encourages their users to apply their toxic prescriptions IRL and we're talking about people who take their advice seriously. Earlier you implied that a woman's belief in traditional gender roles might cause the OP to mistake FDSers for normal women. Most normal humans can distinguish between a successful, mentally stable woman who believes in traditional gender roles and a mentally broken lunatic from FD…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 07:50 AM
2	Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman? Sure. Maybe every poster on FDS is actually a male PUA cosplaying as a feminist. It's certainly logically possible. It's also logically possible that every man in America is actually a Chinese man disguised as a non Chinese person. Let's distinguish the probable from the merely possible. Implying that dude was dating a secret FDSer is a massive cope. The reality is that most FDS women are from the bottom of the socioeconomic barrel and are too mentally ill to climb out of it. The OP and the aver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/22 05:47 AM
2	Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyle Red pill men constantly demonise women by telling them that they’re only pumps and dumps for attractive men and their only hope of finding love is with some unattractive simpleton who’s in their league. Sure. Much of that anger comes from discovering that TBP/feminists/society have spent the past 20yrs+ lying to them about certain truths regarding what women find attractive-truths you've outlined clearly in this thread. Why does the turntable hurt you then? I think it's more guys being annoyed t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 04:05 PM
3	Most women are demisexual. Sure but I don’t reel under the misconception that the desire to engage in sex stems only from hormonal urges. Nobody on this thread believes this. Societal validation, wanting to feel empowered and intoxication are just few of the several reasons why women engage in intimacy. Everybody on this thread believes this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 04:16 AM
2	Most women are demisexual. Given favorable and non judgement circumstances, women are just as interested in casual as men are. This implies that observed gender differences in libido are actually due to social pressure. But this is false. When women are exposed to higher levels of testosterone their libido goes up. The most extreme examples of this are probably post op FtM trans folk-their reports of it's like have a male sex drive can be pretty funny. I know it can be shocking to see women behaving like porn sluts IRL. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 04:05 AM
4	Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is Pretty much. Just about every comment on this thread defending age gap shaming/suspicion is either a) self evidently retarded or b) expressing something so morally obvious it's unclear who the audience is. Women generally prefer to date up. That's one reason why the older guy in these stories is usually smarter, wealthier or in some way more successful-basically, the exact kind of man women find most desirable. That should tell guys why so many women are prepared to cry on this hill. At a certai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 11:17 PM
1	Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is As far as I can tell, no one in this thread thinks these relationships should be illegal. You can do whatever you like within the law and people can have whatever opinions they have. You can do whatever you like within the law and people can have whatever opinions they have. Clearly. You aren't being accused of attempting to change the law. People are simply expressing their opinion on your opinions: that your reasons for holding them are very silly. If you'd clarified from the get go that those…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 09:56 PM
1	Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is You missed the forest for the leaves by replying to a reasonable post with truisms & tautologies. I'm redirecting the conversation to the more interesting point expressed by the person you first replied to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 09:22 PM
1	Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is You are less experienced than someone older than you. If that someone is wealthier and more intelligent than you then you are also easily manipulated. Therefore, you have no business dating anyone smarter, richer & older than you. In fact, no woman should date such a person as she would likely be mentally unfit to do so. What exactly is your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 08:06 PM
5	Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute does if someone has to feign attraction or excitement having sex with me, that’s fine. You do not respect yourself and everyone knows this... except you. Damn.😂😂😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 05:04 PM
10	My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend material Lol please. The poly is community is the most insecure sexual community.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 12:42 AM
3	Q4All, Do you allow past traumas to taint your view of the other gender/cause disturbances in your present relationship? This is also true of relationships that remain childless. It doesn't show that marriage or kids cause dysfunction. Still, I agree that marriage/kids can worsen or accelerate pre-existing dysfunctions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 06:17 AM
1	Q4W would you date a man who earns less than you? Did you read the other comments from woman on this post Yep. or are you being blissfully ignorant ........ Do you think this thread is a representative sample of women as a whole? to keep your view that "woman = bad"? Let me break this down for you. The guy you responded to wrote that income imbalances where the woman out earns the man creates resentment on the woman's side. You responded by claiming that a lot men post here about how relationships are the death of male financial freedom. Presum…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 05:44 PM
3	Q4W would you date a man who earns less than you? Most of those posts can be summarised by at least one of the following points: Relationships are the death of men's financial freedom because you'll marry a girl who'll divorce you and take half your shit. Relationships are the death of men's financial freedom because she'll baby trap you and you'll spend the next 18yrs paying child support. Relationships are the death of men's financial freedom because you'll have to spend money on her. That money could be better spent elsewhere because she lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 08:33 AM
-1	Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead? Stop it. Get a real job like everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/22 08:48 PM
1	[Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away? Unless he's married to these men, he doesn't have the wife's perspective. That's it and not even really contestable. The only thing incontestable is that he doesn't see the world from her POV because he's literally a different person. He knows her reasons for initiating the divorce because she stated them in court and to the people in their social circle (e.g. her kids). The merits of those reasons are extremely contestable and people with close proximity to the situation (like him) are better p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/22 12:52 PM
1	[Q4M] ... more specifically MGTOW. What was the breaking point? Was there a woman that caused it? Is there a woman that got away? Would you change your view for the one who got away? ...just said your perspective is highly skewed and not even applicable to the situation. Right. But that's an objectively retarded thing to say. Because at the end of the day, he has known these people, their friends, their family and their kids from childhood to adulthood. You haven't. He is better placed to assess these cases than you are because he has access to knowledge that you lack. If I were to guess, the parents with custody have to do the disciplining. So kids might associate happier p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/22 04:06 AM
1	How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of view Most guys don't check their bros messages on Tinder so they aren't going to call it out IRL. Exceptions might occur if your bro scores but then there likely won't be anything to call out. Dumb messages from guys are routinely called out online: check Twitter or Reddit for examples. Stop waiting for men 'do something' because it isn't men's responsibility to ensure some random is nice to you on Tinder. If we're talking callouts, men are doing far more than women to deal with their bad apples on t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/22 12:06 AM
5	Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their league ...it's kind of a lottery ticket situation. From the women's perspective, this is all somewhat rational even if they haven't explicitly put together exactly what is happening. And it's harder to see the other path, which is the difficult process of truly adjusting one's standards to be more realistic, as much as one can. I agree with your post but the conclusion in bold is truly incredible. Women think it's legitimate for them to shame or otherwise socially pressure men into a) finding fat women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 10:15 PM
–	The Gender Empathy Gap is real Some cunt on Men's 'Problems' We don't have to deflect and minimize them. They are already minimized because they are minimal problems. Let's just recall some of the problems you're responding to with that comment. Male Problem 1 People more readily typecast men as perpatrators, and women as victims. Consequences of Problem 1 Judges told to be more lenient to women criminals This paper assesses gender disparities in federal criminal cases. It finds large gender gaps favoring women throughout the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/22 08:51 PM
3	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are The guy you responded very clearly has no issue with men being around intelligent women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 10:47 AM
1	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are Saying having an opinion on everything is a bad thing is kinda crazy. No. It's annoying trying to debate covid restrictions with a person who doesn't even understand how covid is transmitted. This kind of conversational inconvenience becomes insufferable when someone displays that pattern of ignorance constantly. People will judge you based on your words and someone thinking they have valuable input on every topic in every conversation inevitably comes across as a stupid, opinionated loudmouth. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 10:39 AM
1	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are Like, what does intelligence actually entail in a person? Not being a retard. If the value of this unclear to you then date a retard and report back. It doesn’t mean anything on its own. People usually look for more than one thing in a partner so this applies to any trait. There are many intelligent people that are horribly arrogant, Wanting your partner to have qualities other than 'high IQ' doesn't mean its not important. There are beautiful people who are arrogant and beautiful people who are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 09:34 AM
2	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are ...plenty of men in general like to be around intelligent women. No guy here has suggested otherwise. Who are you responding to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 08:56 AM
13	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are .. most men don't want to be challenged. This is an objectively retarded statement. Men are so competitive that their conversations frequently become debates. Being challenged goes hand in hand with competing, getting better and winning. Men dislike debating women because they're threatened by your intelligence? Please. Most of the time when guys dislike arguing with women it's because arguing with women IRL is a fucking pain. They get emotional more easily, they're more likely to tone police, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 08:41 AM
7	3rd richest man in the world btw LMFAOOO The cope lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/22 02:20 PM
1	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". The claim is that women select for it (and they do) because they see it as correlated with the capacity for physical dominance. Physical dominance serves as a proxy for social dominance. See the linked paper below and the other comments underneath it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 04:09 PM
1	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". No. They don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 04:00 PM
1	Women are the biggest enforcers of "toxic masculinity". The height preferences of women are far more inflexible than the height preferences of men. The average woman is more to physically attractive to the average man than vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 03:58 PM
1	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. So? There are women who are mysoginists too. Of course. Have a nice day.👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 02:29 AM
1	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. There is evidence that being a serial killer is positively correlated with the killer lacking empathy towards their victims. For example, psychopathic serial killers feel empathy for nobody. There is no evidence that 'It's worse when women cheat' can only be justified via a 'lack of basic human empathy for women'. There is excellent evidence that this claim is false since: It's possible to believe female cheating is worse for multiple reasons and have empathy for women. Since this is logically p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 02:08 AM
1	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. Why? People can say whatever they want on anonymous Reddit accounts. But it's very telling that you basically replied with 'I'm a psychic!' and ignored everything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/21 10:23 PM
1	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. If the man cheats and has a child outside the relationship, his infidelity is worse because he has a child on top of his infidelity. If the woman cheats and has a child, her infidelity is worse because she has a child on top of her infidelity. The second one is worse than the first one. I agree that (infidelity) + (child) is worse than (infidelity) + (no child). If there is no child, then male and female infidelity are both equally bad. The only reason you'd deny this is because of your bias and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/21 09:43 PM
0	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. But it isn't worse than a woman cheating on her husband and having him raise the results of her infidelity. Let's compare like with like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/21 09:53 PM
1	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. Except no woman is saying female infidelity is worse, Plenty of women do. For proof, use Google. we're saying that they're both equally bad They are not always equally bad. Female infidelity can be worse. Example: see OP & subsequent discussion. because women have basic human empathy. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/21 07:24 PM
-1	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. ‘Male infidelity is worse than female infidelity because I am a female who dates men and will therefore never be affected by female infidelity and I am incapable of seeing past myself and cannot imagine anything worse than the things that directly affect my vagina and ego and everyone else can get fucked.’	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/21 05:22 PM
2	Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity. Because how does a man get his feelings hurt + betrayal + etc. and women just get their feelings hurt? Again, cheating is cheating. Finding out that other children exist who also have your husbands DNA will hurt your feelings. Finding out that your kids aren't yours will also hurt your feelings. Both are a betrayal of trust. But the wife did not expend time, energy and resources raising the side chick's kids. She did not lose most/all of her prime reproductive years caring for the side chick's o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/21 05:17 PM
1	Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 10:32 PM
1	Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative? True. But conservative women understand that they have obligations to their husbands so they have something to offer. FDS women have a list of demands but they offer less than nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 10:18 PM
0	Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simps You really aren't in a position to offer this advice to anyone after what you've posted on this thread. To add to my previous reply: also take courses on logic, probability and statistics at the high school level. They will teach you how to think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 04:31 AM
14	Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simps It's actually funny how many comments miss the point by pretending that the OP doesn't get the irrationality of thinking that a gf is the expected outcome of paying e-thots. The analogy between the two things simple. Due to human biology and psychology, certain behaviours and environmental triggers reliably produce certain results. In one case, women are exploiting the male sexual urge to obtain financial reward (often from teen & pre-teen boys whose brains are not fully developed). In the other…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 03:56 AM
3	Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simps Meet more people and use Google. This will help you realise how completely normal this behaviour is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 01:32 AM
1	Do you personally see it as a red flag if someone who wasn't interested in you before later seems interested after they find out you own a home (or other asset)? Homes can increase in value. Property prices are increasing and will continue to do so (at least where I live). So homes are an asset. Why is that a red flag?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/21 08:07 PM
2	What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman? There's a non zero probability that you'll get struck by lighting right now. There are probably things you can do reduce the likelihood of this event. The point isn't about the feasibility of implementing the risk reduction strategy. The point is that you have a severely impaired capacity to evaluate risk if you think that sending a guy a respectful rejection is equivalent to playing Russian roulette. Why do you think that the risk of death when messaging a rejection is about the same as pointin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/21 07:27 PM
3	How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one? So we went from this If one has a good job and the other doesn’t and can’t get one, how would you expect that to play out? to this Are the bills going to wait for him to find a job? real fucking quick. This is why it's impossible to feel bad for women like you if they get replaced. It's what you deserve because you'd do the same & worse in a heartbeat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/21 03:05 AM
3	How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one? she can’t provide on her single income then what’s expected to happen? What's to happen depends on the details of the case. Why do you think divorce is better than waiting for him to find a job? What does feminism have to do with any of this? Lmfao lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/21 02:14 AM
5	How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one? Men have been the primary breadwinner for so long that it's expected even in an economy where that's no longer realistic. Now according to feminists, women are equal to men and gender is a social construct. Well the vows are 'Till death do us apart.' not 'Till we swap gender roles.' So if the feminists aren't full of shit then I expect it to play out fine. After all, it plays out fine when men do it and gender roles are just social constructs...right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/21 01:58 AM
5	How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one? How long? Until you die. Men do it all the time. Why can't women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/21 01:21 AM
3	Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value? A hoe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 07:41 PM
2	How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?! Oh FFS. Usually when someone talks about a problem it's because they want a solution to that problem. In this case, the solution requires addressing your complaints to men. If you're complaining only because bitching feels good then you deserve your shitty sex life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 07:05 PM